Thanks for watching, If you enjoyed this video give it a like and comment your thoughts below. Connect with me on TikTok and Instagram @abigxrl I will see you in the next one - xo ABI
Holy- For the past two months I've been in this state of "numbness" and lack of motivation for anything, even life. I've felt like I was spiraling into a routine of hell daily, and seeing this video on my feed today just told me everything I've been subconsciously telling myself but was too afraid to commit to. That fear of the unknown and breaking away from everything that I thought I knew kept me from becoming a better me. A new me. I needed this, and judging from the similar comments here, everyone else needed it, too.
I'm actually on the process of building my confidence and socializing,and what I realized is that it's actually feels great and easier than what i always thought it's hard lol... I first started going on church (which is kinda crowded but fr it helping me a lot)
God's grace is with you you've got this. I have had a similar thing of socialising in Church and my Church has an evening service which I prefer because its quieter but I have friends there. Find the right service for you if your Church has multiple and whatever happens know in your heart that God is in control no one else and he cares about you ❤
Wow I've never thought I'd see a similar circumstance here. Recently, I started joing the hospitality team in my church and realized that all my fear in socializing was nothing because I did fine in talking and knowing about other people! What really hinders us from being better is our mind that cages us. By God's grace I was able to serve without a problem. I'll be praying for you so keep on keeping on!
I have had a lot of moments in my life where I have been afraid of what will happen trying something new. I end up pushing it away, but this video makes me realize that I am halting success by working through this by simply trying. If I try then I can say I did it, the outcome shouldn’t matter. I needed this.❤️
I literally started implementing Nike's motto as a life mantra a few months ago because i'm so sick of living in fear. Since then, I've been planning so I can start taking action as soon as possible.
I really appreciate your existence. Even though I don't know you, seeing you reconnect with a past friend and living your best life made me very happy. It reminded me that anything is possible, and that I can do it too. I also haven't journaled since January this year, and yet somehow you've convinced me to open it up again and do the prompt you suggested haha. I don't want to live my life in fear anymore. I've been mentally and emotionally "stuck" this entire year, feeling rained with no motivation, rarely going outside, and not being close to anyone anymore. Anyway, I digress, thank you so much for this ❤
this video is...... the EXACT push & energy I needed. one of the biggest fears I overcame recently was starting a youtube channel - fear of how people would perceive me, fear that people would not care for me or my content, etc. hearing you speak about your experiences what dealing with your own fears of the unknown has inspired me to continue pushing myself even when I feel the slightly bit of fear or discouragement, and think more about embracing opportunities in an optimistic way. thank you ❤
I needed to hear this from you girl, you talking about being nervous with presentations/job interviews really hit home for me as I’m a student right now in my junior year of university thinking a LOT about what will be of my near future. I thank you kindly for your words
GORL! THANK YOU for reminding me to have faith in GOD always. First video, I've watched on your channel and i love. Keep making these videos because it motivates be to put myself out there. xx
Yes,have faith in God. The bible says-FAITH-without works is-DEAD. Make small moves at first to get out of your comfort zone. GO get'em-SOLDIER !!!! LOL.
This vid popped up en I shed a tear at the end of it. In 2 weeks i am going to move across the world to south-Afrika for a half year. It’s been stressful. But you reminded me that almost 2 years ago i made the same decision to move across the country, it was the best decision ever. You reminded me that if I could do it then. I could do it now. And stop overthinking. Thank you🙏🏻🤍. Sending love ❤️
Thank you for this. This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Ever since we moved to a different country, I've slowly regressed into this mould. For 6 six years I've stayed in this mould because of fear. Our life here was so unstable that I fear for my future. I fear of the possibility of going back home where we would start everything from scratch. But hearing this, I'm trying my best to not fear and strive for the better. What I realized is that we shouldn't fear of the intangible circumstances. A lot times things are way out of our control and all we can do is just accept it. Again, thank you for this and God bless you!
