10 Things that FEEL GREAT to Declutter Today! Declutter Bootcamp Week 3

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  • čas přidán 7. 07. 2024
  • Here are 10 things you can get rid of today that feel SO GOOD to declutter. If you want to declutter without the overwhelm and anxiety, it starts with a mindset shift. These feel-good items will make you WANT to declutter, and that mindset shift can have long lasting results on your home.
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  • @juliacockroft8745
    @juliacockroft8745 Před 2 lety +592

    Tears are a sign of caring Cas. There is nothing wrong with caring. 💝

    • @suzysmith3776
      @suzysmith3776 Před 2 lety +5

      ♥️

    • @henriettelinkshanderin1449
      @henriettelinkshanderin1449 Před 2 lety +7

      I love seeing that someone cares. It gives me hope.

    • @RuthLang
      @RuthLang Před 2 lety +5

      I agree, and in case this makes you feel better, I was crying along with you.

    • @iheartastrology7877
      @iheartastrology7877 Před rokem +2

      I started crying at baby items lol (and continued pretty much straight through) who knew organizing videos could make you cry?

  • @stowie5790
    @stowie5790 Před 2 lety +233

    At the start of my decluttering journey I had given a shirt away to a local charity (that gives back to our community through their thrift shop sales of donated items). I remember the shirt so well because I had added a special button to the top of the shirt so it would lay right. About 3-4 months later, I saw a women at the grocery store wearing the shirt. I complimented her on the shirt (because it looked so much better on her then it ever did on me). She said “Thank you, I love it!” It made my day! Knowing someone got joy out of wearing something that would have otherwise stayed in my closet. Now when I am cleaning, decluttering or trying to decide if I need to keep something, I think of her and that shirt…it makes letting go of stuff so much easier.

    • @erint933
      @erint933 Před 2 lety +8

      That's so beautiful!❤👍

    • @karenjohannessen8987
      @karenjohannessen8987 Před 2 lety +6

      I needed to see your reply today, @Stowie!
      Very cool reminder.
      Blessings to you ~

    • @BeGoodtoYourselfbyMargo
      @BeGoodtoYourselfbyMargo Před 2 lety +5

      That’s an amazing story, thank you for sharing. Such a lovely mindset to have when we Declutter.

    • @AnimalFarm341
      @AnimalFarm341 Před 2 lety +2

      ❤️

    • @ayahuascaa9455
      @ayahuascaa9455 Před rokem +1

      💖💖💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @dorisnamaste
    @dorisnamaste Před 2 lety +117

    You have such a precious heart, Cas. "Decluttering is not taking away from you it's imagining the person who is going to get it.." Now that's a mindset we all need. Thank you Cas, I love you!

  • @Miss_Annlaug
    @Miss_Annlaug Před 2 lety +41

    This video reminds me how we have been told our whole lives " don't cry "don't be a baby" so many times that we feel shame for showing emotions. It's so toxic and we should all help each other break this down 💕

  • @chivaholmes682
    @chivaholmes682 Před 2 lety +464

    I so needed this, tears and all. Don't be embarrassed about the fact that you have a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing

    • @ktrudy1
      @ktrudy1 Před 2 lety +11

      My thoughts exactly. I love her more every vid I c.

    • @karawoods2588
      @karawoods2588 Před 2 lety +10

      Completely agree! Makes me love her more for her beautiful heart ❤️

    • @aliciau86
      @aliciau86 Před 2 lety +10

      Wow, you found the perfect words for this!

    • @cynthiameinhardt3315
      @cynthiameinhardt3315 Před 2 lety +3

      I agree that Cas has a beautiful soul.♥️

    • @kristacoker
      @kristacoker Před 2 lety +1

      You are so loved for the way you are please don’t change!

  • @22angd
    @22angd Před 2 lety +319

    Those tears are from compassion, empathy, passion and caring - nothing wrong with that. Thank you for sharing so openly!

  • @annezehring9006
    @annezehring9006 Před 2 lety +58

    This made me cry. 😭 Such a good way of looking at decluttering. I have been the woman at the Salvation Army who was so thankful for the clothes that I was able to get for my children for so much less than retail. ❤️ I like to think that my donations have blessed someone else as well.

  • @SmallhouseModelsLLC
    @SmallhouseModelsLLC Před 2 lety +74

    For me, the struggle with decluttering is that I want the item to go where it can do the most good. I HATE just dropping things off at Goodwill so that company can turn a profit. I love that you mentioned Women's shelters, daycares, homeless shelters, nursing homes, medical charities, and after school programs as options. I'd love to see more great places to send our stuff. That's truly my biggest hangup. Just like the mom with the baby's foot brace, I can easily and quickly part with my junk if I know it is going to the right place. Please give us more ideas!!

    • @maryogarvey1
      @maryogarvey1 Před 2 lety +9

      emergency rooms often have to cut off clothing and people need something to wear home sometimes.

