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  • No Hard Feelings (From The Motion Picture “May It Last: A Portrait of the Avett Brothers”)
    Available on the album True Sadness
    Download Here: republicrec.co/TrueSadness
    May It Last: A Portrait of the Avett Brothers
    Filmed with extensive access over the course of more than two years, May It Last: A Portrait of the Avett Brothers is an inside look at the North Carolina band, from their origins to a recent collaboration with legendary record producer Rick Rubin (Johnny Cash, Jay Z, Beastie Boys, Dixie Chicks, etc.) on the Grammy-nominated album True Sadness.
    Stream now on HBO
    Keep up with The Avett Brothers:
    www.theavettbrothers.com
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    / theavettbros
    / theavettbrothers
    Produced and directed by Judd Apatow & Michael Bonfiglio
    Music video by The Avett Brothers performing No Hard Feelings. © 2018 Republic Records, a Division of UMG Recordings, Inc. (American Recordings)
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Komentáře • 638

  • @DennisBoydstun
    @DennisBoydstun Před 3 měsíci +30

    This in my mind is a near perfect song. I have listened to, sung, and prayed this song 100s of times and even today makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up.

    • @cmac9248
      @cmac9248 Před 2 měsíci

      It’s incredible ✨🙏✨

  • @sharons5416
    @sharons5416 Před 11 měsíci +68

    I have listened to this song hundreds of times and each time I think of my perfect husband who died tragically five years ago. He had no enemies and everything about this song reminds me of him. My husband and i saw the Avett brothers before they wrote this song and loved them so much. I saw them again this summer in Oregon and they ended with this song and it was so powerful and perfect and touching beyond belief.

    • @wigidy12
      @wigidy12 Před 3 měsíci +2

      So sorry for your loss. He's up there hearing the best of these guys hopefully

    • @larissaintherain
      @larissaintherain Před 3 měsíci +1

      This is perhaps one of the most touching stories I've ever heard. Something tells me the universe gave this song to the avett brother to give to you.

  • @Mrpsblobsoflowendmung
    @Mrpsblobsoflowendmung Před 2 lety +527

    just heard Rick Rubin Talk about this with Lex Fridman , I had never heard it before and it brought me to tears , absolutely beautiful, one of the most honest performances I've ever heard. and watching him listen to it was magical. Stunning.

    • @mihutnm
      @mihutnm Před 2 lety +32

      I literally came to listen to this masterpiece now, while first hearing bits of it on the podcast. Mighty.

    • @noahtah1511
      @noahtah1511 Před 2 lety +28

      I came from there as well! Much love fellow podcast lovers

    • @PaulGreeneofficial
      @PaulGreeneofficial Před 2 lety +15

      Ya me too

    • @n8works
      @n8works Před 2 lety +38

      Same. 4:30am. No sleep. The world is insane. This song. Those guys. The first time I've cried in years.

    • @arthurstovell8057
      @arthurstovell8057 Před 2 lety +19

      Also came to this through Lex podcast having never heard it before. Absolutely hit my like a sledgehammer

  • @gilkozlowski6363
    @gilkozlowski6363 Před 9 měsíci +12

    Watched my wife pass away a year ago and then heard this song. I cry every time I hear it.

  • @MagicKomar
    @MagicKomar Před 2 lety +237

    People don't get this song. It's one of the best of our generation. Should have won a grammy.

    • @tawpaw6790
      @tawpaw6790 Před rokem +11

      Most good music doesn't get recognized at the grammys, luckily billy strings did

    • @EdgarFleming
      @EdgarFleming Před rokem +22

      I agree but no award needed… This is one of those songs we all wrote, they performed. Ancestors. this is the type of song you can’t hear until it finds you and at a much needed moment.

    • @tbaker1111
      @tbaker1111 Před rokem +14

      This is the one that makes “playlist of my life.” I have a No Hard Feelings Tattoo. I get it. I feel it.

    • @tbaker1111
      @tbaker1111 Před rokem +7

      @@EdgarFleming you spoke to my soul here. It’s all of us.

    • @elizesprott-kwa
      @elizesprott-kwa Před rokem +9

      0:52 I already ask my husband and sons to play this song at the funeral

  • @OfficialJ6Music
    @OfficialJ6Music Před 6 lety +614

    This song is one of the greatest ever written. Ever. Mark my words. Incredible.

    • @wwaldo2525
      @wwaldo2525 Před 6 lety +9

      Official -j6- Music it’s not debatable

    • @angelsonthemountain321
      @angelsonthemountain321 Před 5 lety +9

      If you live long enough, this can apply to several tunes. I’m not debating your point. For me it’s on that very, very short list, and I’ve lived a while.

    • @starfrances
      @starfrances Před 5 lety +18

      It is as pure and perfect as a song can get.

    • @brianrokowski8202
      @brianrokowski8202 Před 4 lety +8

      Agreed. Along with The Stable Song by Gregory Alan Isakov

    • @brianrokowski8202
      @brianrokowski8202 Před 4 lety

      And Homeward Bound by Paul Simon.. among a few others

  • @alexhusko
    @alexhusko Před 2 lety +81

    A song that was meant to eternally exist in the universe. One take.

    • @thejovihead
      @thejovihead Před rokem +2

      Theres a recent Bob Weir interview where he speaks on songs as if they have souls. As if they exists outside of our consciousness and they present themselves to a vessel to then be brought to the world. It's an interesting thing to ponder.

