Mahdi Tidjani on Balancing Multiple Wives, Weak Muslim Men, Marriage Secrets and more...(EP.036)

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    0:00 Trailer
    0:58 A Short Message
    1:19 Who is Mahdi? Black Label and Upbringing
    25:50 Marriage at 16 Years Old, Women and Men Today
    43:18 Submissive Women
    53:07 P•rn Addictions
    1:12:09 Misogynist
    1:24:05 Violence in Homes
    1:28:59 QuickFire Questions
    Join Kazi Shafiqur Rahman as he speaks with controversial pro-polygamist Mahdi Tidjani. In this episode Mahdi opens up about his strong support for polygamy and why he believes men should be entitled to multiple wives. He outlines the reasons why Muslim men in the 21st century are weak and incapable of living up to the standards required to build a strong functioning society. Mahdi breaks down his secret formula for finding the perfect spouse. All that and more...🚀
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Komentáře • 362

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +14

    As a woman. The idea Mahdi has about women and women being clingy if you don’t show they u need them is very very odd. Women love to be loved and needed

    • @l__Dark__l
      @l__Dark__l Před měsícem +4

      Sister, if that was the case, no simp would be single. That is who he means when says clingy.

    • @notyourtypicalfarah7194
      @notyourtypicalfarah7194 Před měsícem

      ​@@l__Dark__l So bro, you don't know what you're talking about. Stop using the word simp, it doesn't fit here. Only mentally damaged women want an a-hole for a husband. This guy's way of life/marriage is toxic.

    • @senbonzakura842
      @senbonzakura842 Před měsícem +1

      There's a big big difference between needed and wanted.

    • @shadmani9687
      @shadmani9687 Před 23 dny +1

      Women don't know what they like. What you are saying is what most women say. Including women I know. But even with them Mahdi is right.

    • @andalusianstockmarket6284
      @andalusianstockmarket6284 Před 8 dny

      Womens words dont matter they are contrary to reality.

  • @zeeshaan5672
    @zeeshaan5672 Před 2 měsíci +26

    Mehdi trying so hard to be the next Andrew Tate it’s embarrassing, guys on about a club for Muslims on 6/7/8 figure income, when he ain’t even on a five figure income himself. Literally copy catting everything Tate says, and you fools fall for it!

    • @HoldOnaSec3
      @HoldOnaSec3 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Bro Tate is too Much this guy is similar warn ppl from ppl likes of Tates n Mahdi for Islamic knowledge even sociall knowledge, we have the our prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and the his great companions رضي الله عنه أجمعين subhanallah we do not need men like them to ruin our youth and infact influence our Muslim girls Allaah and his messenger are enough alhamdulillah.

    • @kingjulian7674
      @kingjulian7674 Před 2 měsíci +5

      you have a right to your opinion just the way i have. my opinion is - Mehdi and Rahman are a good influence to our ummah esp the new less masculine generation. At least they are pointing out the issues at hand and providing "Halal" solutions. Big up for them both !

    • @321Sapphire123
      @321Sapphire123 Před 2 měsíci

      Agreed@@HoldOnaSec3

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před měsícem

      @@kingjulian7674 facts

    • @anonymouse451
      @anonymouse451 Před měsícem

      Sorry but mahdis verbal communication and logic is nowhere near Tate . Tate is rated for a reason. This guy Mahdi is the sea scum foam. Useless and ugly to look at. His replied to all the questions are WEAK and confused

  • @buyop9441
    @buyop9441 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I am NOT a fan of MAHDI in any way, shape or form but he managed to come across well in parts on the interview which is actually rare for him.
    I’ve been itching to write a comment throughout this but thought it not worth it. However, as he’s talking about domestic abuse (NOT domestic violence), I feel it necessary to dispel some of the incorrect things he had said.
    Firstly, only people who have experience of dealing with/working with or are even victims of domestic abuse should speak publicly on such issues.
    Secondly, it is COMPLETELY wrong that as he said, “Men don’t tend to abuse with their tongues, verbally.” That, I’m sorry. is nonsense!
    All domestic abuse studies show that psychological abuse stands alongside ALL domestic abuse. A man can’t just come home, hit his wife, say nothing and continue in that pattern. No woman would tolerate that.
    Men’s verbal abuse is often on the form of gaslighting, manipulation, put downs, sometimes screaming and shouting etc. Male abusers do abuse verbally but not in the overt way a woman may do.
    Mahdi has to be really careful on this, lest he allow sisters to mistakenly stay in dangerous situations while telling themselves that men don’t abuse verbally so he can’t be an abuser.
    Some of the worse cases of domestic abuse involve men who have never placed a hand on their wives because the psychological abuse, manipulation and belittling etc., has the woman in a psychological headlock.

  • @berkamp9832
    @berkamp9832 Před 3 měsíci +29

    Good on the man, but im not that Woman hungry , one Wife will suffice.
    I've got alot more interesting things to do than to manage womens emotions for the rest of my life... I will happily look after one sister, our kids... then I can enjoy the rest of life playing Golf and reading in slience

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +4

      That’s a very good position!