    • @rocsiali4092
      @rocsiali4092 Před 2 lety +12

      Yes same! I even have seen thrift shops and shelters throw out perfectly good items (not just due to something like bedbugs) and so when i can hand over an item directly or closer to the new owner, it feels like a safer bet that the item won't be trashed soon...but it also triggers my hoarder mind to hold onto donation items longer.
      It has helped that i have been more selective and more aware about what charities/shelters/groups that i send items to.
      Don't give up! ❤❤❤

    • @girllittlemorbid
      @girllittlemorbid Před 2 lety +10

      A lot of people who need things go to Goodwill tho & when you find what you need it's like a miracle! :D

    • @AoKowen
      @AoKowen Před 2 lety +5

      I completely agree!! I love being able to 'gift' it, not sell it. ❤️

    • @margiejones1025
      @margiejones1025 Před 2 lety +9

      Remember that Goodwill and other thrift stores are most often set up to use the proceeds for job training programs or other charity programs. 💜

  • @kaleed.7678
    @kaleed.7678 Před 2 lety +251

    I'd like to add that jigsaw puzzles are great to donate to nursing homes/assisted living. Especially smaller ones (200-500 pieces) that aren't super hard. My grandma has been in assisted living 5 months and has already done every puzzle there that fits on her card table multiple times, plus we have bought several to try to give her something new. She doesn't know how to crochet or knit, but she loves puzzles.

    • @lj9610
      @lj9610 Před 2 lety +7

      This is a great idea!

    • @sinaain
      @sinaain Před 2 lety +6

      There is an Australian program where they bring together old people and 4 year olds and one of the old men really loves puzzles and connects with the 4 year olds trough them. Anyway your story reminded me of it czcams.com/video/SGoMXs8cEqM/video.html

    • @jenniferd264
      @jenniferd264 Před 2 lety +5

      As a Former Activity Director of an Assisted Living Center for Alzheimer’s I’ll shout out in Agreement here! Most of us work with very little budgets! And better yet, donate some time and stay to work those puzzles! I accepted beauty products, books, games and most needed was what Cas said CRAFT SUPPLIES! I’m tearing up typing this too! Many Residents never had a single visit from family. They were literally dropped off with little to nothing! So check with a local center and see what they could use to bring some love to these people in our society who are so often forgotten!

    • @gladysanderson1351
      @gladysanderson1351 Před 2 lety +2

      Word and number puzzle books are also popular.

  • @novocaine09
    @novocaine09 Před 2 lety +164

    When my mother-in-law passed suddenly in a crash, we found some unopened balls and baby items in the closet. We were not sure what they were for. We finally learned she liked to donate to a program that gave Christmas gifts to children who's parents are incarcerated (her crash was right before Christmas). So that's an idea that always stuck with me.

    • @kimberleyfrasquillo3684
      @kimberleyfrasquillo3684 Před 2 lety +15

      M M, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your M.I.L. Obviously, she had a big heart too, for others.💖💝

    • @novocaine09
      @novocaine09 Před 2 lety +16

      @@kimberleyfrasquillo3684 She really did! She embraced living with less and giving others more 🙂

    • @lindsayholroyd7477
      @lindsayholroyd7477 Před 2 lety +8

      So sorry for your loss & the loss of your Mother in law to the community, she sounded like a lovely caring woman💕 Especially helping a cause/people that maybe get overlooked in the community due to the actions of their loved ones/family members. X

    • @marilynndesilva7620
      @marilynndesilva7620 Před 2 lety +6

      Right before Christmas... must have been extra hard on your family. I hope you found comfort in knowing what a generous soul she was.

    • @sandysmom100
      @sandysmom100 Před 2 lety

      Wow !!Sorry about your loss !!

  • @suzy1676
    @suzy1676 Před 2 lety +28

    Never put yourself down while you are picking up so many! You are doing a great service by connecting those with more to others who have less. That's moving & and heart felt & the perfect time to cry.

  • @hippo1701
    @hippo1701 Před 2 lety +13

    I, too, was crying for the nursing home and medical equipment. Then when you started talking about your work with people who could not afford basic things like clothes and dishes.
    I am a crybaby, too.
    I think "crybabies" are what the world needs. People who are emotionally motivated to help others. Keep it up, and I will cry with you.

  • @CarrieVandever
    @CarrieVandever Před 2 lety +75

    This is exactly how I feel. After my husband died nearly 3 years ago, I went through his stuff (clothes, etc) and donated it all within months of his passing. So many of my friends were astonished, but all I could think of was that someone needs this and that all it was gonna do in my house was collect dust. We have volunteered for years at our local CF Storehouse (they give everything away for free) and I know that he would have wanted this. Granted I kept a few things my boys might want later but overall I emptied his side of the closet. Once you work with the homeless, needy, and the elderly your mind shifts to all the "help" this stuff can be. Don't feel too bad about crying. You made me cry with your story because I have those stories too.

    • @Clutterbug
      @Clutterbug  Před 2 lety +8

      Good for you!

    • @sweetlady6059
      @sweetlady6059 Před 2 lety +2

      I hope you remembered to check the pockets before donating. My dad is a guru of dumpster diving and came upon some books with total $70.00 in them. Purses with money in them and all kinds of things which are of value that people didn’t think were and tossed them into the garbage.
      I too went to put something in a donation pile when I thought to look inside and found a pair of earrings and realized that my aunt had given me the item and the earrings together but I had had the items in a box packed away for 6 yrs marked cleaning that ended up having kitchen items not intended to be donated or given away

    • @LindaOCNJ
      @LindaOCNJ Před 2 lety

      I felt the same way when my husband died. Getting rid of his clothes did not diminish my memories of him.