Feel the fear and do it anyway. Discomfort is good. Your nervous system is trying to keep you with what's familiar. But change/growth/evolution is the purpose of our being. When you take action the universe will intervene and make things happen better than you ever could have imagined. 💚💫 *#MoveAdjust* when's the last time that you did something for the first time?
thank u so much for making this video , it made me cry but thats a good thing because i finally get what that eerie dark feelings that have been with me for years now really are - i definitely got closer to an answer over the years but this just described exactly what it is . Fear can hold our life's captive in so many different ways and with the endless chatter of social media u can just avoid facing your fears without even realising how and when every single thing in your life started catering to iT.
This is my first video I’m ever watching of you and immediately, thank you for being so authentic and brave in sharing your voice. It’s so so nice to listen and learn a new perspective
WOW this was just what i needed to watch. i'm at a very clear turning point in my life right now and i've been trying my hardest to not let *the fear* stop me from diving into the transition head first. it's almost always ourselves stopping us from leveling up in life, don't sabotage your own greatness!! thank you for making this video
this video was so inspiring! your energy is amazing and i completely resonated with your point about embracing the mystery. instead of operating out of fear, why not operate from the energy that maybe things will turn out better than you expected? anyways, this video was so creative and empowering. love it
God made this pop up just in time. Tomorrow i go back to college after a term where i have been falsely accused for things and have been prejudiced and discriminated against because im a Christian in whispers behind my back and subtle hatred just to have to sit with these people tomorrow and this was perfect. I also have a few other decisions i need to be making and i am holding onto every thread God gives me in making those because making the right decisions is so important to me in this situation
what a beautiful video. the visuals, but most importantly the message. we all need to hear this regardless of the path we’re each on. life is so beautiful and fragile yet rewarding when you push past your own limitations. “the worship of safety emasculates greatness.”
I feel like I've been stuck in a cycle of fatigue and frustration longer than the times that I've let myself try new things, because i didn't trust myself to explore life and fail meanwhile trying. When you wrote Villajoyosa I knew instantly that I was meant to come across this video beaucse all of what you're saying resonates with me and, most importantly, I live really close to there, I hope you all had fun and muchísimas gracias for the video, for rekindling the passion of lots of people and for being authentic, you're an angel.
Thank you so so much for your video Abi ! 🥹🫶🙏 I am in a phase of my life where fear is eating me alive in all of my different spheres (friendship, love, career, personal projects, etc) so thank you for your videos. It really resonated in my soul and my heart. I’m ready to kick off that FEAR 🦵🏻💥💥💥
This video appeared on my timeline at the perfect time! Thank you for the much needed encouragement and inspiration! And it was really special hearing about your experiences travelling. I hope to travel more someday!
Love this I totally needed this and spoke about overcoming fear as well and how it has really held me back from starting to do things that really align with my and not just with what people want me to be.
I was thinking the same thing! Which is so apropos for this video. Shaking off the fear of sharing those vulnerable, beautiful parts of us. Good luck, I hope you share your poetry soon!
Summary: Overcoming fear and seizing opportunities is the key message. Shared personal experiences of reconnecting with old friends and embracing uncertainty.
Thank you for this video, I came out of a very very chaotic emotional moment and I'm making some decisions and setting very scary goals for a near future and even though I'm aware we're capable of achieving everything, putting our minds and heart to it, there are always mental blocks and fears that prevent us from taking the first step towards our best life. Your words inspired me and filled me with courage to go after these goals even more confidently now! Wish you the best!
What you have shared with us in this video are the exact thoughts and realizations that have suddenly been lingering in my mind for the past three days. I'd like to add that I don't use CZcams as a motivator; meaning that I only use it for entertainment. This video appeared on my feed and I usually would ignore it or even tell CZcams that I am "not interested" but I am so glad I clicked anyway. I love this confirmation. I love how you took the time to share this with us. Most of all, I love how this invisible energy? force? thing?? knew I didn't completely understand, or in words at least, and took this video that you made 2 months ago and put in on my feed. I hope you know what a great thing it is that you are doing. Striving for this peace, learning it, feeling it, battling it, and to then make a beautiful piece of art to share the wisdom you've acquired with all who may need it. Thank you so much Abi. xx
I'm in tre process of making big changes in my life and I have no doubt this video found its way to my recommendations. I love your reflexion and I just wanted to let you know that you inspired me, motivated me, and I'm a new subscriber. Keep up the good work and keep fighting the good fight. Much love😍
I've been watching videos all day to prepare myself for 2024...but yours is one of the best. This video was just so real and just everything I need to get that push to start. Thank you!
