Guys let's thank Owamie for her consistency during such a tough year by sending her small nyana donations. Just to say we appreciate you!! Those who own lodges hook her up for therapeutic break nyana. Discount code or something. Owamie hook up bank details tu!! Who would have thought! Mogherl even up'd her game through all this. Hai maaan! Mbokodo!
See why its important for a woman to have her own money (income), u are able to start over. Imagine staying because U depend on a man for a living? Thank u for this lesson Owamie, sending u lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
I was hoping it was a click bait till I got to the reason why u divorcing. One thing about a woman, she will give it her all and when she's had enough, she will be gone for good. Good for you Owamie.. May God guide you on your new path
You're lucky you don't have children together. That makes it soooooo much harder and more complicated. God bless you for choosing yourself. Proud of you ❤
The beauty of financial freedom is that a woman can make decisions that are good for her. Most women tolerate all sorts of abuse because they are financially dependent. Hope you heal Owamie.
My mom stayed, young as I was, I asked her why she was staying and tolerating...her response was a sad one. She said to me, baby, I have no parents/ I'm not working/you kids will die of hunger if I leave. Lord, she suffered. Her dignity was trampled on..she lost her spark in the process. So, it is important for women to be independent and bold at times...
@@chiefer1325 mine also suffered even though i didn't ask her why is she staying, i knew she did it for us coz we were still young. Financial freedom is very important
Wise decision. For so many years, men have been left to be comfortable with disrespecting women. Disrupt the comfortability to rebuild your peace. Sending healing to you my dear. 💫🇧🇼🇧🇼
You are a strong woman Owamie... there wasn't even a small hint of what you were going through in all your videos. May the good Lord shower you with strength, peace and love. The future is bright Sis...
I can relate to you story Owami, I also kicked out my husband for cheating and he was physically abusive, now I'm left with my 2 kids aged 12 and 13 and I'm happy with them. I'm not that financialy stable but I can afford myself and my kids. This bekezeling thing kills us inside
Jeeeeeezus!!!! The nerve to even spin the story and make you the villain🙆♂️. I'm so glad you chose to protect your mental and emotional wellbeing Owamie❤.
Your sanity comes first sis. I forgave someone over and over again until i lost myself by the time i left i was almost crazy and paranoid with 4 bullet wounds on my stomach and spine. Cheating opens a door for a lot of this.💔💔Sending you love and light sis🙌🙌🙌
736 likes in 1Hour, 376 Comments in 1 Hour. Owami you are really loved. Stay strong girl. Romns 8:28 *All things work together for good to those who love God*
@@jabumpanza1637 I’m asking cz I’m inspired and i wanted to like know more about it, we all want financial freedom. Some of us have 2 degrees but are unemployed with businesses that are fumbling.
I love how honest you are about him, you are not bitter at all which is rare a lot of people forget the good things people do for them when they are disappointed, God will bless you for acknowledging his hard work towards your growth and success.
@@lesegoyv this is going to be my 4th year being single. I feel the same way you feel about getting into a relationship. I really don't have the energy for a relationship.
I applaud you for being brave enough to leave. Cheats don’t deserve a chance because cheating is never a mistake it’s a decision. And the Bible permits divorce if one spouse is adulterous. Sending you lots of prayers and big bear hugs
@@bettytambusigauke1189 I pray that God guides you on what do to. Just don’t lose yourself in the process of thinking that cheats change. Cheating is like gambling. It’s addictive
@@Tinas12211 hello my dear, lots of hugs to you. Ask yourself how long are u gonna hold on to that love while losing yourself each day? What will be left of you? You owe it to yourself and kids to get out of this toxic relation. Strongs and all the best.
I'm so sorry ninja💔 Please married couples, normalize going for counseling even when things are good in your marriage. The rate of divorce in black millenial marriages is heartbreaking. Ke senya ke re bjalo bagaetsho.
It seems the reason the old generation kept it together was that bekezela! Millennials know their worth and good for them .. no reason to stay in a toxic marriage
@Tys W I agree with you.. in addition, the kind of world we live in is insanely poisoned by temptation. We also need to choose wisely and be with someone who wants you..and the struggle that comes with.. counseling works when you want it to. People's actions always have deeper roots..and when they are attended to.. things can work. The grass is only greener where you water it. I love marriage, black love..but I also know being in an unhealthy relationship isnt good for one's health.
@Tys W I agree ...what's going on is people adopt western practices no matter how good or bad they are and now we find ourselves in these kinds of these situations
I know a lady who got a stroke because of her husband's constant philandering ways. The lady persevered so much over the years until her body couldn't take it. So Owamie is very right. Do what is good for you. If you're wired in a way that can take cheating, go ahead and stay. If you're hypersensitive like some of us, do yourself a favour and move on. No need for judgement or imposing bekezeling cheating ways on others. What doesn't affect you could be debilitating or end in death for someone else.
@Owamie this comment deserved some HIGH-LIGHT.. I also know of a married celebrity wife who also suffered major breakdown and a stroke thanks to hubby's philandering ways , I am mentioning no names, in fear of lawsuits lol i'm no Owamie here but her hubby , a prominent music star is no more now and they had rekindled things of late, according to media reports. I for one, knowing myself, I am tolerating no bull, no cheating, nor flirting.
I have never clicked on this fast Edit: After watching the whole video. You have delivered this news in a very matured way without bashing him. I am proud of you. I am not surprised. This is what you preach so for you to live up to your words it’s truly like Owamie. All the best going forward. Love and light 💡
Black marriages are instilled with so much struggle it's so sad, I'm glad you stood your ground. You have such a good heart, dont ever doubt yourself. Thank you for sharing, you have our supporr with this this channel... sending strength and light 🤍💫
Last week, my aunt's friend passed away after spending several months in ICU. During this time, she found out that her husband had infected her with HIV and had started taking treatment without informing her. It breaks my heart to think of the pain that women go through because men do not want to be loyal. I am proud of you for you choosing to leave ❤️
"My portion in life is not to come here and suffer, NO!" WOW👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Sis, you have won at life. If losing someone brings you peace, then its a win honey. I'm glad you're not on the "all men cheat" bandwagon 🙌 it's time we normalised expecting faithfulness from men and letting them suffer the consequences of promiscuous behaviour. All too often they get away with many a deplorable acts. Strength and love to you sis!!!!
This happened in April- I mean the cheating? and you held it together that well? You are the Queen that you think you are. I'm proud of You Ninja...I got married December but those are my standards too..You cheat I Go.