    • @RB-on1bo
      @RB-on1bo Před 2 měsíci +9

      love that. May Allah grant me a man thinks like this

    • @321Sapphire123
      @321Sapphire123 Před 2 měsíci

      May Allah bless you. Ameen

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +12

    This mentality doesn’t sit well with mature Muslim men, mehdis mentality sits well with the confused youth who want control without having a strong Muslim persona.

    • @iwo2024
      @iwo2024 Před 13 dny

      This is not mehdis mentality but what Allah SWT has defined for Muslim men. A Muslim Man with multiple wives is the one with the strong persona not the monogamous man. What you're meant to say is this doesn't sit well with Muslim women and it's not suppose to.

  • @user-iz8dd1ql2k
    @user-iz8dd1ql2k Před 3 měsíci +7

    Mr Kazi God Bless You In Abundance, you are extremely inspirtational and seem extremely kind. Wishing you all the happiness and success. Your parents and family must be proud 🙏🏽💜

  • @BlacFireSan
    @BlacFireSan Před 2 měsíci +4

    Excellent episode. Definitely my favourite!!

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you what aspect did you like most.

    • @BlacFireSan
      @BlacFireSan Před 2 měsíci

      @@kazishafiqur I would say two things. The depth to your questioning and Mahdi’s character was hilarious but very informative.

  • @taj-sid
    @taj-sid Před 3 měsíci +18

    Shafiq bhai was on the edge of this seat with this one. Thanks to brother Mahdi for coming, always providing gems where he goes. May Allah protect them and bless them both.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +5

      This was a very difficult conversation for sure but I just wanted to see what Mehdi was about as I like to hear things from horses mouth.

    • @taj-sid
      @taj-sid Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@kazishafiqurYour podcast hosting ability is getting better and better with every episode. May Allah grant you success in this venture, bhaiya.

    • @roni_aust1594
      @roni_aust1594 Před 3 měsíci +3

      He not only does it himself he is pushing it on other men.
      IT IS NOT COMPLUSORY TO MARRY MORE THAN ONE WOMEN IN ISLAM.
      So stop bullying other men.

  • @siduk2636
    @siduk2636 Před 2 měsíci +6

    his description of the perfect woman is a weak woman. Its a sad interpretation that wouldn't fit our blessed prophets wifes such as Khadijah (r.a) or Aisha (r.a)
    Follow sunnah correctly and not with this twisted logic where you get a remixed version of understanding. Women have rights which should always be respected. Marriage is a important institution in Islam and we get married to have kids and bring them up in the best way possible, having multiple wives and kids sounds good but bringing them all up to be succesful in this life won't be easy at all

  • @drasifofficial
    @drasifofficial Před 3 měsíci +20

    This was a great discussion.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      What did you like the most about the episode?

    • @user-iz8dd1ql2k
      @user-iz8dd1ql2k Před 3 měsíci +1

      @drasifofficial God Bless You In Abundance, your parents and family must be proud of you, extremely well spoken, generous young man who is inspirational. Stay Happy 🙏🏽💜

  • @renatoc8377
    @renatoc8377 Před 2 měsíci +6

    "Do you think brothers are obsessed with this topic of polygamy?" Proceeds to ask 50 questions about multiple wives. Just to appease female audience. So transparent

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 2 měsíci +1

      And the question is?

    • @HoldOnaSec3
      @HoldOnaSec3 Před 2 měsíci +1

      The question is why on earth did you bring ths? Of person on🦶

    • @anonymouse451
      @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +1

      Looool everyone’s comments is anti Mahdi.

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +3

    Mahdi says it’s the current wife’s decision wether she stays or leaves. His approach to a wife is very cold and doesn’t leave room for intimate support or growth in a relationship which shows a lot about his upbringing. Like or lump it type of attitude. But that’s not how marriage should be approached. It’s not something so light. This guy needs to be careful

  • @EUU100
    @EUU100 Před 2 měsíci

    Very entertaining 😂 and also beneficial episode. May Allah bless you both. Ameen

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 2 měsíci

      Ameen

    • @HoldOnaSec3
      @HoldOnaSec3 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Pls don’t atleast take your Islamic knowledge from how him , a nonsense alhamdulillah ℹ havnt listened in too many minutes I’m off you guys are out of this world sorry infact thier are so many ignorant ppl out thier you want to get the ppl like me that point the finger he’s a ? ? But “you guys like him.! Allah guide us all

  • @inayatkalam6672
    @inayatkalam6672 Před 2 měsíci

    Had some laugh out moments in this podcast. Very entertaining, he’s delivery with your innocence in some of the topics actually made some parts funny , wife was wondering why I was laughing so loud

  • @123sumom
    @123sumom Před 3 měsíci +1

    Amazing enjoyed it ❤

  • @2ru2pacFan
    @2ru2pacFan Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this interview! This is amazing and I love Mahdi and his outlook on everything.

