Victoria Confronts Owner Responsible for Filling Home with Dogs! | It's Me or the Dog

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  • This house is full of huge, messy and unwashed dogs and there's only one person who wanted it to be that way! Dog training expert Victoria Stilwell must whip this home into shape, get the dogs' less sanitary habits sorted and set the owner's thinking straight on getting more dogs.
    It's Me or the Dog Season 2 Episode 18
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    It's Me or the Dog is a TV show where you can watch some fantastic dogs and get some tips on training your furry friend! Why do dogs hump? Why do dogs bite? Why do dogs bark? All these questions and more will be answered with the help of dog training expert Victoria Stilwell!
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  • @kunolacarai
    @kunolacarai Před 3 lety +6514

    I've said it before, but dogs are not impulse purchases. Especially not the dogs that can be mistaken for bears at a medium distance.

    • @KnightlyScarlet
      @KnightlyScarlet Před 3 lety +112

      haha those are some small extra drooly bears

    • @jabreakitjubawtit4748
      @jabreakitjubawtit4748 Před 3 lety +113

      You can’t just get a dog then do no work with it

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 Před 3 lety +70

      It's our instant gratification culture. Every impulse & whim is acted on & fulfilled, with no thought for any consequences, repercussions or impact on others.

    • @summanus4437
      @summanus4437 Před 3 lety +73

      Honestly you should need a license for any kind of animal. They're an incredibly large responsibility, and if you fail to uphold that responsibility it's ultimately the animal that pays for it.

    • @Catlover-jr4mj
      @Catlover-jr4mj Před 3 lety +10

      Why does‘t the woman say no and say to her me you have to give the dogs back were you brought it or to the animal shelter. If I would do that, my family will not allow me to hold that dog or cat in the house, even if he brings it in surprise or just try to rehome the dog!

  • @auggieb618
    @auggieb618 Před 3 lety +9092

    Victoria Stilwell: part time marriage counselor

  • @helenf.7221
    @helenf.7221 Před 3 lety +5500

    This is why ppl get divorced. What utter disregard for his wifes feelings

    • @thisperson5964
      @thisperson5964 Před 3 lety +61

      Victoria and the baby

    • @topacybits3576
      @topacybits3576 Před 3 lety +10

      Ill rather have a dog then a wife, dogs dont complain

    • @helenf.7221
      @helenf.7221 Před 3 lety +291

      @@topacybits3576 dogs complain. Trust me dude

    • @shannonwilliams295
      @shannonwilliams295 Před 3 lety +207

      @@topacybits3576 lol dogs just can't voice what the want and need from you, don't get married.

    • @CandyBoot
      @CandyBoot Před 3 lety +227

      @@topacybits3576 You deserve neither if you don’t care about them & take them into consideration. :/

  • @skulltakertheflamingswordo5792

    Chad talked to Roman like they were business partners.

  • @kiarimarie
    @kiarimarie Před 3 lety +3825

    It’s fine to talk to your dog “like a human”, but not when you are trying to get them to listen to you. This guy.

    • @funsize69
      @funsize69 Před 3 lety +174

      Agreed, talking is fine, but a command needs to be clear.

    • @gooseymoosey1630
      @gooseymoosey1630 Před 3 lety +113

      my dad does that and insists the dog can understand it. It really bugs me

    • @peanutloverocks5649
      @peanutloverocks5649 Před 3 lety +47

      @@gooseymoosey1630 my mom does the same thing but denys it

    • @funsize69
      @funsize69 Před 3 lety +50

      @@gooseymoosey1630 maybe through body language. But one of my neighbor did it and you could tell, anything the owner told her dog, went into one ear and out the other. The dog just didn't listen cuz she was talking to him 24/7, he didn't even know when she was addressing him and expecting him to do/don't do something. Didnt help that the dog wasn't very smart either. She was lucky he was an incredibly friendly doofus, considering he was huge, very strong and didn't respect her or her family what so ever. He pulled her across streets and wouldn't come back when called. Yelling at him, what he did wrong and all that, when he finally did come back didn't help either. Honestly shame. What a sweet dog. I'd have loved to work with him

    • @CommanderWiggins
      @CommanderWiggins Před 3 lety +54

      Oh yeah, I talk to my dogs like they're people all the time. But when they need to understand something, I switch to using commands in a strong voice. I find the change in tone is just as important as the words I'm using. If I put on my serious voice, they know they need to listen, and you can see their demeanor instantly change as they focus much more intently on me.

  • @ladylecter636
    @ladylecter636 Před 3 lety +2740

    "Roman, please provide me some space" hahaha. Did Chad think he was going to respond with "Oh of course, kind sir, as you wish"

  • @thought-full3445
    @thought-full3445 Před 3 lety +1965

    "if it's difficult, I don't do it". Jeesh, I don't know how you've gotten this far in life with that mindset

  • @PeaceLoveeNSN
    @PeaceLoveeNSN Před 3 lety +802

    "why is my dog afraid of water!?"
    *Splashes dogs face with water while yelling COME HERE ROMAN*

    • @notmycircus3696
      @notmycircus3696 Před 3 lety +67

      exactly, throwing water at his face and dragging him to the bucket whilst yelling. People like these exasperate me

    • @virtuousbound75ify
      @virtuousbound75ify Před 3 lety

      Time stamp.

