we're fighting more, finding time for hobbies & hiring help (oh and are we pregnant?) | Q&A!!!

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  • čas přidán 15. 02. 2024
  • We've been feeling unsure about what to post so of course that means it's time for a Q&A!!
    We asked over on our instagram for you to send in your questions and today we're answering them (obviously because that's what a Q&A is...)
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Komentáře • 29

  • @carinen8119
    @carinen8119 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience with anxiety. How brave (and important) to get help!

  • @maggiemacha5552
    @maggiemacha5552 Před 5 měsíci

    It is always a pleasure ❤ Much love across the miles to you two and your beautiful family!

  • @RianShafer
    @RianShafer Před 5 měsíci +2

    Being together 24/7/365 isn't for everyone, its not always easy but it can work out just fine. You are both very aware of what the other needs & know when to step up or step back, then talk it out. My hubby & I have been together this way since date #3, we have our separate hobbies, groups we interact with online, etc. & give each other the space to just be. We were both medically retired when we met so that is another thing we work on, our health issues. My anxiety problems are there even in a 99% drama free home. We only have pets, our kids are grown, so I can't imagine adding babies to the mix but I feel secure we would also talk out anything around them as well. A good sense of humor is a must! I think you will always find answers to any issues too. People probably HOPE you are going to have another baby, you do not look like it. Sheesh.

  • @lynnelittlejohn7922
    @lynnelittlejohn7922 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Awesome vlog, I was begging to worry about you.
    Sending love and hugs
    Lynne U.K.
    Xx

  • @coasttocoast2011
    @coasttocoast2011 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I watched this video with this marriage counsellor (I think, she was some sort or relationship expert) and one thing she said that stuck with me was something like a relationship with absolutely no conflict is probably just as unhealthy as a relationship when all you do is fight because it means one person is probably always giving in

  • @themcsaras
    @themcsaras Před 4 měsíci

    Your book sounds awesome. We are at 28 weeks with our first baby (IVF conceived) and I would have LOVED to read your book when we were planning. I'd even love to read your book now! Also, our 8 month old Golden Retriever has been barking back at your doggo haha

  • @TehBuggy
    @TehBuggy Před 5 měsíci

    For some reason it never occurred to me to have childcare while you’re still at home. I only really think of it for when you’d need to go somewhere without the kids, but that’s a game-changer for when you need to get stuff done at home or just need to focus on a big task. I don’t know why I never thought of that before!

  • @EmilieGenevieve
    @EmilieGenevieve Před 5 měsíci +1

    I wish you would publish it! It would be super helpful for my partner and I to read more about before we dive into it. We’re currently on the wait list for services in Montreal.

  • @barbibaumgartner6229
    @barbibaumgartner6229 Před 5 měsíci

    Love your strawberry cardigan, where did you get it?

  • @erikdurling3402
    @erikdurling3402 Před 5 měsíci

    Congratulations

  • @xxsydneypopytxx
    @xxsydneypopytxx Před 2 měsíci

    My mom put me on a list for an elementary school not long before kindergarten. I ended up going to a different elementary school (I think the other one that had a wait list was the only one) and I didn't get accepted into the other school until 2nd or 3rd grade. I was too far into the other school to move lol

  • @J_Themborn
    @J_Themborn Před 5 měsíci

    3:34 Surprise Rosie! 🎉

  • @kengbrissy3074
    @kengbrissy3074 Před 5 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @EmilieGenevieve
    @EmilieGenevieve Před 5 měsíci

    Also has Allie tried to use loop earplugs to help with her situation??

  • @801LOVER
    @801LOVER Před 5 měsíci +1

    lol. It’s not your weight. You’re just such good moms. It would be fun to see you have more!!

  • @cantocant2346
    @cantocant2346 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Rosie knows she's needed at home. She can't be going on frivolous walks 😆

  • @mahliekbenjamin174
    @mahliekbenjamin174 Před 5 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @salina_paudel.
    @salina_paudel. Před 5 měsíci

    Love ❤❤

  • @salina_paudel.
    @salina_paudel. Před 5 měsíci

    Love❤

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 Před 5 měsíci

    💜💜

  • @sulagreen5792
    @sulagreen5792 Před 5 měsíci

    lol, I love how the dogs are referred to as "the girls".

  • @carinen8119
    @carinen8119 Před 5 měsíci

    Fun

  • @LarissaCAUCAIA
    @LarissaCAUCAIA Před 5 měsíci

    Oi

  • @honorcollins6962
    @honorcollins6962 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Omg please train your dogs

  • @roberthurt2199
    @roberthurt2199 Před 5 měsíci

    Do yaw want more kids?

  • @nconley4
    @nconley4 Před 5 měsíci +11

    It would be GREAT to hear from Allie WITHOUT Sam interrupting or talking over her!

    • @guffawgigglesgoof
      @guffawgigglesgoof Před 5 měsíci +5

      Aww I really like their dynamic! It feels very supportive 😊🌟

    • @nickg267
      @nickg267 Před 4 měsíci

      Why do you think Allie always has to place her hand over Sam’s mouth in videos? Lol

  • @veins2820
    @veins2820 Před 4 měsíci

    Post partum doula, baby sitters, cleaners, dog walkers and they still fight daily and are "anxious", lol. Lesbian relationships for ya