When you said “this guy was my everything” strike a nerve. God is your everything, not a human being. See what God does is that he will show you that humans are just that? Human and they are not meant to be your world. See a woman’s heart should be so hidden in God that a man should seek him first to find her Well, that’s my belief and I’m not imposing it on anybody. God is shifting you into greater heights, watch how you’re going to flourish more from here forth. Love and light Owamie 💐❤️
@@perseygumede God removes everything we hold close to our hearts before him so that we seek him. He will show you that he is God, he giveth and he taketh.
I used to say that about my mom and I'm glad God didn't take her but made her to show me flames😂then I heard God saying "I am you EVERYTHING, not a human being". Well said sis❤
@@Kay_Segoto you take me back to the time I broke up with a guy I so much exalted in my life...I thought my world would crumble and I'd die of depression...God was simply occupying his position in my life...thanks a lot for those wise words GOD BLESS YOU
But nigga you are very strong I remember the time when I got the divorced paper from my ex husband I was mad I refused to signed the divorce papers. I remember the other day I hide myself on deep freeze when I heard the knock from the door. My siblings took me to Lobatse mental health hospital for the past 6 months I didn't see myself but now I'm fine I get healed but it is a process.
Standing ovation for being strong enough to defy everyone in favour of your own standards. Kudos to you for not letting yourself down Owamie, because this kind of thing can kill you slowly. Ube sharp neh? We've missed you
It’s good to know that there’s women who still value themselves so much more and enough to let go of what they’re used to and comfortable with to start afresh because they value themselves enough to know they don’t have to just settle.
Yoh, you are such a strong woman, I bekezelad for years and the cheating never stopped, I was depressed for years was even admitted in hospital for months but I still stayed. I became a very angry person until I started having dreams about me stabbing him in his sleep, that's when I realized that girl you gatz to go, you gonn kill this man and go to tronk and the kids will grow up alone cause he gonn be dead and you in prison. I still get the 'looks' from those who think I should have stayed and fought, it used to hurt in the beginning now I just also look at them too and say, "well I did fight I just lost" If there is anything I wish I could have done for myself was to leave earlier than I did. Am so proud of you that you did not wait for the second time cause most of us do not have such strength. Big up to you💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I'm opening a church straight after finishing this video...I strongly suspected something was up So sorry Owamie but i applaud you for being strong enough to walk away and choose you...you'll be ok🤍
I will be an elder in your church😅🤣.When she did a video saying that her in laws hate her and the ruthless way she spoke about them i wondered how they were going to feel after watching it.Again when she said she has no kids I felt something. 😇
I was hoping that the divorce part on the title was just a joke but it’s not, I know you’ll probably go through all these comments and get a bit emotional at the support you’re receiving we know you’re a brave one and the healing process will take time some days you’ll feel better and on others you’ll feel lonely because you’ve been with him for so long and have gone through hardships together but God will be your comforter and he will continue to fight your battles
I'm so proud of you for prioritizing yourself, putting yourself first before everything else. Once they start cheating and you keep forgiving them, they will never stop .Women like you are very rare to find, women suffer in silence and are being told to BEKEZELA. You refused to be that kind of a woman, you prioritized your sanity. I love you even more for this.
Ever since I started watching you I've had this attachment to you that I just didn't understand. It's like I've known you for years and I really did and still look up to you like a big sister because you are so real. I love you Owamie. You have a beautiful soul. You are a fenominal human being and you deserve the best. Oh my God I am so emotional typing this because I really mean it. You deserve every ounce of happiness in this world and just know that when you hurt we also hurt and when you rejoice we rejoice with you. You are loved and you are not alone.❤ And incase you didn't know you help us deal with our own battles everytime you share yours. It really means a lot us and we know it's not easy to share. I literally found a therapist on youtube and that therapist is you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😭😭😭
I'm so sorry you're going through this, the women that stay with their cheating husband's are weak it takes a lot to pack up and leave and move on with your life, you're a very strong woman and I'm so proud of you for putting your health and happiness first, you'll do amazing in this life you're already a powerhouse 🔥🙏🏽♥️
I'm so hurt 😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 your marriage made me believe that true love exists and I remember when you said that you and hubby made a promise that if one cheats, it's a divorce 😭💔
The strength that this woman has is remarkable 😳🙆🏾♀️💕 I know how hurtful being in a relationship with someone and their family does not want to see you feels like and you were able to shine regardless and love him. It's the strength u have for me sisi💕 Bathong Owami ❤️🔥💯💖 Love and light mama. Love and light.
From divorcée to divorcée...I sympathize with you 💯 Marriage almost killed me. My ex husband also wanted me to below him. He wanted me to kill my dreams for our marriage which also killed my soul. Funny enough, he was American which was surprising because I assumed they loved independent women. It was a very tough time in my life but I survived. The pain will linger but you will learn to cope ,and eventually it will be water under the bridge. I’m so proud of you babe! Our elders need to stop with this “bekezela” BS! You will be just fine. Let’s toast to single independent women next time I’m in town 🥂 Love you all the way from New York! ❤️
When I say it's important to have your own thing going!! The only lubricant of life is money. Emotions will always adjust. Wayekeni guys, yoh ha a!! 😩😩😩
Mmmm this is real! Now that I think about it, some men don't want their woman to elevate, they'd prefer them to be beneath them and submissive - all the time. And at times, Men are jealous and they end up cheating. It always happens that way. I'm glad you took that decision, I'm actually happy for you. I wish you all the best hun, you are young. Enjoy life. I hope the next man you end up with is not as insecure and wants the best for you. Sorry though ❤️
That's so true. I see it through my parents. I always tell my self I never wanna date a man like my dad. Who never wants to see his wife succeed and belittles every accomplishment she makes.
@@Noceepour Damn, that is so hectic. Is mom still with dad or no longer together? Good for you for not wanting a man like that since you have experienced that second hand. Men are built funny because of the societal expectations they set for themselves.
@Felicia Mangwani this has nothing to do with submission.if it was, he would have left not cheated. Cheating means you keep your partner and still have an extra partner. So that has nothing to do with elevation of career or submision
@@felicia_rm unfortunately they are still together. I believe she feels she's too old to leave now where would she go and to old to start building her self up again. Cause I remember I once asked my mom cause I was so annoyed with her for complaining about my dad and I was like if you knew what you know now would you still have married him? And she flat out said No! And explained that my dad was mostly the reason why she didn't further her studies in Nursing cause he was like who would look after me cause I was still young and he said she should be at home looking after kids what does she need the money for cause he is working.