Ur video has popped a while ago on my page and i downloded it without knowing your channel,you etc.The way you speak about friendships and connected it to our human life literally gave me the vibe of me talking from her highest form,future self.Or it was simply a big sister advice that i have never experienced of at home.Thank you❤
11:45 my timestamp to listen to this again when I need it... (it touched my heart!!!) Thank you for the comfort that your words gave me, bless you :)!!! I really really just have no words (And so sorry if u saw the other super out of topic comment I deleted, it was meant for another video :(!! I got confused for a sec, too many tabs open at once)
I understand the core message here. However, we need to acknowledge that it is healthy to fear. Fear is there (sometimes) to help keep us safe and alive. That said, it is when fear festers, and you no longer are living your life because fear has taken over that perhaps it's time to take fear by the hand like a stubborn old friend and move forward with fear. Because it's unlikely that fear is just going to go away. Being fearless is a misnomer. Embracing fear as a part of your humanity and finding your power is often, if not always, what fuels motivation.
14:00 just wow, this message came to me at the right time. I just had a job interview over the weekend and got rejected so it’s been weighing on my mind but your words of reassurance really put me at ease so ty!
i wish i have the courage to reach out to old friends, wish i could be brave enough to try things and pursue whatever it is. but i literally run on anxiety and worries. even in my cozy days, i still feel uneasy. i just do what im told and stopped pursuing what i like because it feels scary to the point that it numbs me. i’ll save this vid and rewatch, along with the other videos that i found. thank you for sharing your thoughts and making this video. hope people who are like me will keep going no matter how hard it is to move one step ahead.
Recently i struggle with myself a lots. The pressure coming from my study really press me, and some plans i want to do but i haven't. After watching your video, i realize that "oh, the beauty of life come from the things we can't control, the things are unexpected". and i realize that how am I strong to be here today, i overcame so many challenges in the past that i had thought i can't. Many thanks to you ABI (sorry I don't know exactly your name in real life). I feel better now and I will do the things I want to do now. Love 🧡
Girl thank you so much I love you, I have a new journal notebook and I was wondering what I would write about on it but you just gave me an idea. This video could change my life forever.
I love you! I just came across this video in divine timing of course. But you have a new member to your channel. Thank you! Let's be a blessing to one another!
thank you so so so so much! your words are so magical to me feels like there's someone encourage me and your video helps me a lot. hope you always in a good condition, God bless you!
Glad this video found me :) I really needed to hear this as someone who always has anxiety about the unpredictability of the future. Loved the way you articulated the need to try in the first place and embracing the possibility that things could go well one way or another
I love this video so much. You did such a good job structuring the different topics. This video is very much needed for me at this season of life. Thank you for pushing through and posting this!