    • @alexhusko
      @alexhusko Před rokem

      @@thejovihead Thank you, I will look this up. I’m been a huge Dead fan since trading tapes in high school. Love it and thanks again

    • @wildwesternmedicine
      @wildwesternmedicine Před rokem +1

      ​@@thejoviheadIt's a concept that has been around for a very long time, and many people have spoken about or talked about it. I'm not saying that to downplay your recommendation, more to uplift the idea. I have been an artist/creator for my entire life and it's definitely the way I feel.

  • @mattl0987
    @mattl0987 Před 6 lety +274

    I am a better man, a better human for being able to walk earth the same time as the Avetts. This song is a gift to all mankind. Listen, learn, and grow.

    • @harrietttaft7499
      @harrietttaft7499 Před 2 lety +8

      Just heard it for the first time tonight - can’t stop listening to it - I’m on about my 20th go through right now 🙏♥️🙏

    • @kevinbrooks1104
      @kevinbrooks1104 Před 2 lety +4

      No hard feelings dude

    • @Bettina257
      @Bettina257 Před 2 lety +6

      My sister sent it to me and I am obsessed! The movie is awesome too!

    • @theresaowen9518
      @theresaowen9518 Před 2 lety +3

      One of my absolute favorite songs, ever! I can’t stop listening to it.🌹❤️🤗

    • @Hands2HealNow
      @Hands2HealNow Před 2 lety +2

      And so are all who hear everyone humming along with you.

  • @ShawnMagarahan
    @ShawnMagarahan Před 5 měsíci +17

    My Papaw was a talker, straight outta Jawja (rural Georgia) and for as long as I can remember no matter what the subject was, our conversations on his back porch always turned to mortality and The End. He did not fear it. He did not speak of it as a thing he knew would “happen” to him. He spoke of Death as a relationship he’d held dearly for a very long time and would one day have to face with honesty and acceptance….and no hard feelings. He found beauty in his surroundings - in the rain, in the birds chirping, and in the difficult times he’d survived… and he made sure to describe that beauty to anyone who would listen. Every single day I am so grateful I listened. He passed away during the pandemic when I was 38 years old, and although I feel like I die a thousand deaths in my heart when hearing this song, it encapsulates every word he ever said to me about that beauty and peace he knew, expected, and accepted. I am so grateful for this.

    • @Browneyesgoodvibes
      @Browneyesgoodvibes Před 3 měsíci +2

      Now I’m listening to this song, thinking about your Papaw and the beauty of nature and crying 🩵 thank you for sharing this story

    • @j3mendez11
      @j3mendez11 Před 17 dny

      Thanks for sharing. That’s an incredible post. Much love coming from Vegas.

  • @shannabentley6886
    @shannabentley6886 Před rokem +72

    I will play this until my body won't hold me anymore and cry like a baby every time, it touches my soul like nothing else.

  • @willardjohnston2133
    @willardjohnston2133 Před rokem +19

    I’m 56, and hope to have many more years. But I’ve asked my adult kids to play this at my funeral. For any that have hurt me, I’ve hurt others. And but for grace, we would be the remnant of our errors or the remains of damaged spirits. But we are more. And we have eternity set in our hearts. And we’ve got love, to give and leave.

  • @sashabonnie987654
    @sashabonnie987654 Před 9 měsíci +26

    Oh. My. God. This is an INCREDIBLE song, arguably their masterpiece.

  • @jimcatalfamo8034
    @jimcatalfamo8034 Před 4 lety +87

    this is the Let It Be, Imagine, Stairway to Heaven to folk music. second only to Country Roads. the feelings of Where Have All the Flowers Gone. powerful as We Shall Overcome and as spiritual as Amazing Grace. truly one of the most beautiful songs i have ever heard.

  • @exalto1
    @exalto1 Před 2 lety +11

    Lex Fridman and Rick Rubin brought me here
    I’m grateful

  • @ellenbennett7544
    @ellenbennett7544 Před 2 dny +1

    . Last year I lost my husband. I just heard this song for the first time recently. I can’t stop playing it. I know my husband left this world with no hard feelings and no enemies. And that makes me so happy. On the other hand the song reminded me that I do have hard feelings about some people in my life and it’s time to face them, release them so that I too will be ready. I can’t thank these brothers enough for opening my eyes to the joy I know my guy is enjoying and also starting me on my own journey.

  • @alittletlc
    @alittletlc Před 2 lety +14

    I feel my Mama standing by my side listening to this song with me while I weep.
    When she left this Earth in February 2021
    She had no jealousy or no hard feelings.
    I miss her love so much.
    ❤️🥺😭🙏❤️

  • @msmsmsms4262
    @msmsmsms4262 Před 11 měsíci +16

    This is such a comforting song. One of the best songs ever written.

  • @jacmccracken8810
    @jacmccracken8810 Před 6 lety +380

    As sit here in the middle east I can't help remember hearing The Avett Brothers for the first time in 2006 when I was 13. The song was "Talk of Indolence" It was even on Myspace. Ever since that day, their music has been a huge part of my life. Their songs have always been a light to guide me through life, from my first love, losing some of my best friends to cancer and a car wreck, heartbreak, forgiveness, regret, loving my family and being a better person. I'm so thankful for their music. I can truly say their music made my life better.

