I WISH I NEVER LEFT NIGERIA FOR SAUDI ARABIA? HOW MY NIGERIAN HUSBAND TREATS ME IN SAUDI ARABIA
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- čas přidán 6. 03. 2023
- In this video, I have talked about my pleasant and unpleasant experiences since I moved from Nigeria to Saudi Arabia, and how my husband contributes in all of these.
This is to give an insight to what to expect for anyone who intends to relocate to Saudi Arabia on a Work/Dependent Visa.
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I stay in Nigeria but a different town from my family. I totally understand what it is dealing with children all by yourself. It is 11:30 pm now. My 2 year old plus just got to sleep. His little sister is still here climbing my body.
Hey God! I can only imagine. The thought of doing this over again scares me o🤣. One is tough, how do I manage two?🤷♀️
@Doris Tarlumun
It is terrible. My partner recently moved to a different city. Just me.
Some days I cry like a baby
Oh dear! Please just keep hanging in there alright? I know it’s for the greater good of you all. If he notices you’re broken, it’ll weaken him. Just be strong so that he can draw strength from you and focus on what he’s doing. #hugs 😘
Keep it up
We pray for Nigeria to be better
I pray God gives you all the strength you need
Amen!
Thank you so much for always being here for me.
I appreciate you.
To every coin there are two sides. We weigh our choices and determine what works best for us. I love your content and your very fluent expressions and I am excited waiting for the next one.
Thank you so much for watching my videos dear brother. Indeed there are two sides to every coin. It’s difficult to choose in this instance though😁. I miss home.
I really say a big Amen to that prayer Nigeria should get better so we won't just be traveling before making money. Is good you open the channel at least your people in Nigeria will be able to see how u are leaving abroad God bless you dear. New friend here 💕🤗
You’re so right! I miss home. There’s no place like home. We continue to pray that things will get better soon.
Thank you so much ❤️🤗
A strong woman! A queen… so proud of you
You know the Genesis! Thank you so much boki.
I enjoy watching your videos.
Well done.
I just had my baby (she's one month now)
My aunt came over to support me and she does everything at hone for me and also helps in attending to the baby sometimes but it still is not easy cuz I had her through CS.
Caring for a baby is underestimated.
I repeat, it is underestimated.
Omo! Keep doing great sis.
Wait, what? How am I just getting to know this! I’m so sorry sis. Congratulations on the arrival of your bundle of joy. I shall connect with you via WhatsApp. I honestly didn’t know.
The first few months are the worst, but it gets better with time. You’ll be fine alright?
Keep pushing dear!!
Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
Thanks a lot darling. You’re far too kind. Thank you 🙏❤️
Most times, we forget to live in the presence and that's one thing Nigerian system does to us. We all want to achieve achieve and achieve but forget the little things. For instance, I hear you mention career, career, career. It's common for women who have young kids but I'm glad you're in another environment and can see how they take life easy. Trust me, if you were working and your kids were in daycare or under another care you'll still be worried. So enjoy these moments, no one is rushing you. Mother these kids of yours and trust me, your husband will love you more because if there's anything men want, it's a HOME. You can always get back to your career when the kids get to a certain age but don't get into FOMO because of your kids. Enjoy every bit of it, record your time with them. Family is the bedrock of every society. I'm very sure there's something you'll find out there that you will do in that society, it could be teaching language, it could be something that has to do with kids. Don't regret missing out but continue learning and taking those online courses. Trust me, you will note this down later in life. The foundation you give your kids at this stage will help them for LIFE and your mind will be at ease when you are older.
I think I should frame this comment.😁
Thank you so much for taking time to type this for me. I greatly appreciate your advice and I shall abide by it. I’m trying my best as well.
Thank you so much.🙏
Yeah! I hear you loud and clear Doris
Thank you so much 🙏
You are So Beautiful💕. I really enjoy your channel.. so much to learn and relate with. Welldone
Thank you so much hun. God bless your kind heart!❤️
Great Content.keep being a good,strong mother and wife
Thanks a lot for your comment and words of encouragement sis.
I truly appreciate you.
I am so happy you are keeping it strong and keep moving
Thank you so much dear sis.
I appreciate you.❤️
Baby Lu is a full time job.
Weldon Sis.
More strength 💪💪💪💪
You know the story sis 🤣
i enjoyed it very honest and i agree i hope nigeria will have better system so many hard working can improve nigeria more and more
I do hope so too dear.
God will answer our prayers.
Thank you so much for your comment.
Great 👍 Job Mama Lu!!! I'm super 👌 proud of you
Thanks a lot baby girl ❤️😘
I love your originality! You're truthfulness! No fake life nor bragging.