  • @mra4435
    @mra4435 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Allahuma barek, great guest and good podcast.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      Thanks for listening and kindly share.

  • @miladmiah
    @miladmiah Před 2 měsíci

    ❤loved and enjoyed this discussion..

  • @ABM202
    @ABM202 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Assalamu alaikum

  • @IONS-LEGACY
    @IONS-LEGACY Před 3 měsíci +1

    When is the barber H podcast coming out?

  • @laughteralways4717
    @laughteralways4717 Před 2 měsíci +8

    ‘Selfish’ is self explanatory what else can it mean BRUH
    Some people are overconfident with storytelling and using words that are easy on the ‘ears’ fooling is second nature to them!

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 2 měsíci +3

      Give us an example of what he is fooling around with so we can be careful.

    • @laughteralways4717
      @laughteralways4717 Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@kazishafiqurmeaning story tellers tell people what they want to hear hope that makes sense hence fool with style, confidence, body language etc the old saying ‘never kid a kidder’

    • @anonymouse451
      @anonymouse451 Před měsícem

      @@laughteralways4717so true

  • @alittlecubsbyte6059
    @alittlecubsbyte6059 Před 2 měsíci +9

    This guy Mahdi sounds like a narcissistic. He said he married anyway regardless of his 1st wife because he has to do what he needs to do for his own sexual desires. Nothing to do with pleasing god. Infact islamic reason for taking more than 1 wife doesn't exist in this mans theory except he saw his culture and dad do it and so its ok. He got triggered when Kazi used the word cheating because it kind of is cheating. Every married woman and man will have non married people have a admirer doesn't mean they need action. Mahdi is so proudly saying how woman come to him which is not suprising for every married men on this planet doesn't mean they all need to follow through with it behind wife or openly. It is cheating. Period.

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před 2 měsíci +1

      The main point of marriage in islam is to protect the private part so what he did was right nothing narcasistic about it

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad Před 2 měsíci +1

      Nothing wrong about that..prophet Muhammad ebcoraged young me to marry to save themselves from zina... that us what marriage is for

    • @alittlecubsbyte6059
      @alittlecubsbyte6059 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @suhaibsuhaib5947 he literally said he needed to do what he needs to do he didn't even mention religion. Narcissistic people care about them self care about themself. So yes, deffo narcissistic. Same guy who left his wife to give birth and did not want to be present. Yeah, what an example.

    • @alittlecubsbyte6059
      @alittlecubsbyte6059 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @taimurahmad agree with you. Just this man is not following the islamic teachings. His not a good example at all, period.

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před 2 měsíci

      @@alittlecubsbyte6059 what needs to be done needs to be done btw being at birth is a new thing🤣

  • @sammysam2429
    @sammysam2429 Před 2 měsíci +6

    This guy…. So cringe. Every time he expresses himself, always talk and sound like a womens nightmare. May Allah guide him and soften his heart, inshallah. And dont take advice from a multiple divorced man pls, thanks.

  • @michealterning9815
    @michealterning9815 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Wow he is so excited and speaks so eloquently I love his energy may Allah protect him ameen good podcast

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      Appreciate the kind words! I hope you’ll continue watching our future episodes

  • @Afia6098
    @Afia6098 Před 16 dny +1

    The natural fitra of women why it is being described by men. There are already too many broken muslim families, where the man are going for second marriage, and the young children from first marriage are now living without father. So muslim men now really have to make a choice if they want to full fill their sexual needs or they want to provide a safe and healthy place to their children

  • @UmarOlawstel
    @UmarOlawstel Před 2 dny

    The better way to apply some of this knowledge of how relationships are navigated is when you don't disclose them. Remain mysterious, the effectiveness goes down when it's known that you're applying them. But Mahdi is like one of the people spreading it so... going down for it i guess.

  • @abdul-hafizabdullah8087
    @abdul-hafizabdullah8087 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Brother Mahdi made a slight error when he spoke about gentiles 14:07 and inadvertently said non-Muslims should’ve said non-Jews. Oh well slip of the tongue eh😅

  • @sadiakhann1861
    @sadiakhann1861 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Why do people give this guy a platform

    • @justanavanoobz4867
      @justanavanoobz4867 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Lets be honest. The only reason you have a problem with this guy is that he speaks about polygamy.

    • @CamelJockey562
      @CamelJockey562 Před měsícem +1

      because people like you watch him and comment on his videos

    • @sadiakhann1861
      @sadiakhann1861 Před měsícem

      @@justanavanoobz4867Love the assumption. 👏🏽

    • @sadiakhann1861
      @sadiakhann1861 Před měsícem

      @@CamelJockey562People like us, because here you are as well 🤗

    • @andalusianstockmarket6284
      @andalusianstockmarket6284 Před 8 dny

      Shut up with your irelevant opinion

  • @junayedkabir5667
    @junayedkabir5667 Před 3 měsíci +19

    Haven’t watched it yet but any pod with Mehdi will bang 💥

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +2

    The presenter seems like such a normal young man compared to this internet thug that is misleading the youth

  • @prhasn
    @prhasn Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent episode mashaAllah.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Which aspect did you like?