    • @bwimby2
      @bwimby2 Před 6 lety +3

      Their all that for me as well, just got to see them for the first time in Albq. last week, Bucket list stuff/

    • @debblevins.4760
      @debblevins.4760 Před 5 lety +4

      Jac McCracken Blessings sent to you. Praying now.

    • @debblevins.4760
      @debblevins.4760 Před 5 lety +3

      Jac McCracken great for thinking for the greater good. That is what the world needs. Cause don't think it's not listening.

    • @johnhendrix696
      @johnhendrix696 Před 5 lety +2

      Yep

    • @johnhendrix696
      @johnhendrix696 Před 5 lety +4

      It is hard to say with truth,at 40 years young I have no enmeis,c ,icant, even spell emanees

  • @Juliejulez
    @Juliejulez Před 2 lety +43

    Thanks to Rick Rubin, I just listened to this 3 times. This is a masterpiece brought down from our Lord.

  • @jeaninequintiliano4292
    @jeaninequintiliano4292 Před rokem +46

    I've heard this song a few times before, but not until it was recently played at my youngest sister's funeral service did it really overwhelm me. It's sad and beautiful at the same time, and listen to it more, while crying all through it. Maybe someday I can hear it without the tears. Miss you Susie Q.

    • @GCAT-zv9in
      @GCAT-zv9in Před rokem +1

      @Bryant Benson you are a good guy.

    • @marinaturmo9401
      @marinaturmo9401 Před rokem +1

      Sending you strength! ❤

    • @batman48195
      @batman48195 Před rokem +1

      I’m sorry for your loss 😢. Eternal rest grant unto her Oh Lord and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace.

    • @ABCpdc
      @ABCpdc Před rokem +1

  • @Observer285
    @Observer285 Před rokem +3

    I think I could listen to this everyday.

  • @patricksullivan5717
    @patricksullivan5717 Před rokem +10

    Played if at my brothers funeral. Not a dry eye there. The Avetts, did this song for me. To say Goodbye too my bro!💝

  • @scribe_samples2309
    @scribe_samples2309 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I walked with my brother thru his dying process and the taking of his last breath - this song is the closest thing I’ve heard to describing those days beginning with “the laying down of the rings on his fingers and keys to his house.” He truly died with no hard feelings, and it was beautiful to watch him “let free”. Thank you Avett’s for your singing the words of my heart.

  • @dannyteague5741
    @dannyteague5741 Před 3 lety +19

    My best friend of 31 years took his life last year. He was more of a brother to me than a friend. I knew he was troubled in his mind, but I never thought he would do what he did. I miss you John. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to go through. I dont believe I will wver feel truly happy ever again. RIP JOHN GOODWIN until I see you again. I love you brother.

    • @mendoza2489
      @mendoza2489 Před rokem +3

      It gets easier brother. I lost my best friend/brother 12.5.19. He decided life was too heavy and couldn’t bare it anymore… It’ll be 4 years this year but every year it gets easier. You’ll have moments where you want to call him up to share things that are happening in life and that’s a normal part of the healing process. I’ve found reminiscing about the good times with him and honestly just talking to him randomly helps a ton. Hope you’re finding resolve. All the best.

    • @danamcassell
      @danamcassell Před rokem +2

      I’m so sorry. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @HyperBlueZYZ
    @HyperBlueZYZ Před 6 lety +113

    Still stunned by this song and scene in the movie. Just doesn't get any more powerful than this. Chills every time. Learned it and tried to play/sing it for my girlfriend last night...didn't make it to the second verse before the lump in my throat and the tears in my eyes shut me down.
    Play this at my funeral. It's perfect.

    • @teresababer2368
      @teresababer2368 Před 2 lety +4

      I told my husband that this is my funeral song. PERFECTION❤️❤️

    • @HyperBlueZYZ
      @HyperBlueZYZ Před 2 lety +2

      @@teresababer2368 Amen.

    • @curtbaker3449
      @curtbaker3449 Před 2 lety +2

      For years, I have told my wife I wanted “It Will Shine When It Shines” played at my funeral…No longer, THIS is it!

    • @16sTrophy
      @16sTrophy Před 2 lety +2

      A dear friend of ours died 3 years ago, and this was his memorial song. Love you, big Ed.

  • @zjaypo
    @zjaypo Před 6 lety +220

    This song enters the realm of perfection to me. The emotion and passion from Seth is a privilege to both listen to and watch. The backup vocals and harmonizing are just as brilliant. The guitar, the string section...the all-around sound and feelings. Thank you for your art

    • @justinwilliams5803
      @justinwilliams5803 Před 4 lety +7

      Michael Henderson Yes, because we can only use symbols to describe our feelings anymore. Using words to describe how music makes us feel is valuable. Don’t be a dick.

    • @Zizzyyzz
      @Zizzyyzz Před 4 lety +4

      @@michaelhenderson5074 Kindly crawl back under from whatever rock you slithered out.

    • @RandomZero1979
      @RandomZero1979 Před 3 lety +2

      Agreed 100% and that Difiglia organ too! ♥️♥️♥️

    • @brendasizemore564
      @brendasizemore564 Před 2 lety +1

      I can also hear an organ briefly…..so beautiful I’ll!

    • @brendasizemore564
      @brendasizemore564 Před 2 lety

      @@michaelhenderson5074 that was ugly….why must people always be so negative*******

  • @asoref
    @asoref Před 10 měsíci +11

    We'd been somewhat estranged but my brother and I were able to be there when my mother died. We were able to forgive and just love while she took leave of her body throughout a few days. We would play this and put our hands on our mother and cry with all of it. Thank you Avett Brothers for this song.