    • @bunnened...2913
      @bunnened...2913 Před 2 lety +1

      I wonder why-

    • @Rv_ine
      @Rv_ine Před 2 lety +3

      Ya it hurts when water gets in your eye

    • @bunnened...2913
      @bunnened...2913 Před 2 lety +3

      @@Rv_ine
      Yup i always get shampooo
      In my eyes👁️

  • @idiotsaffectionate7563
    @idiotsaffectionate7563 Před 3 lety +3199

    If he was my husband, he would also be out. No tolerance for that crap.

    • @meg.g79
      @meg.g79 Před 3 lety +99

      Exactly, it’s OUR house not his he has to ask first

    • @aspirewot8408
      @aspirewot8408 Před 3 lety +10

      Probably coz you don't like dogs . I'd love to be with him

    • @royalaza
      @royalaza Před 3 lety +105

      Aspire Wot Yeah, but think of something you don’t like or don’t want, and imagine your husband buying it constantly or showing you it constantly.

    • @meg.g79
      @meg.g79 Před 3 lety +97

      Aspire Wot, I love dogs but I don’t want someone that I live with to get a dog and not ask first because it could lead to other thing cause they think I’m ok with them bring random animals/people into the house without me knowing

    • @screeaveDestination
      @screeaveDestination Před 3 lety +85

      If my husband bought dogs without my permission, he'd be kicked out too. This is what you discuss as a couple, because both have to decide, not just him!

  • @Torm_tuleb
    @Torm_tuleb Před 3 lety +2665

    I like how the problem is not in the dog... it’s in the owner

    • @sarvedha1117
      @sarvedha1117 Před 3 lety +74

      Always lol

    • @Hi-xf6qf
      @Hi-xf6qf Před 3 lety +25

      exactly ive had one and she was vary sweet she knows not to pee inside and i was only 6 i didnt know a six year old could raise and train a huge dog better than a like 50 year old

    • @AgentAnime95
      @AgentAnime95 Před 3 lety +13

      A lot of these episodes, it's the owners not the dogs.

    • @POR16085
      @POR16085 Před 3 lety +22

      It is always the owner's problem. Every dog can be trained as long as their owner is willing to and consistently do it.

    • @bubbaloo_loo_loo
      @bubbaloo_loo_loo Před 3 lety +26

      @@POR16085 Not always the owner's fault. The one episode in the UK the lady's dogs were perfectly well behaved and then they were kidnapped. When she was able to get them back they were constantly anxious and scared of everything. She needed help but it wasn't her fault

  • @miriam9635
    @miriam9635 Před 3 lety +1486

    “Just like everything that’s hard, I don’t do it.” What a man smh

  • @youreinvalid8493
    @youreinvalid8493 Před 3 lety +803

    Dude: * literally holds the dogs face while shoving water practically up his nose*
    Also dude: he just freaks out!

    • @dianamverni2145
      @dianamverni2145 Před 3 lety +80

      Right, he’s like “I wonder why he doesn’t like water when I’m grabbing him, throwing water on his face, and basically chasing him down”

    • @liesalllies
      @liesalllies Před 3 lety +44

      Does he think that's how you're supposed to bathe a dog lmao

    • @rosemaryY995
      @rosemaryY995 Před 3 lety +13

      if he is giving the other dogs a bath like that, hes doing it terribly wrong

  • @4n4.v65
    @4n4.v65 Před 3 lety +632

    I love how before Victoria said *"YOU'D BE OUT"*
    He kinda smiled he was expecting a compliment...😂

  • @lyratsura2243
    @lyratsura2243 Před 3 lety +1940

    Victoria is the Mary Poppins of dog training, called for the dog, and ends up training the parents instead (and ends up making everything better)

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 Před 3 lety +16

      this is so accurate omg lol

    • @cannapatient4209
      @cannapatient4209 Před 3 lety +15

      That’s what dog training is all about lol. People wouldn’t need professional dog trainers if they already knew how to train a dog. Dog trainers don’t train the dog, we train the owner to train their own dog lol.

    • @chillyforest69
      @chillyforest69 Před 3 lety +1

      But she’s wrong about prong collars

    • @cannapatient4209
      @cannapatient4209 Před 3 lety

      faith ashton-garcia What did she say about prong collars??

    • @JessacaRedd
      @JessacaRedd Před 3 lety +3

      Lmao, I actually just finished a biography of PL Travers, the woman who wrote Mary Poppins. 💜💜

  • @bresciaanabella7750
    @bresciaanabella7750 Před 3 lety +3927

    Victoria: if you were my husband
    *him thinking shes flirting*
    Victoria: YOU WOULD BE OUT
    him: I-
    edit: uhm I didn't think this would get attention but ty!

