How To Respond When A Woman Ghosts You Then Returns Multiple Times

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Komentáře • 177

  • @Nolay-Ahhsay
    @Nolay-Ahhsay Před 5 měsíci +85

    Best way to respond is to not respond 💯

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Big facts my bro Im not even going back lol

    • @robertpatrick7639
      @robertpatrick7639 Před 5 měsíci +9

      No response is a response.

    • @rapstar4575
      @rapstar4575 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Preach

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts Před 4 měsíci

      @@robertpatrick7639no, it literally is not you wannabe poetic crackhead

    • @Sqerzai
      @Sqerzai Před měsícem

      @@robertpatrick7639by that logic no matter what you do is a failure then. Bad mindset brother.

  • @DevinKeptGoing
    @DevinKeptGoing Před 5 měsíci +76

    Not a single woman on earth is as powerful as any man of god, and that irritates them

    • @magicalviews6755
      @magicalviews6755 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Exactly

    • @timypaul
      @timypaul Před 5 měsíci +3

      Amen to that

    • @DRH21-Rafael
      @DRH21-Rafael Před 5 měsíci +1

      PREACH 🙌

    • @timmshelton
      @timmshelton Před 5 měsíci +6

      Thats "God" with a capital G. Never disrespect His name, we are talking about the Almighty. Stay blessed.

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      @user-ky5dy5hl4d Před 5 měsíci

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  • @The7dioses
    @The7dioses Před 5 měsíci +40

    F those games. They turn me off completely. It’s about trying to turn us into betas. It’s about controlling and disempowering us. Next.

    • @user-ic5ku2jk6j
      @user-ic5ku2jk6j Před 5 měsíci

      exactly. Im not selling my manhood for a female to deal with me

    • @innavision1920
      @innavision1920 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Facts. Only dudes who justify tolerating the petty games are ones who are thinking with their little head and lack wood control

    • @rapstar4575
      @rapstar4575 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Spot on bruh ❤

  • @cesarferreira386
    @cesarferreira386 Před 5 měsíci +32

    Just don't play their games and leave them alone just be normal and don't let these things be on your head and continue to be mature and have your head straight.

    • @brundamian5338
      @brundamian5338 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Exactly, if no men play their stupid games. They would immediately stop with that crap. But there are so many thirsty guys.

    • @innavision1920
      @innavision1920 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Facts. I see any dude whos justifying tolerating these petty games is thinking with his little head.

    • @EurynomeEclipse13
      @EurynomeEclipse13 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I’d rather have more episodes of One Piece than having love. I’m all out of it

  • @user-ic5ku2jk6j
    @user-ic5ku2jk6j Před 5 měsíci +42

    Block and delete

    • @seanthomas2083
      @seanthomas2083 Před 5 měsíci +7

      @@Tom-cp6yj don’t date women you work with. Super sophmore move.

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I had one 18 yr old b.tch the other day, first she was talking all good then acting chill, then deleted the whole message thing on watsapp.
      I said "Gtfoh I hope the next guy messes you about big time" her reply was like "Hahaha!" I said "Haha haa wel see whos laughing, keep playing the act".
      Just blocked and deleted her, theyre messed up proper dude.

    • @jamesmyers1995
      @jamesmyers1995 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Don’t block, the feeling of watching them try to come back is worth it, just delete

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@jamesmyers1995 I see what you mean bro, but if it fucks with you in a serious negative emotional way then you should block.
      But if in some way it looks good watching tryna wiggle their way back in the yea lol.

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Why do my comments keep disappearing 😤 I meant what I said about that girl that I scrubbed out.

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 Před 5 měsíci +23

    Facts soon as I sense she about to play games I cut off her immediately cause when they keep ghosting you they’re just looking for free attention and validation and they get mad when you don’t give it to them 💯

  • @SumSolutionsco
    @SumSolutionsco Před 5 měsíci +35

    It’s happened to me and still continues to happen 3 yrs after she said she didn’t wanna continue the relationship. I was 23 and now I’m 26 and have gotten better in life in every way, she sees it too. She hits up my friends asking about me, tries flirting in public with me when she sees me in person (I live in a smaller town) and has even made fake accounts on social media to follow me. She’s done and knows she’s screwed. I’ve had her blocked since about 2 months after we had broken up and have stayed that way, which is why she has to talk to me in person or talk to my friends. I know the road ahead is better going my own direction without her. I hope she can get better and get help. But that’s not my job, especially after all, she’s the one that ended it to “find herself” and we all know what that means. Lol.