The statement that is how marriage is has caused problems 😩women are made to tolerate a lot of unacceptable behavior all in the name of that is how marriage is
I clearly missed alot, this is why i need wifi at the village. You are a strong women Owamie, as much as i loved your relationship it is also sad to know about the pain you went through behind the camera. I wish you the best for 2021 choma🙏
It's a power thing. Your power dynamic changed when you leveled up. African men are socialized to have power over. No matter how much respect you show them. If their masculinity is founded on negative social and cultural norms. There is nothing you can do.
I need a glass of wine after this 😔 I am always reminded how you say "being a wife is not easy". Thanks for always keeping it real. I am happy that you are in a good space. God will guide you on your new journey. ❤️ Blessings in abundance.
Strength to you queen. Good luck and happy new year to you. Watching this video made me realise that I made a good decision for ending my long term relationship and choosing myself. 🍾🥂 Here's to more money, happiness, growth. You are loved
I still don't see why it's a problem for a woman to earn more than her man. Like why is it still an issue, I would literally be praising her because the household is earning more. I pray for healing and joy for you ❤️
@@sphesihlembuli5327 when you are not happy with your partner you leave them. You dont stay while having a side chick. Im no bigguy but it could be something to do with having a baby or thats how he was from start but was never caught. A rapist or murderer will always give you a reason for why they commit a crime.same as cheaters.
It makes sense why you went in hard on side chicks. Anyway I'm with you invthis one, currently going through a break up and I know its not marriage but still sucks. Here's to us my darling, this is going to be an amazing year. Lots and lots of love 💘 💕...
Owamie I'm so proud of you. I share the same sentiments when it comes to cheating. Your mental health comes first. Many women die because of mental illness that emanates from cheating husbands. I know God will bless you exceedingly and abundantly. To hell with "ukucinisa umuzi" And you are right. It is a norm to leave a person because of cheating, to hell with toxic teachings we get from old people where they always say "all men cheat". We are changing the narrative. It's possible for men not to cheat.
Owami I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup with your husband. I wish there was a cure for cheating. It's definitely very painful, I.know because I went through it too. My husband of 9 years, who loved me so much, he worshipped the ground I walked on. When people spoke about cheating husbands I used to look at them as if they were crazy, until it happened to me. I also tried saving my marriage, I fought with everything I had for my marriage and at the end, I had to let go inorder to save my sanity. When you say your husband changed, I know exactly what you talking about. My husband went a whole 360° turn around on me. He became a total stranger! I even thought that the witches exchanged my husband's soul for someone.else, infact I remember telling my Pastor this!😭 Guys, I don't wish this even on my worst enemy because I know how painful it is. Indeed you become crazy and paranoid! May God help you to heal Owami, I mean to REALLY heal because it's not easy but you WILL heal. Time heals. It's gonna be worse before it becomes better.. The worst part about this whole situation is that you become an expert on cheating man. It becomes difficult to have a lasting relationship after this because you now can smell.bullcrap a mile away. You still gonna have high days and low days where you are going to question your decision. Always do what feels right to you, never do something to prove some point to others It was NEVER about money Sisi. Men will use any excuse to justify their cheating. MEN CHEAT BECAUSE THEY CAN AND THEY GET SOME KIND OF THRILL OUT OF IT BUT IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR MONEY, YOUR LOOKS, YOUR AGE NOR YOUR COOKING! IT'S NEVER ABOUT YOU!.
😁can smell the crap from a mile away🤣true. funny thing is when they deny plain blank even to the proof In front of them.or start accusing u of finding out/reading an incoming text or snooping, I mean.. should u turn a blind eye to an incoming with hearts n kisses n all that🙄.i hate it when they try to make us stupid 🤮
I was like Owamie is back with the clickbait and I really wish it was clickbait sorry Owamie, hope you keep strong glad to see you can give a big smile still
It’s your money sweetie. Many guys buy women phones but the women never think of starting a business with their phone. But I get where you’re coming from.
OMG Ninja, am so sorry. Find your peace and your happiness. Open to love yourself one more time, he was part of your life and allow it to hurt till you can not feel that pain again. When you allow yourself to be happy and talk to him, don't be bitter. God and your ancestors are looking at you sweetheart. 😰😱
You're brave and an example of how young women in relationships should handle a relationship that is no longer working. I'm so proud of you and I wish you success 💞💞💞💞
When I saw this video and the headline,I was like this woman was making video like nothing is wrong. And I salute you for the strength you have within u😘. Yes some women choose to stay even have that men cheats 1000 times,u know ur worth💐 and the bible says u may walk away if ur spouse is unfaithful. God will bless you 😘❤
Big ups for choosing yourself Owamie, even when it was hard, i'm so proud of you. Thank you for being a good example to many women out there who are still questioning themselves:You deserve all the good things in the world.
Im so sorry my dear....i lost my Mom in 2001 because of marriage thinking things are gonna work out.... im not gonna say much but sometimes is better to be single dan be unhappy for the rest of you life im so sorry my nigga ....i was witnessing the heart breaking that my mom went through which i dnt think i will ever heal from 😢😢😢😢😓😓💔
I am so sorry about that. An unhealthy home affects kids. You also have to remember that it was her journey and her decisions, don't let it to burden you to a point where you don't know the difference. Grace upon grace to you.
i'm engaged and honestly im not really sure i wanna get married,my parents separated last year and they've been together for 35 years so it was really hurting for us kids even today but it was worth it my mom didn't deserve all that shit so honestly i dont know how i feel about the marriage idea
My mother went through the worst marriage, she was literally married to an animal. But I didn't allow myself to carry that burden,i look forward to getting married and having a family of my own.if it don't work out, then it's life we move. Stop worrying over the unknown.
Pray over it. If you're unsure then surely deep down you know why. Identify your "why" deal with it and speak up to your partner about it before you walk down that aisle. Marriage is a long term commitment and you surely don't want to go into it gambling on whether you're sure or not. I hope you find clarity and strength to tackle your "reasons of hesitation".❤❤
😂 😂 😂 😂 Did I not come running 🤣🤣🤣we missed you so much hle ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I did not even check the tittle and now that am almost halfway through the video I feel like my laughing faces were so unnecessary 😢😩 I must say, you have unpacked this in the most matured way without bashing him even though you had every reason to. I legit respect you so much Queen ninja and I know God will see you through this as he has already started. Love and light ♥️
Sending you love. In a world where so many women live a lie and worry more about us (their internet in laws) I admire your strength. PS: You are glowing Xx
Thank you owanie... best advice ever "if the cheating changes u as a person its best to leave". You will bounce back stronger most of us have gone through it.❤
No you not weak you actually strong I am proud of you. Yah Ninja just give us break hanyane just to adjust hai. I'm not happy hle but at this point your happiness is everything
Owamie😭😭😭💔💔💔a lot of relationships went through a lot in 2020 💔sorry for what happened between you and hubby glad you getting better now welcome back Queen 😘
I must say you the first woman I know, who has left her cheating husband on first strike. Most would stay and make excuses for them till it gets very toxic,Ive seen it with my mother. Sis this is the energy I'm going to carry in my life/future marriage. I'll should never be afraid to start over if motho a hlanya.