    • @vickiehicks29
      @vickiehicks29 Před 8 měsíci +1

      I lost my Momma 1 year ago this month and it feels like a piece of me went with her. I went to church 5 Sundays in a roll for her and I cried the whole time. 1 of her wishes was to go to church. I feel like u don't have to go to a building to worship our fabulous God and Jesus. I want this played at my funeral, if I have one. That's why I bought the cd as soon as I watched their movie. It was awesome. Remember when u were a teenager and u would play a song u loved over and over? Well I could listen to this song many many times so thank you The Avett Brothers. I love a talented musical family. Ya gotta start them out young 🤍💯🌻🦋😎🌸🕊️👣👣

  • @valkkyre
    @valkkyre Před 6 lety +184

    One of the most beautiful songs ever written. The Avett Brothers are a music industry unto themselves. The melody, the lyrics, the depth in their songs is beyond words.

    • @Bravebeauty
      @Bravebeauty Před 6 lety +5

      I agree wholeheartedly!

    • @wwaldo2525
      @wwaldo2525 Před 6 lety +2

      Beauties

    • @wwaldo2525
      @wwaldo2525 Před 6 lety +1

      Beauties

    • @jimbowen8973
      @jimbowen8973 Před 5 lety +1

      Damn it....I wanted to make a comment on this video....but I couldn't have said it better than you already did. So I will just say....Ditto.

  • @kayking7614
    @kayking7614 Před 5 lety +4

    This was played at my son's service in an Atlanta park, Sept. 2018. He was 44 yrs old. This was the only request he had. Now I listen and weep. I hope one day, I can listen and smile.

    • @joyceweinberger1322
      @joyceweinberger1322 Před 4 lety

      I hope you can smile with beautiful memories now. Sorry abiut your loss 💔

  • @karenevans3843
    @karenevans3843 Před 6 lety +187

    Work in hospice, I have heard this many times. What a gift to know you have eased the journey, for many! Thanks

    • @livelyarts49
      @livelyarts49 Před 6 lety +7

      wow

    • @amazingginamus
      @amazingginamus Před 6 lety +4

      ❤💕

    • @montana1day
      @montana1day Před 6 lety +8

      Oh.... wow....... it is a beautiful gift. They’re good guys, too.

    • @wwaldo2525
      @wwaldo2525 Před 5 lety +3

      Crazy to think about but it’s so good

    • @lindsayobrienhead9821
      @lindsayobrienhead9821 Před 5 lety +17

      Sounds silly, but I lost my best friend (cat) of 15 years in March of 2018 and as we held him in our arms all day knowing the vet was coming to set him free, we listened to this with him over and over as he purred along to this song through his pain.. still brings tears to my eyes..

  • @monkeyboy1971
    @monkeyboy1971 Před 4 lety +8

    This song makes a weep hot tears. I think of the burdens I carry and what it would feel like to shed them. I think of my 85 year old mother, the burdens she has carried that I don't even know of, and the thought of waking up one morning to the realization of not having her anymore. So I weep. But then I hit repeat again and again. And weep again. Its brilliant.

  • @ethanterry3370
    @ethanterry3370 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Shout out to that drummer for holding that crisp perfection on the hi hats the entire time!

  • @bearcat579
    @bearcat579 Před 6 lety +29

    A song of which I don't think I will ever tire.

  • @brendanmarchand835
    @brendanmarchand835 Před 5 lety +20

    The way he smiles on the words "or run into the Savior true" is the embodiment of this song for me

    • @kyleerickson6445
      @kyleerickson6445 Před 4 lety +1

      It's kinda funny how christian people latch onto that part, as though it's anything more than just speculation about what comes after death.

    • @bethvalletta2277
      @bethvalletta2277 Před 4 lety +4

      Brendan Marchand the lyric is actually A savior true.

    • @TheVeek192
      @TheVeek192 Před rokem

      @@kyleerickson6445 So you're JUDGING someone's take on the song and assuming like an a@@hole that the person is a Christian. Man, get over yourself.

  • @frarfarf
    @frarfarf Před 3 lety +6

    If anyone is currently, or has ever been, grappling with mental health issues and suicidal ideation... this song really makes you think.

  • @y2day77
    @y2day77 Před 4 lety +9

    I lost my brothernlaw a week ago today, but I'm just now able to listen to this. I tried on Wednesday but only made it about 40 seconds n. It's so close to the heart all the time, much more so when u have lost someone close to you for the last 25 years. I have requested this played at my funeral, just to share it with everyone I know. The Brothers r lyrically, musically, and spiritually so intuned with one another, I truly want to thank them for sharing their art with the world. It is a honor to listen to it, as I think, music can be as close a human can get to perfection on earth. What it can do to others is so godlike. Truly, Thank you so much.....

    • @joyceweinberger1322
      @joyceweinberger1322 Před 4 lety +1

      Sorry about your loss. I hope this song brings you memories of love that you have for your BIL. It takes time..💙

  • @Steve-uv9kb
    @Steve-uv9kb Před 5 lety +55

    We just saw you guys at the Sonoma Harvest Musical Festival on 9/21/18 and as always you put on a magical emotional show which ended with this gem. As my girlfriend and I were soaking it in I noticed a man near the front rails, clearly moved to tears by this song and your performance and being embraced by his friends gently, lovingly and compassionately. He was clearly in pain and the catharsis the music was having on him was tangible from 50 yards away. And then I lost it myself. I cried too. In gratitude. In empathy And in total surrender to the power of what real meaningful music can do. Thank you to each of you in this amazing band. Your music means a lot to many of us.