Be strong as usual. You'll surely get there.
WAGMI SIS!
Thank you so much for your comment dear. I truly appreciate it.
We can deceive everyone but certainly not ourselves so why stress to show the world who/what you’re not?
Thank you so much and please keep watching my videos.🙏
Thanks again.
I appreciate your honesty expériences in Saudi Arabia.
@@doristarlumun you're most welcome 🤗
@@nwachukwuohameje8570 Thank you so much. I’m grateful.
Wow!
More strength I pray 🙏🏽 ❤
Thank you so much baby sis. You’re the best. Mngu van soon okay? Se nenge.
I completely agree with you on this video, my dear sister from Benue. I am currently in Scotland and have never thought of living abroad except for holidays as your home is home. But the situation was becoming unbearable in all aspects, even with the tireless work I put in. My major and final fear was the safety of all I have in my life (family). I have a Bsc. Psychology but never made use of it as there were no jobs until I got here and realised myself. My everyday prayer now is for GOD to continue to help us as HE has already helped us with all. But, let's also tell ourselves the bitter truth and see if this helps us. (Do you think Nigeria will ever get better?)
This is the story of most persons who decided to pick their bags and leave. One may judge us for not being patriotic but how long should we have waited for things to get better? How about the monthly remittances we send home? Isn’t that still contributing to the growth of our economy? It amuses me when someone accuses us of being unpatriotic.
With what’s happening to economies across the world, I doubt if Nigeria will get better. Even economies that are being managed properly are struggling, let alone ours that is manned by selfish, irresponsible, clueless leaders. Regardless, there’s nothing that the Lord cannot do. We continue to hope and pray.
Thank you so much for watching my videos dear brother. I appreciate you.
Here’s wishing you the best as you navigate the UK.
Great content!
It’s Tamiya we eat here 🤣🤣🤣
Hi Doris. I totally understand all the points you made because I am also in saudi Arabia. I even had my baby here with no help and it wasn't easy at all.
Wow! I didn’t know you’re here? Which region are you based?
I can imagine how it must have been for you. You’re a strong woman. I would have flown back to meet my moms o.🤣
@@doristarlumun my plan was for my mum to come but she couldn't because of covid restriction. Am in najran
@ganiyat. Same here, although I’m in U.A.E.
Are there no day care around? Where you can drop your kid and go to work?
Keep up with the good work🥰
Thank you so much dear Queen. I’m grateful to have you here.
Thank you so much for your encouragement.❤️
Great you are positive
I pray God grant you your heart desires
Amen!
Thank you so much for your comment dear David.
I do appreciate it.
I really love the way you're being realistic, thanks for sharing ur experience with us
Thank you so much for your comment sis.
I appreciate it ❤️.
Continue being a good mother and a house wife and all will be well. All hopes on God
Thank you so much for your encouragement dear. I’m pleased to have you here.❤️
Very educative
You're doing great. Thumbs up 😘
Many thanks sis.
I’m grateful to have you here🤗🥰.
Thank you so much hun.
I really do appreciate you.😘
I am so proud of you.❤️
You have every potential to be better in your own way too, keep your head high.
Thanks kiddo❤️
Hey sis there’s nothing left here for us anymore Nigeria has gotten from bad to worse but we still hope things workout by God’s grace. And I wish you a happy staying in Saudi and God. Will provide with a job ❤❤
Amen! I sincerely pray that things will improve back home. For now, we continue to explore other opportunities.
Amen to your prayers.
Thank you so much for watching all of my content. This means a lot to me❤️.
I pity you in advance.
Why though?😊
Hi Doris
I love ur videos
It's very touching
Thank you so much dear.
I’m honoured to have you here. Thank you for not just watching but also commenting. It means a lot to me.
I love your originality, you are so real. Hopefully you guys could make something reasonable over there and leave there back home or to Europe or America.
No place like home.
Thank you so much for your comment dear. I say Amen to your prayers. 🙏❤️
Keep it up 🔥🔥
Thank you so much dear. I do not take your constant support and encouragement for granted. Thank you.
Smart woman, God bless you and your family.
Thank you so much for your prayers dear. Amen!
@@doristarlumun some partners find it hard to put their careers on hold when they follow a partner to Saudi.
You seem to be very a srtong and smart woman.Hang in there
Living outside one’s home country is always tough but there are also good sides. God’s in control
Thank you so much for your comment.
You’re right. The good sure outweighs the bad for me. I’m also learning to make good use of the opportunity instead of groaning.
Thank you so much. I’m happy to have you here.
New family here ❤
Nice video good to know thanks
Thank you so much brother. I appreciate you.