  • @ileolai
    @ileolai Před 3 lety +1158

    oh boy, another episode of Divorce Your Husband

  • @Lovelynessgal
    @Lovelynessgal Před 3 lety +457

    Yess i love victoria stillwell 🥺
    “If you were my husband, you’d be out” ohmygod. 😭

  • @haditariq511
    @haditariq511 Před 3 lety +1167

    victoria is the most badass person ever, I legit learnt sooo much from her and my new puppy is trained

    • @radiclelife
      @radiclelife Před 3 lety +38

      That’s awesome! I don’t have my Doberman yet, but I’ve been watching her videos as well as other channels so much to prepare. I feel pretty confident that I’ll be a good owner when that time comes. Congrats! 😁

    • @leilaniz5909
      @leilaniz5909 Před 3 lety +17

      Puppies are easy to train but when they're about 5 months old they back slide until they're 2 and you have to maintain structure during that time or you're stuck

    • @estherzhang7597
      @estherzhang7597 Před 3 lety +6

      He trains already trained dogs none of his tactics work

    • @ErenEditsz
      @ErenEditsz Před 3 lety +3

      @@estherzhang7597 do you even know how to train a dog

    • @ErenEditsz
      @ErenEditsz Před 3 lety +2

      @@estherzhang7597 no need to be jealous

  • @cutedoggoz1692
    @cutedoggoz1692 Před 3 lety +1141

    I'm sure mastiffs are great dogs, but I could never handle the drool. Especially with three of them walking around. 😬

    • @Penny-bt4gc
      @Penny-bt4gc Před 3 lety +91

      CuteDoggoz or with babies crawling around. This guy is oblivious

    • @jenniferhcsmith-5586
      @jenniferhcsmith-5586 Před 3 lety +42

      I've had one. The drool is real!

    • @j.j1999
      @j.j1999 Před 3 lety +31

      oh yeah the drool and shedding is real with these dogs😅

    • @briannat2261
      @briannat2261 Před 3 lety +51

      Yeah exactly! Which is why you must do research and make sure you get the best dog to fit your needs and lifestyle!!

    • @Logan-kc8ti
      @Logan-kc8ti Před 3 lety +20

      They are great dogs I have a French mastiff but they do drool a lot and shed constantly

  • @Panda72021
    @Panda72021 Před 3 lety +157

    Victoria: *Puts EFFORT into training a dog*
    Chad: "It's a magic trick!"

  • @DisneyMegan
    @DisneyMegan Před 3 lety +493

    “Oh he’s peeing”
    -Victoria

  • @indigogirl5172
    @indigogirl5172 Před 3 lety +113

    3:55 “...if you were my husband you would be out!” The look of fear in his eyes...he held onto his wife to make sure she hadn’t left him 😂 😂 😂

  • @tempehlove9495
    @tempehlove9495 Před 3 lety +139

    I love dogs but I've been accused of not liking them when I turn away from them jumping on me. It's nice to see Victoria do the same thing. Even dog lovers don't want to be scratched and bit and slobbered all over.

    • @toforgetisagem8145
      @toforgetisagem8145 Před 2 lety +14

      I agree with you whole heartedly. Even dog owners want to wear lovely cloths without paw Mark's. It is not unkind to teach good manners and because dogs do not use the same language as humans we need to teach them I the way they understand. Turning your back is not that you don't live them. It is because you do love them and have learned their ways because of that love. If more people understood this fewer people would have doh problems. I think you are probably an owner that could teach me things about dogs and their manners.

    • @Jeng4280
      @Jeng4280 Před rokem +1

      I’ve used that technique on my newest addition, Ladybug and it’s slowly working! Just being consistent.

  • @jennys5381
    @jennys5381 Před 3 lety +187

    The fact that he used the fact of buying a new car like a way to justify buying and bringing a new LIFE to the family when he cant even handle the dogs they already have is just insane to me, if i was her i would be FURIOUS!

    • @Norinia
      @Norinia Před 3 lety +18

      I would have given him the divorce papers the same day he pulled that ‘power move’.

    • @ahoneyman
      @ahoneyman Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah, a $50,000 car in exchange for taking care of a dog seems like a sweet deal to me. Taking care of dogs is a lot of work. $50,000 is a lot of money. Ain't nothin' free in this world.

    • @GTaichou
      @GTaichou Před rokem +9

      @@ahoneyman She's his wife, not his employee. A transactional relationship isn't a healthy one smh

    • @ahoneyman
      @ahoneyman Před rokem +3

      @@GTaichou You're right. Marriages aren't transactional. People need to stand 10 toes down for what they want. If she definitely doesn't want the dog then giving up the car is no problem. She cannot be bought at any price as there is no price tag for principles. She took the car so she needs to stop complaining about the dog. She gave up her principles for a car.

    • @Benjamin-di3wm
      @Benjamin-di3wm Před rokem

      What shocks me even more is the fact that it seems to have worked on her, seeing that the dog is still there..

  • @wordsworth6003
    @wordsworth6003 Před 3 lety +1578

    I see misogyny when most of the men recorded in this show get dog(s), leave them to their wives' care and expect all the love 🙄

    • @amritgarcha7076
      @amritgarcha7076 Před 3 lety +25

      Who needs a wife when you got a dog who won’t leave you for having a dog

    • @cleopatraonlyfans
      @cleopatraonlyfans Před 3 lety +193

      Stardust Gaming good thinking. you definitely dont need a wife

    • @momosrighthorn
      @momosrighthorn Před 3 lety +27

      That's laziness really

    • @aryadeepak8239
      @aryadeepak8239 Před 3 lety +134

      @@amritgarcha7076 stay single for life then

    • @TACOCOWUWU
      @TACOCOWUWU Před 3 lety +106

      @@amritgarcha7076 you still gotta take care of the dog

  • @Torm_tuleb
    @Torm_tuleb Před 3 lety +738

    Who else just found this channel one day and started watching every video since?