    • @prhasn
      @prhasn Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@kazishafiqur your courage to challenge your perspective by hearing others. I do not particularly agree with your views, and I side more with Mahdi, but I admire your courage to challenge your views.

    • @hopsie9983
      @hopsie9983 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes I also agree that you pushing back with direct follow up questions made it more intriguing to watch.

  • @faridak2194
    @faridak2194 Před 3 měsíci +10

    This guest is tooo scared of women who are richer , more intelligent and more noble.than him. Hence his need to control his women. Mahdi still has a lot to learn.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      I thought he was overconfident?

    • @Rosey-cj2nj
      @Rosey-cj2nj Před 3 měsíci

      @@kazishafiqur mahdi has low self esteem, hence need to control women.

  • @Kolly-Rahman
    @Kolly-Rahman Před 2 měsíci +2

    This guy can’t even provide for his wives, what a joke! He didn’t want to pay for two hotel rooms so they all slept in one room, hilarious, talks about high performing men in 6/7/8 figure yet he himself can’t afford a extra hotel room 😂😂

  • @Hehelol782
    @Hehelol782 Před 3 měsíci

    Assalam Walaikum.
    Please bring on brother Harris Irfan.

  • @ummsalahuddeen3626
    @ummsalahuddeen3626 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Its not fard that good men need to invest in polygamy. He needs a fatwah from.a scholar or qiyas to come to that analogy. Many good men struggle balancing their time with their wife, children, community, work and worship and if theyre not into marrying another woman then thats fine because to say its obligatory for him to persue polygamy is something we need to hear from the scholars rather than laymen opinion.
    He needs to consult the scholars before he throws his opinions around.
    At the same time polygamy is allowed in Islam but if a man does not wish to persue it, thats his choice.
    Some topics he mentioned on this interview were ok but he has some dodgy opinions about no string nikah, divorcee women etc. He has made lewd sick jokes about intimacy with divorced woman absolutely disgusting comments on his CZcams channel that really makes him someone that shouldn't be addressing the muslim men on polygamy. He needs to respect divorced women, he needs to stop generaliaing all women. He needs to return back to the Quran and Sunnah on the topic on divorced women topic.
    Interview was conducted well.
    Shame that people still go to him for marriage advice 😢

  • @MuslimHealthHacks
    @MuslimHealthHacks Před 3 měsíci +16

    Polygamy is allowed in Islam so I can’t debate that. However I feel that his approach is soo self centred and that he has a high sense of entitlement.
    The scholars of the past will say during the second marriage make sure you be extra kind to the first wife (give her gifts, tell her good words etc )just so the transition for her is easier. Whereas his approach is like here is the door if you don’t like me getting married again.
    I guess there will be a lot of bitter women and traumatised children if men start following Mahdi’s method of polygamy .

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Something I needed to ask him but due to time constraints I couldn’t.

    • @misschowmeiin8858
      @misschowmeiin8858 Před 3 měsíci +11

      I’m with you on this one, you worded it better than I could! His approach to polygamy is a little boy living his fantasy, he couldn’t care less about his wives, as he thinks he can just go on to the next one. His is taking advantage to the max of his rights as a husband, but he doesn’t seem to see the importance of women.

    • @HannaOne
      @HannaOne Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@misschowmeiin8858he doesn’t put them on a pedestal and that bothers you

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před 2 měsíci

      @@HannaOne facts

    • @WalidNaima
      @WalidNaima Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@misschowmeiin8858He literally mentioned to NOT treat it as a kid living in s fantasy when it comes to polygamy. You saying he doesn’t see the importance of women when hes living alongside / provisioning multiple loving families is just delusion on your part.

  • @jawwad1189
    @jawwad1189 Před 2 měsíci +1

    MashAllah good interview

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +1

    The comparisons of a man getting a second wife against a man marrying off his daughter is the stupidest logic ever. No wonder this guy doesn’t get any respect. He’s chatting out of his bum and you can tell he’s uncomfortable cos the presenter is against his ideologies

  • @kemchy3838
    @kemchy3838 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Bro. Mahdi gonna get Shafiq bhai in trouble with his Mrs😂

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Watch the full episode to see if he did.

  • @clarejones2421
    @clarejones2421 Před měsícem

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The banging sounds 😭

  • @UmarOlawstel
    @UmarOlawstel Před 2 dny

    InshaAllah the host is given knowledge and wisdom to not sound anti-polygyny(you reccomend one wife right? You reccomend one? You reccomend one?)because that is what seems to be the blindness that is creeping close to muslims.

  • @elizauksamad304
    @elizauksamad304 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Does he pay for his wife’s living or they living of government..most polygamy living of welfare homes and benefits and husband pay jack all..

