Ken Not Barbie - Transgender FtM cover || Lyrics
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- čas přidán 28. 12. 2020
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Lyrics:
Parents always sayin’
“Girl, when you grow up,
You’re gonna find a nice man,
Make sure you’re pretty, and stuff.
You’ll be living the life,
Like Barbie and Ken!
Come on,
Suck it up, and forget this nonsense!”
But what if she’s Ken not Barbie?
HE shouldn’t have to say “sorry.”
“Tell me, do you even listen
To all the dumb shit she’s slipping?”
We can be who we want to!
So don’t say we’re “Not supposed to”
So if he is Ken not Barbie,
He doesn’t have to say “sorry”
No, not to you.
Not to me.
Not to anyone,
Anyone,
Anyone,
Not to you.
Not to me.
Not to anyone,
Anyone,
Anyone~
![kate gill - barbie&ken [Official Lyric Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/K-JVYp-6BQI/mqdefault.jpg)
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Hello, I am the voice of this cover! All credit goes to Kate Gill. I’m glad you all love it so much.🤍🍪🏳️🌈
your voice is amazing! this is great, good job. have a great day/night!
Honestly I thought of this- I also thought of MtF-
You have a very pretty voice
good job!!!youre really good at singing
Beautiful voice!
I’m trans and this song makes me cry because my parents can’t just understand that I’m uncomfortable being referred to as she/her and my dead name lol
I get that, stay strong though!!
Same
That sucks man :/
thats 100% relatable my dude
(i know it's late) I can relate so much! I'm gender queer and my parents never use the right pronouns and call me nicknames I don't like and that kinda stuff.
As a trans guy I say that's the most perfect music in this world
I agree -trans guy
yash
I also have to agree- yet another trans guy 🏳️⚧️
Hey,i support y'all! I'm pan!
I agree- genderfluind girl-
Hate or transphobia = blocked from channel
My transgender sister and I both agree with you
YES DIS PERSON DIS PERSON RIGHT HERE SMART SMART AS HELL. (but then there is me just laughing at pepole who hate cause they only doing it for attention)
You, You are a wonderful person
I dont hate trans or anything because They are humans too and we shouldn't hate them since there different (they also includes me im bi im not trans but i support it anyways)
Yasss slayy
I’m trans guy, this song warms me up, I also get bullied, and my name is toby or Ben..
Hi Toby/Ben! I want you to know I’m always here to talk to if you need help 🙂
@@angryaardvark4941 okay! Tysm!,
@@DFwRocket no problem
@@bonkkus and how r things going tomm/tommy/jacob?
Hi!! I'm artemis
It is nice to meet you all
Being referred to as “she” or “her” feels like cold water on my back. They/them feels like wet socks but he/him is like taking a bite of my favorite food when the temperature is just right and all the world feels like I belong.
I agree
nice definition
I hate when people are like "but they/them is gender neutral" and insist on only calling me that, well, woop-dee-,fucking-doo, I'm not a gender neutral person. I am a man, so stop calling me they/them after I've told you my pronouns are he/him
This. This is it. I normallt can’t describe it, but this is *exactly* what it feels like. Thank you for this description
I have to deal with my dad misgendering me all the time because he can't understand I'm trans and my anxiety holds me back from gaining the confidence to talk back about how my pronouns are he/him, not she/her. My mom's understanding and trying, but my dad doesn't bother like I'm magically gonna just gonna wake up wanting to be a girl but I'm not. I'm just not comfortable as a girl, it's not who I am.
In fact, for the longest time *_I_* was the one trying to make *_myself_* believe that it was nothing that these feelings would go away. I forced myself to wear skirts and due to acting classes managed to act like I was fine with it but I wasn't, it didn't feel right.
And then I started experimenting with pronouns after my friends suggested it to me and now I'm out as trans to my parents( *not out of state family yet hell no not mentally ready for that yet* ) but my dad isn't respecting that, he dead names me and everything and like- he KNOWS my preferred name and pronouns, he KNOWS. Yet he still doesn't call me those.