Yooo i feel you on the getting advice part. People will tell you to bekezela and overlook the bigger picture, your feelings as a woman, your dignity and worst of all not say a word to the guy. Aaaiii soo sorry owami sending you hugs and positive energy❤
I'm so sorry Owami. Unfortunately we all make plans in life but God has got better plans for us. But lm so proud of you for choosing yourself girl. I see emotional maturity in you.
Guys let's thank Owamie for her consistency during such a tough year by sending her small nyana donations. Just to say we appreciate you!! Those who own lodges hook her up for therapeutic break nyana. Discount code or something. Owamie hook up bank details tu!! Who would have thought! Mogherl even up'd her game through all this. Hai maaan! Mbokodo!
OMG I SECOND THIS, LET ME PIN IT😂😂😂🤣
😭😭😭😭🤞🤞🤞🤞Owamie deserves everything and more... gurl we appreciate you❣
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So true, Like I'm shocked by her saying it happened in April, she kept her life together, she deserves the best
Owamie for leadership struuu, ngivele ngabasemathandweni naye yaz😍🤗
See why its important for a woman to have her own money (income), u are able to start over. Imagine staying because U depend on a man for a living? Thank u for this lesson Owamie, sending u lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
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I was hoping it was a click bait till I got to the reason why u divorcing. One thing about a woman, she will give it her all and when she's had enough, she will be gone for good. Good for you Owamie.. May God guide you on your new path
Also thought click bait. So sorry
I was also thinking its a click bait😏
Same here 😪😪😪
When I grow up I wanna be a strong woman like you 🥺❤️ Missed you Owamie❤️❤️
Ncooo thank you my love
You're lucky you don't have children together. That makes it soooooo much harder and more complicated. God bless you for choosing yourself. Proud of you ❤
The beauty of financial freedom is that a woman can make decisions that are good for her. Most women tolerate all sorts of abuse because they are financially dependent. Hope you heal Owamie.
My mom stayed, young as I was, I asked her why she was staying and tolerating...her response was a sad one. She said to me, baby, I have no parents/ I'm not working/you kids will die of hunger if I leave. Lord, she suffered. Her dignity was trampled on..she lost her spark in the process. So, it is important for women to be independent and bold at times...
@@chiefer1325 mine also suffered even though i didn't ask her why is she staying, i knew she did it for us coz we were still young. Financial freedom is very important
@@chiefer1325 i'm so touched by our mom's response...u dont wanna know one of my mom's response.."i didnt want you guys to have different fathers"
One thing I noticed is You're glowing! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
Legit💪🏾❤️
She's prettier 😍
That's what divorce does...you glow like never before😍then BOOM your breakthrough
Wise decision. For so many years, men have been left to be comfortable with disrespecting women. Disrupt the comfortability to rebuild your peace. Sending healing to you my dear. 💫🇧🇼🇧🇼
You are a strong woman Owamie... there wasn't even a small hint of what you were going through in all your videos. May the good Lord shower you with strength, peace and love. The future is bright Sis...
Cheating is not acceptable period you did the right thing dear.
I like that you don't only spill other people's tea ☕you spill yours too. You look beautiful btw😍
I can relate to you story Owami, I also kicked out my husband for cheating and he was physically abusive, now I'm left with my 2 kids aged 12 and 13 and I'm happy with them. I'm not that financialy stable but I can afford myself and my kids. This bekezeling thing kills us inside
Girl big ups to you❤
God bless Sis ♥️
I did same here. I am not financially sound but I am able to provide for my self, children and store lots in my cupboard.
Very tru, if u give a person the chances nd stil doesnt change no nid to stay
Jeeeeeezus!!!! The nerve to even spin the story and make you the villain🙆♂️. I'm so glad you chose to protect your mental and emotional wellbeing Owamie❤.
Woow limnandi igama lakho bhuti ...I will name my child Senzelokuhle. Hope wenza okuhle nyani
@@mbusowamaafrica413 wooooow thank you so much, yes ngenza okuhle impela, I'm even Googleable, Google me you'll see 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@@senzelokuhlenkabini6004 yeah I agree such a beautiful name with a beautiful meaning.
@@goldim6050 thank you so much ❤
The are two sides to every story do you know his side!let’s not be too quick to judge.
Your sanity comes first sis. I forgave someone over and over again until i lost myself by the time i left i was almost crazy and paranoid with 4 bullet wounds on my stomach and spine. Cheating opens a door for a lot of this.💔💔Sending you love and light sis🙌🙌🙌
So sorry to hear about this
Yhoo!! Bullets nana😭💖💖💖
@@QueenOptimist yep, the lady thought i was not leaving as fast as she wanted.
Glad you're okay now my love, I'm sorry about the trauma you experienced ❤️
@@lydiahlongwane6820 tjo nagana 😳
736 likes in 1Hour, 376 Comments in 1 Hour. Owami you are really loved. Stay strong girl. Romns 8:28 *All things work together for good to those who love God*
Is she getting money by that ?
@@chang3558 Absolutely yes😊
@@jabumpanza1637 a lot ? Estimation ?
@@chang3558 Life is Priceless. She is making enough to make a living.....watching and commenting on her videos makes money for her.
@@jabumpanza1637 I’m asking cz I’m inspired and i wanted to like know more about it, we all want financial freedom. Some of us have 2 degrees but are unemployed with businesses that are fumbling.
I love how honest you are about him, you are not bitter at all which is rare a lot of people forget the good things people do for them when they are disappointed, God will bless you for acknowledging his hard work towards your growth and success.
You are the epitome of "ilwa ntombo,ungavumi". You look amazing despite the ordeal you going through. Sending you love and light ❤
Sometimes I think I am better off alone. These men are out here acting like they don't have heads. Sorry sis hopefully you will get better.
@@lesegoyv this is going to be my 4th year being single. I feel the same way you feel about getting into a relationship. I really don't have the energy for a relationship.