  • @Rosey-cj2nj
    @Rosey-cj2nj Před 3 měsíci +2

    Black Label ( as in whiskey 😂), $15,000 per month and living in Luton 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @clarejones2421
    @clarejones2421 Před měsícem

    Guest recommendation: Mikhaael Mala

  • @Shaheer04
    @Shaheer04 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Shafiq bhai any plans on bringing Hamza Ahmed to the podcast I think it would be a banger. Btw MashaAllah great podcast

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +1

    Focusing on your Islam and having one righteous wife is enough

    • @l__Dark__l
      @l__Dark__l Před měsícem

      Not for any man. Average Abdullah sure.

  • @l__Dark__l
    @l__Dark__l Před měsícem

    Many may dislike this brother, but I love him for the sake of Allah as my brother in deen. He speaks bluntly and to the point, he doesn't sugarcoat it. Sadly Muslims to some degree have been programmed by the ideologies of the West and don't have the guts to handle tough words. In other words, they are weak. He has the right in Islam to get married to multiple women and has the means to do so. As for those who can't handle him, they can burst out in their own negativity. xD

  • @masnoonhussain7974
    @masnoonhussain7974 Před 2 měsíci +11

    I felt embarrassed listening to this - where does this confidence come from?! Tate I get it, mans rolling in a fresh lambo everyday. This brothers taking the central line and talking about “high performing” men 😂

    • @Ibrahim-fh6bn
      @Ibrahim-fh6bn Před 25 dny

      It's a bit sad that the only way you think a guy can be high performing is by having lots of money no?

  • @anjumanzunu
    @anjumanzunu Před 2 měsíci +2

    Yeah from the trailer I logged off.

    • @WalidNaima
      @WalidNaima Před 2 měsíci +1

      Imagine bring so triggered the you logged off after a trailer, get some help

  • @DrAdamAckerman
    @DrAdamAckerman Před 2 měsíci +5

    It's a bit cringe talking about having multuple wives under control at the expense of your 5 kids and their mother!!!! Probably someone else's kids too! Not worth it at all.

  • @Bounca90
    @Bounca90 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Akhi where on earth does it say in the quran or ahadeeth you can have 2 women in the same room and you can enjoy the experience. You can get married up to 4 wives depending on your capabilities meaning to support and provide for all 4 but not have them all together in one room and sleep together. That's crazy akhi.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Not only provide,but also equally cater to them emotionally

  • @meenay8052
    @meenay8052 Před 3 měsíci +8

    why would you have this guest ? he talks about women as if they are animals

  • @adampatel3132
    @adampatel3132 Před 2 měsíci +1

    We don't care about their man made laws we care about the Law that descended with jibraeel

  • @clarejones2421
    @clarejones2421 Před měsícem

    No Shafique wouldn’t marry his wife’s friend as he’s raised differently and his family was a blessed one

  • @aymenbenmansour2503
    @aymenbenmansour2503 Před 3 měsíci +30

    mehdi is insane no one could change his thinking.His confidence is very high May allah bless all of you and make you role models for the young people

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +5

      What was your take away from this episode?

    • @IONS-LEGACY
      @IONS-LEGACY Před 3 měsíci

      ​@kazishafiqur it was good

    • @MuslimHealthHacks
      @MuslimHealthHacks Před 2 měsíci +4

      I don’t know why you call him a role model 😢

    • @RB-on1bo
      @RB-on1bo Před 2 měsíci +6

      he is a bad role model and if the man i wish to marry likes him and looks up to him then the marriage aint happening. The prophet is THE role model... let me correct you there

    • @hn1695
      @hn1695 Před 2 měsíci

      Give me 1 reason why you think he is bad or what has he said that is so disliked? ​@@RB-on1bo

  • @1090shaz
    @1090shaz Před 3 měsíci +3

    Brother Kazi, you have become very good at this. The interview felt like a genuine conversation rather than the interviewer trying to get answers to his questions. Well done brother. Also, I hope your wife is happy with you because you did very well. We need more men like you. Now to Mehdi, he is growing on me 🫣 I like that he’s started a business to help men get married and teaching the basic needs. Too many men are spending way too much time on their game nowadays than having a basic conversation with their wives.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      I guess it’s a win win here alhamdulillah.

  • @ZubairGhanchi-wp2um
    @ZubairGhanchi-wp2um Před 2 měsíci

    Kazi what happened to air line bussiness

  • @UmarOlawstel
    @UmarOlawstel Před 2 dny

    1:18:29 doesn't deserve your money for that reason? AstaghfirAllah. May Allah give me wisdom and give Mahdi wisdom as well.