Thank you my sister,Nigeria is just a mess rn and nobody,i mean no sane person would like to stay back here and and go through all these shit 💔🤦♂️
Thank you so much dear. It’s just so crazy. We continue to hope and pray for best. People are going through a lot and it breaks my heart.
Thank you so much for your comment and thank you for watching my videos. I do appreciate it.
Nice one 💪
Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your comment.
Yes oo am happy you left at least to tell us about other places
Thank you so much my friend.
Keep watching my videos 🤗.
Thank you so much my friend.
The problem with Nigeria is that we exaggerate everything no one want to get committed towards national development the problem of Nigeria 🇳🇬 is still we the Nigeria masses
You sure did not lie in your statement. We Nigerians are unnecessarily loud mouthed.
On the issue of getting committed towards national development, trust me a lot of Nigerians are trying, it’s just the system frustrating them. I have friends and family who believe in the Nigerian dream with their whole hearts that they’ve vowed never to leave the country, but you do not want know what they’re going through currently.
Why do we need to stay back and contribute to national development when the people that are responsible for this rot have their own families living abroad.
The assumption that Nigerians who have left are not patriotic is not exactly true. “Diaspora remittances is the highest source of foreign exchange to Nigeria and contribute more to Nigeria's GDP than oil and more than 11 times the total sum of Foreign Direct Investment (FDI) into the country. Since 2015, diaspora remittances have outstripped oil revenues in Nigeria.”
Personally, I love my country dearly and I hope to return to it someday. I’d not invest elsewhere but back home.
Thank you so much for your comment, and thanks for watching my video. I appreciate you.
The problem is too massive that it will need a bigger issue to jolt us to the right path
You’re right on that! We continue to do our best and hope on God.
Thank you so much for your comment.
It will be very unkind of if I don't hit that sub pointing after watching this ur exquisite educative informative vedios...I had plans travelling to Qatar before but had had a sudden change of hrt I interested in relocating to Saudi Arabia that said, do u have an agent or could u plz walk me thru how I go can about it
You are real,it will not be well for those that destroyed once great country we call Nigeria, Nigerian's never use to Migrate permanently,we use to travel abroad for summer holidays & come back to Nigeria ,it will be well with u and your family, Blessings
You’re right dear! Now it’s like an exodus. People are leaving in numbers, but we continue to hope for the best. There’s no place like home after all.
Thank you for watching my videos, and thanks for your comment. I appreciate.
Hi Doris, I totally understand you. I recently joined my husband in Belgium and within two years of my being here, I have two kids the 1st is 18months and the second just turned 3months. Life has not been been easy, and I miss home everyday. I was a practicing lawyer before coming to Belgium and Belgium is not an English speaking country. Hmmm! Let me just leave it at that. I get you and I salute you Sis.
Oh dear! I can only imagine how you’re coping. I’m so proud of you sis. It’s not easy at all, but the good thing is, it does get better and they grow up really fast. Just hang in there okay? You’re doing great.
How’s Belgium treating you?
Thank you so much for this comment and thanks for always watching my videos.❤️❤️❤️
I just read the last part of your comment and I must say, OMO!🙆♀️
Being a professional of that caliber and getting stuck where you can’t practice? It is well. It’s just a matter of time. Everything will fall in place.
These are some of the sacrifices one makes in marriage but it’s for a greater good. #hugs
Thanks sis
@@doristarlumun Sure in time everything will take shape. Thank you
Your documentary on the TIV culture led me to your channel. I must commend you are a phenomenal woman. I wish you and your family the very best in your endeavors
Be strong dear Doris. God isn't done with you yet.
Thank you so much. I believe, and I say Amen!🙏
Thank you for watching my videos as well. I do appreciate it.
Me that wanted to be your forever video editor...but it's well
Lol… You know there’s a limit to what I can do as regards editing. Hit me up on WhatsApp.
Good content
Thank you very much dear ❤️.
New friend here, nice content well done.
Oh come here for a hug🤗 ! I’m so happy to have you here!
Thank you so much.🤗
We are all for the pros dear, let those who can make Nigeria better do so, only then will we stop moving.
Lol… with their children scattered across Europe. Nigerian leaders are a selfish lot. It is well.
keep trying❤
Well done. Caring for a child alone isn’t easy. Mine is 6 years old but I always need help with her so I can just imagine how you are coping😢
My dear, it’s only God who has been helping us o. We’re getting by. Thank you so much for your comment😘.
There's nothing more than just saying Omo,. Nigeria is just Omo. Till it gets better, we move.
The pros are more than the cons.
I love exploring other cultures and meeting people.