Wow!!!! I love the fact that you have moved on.
Maybe u can shorten your beautiful maiden name for the show bizz!!!
Mmmmmmm haaaa
My 3rd year single and I’m at peace.
@@DK1MM mmm are you serious 🤔
I applaud you for being brave enough to leave. Cheats don’t deserve a chance because cheating is never a mistake it’s a decision. And the Bible permits divorce if one spouse is adulterous. Sending you lots of prayers and big bear hugs
Candy Chi
Thank you my husband cheated on me but he always says it was a mistake & stupid.
Cheaters dont deserve a Chance
Iyoooo you are so brave cici .nna nkabe ke shoshobane bcs ke nka nako go healer.💪
@@bettytambusigauke1189 I pray that God guides you on what do to. Just don’t lose yourself in the process of thinking that cheats change. Cheating is like gambling. It’s addictive
Read a bible verse about this a few days ago 🙌
You chose him while you were still young and naive. Ladies, please wait till you're 25 to start choosing a husband
You sound like Benjamin Zulu, a psychologist on CZcams from Kenya. A lot can be learnt from him
My pastor was saying the same thing. That wait until after 25 to see if you really ready.
But Owamie still was invested in her marriage. So it's not an age factor. Hubby cheated out of his own will....
Age has nothing to do with it, people cheat regardless
@@Tinas12211 hello my dear, lots of hugs to you. Ask yourself how long are u gonna hold on to that love while losing yourself each day? What will be left of you? You owe it to yourself and kids to get out of this toxic relation. Strongs and all the best.
I'm so sorry ninja💔
Please married couples, normalize going for counseling even when things are good in your marriage. The rate of divorce in black millenial marriages is heartbreaking.
Ke senya ke re bjalo bagaetsho.
Rea leboga ❤️❤️❤️
Mona tsebe....😭😭
It seems the reason the old generation kept it together was that bekezela!
Millennials know their worth and good for them .. no reason to stay in a toxic marriage
@Tys W I agree with you.. in addition, the kind of world we live in is insanely poisoned by temptation. We also need to choose wisely and be with someone who wants you..and the struggle that comes with.. counseling works when you want it to.
People's actions always have deeper roots..and when they are attended to.. things can work.
The grass is only greener where you water it.
I love marriage, black love..but I also know being in an unhealthy relationship isnt good for one's health.
@Tys W I agree ...what's going on is people adopt western practices no matter how good or bad they are and now we find ourselves in these kinds of these situations
I know a lady who got a stroke because of her husband's constant philandering ways. The lady persevered so much over the years until her body couldn't take it. So Owamie is very right. Do what is good for you. If you're wired in a way that can take cheating, go ahead and stay. If you're hypersensitive like some of us, do yourself a favour and move on. No need for judgement or imposing bekezeling cheating ways on others. What doesn't affect you could be debilitating or end in death for someone else.
@Owamie this comment deserved some HIGH-LIGHT.. I also know of a married celebrity wife who also suffered major breakdown and a stroke thanks to hubby's philandering ways , I am mentioning no names, in fear of lawsuits lol i'm no Owamie here but her hubby , a prominent music star is no more now and they had rekindled things of late, according to media reports. I for one, knowing myself, I am tolerating no bull, no cheating, nor flirting.
I have never clicked on this fast
Edit: After watching the whole video. You have delivered this news in a very matured way without bashing him. I am proud of you. I am not surprised. This is what you preach so for you to live up to your words it’s truly like Owamie. All the best going forward. Love and light 💡
Black marriages are instilled with so much struggle it's so sad, I'm glad you stood your ground. You have such a good heart, dont ever doubt yourself. Thank you for sharing, you have our supporr with this this channel... sending strength and light 🤍💫
I also recently broke off my engagement. I feel a sense of peace about it. I pray you find the peace too my sweetheart. ❤ love and light to you *hugs*
@Tys W why
@Tys W lol what the hell
Last week, my aunt's friend passed away after spending several months in ICU. During this time, she found out that her husband had infected her with HIV and had started taking treatment without informing her.
It breaks my heart to think of the pain that women go through because men do not want to be loyal.
I am proud of you for you choosing to leave ❤️
Tjoo bathong ...i kniw some1 with a simillar situation
Bathong ke moloi motho o
"My portion in life is not to come here and suffer, NO!" WOW👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Sis, you have won at life. If losing someone brings you peace, then its a win honey. I'm glad you're not on the "all men cheat" bandwagon 🙌 it's time we normalised expecting faithfulness from men and letting them suffer the consequences of promiscuous behaviour. All too often they get away with many a deplorable acts. Strength and love to you sis!!!!
It’s the unmatched self love for me chilllle!!! Thank you for choosing yourself, Yho I’m so proud like I know you personally! ❤️❤️❤️
This happened in April- I mean the cheating? and you held it together that well? You are the Queen that you think you are.
I'm proud of You Ninja...I got married December but those are my standards too..You cheat I Go.
@@candyKane117i I think its April 2020 during lockdown
It was tough but I was like j ain't stopping for no one
You are the best Owamie, God is taking you to higher levels...Watch and See
@@queenrammym True and Amen
@queen Tammy you are fooling yourself😂😂😂😂😂
How low of him to cheat and then turn it around and say it’s you😳. You deserve better Owamie ❤️
When you said “this guy was my everything” strike a nerve. God is your everything, not a human being. See what God does is that he will show you that humans are just that? Human and they are not meant to be your world.
See a woman’s heart should be so hidden in God that a man should seek him first to find her
Well, that’s my belief and I’m not imposing it on anybody. God is shifting you into greater heights, watch how you’re going to flourish more from here forth. Love and light Owamie 💐❤️
Well said Sis
Gurl! That's deep, I'm applying the same advice on myself...PROFOUND👌
@@perseygumede God removes everything we hold close to our hearts before him so that we seek him. He will show you that he is God, he giveth and he taketh.
I used to say that about my mom and I'm glad God didn't take her but made her to show me flames😂then I heard God saying "I am you EVERYTHING, not a human being". Well said sis❤
@@Kay_Segoto you take me back to the time I broke up with a guy I so much exalted in my life...I thought my world would crumble and I'd die of depression...God was simply occupying his position in my life...thanks a lot for those wise words GOD BLESS YOU
But nigga you are very strong I remember the time when I got the divorced paper from my ex husband I was mad I refused to signed the divorce papers. I remember the other day I hide myself on deep freeze when I heard the knock from the door. My siblings took me to Lobatse mental health hospital for the past 6 months I didn't see myself but now I'm fine I get healed but it is a process.