    • @annmariearmstrong2901
      @annmariearmstrong2901 Před 2 lety

      My husband and I would go through our closet once a year and get all the old sweatshirts and jackets and make up bags with personal care products, a warm shirt and power bars. After he died I just new he would want me to continue doing this. So I make up bags that I give to my church. I just tell them to say it's from Stan (my husband) I learned to ignore people's comments about how I disposed of his clothes

  • @christineprettyman2527
    @christineprettyman2527 Před 2 lety +88

    The elderly population NEEDS us. Thank you, thank you for bringing awareness. The little things can mean so much to those who have spent their lives giving to others.

  • @HeidiHeredia
    @HeidiHeredia Před rokem +7

    Cass, don't EVER feel embarrassed or ashamed of crying on camera. It's a sign of strength, compassion, and vulnerability. You have such a beautiful heart. Don't ever be afraid to show that. I think a lot of us that watch you can say that we love you more for being so real about how you feel. ❤️ Thank you for what you are constantly pouring into us when it comes to organization, encouragement, and even laughter. You're so wonderful to watch. I've always told my husband, if we met in real life, we'd probably be best friends. He agreed.😂

  • @elizabethsummermeado
    @elizabethsummermeado Před 2 lety +32

    I have worked in a nursing home for over 2 decades and THANK YOU for sharing about this! I wish more people knew the things you are talking about! I could write a book on this issue. Give anything you can to our elderly!!!❤ Thank you for your genuine heart!!

    • @iglika20
      @iglika20 Před 2 lety +3

      How do you go about doing that? Do you just cold call the nursing facilities in the area? Would whoever answers the phone be able to help answer questions or should you ask for someone in a particular position?

    • @christenmurray7823
      @christenmurray7823 Před rokem +2

      Usually they have someone called an activities director

  • @logarithmic7
    @logarithmic7 Před 2 lety +73

    City of Angels: Why do people cry? Seth: Maybe, maybe emotion becomes so intense your body just can't contain it. Your mind and your feelings become too powerful, and your soul weeps.

  • @nukhetozmen
    @nukhetozmen Před 2 lety +75

    Crying is not embarrassing, it’s an honest expression of feelings 🤗

  • @caleeola
    @caleeola Před 2 lety +22

    Thank you for this video ! God used you to speak truth in my life. I called our local nursing home and the day I called was the first day they officially had hired an activity director ! I talked with her and we worked up a list. Now there's a tote at my church and although its only been there for a little over a week, one lady shared that she has a lot of crochet items she's bringing to our box :) so excited to partner with our nursing home - maybe every few months to try and keep them stocked ! I also learned that they are happy to have churches sponsor a number of residents and the residents pick out a gift for their exchange friend out of what is there 😍😍😍 excited to get involved more. Thank you. God bless you.

  • @katiepresby9224
    @katiepresby9224 Před 2 lety +23

    We have a new "clothing pantry" in our town for homeless/needy people. I was surprised to find out they need more than just clothing. They take (clean) pillows, bedding, pillow cases (I had SO many extra pillow cases)....even a big beach towel. I was told they'd use it for a towel or even a blanket. I also found that a rolling suitcase is considered a real "score" -- some of the homeless get stopped and have their grocery cart taken away (maybe because it was possibly stolen). Also, they can't take a grocery cart inside with them at, say, a warming or cooling shelter...but they can roll a suitcase in. I was so glad to give up my spare one, and I found out when it was given to a homeless woman she exclaimed, "And it's so pretty!". It really does help to know we can help others and ourselves at the same time.

  • @RebeccaWife1Mom4
    @RebeccaWife1Mom4 Před 2 lety +88

    Best decluttering video... EVER! When you look at it that way; why wouldn't I give what we are not using? I cried too. It's ok, it makes us humans that care. 💛

  • @sharontesi4273
    @sharontesi4273 Před 2 lety +61

    When my husband passed away a year ago, I donated 26 suits (a few with tags on) and over 40 ties. For me it was therapeutic to know that people would benefit from those. BTW, I'm a person who cries easily and I've reached the point where I realize there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Some of us are just "wobbly-hearted" by nature. ❤

    • @cindyscrafts9018
      @cindyscrafts9018 Před 2 lety +4

      Sorry for your loss

    • @kimedo61
      @kimedo61 Před 2 lety +3

      It took me awhile before I was able to donate my husband’s suits after he died, but I was able to let them go happily when our local high school asked for suits for their career program, Dress for Success. My heart goes out to you in your grief. A big hug.

    • @lizethfranco6252
      @lizethfranco6252 Před 2 lety +2

      Im sorry for your loss

    • @sharontesi4273
      @sharontesi4273 Před 2 lety +2

      @@lizethfranco6252
      Thank you! He had been ill for several years with frontotemporal dementia (horrible disease) and was only 61.

    • @sharontesi4273
      @sharontesi4273 Před 2 lety +3

      @@kimedo61
      Hugs to you, too! That program sounds awesome!