I'm so uncomfortable at home cause I constantly feel judged for being myself from my own father
Bonus:
FOR TRANS PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T GOTTEN SURGERY AND ARE LOOKING FOR PART TIME JOBS OH WOW DO I HAVE GOOD NEWS FOR YOU!
Starbucks has a transgender employment insurance plan, where if transgender and working under Starbucks, they will cover the cost for gender reassignment surgery! Which can help you considering how stupidly expensive it is!
I'm planning to work there myself if the interview goes well.
EDIT: Just fixed a typo TwT
1, you are who you say you are and never ever listen to theta other people say to you. Youre perfect how you are!
2, ty for the bonus, that is so awesome!! I’m definitely gonna work there someday.
dont worrie my dad is like your's he wont shut up about me wanting to be boy, and i hate it every day this happens, he brings it up and doesnt forget about it, my mum does not under stand, she's getting me a therpist, they both wont me to change my mind, but im not going to, i wanna be Dusty not Zoe, their not in charge of my decisions and i HATE being Zoe She/Her, im so uncomfortable about my body, and i wanna change it, so, I'm Trans, and i hate my parents for they do every day to me.
their not in charge of my decisions and i HATE being Zoe She/Her, im so uncomfortable about my body, and i wanna change it, so, I'm Trans, and i hate my parents for they do every day to me.
If only that employment plan was world wide ☹️
@@chuchu9966 Pretty sure it is since Starbucks is a private business actually, not owned by a government. And the owners of Starbucks partnered with a transgender company, World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) which is why they have transgender benefits. They're their own business. They can't deny transgender people the benefits they have for it because of that partnership. In fact, it was even Starbucks themselves who reached out to that company as they had a transgender employee who they worked hard to get him money to help with surgery because he was a good employee, no matter what his gender was. So they helped him out. He's now a happily living transgender male and I believe he's married now too but still I think works at starbucks
I’m trans ftm and this made me cry-
It reminds me that I’m not the only one having problems with non-accepting parents 🥲
You’re who you are and no one else. Stay you
@@angryaardvark4941 🥺❤️
that is me aswell my mother misgenders me and my dad didnt know (he died :(( btw) and my sister (she is bi) dosent suport me being trans tho.
@@milomikan8160 I’m so sorry to hear all this, but think about it this way okay? you’re gonna get out of this situation and you can be better then them!
Same my parents same don't understand me saying you tuning for 18 then you will be who you want
as a person who was born a female and wants to be a male but isn't accepted, this hits hard. It feels great to feel wanted in a small way. I am so glad someone made this❤
I don't know you, but I accept you for who you are! I'm trans too (Female to male).
My friend just came out as a trans male HIS new name is Jack and I couldn’t be happier for him!! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Tell Jack I said he is valid and worth everything!
@@angryaardvark4941 you got it!!
Tell Jack I am proud of him
Yay! Tell him i’m so happy for him!
i'm Jack too jaja and i came out as a trans six months ago, i'm proud of your friend :3
The dislike is from a Karen who doesn't accept FtMs/MtFs
Edit: thx for 27 Likes💚
I am currently still questioning if I'm trans and this made me cry sm. It hurts bcs if I am ok my family won't accept me. I love this cover, it's amazing
Same
same in ever way
sent this to my dad hopefully he supports me
why is coming out always so scary ;-;
how’d it go?
How'd it go?
Idk I’m so nervous to come out but how’d it go???
Fr its so scary
update?
[cries in parents who don't support him and make him look femenine as possible since he said he was trans]
(Badass english oop-)
The validation train has come to your stop!
You’re male. He. Him. His. Boy. Man.
Hey! As another trans male, I absolutely support you, and you are valid! So no matter what people say, you are who you are and nobody can change that!!❤️
[cries with you]
Can pls someone tell me that its not ok from my dads girlfriend, that she forced me to come out to the family of my dad.
That is terrible! I have been outed to my friend, and gladly she supported it but it’s terrible that people do this, hope you’re doing well
Damn that’s fucking rude!
Are you okay that sounds terrible
@SparkTail they are
@SparkTail 😊
i’m a demi boy, and finding this has me almost in tears- imma just save this real quick
I’m planning on singing this to parents tonight, I’m trying to prepare, but I’m really scared
Hi! Sorry I didn’t reply sooner, did you do it? How’d it go?