So actually I was going to skip this video but, it started playing by its own! I think a beautiful message for me. Thanks universe and the creator of this video 💖
Yes this is how I got over most of my anxiety even though there is a lot of fear. You have a way with words! Definitely subscribed, and even if things don't work out, at least you were brave enough to overcome it
In response to your advice jotting down 3things your fearful of doing or have been attempting but feeling held back: 3 things that I have been fearful of doing 1, live streaming/broadcasting I've done it before in the last, I was a big time streamer. I eventually had to let go and be present in my own space because of the transition I had to make at the time in a new city. So now, it like I have all these Ideas of what I want to do and what could possibly help me with my situation, as if I'm looking in every other place but I front of my nose because I've become accustomed to who I am now rather than who I was before 2, work from home It'll be a different experience and first time at that. What I'm use to is going out, finding a job, and handling everything personally. The thing is, the fear has me asking myself why. With experience shouldn't that make you feel courageous seeing that you've done it before? I've put myself out there on video, especially with the social media platform, I think that would make it easies or prepare you for situations such as this, but some people are just stuck in there ways so much so that it's not that they don't want to adapt, or havent attempted, it's just like being raised, you've had the experience but eventually you return back to your own tradition, your roots, or the way you was brought up... you try because that's what's worked for you and felt most safe. 3, selling my belongings I don't know why I'm this way, and I see a lot of people who post pictures, and do the most either if it's for building themselves up to entrepreneurship status, times of struggles, times of desperation, or for whatever reason they do; i do feel like i have what it takes or maybe just the potential to figure it out but as ive mention before when youve been raised or brought up a certain way, any other way is like going down a foreign road and instinctively you just dont. Sometimes I just feel so immature or childish to be this way because as a parent your expected to do what it takes for the sake of your child, you figure it out regardless, but as a mother... we just have to be smarter
thank you so much for taking the time to share, really enjoyed reading this. I hope you’re able to figure things out, you sound like you’ve got a good head on your shoulders. I’m really rooting for you sister
I’m new here ❤️ and Oh my God 🥺❤️ thank you. There’s so many videos that could possibly be talking about what you’re addressing but yours is perfect. Yours is very realistic, which is what people connect to mostly when watching videos like these. So many of your examples are relatable. Your tone was calm, it didn’t feel like you were attacking us❤️ I could listen to you talk about anything ❤️
This popped up on time
same same same
I read this pooped on time 😂🤣
🙋🏿♂️hey this👉🏿🍆🍆ok boo
This popped up on time for me too❤
Same and I needed it
Holy-
For the past two months I've been in this state of "numbness" and lack of motivation for anything, even life. I've felt like I was spiraling into a routine of hell daily, and seeing this video on my feed today just told me everything I've been subconsciously telling myself but was too afraid to commit to. That fear of the unknown and breaking away from everything that I thought I knew kept me from becoming a better me. A new me. I needed this, and judging from the similar comments here, everyone else needed it, too.
Never heard anyone put it into words as best as this, it’s the exact same for me. Hope ur doing okay!!
I feel you deeply, deeply.
Girrrla thank you for being open to share this cus this hit home! So many of us on the same energy wave✨❤️❤️
💛💛🙏🏽
I'm actually on the process of building my confidence and socializing,and what I realized is that it's actually feels great and easier than what i always thought it's hard lol... I first started going on church (which is kinda crowded but fr it helping me a lot)
God's grace is with you you've got this. I have had a similar thing of socialising in Church and my Church has an evening service which I prefer because its quieter but I have friends there. Find the right service for you if your Church has multiple and whatever happens know in your heart that God is in control no one else and he cares about you ❤
Wow I've never thought I'd see a similar circumstance here. Recently, I started joing the hospitality team in my church and realized that all my fear in socializing was nothing because I did fine in talking and knowing about other people! What really hinders us from being better is our mind that cages us. By God's grace I was able to serve without a problem. I'll be praying for you so keep on keeping on!
THIS VOICEOVER, THE CURLS, THE SUBTLE MOVEMENTS. May this be in more peoples algorithms. Just subscribed!! SHEESH!!
Im afraid of youtube now cause WTH this was JUST ON TIME! bless you girl! kisses from Chile and many thanks!!
Hahahahha 💛 thank you!
The way you articulated it and put it together was so sweetly done I love every word you said 🥺✨🌈☀️
I have had a lot of moments in my life where I have been afraid of what will happen trying something new. I end up pushing it away, but this video makes me realize that I am halting success by working through this by simply trying. If I try then I can say I did it, the outcome shouldn’t matter. I needed this.❤️
Exactly my struggle here. I really pray I get through this 🙏
@@ugojijessica6977 You will.Just start small,baby steps. Make a small move.
I literally started implementing Nike's motto as a life mantra a few months ago because i'm so sick of living in fear. Since then, I've been planning so I can start taking action as soon as possible.