    • @dawnsmith652
      @dawnsmith652 Před 4 lety +3

      It's said that when the last person who remembers you has died it's like you you never existed.immortality doesn't exist- but that isn't true, music like this is essential for the soul,it can lift you up,inspire,enrage,break your heart and/or help piece it back together again.more than once when I've been feeling low,I will listen to Jerry Garcia sing to me"when you hear my voice, come through the music,will you hold it near,as it were your own?" And his voice can sooth me, even though he's been gone from this world 25 years(!) He is still here, what he left behind is a gift and I can't imagine a world where no one has heard a dead song,or the avett brothers,Stevie wonder TTB, Neil Young, and so on.xoxo

    • @mikeking8206
      @mikeking8206 Před 2 lety +1

      I was also at Sonoma Harvest in 2018..and I also cried when they closed their magical set with this song..the setting, the vibe, the weather, everything was perfect that day. Cheers!

    • @steveg6035
      @steveg6035 Před 2 lety +2

      I've seen them a dozen or more times now over the years and that show still stands out. Like you said, everything was so beautiful and just right that day....

  • @kevinfalkenberg8996
    @kevinfalkenberg8996 Před rokem +12

    What a song. Best writing I've heard in a long while. The Avett Brothers have been sleepers for me. The odd gorgeous song popping up here and there and I'm like damn who is that. But this is next level.

    • @elchiponr1
      @elchiponr1 Před 10 měsíci

      Check out Jason Isbell for great written songs

  • @hyperbolicdude
    @hyperbolicdude Před 10 měsíci +3

    Masterpiece.

  • @jeremiahbayer7916
    @jeremiahbayer7916 Před rokem +4

    One of the best written and played songs in my lifetime

  • @greg_in_oz8429
    @greg_in_oz8429 Před rokem +4

    Just heard this amazing song for the first time in March 2023 and feel like I’ve loved it for decades … absolutely incredible, heartbreaking classic 😢

  • @Mexican_Marauder
    @Mexican_Marauder Před rokem +5

    During this documentary, he let everyone know he was going to be a father. It was beautiful and well done. It's a must-watch. This song is in the top 5 of the greatest songs ever written. Maybe top 3.

  • @CaraMills0106
    @CaraMills0106 Před rokem +5

    I cannot tell you the peace this song gives me....chilling.

  • @jbbales7331
    @jbbales7331 Před 5 lety +17

    I constantly hear this song in my head. Hope my departure is as this song feels, and my sentiments exactly!

  • @loribelle100
    @loribelle100 Před 3 lety +32

    Just saw May It Last for the first time late last Wednesday night, two years after it came out. By the time Seth got to the line "when my feet won't walk another mile", my throat was tight. By the end I was full-on weeping. Seeing the emotion on Seth's face as he stood, him trying to accept Rubin's excitement, my first thought was, "Man, give him a second to breathe through this!" Then Scott's comment about the "mining of a soul" was the most powerful, true thing. I felt Scott's frustration, understanding at the same time Seth's acceptance that the spirit of their music has to be separate from the commercialism, but how in that emotionally drained moment, they themselves couldn't immediately switch from one to the other. If they could, it wouldn't hold such Truth for all of us. Because it DOES hold Truth. It's clear from the comments here that my reaction was not unique. This touches people. This means something to us, as much as it does to them. And that has nothing to do with how many records are sold or which radio stations play this song.
    Only saw this film because a friend who has HBO was out of town, and I was feeding her cat. My a/c isn't working, and it was HOT that evening, so I sat at her house for a few hours, soaking up the coolness, watching TV. Happened on this scrolling through HBO's documentaries, since it never occurred to me that it would still be available on demand. Apatow did an incredible job showing who they are as human beings, not just as artists/musicians. But this scene knocked me out. I came home as soon as the show ended and shared this song on fb, saying that I wanted this to be the first song played at my funeral (followed by Amazing Grace, then ending with Murder In the City, which is also wonderful and never fails to give a smile).
    On Sunday, I was told it was time to go see my uncle, who has suffered from a lung disease for 2 years. Hadn't seen him in 9 months, because we were protecting him from Covid. But he'd stopped eating, so it wouldn't be long. I had been listening to this song on youtube and amazon for 4 days, and now it took on a weight that was far more immediate. Got to see my uncle on Tuesday, and considered sharing this with my aunt, but there were too many people around and it was too personal to do that in a crowd. Listened to this multiple times Tuesday night and Wednesday morning. Got the message that he died Wednesday afternoon, a week after hearing No Hard Feelings for the first time.
    It's been a painful, heartbreaking few days. But although I couldn't know it at the time, this song is like a gift that was given to me right when I was going to need it.
    I am grateful.

    • @gbrot001
      @gbrot001 Před 3 lety +4

      loribelle100 Can’t thank you enough for having the courage and eloquence to share this. Genuinely touching, impactful stuff. Music is one of the strongest forces in the universe, perhaps second only to love itself. ❤️

    • @mendoza2489
      @mendoza2489 Před 2 lety +3

      Beautiful

    • @TinusAirius
      @TinusAirius Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you. Heart touching and breaking beautiful share. Blessings to you.

