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Child actors and Disney stars grow up having identity crisis and trauma. BUT they are acting and it’s staged. Imagine having your parents as your manager and not feeling safe in your own home. Not knowing if your parents will wake you up with a prank and cameras in your face.
Ugh yeah. And feeling like you’re constantly having to perform/work and can’t just have fun and be a kid. They’re making these kids grow up real fast which is unfortunate
If you can’t tell your parents who could you ever be comfortable telling that you feel this way? Makes it such a bigger leap of trust to tell someone outside your family. Makes me so sad
@@freddyfootstomps6557 exactly. they’ll end up bottling everything up and it’ll destroy them
these kids gonna turn 18 and sue their parents for big money. and rightfully so
Yeah that's really fucked and prob one of the worst things that can happen to a child in the modern world.
I can’t tell any of these families apart. They’re just copy pasted replicas of the exact same family.
like that shrek meme where they are in gucci merch
Yeah, it’s sad. The kids deserve better.
thats what makes it very weird.
When the formula works...
seriously, i thought we were watching a clip of the ace family, but it was the other
Imagine being a kid and all your friends and classmates can watch your home life ○_○
noooooo i never even thought of this
i misread this as "imagine being killed in front of all your friends and class mates" 🧍🏻
@@alex-jo8bc should’ve gone to spec savers 👓
Have you watch the family blog video by Andrei terbea
Yeah the world has turned fucking badonkanuts....
the whole act of fun wholesome family shenanigans while they’re all just staring straight into the camera the whole time is so fucking creepy to me. I always get the feeling that once the cameras are off they barely speak to each other.
Or worse, are abusive.
Not as bad as the husbands that have their backs to their wives smiling and talking into a camera as they give birth.... so cringe. Put the camera down and be present with your wife and soon to be child
like they don’t even acknowledge their children or let them have a normal lofe
Also I put pressure on the kids like you gotta be happy you got it being some activities or else your family won’t make money and now I feel like it’s their fault they have nice stuff and they want to keep it
@@AnnaLifts11 What did you also don’t know if that’s what she asked him to do because she wants to be famous
Imagine most of your interactions w your parents are exaggerated and fake bc they’re busy trying to impress the internet. I feel bad for these kids
that makes me even more depressed... exploiting your child for content should be illegal.
That’s exactly what’s happening in their homes. Smh
imagine faking this but for a fake reality show czcams.com/video/ZZQy_tCciEc/video.html
I can imagine this kid growing up and hes friends making fun of em. Then theyr just like "no no dont CRY!"
I would rather have parents that dont pay attention to me than have this fake persona of what a family is.
The most offensive thing about all these family vloggers is how terrible their sense of fashion and interior design is.
That is by far the most egregious of all their crimes.
Exactly what I was thinking 😂 but I mean, if you have the money, go off. It just looks so tacky
Along with their horrible parenting style and the fact that they're profiting off their kids
Poor people that have no business getting that kind of wealth tend to have ZERO taste. If it wasnt for social media, these people would be working at McDonald's. They are completely unproductive members of society that lucked into millions, so it's not surprising that they lack any sense of self-awareness.
fr if i had some of there money i would just live in a normal neighbor hood man like those big modern houses always feel cold and empty
The fact that this isn’t considered child abuse still shocks me.... they are literally using their kids for monetary gain, how sick, I could and would NEVER. I feel so bad for these kids (money isn’t everything).
It’s definitely an ethical nightmare but child abuse is a bit far fetched
@@charleyduffell5239 It is abuse though. Child abuse is basically anything that inflicts violence on someone underage, which includes emotional abuse, neglect, profiting off them, and filming a crying infant instead of comforting them because their tears make good content. Just because the abuse isn't physical, that doesn't make it any less horrible
That's true, but unfortunately this has been around since before CZcams. Baby pageant shows, nanny shows, etc. This is a deeply rooted societal problem that needs to be addressed at a large scale.
look at the demographics of the people following these kids, specifically young females, on instagram (who should never have them in the first place). look at everleigh labrant, she has so many followers who are middle-aged men. there are so many videos of her dancing in a suggestable manner in revealing outfits. why do you really think these men are watching/following an 8-year-old girl?
the money makes it kinda worse! youtube kids have still no rights or protection from parents spending the income freely.
decades ago many tragic stories were uncovered of famous child actors turn 18 and be BROKE. millions of hard earned dollars gone and no future in the film industry leftm
I think the darkest thing about family vlogs is that I used to watch them as a kid because my own family was so dysfunctional and I found comfort in seeing a "happy family"
Oh man aww
Bless your heart
Ha interesting, I hope you're doing better
My cousin's family does family blog videos and I watch them since my mom is so disappointed in me that we've never talked to each other in 3 months. Our dad is the only one that me and my sister communicate to. I'm really scared when school starts since we have these family activities.. I feel like a disappointment since I basically dragged my sister down with me. If I could turn back time and chose what to change it would be me. I don't wanna be myself. The internet is the only thing giving me joy rn. I hope things go well for the rest of a year.
@@user-gy2xt1ct3n things always get better, the important thing is to stay true to yourself.
What sucks the most is that these are genuine moments in those kids' lives and they are just artificial moments to the parents.
Must be such a lonely experience.
It must mess with their perception of reality and memory so much looking back and knowing all of these moments are edited and constructed to form some kind of narrative://
well said!