  • @RibbinOpinion
    @RibbinOpinion Před 3 lety +76

    My husband wanted the dog. We got the dog. I was really resentful because I was the one that ended up training him and taking care of him and doing everything. My husband had a really bad habit of wanting pets, but only the fun parts, not the nasty parts of pet ownership. We're better now; he's pulling his weight and helping a lot more, of course, after many discussions (many HEATED), but I know how the wife feels and it sucks.

    • @Janary08
      @Janary08 Před rokem +5

      Damn that sucks. People like your husband really need to learn that pets are not toys, they are a responsibility and companion that needs your care. Ugh.

  • @denimvelvet4670
    @denimvelvet4670 Před 3 lety +222

    I like how he tried to wash Roman.
    Get the dog near a bucket, grab with one hand, and try to splash with the other.
    My dogs who love water don't like it when you do that. I can only imagine the stress that causes a dog that might have been neutral on the subject beforehand.

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 Před 3 lety +14

      Like has he never washed a dog before?

    • @selinapoochie
      @selinapoochie Před 3 lety +15

      @@SjofnBM1989 clearly he hasnt

    • @unaestrella1876
      @unaestrella1876 Před 3 lety +3

      So if washing a dog, how do you do it? If I get a dog, I'll buy a plastic tub with Luke warm water, with a sponge thing from the pet shop. Can I have tips?

    • @eleanorcarpenter37
      @eleanorcarpenter37 Před 3 lety +8

      @@unaestrella1876 with that big a dog i'd take it into a kiddie pool or a shower. Get a ton of chicken, all the chicken, and do your best

    • @Salma-in2ny
      @Salma-in2ny Před 3 lety +4

      @@SjofnBM1989 it's like Chad said 'IF it's difficult, I don't do it'

  • @Elizaduhan
    @Elizaduhan Před 3 lety +366

    One sec if they can’t handle one dog why get more?

  • @brightfeather8700
    @brightfeather8700 Před 3 lety +780

    It’s a child's dream to live with a houseful of dogs... they just don't consider the care that goes into it most of the time

    • @icking8572
      @icking8572 Před 3 lety +130

      Growing up with multiple dogs is amazing, as long as they're properly trained and taken care of. And, to state the obvious, cleaned up after.

    • @NemuriNezumi94
      @NemuriNezumi94 Před 3 lety +23

      when I was younger we had up to 5 dogs at some point (one of them being a great dane)
      3 were outside dogs, and the great dane and fox terrier were inside dogs
      it was fine

    • @peanutloverocks5649
      @peanutloverocks5649 Před 3 lety +27

      @@NemuriNezumi94 lol i foster and rn we have about 10+ dogs (a foster had puppies and we didn't know she was pregnant since she was so malnourished) We also have 7 cats and since we train the dogs and they don't stay they're fine

    • @brightfeather8700
      @brightfeather8700 Před 3 lety +39

      I mean, if your gonna take care of them and treat everyone involve properly, then yea, go for it. I just meant how kids don’t _usually_ expect there to be any work and just want dogs

    • @rustythevizsla3605
      @rustythevizsla3605 Před 3 lety +10

      It depends, like if you have little kids and not trained dogs, it's dangerous, but if they are train and dependable, and you have the responsibility for kids and dog, than go for it

  • @thenerdytiger9306
    @thenerdytiger9306 Před 3 lety +246

    2:50 "when it's difficult i don't do it"
    you have 3 dogs and a baby, things will be difficult. what will you do when she grows up? if she confides in you about a problem will you just walk away and ignore her?

    • @potato_6591
      @potato_6591 Před 3 lety +2

      Karina Peters sounds like my life lol

    • @lord_xylozdoomsday959
      @lord_xylozdoomsday959 Před 3 lety +8

      @Karina Peters he's not a father people like that aren't even sperm donors they are accidents

    • @potato_6591
      @potato_6591 Před 3 lety

      Karina Peters sounds relatable lmao 😂

  • @yoyoyo5621
    @yoyoyo5621 Před 3 lety +126

    I feel like that wife is bottling a lot of stuff down lol I can feel the bottled up resentment

  • @smallroomartist
    @smallroomartist Před 3 lety +376

    I’m so confused at how someone would allow this in their home.

  • @sabrinabritcher439
    @sabrinabritcher439 Před 3 lety +119

    Can we just talk about how smart that dog really is though. No treats. Just did it.

  • @Sofia-pv3ju
    @Sofia-pv3ju Před 3 lety +1386

    So lemme get this straight:
    He gets one dog, can't handle it
    Solution: get more?😕🤔🤔
    Thx for all the Likes😌💅🥺

  • @opeeate
    @opeeate Před 3 lety +217

    The look Victoria gave the camera when she said chad was very confident in his ability to train the dog! 😆 he's a big child, chad the child strikes again with a stinky wee prone mastif who he won't clean up after AND he admitted if it gets too hard he won't do it. If i were that poor infinitely patient woman Mr man would be finding new lodgings because he has no respect for his wife.

  • @elliewilliams8371
    @elliewilliams8371 Před 3 lety +349

    That couple needs some serious counseling. But Victoria is definitely right.