  • @hussainak8914
    @hussainak8914 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Nah I think the point of having separate beds in the same room with both wives is way off. I would love having multiple wives but it’s their Islamic right to be provided separate accommodation! In this case separate hotel rooms as Mahdi said one of them got jealous.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      Ok this is a very uncomfortable comment 🤣

    • @hussainak8914
      @hussainak8914 Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@kazishafiqurfor real bro it’s total chaos having both wives in the same room. Maybe if you’re visiting to say hi that’s okay but sleeping in the same room is not normal Akhi. The prophet pbuh provided separate houses for all his wives

  • @roni_aust1594
    @roni_aust1594 Před 3 měsíci +9

    He has got no feelings for those he calls wife. He is selfish doesn't think about anyone but himself.

    • @Hamjaz
      @Hamjaz Před 2 měsíci +6

      You cant be selfish of desiring to take a 2nd wife. Your comment is more selfish and childish...

    • @HannaOne
      @HannaOne Před 2 měsíci

      of course he loves his wife/ves

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před 2 měsíci +2

      So how selfish was the profhet?

    • @Hamjaz
      @Hamjaz Před 2 měsíci +1

      You pose such a question on the prophet? SubhanAllah. How many wives did the prophet have that's more of a relevant and logical question.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I don't like this guy one bit,but I wouldn't speak ill of him,so please refrain from speaking ill of him ,just don't say anything at all, May Allah bless yoi

  • @rosekay7090
    @rosekay7090 Před 2 měsíci

    May Allah bless and reward Brother Mahdi

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +1

    Mahdi is trying to cause problems in the presenters life because he knows the presenter is a good man with a good life MashaAllaah so he’s throwing a stone in so the presenter goes him and gets issues with his wife. It’s actuallt very evil

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +1

    And btw he’s embaressed that’s why he’s trying to persuade the presenter to get a second wife

  • @abdulf9198
    @abdulf9198 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Brother Mahdi Tidjani is very eloquent and convincing 😅

  • @roni_aust1594
    @roni_aust1594 Před 3 měsíci +2

    No not true, he said a woman needs a men. Because up untill now she needed her father, brother & now you.
    What about girls who had 5 sisters, no brothers. She hasn't been needing a brother, she was perfectly ok digging trenches & working around the farm with her sisters & father.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +1

      I am glad you mentioned your father. As I was reading I thought you didn’t need any one of them male kinds.

    • @SelfRuqyahCure
      @SelfRuqyahCure Před 2 měsíci

      @@kazishafiqur😂

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem +1

    Sorry this Mahdi guy is super insecure and weak. He doesn’t have the mental brain space to understand real feelings. And he’s misguide the youth away from having proper relationships.

  • @clarejones2421
    @clarejones2421 Před měsícem

    What happened to his “Nikah “ business?

  • @pearleunjoo5439
    @pearleunjoo5439 Před 25 dny

    01:15:51 - Mahdi is wrong here. He got it from the wrong source. The prophet was not allowed to divorce any of his wives, not even Sauda (R). Sauda just wanted her own time worshipping Allah so that's why she did that. Plz bro! Stop with this misinformation.

  • @ruhul969
    @ruhul969 Před měsícem

    If you look past the "brash ego" and the marmite appeal to Mahdi. You can't really argue with some of the things Mahdi says. In reference to his Black Label venture and Deen & Duniya I agree with his ethos.

  • @ayshia
    @ayshia Před měsícem +1

    Shameful. Polygamy is not an obligation and only considered under extreme circumstances. You make our religion look bad and the reason the West thinks that Muslim women are oppressed. This brother does not know the religion the way he claims he does. Allah created Adam and Hawwa not Adam and multiple wives. Polygamy is a cultural practice not a religious one. The prophet (saw) married for political reasons to strengthen the religion. Although he was an exceptional human being, he had issues with his wives and shows that it's difficult to deal with multiple women. He only married one virgin. What about how he was monogamous with Khadija for a long time. His other wives were widows or divorced. Just because you want to practice polygamy doesn't mean other men want that and you don't have a right to say that there's something wrong with men who are happy with one wife. Your life is yours, other people's lives are theirs. You talk like a narcissist and bully with no respect towards women the way Allah has decreed.

  • @KingEutony
    @KingEutony Před 2 měsíci

    Mahdi does to some extent have a very linear approach to life.

  • @UmarOlawstel
    @UmarOlawstel Před 2 dny

    1:13:33 AstaghfirAllah. That is flirting with kufr, i don't know if it is blatant kufr but... AstaghfirAllah. May Allah open their eyes to the danger of that.

  • @IbnSaifi
    @IbnSaifi Před 3 měsíci +5

    The minute he said his dad is from Algeria, the whole personality makes sense

    • @TextBookPuncher1
      @TextBookPuncher1 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Why are they all so backwards ?

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +12

      Is Islam backwards for putting a limit to polygamy?

    • @TheAbuFulaan
      @TheAbuFulaan Před 2 měsíci +2

      Elaborate please Akhi, what about his personality makes sense he’s from Algeria?