Wtf this hurt me
@@aryanam832 something similar to this is the movie The Truman Show
I actually feel bad for those kids. This is some trueman show shit
Bruhhhhhhh LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
lmfao
They do not need that people feel sorry for them. They are so spoilt and grow up in such a sick environmnet that they see and treat others like a piece of sh*t. Sadly, there are many people who just consume this garbage without realizing the truth behind it and how sickenning it is. If nobody watch this garbage, they would not exist....
TrueMan
@@johanhoon2515 i absolutely feel sorry for them, you can't blame the kids for having shitty parents
Kids model their parents, I think that’s why the son appears to be a “natural.” He’s mimicking the exaggerated and played up behavior of his parents.
when the boy said "you guys" and "OMG" my soul left my body. it's like brainwashing.
True, the boy even got the same tone as how his parents were saying the intro. He's mimicking them
Except the kid looks more dead inside than his parents
I wonder how these children interact with their peers
@@priestrat I’m honestly afraid to know
"I looked more into the camera lense than into my dad's eyes" will probably be a thing
This broke my fucking HEART. Jesus.
Jfc man 😢
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Ouch, man. Ouch.
"im not a parent" yeah but you're a human and that's why it feels wrong. We ARENT supposed to be living this way. Really sad cant imagine what the kids are going through and the lasting damage.
100%! As a NEW parent to 7 month old twins...one of your BIGGEST FEARS is your baby falling/being dropped. I would literally FUCK up whoever played the prank. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
He's existing amongst other humans. That's enough to see the toxicity here.
those kids get bullied for sure
And aside from just the humanity of it, I think a lot of us are old enough to have seen the progression of the internet and technology and it’s not natural for us to have absolutely everything online and documented and we see the difference in children today. It’s not healthy for the normal person to live through a lens and these children are doing that x1000.
I really hope some kind of legislation is introduced at some point bc these children are going to have huge issues later in life.
I’m sure they’re fine with their 39 ps5s
“Hey babe views are kinda down, let’s have another kid”
Legit every yt couple ever.
New kid? Welcome to the trending page!
look up the stauffer family. they had a semi-popular channel with their kids, then adopted a child from China which made their channel blow up, and then had another kid after. they then "rehomed" their adopted son. horrifying.
No seriously, that's like a few dozen videos about the pregnancy and birth alone.
@@jill-vo7ru WTF that’s horrible
It's sad tbh.
Have a kid because you want a kid, not because you want views.
I’ve seen some family channels posting “our daughter got her first period!” It seems weird there first priority is to post it on the internet. There’s some weird people on the internet and I also can’t imagine how that girl must feel having that stuff cast for usually millions.
Omg wtf is wrong with people
Girl I clicked on the dislike by mistake 😭😭😭 but I definitely agree with you, these things should be private!
right it must be hard growing up and realized your parents prioritized money by invading your privacy rather than how you would feel and how this could affect u in the long run. even if at the time their daughter says she’s ok with that being posted, that’s not an excuse bc that’s all she knows, and she knows it’s what her parents want. she isn’t old enough to know the real life effects of having her whole life public
Seriously what's wrong with these people that only see their kids as objects to be used for making money instead of human beings with thoughts and feelings
are they trying to drag in pedos? I just see it that way
Who's here when Cody's officially become a dad?
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This shit is so weird and dark. These kids grow up without a moment of authenticity or real emotion in their lives, zero real connection to their protective and nurturing figures in their lives. Also, these families have more and more children BECAUSE of their channels, because they know it'll boost the channel, so whether its conscious or subconscious they are getting pregnant and having babies just for the channel... not out of love. Its gross on every level and these children will grow up traumatised by this behaviour. Thats a psychological fact. A child is in the most critical period of development in their lives at these stages and looking into and speaking to a camera lens throughout the entirety of their childhood, in their own homes, and their own BEDROOMS, what is supposed to be their private, safe space, is NOT normal.
there is/was a family vlog channel that literally adopted an autistic child from china to document the process for views, they were in denial about how serious the child's developmental issues were and they literally GAVE AWAY the child after like a year, it's ridiculous. it's so transparent that they couldn't care less about being good parents, as long as they make money.
@@xngxd don’t be shy, people should know, it was Myka Stauffer.
It is disgusting what they did to that poor child, but I am thankful he’s with a normal, loving family now.
@@keljells i forgot their name, yeah she's awful
@@xngxd no worries, she’s forgettable bc without her kids and that “story line”, she’s nothing, like so many other family channels.
I just wanted people to know if they stumbled upon the comment and weren’t aware, so she doesn’t get any benefit moving forward.
These people make me sick, truly.
I think ur being unfair, you don’t know what’s going through while the camera is off
I feel like in a few years when these children grow up they'll come out exposing what the constant vlogging and online attention did do their mental health and self worth, which I gotta say must be pretty damaged
Yeah, it’s probably along the same lines of child actors. Except literally every day they were put on the internet. And worse, there are no laws to protect these guys, unlike child actors
I agree and disagree. I feel like they’ll just continue the cycle since it’s easier and that’s all they know. It’s pretty disappointing but yeah so are family channels lol
There actually have been a few young teens who have come out about their lives as vlog children. Its been thoroughly studied as well. I’d recommended looking up “family vlogs effects on children”
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they should do a documentary on shaycarls kids.. they gotta be old enough now
baby’s first words “Make sure to SLAM that Notifaction Bell!! And LIKE THE VIDEO”
"Leave a comment for the algorithm!"
