When ANYONE tells you "I'm not in love with you" or "I care about you, but I don't feel the same way" walk away. Do not try to negotiate or tell the person who doesn't love you what love is. Falling in love and being in love are feelings, and Sam should know this, but he let's his own feelings and ego convince him that he is right for someone who does not feel the passion he feels. Ginger was right, and he should have used his rational mind to avoid the biggest mistake of his personal life.
Yup my ex would always say I do love you but not as much as you love me hurt like h$ll I thought things would change he never let himself get close to me
After Ginger is on the phone saying she wants him killed later in the movie, he drags her into the closet to get her clothes so he can kick her out. Sam yells "you know you haven't been straight with me ever since I met ya, you never even loved me in the first place!!" Yeah, no kidding Sam!! She told you that a long time ago!!!
Looking back on this . As fucked up as she turned out to be . She was upfront and honest to him. She loved James Woods character, regardless of his obvious flaws. This is a lesson on women. Pay attention
Love is blind. It’s one area where more times than not, people do not think rationally. Some luck out, some don’t. All marriages are, as Sam says, “A Chance or a Long-Shot.” People can say words of wisdom about her being honest, and him being delusional, but reality is no human being knows for sure.
*Cargo Ship:* I've given it a lot of thought, and I really want us to be together. *Naval Mine:* It won't work. Honestly, I'd be the exact opposite of _everything_ you'd want in a relationship with me. I'm sorry. *Cargo Ship:* Look, I'm realistic. I can accept the fact that you'd explode and snap my hull in two. But what's watertight integrity anyway?
She told him he doesn't know her all that well...later on when she's crying over Lester, he tells her he know her better than she knows herself, something only a narcissist would say...boy how wrong he was in the end.
Great point about the narcissism, I never thought about that when he says that about “knowing her better than she knows her self. His ego was his downfall.
That's why I don't feel sorry for his type. Whether it be a woman or man people like that (his character) meet their match. You really get what you put out. Go out your lugs and Levain lifestyle like that you get those kind of people and return who are ugly on the inside
To be fair, I've known cases where one person was in love and the other wasn't, but eventually it all worked out fine. What I'm surprised at, is why she was straight with him. If she was a golddigger, why wouldn't she just fake it and jump at the chance to marry him?
Because she was still in love with Lester Diamond and was either used to an abusive relationship and/or a chaotic lifestyle whereas Sam wanted to settle her down and make her a housewife which was not a life she wanted.
For Ginger's defense, she was straightforward to Ace from the very beginning and I think this was the last time she was. Ace should have known better.
Agreed. Ace was naive, and that's putting it mildly
Absolutely… She was Straight to the point. He signed his own death warrant
At least he was genuine. You don't always get that from people. .
Ace tried to be an optimist here but ginger knew she wasn’t marriage material truth is real
She did not lie to him. His downfall was that he lied to himself
When ANYONE tells you "I'm not in love with you" or "I care about you, but I don't feel the same way" walk away. Do not try to negotiate or tell the person who doesn't love you what love is. Falling in love and being in love are feelings, and Sam should know this, but he let's his own feelings and ego convince him that he is right for someone who does not feel the passion he feels. Ginger was right, and he should have used his rational mind to avoid the biggest mistake of his personal life.
Yup my ex would always say I do love you but not as much as you love me hurt like h$ll I thought things would change he never let himself get close to me
True I wish people would realize you can t control someone’s personal feelings and you can t make someone love you or beg to be loved it never works
@@michaelbull4344wish I would have had this conviction in my younger years
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
-Maya Angelou
One of the few times she was totally honest… but he wouldn’t see it.
So true you had to respect her honesty here ginger knew what she was and owner up to it
He could see it. He just was in love. He said it himself. " Fuck it. I'm Sam Rothstein. I can fix her"
@@depp8444
He was just deluding himself into that idea of “changing her”; so, no, he couldn’t see it…
She’s kindly telling him it’s just not possible, but he won’t let go.
At least she was sincere and didn't act like she's going to be a good housewife.