    • @vulc1
      @vulc1 Před 3 lety +2

      You should see the episode with a women hoarding dogs and leaving them to the guy to take of while she was at work. Victoria said nothing to the women and was again complaining about the man. I think Victoria might be sexist.

    • @Cyraa23
      @Cyraa23 Před 2 lety +2

      They don’t need counselling, he needs it.

  • @ev_____2407
    @ev_____2407 Před 3 lety +200

    I don’t understand how people can’t take the time to train or care for their dogs. Especially since he wants another.

    • @smallroomartist
      @smallroomartist Před 3 lety +9

      Exactly! And that the wife doesn’t put her foot down

    • @Miaroblox2040
      @Miaroblox2040 Před 3 lety +1

      yea

    • @Miaroblox2040
      @Miaroblox2040 Před 3 lety +3

      but isnt it funny how they blurred
      out the dogs ya know

    • @sunq3831
      @sunq3831 Před 3 lety +1

      I am sure they are the same with their children. Scary, eh

    • @ev_____2407
      @ev_____2407 Před 3 lety

      Sun Q agreed

  • @Breyos
    @Breyos Před 3 lety +315

    It's hilarious to me that the editors decided: "We can't show any nudity on our family-friendly show!" and blur the dog's private area at 6:39

    • @AyaBlue22
      @AyaBlue22 Před 3 lety +57

      It's rated "R" for Roman

    • @Ratniko
      @Ratniko Před 3 lety +13

      yet they won't censor buttholes

    • @TheGoldenDunsparce
      @TheGoldenDunsparce Před 3 lety +49

      They don't blur it all the time, but do blur it when the dog's got a red rocket sticking out, thank god! lol

    • @ellashaffer8621
      @ellashaffer8621 Před 3 lety +11

      10:26 oop they forgot, time to sue them!

    • @Ratniko
      @Ratniko Před 3 lety +6

      @@ellashaffer8621 yay. 10k for emotional trauma xD

  • @pumkinspicelatte7671
    @pumkinspicelatte7671 Před rokem +10

    “Every dog deserves a family but not every family deserves a dog” ✨ 🐶 💕 ✨

  • @Ohsage1111
    @Ohsage1111 Před 3 lety +39

    Chad is a child. She has to take care of 3 dogs and a baby. The manbaby that gaslights his wife and manipulates her into taking care of his dog pals. That woman is a doormat. I hope she finds her inner queen and seeks a king to treat her as such...not a jester and a joke. We accept the love we think we deserve.

  • @dragongold63
    @dragongold63 Před 3 lety +42

    "please, provide me some space" "how is your day today" "thank you" "much appreciated" to the dog.. what does the wife get? "honey, heres another stinky baby you get to take care of, weee"

  • @UnderoathHasMyBrain
    @UnderoathHasMyBrain Před 3 lety +61

    Him: Honey, I got a surprise puppy we didn't discuss!
    Me: Oh, wonderful! I hope you got a surprise house for you and the surprise puppy we didn't discuss to live in too!

  • @deidrebetts2936
    @deidrebetts2936 Před 3 lety +424

    Okay, I need to know what this man does for a living if he can afford that huge, nice house with three very expensive dogs and he was able to buy his wife a car

    • @idkdude420
      @idkdude420 Před 3 lety +35

      Drug dealing.

    • @TheGoldenDunsparce
      @TheGoldenDunsparce Před 3 lety +150

      Probably some kinda gov worker. His narcissistic attitude and disregard for others is perfect for the agency...

    • @sevenstolen1574
      @sevenstolen1574 Před 3 lety +7

      Damn everybody is hating on the dude give my guy a break his dogs are a problem. He likes them so he acts like it

    • @sevenstolen1574
      @sevenstolen1574 Před 3 lety +5

      @@randumbuser yea obviously buddy he has something wrong. Him and his dogs are a problem. But everyone just saying everything negative and the lady should leave. Hell then she should've left instead of complaining. He likes his big guys more than anything else. That's it

    • @katphish30
      @katphish30 Před 3 lety +15

      I bet he's in sales.

  • @CursedKitten1
    @CursedKitten1 Před 3 lety +42

    Owner: my dog is deathly afraid of water
    Also owner: SPLASHES water and flails his hands at the dog's face & eyes

  • @charlottepx1707
    @charlottepx1707 Před 3 lety +95

    "Just like everything else, when it's difficult - I don't do it"
    What a sad example of a human being.

    • @JuMiKu
      @JuMiKu Před 3 lety +6

      To be fair, at least he's honest. If nothing else, he at least knows his weaknesses. First step to improvement.

    • @charlottepx1707
      @charlottepx1707 Před 3 lety +3

      @@JuMiKu yeah all right, that's true, I'll give him that.

    • @breekennedy3945
      @breekennedy3945 Před 3 lety +1

      Me when I’m depressed

  • @imperfectapollo45
    @imperfectapollo45 Před 3 lety +24

    Chad: *Yells at Roman and throws water in his face before attempting to drag him over.*
    Also Chad: Yeah I dunno why he doesn't like the water.

  • @kelseylauren624
    @kelseylauren624 Před 2 lety +22

    I’ve watched so many of these videos, and it’s amazing to me how pet situations reveal deep, DEEP interpersonal issues with the couples/families Victoria works with.
    Also, never bring home an animal that your partner hasn’t agreed to!