"Subscribe!!"
"Smile for the camera"
cody using his beer can as his child is unironicaly the funniest part of this video
I think that’s water in the can
It's water. Does look like a beer can though, which I think was just a smart marketing move.
@@hellbxymedia5027 agreed!
it’s water lol
Im just imagining the kids growing up and vlogging the parents in their nursing home “YOOOO dads going into cardiac arrest” “nononononono don’t die ahaha”
I like that
LMAOOO Dad shit his pants again!! Dammit dad, you got it everywhere!
“Guys LIKE this video if you think dad’s going to go today, COMMENT if you think he’s got some fight left in him”
@@catsoflasagna guys my father heart is not working 100k like and I will call the doctor(gone sexual)
LMAOOOO
If my husband pretended to drop my baby from a staircase railing there would be some divorce papers being signed
Yeah and he would lose any custody rights... ESPECIALLY WITH THE EVIDENCE ON VIDEO. But instead this trauma is turned into cold hard cash💀 where is the logic
Right, like how is this a prank? I literally had to skip through those parts of the video because it made me feel sick to my stomach as a parent.
Exactly! Only reason (if the prank wasn’t fake) shes still with him after that is because of the money they’re making off these ridiculous videos
@@tluz7059 Or that she's in on it too. Who knows anymore with these family channels.
I feel like it's also kind of dangerous to put that kind of prank in a kids channel, especially since there is always no consequences for anyone, it's always "ohhhh haha you got me!!" I feel like at least one of the kids watching is going to throw a baby doll off the stairs and give their parents a literal heart attack because "they saw it on youtube"
Child labor laws need to be amended. Their home lives are also “work” and it’s so weird and exploitative and wrong.
Go check out The Dad Challenge Podcast. He covers the explotation of children in family channels and does a fantastic job of it
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cody looks like your weird uncle that teaches you how to set ants on fire with a magnifying glass
The best kind of uncle
LMFAO
Holy shit xd
They can’t take their eyes off the camera even when they’re supposedly having a conversation with their kid. It’s creepy
right?? their kids aren't gonna know how to make eye contact
I personally thing this is all just fucked up. I don’t even think it should be allowed, it’s a good way messing up a child
@@teddeeznuts nah, they’ll just keep looking away from people like on The Office. Endlessly searching for cameras the rest of their life.
faxs they all were drained
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They worst part for me is that the kids never really consent for all this mess and the parents just blatantly exploit them without really realizing the implications of this on the kids.
And even if they agree, they can't really consent, they don't understand the implications, and they're raised with the expectation that they will make them money.
Reminds me of gender swapping for kids as a teen or younger 😬🤢
The parents completely realize the implications. They just don't give a shit because it makes them money and they put making money before their kids. Sad, but true.
I was researching this exact thing to see if there is a way to strengthen child labor laws for the Internet so that parents have to clock hours filmed and profit and report it to their employer (I.e. CZcams).
Yah Man Its p much child labour 😯especially in kid centered channels. Theres this Very famous kid Channel Lucas neto here in brazil and he literally employs a child in his work and trademark.. shes in all the vídeos w him and also theyre not related!!! Its all só ominous and exploitative
I can't even process the level of neglect those children have to survive when the cameras are off.
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Cant wait for documentaries in the future from the perspective of these kids
Children in Hollywood have laws that protect their earnings. CZcams kids don’t have that legal protection yet. They’re working without any guarantees of being paid for their work
It is dependent on the contracts not a legal protection process. You cant cover just youtube, you would need to cover all entertainment.
@@Sak-zo1ui and we should. If ur working ur kid then the kid should earn money. It affects their childhood
Yes there needs to be some broad law regarding all entertainment that gains a certain amount of income off kids.
It feels so bizzare to me his real life his real emotions are literally him doing work🤐
They are just trying to live not even work
And another thing is that most family channels don’t have any respect for their children’s privacy, I remember a family that literally vlogged when their daughter got her period. I would feel so violated and these children probably couldn’t even say no bc they didn’t want to disappoint their parents.
that is so inappropriate i would feel so violated wtfffff these poor kids
Uhgggg I *hate* videos like those
I imagine if their parents are willing to record their daughters period they’re probably not too concerned if they get her consent or not
Omg.... that’s insane. I would be so mortified if my parents had vlogged me getting my period it’s such an invasion of privacy
that's fucking disgusting!!
as a youth worker i am 100% sure there are kids that are in the system or have an abusive/neglectful home life that are watching these videos and wishing it was them and that’s pretty fucked up
The kid will be so confused when he grows up. He won't know who he really is.
i don't think that kids can consent to putting their whole childhood on the internet. sure, to a ten year old, it would seem cool to be on camera and have a lot of subscribers, but when they're adults, even teenagers, their opinions are going to change. if i was an adult and knew that my whole childhood was spent being on camera and making videos for other people to watch and have opinions on, i'd be so uncomfortable. and on top of that, knowing that those videos are still on the internet for anybody to watch would be very unsettling. this just really doesn't sit well with me.
It's one thing for an adult on YT to get a stalker, but can you imagine how bad it would be for one of these kids to get a p*do stalker?
Glad to know im not the only 10 year old watching this
I wouldn't even put pictures of my kids on Facebook. They're people and they have the right to decide for themselves if they'd like to be on the internet or not. Parents act like they own their children and it's disgusting
I don’t think that sits well with anyone even kids younger than 10 but they have no other choice, really devastating
Ecxept when they make content on thier own, like evantube, he makes his own content.