    • @shannabentley6886
      @shannabentley6886 Před rokem +2

      Yes, all the feels and full circle for you, we are blessed to be in the world at this time with the Avett's.

  • @chrissmingler4966
    @chrissmingler4966 Před 6 lety +22

    The scene after they record this song is such a powerful moment

    • @Bravebeauty
      @Bravebeauty Před 6 lety +1

      Yes, that scene brought tears to my eyes. So does the song sung with such deep emotion.

  • @johndurrant9262
    @johndurrant9262 Před rokem +1

    This is more than a reflective deathbead song - it's an instruction book on how to live a good life. Heard it for the first time yesterday - on about the 20th play now.

  • @curtbaker3449
    @curtbaker3449 Před 2 lety +13

    Always moves me to tears every time I hear it…One of the most beautiful songs ever performed, and exactly how I imagine Seth lives his life!🎼❤️

  • @ledmfzeppelin
    @ledmfzeppelin Před 6 lety +61

    every hair on my body stands on end to listen to this...

  • @missvoc
    @missvoc Před 6 lety +86

    This song gets me every time! There's something special about the Avetts; true, great and good hearted guys. I have no enemies ❤️

    • @missvoc
      @missvoc Před 6 lety +2

      Albert Vista same here! The May It Last doc gave a bit of an insight into their childhood and growing up but like you said, would be amazing to hear from their parents! They are fantastic :)

    • @missvoc
      @missvoc Před 6 lety +1

      Albert Vista you can stream it on HBO. That’s the only way I know of at the moment but hopefully it’ll be put on amazon, Netflix etc or be put on DVD at some point 😊

  • @pclafferty1
    @pclafferty1 Před měsícem +1

    More than once, this song has found a fitting place in a sermon I've preached.

  • @ronsout
    @ronsout Před 9 měsíci +3

    My introduction to the Avett Brothers was the documentary that featured this recording. Man, I was, and still am, Blown Away every time I watch it. I cannot believe it didn’t win a Grammy.

  • @paullee4098
    @paullee4098 Před 5 lety +21

    Wonderful wonderful song. The greatest gift my dad gave to me when I was young was music. And even into his 60's he was still doing it. He text me saying he'd started listening to Avett Brothers and I should check them out. Fantastic band. My dad passed away recently and the lyrics to this are particularly poignant for me.

  • @danielmenzel7642
    @danielmenzel7642 Před 3 lety +12

    This song reminds me of my grandpa who passed away last summer, aged 90. Listening to it makes me feel both sad but also content knowing he's at peace now. Thank you for the beautiful lyrics and music. I love and miss you Opa, see you on the other side.

  • @johng92
    @johng92 Před 8 měsíci +1

    “When I lay down my fears, my hopes and my doubts, the rings on my fingers and the keys to my house, with no hard feelings” is quite possibly one of the most beautiful expressions of love I can even imagine.

  • @amydesjardins1
    @amydesjardins1 Před 4 měsíci +2

    My mother who is dying wants this played at her funeral.

  • @leahdickinson3813
    @leahdickinson3813 Před 5 lety +16

    They’ve been closing all their shows with this song, and every time I’m there and hear it, it hits me in the chest just like the first time. ❤️❤️

  • @jeffpilgrim446
    @jeffpilgrim446 Před 4 lety +26

    absolutely incredible song. the fact that this was performed live is a testament to everyone in the band being on the same page and believing in this song. One of my favorites of all time

  • @LadyDragonfly200
    @LadyDragonfly200 Před 11 měsíci +7

    It doesn't get any better than this! Every word in this song is soul wrenching! Thank you, Avett Brothers!

  • @justthinking526
    @justthinking526 Před 3 lety +4

    Watching this 2021 and it's perfect. My heart needs healing from all the loss. This is resting in the Arms of Peace. What a gift!

  • @yhuff4527
    @yhuff4527 Před 5 lety +33

    .... "or run into, my savior true, and shake hands laughing."
    Gives me chills everytime I hear it! So powerful. ❤

    • @steveb.2326
      @steveb.2326 Před rokem +1

      My favorite line in the song. Builds my faith everytime I hear it.

  • @sandrahoolahan9391
    @sandrahoolahan9391 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I want this song to play when my ashes are gone, like dust in the wind 😢💔🕊️🙏🏼

  • @davidmorin2731
    @davidmorin2731 Před 5 lety +16

    This song took on a special meaning to us after I nearly died from surgery complications and was in a coma. What an amazing ballad for the most sacred of journeys. ❤️

    • @hayleyb467
      @hayleyb467 Před 4 lety

      God loves you and so do I ♡

  • @reqwashere7370
    @reqwashere7370 Před 6 lety +91

    When my body won't hold me anymore
    And it finally lets me free
    Will I be ready?
    When my feet won't walk another mile?
    And my lips give their last kiss goodbye?
    Will my hands be steady when I lay down my fears, my hopes, and my doubts?
    The rings on my fingers, and the keys to my house
    With no hard feelings?
    When the sun hangs low in the west
    And the light in my chest won't be kept held at bay any longer
    When the jealousy fades away
    And it's ash and dust for cash and lust
    And it's just hallelujah
    And love in thoughts and love in the words
    Love in the songs they sing in the church
    And no hard feelings
    Lord knows they haven't done much good for anyone
    Kept me afraid and cold
    With so much to have and hold
    Mmm, hmm
    When my body won't hold me anymore
    And it finally lets me free
    Where will I go?
    Will the trade winds take me south through Georgia grain?
    Or tropical rain?
    Or snow from the heavens?
    Will I join with the ocean blue?
    Or run into a savior true?
    And shake hands laughing
    And walk through the night, straight to the light
    Holding the love I've known in my life
    And no hard feelings
    Lord knows they haven't done much good for anyone
    Kept me afraid and cold
    With so much to have and hold
    Under the curving sky
    I'm finally learning why
    It matters for me and you
    To say it and mean it too
    For life and it's loveliness
    And all of its ugliness
    Good as it's been to me
    I have no enemies
    I have no enemies
    I have no enemies
    I have no enemies

