Passive Aggression | Art Of Accomplishment Podcast

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[@DrBrianKeating]

Great job nice editing in the opening

[@annaallen3645]

I picked up some passive aggressive tendencies from my mom, who grew up in a house where everyone pretended everything was fine and avoided discussing their issues. Time to do some reflecting… a lot of what you said has hit home. Thanky.

[@davidharris4521]

Would like to see an episode/video about someone who has improved a difficult releationship with a teen. Joe's episodes with his daughter are great, but I feel like it might be harder dealing with a teen who hasn't had the benefit of growing up in Joe Hudson's house :-)

[@Gypsy218]

I feel that in the instance of passive aggressive your family situation has colored your reactions. In your parent's case you
presented it as if your mother's passive aggression made your father aggressive. It sounded blaming. Perhaps your father's aggression is what caused your mom to act passive aggressively because that's how she was raised and the only safe option she felt she had. Of course you're going to think I'm explaining myself, but actually I was married to a passive aggressive man and saw him do this to his mother, but didn't think he would do this to me. And yes, it made me angry when I saw that it was about controlling me, sometimes used to punish me and it felt quite aggressive. Actually more aggressive than showing anger because I wasn't allowed to call him out on it, he would just deny it and turn it back on me. Then it became something was wrong with me which I bought for a short period of time because he was a counselor. Talk about crazy making. The final straw was him telling the kids I was selfish for wanting to go back to school after I had put him thru grad school when we first married. After 25 years of marriage I told him I wanted a divorce and he made himself a victim to our friends. The other part is that they only show their "good" face to others another way to make you look bad. Of course now I know about boundaries, but I felt pretty powerless back then. He's still like this so we can't even be friends over 25 years later.

[@fbulderin2415]

The fear triangle came up several times. Where is this concept explained?

[@swirlytwirlz00]

I think the video is called the power dynamics of fear

[@swirlytwirlz00]

Great episode! Where can I find the upright apology experiment, please?

[@ArtofAccomplishment]

So glad you liked it! Go to view.life/experiments

[@helyesaham]

yikes, illuminating! it sounds like almost everything difficult is passive aggression !?