‘The Truman Show’ is a whole movie explaining why this premise is extremely dangerous and dehumanising
and bojack horseman 😱 a life on the spotlight
perfect comparison
yeah suddenly they'll meet a girlfriend but it is a prank
I really loved that movie
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING ABOUT
Bruh just imagine a kid having a seizure and the parents are like: GeT tHe CAmeRa! LeTs pOst tHis oN yOUtUbe!
Have you been to the "my disabled kid" part of CZcams where they vlog their seizures/breakdowns?
Title: Something happened to Jacob..... *Emotional*
That's part of the reason CZcams started automatically turning off comments on a lot of disability-related content involving minors.
@@consentclub8431 yes, but you can turn the comments back on in CZcams Studio if the comments are removed to prevent a minor.
“i don’t know why people would want to watch someone raise their kids anyways” i used to watch family vlogs in like middle school bc of how fucked up my own family was lmaooo it made me feel normal bc i could still see and have an understanding of living that type of life
Gonna cry?
@@floydlawton2798 um , no ?… LOL im not hating on what he said i was just making a comment 🙂👍🏼
@@addison6181 I think maybe Floyd needs to cry and he's just projecting it on others
i can relate to this...
The saddest part is that these "family vlogs" are probably targeted towards kids that may not have a great home environment in their own lives. Kids use these vlogs as an escape to experience a "loving" family, even though everything they're watching is fake, materialistic and played-up for views.
I never thought of this...it’s so true though
I think this aspect holds alot of truth in it.
THAT TOO
that’s why i loved watching full house as a kid, lol. my dad had passed away so i guess i liked watching a show about a family with multiple positive father figures.
I've always wondered why these are popular but that completely makes sense. My friend's daughter watches these even tho she has a great home life bc she loves kids and babies (she's 10.) I think that is probably a huge reason for all these views and that's so sad
Family channels make me so angry. People who exploit their children for clout and money are THE WORST. Why do they even have an audience.
honestly! and they're kinda awkward to me :/
Their main audience is like children and children dont have jobs so they watch this garbage all day
the way they document every single thing for example there was a family who filmed their daughter’s first period. yikes
@@fatimaaliyeva8778 WHAT 😳 that’s just messed up these poor children 😡
@@nathaliew619 YEAH i think they were buying pads and just SCREAMING in the supermarket 💀
5:28 is why Cody is never my go-to for comfort videos to fall asleep to
Im not gon lie. This Cody dude pretty entertaining
Same...I discovered him like two weeks ago and I cannot stop watching
For once I'm actually watching something that's more than 1 minute and am actually being entertained
Don't sleep on Noel either. The man is a expression comedy genius.
maybe this is just my undergrad psych student disease talking, but every time i start thinking "who could possibly be watching and enjoying family vlog content" when i see a callout video about the ace family or whatever, i hear the parents go "thank you for subscribing, thank you for supporting us, we love you guys so much, our subscribers are all part of our family, every single one, ESPECIALLY if you support us by buying our new merch" and i picture kids out there with terrible home lives and absent parents who keep coming back to the ace family on some level because austin and catherine ace will always tell the kid they love them when their real parents won't. i'd be willing to bet that if you go into their comments section you'll see a bunch of 8 year olds commenting "you guys are so cute i wish you were my parents" which seems like a compliment on the surface but if you think about it for more than a few seconds it just gets really sad. the ace family or the royalty family or whoever don't actually care at all about their subscribers and it's not a healthy family dynamic to exploit your kids for money and views. they milk the sad parasocial relationship they have with their 10 yr old fanbase for money and clout. it probably seems harmless on the surface but young kids are so, so easily influenced by what behaviors are modeled for them, especially in people they perceive as parental/authority figures. idk i'm probably just an oversensitive snowflake but it really just makes me sad.
also theyre fckin cringe
I didn’t even think kids watched them cause I thought they’d be bored I thought it was all weird like 30 year olds and up but I guess that makes sense if they do
Damn I never thought about that. I have watched certain people to live vicariously through them on my super duper low days, and it ultimately just makes me more sad. Ugh imagine being a kid and doing that same thing 😭 family vloggers will never stop, they’re just gettin started! 🙄🥺
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you’re definitely not an over sensitive snowflake!! I wholeheartedly agree and I never would’ve thought about it like that but you’re absolutely right it’s horrible
girl you said disease lol
just imagine having a panic attack or something and your parent starts filming it like wtf
''Mom.... Dad.... I'm been thinking for a long time about whether I'm a boy or a girl.... And.... I think I might be trans''
....
''Sorry... say that again, it wasn't recording.''
There was this family channel that adopted a kid with autism from China and they already had a bunch of kids; not only would the parents do "family time" w their biological kids after sending the boy to bed, effectively shunning, him but also there were times in which the mom filmed him "throwing fits" when in reality it was basically him having sensory overloads bc of his autism and she would just dismiss it and leave him to cry out. It was a pretty big case about a year ago bc they ended up giving him up, or as they said in their own video "having to REHOME him". The absolute gall of this people. Sucks that they basically neglected the little boy and caused him more trauma but I guess I'm glad he's no longer being pimped out for views on youtube. Tom Harlock made a pretty lenghty video about the subject.