    • @Bravebeauty
      @Bravebeauty Před 6 lety +6

      Thank you, Kaleb for the lyrics which I have learned by heart, but want to share with others. Brilliant, deep, vulnerable, touching, heartwarming.

    • @alanmonteath8065
      @alanmonteath8065 Před 5 lety +2

      Avetts I would see them play @ the Soapbox Downtown Wilmington, NC-whenever they would come to my town to play a show at that venue when 'Carolina Jubillee' was out. That was one of my favorites. Emotionalism-Dandelions and Magpies- The Carpenter-IandLoveandYou. They are the fucking best group ever & I am happy and proud of them. I am honored to mention that before they became popular, Scott Yancy Avett & I stayed in contact-what a Blessed & wonderful man he is and one of the most talented visual artist I have ever seen. Not to mention His amazing talents with his skills in his incredible bands music. Alan Monteath

    • @sandra0749
      @sandra0749 Před 4 lety +2

      Thanks for taking the trouble of writing down the lyrics!!
      God bless you!!

  • @iamjarrettdean9358
    @iamjarrettdean9358 Před 4 lety +6

    Truly one of the GREATEST songs EVER written. Amazing.

  • @johnrupert32
    @johnrupert32 Před rokem +4

    This is a masterpiece without a doubt. What a better world this could be. This is an anthem

  • @JozieWales420
    @JozieWales420 Před 6 lety +5

    My good family has passed and the bad family is still bad, but this song makes me feel forgiveness, because in the end it doesn't matter. No hard feelings !

  • @BetterCallPaul_215
    @BetterCallPaul_215 Před 22 dny +1

    I have loved this song since the moment I heard it when it was first released. It was part of the inspiration for a eulogy I gave just yesterday at the funeral of a loved one who was taken from us very shockingly and tragically a little over a week ago. It is one of the most beautiful songs ever written and the words are an inspiration.

  • @mendoza2489
    @mendoza2489 Před 2 lety +7

    I've been working crazy hours this week on my business. Barely had any time to hang out with the fam. This song came on while I was listening to the lex Friedman podcast. When I heard the first line, it immediately brought me to tears. I had to stop what I was doing and I'm getting ready to head home and take the family out for some fun and make memories. Ya never know when it's gonna be your time to leave this earth so sometimes it's alright to stop and take a moment to focus on the things that matter in this life. Beautiful song.

  • @wwaldo2525
    @wwaldo2525 Před 5 lety +20

    I drove four hours to see this in a theater. So worth it

  • @warmfluffysocks1404
    @warmfluffysocks1404 Před 6 lety +66

    Funny, one has to go thru other venues, not actual regular radio stations, to find music like this. Props to Avert Brothers, they got their own touching beautiful style.

    • @gsquad-js1zp
      @gsquad-js1zp Před 5 lety +2

      We get them from time to time in Texas on our Country music stations. But I feel like this next album will take the Americana grammy in 2020 and then we will see where it goes from there!

    • @TheVeek192
      @TheVeek192 Před 2 lety

      There was music WAY before radio.

    • @ghostpiratelechuck2259
      @ghostpiratelechuck2259 Před 2 lety

      I very seldom listen to the radio. But many years ago I rented a car and didn’t have an aux cord. Turned on the radio, and heard Paranoia in Bflat Major. First thing I’d ever heard from them, and I’m still here.

  • @lizquandt
    @lizquandt Před 6 lety +48

    I've heard this song so many times, and the tears still flow freely ♥

    • @Bravebeauty
      @Bravebeauty Před 6 lety +4

      Tears still flow for me as well, such an emotional song, especially in my later years.

    • @christinepedersen9413
      @christinepedersen9413 Před 6 lety +2

      Couldn't agree more.

  • @1LargeVanillaShake
    @1LargeVanillaShake Před 9 měsíci +2

    This song is just so underrated. I think everybody thinks about this after your bulletproof stage. ❤

  • @richardcaul5787
    @richardcaul5787 Před 6 lety +21

    The loveliest, prettiest song I've heard in a long long time

  • @GuitarWithJamie
    @GuitarWithJamie Před 2 lety +3

    Lex and Rick brought me here ❤️

  • @AHinojosa
    @AHinojosa Před měsícem

    I listened this song in the Love’s Netflix series, and I just couldn’t remove from my head. Im Mexican and I love this song.

  • @ThePeterpak
    @ThePeterpak Před rokem +3

    I’m just thinking about Rick right now man like damn what’s going in his head in that moment witnessing that performance period but as a creator listening to that run on your tape? That’s a trip, the dudes a brilliant creator and it’s cool to watch it go down 🙏

  • @williamwillis1506
    @williamwillis1506 Před rokem +2

    This was one of the few song my grandmother could still hear clearly at the age of 106. She passed on September 23rd, and her funeral was October 1st. We played this song at her memorial service

  • @AuntBunny8
    @AuntBunny8 Před 6 lety +13

    One of the best written songs... Ever.