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +5

      What you said reminds me of this film I just saw and she did way worse to her dude.

    • @SumSolutionsco
      @SumSolutionsco Před 5 měsíci

      @@kingdomreturn304 I’m always keeping my head on a swivel, but not paranoid. She has no access to me besides friends, and I’m glad to say I have good friends. A solid 3-5 good honest friends. I’d rather have 4 quarters than 100 penny’s.

    • @diegotranquilooo3737
      @diegotranquilooo3737 Před 5 měsíci

      “Find herself” lol brother so typical, respect to you and behaved like a boss and now it’s her loss, fk her

    • @ludziguilty7816
      @ludziguilty7816 Před 4 měsíci

      " Find herself" means that she wants to get railed by all the guys that are better than you (in her opinion) , and then when she's done she's going to expect you to to be a simp and treat her like a queen , even though she decided to turn herself into a neighborhood dump .

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts Před 4 měsíci

      Restraining order incoming

  • @michaelarojas
    @michaelarojas Před 5 měsíci +16

    Everytime they don't respond they're saving you time and money by taking the trash out.

  • @4669Mikehines
    @4669Mikehines Před 5 měsíci +25

    Never put emotions into women . Their a laughing stock

  • @timypaul
    @timypaul Před 5 měsíci +30

    A man pursues nothing but his God-given purpose on Earth.
    You are not to pursue her if she doesn't show you any interests. When you pursue your mission happiness chases you.

  • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
    @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Před 5 měsíci +14

    Treat them like it’s the 80s/90s back then when it was done they had no contact again unless they wrote a letter or physically saw you. No texting, no social media stalking. Clean break that was it.

    • @TheKing-rj6zt
      @TheKing-rj6zt Před 5 měsíci +6

      Most never talked or saw each other ever again

    • @innavision1920
      @innavision1920 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@TheKing-rj6ztless options, more risk of loss = stronger bonds and commitments

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia Před 5 měsíci +4

      Who would've thought the 80s were better than now lol

  • @julirichmond3
    @julirichmond3 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Dont settle for emotionally immature partners.

  • @christosdelos3318
    @christosdelos3318 Před 5 měsíci +12

    They are like cats. Come and go.

  • @Justsomeguysomewhere
    @Justsomeguysomewhere Před 5 měsíci +9

    Is she testing or punishing you?
    Because if she's punishing you over some B.S., that is a whole nother story.

  • @brianrossiter6427
    @brianrossiter6427 Před 5 měsíci +9

    The problem is, if they are talking to
    multiple people and you, you would have no idea when or if she stopped. Same with dating sites. Is she really off them? I say the person is either focused on you exclusively from the beginning or you don’t bother.

    • @brianrossiter6427
      @brianrossiter6427 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yes, which means you were virtually never bother. 👍

  • @innavision1920
    @innavision1920 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Solution: retain your seed

  • @handsomeX
    @handsomeX Před 5 měsíci +12

    I've never had a woman come back after ghosting me 😂

    • @HaterAid17
      @HaterAid17 Před 5 měsíci +1

      😕

    • @innavision1920
      @innavision1920 Před 5 měsíci +1

      It be like that

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +3

      I have like 2 or 3 times but looking at her now its like she could eat for the whole of Mcdonalds 🤣

    • @panos7256
      @panos7256 Před měsícem +1

      You are a lucky man, believe me. But still you need to know what to do when this happens. Stay unreactive

    • @ajax6967
      @ajax6967 Před měsícem

      Same😂

  • @orlandoskeete3280
    @orlandoskeete3280 Před 5 měsíci +6

    If a woman ghosts me, I'm giving no contact

  • @humanvegetable
    @humanvegetable Před 5 měsíci +14

    How to respond?
    Unless they say they were kidnapped by outer space aliens, I really don't care anymore

    • @EurynomeEclipse13
      @EurynomeEclipse13 Před 5 měsíci

      I never cared about women they always disappointed. I’d rather feel hatred than love

    • @humanvegetable
      @humanvegetable Před 5 měsíci

      @@EurynomeEclipse13 you have to try when you can

  • @seanthomas2083
    @seanthomas2083 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Don’t give them the time of day. Juice ain’t worth the squeeze. Not worth your time.