Shuuu that's tough ninja sorry
@Grace Kolane im sorry about your experience. What cause someone to not accept? You loved him too much? Trusted too much or you were in shock?
@@chabalichabali8714 Soo true and she didn't expect that can happened shame but thank God that she's ok us woman are going through alot bathong
yoooh askies
Yah neh
Standing ovation for being strong enough to defy everyone in favour of your own standards. Kudos to you for not letting yourself down Owamie, because this kind of thing can kill you slowly. Ube sharp neh? We've missed you
It’s good to know that there’s women who still value themselves so much more and enough to let go of what they’re used to and comfortable with to start afresh because they value themselves enough to know they don’t have to just settle.
100%
Preach
It's soooo refreshing to see a South African woman like this!
"My portion in life is not come here and suffer" - Amen🙌🏽
Yoh, you are such a strong woman, I bekezelad for years and the cheating never stopped, I was depressed for years was even admitted in hospital for months but I still stayed. I became a very angry person until I started having dreams about me stabbing him in his sleep, that's when I realized that girl you gatz to go, you gonn kill this man and go to tronk and the kids will grow up alone cause he gonn be dead and you in prison. I still get the 'looks' from those who think I should have stayed and fought, it used to hurt in the beginning now I just also look at them too and say, "well I did fight I just lost" If there is anything I wish I could have done for myself was to leave earlier than I did. Am so proud of you that you did not wait for the second time cause most of us do not have such strength. Big up to you💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
You actually won sis, you won your self back ❤❤
Hi. What does “bekezelad” mean?
@@meamenojohannes5794 Bekezela means to hold on in isiZulu.
@@meamenojohannes5794 perceverence
I'm opening a church straight after finishing this video...I strongly suspected something was up
So sorry Owamie but i applaud you for being strong enough to walk away and choose you...you'll be ok🤍
I will be an elder in your church😅🤣.When she did a video saying that her in laws hate her and the ruthless way she spoke about them i wondered how they were going to feel after watching it.Again when she said she has no kids I felt something. 😇
I was hoping that the divorce part on the title was just a joke but it’s not, I know you’ll probably go through all these comments and get a bit emotional at the support you’re receiving we know you’re a brave one and the healing process will take time some days you’ll feel better and on others you’ll feel lonely because you’ve been with him for so long and have gone through hardships together but God will be your comforter and he will continue to fight your battles
Me too
Same her hey!! Eish
Same here I thought it was click bate. The way this 2 loved each other is so sad to see them part.
Same here, totally thought it was a joke hey 😳😳😳. May God protect and be with you Owamie 🙏🙏🙏
Eish too sad i too was hoping its a clickbait
BODLY OWAMIE ENTERTAINMENT has a nice ring to it!!!
Am so glad you are not bashing him and name calling that’s Queen energy. Your maturity is amazing 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️ A QUEEN 👑
It was written all over you that you love your man. Am so sorry Owamie.
So sorry Owami, sending up prayers for you!🙏🏽
she really did ...but our girl is strong shel bounce back
I'm so proud of you for prioritizing yourself, putting yourself first before everything else. Once they start cheating and you keep forgiving them, they will never stop .Women like you are very rare to find, women suffer in silence and are being told to BEKEZELA. You refused to be that kind of a woman, you prioritized your sanity. I love you even more for this.
Nobody dreams of such a moment...Im extremely Sorry about this mama❤️❤️
Ever since I started watching you I've had this attachment to you that I just didn't understand. It's like I've known you for years and I really did and still look up to you like a big sister because you are so real.
I love you Owamie.
You have a beautiful soul.
You are a fenominal human being and you deserve the best. Oh my God I am so emotional typing this because I really mean it. You deserve every ounce of happiness in this world and just know that when you hurt we also hurt and when you rejoice we rejoice with you. You are loved and you are not alone.❤
And incase you didn't know you help us deal with our own battles everytime you share yours. It really means a lot us and we know it's not easy to share. I literally found a therapist on youtube and that therapist is you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😭😭😭
Ncooooooo thank you so much sis😭😭 i love you sooo much ❤❤
I swear i thought the topic was click bait.😩Im speeches,but God is our healer sisi!
Yohh bbe!! Me too hle... I literally just skipped this video until i saw some posts on Instagram😢😢😢
You are not alone on that one
@@dienkimotaung7167 😩
Duuuude 😰 I just said to myself "Click bait" 😩 I'm shook
But it is well 🙏 🙏
@@theeoneroom8454 eish
I forgave him when he cheated, but now am having nightmares of them together. Things will never be tha same
This is the reality. Same for me when I tried to with my ex husband. It’s never the same again 🙏🏽
I wish elders would advise the way you do...you've been through alot and still you emerge victorious..you really are a strong woman Owamie💕💕❤️
The self love and self respect that you have for yourself is admirable.
I'm so sorry you're going through this, the women that stay with their cheating husband's are weak it takes a lot to pack up and leave and move on with your life, you're a very strong woman and I'm so proud of you for putting your health and happiness first, you'll do amazing in this life you're already a powerhouse 🔥🙏🏽♥️
Everyman cheats so whats your point
@@guysofly4315 that's is not True
@@guysofly4315 vele phela man have a polygamy genes. So a lot of man love, in Africa we don't cheat. Cheating is for Europeans.
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783 lol “polygamy gene”,what nonsense
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783 aybo what is a "polygamy gene" please don't talk nonsense. This is the reason why we in this position ... such nonsense
Get out sweetheart, my mom stayed tolerated baby until dad killed her making a space for a side chick.. If mom left we would still have her today 😭
😰😰
So sorry sithandwa sami🥺♥️♥️
@@sethu_ thanks my sweetheart
I’m so sorry 💔💔💔🕊
@@callmemrsdlamini ❤️
Ohhh 😮 Bab’u Hlongwane😭😭😭, life goes on babe. Eishhh life sucks!
I'm so hurt 😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 your marriage made me believe that true love exists and I remember when you said that you and hubby made a promise that if one cheats, it's a divorce 😭💔
If they had made that promise to each other seems to me like he wanted out and didn't have the guts to say it.
You look beautiful Owamie. And we are proud of you queen.
Quite professional of you to have not allowed problems in your personal life to affect your work
If we not happy we move Owamie kids no kids we move darli happiness c9mes first
The strength that this woman has is remarkable 😳🙆🏾♀️💕
I know how hurtful being in a relationship with someone and their family does not want to see you feels like and you were able to shine regardless and love him. It's the strength u have for me sisi💕
Bathong Owami ❤️🔥💯💖
Love and light mama. Love and light.