Amazing to hear 💛
I really appreciate your existence. Even though I don't know you, seeing you reconnect with a past friend and living your best life made me very happy. It reminded me that anything is possible, and that I can do it too. I also haven't journaled since January this year, and yet somehow you've convinced me to open it up again and do the prompt you suggested haha. I don't want to live my life in fear anymore. I've been mentally and emotionally "stuck" this entire year, feeling rained with no motivation, rarely going outside, and not being close to anyone anymore. Anyway, I digress, thank you so much for this ❤
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏽 I’m glad you found the story inspiring and I hope the journal prompt was helpful. Wishing you all the best 💛💛💛
this video is...... the EXACT push & energy I needed. one of the biggest fears I overcame recently was starting a youtube channel - fear of how people would perceive me, fear that people would not care for me or my content, etc. hearing you speak about your experiences what dealing with your own fears of the unknown has inspired me to continue pushing myself even when I feel the slightly bit of fear or discouragement, and think more about embracing opportunities in an optimistic way. thank you ❤
This is such a beautifully made video! And I personally needed to hear this message.
Plz keep up the great work!
Thank you 🙏🏽💛
"The worship of fear emasculates greatness‼️" Thank you for this perspective. 🫴🏽✝️❤️🛐✨
I needed to hear this from you girl, you talking about being nervous with presentations/job interviews really hit home for me as I’m a student right now in my junior year of university thinking a LOT about what will be of my near future. I thank you kindly for your words
GORL! THANK YOU for reminding me to have faith in GOD always. First video, I've watched on your channel and i love. Keep making these videos because it motivates be to put myself out there. xx
Yes,have faith in God. The bible says-FAITH-without works is-DEAD. Make small moves at first to get out of your comfort zone. GO get'em-SOLDIER !!!! LOL.
This vid popped up en I shed a tear at the end of it.
In 2 weeks i am going to move across the world to south-Afrika for a half year. It’s been stressful. But you reminded me that almost 2 years ago i made the same decision to move across the country, it was the best decision ever. You reminded me that if I could do it then. I could do it now. And stop overthinking. Thank you🙏🏻🤍. Sending love ❤️
Thank you for this. This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Ever since we moved to a different country, I've slowly regressed into this mould. For 6 six years I've stayed in this mould because of fear. Our life here was so unstable that I fear for my future. I fear of the possibility of going back home where we would start everything from scratch. But hearing this, I'm trying my best to not fear and strive for the better. What I realized is that we shouldn't fear of the intangible circumstances. A lot times things are way out of our control and all we can do is just accept it. Again, thank you for this and God bless you!
Feel the fear and do it anyway. Discomfort is good. Your nervous system is trying to keep you with what's familiar. But change/growth/evolution is the purpose of our being. When you take action the universe will intervene and make things happen better than you ever could have imagined. 💚💫 *#MoveAdjust* when's the last time that you did something for the first time?
thank u so much for making this video , it made me cry but thats a good thing because i finally get what that eerie dark feelings that have been with me for years now really are - i definitely got closer to an answer over the years but this just described exactly what it is . Fear can hold our life's captive in so many different ways and with the endless chatter of social media u can just avoid facing your fears without even realising how and when every single thing in your life started catering to iT.
Absolutely
This is my first video I’m ever watching of you and immediately, thank you for being so authentic and brave in sharing your voice. It’s so so nice to listen and learn a new perspective
WOW this was just what i needed to watch. i'm at a very clear turning point in my life right now and i've been trying my hardest to not let *the fear* stop me from diving into the transition head first. it's almost always ourselves stopping us from leveling up in life, don't sabotage your own greatness!! thank you for making this video
this video was so inspiring! your energy is amazing and i completely resonated with your point about embracing the mystery. instead of operating out of fear, why not operate from the energy that maybe things will turn out better than you expected? anyways, this video was so creative and empowering. love it
God made this pop up just in time. Tomorrow i go back to college after a term where i have been falsely accused for things and have been prejudiced and discriminated against because im a Christian in whispers behind my back and subtle hatred just to have to sit with these people tomorrow and this was perfect. I also have a few other decisions i need to be making and i am holding onto every thread God gives me in making those because making the right decisions is so important to me in this situation
Thank you love, starting my business this week and this popped up, divine timing, peace and blessings 🧡✨
fear is really controlling my life rn
what a beautiful video. the visuals, but most importantly the message. we all need to hear this regardless of the path we’re each on. life is so beautiful and fragile yet rewarding when you push past your own limitations.
“the worship of safety emasculates greatness.”