  • @frankheininga
    @frankheininga Před 5 měsíci +4

    I learned that one reason for provoking emotions with a man is something they do naturally to TEST if you are SAVE for their (future) children. They cannot have an aggressive partner. This is a threat for them and their children. I can understand this on behalf of woman, but there must be a point that trusting replaces testing.

  • @jaimereynolds258
    @jaimereynolds258 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Best thing to do is ignore.

  • @601marcusable
    @601marcusable Před 5 měsíci +3

    I just ignore them and let ‘em play out I don’t look for nothing in these women

  • @plotskosisii312
    @plotskosisii312 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Its laughable bro. Tears are mere manipulation at this point. Shit is wild.

  • @colc8535
    @colc8535 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Yep my ex who used me to have a child after she had a miscarriage was the one who chased me from the money we met , it was all too easy , no games just told me she wanted me and how did that turn out , she didn’t want me she wanted me for a baby as she was still getting the loss of unborn child . There was I thinking if found the one who wanted me , learned one of the hardest ways but too late as their a boy without his father and another single mother

  • @panos7256
    @panos7256 Před měsícem

    Oh yes if something goes pretty quick with a female, you are targeted something goes on, unfortunately this is 100% spot on.

  • @BabyMusicTunesTV
    @BabyMusicTunesTV Před 5 měsíci +7

    I’m going overseas women don’t play those stupid games there. Grab your passports and get some better women.

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Right on it bro, I have mine planning to go somewhere across the UK border just to get the feel, when I get a bit more comfortable gonna head further out.
      West. Women are a waste of time, they play silly, jilly, milly and whatever else, I don't give them time of day..

  • @bvhia
    @bvhia Před 5 měsíci +3

    Was dating this girl, things were going well, took her on vacation to some hot springs her phone got wet and died, so i lent her one.
    Fast forward months later she starts pulling back, got tired of it so i pulled the plug on the phone since my icloud account was attached still.
    She starts screaming at me, pure rage then tells me to never talk to her again
    Ghosted her, haven't talked to her since. I dont think shes coming back boys 😂😂. Not that id want her back at this point

  • @NolimitIzzo
    @NolimitIzzo Před 5 měsíci +3

    At this point Terry is always so on point with what I’m going through it’s got to be something Devine going on he’s anointed

  • @zandig666
    @zandig666 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Bro u nailed this one man !!!! This going on right now !!!!

  • @smashthings4fun
    @smashthings4fun Před 2 měsíci

    my response is
    "block this caller"

  • @Drunkmonk2122
    @Drunkmonk2122 Před 5 měsíci +8

    Ya I’m in a situation where a girl only has sex with me and won’t text me unless she’s ready to hook up right then and there and come over and blocks me in between just sucks can’t even get a conversation just used for sex with some chicks it’s legit weird we are tools to them “one guy for conversation one guy for sex like it’s sucks either way your out

    • @Josh-de2tj
      @Josh-de2tj Před 5 měsíci +1

      Going through the same thing with an ex of mine. Been fucking on and off since 2004.

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia Před 5 měsíci

      LMAOO. Bro I mean, just block her if it bothers you

  • @JonRClements
    @JonRClements Před 5 měsíci +4

    I like this video bro. Generally stay away from lot of the red pill content about women, but this is a good one

  • @billionz0000
    @billionz0000 Před 5 měsíci +9

    my twin, who cares, we’re going to be at the finish line regardless, ensure you love your life kings ! 😂

  • @stevearnold8265
    @stevearnold8265 Před 2 měsíci

    Block her, that’s how.

  • @rapstar4575
    @rapstar4575 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I've had this done to me this year by a narc female. Not fun. She has a ton of supply. ❤

  • @Keanux12
    @Keanux12 Před 5 měsíci

    This hits home, thanks for the advice Joel.

  • @officialsantanamontana
    @officialsantanamontana Před 5 měsíci +2

    I’m not dealing with a woman
    I don’t have nothing to do with them

  • @Postermaestro
    @Postermaestro Před měsícem

    yeah exact same experience. And you can't also be too mad about the games. Like you said, if it goes too quickly you grow suspicious and lose attraction. They have to see if you're in for it long term, if you're high value, how else would they know?