  • @karenjohannessen8987
    @karenjohannessen8987 Před 2 lety +11

    "Achh - cry - punch - kick - cry" "What is Wrong with me?!" "I wasn't gonna cry!!"
    There's absolutely *nothing wrong with you* Cas, except you've run afoul of one of your internalized 'cultural norms': 'Thou shalt not cry in front of strangers'. It's really a bunch of hooey, and the world would be So Much Healthier if we could let go of that.
    Love you!💟💟💟

    • @trishmcleod4682
      @trishmcleod4682 Před 2 lety +1

      A sparkling and brilliant post! Needed to be said , thank you

  • @terrilynthompson3308
    @terrilynthompson3308 Před 2 lety +10

    Oh man!!! So glad I’m not the only one that feels that ways about the elderly. I’m Navajo and we have a game we play only during the winter. A group of people from our community would get together to play with the elderly. To see their happy faces and sing the songs was the best memories of my life.

  • @olivemaycards
    @olivemaycards Před 2 lety +132

    Yes! I learned that men’s jeans are the thing shelters need the most. Men in shelters need hardwearing pants that can stand up to sitting/sleeping rough and infrequent laundry (but when they do get laundered it’s rough too). When I told my husband he donated some pants he would’ve kept forever otherwise. Our local YWCA women’s shelter also takes empty journals - women and their kids appreciate having a place to process everything they’ve been going through and most of us have tons of notebooks and journals lying around, so that’s another easy one.

    • @lauramedbury5509
      @lauramedbury5509 Před 2 lety +4

      I have so many journals and notebooks that I don’t want to just throw away or take to goodwill. Thank you for this idea!!

    • @dougandcarrieann
      @dougandcarrieann Před 2 lety

      💗

  • @carolynnwilliams4600
    @carolynnwilliams4600 Před 2 lety +86

    Never apologize for your tears, Cas. When your heart gets full-it comes out your eyes. I cried with you through out your video. It was a great. One of the best you've ever done. And, one I needed to hear regarding donating. I think we all need to hear these type things.Thank you.

    • @WannaBoogieWithYou
      @WannaBoogieWithYou Před 2 lety +1

      The video made me cry. Then I stopped until I read your comment. "

  • @123gorainy
    @123gorainy Před 5 měsíci +3

    Today I packed up 15 years of my sorrow in the form of tiny hotel shampoos, body lotions & conditioners that I accumulated over the last 15 years of long-distance Eldercare that I did to take care of my dying mother, who lived far away. I bagged them, boxed them, and dropped them off a homeless shelter. I know how grateful someone will be to get these.

  • @barbhenley4692
    @barbhenley4692 Před 2 lety +2

    Please never apologize for wearing your heart on your sleeve. I love the idea of donating.

  • @33goodwitch
    @33goodwitch Před 2 lety +45

    Ghaa, this episode really got to me. I am in the "shop at goodwill" category, and can say I am so appreciative of all of the things donated to charity shops and to my family directly. There was a Christmas where we got presents through donation, and then I was able to get a dress and shoes for prom through the Cinderella project, I even got a voucher to get my hair done, which made me feel so special. I still have the dress and it remains one of my dressiest pieces of clothing. So thank you Cas and thank you to everyone who donates and helps others. It is truly appreciated

  • @ginamcdonald7854
    @ginamcdonald7854 Před 2 lety +23

    I had five boxes of household items I was planning to take to goodwill, then I heard a family had lost everything in a fire and they were finally getting settled in an unfurnished mobile home. I took everything to them to go through intending to take what they didn’t want to goodwill. They needed everything from cups, plates, kitchen utensils, picture frames, sheets, curtains, pots and pans and a few Christmas decorations. It felt wonderful watching them unbox and find things they needed and could use 💖💖💖

  • @CheriJ11
    @CheriJ11 Před 2 lety +9

    I didn’t cry through this video - I SOBBED! (I’m a crybaby, too.). It started with the poor sweet puppy lying on the cold, hard cage and went right to the last minute of the video. So, thanks, Cas, now my eyes will be swollen at work tomorrow morning! But seriously, thank you. There some things I hadn’t thought of, like balls of yarn to retirement homes. I will look at decluttering and donating in a whole new way now. And you, my friend, are a treasure. ❤️

  • @staceylynch9751
    @staceylynch9751 Před 2 lety +23

    Cas, you are an empathetic soul. There's no need to apologize for being a good person. It makes my heart hurt as well. Everyone deserves dignity and even small things really do mean so much to people with nothing and give them their dignity back. You're a good egg. ❤

    • @candyharrington5777
      @candyharrington5777 Před 2 lety +1

      I haven't heard that saying in a very long time. "Your a good egg." Thank you for making me think of my sweet dad, gone since 2003.

  • @JacquelynSpeaks
    @JacquelynSpeaks Před 2 lety +41

    This may just be my all-time favorite video of yours, sweet Cas, because THIS IS WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT!
    Changing our mindset from "I paid a lot and feel guilty throwing this away" to "I can bless someone else who NEEDS this right now and can't afford it otherwise" is absolutely a life-changing shift.
    As always, I'm so incredibly grateful for your insight, humility and honesty. You're changing so, so many lives, Cas, and we are on your team to help spread your message that better days ARE ahead! 💪
    Big love from San Diego.