Your words of wisdom are so potent and powerful, Thank you for the work that you do🙏🏽❣️
your brother and cousin just going out and chatting with locals and having fun really resonated with me 💗
this video reached me in a dire time of life. thank you so much for creating such a beautiful community. Love you back:)
I did not want this video to be over! I was hungry for more of this goodness. Definitely was food for my soul. Thank you for sharing!!
Not related but I loveeeee the set up on this video! The plants! The natural matérias, the soft warm light! It’s literally everything! ❤
I'm in my last year of high school so this helped me put things into perspective more, thank you!
I feel like I've been stuck in a cycle of fatigue and frustration longer than the times that I've let myself try new things, because i didn't trust myself to explore life and fail meanwhile trying.
When you wrote Villajoyosa I knew instantly that I was meant to come across this video beaucse all of what you're saying resonates with me and, most importantly, I live really close to there, I hope you all had fun and muchísimas gracias for the video, for rekindling the passion of lots of people and for being authentic, you're an angel.
Waw thats amazing, wishing you all the best 💛
Yes, it's really is cool to reconnect with or remain friends with a childhood friend. Imagine experiencing this at my age; 64. :)
And I am so happy we connected ❤ What a beautiful lesson in being fearless, ignoring the what-ifs and embracing possibility!
Nieke!!!! love you girl can't wait to reconnect again
Thank you! whoever reading this God bless you and have a good day!
Thank you so so much for your video Abi ! 🥹🫶🙏 I am in a phase of my life where fear is eating me alive in all of my different spheres (friendship, love, career, personal projects, etc) so thank you for your videos. It really resonated in my soul and my heart. I’m ready to kick off that FEAR 🦵🏻💥💥💥
Your poem grabbed me and the title. This is so inspiring and motivating. Thank you for sharing this with us 👍💕🔔
This video just inspired me to take that leap of faith, love it! 😊
This video appeared on my timeline at the perfect time! Thank you for the much needed encouragement and inspiration! And it was really special hearing about your experiences travelling. I hope to travel more someday!
Thank youu 💛💛
Thank you for this - listening to this as I shower
So good to hear 🥰💛
samee !
Thank you definitely needed this. I keep doubting and wondering if I would be good enough but like you said..."finish our own race".
you have no idea how much I needed to hear this right now. All I can say is I LOVE YOU SM AND GOD BLESS YOU!
This video is so timely💗
Girl I spent 80% of my watching time oozing over your hair. So pretty. And the rest just being mesmerized by your voice ☺️ nice video. 👌🏽
this is pure motivation + nice storytelling ❤
Love this I totally needed this and spoke about overcoming fear as well and how it has really held me back from starting to do things that really align with my and not just with what people want me to be.
I really like you. the way you talk with confidence, the way you tell your audience you love them without any shyness
Your beauty!! So striking and holds warmth.
11:44 - 12:27 Those written words.
" The worship of safety. Emasculates greatness. "
So happy to have found your video! This is exactly what I needed! Universal magic ✨️❤️
Such good content. You have a certificate calming demeanor, and paired with the motivation... Such a good feeling
I love your poetry in the beginning I also write too, maybe I’ll share with the world again, also I really loved this video, it was very timely ❤
I was thinking the same thing! Which is so apropos for this video. Shaking off the fear of sharing those vulnerable, beautiful parts of us. Good luck, I hope you share your poetry soon!
@@squeakyscauldron thanks!! 🤗I actually did it’s on my channel 🤗
Summary: Overcoming fear and seizing opportunities is the key message. Shared personal experiences of reconnecting with old friends and embracing uncertainty.
Thank you for this video, I came out of a very very chaotic emotional moment and I'm making some decisions and setting very scary goals for a near future and even though I'm aware we're capable of achieving everything, putting our minds and heart to it, there are always mental blocks and fears that prevent us from taking the first step towards our best life. Your words inspired me and filled me with courage to go after these goals even more confidently now!
Wish you the best!
Thank you so much, this helped me sm today. It takes courage to speak such truth I hope u r proud of urself.
