This crazy, I worked 12-hour shifts, cooked and cleaned and let my lady sleep and go to school, my only expectations are staying safe and be happy im not with my lady for what I can get, she's sweet and kind-hearted and I can trust her that's all I wanted, as a black man I guess im build different, I love cooking and try many different recipes I pre-prep meals for the month and clean up after everything I do and my lady don't make a large mess so I clean that too, im in it for love not what I can gain, people need to chill out to be honest and when I did loose my job and was stressed out she hopped up and started working and held me down until I got my two jobs I have now and im glad she can relax a bit more, she's a saint and my other half.
Girl you’re back& I’m so happy!! I hear a lot of times that it’s fine when the bills are splittend in the first date/ dates in general and I am so confused what to think about this topic and i was searching last week for a video like this and now you Upload😍 pls keep the good content we need more women like you that is a Voice for us❣️
There is a difference between a partner and a husband. A husband is a provider, protector, and head of the household. A partner implies equal burden shared between two people. Which do you want? If you want equal rights between two people, then both should pay equally. If one makes more than the other, it makes sense for that one to pay more. If both make the same money, and share all the household chores, then both should pay an equal share.
Are men turned off by the idea of carrying their own weight? You want 50/50 to get pregnant alone. Now a man gets a woman who is paying half the bills, doing 80% of house chores and still gets pregnant and takes care of children. What does a man do? No the question should be what good is it to have a man in life? At this point, women are better living alone with money and freedom. We are not as hypersmexual as men.
@@kanikakumari7219 the fact that you understand how unjust and worthless onesided effort and unequal partnerships are should make you MORE suited to understand the plight of men seeking reciprocation Relationships should not feel worthless, reciprocation is bare minimum, and you get married and pregnant with one or two people compared to the dozens of flings and relationships you have. I hope you understand why I said that
@@kanikakumari7219 the only way I could see someone having a problem with putting in the same amount of effort (50/50), is if they were turned off, or displeased by the idea of carrying their own weight. Is that the case here?
@@kanikakumari7219 Not really, 80% of those who consume antidepressants today are women and those who consume them the most are the empowered single women without children.
Thank you for this video, wonderful as always ❤️ Yes, woman is the sould of home... Men often don't have a sense of coziness, how to create an atmosphere at home. You can force him to do the housework of course, but it will look more like a very automatic process just to check the box that chore was done, while woman is creating atmosphere, she's making house a home, which is truly magical. We're not the same
50/50 doesn't work for women because they don't enforce their man to do any housework and more importantly women would have to contribute more financially to the relationship and us paying most if nor all the time has been a MAJOR PERK for women in relations with men ... i t is understandable why they would want to protect this, but I just wish women were honest about this instead of suddenly bringing up our natural tendency and pointing out our differences when the situation suits them. Personally, I'm comfortable being thee breadwinner of the relationship, but I despise women who decide a man's masculinity or if he's a real man based on traditional financial obligations.
"I'm not sure if women today are very happy..." Glad you noticed. The happiest and most wonderful generation of women I've ever known were the WWII ladies. True ladies who didn't think they were better at being men than men. Very little of the modern juice is worth the squeeze. Maybe that's why so many young men aren't interested at all. And so many others look in far away places for decent, trustworthy, and feminine women. It's sad.
How many procent is acceptable for a woman to pay per month. I we are going to buy a house eventually i would love to invest my money too. So i wanna know what is good for the balance of masculine and feminine energy in the relationship. We also have a house keeper. Ofc we still do things in the house and garden but yeah🙈
I understand your point, but every time women say, "My money is my money and your money is our money," it kinda gets me. Also, i think most women will never complain about the 50 50 in-house chores , so it feels like equality when it benefits them.
Money for a woman is her safety. A woman has a lot more to lose in a relationship than a man. She deserves to keep her money for her safety. If a man wants 50/50 he should be prepared to get pregnant and ruin his body and breastfeed and raise that child. This is what equality is like. Relationships benefit men the most. They get to focus on their career and sometimes on the mistress while their wives take care of the house. Nowadays, women are helping men pay the bills while also taking care of house and child care giving their men enough time and resources to go out and cheat.
@@kanikakumari7219 Men loses the most with divorces, they lose money and kids also when women cheats men can can be victim of paternity fraud and this is on the rise, more than 30% of those who take the DNA test turn out not to be the father. Men work more hours than women also at more risky jobs that's why 85% of laboral accidents happen to them, they go to war and suffer trauma that makes them commit suicide 3 times more than women. Also because of these risky jobs they live 5 to 8 years less than a women and still they retire 5 years later.
50/50 doesn't work for women because they don't enforce their man to do any housework and more importantly women would have to contribute more financially to the relationship and us paying most if nor all the time has been a MAJOR PERK for women in relations with men ... i t is understandable why they would want to protect this, but I just wish women were honest about this instead of suddenly bringing up our natural tendency and pointing out our differences when the situation suits them. Personally, I'm comfortable being thee breadwinner of the relationship, but I despise women who decide a man's masculinity or if he's a real man based on traditional financial obligations.