  • @karengreen2437
    @karengreen2437 Před 2 lety +44

    At a bath and body supply store I used to manage we would take the returns that were still good and save them up and once a month take them to the womens shelter. I will add that it honestly isn’t just women though-there are women who leave with their kids, including sons. The kids can use the donations too.
    Also, when we did a large donation to the homeless shelter we got to “tour” it and we met some of the people there. We asked the women what are the things they need most-female supplies and diapers were their top two they listed.

    • @kpercy9952
      @kpercy9952 Před 2 lety +8

      Every charity I have ever volunteered at has stacks of sanitary supplies & diapers because so many women need them. Anyone who has gone through menopause....donate those unused boxes of tampons & pads!

  • @EJBruin
    @EJBruin Před 2 lety +6

    I live in a large apartment building with many low-income hoyseholds. With permission from the housing cooperation, we've set up a set of shelves in one of the elevator lobbies where people can leave unused items for others to pick up. A lot of my de-cluttering ends up there.
    The things that aren't taken by fellow residents within a couple of weeks, are brought to local thrift stores.

  • @susanmurphy7869
    @susanmurphy7869 Před 2 lety +2

    You’re not a baby..you’re filled with compassion… ❤️

  • @aimeeontheharp
    @aimeeontheharp Před 2 lety +58

    Oh my goodness, Cass, you asked if I'm sitting on old yarn. I'm literally sitting on my bed and my yarn is under my bed. My tears were the opposite of yours. It's hard to let go. Thank you for sharing your emotional plea!

    • @aimeeontheharp
      @aimeeontheharp Před 2 lety +4

      My kids and I always talk about how our stuff is going to other people, other kids. Makes it so much easier to part with it...

  • @elizabethdavis5
    @elizabethdavis5 Před 2 lety +28

    My church has a ‘prom dress’ give away each spring. It empties out those things from our closets and gives others a free dress- an older lady chose one for a nieces wedding….all free! Thanks for the tears…

  • @michellewanner3921
    @michellewanner3921 Před 2 lety +1

    This is what we need more of today in this world - humanity and compassion

  • @cathyjoyce1865
    @cathyjoyce1865 Před 2 lety +1

    NOTHING is wrong with you, Cass, except that you are a nice person ! Have a blessed day.

  • @agneskramer3766
    @agneskramer3766 Před 2 lety +31

    Someone close to me had to leave a horrible relationship, with one bag and kids. And the generosity that so many people showed, including many complete strangers was so unexpected and heart warming. It allowed that mama to rebuild her life with her kids. In this crazy harsh world there is so much good, sometimes we need to be reminded of it. Thanks for a great video and inspiration.

  • @newwife777
    @newwife777 Před 2 lety +57

    Cass, you rock. I cry like....all the time. I now just assume it shows I care. I don't have the energy to not cry when I want/need to. Also, these are some great ideas!!! Facing helping my parents downsize, and I knoooooow there will be craft stuff like yarn and fabric that need new homes. I would never have thought of nursing homes. Thank you.

  • @209tami
    @209tami Před 2 lety +2

    Cas that’s why we LOVE you, because you are so real and we all see that❤️ Keep crying we’re crying with you !!!

  • @kimhouchins1103
    @kimhouchins1103 Před měsícem

    Do NOT be embarrassed to "cry in front of" us watching your videos. It shows how passionate you are! Love you Cass!!

  • @sarahamill1793
    @sarahamill1793 Před 2 lety +51

    Thanks for always being so real, not editing out the cry fest was the right choice. Shows us all emotion is part of the process at every stage. I’m always thankful for your advice and videos but just want to also say Thanks for your years helping entertain those stuck “waiting”. The world needs more people like you.

    • @blackholesun3152
      @blackholesun3152 Před 2 lety +5

      Yeah, her comment on the elderly waiting hit me hard! 😭

  • @RaeC
    @RaeC Před 2 lety +22

    So here I am crying with you thinking of all the things I can share with people. Ready to declutter and hopefully put a smile on someone else’s face. Thanks for the reminder that one mans trash is another mans treasure. Enjoy the day.

  • @grammytammy3535
    @grammytammy3535 Před 2 lety +1

    Don't you ever apologize or call yourself a name because you have a compassionate heart!! 🤗🤩😍

  • @lisat.2783
    @lisat.2783 Před 2 lety +20

    Don’t ever apologize or being a thoughtful, loving and caring person ❤️

  • @wendyh4417
    @wendyh4417 Před 2 lety +11

    I have to say this is my favourite video of any I have seen
    We all need to think of others ♥️

  • @mindfuljourneys3010
    @mindfuljourneys3010 Před 2 lety +1

    You are not a baby! You are a wonderful example of how powerful life experiences can change us forever and even the memory of it stays with us in our bodies! Thank you for being so authentic and life giving to so many!!

  • @shelbydowns-seckman1870
    @shelbydowns-seckman1870 Před 2 lety +2

    Your stories had me crying like a baby. My husband walked in and thought someone died, and spit water everywhere as I was telling him I was crying over a decluttering video. 😂😂 😂
    I had mascara down to my chin and half of my face like a zebra. Needless to say this got me in my feelings! Great concept, loved it. ❤️

  • @janetthornsberry7129
    @janetthornsberry7129 Před 2 lety +13

    "What is wrong with me?!"...you have a beautiful, vulnerable, warm heart, Cass...NEVER CHANGE ❤️🥰🎊

  • @rhondarayburn8603
    @rhondarayburn8603 Před 2 lety +15

    A tender heart is a gift from God and he loves it when we care others the way he cares for us. Don’t change , it’s an awesome strength to care for others.