Good luck
@@angryaardvark4941 thank you, ot went fine, they accepted me and in like a week we're going to start treatment
@@lolad308 that’s awesome!
@@lolad308 that is amazing! Congrats
I want to come out to a server of 100+ people whom i take as family. Though, i also want to come out to my mother. But the thought of it keeps giving me anxiety, ever since my mother said "If you come out to me as trans, that's going to kill me!" Yes, she's transphobic. It's been a year os discovering and i cut my hair without her knowing. she's alright with it, but honestly...I want to wear less thigh jeans and a sweater, i'll probably ask my sister if she could send me some through online or so. Or when if i could come over to her over the summer. I'd like to spend time with her, and i want to feel more like myself too. She knows that im trans, i told her. She didn't know what to say, but she seems supportive and she's really kind and sweet.
I hope your mother learns to accept trans people. youll get through this.
@@angryaardvark4941 Yeah, i hope so. I got to know i'm kind of, agender. Although, i still hope she will.
I didn't come out to anyone in the server either, i left it and left the app for awhile. Also, thank you for the heart .w.
Thank you for this amazing cover. I recently came out to parents as trans and even though they don't understand, they did it a way that luckily didn't harm me as they still think if i get diagnosed then it's real but until then they are just confused how and why
I hope they can understand soon! Stay strong, you’ll get through it
@@angryaardvark4941 I hope so but for now they understand enough. I am happy as they love me and I accept myself as I am
@@mrlowface2678 I’m glad to hear that!
Thank you.
I love the " *_HE_* " Part so much!!
It's makes me happy, knowing your accepting of it and are using the right pronouns.
(Idk if you sang this or not-)
i believe this was sang by Dakota Skye on tiktok (please corrct me if im wrong)
@@ggonzales9665 Thank you
That one dislike is annoying me- (Im trans myself thats why it annoyings me ;w; )
I sent this to my friend and HE used it to come out to his parents. I'm so proud of him.
This gave me actual goosebumps
Ty 👁👄👁
this is a really nice video and song, as me being a ftm teen living in a transphobic household. it’s so funny how a song can give someone so much comfort... it’s an odd sensation but it’s very empowering. and if anyone is going through the same as i am and living in any sort of phobic household, just remember that one day everything will be better and you won’t have to be around those people anymore.
I needed this, my boy heart loves it
✨😁
I've been looking for something like this for so long, I actually cried.. thank you so much!! My parents have never understood me and they are always saying "You're only ten you can't decide that yet" but I cry every night in bed knowing that they can't understand me..
Well I get where they are coming from, 10 is pretty young. Maybe you should wait a few years and figure yourself out. I’m 13 and still figuring myself out! It takes a while buddy.
((Im not saying you aren’t trans.))
@@Mxshrxxmbxy i think ive heard people as young as 4 figure out that theyre trans (knowing they're not their birthgender that is)
@@schnuffelschnuffel141 Yes, I know. I’m just saying.
Hey everyone! Just coming to say you are loved and accepted by me no matter what! My name's Kaden but you can call me Kade! What's your name?
Edit: ahh so many people are commenting I will try to respond to everybody but don’t feel left out if I miss you
I'm Elijah :)
@@angstychaos_magicuser6669 Hi Elijah! I really like that name! Nice to meet ya!
hey! my name's charys, hope you're having a good day/night☺️
Hi my name is Tommy/Clingy but you can call me Toms, how are you Kade?
My name's Salem :)
I remember coming here a few months ago, still a female, and seeing all the supportive comments. Coming back now, after realizing I'm trans and seeing even more support, makes me really happy to be me 💕
I love that
first time i heard this version i thought i was a bisexual cis woman, the second time and most of the times after i thought i was a pansexual nonbinary who used all pronouns, now i am listening to this thinking i am a pansexual trans man and who knows what will change in the future. BE WHO YOU ARE!!! dont let anyone tell you youre not something, because you know yourself better than anyone else!!!!
i was looking for this and I thought I posted this on this account, but guess not lol
I'm a trans guy and this makes me so happy. Because I told my friends that I was trans and they still keep calling me a girl and I hate it when my parents say "this is our daughter" I go by Conner
Same problem bro literally only 4 of my friends respect me
@@Cheeseburger172 only 1 of my friends respect my pronouns
Hi Conner! You are who you say you are. You’re perfect how and who you are. Never change yourself ❤️
@@angryaardvark4941 thank you! You're a very accepting person!
