Losing A Long Term Friend
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- čas přidán 15. 04. 2024
- #selfdevelopment #selfimprovement #relationship
We must remember that we have no control over the actions of others. Their actions reflect their character, not ours. Remember that their actions are driven by their own judgments and decisions, and while these may cause us pain, they do not define us. We cannot control how others behave or what they think of us, but we can control how we respond to them. Also, to harbor hatred and anger only harms oneself. These emotions do not serve us; they only cause us more pain. Instead, seek to understand their actions, acknowledge the hurt they have caused, and then let it go. As difficult as it may be, strive to forgive them. It is not for their benefit, but for your own peace of mind. This is not to say that you should forget or dismiss the wrongs done to you, but rather that you should not let them control your thoughts and emotions.
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Every now and then in life something happens and you'll discover who your real friends are, and those who aren't. Also evaluate who your friends are especially if you're the only one who always reaches out to them, or if they reach out to you as well. Many times you'll realize the friendship was one sided with you putting in all the effort to keep contact with them. Stop reaching out to them and see what happens. Most of the time you'll never hear from them again. It's a painful realization that you were their friend, they weren't really your friend.
Nah I disagree I am those if type of that what you described. I'm introverted or I'm very much never go outside. But still they are my Best friend. I'm still with them and spend time with them after we never see each other for week or months.
Just lost one recently, a bit of a bummer. But he suddenly tried to guilt trip me out of nowhere and basically sold out our 13 years of friendship through a multi-level marketing (MLM) scam that he's working for. I'll post the more intimate details on the private discord server. Which is COMING SOON
Thank you. I just lost a friend since middle school and I'm 27 now.
Yeah, this is why I'm better off being alone than to be around anyone. I hate being treated or treating someone as this jacket or watch that's put in the closet or drawer and pick it up when ready to wear it. Sometimes, I'm not always the best at socializing and/or communicating, which is part of the reason why I'm still friendless and single. But you know what? At this point, I don't think I really care anymore. I wasn't never important to those people and they weren't all that important to me either. Like MrForged says: "people come and go".
Looks like me and you got to start our own clan as in
We have to let people come to us
Yep but still is your Friend but. Yep they never important the Rest of their life by you are important of every single moment of that person spend with you.
I can't lose the long term friend as they are blocking my end of life, a last few pillars. My life isn't good at present, so i'm staying away without disturbing their life but when it's starts to get good, i can go back & continue the long term friendship.
Thoughts on Losing a Long-Term Friend:
Losing a long-term friend is a deeply personal and often painful experience. It's important to remember that we cannot control the actions of others. Their actions are a reflection of their own character and not a reflection of our worth or value. Their decisions are driven by their own judgments, and while these may cause us pain, they do not define who we are.
We may not have control over how others behave or what they think of us, but we do have control over how we respond to them. Harboring feelings of hatred and anger only serves to harm us in the end. These emotions do not serve us; they only amplify our pain and can cloud our judgment.
Instead, it can be more beneficial to seek to understand their actions, acknowledge the hurt they have caused, and then let it go. This is not to say that the process is easy. It can be incredibly difficult to forgive someone who has hurt us deeply. However, forgiveness is not for their benefit, but for our own peace of mind.
This does not mean that we should forget or dismiss the wrongs done to us. It's important to remember and learn from these experiences. However, we should not let these experiences control our thoughts and emotions. We are not defined by the actions of others, but by how we choose to respond to them. In the end, it's about finding peace within ourselves and moving forward.
I feel you mate. After listening to what you have to say, I must say that you sound hurt about your friendship with you mate....
Our paths are different and sometimes we think we have to walk it with our friends but that's not true.
Betrayal is worst than Death…however at the very least you know who the snakes are.
I've lost my best friend all because i lend him money. Together since hospital,went to same elementary and been friends after while working and when I had some money to finally buy my first car i give him a lend a he let me down, completely changed his behaviour and finally blaming it on me for lending him. Same year my ex betrayed me and my lying father. Next year I betrayed myself. Now i have trust issues, i just miss being a innocent stupid kid.
I believe he was just using the friendship as a means to an end to get you to lend him as much money as possible before you eventually realize his facade
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Math is the language of the universal truth and the blueprint upon which all existence is built.
Mathematical truth can be used for good or bad and in between those two choices lies the principle of math.
The principle of math remains there at a neutral position of neither good nor bad until our actions reflect upon it.
We can use that truth to build something beautiful and lasting (Heaven) or something that is the opposite of that (Hell).
Your personal truth is the meaning of life and not the foundation of life.
Your existence can give meaning to life or take it away.
The foundation of life is built on math, not God.
The foundation of math is built on Truth.
God is built on the same principle of math just as we are. The principle of math provides the necessary foundation of life and God provides the necessary substance also known as building blocks to build upon it. Without math, a good foundation those building blocks have no lasting foundation or no foundation at all.
When something is built on a lie it's not meant to last, aka wages of sin is death.
That is why when something is built on a bad foundation it's not meant to last, eventually, it will collapse and in most cases hurt like hell, to teach a painful lesson of not building or rebuilding your life on a lie, aka bad foundation.
Individuals possess the necessary tools, capabilities, and resources within themselves to navigate life and its challenges without the need for external judgment.
Therefore, there's no need for the creator to impose judgment, as it would only burden itself and others unnecessarily.
With free will comes great power and responsibility.
What you do or don't do is based on your judgment and not on someone else judgment. That is why your actions are going to judge you and no one else should.
And how your actions are going to judge you?
Your actions will reflect on you and your image and you will have to live with that.
Do you know who you are?
What do you see when you look in the mirror?
What you see is called reflection.
That means that you are a reflection.
And what do you reflect?
You reflect your consciousness, feelings, desires, actions and much more.
And if you care about your appearance, reflection then you should care about your actions because those actions will reflect upon your true reflection. One day we will face the truth and we will have to live it. Please make sure that you can live with your actions because you will have to live with their reflection.
Many of us when faced with the truth like true image would rather live a lie instead. Why? Well, because their true reflection is so ugly as a result of their ugly actions they would rather live a lie, false image than live with the consequences of their actions.
Your image, reflection is like a home, a vessel for your mind, soul. What it means is that your reflection is built on the same principle as the house is. And we do not build houses on assumptions or beliefs we build them on mathematical truth.
What can happen if a house or any other structure is built on a lie, bad foundation?
Well, that house or that structure is not meant to last and it will collapse.
And what can happen to those who live in that structure?
For example, they can become homeless.
You can become a ghost if you don't have a reflection aka vessel, body (home) for your mind, soul.
Don't forget, that those who walk away from the truth are walking into hell.
How long does anyone need to be in hell or hell-like situations?
Well, that depends on each individual.
Eventually, they will get tired of pain, suffering, building or rebuilding their lives on a bad foundation and eventually, they will seek the truth instead of walking away from it.
How do you know if you have suffered enough?
Well, do you like to suffer? If you don't like suffering then you shouldn't contribute to suffering or feed on the suffering in any way or form. That is why I became vegan. If someone tells us that they do not like suffering and yet they choose to feed on the suffering of animals or others, shows that they do like suffering otherwise they would not do it and if they do like suffering so much then they should not complain about it, instead they should embrace it with open arms ✝.
If you would like to see the true reflection of life and those who are part of it before it’s unveiled, I suggest that you study the truth. The better your knowledge and understanding of truth is the clearer your vision will become.
feelings arent facts and facts dgaf about your feelings…
So true… great video.
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I feel you mate. After listening to what you have to say, I must say that you sound hurt about your friendship with you mate....
Our paths are different and sometimes we think we have to walk it with our friends but that's not true.