  • @WiseWaysofWomen
    @WiseWaysofWomen Před 2 lety +9

    Love you, Cas. This video was perfect.

  • @luannfischer747
    @luannfischer747 Před 2 lety +4

    I helped a special person pass along a lot of her hoarded items. Once I could tell her about a need she was so willing to allow me to remove volumes of clutter that could benefit someone else. I believe my more gentle approach to her 'hoarding' collection was what helped her regain some as semblance of order in her life. We sometimes need to 'look for that person with a need' to be willing to let go This is the best encouragement video I have watched. You’re doing a great job.

  • @sydneykasmar
    @sydneykasmar Před 2 lety +29

    Let the tears flows. I see it as emotional decluttering and frees space within us. And thank you for reminding us of the whole picture of donating by including the people who receive our donations.

    • @BSWVI
      @BSWVI Před 2 lety +1

      Emotional decluttering. I 💖 this!

  • @alikigeorgiou8499
    @alikigeorgiou8499 Před 2 lety +27

    I cried too!! I've given sooo much stuff to my local charity stores and the gift of giving to those who truly need essential things is worth so much than buying yet another unnecessary thing for myself. My parents brought us up with the same values and I'm grateful every day for everything that I have and will help others wherever I can. Great tips from your video today and you keep being yourself - we love you! 🥰

  • @kristinepope5360
    @kristinepope5360 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for being "Real!!!" You don't always have to be funny! Sharing what's in your heart is beautiful!

  • @catherineciaravino6734
    @catherineciaravino6734 Před 2 lety +5

    Such wonderful advice Cas. Our beloved cat passed away this weekend and we boxed up all his things and brought them to our local animal shelter. They were so grateful and appreciative to receive it all, and it helped us find some good in what we were going through. Knowing that the items will be making other kitties happy has brought us some comfort. Thanks for your wonderful videos!

  • @li-ly-li
    @li-ly-li Před 2 lety +32

    The more we normalise talking about older people, let alone caring about older people, the better 👍💞

  • @Yveswife
    @Yveswife Před 2 lety +19

    Tears show what a caring person you are. I was crying as you told the story of the club feet braces. I too am so emotional. My husband and son think I am crazy, I cry watching commercials and tv shows all the time. Sometimes even reading a book. A big ole softy I am.

    • @gentremblay869
      @gentremblay869 Před 2 lety

      I’m the same... I call myself a real marshmallow! Crying reading the news, especially when too good and moving, watching tv add, etc.

  • @HR-re6mr
    @HR-re6mr Před 2 lety +3

    No need to apologize for tears. In such a divisive time, it’s nice to see ppl who actually care about others!

  • @jejrstans
    @jejrstans Před 2 lety +1

    Cas, I hope someday you can be present with yourself and your tears when you share with us. It is a gift. Thank you! ♥

  • @daynad8104
    @daynad8104 Před 2 lety +22

    Here in the US, we have a charity called “Dress for Success” that you can donate “career wear”. They help women with finding jobs, writing a resume, handling an interview, and outfitting them for it. It’s a wonderful organization, and I encourage anyone that’s retired, or just letting go of old work clothing to donate them, and help someone else.
    I’m so glad that you mentioned battered women’s shelters. There are so many women in terrible relationships with no hope, until they take this step.

  • @stephaniewarmink655
    @stephaniewarmink655 Před 2 lety +7

    Love it!! This is so true! I try to target my donations in this manner. I just moved from Alaska to Washington last year (3200 so house, 2 large storage unit and a double car garage full) and purged about half of my crafts, and have since purged another 1/3 of my yarn and fabric... I knit, crochet, sew, bead, you name it... I gave my yarn and fantasy-self scrapbooking materials to a community center that has a special needs adult outreach. They were just beside themselves. The guilt i had for not creating baby books for my now 4 daughters... turned into such a blessing for all of them. I donate all the mini shampoos and such to women's shelters, baby items to pregnancy outreach locations, old towels and unfit bedding to an animal shelter and a highlander full to the brim of general items to a family that was fundraising for adoption. It does in deed feel good to get the stuff out of the house knowing it will be used, loved and appreciated. Granted there have been times i have drug my feet trying to find the right type of place to donate to... now im able to just get it moved instead of hold onto it until.... And yes, it is worthy of emotions! Awesome video!

  • @dpstitches
    @dpstitches Před 2 lety +1

    You are not a baby -- you are kind and thoughtful! Once you understand the needs that exist in the world, you want to make them better. I appreciate your honest emotions.

  • @pamp212
    @pamp212 Před 2 lety +10

    Love your passion, NEVER feel bad about empathetic tears, there is nothing "wrong with you". In fact, it's everything that's right with you! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bellec7893
    @bellec7893 Před 2 lety +20

    I LOVE this video!!! Of all the ways you and Dawn and Dana have presented things over the years/videos this one is THE ONE that made the most sense and made me want to get rid of it all! Thanks SO much Cas!!!

    • @Clutterbug
      @Clutterbug  Před 2 lety +5

      Wow, thank you!