This is my new favorite song. I am a closeted ftm trans and I am planning on coming out next week after my hair cut.
hi! how did it go?
update?
As a transgender boy, I really like this, I listen to this everyday.
Cried. Im crying. Thus made me get so happy. I'm singing this soon.
Literal goosebumps.
i showed my mom this even though i've already come out to her and she said, "well im still gonna refer to you as my first girl, you know i was so happy when i had you as a my first GIRL" lets just say im shaking rn trying not to cry
I really hope she comes to realize how much those things can hurt. Stay strong!
It's okay to cry... Also, your mom is stupid. You are a boy... If I read the comment right... Sorry if I didn't... She shouldn't call you a girl if your not comfortable with it... And if it's not true...
As a transmasc, this song really hits me hard. Well I was still closeted and in denial, I listened to the lesbian version religiously. Then, as I started coming out, I found myself wanted a version for FtM trans people. This makes me so happy.
I absolutely love this. Thank you. It gives me more confidence as a trans male❤️ I go by Oliver now, and when my lifelong best friend calls me Olive I almost cry sometimes- I’m just so happy to be who I am. I hope to get surgery, or something to make me appear more male soon💕❤️ :]
I’m gonna come out to my mother tonight, just saying, “Mom? I don’t feel female.” And I hope she’s accepting. I think she will be, because she always tells me “Hon, transgender people are just people who were born in the wrong body as the wrong gender. They’re just like us” and it almost makes me cry.
I have wanted something like this for so long! I don't even care if im not a boy or a girl. Im still trans
Thank you
this video is amazing, it really makes my trans self smile that i can be accepted on the internet, because my family is pretty religious and very very very very very *very* strict and i'm scared of telling.
one day a time ago i asked my mom if i can have boy clothes for my 13th birthday, and my big bro was in the same room as me. my mom mostly thought i was joking or something because she said yea in somehow a joke way, and my bro threated me to not wish for that.
like, what has the way someone dress with their gender?
even tho i'm trans ftm i still like skirts
i might come back here to tell how the coming out to my family went irl after years
I hope it goes well!!
im an nb trans guy, i love skirts too tho, theyre so comfy and flowy
being trans is really hard, but this made me feel..so much happier.
How does 1 minute of a song literally make me sob?? This makes me feel so seen, thank you for sharing this with everyone!!
I really want to come out but I'm way too scared because my dads side is really strict
Don't worry! I'm sure one day things will be better :)
@@fallengoat4896 thanks
@@fallengoat4896 I came out.I didn't go well.
@@ebony9684 hey, just know, everyone else is here for you. Im currently in the state of debating if i should come out to my parents too. I came out as bisexual and my mom was really shocked, soo im not looking foward to this one. My mom may be more supportive than my father, as my sister has a trans friend and my father making a weird face when she asked if she can come over. I also have a really homophobic grandmother, and I do not know if she is Transphobic too. I came out as Trans to only 3 of my friends, went well, but my family. Even my sister made a weird face when i hinted I am trans. But i want you to know,your not alone in this struggle. If you need anything, i'll most likely reply back. Just know, everyone here supports you no matter what.
@@chikinuggi4434 Thank you.I woke up and saw this hole paragraph.Hope you are well,I did ages ago come out to my mum as pan and she was OK with it but I didn't tell my dad.The only person I will come out to is my aunt because she is non binary and a lesbian(she's OK with my calling her aunt). Hope ever things good.