    • @alittlecubsbyte6059
      @alittlecubsbyte6059 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @kazishafiqur he didn't apply his reasonings for polygamy from islam rather said he grew up seeing it from his dad and culture. So, for him, openly cheating and taking more than 1 wife is a cultural thing, not islamic. Using islam to justify his actions is disgusting. The only time he mentioned islam/god was when he said god has allowed a man to marry more than once and never expanded what the Islamic reasonings is, which he clearly does not follow. No one should look up to him, really, very bad example.

    • @TheAbuFulaan
      @TheAbuFulaan Před 2 měsíci +12

      ⁠​⁠@@alittlecubsbyte6059You’ve just accused someone who took a second wife as cheating. Fear Allah.

  • @54lmaa91
    @54lmaa91 Před 3 měsíci +5

    So you brought a convicted domestic abuser onto your podcast and and him talk about violence in the home ironic

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 2 měsíci +2

      We didn’t know? Even if he did do something in past I think the question put him on the spot to say what he has to say now?

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yet not in jail🤔

  • @TrashMouse
    @TrashMouse Před 2 měsíci

    We know that dinner was 5pillars🙃

  • @BintGumby
    @BintGumby Před měsícem

    The porn afdiction is international problem not just in the west

  • @travellingyeti6333
    @travellingyeti6333 Před měsícem

    Time and time again, Mahdi refuses to mention who the scholar is that agrees with him and his viewpoints. Thats sketchy even from a shariah standpoint

  • @user-si3et2ig9x
    @user-si3et2ig9x Před 2 měsíci

    A podcast with brother mahdi, this should be good.

  • @RayOfHope8
    @RayOfHope8 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🤲🤲🤲

  • @goldiekhan7117
    @goldiekhan7117 Před 2 měsíci

    We need a few more Umar types in this modern Fitna dunya world

  • @yyc246
    @yyc246 Před měsícem

    He says I got a of Couple wife’s 😳ladies take notes. He left his wife’s coz they were dependent on him financially. So please sort out your careers before marrying .

  • @hodanabdulkadir9019
    @hodanabdulkadir9019 Před 3 měsíci

    Jazaka allaah qayr brothers kazi mehdi what amezing episode to be honest first time I encounter mehdi he wasn’t my favorite person at the beginning and subxaana allaah the brother changed a lot of perspective and his more religious now became my favorite man the whole world jazaka allaah qayr xabibi promote more in allaah scw’s way that’s alternate in this dunya anything else is extra jaza allaah and continue the hard work bro kazi jaza allaah qayr brought to us a good gusts always love

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you 🙏 please spread the episode.

    • @HoldOnaSec3
      @HoldOnaSec3 Před 2 měsíci

      Hey bro spell JazakhAllah khair especially Allah in this you are making big errors man yes I do spell mistakes or shorts I left out spelling spell so Wallahi not for Allah سبحانه وتعالى Allah guide us all , Im warning you against mehdiT don’t he’s a ? I won’t let our youth get destroyed under these foolish influences AlhamdulillAh yes foolishness.

    • @HoldOnaSec3
      @HoldOnaSec3 Před 2 měsíci

      @@kazishafiqur brother you need to challenge these ppl are bad-influencers that are taking our youth on wrong trajectory wallahu alam I’m not going to stand idol bro.
      Enough is enough I’ve got children I won’t like my kids or any Muslim decent kids any Muslim kids to listen to garbage by you not challenging these issues head to head go to battle hard talking points then you know so many things are controversial I’m just sayn . I say no more. Wasalamualikum

  • @jahanarakhan5662
    @jahanarakhan5662 Před 2 měsíci

    Very frustrating he ruined a good topic, polygamy is a great topic and should be discussed. But this should be discussed in a sincere way with clarity. Such a beautiful thing if you cant discuss this adequately dont do it. Leave it, or keep it short.

  • @53fczunb
    @53fczunb Před 3 měsíci +2

    You’re not poor. So please don’t put so many adverts in the video as it spoils it!!

  • @Peace6156
    @Peace6156 Před 3 měsíci +7

    May Allah bring more leaders like Mahdi who have knowledge and knows how to execute as per Qur'anic teachings. Good to hear this brother.

    • @misschowmeiin8858
      @misschowmeiin8858 Před 3 měsíci

      Don’t think so, I don’t think our prophet (PBUH) just married to fulfil needs, and then basically told his wives they can go the door is open, and he can go get his needs fulfilled elsewhere, that’s the kinda of crap this Tidjani executes.
      Yes he has probably a lot of Islamic knowledge, however his polygamy talk is just messed up. He basically just marries women for fun, doesn’t care about their feelings.
      Don’t need more “leaders” like him. There are enough selfish leaders around the world, we don’t need more.

  • @raheemopk
    @raheemopk Před 5 dny

    the host shows no sense of masculinity. sounded like a simp with some of his questions and answers to questions. quite upsetting to see what our men are becoming today smh

  • @clarejones2421
    @clarejones2421 Před měsícem

    “All the women in check “ 🙄

  • @iNikkah
    @iNikkah Před 3 měsíci +4

    It easy for us married women to pass judgment on sisters who need a male figure in their lives in an unconventional way, if it is halal to do a Misyar marriage, I would prefer the sisters to be in marriage than out

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +4

      If this is coming from a sister for other sisters than I guess I have nothing to say and wish all the best to my sisters.