@@xGwen6661 it was myka stauffer (idk if that’s how u spell it)
@@xGwen6661 The fact that they'd have their family time without him and stuff is awful because it's acting like he isn't part of the family but filming him instead of just acting like a parent and helping him when he has sensory overloads is just over the top. I don't know why some people are like that. I hope that where he is now he's treated with love and has amazing parents.
Mom, dad I’m dying
OMG REALLY? WHY DIDNT U TELL US SOONER
I’m sorry dad-
Hey get the camera
🥺📷 are u dying baby? Awww guys make sure u hit that subscribe button 1 like equals one dead kid in our house, anyways check out my 100 million dollar mansion
I can definitely see these kids growing up with some serious anxiety issues and possibly disorders as they grow older. When you grow up with parents who don't allow you to process your emotions fully without them making a big scene, it seriously effects your sense of self overtime. Add in the cameras 24/7 and you will get self-esteem issues as soon as you begin understanding the context behind those seemingly innocent videos your family did of you. I'm seriously scared for how the next generation will turn out mentally once they grow older, having their entire lives broadcasted to the world all the way from birth to adulthood...
the dad is so fake like i can't even imagine what he sounds like just talking normally. idk how 12 million people are like "yeah this guy has good charisma in front of a camera"
aren’t there strict child labor laws for child actors specifically to reduce the trauma and exhaustion they get? and these children are just getting filmed 24/7??? something doesn’t sit right with me
There's laws for hollywood and film making. Unfortunately the law hasn't caught up to CZcams, which is gunna lead to some problems for the kids I feel. The whole situation is terrible. :(
Just asked the same... This is ridiculous.
@@mathematics117 Yeah it took forever for the laws to catch up to Reality TV and unfortunate the same thing is happening with CZcams content. Luckily France already passed some laws similar to Coogan Laws so someone is thinking of the kids.
Only allowed because they are the parents. If they were employers then the kids would be worked less. Parents can basically do whatever with their kids as long as no injury occurs, unfortunately
Many of these family channels are registered as entertainment businesses so it shocking that these laws aren’t transferred over
Chris Klemens films his dog only when she's comfortable being on camera yet these people film their baby the second it drops out of the piehole.
HAHA i love chris 💀
lmao
Its the fucking truman show for them kids.
Booger is a QUEEN
What the hell piehole??
You're 100% on point. I feel like everything they do on camera is just a subtle flex to everyone showing how good parents they are.
I’m just realizing that this is the same lady who would make her son ogle her in her Instagram comedy videos years ago😂
Omg that’s HER?!
God I hate Andrea Espada’s videos
This feels like a real life Truman show for these kids.
This comments so true it hurts
Wow, crazy to think actually.
Damn :(((
and the kids' downfall will begin once they realise they've been living inside "fake walls" :(
1000th like :))
god I can't imagine my awkward and embarrassing childhood moments being broadcasted to my classmates, teachers, and potentially weirdos
not to mention emotionally vulnerable ones. imagine going to your parent for support and getting a camera put in your face. EW
right? just knowing about your lack of privacy would be so traumatic. to an extent, all children raised on social media have this issue, and issues with packaging themselves and being treated like objects for the camera. it’s not healthy to constantly be commodified by your own family, it would cause a lot of issues with your own self image
My dad beats me
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Weirdos and pedos
The kid already has everything… what value does $1000 have to a child with everything. I remember saving up money in order to buy games or on very rare occasions a laptop if I needed one. This kid is surrounded by every possible amenity known to man… what is $1000 to him?
watching this in 2024 where the ace family just split and Cody had his kid now feels weirdly full circle
I feel like all these children will try to get emancipated when they're 16 and it will come out that their parents took/spent all the money they made off the children... it's the new wave of sad child stars that become damaged, lonely, and broke, by no fault of their own, people they worked hard for nothing.
Its gonna give them a warped sense of reality. They are gonna live materialistic lives bc that's what their parents modeled for them.
I agree with you. They’re already spending all the money they’re making on their children! And it’ll all be dried up by the time their fame is gone/the kids don’t want to be involved.
when your parents spend your college fund on bugatti’s and designer clothes 🥴
there definitely needs to be laws to protect them like children in the film/tv industry
But really though. 😞
I’m terrified to see what psychological issues this leads to for these kids’ generations.
oh it’s gonna be gnarly
@@katiedunlap235 lol i always emphasize the g in gnarly
As well. None of these people deserved to become parents.
we’re gonna see it really soon, these kids are growing up
I feel like they'll all become introverts, which is fine by itself. However, I feel like it won't be because they naturally became introverts, they'll just become so exhausted of constantly being watched and having to perform that they'll yearn for privacy and being able to be flawed.
watching this in 2024 hearing Cody say ‘I’m not a parent, but’ and just 👀
just thinking that
Imagine living a script. A literal script. Where every action and reaction is premeditated.
The worst part is, is feel like at some point these kids are going to realise what their parents have been doing their entire lives. Because eventually they're going to stumble across a video like this one, and realise that they are nothing more than an asset to their parents, and I can just imagine how damaging that's going to be to their entire world view.
But then they'll be given a $200,000 car for their birthday and stop caring. Probably just start doing drugs and blow all their parents money by the time they turn 25.
@@PointB1ank that's the sad reality
there's gonna be a generation of kids growing up with their faces all over the internet. i predict that they wouldn't know how to interact with people the right way due to the fake-acting and their parent's emotional neglect
Holy fuck this was deep lmfao
my dad used to be obsessed with facebook till like 2013, he says stopping posting so much was the best thing he ever did for us
It’s almost worse than being a child actor because at least when you’re a kid actor you have the luxury of a somewhat private home life still, this is so bad because the home life is completely catalogued and exploited for public consumption 🤮 No privacy, and no autonomy.