After Ginger is on the phone saying she wants him killed later in the movie, he drags her into the closet to get her clothes so he can kick her out. Sam yells "you know you haven't been straight with me ever since I met ya, you never even loved me in the first place!!" Yeah, no kidding Sam!! She told you that a long time ago!!!
She did warned him about who she is
But he didn’t listen until it was too late
Don't EVER be this guy! If a woman tells she doesn't like you like that. Run the other way.
One of the most beautiful scenes
The fact that she doesn't love him makes Ace more crazy about Ginger
People want what they can’t have
The underlying message for this whole film is.... dont be a simp.
Martin Scorsese films are always beautifully scored 🥲
Looking back on this . As fucked up as she turned out to be . She was upfront and honest to him. She loved James Woods character, regardless of his obvious flaws. This is a lesson on women. Pay attention
I’m listening
This is simping friends if it's not mutual, well you know what ends up happening.
'that can grow. As long as there's mutual respect' I told myself that a few times as the one that didn't love. It never works.
"do you know a lot of happy married people, Sam? because I don't. "
seems to be a pattern nowadays
Boy, it sure does!
Love is blind. It’s one area where more times than not, people do not think rationally. Some luck out, some don’t. All marriages are, as Sam says, “A Chance or a Long-Shot.” People can say words of wisdom about her being honest, and him being delusional, but reality is no human being knows for sure.
Simps be like......
Cold scene 🎬 right here
*Cargo Ship:* I've given it a lot of thought, and I really want us to be together.
*Naval Mine:* It won't work. Honestly, I'd be the exact opposite of _everything_ you'd want in a relationship with me. I'm sorry.
*Cargo Ship:* Look, I'm realistic. I can accept the fact that you'd explode and snap my hull in two. But what's watertight integrity anyway?
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Marriage decisions are business decisions.
Fill out your taxes, get married, take out a second mortgage.
She told him he doesn't know her all that well...later on when she's crying over Lester, he tells her he know her better than she knows herself, something only a narcissist would say...boy how wrong he was in the end.
Great point about the narcissism, I never thought about that when he says that about “knowing her better than she knows her self. His ego was his downfall.
That's why I don't feel sorry for his type. Whether it be a woman or man people like that (his character) meet their match. You really get what you put out. Go out your lugs and Levain lifestyle like that you get those kind of people and return who are ugly on the inside
The most riskiest gamble a man can take is seeing if a woman is the one to be with.
GINGER IS NOT MARRIAGE MATERIAL SAM. WHY ARE U NOTTT GETTIN THAT. HANDICAP ME????????? SERIOUSLY GINGER.
He’s so delusional
Simp.
Finally she was honest to him till the very beginning…that’s both of their fault 50/50
People blame him for not seeing the signs and warnings, but he really did mean the best for her. Still cant blame him.
Sam thought he could change her turn her into a housewife that wasn't her
Biggest simp in movie history 😂
Other than Forrest Gump
Why would someone try to attempt to get together with another human being that doesn't want to them? 1:23
To be fair, I've known cases where one person was in love and the other wasn't, but eventually it all worked out fine. What I'm surprised at, is why she was straight with him. If she was a golddigger, why wouldn't she just fake it and jump at the chance to marry him?
Because she was still in love with Lester Diamond and was either used to an abusive relationship and/or a chaotic lifestyle whereas Sam wanted to settle her down and make her a housewife which was not a life she wanted.
Bros, if you're going to get married, marry the girl that LIKES you NOT the girl that YOU like.
Bad decision Sam. She warned you, repeated she was not in love with you. But you decided to marry her.
For the best and especially the worst !
name of song in the back scene
Bro, Ik that shit! 🙂
Unforgettable - Dinah Washington
Who’s the biggest simp in movie history? Sam "Ace" Rothstein or Forrest Gump?
De Niro is so fragile in here!
This was a HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!
and because it was not enough Ace give her the Safe Key!!!
I remember when I, and 4 million other dudes, thought the EXACT same thing about our favorite hooker😢
Will and Jada, anyone?
Worse