You've got amazing content.
Thanks a lot for your comment. Until you’re out of the box, you’ll never know how mean our leaders have been to us. I guess it’s the reason they’re always against Nigerians in diaspora voting by proxy during elections. We’ve seen them for the evil they are. It is well.
L240 from me. Constructive upload. 😊
Thank you so much for your comment.
I’m grateful to have you here.🙏😊
Living in oversee is not easy it is the same with people with children in oversee or Europe . Is Hard but with time you're going to be alright.
You’re right. It tough but we continue to forge on.
Thank you so much for your kind words.
I’m pleased to have you here.❤️
Thank you for this wonderful contents but does that mean that ,there is no jobs over there in Saudi Arabia?
Thank you so for your comment Sir.
There a lot of jobs but I’m on a Dependent Visa. Dependants are not allowed to work here in Saudi Arabia.
Kindly check out my video where I talked about 8 Things that Surprised me about Saudi Arabia. I elaborated more on it.
Thank you so much for watching my videos.
❤️❤️
Thank you 🤗
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Thank you for your comment dear.
You will get job soon since you are a nurse easy to get nursing job in Saudi Arabia, am in Saudi Arabia getting to six years now
Thank you so much Sir. I’m not a nurse though. It’s my husband who is a doctor. Thank you so much for your comment and thank you for watching my videos.
I truly appreciate.
Pls what part of Nigeria r u from. U speak so well
Thanks for the compliment Kayla. I am an indigene of Benue State, which is in the Middlebelt/North Central Nigeria.
Thank you so much for watching my videos. I’m grateful to have you here.
@@doristarlumun wow OK cool to hear , no insult pls but nigerians do have a lot of accent not saying its a bad thing but u impress me with the way u speak i cld hardly guess what part of Nigeria u r from. Keep up the good works
No offense taken at all!😊
Thank you so much for your encouragement. I appreciate you.
Nice video . But Nigeria. Isn’t that bad the way you are kinda stressing it & portraying it to the world na . Haba .
Thanks for the video anyways.
Most of all the cons you listed is same thing with living in europe. It's not easy anywhere.
Oh dear! It’s not easy at all, but we continue to do the best that we can.
Thank you for your comment, and I’m happy to have you here ❤️.
Please do Christians go to church in Saudi arabia
Your child will never be a child again, do what is I'm his best benefit even if you have to return home.
“Your child will never be a child again.” Thought-provoking words. Thank you so much for your advice.
I’m pleased to have you here.
You know I always think women are better raised to work from home. Our children are better raised by us or with our presence. Sacrificing the home and children for a great career is not worth it. I had a great education, 2 degrees, 1st class and I find it useless because I cherish family. I will raise my girl child different. It's better the way our ancestors had it. We both shouldn't be chasing money.
You’re right about this, and I love love your submission here.
Of what value will our earthly wealth be if we do not raise well-rounded offsprings to inherit it. Even if I get the opportunity to work, I won’t work full time. I rather spend most of my time at home creating content and looking after my family. Times are evil and humans have become highly unpredictable. It’ll be unwise to constantly leave your family in the care of others all because of money.
Thank you so much for your comment. I’m pleased to have you here.
You forget to mention swallow, didn't you miss genger, atiever, Abuur, nune, ichegh, kyegh sha shwa.😆
Lol… I eat a healthy alternative. I’ll drop a video of it soon. You’ll love it.
Do you get to use WhatsApp video?
Hello Jade,
No, I don’t!
@Igolo Nwaanyi Oh thank you so much!
I’ll certainly try it. Thank you so much for your comment. I do appreciate it.
Let me know if WhatsApp video calls work?
Y not be an ielts teacher, you speak well or teach english
Hi dear, tnx for this wonderful content. Plz how do I message u privately. Can I email?
Thank you so much sis. I appreciate you. Sure you can!
Email: sonterdoris@gmail.com
I think from the 1st of the vid sister, u been just a bit wrong. Life there is not bad, the problem was that u and ur man wasn't used to be and had to become Independent, and also about those called """FRIENDS""" U should remove all these useless worries, which most important is who is ur friend will be always in touch with u and so, but otherwise also with all due respect IF IF IF u both are not Muslims then OF COURSE u will find all these challenges from Allah kind of difficult. Th problem is not the life in Saudi butu not being independent and also u putting much price on those friendships instead of just focusing on ur family, husband child education and especially focusing n ur purpose in this world. U don't have to beg anyone for anything JUST BE U and unless u have a good sorry u wont have to pursue people but they will follow u naturally.
Lot of people and even men can't even coock 2 eggs n the pan... Be Independent and Dependent of Allah.