F
Yeah makes sense
Exactly I find it awful when they release titles like “‘my daughters first period” or revealing private matters to such a public platform. Their exploiting their own children, it really is sad
and there are laws now to protect you, most kids are allowed to only work a limited amount of hours on set
@EpsilonGoods I don't really blame the parents tbh, our capitalist society values money above all else. These horrible parents are just byproducts of the system.
imagine your parents are leaving for a trip and they go to your room to give you a little talk, be there for you as a parent, and they are just filming the whole thing. it’s so awkward and weird. these people are going to develop like imposter syndrome
There’s no separation of home life and work, like the kids will never have a safe space where they know they are in the comfort and privacy of their own home because they will always be at work. That’s gotta create some severe anxiety 😭
scariest part is that we literally don't know the effects of this yet. we are all watching and know its off, but in 15 to 20 years that future generation may be looking back and say "why was everyone ok with straight child abuse." Like these people could be responsible for real legislative change if their kids lives are ruined.
right? theyre this generations olsen twins and look what happened to them. they said being a child star was terrible and they wouldnt wish it on any child.
Lmao stfu this is cringe
@@xhafts You got brain worms
@@shlorbleflorbnad6927 she got tiktoker brain
literally!! especially since its such a new form of whats essentially just child abuse that there havent really been any studies on it or laws set in place to prevent it yanno
I hated the way I looked when I was younger, I didn’t even want my mom taking pics of me lmfao. So I can’t imagine having a camera in my face all the time (while growing up, going thru puberty, going thru the motions of just growing up, etc) and like the idea of millions of people viewing those videos would give me hella anxiety. I was already a self conscious kid and that would’ve made it worse for me.
Same!
ugh literally i cannot imagine how these kids are gonna end up as like teens, you know they will literally do everything to try and get away from them and some might end up w mentally ill bc i’m sure that shit is in a way hurtful to their mental health
SO TRUE I didn't even think about that
Just be thankful we didn’t have to experience this...yikes
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I remember watching a wifeswap episode that included a family with vlogger parents and the child was nawt happy, she just wanted to do normal kid stuff and was saying how she kinda preferred the other mum better ☠️
the older kid from the royalty fam is what scares me. like cody and many other said, he’s trained. he knows what face to make, how exactly to annunciate his words. it is going to be very telling in ten years when we see how he turns out. it is just insane to em
Man, childhood is such an important phase. The negative stuff sticks, just as much as the positive. Those insecurities and fears you have as a child can impact you a lot if they're not dealt with in a healthy way. I can't imagine how badly it will affect these children to be raised this way. They have no privacy, all of their relationships are shallow and fake. Nothing can be genuine. They can't have a discussion with their parents without a camera in their face and millions watching. The psychological damage, ugh
I agree with you except for one thing aside from the really exploitative family channesl what if they're realationships are real but it's just a facade in front of the camera but they go back to being actual responsible parents or maybe that's too much to ask in this world
@@awaisamjad3201 that would be nice, but I don't think responsible parents would do any of this in the first place, facade or otherwise :/
@@ep6808 yeah I suppose
No shit. One scene of a movie you walk into when you're 8 can affect you up into your 20s. And that's obviously not a big deal but it still did shit. Now imagine the obviously fucked up things anyone with a brain can see is wrong, that a child goes through.
I agree. Having a deep conversation with your parents (especially about a serious topic) already takes a lot of courage for some kids to do. Knowing that there might be a camera shoved in your face for the whole world to see may discourage the kid from consulting their parents even more. I'm not saying that the parents would put such a conversation on the internet (I'm also not saying they wouldn't). However, just the thought of this alone would be discouraging
I've worked with children in foster care for a long time, and most of them are obsessed with family vloggers. I imagine it's a projection thing, so they can see the normal family things, like vacations and family outings, that a lot of them don't get to experience, and it's depressing to think about.
Ugh. This makes me ill. It just give them such a distorted sense if reality on top of the dysfunction they're already dealing with.
I can definitely agree to that, I do the same thing except with tv shows and family related variety shows but ya even a 19 year old does it lol
Been in care since I can remember about 4 I think and I hate this messy cancer of content
and it makes the whole thing worse realising that it becomes a cycle for both kids in each situation growing up with a different sense of what it's like to be in a normal family and materialistic values being the end all be all, raising them to become yet more narcissists just like their parents, or traumatised beyond repair
That’s another thing that worries me. I’m scared kids that watch this will grow up expecting their life to be like that, and then end up depressed when their life isn’t as perfect as these family vloggers try to make their lives seem.
i’m such a private person i never share anything about my personal life online and watching these people share everything like that gives me so much anxiety. and the exploitation of their kids makes me so angry
Its weird to think that there are someone who actually get entertained by family vlogs.
And what irritates me so much is how rich people don't know how to dress. They just be slapping on brands but not like the nice stuff
It's a psychological and class thing. New money vs Old money.
New money people who got their wealth recently out of insecurities tend to buy flashy name brand in order to apear wealthy. Ironicly proving their previous broke status. Most social media stars are classic new money.
Old money are people who had their money for generations. They tend to hide the fact that they are rich since people act fake or scam them. Old money clothing brands are insanely subtle and exclusive. most people have probably never heard of them.