  • @TheAngeyMovieCritic
    @TheAngeyMovieCritic Před 26 dny

    Yup im in this cycle now. Glad i found this channel

  • @coolbreezetony724
    @coolbreezetony724 Před 5 měsíci +2

    If she likes fishing and the outdoors she’s very possibly a keeper.
    Show her another world in nature.
    Show her communication without words
    The commitment to ourselves as men to endure whatever may come our way and still be a gentleman is the real challenge.
    There is proof that country girls are more fun. Lol The truth is in the eyes. You’ll know.

  • @katie_seyward
    @katie_seyward Před 5 měsíci +1

    On point. 💯

  • @rell2sturdy518
    @rell2sturdy518 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Perfect timing

  • @ClairvoyantEntertainment
    @ClairvoyantEntertainment Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks Joel this is legendary advice

  • @Breeder87
    @Breeder87 Před 5 měsíci

    Nice content. Keep up bro. Greetings from Germany.

  • @blackroyaltymgmt5195
    @blackroyaltymgmt5195 Před 5 měsíci +4

    18mins into the video I’m
    Thinking this is an ex or relationship video. This is a dating video. 😭😭😭😭. That changes the whole perspective of the video smh.

  • @KendrickBullard-lx5nl
    @KendrickBullard-lx5nl Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for your empathy on

  • @dmills7812
    @dmills7812 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Got this shit going on right now 😅 it's hilarious she's used to dudes wanting to take care of her and shit. I make her laugh and don't play into her nonsense, and it kills her .

  • @wcw209suck
    @wcw209suck Před 5 měsíci +2

    This is what I'm going though right now.

  • @SIRICKO
    @SIRICKO Před 5 měsíci +6

    Terry my boy If you ever And I mean ever come to cali my nigga let me know bro. Keep this dope shit up my man you hempled me out more then yo ass will ever know bro.

  • @JackAtkins-xz5wi
    @JackAtkins-xz5wi Před 5 měsíci

    At the center of your heart is the smallest particle called a
    PREON

  • @AngelKrystalStar
    @AngelKrystalStar Před 5 měsíci

    Sometimes it's a situation with someone you literally CAN'T stop talking to. They are involved in your life and going no where.

  • @marcusmcgraw3519
    @marcusmcgraw3519 Před 5 měsíci

    Best way to respond is to keep doing what you were doing before, as long as you weren’t actively shooting yourself in the foot. Why would I notice if she walked away when I was only using her for my own validation?

  • @rapstar4575
    @rapstar4575 Před měsícem

    I'm done playing games with these tricks ❤

  • @thoughtsonpaper2
    @thoughtsonpaper2 Před 5 měsíci +2

    You didnt cover this, but what if she's off doing the whole town while ghosting? But still comes back, says you are the best, but is happy to share all the graphic details of what she did while away?

    • @ptc3619
      @ptc3619 Před 5 měsíci

      You’re not a cuck.

  • @Khandomain
    @Khandomain Před 5 měsíci +2

    Shit bro i was disagreeing with you b4 but i kinda see your pov now. Its just how the game goes.

  • @edmarielafontaine3683
    @edmarielafontaine3683 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I agree.

  • @novagalaxy342
    @novagalaxy342 Před 5 měsíci

    How about when those women that didn't want you in the first place and then they come back in a few months to just want to talk, just talk to them and be their friend? Don't sleep with them just keep it platonic. Lots of guys keep female friends around to have company. Sometimes you might get lucky and sleep with her.😊

  • @601marcusable
    @601marcusable Před 5 měsíci

    I just keep going in daily life

  • @lumendelsol
    @lumendelsol Před 5 měsíci +1

    My ex almost never put any effort into us besides occasional sex. He time was eaten up b6 her 18 yr old daughter, her mom, or her brother. They all drove but for some reason they all NEEDED her to do it which meant we had absolutely no time at all with each other. Literally no time. I asked for equal time and she flipped. Says I'm asking her to just abandon her family. I didn't ask her to do that. I just wanted some time with her besides sex. She just didn't get it and I walked. She msgs me but I keep it beey very short.