What you have shared with us in this video are the exact thoughts and realizations that have suddenly been lingering in my mind for the past three days. I'd like to add that I don't use CZcams as a motivator; meaning that I only use it for entertainment. This video appeared on my feed and I usually would ignore it or even tell CZcams that I am "not interested" but I am so glad I clicked anyway. I love this confirmation. I love how you took the time to share this with us. Most of all, I love how this invisible energy? force? thing?? knew I didn't completely understand, or in words at least, and took this video that you made 2 months ago and put in on my feed. I hope you know what a great thing it is that you are doing. Striving for this peace, learning it, feeling it, battling it, and to then make a beautiful piece of art to share the wisdom you've acquired with all who may need it. Thank you so much Abi. xx
I'm in tre process of making big changes in my life and I have no doubt this video found its way to my recommendations. I love your reflexion and I just wanted to let you know that you inspired me, motivated me, and I'm a new subscriber. Keep up the good work and keep fighting the good fight. Much love😍
This was so inspiring and wholesome!! 🥰 I'm here for the embracing the mystery portion of life 👏🏽👏🏽
omg I probably just landed this video in my feed because I needed to hear this. what a vibe < 3
I needed this. Thank you. 💗✨️
I've been watching videos all day to prepare myself for 2024...but yours is one of the best. This video was just so real and just everything I need to get that push to start. Thank you!
Ur video has popped a while ago on my page and i downloded it without knowing your channel,you etc.The way you speak about friendships and connected it to our human life literally gave me the vibe of me talking from her highest form,future self.Or it was simply a big sister advice that i have never experienced of at home.Thank you❤
I don't usually subscribe, but this video touched my spirit. I feel safe here; I feel seen.
11:45 my timestamp to listen to this again when I need it... (it touched my heart!!!) Thank you for the comfort that your words gave me, bless you :)!!! I really really just have no words
(And so sorry if u saw the other super out of topic comment I deleted, it was meant for another video :(!! I got confused for a sec, too many tabs open at once)
I understand the core message here. However, we need to acknowledge that it is healthy to fear. Fear is there (sometimes) to help keep us safe and alive. That said, it is when fear festers, and you no longer are living your life because fear has taken over that perhaps it's time to take fear by the hand like a stubborn old friend and move forward with fear. Because it's unlikely that fear is just going to go away. Being fearless is a misnomer. Embracing fear as a part of your humanity and finding your power is often, if not always, what fuels motivation.
I love your vibe already! It’s calming and loving and big sisterly🌷🍃definitely going to supporting this channel
thank you girl! love youu
@@abigxrl totally!💓gonna be watching ur upcoming vids!!
This video showed up at the right time! Going through the same things right now. Thank you for this! ♥
14:00 just wow, this message came to me at the right time. I just had a job interview over the weekend and got rejected so it’s been weighing on my mind but your words of reassurance really put me at ease so ty!
i wish i have the courage to reach out to old friends, wish i could be brave enough to try things and pursue whatever it is. but i literally run on anxiety and worries. even in my cozy days, i still feel uneasy. i just do what im told and stopped pursuing what i like because it feels scary to the point that it numbs me.
i’ll save this vid and rewatch, along with the other videos that i found. thank you for sharing your thoughts and making this video. hope people who are like me will keep going no matter how hard it is to move one step ahead.
Recently i struggle with myself a lots. The pressure coming from my study really press me, and some plans i want to do but i haven't. After watching your video, i realize that "oh, the beauty of life come from the things we can't control, the things are unexpected". and i realize that how am I strong to be here today, i overcame so many challenges in the past that i had thought i can't. Many thanks to you ABI (sorry I don't know exactly your name in real life). I feel better now and I will do the things I want to do now. Love 🧡
Girl thank you so much I love you, I have a new journal notebook and I was wondering what I would write about on it but you just gave me an idea. This video could change my life forever.
I love you! I just came across this video in divine timing of course. But you have a new member to your channel. Thank you! Let's be a blessing to one another!
If you are watching this video this is your sign to do things you always wanted to do
Omg you have been so consistent, I’m so happy to see this video blow up!!!!!!
thank you so so so so much! your words are so magical to me feels like there's someone encourage me and your video helps me a lot. hope you always in a good condition, God bless you!