    • @sweetlady6059
      @sweetlady6059 Před 2 lety

      @@Clutterbug I wish I could convince my dad who is a collector of dumpster finds about donating. His and my mum’s house is so full of stuff he has found in garbage (I am so embarrassed telling ppl this) but he won’t donate or give it away because he expects to get money for it except covid put a stop to donating and yard sales so he couldn’t even have a yard or garage sale so again he waited yet stuff kept coming in
      He has found cutlery in its cutlery container, classes, mugs, storage containers, (he has about 15 to 20 storage rubber maid containers ppl have thrown out, he has found curling irons, brand new stuff not even out of the package, also cleaning supplies, cds, jewelry, eye glasses, chairs, lamps, blankets, clothing, DVD players, you name it he has it in his place. It has filled up my parents home so badly they can’t use or access their living room or dining room, stuff lines the stairwell and the hallways. He has found shelving units, medicine cabinets, shower items, shampoos, etc. It takes me 15 mins to step over things to get upstairs to the bathroom.
      But he doesn’t pack it up
      What he should have done this summer since we had such a Marvelous summer and had me come and help sort like items together then I could have taken a van or car and taken it away and helped the declutter but my parents unfortunately only seem to want to do it at a slow pace and their own and not get help to move things.

    • @candyharrington5777
      @candyharrington5777 Před 2 lety

      @@sweetlady6059 I'll pray for them & you. That would be a tough problem to solve. Maybe they are embarrassed to have someone see it. If they are older sometimes people are afraid of losing their indepentence. I'm just guessing, That would be very hard for you. 🙏🙏💖🙏🙏

  • @melindaolaughlin2885
    @melindaolaughlin2885 Před 2 lety +8

    Cas, your not a baby, your a person with a big HEART! Your encouraging others to follow you lead to help others! ❤️

  • @alicejohnson6775
    @alicejohnson6775 Před 2 lety +1

    Cry all you want.....shows the human in you.....I love ya for having the feels!

  • @moonan1215
    @moonan1215 Před 2 lety +1

    Don't apologize, Cas. Your tears inspire us all. Now I know what to do with an old back brace I've had for years!

  • @cynthiaromero4441
    @cynthiaromero4441 Před 2 lety +7

    I love your heart. This should be a series DECLUTTERING WITH PURPOSE

    • @elizabethsokol2545
      @elizabethsokol2545 Před 2 lety +1

      Sounds great! Decluttering to help others and recycling to save the planet.

  • @mondfalkin3781
    @mondfalkin3781 Před 2 lety +1

    that you cried makes you so adorable, it shows that you care, because you have a big heart 💟

  • @aftermidnight4867
    @aftermidnight4867 Před 2 lety +5

    I so needed to hear this! I have extremely high anxiety when just thinking about decluttering- the guilt from my compulsive shopping overwhelms / paralyzes me- so I end up doing nothing but sinking further in my self induced mess. The shifting of the mindset of “gifting” rather than decluttering- turned on the light bulb- it’s the way I know I can do this and take back control of my house. I’ve been so blessed, now I have the motivation to share those blessings! I needed the reminder- Thank you!!! Thank you for sharing the message!!! ❤️

  • @kimedo61
    @kimedo61 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you for this! I wept too. Love you Cas ♥️

  • @judithmitchell4667
    @judithmitchell4667 Před 2 lety +3

    Cas - Because you have a enormous heart with a overabundance.of compassion. No regrets for tears, my friend. Blessings - Judith 🎵🎭

  • @fionabowey323
    @fionabowey323 Před 2 lety +1

    I cried with you.. its wonderful to see someone who has a loving heart. So you should be proud of your heart for people

  • @barbc7698
    @barbc7698 Před rokem +1

    That black and white dog snuggling up with his blanket was too cute! But your story about the nursing home made me cry, too❤️
    All great ideas! I’m going to get a few old blazers dry cleaned so I can give to a budding career woman.

  • @tanyajohnston8262
    @tanyajohnston8262 Před 2 lety +5

    this is my favorite video you have shared. Thank you for caring and for the tears shared. I have also worked at our Woman's Shelter in Ontario Canada and other non-profit organizations and see so much need. Great ideas for giving.

  • @kimneves5578
    @kimneves5578 Před 2 lety +9

    I recently found that a nearby church is collecting things to take to coal mining communities. All you have to do is drop it off. The rest of the year they help their local community with these donations. I prefer to not give to Goodwill and other places because the people who wish to buy these items have to have money. Most don’t have any money to spare. Thank you Cas for all you do!!

  • @rosemarywilliams9969
    @rosemarywilliams9969 Před 2 lety +2

    😤You are NOT a baby! Having the ability to set outside of yourself and experience what someone in feeling is a gift that more people should share and not feel embarrassed about. Thank you for not acting like it dose not matter.

  • @shirleysmith4614
    @shirleysmith4614 Před 2 lety +1

    It's called compassion. Don't EVER apologize for being real. Sometimes we get so comfortable in our own little world, we forget others that need us. Thank you for reminding us.

  • @kathyomlor920
    @kathyomlor920 Před 2 lety +10

    Cass don’t be ashamed of your emotions. It makes you special and shows how much you care for people. Most of us are crying right along with you. We have caring hearts and souls. I love you for being so open! Hugs!!