Another great video with a wide message! Thank you Iva! ❤
This crazy, I worked 12-hour shifts, cooked and cleaned and let my lady sleep and go to school, my only expectations are staying safe and be happy im not with my lady for what I can get, she's sweet and kind-hearted and I can trust her that's all I wanted, as a black man I guess im build different, I love cooking and try many different recipes I pre-prep meals for the month and clean up after everything I do and my lady don't make a large mess so I clean that too, im in it for love not what I can gain, people need to chill out to be honest and when I did loose my job and was stressed out she hopped up and started working and held me down until I got my two jobs I have now and im glad she can relax a bit more, she's a saint and my other half.
So sweet, happy for you☺️
You a simp
I bet she isn’t black either
Girl you’re back& I’m so happy!! I hear a lot of times that it’s fine when the bills are splittend in the first date/ dates in general and I am so confused what to think about this topic and i was searching last week for a video like this and now you Upload😍 pls keep the good content we need more women like you that is a Voice for us❣️
There is a difference between a partner and a husband. A husband is a provider, protector, and head of the household. A partner implies equal burden shared between two people. Which do you want? If you want equal rights between two people, then both should pay equally. If one makes more than the other, it makes sense for that one to pay more. If both make the same money, and share all the household chores, then both should pay an equal share.
Are women turned off by the idea of carrying your own weight?
Are men turned off by the idea of carrying their own weight? You want 50/50 to get pregnant alone. Now a man gets a woman who is paying half the bills, doing 80% of house chores and still gets pregnant and takes care of children. What does a man do? No the question should be what good is it to have a man in life? At this point, women are better living alone with money and freedom. We are not as hypersmexual as men.
@@kanikakumari7219 the fact that you understand how unjust and worthless onesided effort and unequal partnerships are should make you MORE suited to understand the plight of men seeking reciprocation
Relationships should not feel worthless, reciprocation is bare minimum, and you get married and pregnant with one or two people compared to the dozens of flings and relationships you have. I hope you understand why I said that
@@kanikakumari7219 the only way I could see someone having a problem with putting in the same amount of effort (50/50), is if they were turned off, or displeased by the idea of carrying their own weight. Is that the case here?
@@kanikakumari7219 Not really, 80% of those who consume antidepressants today are women and those who consume them the most are the empowered single women without children.
Thank you for this video, wonderful as always ❤️
Yes, woman is the sould of home... Men often don't have a sense of coziness, how to create an atmosphere at home. You can force him to do the housework of course, but it will look more like a very automatic process just to check the box that chore was done, while woman is creating atmosphere, she's making house a home, which is truly magical. We're not the same
As a man, I agree that 50/50 relationships seem like a bad idea.
I don't agree on the reasons, that you give for that though.
Important topic
50/50 doesn't work for women because they don't enforce their man to do any housework and more importantly women would have to contribute more financially to the relationship and us paying most if nor all the time has been a MAJOR PERK for women in relations with men ... i
t is understandable why they would want to protect this, but I just wish women were honest about this instead of suddenly bringing up our natural tendency and pointing out our differences when the situation suits them.
Personally, I'm comfortable being thee breadwinner of the relationship, but I despise women who decide a man's masculinity or if he's a real man based on traditional financial obligations.
"I'm not sure if women today are very happy..." Glad you noticed. The happiest and most wonderful generation of women I've ever known were the WWII ladies. True ladies who didn't think they were better at being men than men. Very little of the modern juice is worth the squeeze. Maybe that's why so many young men aren't interested at all. And so many others look in far away places for decent, trustworthy, and feminine women. It's sad.
How many procent is acceptable for a woman to pay per month.
I we are going to buy a house eventually i would love to invest my money too.
So i wanna know what is good for the balance of masculine and feminine energy in the relationship. We also have a house keeper. Ofc we still do things in the house and garden but yeah🙈
Very true queen
I understand your point, but every time women say, "My money is my money and your money is our money," it kinda gets me. Also, i think most women will never complain about the 50 50 in-house chores , so it feels like equality when it benefits them.
Money for a woman is her safety. A woman has a lot more to lose in a relationship than a man. She deserves to keep her money for her safety. If a man wants 50/50 he should be prepared to get pregnant and ruin his body and breastfeed and raise that child. This is what equality is like. Relationships benefit men the most. They get to focus on their career and sometimes on the mistress while their wives take care of the house. Nowadays, women are helping men pay the bills while also taking care of house and child care giving their men enough time and resources to go out and cheat.
@kanikakumari7219 Not all men are cheaters
@@kanikakumari7219 Men loses the most with divorces, they lose money and kids also when women cheats men can can be victim of paternity fraud and this is on the rise, more than 30% of those who take the DNA test turn out not to be the father. Men work more hours than women also at more risky jobs that's why 85% of laboral accidents happen to them, they go to war and suffer trauma that makes them commit suicide 3 times more than women. Also because of these risky jobs they live 5 to 8 years less than a women and still they retire 5 years later.
@@kanikakumari7219 you legit sound psycho lol
@@kanikakumari7219 Not all men want childs.
50/50 doesn't work for women because they don't enforce their man to do any housework and more importantly women would have to contribute more financially to the relationship and us paying most if nor all the time has been a MAJOR PERK for women in relations with men ... i
t is understandable why they would want to protect this, but I just wish women were honest about this instead of suddenly bringing up our natural tendency and pointing out our differences when the situation suits them.
Personally, I'm comfortable being thee breadwinner of the relationship, but I despise women who decide a man's masculinity or if he's a real man based on traditional financial obligations.
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