Im a closeted transman because my parents often make fun of the LGBTQIA+ community but this song made me burst out in absolute tears
I'm trans but my mom doesn't support, I really wanna tell her but she won't support me. Can u pls tell me what to do
You know... maybe your mom won't support you, but I will... I know what it's like because my mom doesn't support me... my friends are there for me and I'm thankful for them every day so I wanna be there for others... remember you're not alone... maybe your mom won't support you but I'm here and you are loved ❤❤❤
@@JapaneseCherryFrog Thanks. I'm grateful for the friends and people and my gf for supporting me... U r loved as well and anytime u wanna talk I'll be here for u no matter what. I just told my gf I'm trans and she's so happy for me and again thanks ❤❤❤
I would like to apply to be your new mother.
@@VanNessy97 Sure! :)
If she doesn't support you, you shouldn't care, she maybe did raise you, but if she doesn't love you the way you are, it was worthless. Be yourself no matter what others think, I'll always be there for you no matter what!!!
I always listen it when I am upsed , tnak u so much
no problem
IM NOT CRYING MY EYES ARE COSPLAYING WATERFALLS-
I’m 14 im trans masc, my high school is doing a Barbie themed homecoming dance, my moms making me wear a dress even though she knows I’m a boy. This video makes me really happy
i love how supportive and loving this comment section is
Omg I LOVE THIS
Thank you so much 😭♥️
As a trans male this made me feel like I coule do anything and everything. Thank you for this I was feeling rlly low bc so many ppl have been mis gendering me.
I'm trans, but I'm too coward to tell my parents :( Besides that I'm just an 11 year old girl I feel that it would punish me 8 years 😩✋
i konw how it fells im alserl 11 and trans
I’m not trans (though I am gender fluid) but I support transgender people so I find this really sweet :D
I've listened to this so many times, it has helped me feel like myself on so many occasions where I doubt, so thank you
this popped up on my feed. huge barbie fan since i was a little “girl” and have been rewatching some movies in prep for the one in july right after my top surgery. idk what universal vibes sent this my way but thanks c:
Thank you.... Peach smiled after seeing this..... He doesnt genuinely smile very much
I’m a trans guy and this is the best music possible for us
As a trans male, I am so happy to see this.
Reminders: Love yourself! Try as hard as you can. It gets better. Be safe!!
I'm crying after listening to this. Beautiful cover and amazing song!
this song is just amazing and made me feel so much better because im trans female to male and today i was told "if youre born a girl your gonna stay a girl" and my parents always call me she/her and "daughter" and also my dead name even tho i dont feel comfortable with it so this song made me cry because it makes me feel better
I legit started crying when I heard this 🥺 I can't even change my name to my real name on most things online cuz my dad will see it and lose his mind over it 😭 thank you so much 🥺
This brought me to tears, I am a transgender male and I have faced a lot of transphobia in my household. So this helped me alot
This reminds me about making a paragraph to someone calling everyone girly and how they went against a nonbinary persons boundaries and still did it after mentioning what it could do to a ftm person and continued to do it so I gave up on being polite 🙂💧
I’m a trans guy and this just made my day. I’ve been getting a lot of hate from everyone around me thank you so much for making my day. You earned a subscriber❤️
I'm trans FTM and my names ace and this song is my daily serotonin!!
I actually just heard the original song a few days ago. It's good, but it didn't really fit me since I'm trans. And then I saw this, and I was really happy when I did.
IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS! TYSM!!
Omg this gave me CHILLS😭❤
Thank you for all these Ken and Barrie songs you are a living angel
This is beautiful and is making me cry of happiness thank you for this, I really needed it❤️
Thank you for the message at the end, it really made my day. I have been thinking about telling my parents, but I know what they will think and both are homophobic.
Thank you! Someone had to post it! One of my cousins are trans and so am I! I love this song!
Love this I'm nonbinary FTM and I feel like this is something I can send to friends to help them understand who I am 💜💜💜
"He shouldn't have to say sorry"
DAMN RIGHT WE SHOULDN'T
Yeah! We shouldn't have to say sorry! We did nothing wrong! Being ourselves is not something to say sorry for!
Being trans this makes me feel so happy ❤❤❤
My entire family is trans/homophobic and when I told my mother I was trans she scolded me and basically called me disgusting..