  • @paula3031
    @paula3031 Před 2 lety +52

    Loved this reminder…and your authentic self. That’s what speaks to people…getting our attention when we are too busy being too busy! With the holiday season approaching, it’s even more important.

  • @cynthialugo3401
    @cynthialugo3401 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m in tears, I feel the same way, while I have been blessed, there is people and families struggling every day to survive.

  • @lisap7084
    @lisap7084 Před 2 lety +3

    I am relatively new to your channel. Your transparency and vulnerability is respected and appreciated. Thank you for making this video (and for not removing those parts) ❤

  • @PoeticBostonian
    @PoeticBostonian Před 2 lety +12

    You’re not a baby. You’re amazing for how much you care! I was homeless for 3 months in the middle of Boston winter. It was hell, I snuck into abandoned vehicles…and Harvard university but that’s another story lol. An 18 year old kid…I was so scared. I think back in those times now and always donate items to the homeless. But sheets, towels….the animal shelters. I’m such an animal lover and I didn’t even think of it! Thank you for making this video. I hope for all those people it’s just a small portion of their lives before they can find a house of their own and make it a home like I did. ❤️ ty Cassie

    • @kimberleyfrasquillo3684
      @kimberleyfrasquillo3684 Před 2 lety +3

      🤗🤩🥰, Lindsay Brooke, I hope things have gotten better in your life!🙏

  • @donnabielauskas5339
    @donnabielauskas5339 Před 2 lety +14

    This video gave me more of a perspective of how things I am not using will help others. It encouraged me to give more than I thought possible because of where and to who it was being donated to. Thank you for more than the "usual" donations guide. I know of many charities who just sell or dispose of some items they cant make money on. I also was in tears knowing that everything I am "decluttering" will go to someone in true need. Thank you for the inspiration and continued motivation.

  • @perrygary652
    @perrygary652 Před rokem +1

    My wife and I recently found your channel (she’s a butterfly and I’m a cricket) and we absolutely LOVE you. You are such an inspiration and a joy to watch. This video especially was wonderful to see. You’re emotions make you a genuine person and it comes across in your videos. Keep up the great work.

  • @paulahall6398
    @paulahall6398 Před 2 lety +1

    Never EVER EVER apologize for your heart and your compassion. If it makes you feel better just know that I had tears flowing at your description of what you had witnessed. I think sometimes when we are SO BLESSED, we just can't imagine people such as what you described. Thanks to you, I'm going to be able to look at .y decluttering in an ENTIRELY new light! Thank you, Cass.

  • @sabatham
    @sabatham Před 2 lety +11

    Decluttering in the barn we found a hard plastic leg brace and 2 back braces from my husband and father in law. Found a place that accepts these as donations and I was so excited to give them over! It always feels so much better to give to someone who will be able to use it!

  • @findingaway5512
    @findingaway5512 Před 2 lety +7

    I have been truly blessed by the gifts of others passing along their things. Never underestimate how something small can make a huge impact on someone else.

  • @sharonmueller8422
    @sharonmueller8422 Před 2 lety +4

    I must be a big baby too! This video had me bawling like a baby. I have been so hesitant to declutter because of the guilt of buying things that I have never used. Your idea of “sharing” with those in need, while so simple, is brilliant. I have SO MUCH unused yarn, craft supplies, clothing, books, sheets and towels that could be blessing others. I’m on a mission to find local places that can use these items for folks who cannot afford them. Thank you for helping me look at donating in a totally different way! ❤️

  • @MadWithPowerBand
    @MadWithPowerBand Před 2 lety +1

    Not awkward at all. You are empathetic and we need more of this in our world. Keep being you!

  • @jmalkin55
    @jmalkin55 Před 2 lety +3

    I think the fact that you left the crying in the video is so wonderful. We are all human with real emotions. I loved your videos before, now I feel like I know you even better. Thank you!

  • @gigicathy7030
    @gigicathy7030 Před 2 lety +5

    Cass,
    Tears are the heart shining on the outside. Embrace your heart. It is beautiful!

  • @mommynikki6675
    @mommynikki6675 Před 2 lety +3

    This made me so sad! My Grandmother was just placed into a nursing home a couple days ago (day before my birthday)
    And it broke my heart 💔
    It’s wonderful that you made a difference in those elderly persons lives

  • @loriolsen5785
    @loriolsen5785 Před 2 lety

    Awww, Cass, you aren't a baby. Our eyes simply spill over when we are full of emotion. That comes from a heart filled with kindness!

  • @susanbartlett3421
    @susanbartlett3421 Před 2 lety +5

    First, I cried with you. I am a PT by trade and have also worked in a nursing home, and you are right. Those residents are so appreciative of everything, especially those who don't have many visitors.
    Second, I now work in the home health setting, and I have come across several patients who cannot afford walkers, canes, wheelchairs, etc. For people who don't know where to donate such equipment, most home health agencies will accept equipment and pass it along to patients who really need it.

  • @polgara28
    @polgara28 Před 2 lety +13

    Love this video so much! I think I'll keep an eye out for yarn sales and buy it for the nursing home in my area. Another thing they love are jigsaw puzzles. Thanks for making this video! ❤