Like Chanel a brand that sells to both for exsample will sell the junky stuff made in a factory to new money folks in their store. like a cheeply made $300 belt. While having exlusive runway shows that they only invite old money insiders. who get to customize and simplify the clothes and accesories after purchase. That cost an entire semester at college. Chanel is a handbag company traditionly.
The terms that the fashion industry use are.
Ready-to-wear = Broke ass New money bullshit. That isn't different than regular clothes.
Haute couture and bespoke= Fancy tailord and unique designer clothes.
@@hayes1035 u just explained that perfectly. And indeed it is not that they only buy gucci or lv but they buy the cheaply made logo things but gucci and so many other luxury brands have the most amazing pieces but regular people can’t buy them bc of their price point. It just seemed to weird to me that rich people bought the ugliest shit from brands in order to let know that they can afford the brand but thanks for explaining
I know and most of the time designer stuff is really ugly, like they think they look good with their fanny packs and keebler elf shoes
Something I learned very quickly is that if you are strutting around flashing twenty nine brands from head to foot, you are likely to be either 1) being sponsored or 2) insecure about your supposed wealth.
@@hayes1035 this was explained perfectly and it really helped me understand, thank you!!
It honestly is disgusting, using their children as income. and the kids cant even consent. Im sure there are days they don't want to be on camera and "perform" and their parents force them too. Also this content will be on the internet forever, and when they are older they may not want it to be. Home videos are precious memories for families, but these are so fake and not genuine. Also the display of wealth is so gross. they could at least do something inspiring with their money or interesting. These kids will need major therapy, they are child actors in a sense. They will also have a super skewed view of the world growing up when it comes to money etc.
right, back in 2017 i used to be subscribed to a lot of them and i realized how wrong it is to used your babies/ kids for views
There was a wife swap episode with a family who vlogged and the daughter talked about how she just wanted to spend time with her parents without a camera and how she didn’t want to vlog anymore. She actually didn’t want her mom to come back because of the vlogging. It’s so sad to see these kids basically forced to be on the internet and be ready to perform 24/7.
i actually in a class and i’m a decent friend with a kid from an insanely famous family channel, it’s definitely different than the ace fam and stuff, but they are pretty cool with it
@@maxserafini8127 that’s honestly refreshing to hear. I definitely think that there are positive ways to have a family vlog channel, most definitely, but I can’t help but feel bad for the kids on channels like the ace family or the royal family because it just doesn’t feel authentic at all. But it really is good to hear there are families who vlog in an enjoyable way for everyone:)
This is 100% abuse
“Why don’t you ever look people in the eyes?”
“I’m subconsciously trying to find a camera to look at while responding. Eye contact has always made me feel uncomfortable because my parents would always tell me not to look at them growing up”
mad props to Cody for calling out these scams and looking out for all of us
The apology for the ad lmfaooo 😭😭
girl wth why aren't you verified? didn't even realise it was your real acc for a second
@@bleachedwhite5067 frr
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why aren’t you verified
Very Canadian
"How I survived my parents: living in a social media family" streaming on Netflix 2030
And then it wins like 3 golden globes, 1 oscar cause of how good it is
makes me imagine the kids behind the camera have the perception that the camera is what makes their family perfect. like i refuse to believe nothing bad happens behind the scenes every once in a while. its like, probably going to create this weird dependency on the camera to be happy and loved
I couldn't agree with Cody's opinion more, these are messed up
If you want real toxic family content check out that family who does messed up pranks on their kid and stuff 🤦🏻♀️ I think they’re called the Loyal Family. “cheating in front of my daughter prank to see her reaction”, “I don’t want you to be my dad anymore prank on my stepdad” meanwhile the kid is like 10 or some shit
oh my god no.....
those kids are gonna be messed up for life
Jesus
Those kids are going to have trust issues
Where’s cps when you need them
rich people dressing like that is so tacky. money can’t buy style i guess.
it's new money. they get all of this money all of a sudden and want people to know that they're rich so they buy a bunch of shit and wear clothing that has designer logos all over it so that people know they're rich. it's almost like they feel they have to prove something. weird asf.
@@tinam2892
New money has nothing to do with shitty taste. Children of generations of millionaires do the exact same shit and it’s simply because they have shitty taste and usually a douchebag flex personality.
These people would be broke af if they weren't exploiting their children. Its new money and they don't know how to use it
@@tinam2892 yep - ppl w old money will buy a plain white sweater thats expensive af
@@tinam2892 It’s an insecurity thing. Someone could be worth 25mil, but if they’re the least wealthiest family in their ultra affluent neighborhood, they could (depending on their self-worth and whether or not they could give a damn about what others think about them) still end up being insecure about their social status, even though they are more than “well-off” and rest of us would gladly welcome the opportunity to be in their position.
That “keeping up with the joneses” mentality never dies it seems.
18:35 not anymore 😂
I feel like Family blogs are escapes for kids. Fantasys about happy family and money
This is a modern way of child abuse.
eh
Agreed
definitely child exploitation at the least
exploitation yea but abuse is a little bit too much
that's a little too far
the amount of therapy that these peoples kids will need is astounding & I’m honestly so surprised that there aren’t labor laws protecting kids from this type of potential exploitation yet. they’re literally not old enough to understand the repercussions of their entire lives being on the internet lol like can they even properly (or justifiably) consent ?¿ idk it’s sus & depressing
Exactly!!! Unreal. This is both child labor and psychological abuse all at once
In The Netherlands the government is trying to change law about child vloggers because they see it as a form of child labour indeed. I totally agree with your post.