From divorcée to divorcée...I sympathize with you 💯 Marriage almost killed me. My ex husband also wanted me to below him. He wanted me to kill my dreams for our marriage which also killed my soul. Funny enough, he was American which was surprising because I assumed they loved independent women. It was a very tough time in my life but I survived. The pain will linger but you will learn to cope ,and eventually it will be water under the bridge. I’m so proud of you babe! Our elders need to stop with this “bekezela” BS! You will be just fine. Let’s toast to single independent women next time I’m in town 🥂 Love you all the way from New York! ❤️
Ntse ke siela koo ijoo! Ke mathata
@@KushathaK Sia Mma🙌🏾
@@Lebzzza1 as I run o raya gore not even makgoa?
Lebo, I'm so proud of you 💞♥️💞
When I say it's important to have your own thing going!! The only lubricant of life is money. Emotions will always adjust. Wayekeni guys, yoh ha a!! 😩😩😩
I'm telling you 💕
Mmmm this is real! Now that I think about it, some men don't want their woman to elevate, they'd prefer them to be beneath them and submissive - all the time. And at times, Men are jealous and they end up cheating. It always happens that way. I'm glad you took that decision, I'm actually happy for you. I wish you all the best hun, you are young. Enjoy life. I hope the next man you end up with is not as insecure and wants the best for you. Sorry though ❤️
That's so true. I see it through my parents.
I always tell my self I never wanna date a man like my dad. Who never wants to see his wife succeed and belittles every accomplishment she makes.
@@Noceepour Damn, that is so hectic. Is mom still with dad or no longer together? Good for you for not wanting a man like that since you have experienced that second hand. Men are built funny because of the societal expectations they set for themselves.
@Felicia Mangwani this has nothing to do with submission.if it was, he would have left not cheated. Cheating means you keep your partner and still have an extra partner. So that has nothing to do with elevation of career or submision
@@felicia_rm unfortunately they are still together. I believe she feels she's too old to leave now where would she go and to old to start building her self up again. Cause I remember I once asked my mom cause I was so annoyed with her for complaining about my dad and I was like if you knew what you know now would you still have married him? And she flat out said No! And explained that my dad was mostly the reason why she didn't further her studies in Nursing cause he was like who would look after me cause I was still young and he said she should be at home looking after kids what does she need the money for cause he is working.
@@chabalichabali8714 okay... So what's it about?
The statement that is how marriage is has caused problems 😩women are made to tolerate a lot of unacceptable behavior all in the name of that is how marriage is
It's always sad when love dies, but sometimes it's necessary. Wishing you the very best on this new journey ❤️
You are the only one who knows what’s good for you do what you got to do “Shbubu”❤️
I was hoping this was a joke. I am sorry but I pray God strengthens you and protects your mental health during this period.
Amen and Amen
💔💔 not the news I was expecting so early in the new year. Stay strong❤️
True 💯
I clearly missed alot, this is why i need wifi at the village. You are a strong women Owamie, as much as i loved your relationship it is also sad to know about the pain you went through behind the camera. I wish you the best for 2021 choma🙏
I always watch and never comment, I'm terribly sorry about this. It's heartbreaking.
Haven't even watched the vid but the title breaks my heart. Ads are still playing.
Ei is getting darker and darker with young couples, marriage being dissolved... May the lord come through for us Man to be good Husband to our woman😭.
It's a power thing. Your power dynamic changed when you leveled up. African men are socialized to have power over. No matter how much respect you show them. If their masculinity is founded on negative social and cultural norms. There is nothing you can do.
Louisa Angelina so so true, they feel less of a man when the woman is doing more. Most African are like that, so sad really.
You're preaching the bible! He should have levelled up, gone back to school.. Get more skills and earn more.
You’re so right
I need a glass of wine after this 😔 I am always reminded how you say "being a wife is not easy". Thanks for always keeping it real. I am happy that you are in a good space. God will guide you on your new journey. ❤️ Blessings in abundance.
Strength to you queen. Good luck and happy new year to you. Watching this video made me realise that I made a good decision for ending my long term relationship and choosing myself.
🍾🥂 Here's to more money, happiness, growth. You are loved
Dear Owamie, *HOW* do you go through so much and remain *THIS* strong? Like *NJANI* mntaka Dabs. Xolo mtasekhaya 😭😭😭
It's life babes we gotta be strong
I'm so happy you chose not to perpetuate the BS of forgiving what many women are slowly glorifying as forgivable behaviour! You look fabulous!
I still don't see why it's a problem for a woman to earn more than her man. Like why is it still an issue, I would literally be praising her because the household is earning more. I pray for healing and joy for you ❤️
In as much as Big guy is a good person I feel he shouldn't have felt the need to ask you to shrink in order for him to feel like a provider.
Inferiority complex 😕
Yes I think that was a main factor and she is strong , he couldn’t handle it .
Thats not the reason he cheated. Thats the excuse he gave for cheating since he was asked why
@@chabalichabali8714 so what is the reason??
@@sphesihlembuli5327 when you are not happy with your partner you leave them. You dont stay while having a side chick.
Im no bigguy but it could be something to do with having a baby or thats how he was from start but was never caught.
A rapist or murderer will always give you a reason for why they commit a crime.same as cheaters.
It makes sense why you went in hard on side chicks. Anyway I'm with you invthis one, currently going through a break up and I know its not marriage but still sucks. Here's to us my darling, this is going to be an amazing year. Lots and lots of love 💘 💕...
Owamie I'm so proud of you. I share the same sentiments when it comes to cheating. Your mental health comes first. Many women die because of mental illness that emanates from cheating husbands. I know God will bless you exceedingly and abundantly.
To hell with "ukucinisa umuzi"
And you are right. It is a norm to leave a person because of cheating, to hell with toxic teachings we get from old people where they always say "all men cheat".
We are changing the narrative. It's possible for men not to cheat.
We are definitely changing the narrative to hell with settling
Owami I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup with your husband. I wish there was a cure for cheating.
It's definitely very painful, I.know because I went through it too. My husband of 9 years, who loved me so much, he worshipped the ground I walked on. When people spoke about cheating husbands I used to look at them as if they were crazy, until it happened to me.
I also tried saving my marriage, I fought with everything I had for my marriage and at the end, I had to let go inorder to save my sanity.