If you’re trans, homo, or an ally, I respect y’all ✨✨✨ 👏🏼
As a trans guy this is really heartwarming and i always listen to it when im sad.
especially in this period where i came out to my (ex bc after her reaction my trust for her its so damn less)bff.. bc no matter how i correct her.. she stills misgender me
And i honestly dont want to unfriend her..i just want some respect for my pronouns..
(also my name is eren (not bc of the anime :3))💖
Well hi Eren! I hope your ex bff finds respect for you did they dont, you just need to cut them out of your life. Toxic people can and will find any way to weigh you down. Stay strong!
@@angryaardvark4941 tysm❤️
I'm not trans but I support Trans Rights! My IRL Friend uses They/Them Pronouns but their old phone broke before they could tell me, So They told me as soon as I went back In-Person last month and I'm making sure to not misgender them due to not wanting them to be uncomfortable-
im glad to hear you support it! always happy to see support here in the comment section
Also, if you slip up, don't make a huge deal out of it. Just say "sorry, they" and move on
this made my day because i'm ftm and i don't have really anyone the support me in my life expect a few
I’m a trans boy, and I appreciate this song. I still haven’t come out to anyone but my friends. I feel uncomfortable with my parents calling me she/her and calling me by my dead name.
i hope they respect it once you come out
@@angryaardvark4941 thank you :}
I really needed this song, today. Short, sweet and to the point. I’m done apologizing for who I am. Also ironic that Kenneth is one of my chosen name options. Still trying a few things out
I came out as trans to my mother a year ago, she hasn't been the best mom ever since I came out... She still calls me she instead of he and make me wear girly clothes which I like because I'm feminine but she always says I'm her perfect "daughter". Luckily my older sister and her transgender girlfriend are gonna adopt me 🙂
As a closeted FtM this song means so much thank you
I just found this and thank you so much
As a trans man I want to say this song represents myself
I don't think I'm trans, just a tomboy but this made me cry my eyes out. Ever since I had cut my hair short like a boy, everyone around me is just acting like such an ass about it. And my mom's friends are convincing her to think that I'm not normal, that I'm part of a bad side of society and my mom's kind of disappointed in me now I guess, haha wait till I come out as bi... she's going to be so disappointed-
This song comforts me at a very personal level 😔👊
some people will never accept you for who you are, but plenty of people will. I'm here whenever you need.
@@angryaardvark4941 thanks. for me that means a lot at times like this 😊
My best friend of seven and a half years came out a while ago of being a trans boy, and I'm so proud of him. His name's Lukas, and I think he needs to hear this (he has an unsupportive parent, while the other is)
FINALLY, I WANTED THIS SO BADLY TYYYY
Im not out to anyone in my life yet, I love watching these
i never thought i would ocme back to this..AND RELATE TO IT,like im not mad just suprised i forgot this exists
I love you platonically now. (Hope this doesn’t come out as weird- I just really liked the song and how amazing you sang it!)
This litterally made me tear up
Be who you want to be and don't listen to other people.
This literally gave me chills
I loved it!🙃🙃
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@@angryaardvark4941 That’s so cute 🙃
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@@angryaardvark4941 omlllll they are so cuteee
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IM SO HAPPY IM SO HAPPY!!!!!, FINALLY A TRANSGENDER ONE, IM CRYING IN CHILLS...
I’m actually still super confused about my gender and this song rly pulls on the heart strings, luv this vid sm ❤🏳️⚧️
I’ve listened to this song about 3 times now, it makes me feel loved and makes me feel like I belong. My parents are not so nice about LGBT stuff, and I have to hide my guy self everyday because I’m afraid to tell them I’m a guy. Please don’t let anyone bring you down my brothers, please stay strong! ❤❤
Nice song for me to come out to my friends and family. Don't worry, I'll put credits =)
I'm literally crying this is so beautiful ❤️ my parents don't accept me as trans they think I should be feminine and a girl again....
Thank you, I cried for the first time in two years
I'm a transmasc nonbinary kiddo (but he/they is ok with me), and this made me cry, like holy shit, thank you so much, so fucking much