  • @wsjustice
    @wsjustice Před 3 lety +4

    What you don't see in this video is how emotionally drained Seth and Scott are afterwards. Everyone else is just kind of dumbfounded at the brilliance they just experienced. There's a quiet moment afterwards with the brothers outside where they reconcile the congratulations for what Scott said is "The mining the soul".

  • @jpkjnn6733
    @jpkjnn6733 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Such an unbelievably powerful song.

  • @kevinrolli7004
    @kevinrolli7004 Před 6 lety +9

    The Andy Griffith Show had a singing family call the Darlings (The Dillards). When Brisco Darling would suggest songs to sing his daughter would answer that song "makes me cry." Exactly how I feel about this song and the Avett Brothers!!!!

  • @bluesteel5688
    @bluesteel5688 Před 5 lety +18

    This is an absolute gem of a song...lyrics are truly inspired and a great performance right there....if these guys never write another song, they can still rest assured that this is one of best

  • @BeckyBerg81
    @BeckyBerg81 Před rokem +1

    A few years ago my cousin died of cancer at age 40. He choose this song to be played at his celebration of life. Not a dry eye in the place. It still makes me cry every time I listen. Beautiful song and so perfectly written.

  • @Tuber828
    @Tuber828 Před 2 lety +1

    I think of my father in law when I hear this song. Before his death, I told him not to be afraid. That he was going to a beautiful place. Every word in this song gives me a heart punch.

  • @scottlutz2311
    @scottlutz2311 Před 4 lety +22

    I pray that the last words on my lips as I take my last breath are words of forgiveness such as these. Such an inspired song. Could this be what some call the Holy Spirit? What else could it be? Doesn’t matter much what we call it, as Love is the final revelation, no matter what label we attach to it.😁

    • @NotAllButMost
      @NotAllButMost Před 2 lety

      I like to think it is the Holy Spirit. It’s that moment when you feel emotion physically and yet still feel joy if the emotion is painful

    • @QuanahParker17
      @QuanahParker17 Před 2 lety

      Amen brother!

    • @shannabentley6886
      @shannabentley6886 Před rokem

      Yes, you nailed it!

    • @scottlutz2311
      @scottlutz2311 Před rokem +1

      @@shannabentley6886 Thank you for listening .

    • @shannabentley6886
      @shannabentley6886 Před rokem

      @@scottlutz2311 are you kidding, its my honor to be able to absorb this inspiring music! Thank you.

  • @MarciLiroff
    @MarciLiroff Před rokem +3

    Love this so much. I was at an event where Judd Apatow was the speaker and he showed us this video in which he directed. GORGEOUS song.

  • @MaryRay-tt1ps
    @MaryRay-tt1ps Před rokem +2

    Love love this song!!

  • @tatevancleve1802
    @tatevancleve1802 Před 6 lety +43

    I can't believe there is even a single thumbs down on this song. I have to think these were accidental from a touch screen in someone's pocket while listening to the song. Otherwise those ppl are seriously lost with no humanity left. Seriously one of the best, most beautiful songs ever written.

    • @whelancommunications
      @whelancommunications Před rokem +1

      Any thumbs down is because they thought it was JP Sears singing and they dissapproved of his hair color change.

    • @TheVeek192
      @TheVeek192 Před rokem

      People don't have to like what you like. That's the way the world is built. And the fact that some people may not like this song is not an indication that they have bad taste. They flat out like different things. Move on.

  • @Thekick0324
    @Thekick0324 Před 5 lety +9

    I have asked for this to be played at my funeral...I LOVE it and it makes so much sense. Staying tuned to the Avett Brothers

  • @adamyoung1978
    @adamyoung1978 Před 3 lety +11

    I felt this song on a different level than anything I've experienced before ....thank you for this song its helped me

  • @trainedmoose
    @trainedmoose Před rokem +1

    I can’t listen to this without getting choked up, thinking of those I’ve lost and how I will be when I’m called to God.

  • @angeloagosto3035
    @angeloagosto3035 Před 25 dny +2

    An absolutely masterful piece of music. It becomes more important to me with each listen.

  • @elisejones1715
    @elisejones1715 Před 3 lety +5

    This is 1st song I heard The Avett Bros . I am hooked ! Wow !, Beautiful ! LOVE IT ! LISA

  • @taylse6581
    @taylse6581 Před 5 lety +5

    I honestly listen to this song everyday, and it was my most played song of the year on Spotify last year, I absolutely love it ❤️

  • @MsScottynz
    @MsScottynz Před rokem +1

    Stunning, just stunning 🎵 🎶 💕💔💙

  • @churchhymnsandpsalms
    @churchhymnsandpsalms Před 6 lety +24

    These guys are fantastic

  • @jadedoptimist6364
    @jadedoptimist6364 Před 3 lety +1

    April from Hacking the Headlines channel sent me. She said you are the only band she listens to. So many bands are too deep into the matrix and "illuminated"🔺 You play REAL music. Love it 💞

  • @mikeb4469
    @mikeb4469 Před 6 lety +5

    Quite possibly my favourite song from The Avett Brothers.

  • @JackMcClung
    @JackMcClung Před 6 lety +10

    They are just simply amazing. Every lyric written by these guys comes from their heart.