When you say your husband changed, I know exactly what you talking about. My husband went a whole 360° turn around on me. He became a total stranger! I even thought that the witches exchanged my husband's soul for someone.else, infact I remember telling my Pastor this!😭
Guys, I don't wish this even on my worst enemy because I know how painful it is. Indeed you become crazy and paranoid!
May God help you to heal Owami, I mean to REALLY heal because it's not easy but you WILL heal.
Time heals. It's gonna be worse before it becomes better..
The worst part about this whole situation is that you become an expert on cheating man. It becomes difficult to have a lasting relationship after this because you now can smell.bullcrap a mile away.
You still gonna have high days and low days where you are going to question your decision.
Always do what feels right to you, never do something to prove some point to others
It was NEVER about money Sisi. Men will use any excuse to justify their cheating.
MEN CHEAT BECAUSE THEY CAN AND THEY GET SOME KIND OF THRILL OUT OF IT BUT IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR MONEY, YOUR LOOKS, YOUR AGE NOR YOUR COOKING!
IT'S NEVER ABOUT YOU!.
I felt exactly the same, as if his soul was someone else's
@@OwamieEntertainment I'm so sorry, this too shall pass😒
😁can smell the crap from a mile away🤣true. funny thing is when they deny plain blank even to the proof In front of them.or start accusing u of finding out/reading an incoming text or snooping, I mean.. should u turn a blind eye to an incoming with hearts n kisses n all that🙄.i hate it when they try to make us stupid 🤮
I was like Owamie is back with the clickbait and I really wish it was clickbait sorry Owamie, hope you keep strong glad to see you can give a big smile still
Me too hey
Owami 💔. Such a strong beautiful young lady. U just gave me strength to leave and I hope I do leave because WOW
Do it sis, it hurts at first but time is healing me❤
Let go dear. Don't allow yourself to live miserably. You can be happy on your own. Build yourself up.
It’s your money sweetie. Many guys buy women phones but the women never think of starting a business with their phone. But I get where you’re coming from.
That true...it really shows that she’s a smart woman
YOH this video was traumatic to watch. :( I'm so sorry Owamie wow
Hectic 💔
Traumatic or inspiring🤔
Traumatic @LETSHEGO
OMG Ninja, am so sorry. Find your peace and your happiness. Open to love yourself one more time, he was part of your life and allow it to hurt till you can not feel that pain again. When you allow yourself to be happy and talk to him, don't be bitter. God and your ancestors are looking at you sweetheart. 😰😱
You're brave and an example of how young women in relationships should handle a relationship that is no longer working. I'm so proud of you and I wish you success 💞💞💞💞
I admire your strength. 2021 is your healing and growing stage. Please consider therapy. Love and light sis❤️❤️❤️
When I saw this video and the headline,I was like this woman was making video like nothing is wrong. And I salute you for the strength you have within u😘. Yes some women choose to stay even have that men cheats 1000 times,u know ur worth💐 and the bible says u may walk away if ur spouse is unfaithful. God will bless you 😘❤
So true i don't know how i did it🥰
So sorry hun,may God give you strength,All will be well.
You took a very bold decision,learnt a lot from this video
Big ups for choosing yourself Owamie, even when it was hard, i'm so proud of you. Thank you for being a good example to many women out there who are still questioning themselves:You deserve all the good things in the world.
Im so sorry my dear....i lost my Mom in 2001 because of marriage thinking things are gonna work out.... im not gonna say much but sometimes is better to be single dan be unhappy for the rest of you life im so sorry my nigga ....i was witnessing the heart breaking that my mom went through which i dnt think i will ever heal from 😢😢😢😢😓😓💔
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Love & light
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I am so sorry about that. An unhealthy home affects kids. You also have to remember that it was her journey and her decisions, don't let it to burden you to a point where you don't know the difference. Grace upon grace to you.
i'm engaged and honestly im not really sure i wanna get married,my parents separated last year and they've been together for 35 years so it was really hurting for us kids even today but it was worth it my mom didn't deserve all that shit so honestly i dont know how i feel about the marriage idea
If he is treating you well go in love. But out of community please 😚
My mother went through the worst marriage, she was literally married to an animal. But I didn't allow myself to carry that burden,i look forward to getting married and having a family of my own.if it don't work out, then it's life we move. Stop worrying over the unknown.
@@Nthabee00 this what happened to my mother and she is no more
Pray over it.
If you're unsure then surely deep down you know why. Identify your "why" deal with it and speak up to your partner about it before you walk down that aisle.
Marriage is a long term commitment and you surely don't want to go into it gambling on whether you're sure or not.
I hope you find clarity and strength to tackle your "reasons of hesitation".❤❤
Pray about it nana
😂 😂 😂 😂 Did I not come running 🤣🤣🤣we missed you so much hle ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I did not even check the tittle and now that am almost halfway through the video I feel like my laughing faces were so unnecessary 😢😩
I must say, you have unpacked this in the most matured way without bashing him even though you had every reason to. I legit respect you so much Queen ninja and I know God will see you through this as he has already started. Love and light ♥️
Same hey😩😩😩.... Even thought it was a joke😭
Sending you love. In a world where so many women live a lie and worry more about us (their internet in laws) I admire your strength. PS: You are glowing Xx
Owami you're so strong girl i'm literally crying right now listening to you. I wish i could give you a big hug and pray with you.
Thank you owanie... best advice ever "if the cheating changes u as a person its best to leave". You will bounce back stronger most of us have gone through it.❤
Am sitting here hoping and praying that it's a PRANK!!😭😭😭👏👏
Me too hey
No you not weak you actually strong I am proud of you. Yah Ninja just give us break hanyane just to adjust hai. I'm not happy hle but at this point your happiness is everything
Owamie😭😭😭💔💔💔a lot of relationships went through a lot in 2020 💔sorry for what happened between you and hubby glad you getting better now welcome back Queen 😘
I must say you the first woman I know, who has left her cheating husband on first strike. Most would stay and make excuses for them till it gets very toxic,Ive seen it with my mother. Sis this is the energy I'm going to carry in my life/future marriage. I'll should never be afraid to start over if motho a hlanya.
Yooo i feel you on the getting advice part. People will tell you to bekezela and overlook the bigger picture, your feelings as a woman, your dignity and worst of all not say a word to the guy. Aaaiii soo sorry owami sending you hugs and positive energy❤
Let God be your anchor he is truly faithful. The best is yet to come I prophesy peace, joy and happiness in 2021.I enjoy your contents keep pushing.
I'm so sorry Owami. Unfortunately we all make plans in life but God has got better plans for us. But lm so proud of you for choosing yourself girl. I see emotional maturity in you.