  • @meg.g79
    @meg.g79 Před 3 lety +326

    If my husband brought a dog home without asking me first, there would be serious problems

    • @77777bodek
      @77777bodek Před 3 lety

      Mhmmm

    • @ladyofnoxus6733
      @ladyofnoxus6733 Před 3 lety +20

      Id take that dog straight back to the place he got it. Sorry if there is no discussion on his part. I'm only giving a simple statement. I'm taking the dog back.

    • @LilithTheAquarian369
      @LilithTheAquarian369 Před 3 lety +2

      @@ladyofnoxus6733 I wish o coins but he’s making payments on the dog. Like who does that. I said I wanted a puppy, but not now. When we moved & were more established. He got it on our anniversary. I cried but not because of the dog, but because of all the work I knew I had to do. We’ve had a Maltipoo for 10 years as well. I’m so done. OMG. Do men have a biological connection with animals? I don’t like them.

    • @khris_goodman
      @khris_goodman Před 3 lety

      Only I CAN DO SUCH A THING 😂🖤

    • @dwjackson5662
      @dwjackson5662 Před 3 lety +3

      I brought home our three dogs without my husband knowing, He helps me with them, feeds, them, helps me train them. He brings home things and does not tell me first and i support him with whatever he brings homes. We have a great relationship, he allows me to do whatever i want, he supports me and i do the same to him. :)

  • @aly5238
    @aly5238 Před 3 lety +74

    The thing that really made me mad was when Victoria was confronting him about how he got 3 DOGS by mallipulating his wife and he said AND I QUOTE I HAVENT DONE IT IN A FEW YEARS 😡😡😡😡

  • @haha101de
    @haha101de Před 3 lety +30

    Dog always pee when he see other people
    Owner: how about we put carpets everywhere!

  • @kemma_
    @kemma_ Před 3 lety +22

    Honestly chad is like a kid, wants a pet but never takes responsibility

  • @hydra6442
    @hydra6442 Před 3 lety +23

    "fear of water"
    he is throwing water at the dog, if I was the dog I would run away too...

  • @zahrawilliams5028
    @zahrawilliams5028 Před 3 lety +49

    Oh my God his wife has so much patience

  • @alarcon99
    @alarcon99 Před 3 lety +42

    He ran into my knife..
    He ran into my knife 10 times..

  • @claudiabacikariqi5239
    @claudiabacikariqi5239 Před 3 lety +171

    He calls himself a man and treats his wife like....ill do it, it doesnt matter if ur unhappy and youll take care of them. Selfish and immature.

    • @mutoidliz2320
      @mutoidliz2320 Před 3 lety +13

      My Partner brought himself a dog,let it basically take my place as a girlfriend and swore at me if I tried to get into bed without the dog in the middle. How he blubbed when it went to live with his Mother 🤷🏼‍♀️😂😂

    • @cleopatraonlyfans
      @cleopatraonlyfans Před 3 lety +2

      Lizzie Louise no room for a dog while ur taking care of a baby

    • @Vanishingbakura
      @Vanishingbakura Před 3 lety

      @@mutoidliz2320 that’s a little mean to him all he wanted was a dog

    • @mutoidliz2320
      @mutoidliz2320 Před 3 lety +8

      @@Vanishingbakura Without asking while our baby was teething and I was already stretched thin enough? Not mean at all and I hope he learned his lesson to ask the rest of the family before you add another family member 😂

    • @mutoidliz2320
      @mutoidliz2320 Před 3 lety +2

      @@cleopatraonlyfans Exactly,especially when I was doing all the childcare and was then expected to look after a puppy that I didn’t even ask for 😂

  • @fishsoup8826
    @fishsoup8826 Před 3 lety +163

    The dogs only need some training the humans need the most

  • @lizziehan13
    @lizziehan13 Před 3 lety +82

    I had Mastiffs, they never stop drooling and they never stop shedding. EVER.

    • @Logan-kc8ti
      @Logan-kc8ti Před 3 lety +1

      A have a French mastiff he gets hair and drool everywhere

    • @chenupet7939
      @chenupet7939 Před 3 lety +8

      I am a cat mom sitting here like 👁👄👁
      I don't have to deal with that hahah

    • @TheSylvirr
      @TheSylvirr Před 3 lety +2

      But they're such big babies and so good at snuggling. Every time I say 'Hmm, no more' I find myself going 'Okay, just this once'.

    • @destinygillum3771
      @destinygillum3771 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm picking up my Italian Masstiff in 4 weeks her name is Haven

    • @danniellaslark2889
      @danniellaslark2889 Před 3 lety +1

      **laughs in alaskan malamute and Belgian mali**

  • @amethystsage5135
    @amethystsage5135 Před 3 lety +31

    Every episode I love how surprised the owners are once their dogs start being trained and acting better. Like their in legitimate shock.... And the rest of us are thinking "Yeah- that's what happens when you train a dog. They do as you say" 🙄🙄

    • @Umeshukitsune
      @Umeshukitsune Před 2 lety +1

      He seems well off. You'd think he'd pay for dog training

    • @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj
      @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj Před rokem