    • @maryamkhan9938
      @maryamkhan9938 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Not every woman is in the same position to want a conventional marriage. I’m a carer to my mum and older brother for instance, and since two years a new mum, co-parenting with my estranged husband. If Misyar marriage is truly halal, then it would be ideal for me, and I wouldn’t feel so emotionally drained. So in line with what brother Mahdi is saying, I would forfeit my rights as a full time wife which is exhausting and encourage my husband to take a second wife.
      Except my husband is not of this school of thought having been raised in Bangladesh. Why is Misyar marriage not a known thing? If it is allowed in Islam?

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      One for Mehdi to answer. I am sure he will be reading the comments.

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před 2 měsíci

      True

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Před 2 měsíci

      ​​​@@kazishafiqurno it's just for her,she doesn't speak for us,not for me,and you can't just need a male figure in your life,you need a good one, that's like me eating a o
      Poisoned good because I am in need of food,

  • @clarejones2421
    @clarejones2421 Před měsícem

    Bro thinks he’s Hijab “shouting “

  • @fadiel-masri5362
    @fadiel-masri5362 Před 3 měsíci

    🫡

  • @Snippets635
    @Snippets635 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Knowing Mahdi even just by his online exposure, If he knew you consult your wife on future guests, he would absolutely lose his mind😂😂
    Have to say he has had these discussion topics so many times and this discussion by far was least combative but I get that the interviewer will have in-laws and such viewing so has to be mindful what they say and playing devils advocate could possible be perceived in the wrong way… this really does come down to culture and upbringing and he is the way he is due to seeing it as a child

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci

      I see you are instigating here 😂

    • @Snippets635
      @Snippets635 Před 3 měsíci

      @@kazishafiqur not really, I think most if in your shoes would’ve done the same which is totally understandable and acceptable… great job regardless 👍… look forward to hopefully seeing some political figures on soon i’A

  • @madilazam
    @madilazam Před 2 měsíci

    i feel kazi needs to really polish up his interview skills honestly - secondly do research on your guests and their views - and also up your knowledge islamically on these topics - lastly just because you would tremble at the conversation with your wife, doesnt mean everyone is the same nor abnormal - let be honest youd get second in an instance if your wife initiated it

  • @roni_aust1594
    @roni_aust1594 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wow wow wow.
    He said it keeps all of the woman in check.
    THAT DOES IT FOR ME.
    I knew it, no one can be that perfect, perfect, perfect. But he thinks he is. Ha ha ha what a pitty. It was going so far so good for him. True colours don't hide too far behind. It comes out even accidently from the mouth of the beholder.

  • @MrBrunicardi
    @MrBrunicardi Před 2 měsíci

    W Mahdi

  • @flexmail3039
    @flexmail3039 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Kazi needs to hop on the mahdi method legit 😂

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  Před 3 měsíci +4

      You’re alright mate. I’m good and happy with one! Alhamdulillah.

  • @purplelove3666
    @purplelove3666 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Does this guy live in england? And if he does ,does the government know about his second wife?

    • @l__Dark__l
      @l__Dark__l Před měsícem

      Did you not hear him? As far as the government is concerned he has 2 girlfriends. England is corrupt nation, you can have 100 girlfriends as long as you don't dare to marry two of them.

    • @andalusianstockmarket6284
      @andalusianstockmarket6284 Před 8 dny

      We dont know but what we do know tgat you are a disgustibg munafiq.

  • @JavedKhan-wi1js
    @JavedKhan-wi1js Před 3 měsíci +1

    Note- Cryptocurrency is Haram!

    • @expertfinisher6574
      @expertfinisher6574 Před měsícem

      There is difference in view of scholars regarding crypto. So one shouldn’t force his view to others. (In matters where there is genuine difference in view)

  • @ThinkFitMind
    @ThinkFitMind Před 2 měsíci +5

    So if a woman wants another husband then she doesnt love her husband but if a man wants another wife then he loves his wife ?? LOL this guy mad 😂

  • @321Sapphire123
    @321Sapphire123 Před 2 měsíci

    Assalamu alaikum brother, came across your channel randomly. You should delete this episode and not platform someone as diabolically heinous as this guy, he is a red-piller and only divides the community. Polygamy is sunnah but so is monogamy and this guy speaks without knowledge subhaanAllah. People should be warned away from this damaging, divisive, uneducated individual, not led to him by your channel or any others. May Allah guide you brother, and us all. Ameen

  • @anonymouse451
    @anonymouse451 Před měsícem

    He even brought up being westernised 😂😂😂😂but the presenter came at 11 so he got stopped in his tracks. What a plonkerrrrr