Glad this video found me :) I really needed to hear this as someone who always has anxiety about the unpredictability of the future. Loved the way you articulated the need to try in the first place and embracing the possibility that things could go well one way or another
I love this video so much. You did such a good job structuring the different topics. This video is very much needed for me at this season of life. Thank you for pushing through and posting this!
I let my what ifs talk me out of many things. You never know until you try! I am working on being more mindful and embracing my mystery.
i loved the poem at the start! i find your voice so calming!
I absolutely needed this, safe to say I’m inspired 💜🥹 subscribed && I’m tuning in .. peace + blessings ✨
either God wanted me to see this or my FBI man listening in 🤣
New subscriber here! I love the way you talk and the vibes you emanate, you've such a soothing voice and you're super wise 🤍
Thank you!!!
Thanks Queen. This is right on time.I never comment on videos but felt lead to comment. 🧡✨️🙏🏾
This video impacts me in so many ways I don't even know how to describe. Thank you for sharing this message.
This is such a cute video… I miss the old school actual photographs… and the message is great too
needed this so bad. this is the push i needed to change my life entirely. thank you angel
oof I needed this😮💨 I loved the ending ‘journal prompt’ too! felt like it was a step in the right direction ☺️
Thank you I really needed this, and the algorithm came in the right time.
So actually I was going to skip this video but, it started playing by its own! I think a beautiful message for me. Thanks universe and the creator of this video 💖
your hair is so beautiful, your entire being
Yes this is how I got over most of my anxiety even though there is a lot of fear. You have a way with words! Definitely subscribed, and even if things don't work out, at least you were brave enough to overcome it
“Just show up” popped up in my head & then this video appeared ✨
New subscriber! Love it when I get recommended someone with such powerful thoughts to share 💕
this is so on time
you just swept my anxiety away
this is a masterpiece, I love the way you edited this, thank you so much
Thank you so much, i really loved this video 🥺, it made me rethink a lot of things, especially my actions towards me and my dreams.
In response to your advice jotting down 3things your fearful of doing or have been attempting but feeling held back:
3 things that I have been fearful of doing
1, live streaming/broadcasting
I've done it before in the last, I was a big time streamer. I eventually had to let go and be present in my own space because of the transition I had to make at the time in a new city. So now, it like I have all these Ideas of what I want to do and what could possibly help me with my situation, as if I'm looking in every other place but I front of my nose because I've become accustomed to who I am now rather than who I was before
2, work from home
It'll be a different experience and first time at that. What I'm use to is going out, finding a job, and handling everything personally. The thing is, the fear has me asking myself why. With experience shouldn't that make you feel courageous seeing that you've done it before? I've put myself out there on video, especially with the social media platform, I think that would make it easies or prepare you for situations such as this, but some people are just stuck in there ways so much so that it's not that they don't want to adapt, or havent attempted, it's just like being raised, you've had the experience but eventually you return back to your own tradition, your roots, or the way you was brought up... you try because that's what's worked for you and felt most safe.
3, selling my belongings
I don't know why I'm this way, and I see a lot of people who post pictures, and do the most either if it's for building themselves up to entrepreneurship status, times of struggles, times of desperation, or for whatever reason they do; i do feel like i have what it takes or maybe just the potential to figure it out but as ive mention before when youve been raised or brought up a certain way, any other way is like going down a foreign road and instinctively you just dont. Sometimes I just feel so immature or childish to be this way because as a parent your expected to do what it takes for the sake of your child, you figure it out regardless, but as a mother... we just have to be smarter
thank you so much for taking the time to share, really enjoyed reading this. I hope you’re able to figure things out, you sound like you’ve got a good head on your shoulders. I’m really rooting for you sister
@@abigxrl appreciate your feedback 😊
Thank you for inspiring us. This video literally pop up at the time I needed . God bless you . ❤
I’m new here ❤️ and Oh my God 🥺❤️ thank you. There’s so many videos that could possibly be talking about what you’re addressing but yours is perfect.
Yours is very realistic, which is what people connect to mostly when watching videos like these. So many of your examples are relatable. Your tone was calm, it didn’t feel like you were attacking us❤️ I could listen to you talk about anything ❤️
I enjoyed this video and the advice you gave was much needed . Thank you ❤