      @@Umeshukitsune he probably can't afford it after filling his house with dogs 🤣

  • @knithappens1757
    @knithappens1757 Před 3 lety +24

    I feel like Melissa wouldn’t even be against dogs if he’d take care of them or clean up after them. Like. 👀👀

  • @CupcakesAreYummy667
    @CupcakesAreYummy667 Před 3 lety +82

    This continues to prove that any man named Chad is like this

  • @sylvain123
    @sylvain123 Před rokem +3

    Roman is a beautiful dog, he just needed a stronger but gentle leader to show and guide him as to what is expected of him. He didn't understand. He needed to know his job. As soon as he understood the greeting ritual at the door and his job he's a happier dog immediately. You can see it in his face. No more peeing as he knows what to do. No more anxiety and confusion. Lovely smart dog that picked things up quickly 💖

  • @bobraz1866
    @bobraz1866 Před 3 lety +92

    No more dogs
    Next episode: Family gets another dog

    • @hannypressley343
      @hannypressley343 Před 3 lety

      Chad seems like he might b to nice

    • @hoho7029
      @hoho7029 Před 3 lety +1

      It's a clip from 12 years ago all those dogs are probably dead by now

    • @greenhouseanimations5278
      @greenhouseanimations5278 Před 3 lety

      @@hoho7029 dogs can live up to 30 in human years so I think there just old

    • @crazydaisyog3984
      @crazydaisyog3984 Před 3 lety +4

      @@greenhouseanimations5278 large Mastiff's live an AVERAGE of 8-10yrs.
      I'm sure he bought more Mastiff's

    • @juliafulcher2615
      @juliafulcher2615 Před 3 lety +1

      @@greenhouseanimations5278 no they do not. The oldest living dog was 29. Large breed dogs have an average lifespan of 8-10. Smaller breed dogs can live up to twenty and sometimes a few years past that, but it’s not common.

  • @ieatbread9435
    @ieatbread9435 Před 3 lety +10

    Victoria’s quote for 2020: “if you were my husband, you’d be out!!” Love that

  • @agirlhasnoname6637
    @agirlhasnoname6637 Před 3 lety +9

    I can unfortunately relate fully with this poor woman as I myself am the "owner" of 3 (rescue/ med to large breed) dogs i didnt want, but at least my son is old enough to help. I couldn't imagine dealing with 3 untrained dogs and a baby too!!! 😭

  • @DIY_BIind_bags
    @DIY_BIind_bags Před 3 lety +71

    How do people live like this..

    • @crazyplantlady2587
      @crazyplantlady2587 Před 3 lety

      I have no idea😐

    • @PROg-nj3kc
      @PROg-nj3kc Před 3 lety +3

      Id just throw the dogs out or just keep one no way am i accepting pee on my floor.

    • @nela3986
      @nela3986 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Dnsssshs the worst part is that it was his wife doing the clean up. I would be so mad.

    • @mutoidliz2320
      @mutoidliz2320 Před 3 lety

      Shelsea De Vuyst I’d throw the Chad and the dogs out 😂

    • @barb6725
      @barb6725 Před 2 lety

      My boyfriend has done it and after some time you just zone out of life completely and just do it

  • @sarahcampbell1333
    @sarahcampbell1333 Před 3 lety +10

    "SAY IT MELISSA" "YOU SHOULD BE LISTENING TO YOUR WIFE!!" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @AdmiralColdhead
    @AdmiralColdhead Před 3 lety +156

    It’s me or the dog?? More like:
    It’s you. The dog is innocent. It’s mostly the males in the family.

  • @hannahr.6190
    @hannahr.6190 Před 3 lety +7

    I love how brutally honest she is

  • @Mortar-
    @Mortar- Před 3 lety +10

    Me if I was the wife: *Moonwalks out with baby in arms*

  • @kraxel.964
    @kraxel.964 Před 3 lety +10

    Petition for Victoria to get a award 🥇

  • @Katthegoddess
    @Katthegoddess Před 3 lety +11

    My dog's name is Romeo but me and my husband sometimes call him Romes. Everytime Chad did and said good boyyy he shot up from the covers and looked around 😂 it was adorable

  • @Anna-nr3up
    @Anna-nr3up Před 3 lety +7

    “If u where my husband , u’d be OUT!”
    Omg I died 😂🤣

  • @coffee1537
    @coffee1537 Před 3 lety +51

    I would divorce him :/

    • @ichikoyui3107
      @ichikoyui3107 Před 3 lety +3

      The second he mentioned a 4TH DOG, hes OUT. I cant believe he treats his wife so poorly!

  • @jordanphilipperris
    @jordanphilipperris Před 2 lety +12

    There was an episode with a lady who was bringing in some rescues and expecting her reluctant husband who didn't want that many dogs in the first place to also take on the responsibilities (She even had a list for him of the meds and other stuff to do). I felt sorry for that guy...

    • @themistressofminerals
      @themistressofminerals Před 2 lety +1

      Even if it wasn't his responsibility they had 4 other pugs and he was already doing a lot of the same care for the other 4 dogs. If he was an actual animal lover he would've taken the effort to do those things for 1 more dog, even if he didn't choose it

    • @jordanphilipperris
      @jordanphilipperris Před 2 lety +3

      @@themistressofminerals Well, the guy I am speaking of didn't choose to have that many dogs and his wife knew this but did it anyways, so I can understand him being upset :)

    • @esmeraldagreengate4354
      @esmeraldagreengate4354 Před rokem +2

      @@jordanphilipperris at least she was actually taking care of the dogs instead of expecting her partner to do it all.