  • @user-ic5ku2jk6j
    @user-ic5ku2jk6j Před 5 měsíci +2

    Only thing I would disagree on is that most men who are on lower levels of consciousness have a bit more success with women.

  • @AP-fv2in
    @AP-fv2in Před 5 měsíci +4

    Sex is a big attachment regardless if it is one night or not. The transfer of energies is a big deal.

  • @DonHues
    @DonHues Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you Terry!! Step by step brother. I was abused from within by my ex..sexually abused and mentally abused for years..but now im growing.. 🙏

  • @AZ18637
    @AZ18637 Před 5 měsíci

    💯💯

  • @alaskansurvivalist4874
    @alaskansurvivalist4874 Před 5 měsíci

    By the way brother you struck home yet again. I think you might be psychic or an earth angel or somethin. You pretty much always know what's goin on at the time. My big problem is I somehow fucked up and had a baby with a succubus narcissist. I got love for her as a friend but she's dangerous and we have a child together. He's a 15-month-old and I'm a single dad because she chose a different path with drugs. Attack the shit out of my life on every level. But luckily at the last minute when she punched me in the back and pulled a gun on me and the cops showed up and I got my son. I no it looks stupid that I got that involved with her but as long as she took her medication and didn't do drugs she was really likeable and we got along really well. But her up with no medication is truly her and that's a very scary individual. I just didn't realize what I was hiding behind the medication and now we have a child but I have him but she is trying to get to him. What am I supposed to tell my son about why his mom isn't in his life if I choose to take off from her? I need to be able to look him in his face growing up and say this is the reason why I hid from your mom LOL. But it is really serious. I'm a man and I feel responsible for my son if he is my son he doesn't have a dad so I would play that role. I think about running off and hope that she goes back home out of state. I swear certain people seem like they're under a spell or they got demonic forces working through them or attached them I don't hate them for it but it's dangerous on several levels

  • @THE_JACKAL666
    @THE_JACKAL666 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Very simple ! Don't talk to them EVER AGAIN, no matter what ! Simply don't play their childish games. I'm even little more radical ! I don't even give them any attention so in this way they can't ghost me at all ! 😃

  • @SuCKaFRee75
    @SuCKaFRee75 Před 5 měsíci

    Lol u don't ! 😂

  • @shaolinotter
    @shaolinotter Před 5 měsíci +5

    bruh its weird how your videos are following my experiences. Are you a psy op?

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +2

      I asked that before one time on a live he said he dont work for no agencies etc.
      Someone said hes controlled op. but who knows.

    • @shaolinotter
      @shaolinotter Před 5 měsíci

      they have to be in my DMs to get this shit@@kingdomreturn304

  • @jetsam12
    @jetsam12 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Smash and go

  • @Iamalwayslovedalot
    @Iamalwayslovedalot Před 5 měsíci +4

    I think you need to focus on yourself before you go training men about women Mr.Terry. Your wife is designed for you alone. With that said, will keep you in prayer. Stay positive.❤🎉

  • @destytayzo77
    @destytayzo77 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Face looks beat up bro everything okay?

  • @mckennaking344
    @mckennaking344 Před 5 měsíci

    You're videos are entertaining to say the least. Men have and always will be my puppies. Now roll over 😌

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 Před 5 měsíci +1

    She wants you to pursue her. So do it.

    • @seanthomas2083
      @seanthomas2083 Před 5 měsíci +15

      No.

    • @kingdomreturn304
      @kingdomreturn304 Před 5 měsíci +15

      Pursue her for what purpose exactly?

    • @user-jz6to8md3c
      @user-jz6to8md3c Před 5 měsíci

      Pursue for more mind games that she will play@@kingdomreturn304

    • @rcfarmer4450
      @rcfarmer4450 Před 5 měsíci +5

      She has options once you pursue you are just one more. She sees a man pursuing as weak and I agree we are weak if we pursue them.

    • @brendaleverick3655
      @brendaleverick3655 Před 5 měsíci

      Because he likes her, and she likes him. So, why aren't they together? Maybe because both are playing hard to get? Isn't that silly?​@@kingdomreturn304

  • @pamelagunn234
    @pamelagunn234 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Women are amazing and any man who doesn't see that is not worth the time.

  • @NUMB_NUTS143
    @NUMB_NUTS143 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I LOVE YOU MAN! #TJJgroupie