Fantastic points! But who needs therapy to be a well adjusted decent human when you have obscene amounts of money!
This!!!
1:27 “you have more Bugatti’s than children”
congrats cody 🎉
This is 100% narcissist behavior. When they're looking into the camera you can see that they're looking at the video screen thing seeing if they look good the entire time. I hate this.
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@@jxgreen1985 people can have narcissistic behaviors without being a narcissist. so you could be fine...but who know, i don’t know you
There’s an episode of “mom swap” or something like that... and one family has a youtube channel and the other family is just a normal laidback family... at one point in the episode the kids from the youtube family tell the other mom that they DONT EVEN WANT TO RETURN to their mom/parents because they say EVERYTHING they do is filmed & takes the fun out of it all... that was really eye-opening for me, as someone who used to support family channels... these poor kids.
oooo what episode is it called, i wanna watch it lmao
Well good on you to realize and turn it around, bc yea these family channels shouldn’t ever be supported. Any child raised in the limelight of public attention, to the point of practice ally being exploited for money and attention, never goes well. Look at the Olsen twins, who basically from the age they were able to do talk were kind of forced into doing endless television and film programs “for kids”, and how they described their childhood experiences.
What episode!!
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About the wife swap episode
"Do remember when you dad told you he wasn't his dad?"
Yeah fam let me drop you a link.
We need more of these
I don’t care how expensive their clothes are, they look goofy.
People who actually have money dress like normal people
Yep poor pps buy the Gucci flip flops with a huge logo
Rich pps buy Gucci shoes you would not even notice they are Gucci
I would rather buy like 8 nike hoodies and some joggers than 1 hoodie thats worth 1k
@@Z5Z5Z5 true!
proof that money doesn't buy you fashion
How is this not illegal anyways, isnt this considered child labor, considering their making money off their children
because they don't get paid
ftc just doesn’t rly regulate youtube and child labor laws on youtube it’s like a grey area that hasn’t really been explored yet. my guess is when these kids grow up there will be lawsuits and much more regulation
It’s like child acting I would guess
Ya I agree but the parents are doing it to make money for their family.... which includes their children?? Idk ab u but if my parents did this and got rich I would be more than grateful to them for working hard for something and putting their mind to it.
@@holduponthebeatbitch5143 what if they blew through all their money (and yours) they made on your behalf aswell by the time u would be 17-18?
You know Cody is gonna have his own family vlog one day 😂
I watch your videos cos honestly ur one of my comfort rewatches but I watch u to numb my brain n then u spill enlightful bars that make me feel I’m doing something productive at the same time, thank u
That kid wasn’t a “natural” in front of the camera. He was brought up in front of the camera. The reason he’s so comfortable is because he’s been conditioned to be like that. I can’t imagine the type of trauma that will come from vlogging like this.
thts he literally wat he said. he said "trained?"
bruh
@@Spottedhusky ?
@@Spottedhusky what makes you think he'd be happy with this sort of stuff
EXACTLY
I love how Cody apologizes as he's getting into the sponsorship lmaoooo
lol
CZcams, the only job you have apologize for getting paid
@@commiedog425 lmao right??
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He apologized for the cheesy transition
I love your content Cody ! ♥️
I think the biggest issue with growing up as a family vlog child would be that psychologically, you would eventually end up thinking your life isn't your own, but your parents' viewers.
You would have parents that see you through a monetary lense from behind a camera, knowing that what's important isn't you, nor your family, but your monetary worth.
When these kids become teenagers or mature in ways the parents don't find is good enough for the camera, they will have no value in their parents' eyes. It might not happen that way, but they will certainly think it will, what with how catastrophic teenagers going through puberty are.
They have no intimacy, their slightest mistake isn't turned into a lesson, but displayed for the world to see and watch and mock and turned into humiliation. They will stop being able to trust their parents with any intimate questions nor ask them for advice because it will always be pushed onto the internet.
These kids could end up several ways. They could end up being spoilt and warped into thinking they can buy people's affection with gifts and money, since their parents did the same. They could end up never being able to fully trust people or open up, because who knows if this kid wants to be friends or just wants to be seen with someone famous, who creepily knows more about your life than you do?
At any rate, they're going to end up rebelling very aggressively.
This is what happens to most child actors, for almost the same reason.
I love you because you make me money. If you don't make anymore money, I will guilt trip you into making me love you again.
Edit: yeah i fucking hate family vlog channels lmao
“Every child deserves loving parents but not every parent deserves a child,” this really applies to most family vlogging channels. it makes me sick how parents are able to exploit tf out of their children and deem it as okay. it’s such a massive breach of privacy and i hope that in a few years, these kids can sue their parents.
Black Mirror should make an episode about family vlogging where the kids kill their parents from all the trauma.
Child stars are known for not turning out super stable and that’s WITH child labor laws, the ability to take breaks, they have a home away from set. These vlogger kids get none of that. I’m so worried about their futures
I used to get so annoyed when my parents would act differently around me when we were around other people/in public for for the sake of appearances. I can’t imagine if they’d acted like that 24/7...
Thisssssss
Uuuu never thought about it that way, that would build up so much resentment
Maybe they dont even know how they really are 😯
Yes, that is wrong too
how bad was it?