  • @pancakesandtea
    @pancakesandtea Před 3 lety +29

    Roman is a bloody cute dog though, he does have an adorable personality

  • @pentamelli8713
    @pentamelli8713 Před 3 lety +4

    I just love this women. Victoria, you are not only doing a great job, you are an inspiration!

  • @SCdreamdrawer
    @SCdreamdrawer Před 3 lety +39

    My first impression: Of course it's a Chad lol.

  • @faeriecherries
    @faeriecherries Před 3 lety +3

    "like with most things that are hard, i don't do it"
    nice life motto bro, my 3 year old nephew has the same one

  • @Farenomos
    @Farenomos Před 3 lety +7

    “If you were my husband, YOU’D BE OUT.”
    At this point victoria bein a savage broo

  • @esmecohen_23
    @esmecohen_23 Před 3 lety +8

    Can I just say, even with three dogs their house is very clean and neat.

  • @jasperdiscovers
    @jasperdiscovers Před 3 lety +45

    he's truly a Chad.

  • @addisen7131
    @addisen7131 Před 3 lety

    You are my role model when it comes to animals the way you understand them and know so much about them leaves me in awe

  • @Phantom_Fox90
    @Phantom_Fox90 Před 3 lety +8

    From a few months after I was born to around 7 years later I lived with rottweilers. My mom said that they both (we owned two but at different years) listened to me even though I was super tiny a basically a toddler.
    I guess I knew when and how to use that firm tone you have to use with dogs. They weren't afraid of me or anything, they just noticed my tone change and instantly knew what was up lol.
    It's great (and highly encouraged) that you talk to your dog to build a friendship with them, as long as you remember they're dogs. Not humans. They might be your best friend but they don't understand human so you have to have some kind of let them know when you're giving a command/getting them to do something, if you don't then they'll just stare at you because you're just speaking gibberish to them. Exciting and happy gibberish, but it's still gibberish.
    If you feel bad about using a firm tone with your bestie dog friend and can't even think about ever getting firm with them, then maybe try with noises instead. Like clickers or make a noise you don't normally make so they can pair that noise and the command in their mind. It might not worked but it's worth a shot.

  • @fabiolamedina3795
    @fabiolamedina3795 Před 3 lety +6

    I love how Victoria is so brave she inspires me ❤

  • @callmemaddy6419
    @callmemaddy6419 Před 3 lety +8

    my moms the same . she talks to our dog like a human and expect him to follow commands she says in the middle of talking . like - she can talk to him but not try and give commands to him at the same time .

  • @thetruepatriot7733
    @thetruepatriot7733 Před 3 lety +2

    you have to admitt...those dogs are absolutely beautiful. he's gatta stop spoiling them and give them the leadership they desperately need!

  • @ithinkmypfpiscool1311
    @ithinkmypfpiscool1311 Před 3 lety +4

    3:56 he literally just smiled thinking she was flirting 😂

  • @freakface9307
    @freakface9307 Před 3 lety +27

    I love this show I’m just addicted

  • @marielsalisbury1552
    @marielsalisbury1552 Před 3 lety +3

    My ex husband has a border collie and only got him for the bragging rights of owning a border collie. Border Collies are working dogs and his dog was so bored he would absolutely destroy everything. From his toys to the plaster on the walls (he would chase shadows on the wall).

  • @IwasBlueb4
    @IwasBlueb4 Před 3 lety +1

    awww hes such a loving daddy....and he DID work on the training...i thought h would...he just needed that bit of guidance

  • @April-Marie_
    @April-Marie_ Před 2 lety +1

    My mom came home with one surprise: a kitten (this was awhile ago). She doesn’t regret getting him because he’s an amazing cat and everyone in the family (especially me) loves him. But she’s said that she wouldn’t do that ever again and that it wasn’t fair to my dad.

  • @el.ka2650
    @el.ka2650 Před 3 lety +6

    I’m allergic to fur and just watching this made me sneeze a lot. I’m not even kidding, as soon as I started the video I was just sneezing everywhere and my eyes started watering.

  • @jessaives7317
    @jessaives7317 Před 3 lety +4

    I had six dogs at one time. Thankfully they were all well behaved!

  • @heathers2581
    @heathers2581 Před 3 lety +6

    "Was a 45 minute discussion in the pet store" I'm dead XD this lady you can tell is so done

  • @Lyncitia
    @Lyncitia Před 3 lety +12

    Chad:
    -talks to dogs like they are humans, but grabs them and splashes water into their face.
    -has human wife and baby, treats them like animals

  • @Abby-jx1ko
    @Abby-jx1ko Před 3 lety +10

    Victoria: is a success every time and has been doing this for ten years
    Me literally every time: *GASP* this is unbelievably incredible!

  • @trude8073
    @trude8073 Před 3 lety +6

    I would have already left... Poor child living in that household 😔

  • @johnwilliams1094
    @johnwilliams1094 Před 3 lety

    The help is appreciated.

  • @theequalizer694
    @theequalizer694 Před 2 lety +1

    “Just like everything else when it’s difficult I don’t do it.” Words to live by