I feel we should see the beauty in all races, colours, and sizes. I remember a very elegant lady coming to my bag stall (when I used to sell handbags) and she asked if I had been a model and I'm only 5ft 4" and only think I'm of ordinary build. Ash, I think people see different beauty in people. I agree about being called hot, I'm not too happy when guys call me hot. Bless you both 🥰
Uganda is the Best country on the African continent with well shaped ladies so Ash dear you Just be ok with it.We the Bantu people we are blessed and in the entire Africa its Uganda with the well shaped women😍
Arguable. There’s well shaped women in Rwanda, Burundi, South Africa and other parts of the countries. There’s beautiful women with beautiful bodies in all countries. 😊
You're right Ash about people from Europe thinking people from Africa are poor ' people are here living their dream lives and they don't even wish to live in Europe
They use the same brush to paint all black people the same, despite the fact that Africa has the most diverse people on earth. They use the black skin color to assume that blacks are all one and the same when it couldn’t be farther from the truth. Comparing Africans with Afro Americans, Caribbeans and Afro Latinos, people of African decent in the West is not a good comparison. They are totally different cultures, among other differences. Yet Scandinavians would not like to be considered as Turks, Greeks, Italians, Iranians, etc. because despite all being white skinned, they are totally different cultures/people. However, they treat Africans as if Africa is one country so the people are all one and the same. They treat All black people that way, even black people from the Americas who know nothing about Africa they assume are from the Continent.
Ash I am a Black South African. If they ask you, are you a model, you should take it as a compliment. You're very beautiful and you have beautiful hair. You should not be offended.
Againing weight in most parts of Uganda is beautiful ☺️ when you are small everyone looks at you with sadness like you're sick or you don't have food 😀
Ash I totally agree with you about being called 'HOT'. 😤 This irritates me so much lol. 😂 About my hair I don't let anyone touch it. 😁 I'm glad you already found a church to attend. ☺️☺️
Being told you're hot and beautiful is a compliment that you can get from any male species, regardless of the status. The context in which is said is what matters. Being called a model is actually a compliment that I really embrace.
Ash you are right about people coming up and saying “you are beautiful “ I understand why they feel compelled to say it however I feel they are patronizing me to make me feel acceptable. My husband gets annoyed as he said he doesn’t need to be told that.
I first travelled to China in 2008 for a training,my goodness,I was with this tall ,dark guy from West Nile,everytime we went to the market,he became an attraction.Almost the whole market,would be on standstill staring at us.On many occasions my skin was touched and they were always amazed at how soft my skin felt.As for the hair,hooo,pulling here and there .I wasn't offended though because of language barrier.
Great topic !!!! Respect is universal. Your natural hair is beautiful Queen Ashemeza Rita !!! Your wigs are beautiful on you also !!!! Many cultures have different rules of etiquette. One should never ask a rancher how many cows or acres he owns. It is the equivalent of asking how much do you earn or how much money do you have in the bank. Many in places of power in this world want to see division, strife, hatred and war. Only because they profit from such. I believe we need to become one in this world. Embrace our differences. Embrace our family histories. Embrace each other. Be Christ like. Easier said than done. RESPECT one another !!! May the Lord Bless you both and your families ALWAYS !!!!!
Hey Ash, someone yesterday said I speak like you. I honestly didn't know about you but I know you womt believe I stayed up till very late watching your videos. 😊 I like them all and wish you the best
It’s a no no no to touch a black womans hair. That’s just disrespectful especially in the western countries. Under no circumstances would i allow anybody that is not black to disrespect my beautiful African hair.
When Ash touched on the subject of the perspective that most Occidentals have about Africa that they are poor.. when she said “let me make this clear” 👀👀👀🤣I took my seat 😬😆😆😂😂. Tell them Ash!! You are such a wise and well articulated woman!
🤣🤣🤣I feel u Ash, where I work they always tell me I'm sexy 🤣🤣🤣 even my boss, en then after a while they're jealous so I have to put on something big on me to make sure my body is lost in the clothes 🤣🤣 it's annoying, Love u though 🥰🥰🥰
I think it is a difference in compliments in the western world and else where. Also in the western world it is called small talk opening up conversation from what is physically seen though sometimes this goes wrong as the culture and upbringing is different. However with time one learns to live in harmony and practices the same. I have lived in Europe for while and if one tells me how I have gained weight,i do not find it funny because I try hard to loose it .
I have studied in Germany in 1978 to 1982 and worked 3 years there. I have experienced very many questions. These questions are just part of plain curiosity. Kids from Kindergarden touched my Skin and ask me why your brown color did not rub off on him. I have heard comments about my hear how soft it is. Many people in Europe and North America only see Africa as naked people with Soears etc. They are not aware that many top notch beautiful Cities are in Africa. So please don't feel offended because of how you look. Thats God's Gift to you. Be proud of your Assets. Your Biyfriend is proud of you and Loves you. The Hot is truly sexist but it's also a Compliment. Touching uour Ass or Body Parts is Sexual Harassment. See Europeans as curious especially Switzerland. I have visited almost all the Western European and Eastern Countries. Treat those eyes as curious. You are indeed beautiful too. Your Better Half must be a proud man.
This is a little alarming, Evan, men are the same in very Country, it does matter how "civilize" the country is. Men who have bad intentions hide their bad behaviour if they feel like no one watching. Ash is a very intelligent and abreast woman, please take her complaint serious. Ash be careful, keep distance between you and stranger. She maybe laughing, but take her serious she feel uncomfortable.
Hi Ash&Evan yes that great to hear you are sharing this and I never understood why people when they meet someone asked certain questions to the person they meet that they wouldn’t ask another person..Yes all these cultural appropriation that is okay for one over the other. Those were great points…The stereotypes we have as a culture yes tell them Ash the assumptions on status (poor) it’s everywhere. I think the comments on your hair is a way to touch and ask ?s The model question can be a pickup line as Evan said or trying to be facetious because there are more and more Africans/Black Americans that are models these days it all bias and blindspots in the world we live in. Great topic bring more like this it’s your experience
People who usually shout such comments like you're hot in Uganda are considered disrespectful. In Uganda its mainly done by idle boda boda men or taxi. I totally understand why Ash would feel uncomfortable.
In some cultures 'hot' means your are sexy or beautiful. Ash every country's culture and language is different, not all models are tall. So true Ash every country have people who live under the poverty line but in lot of cases they are loving, healthier and happier than some rich people.
People have all kinds of prejudices. It’s how you were raised. You can not group all people together. There are a lot of misconceptions of how we think.
Every culture is different so some things they said is ok in their culture but for other it may be offensive so just no what you will accept great topic
That issue of Africans being poor in general one of my workmates mentioned it and I replied to her like okay we’re but am here working with you rich people and I receive a salary which is just 4times huge than yours and you know that right….. so wats that and who’s poor 😂😂😂😂😂
Ash, some one saying you are hot is a compliment to let you know that you are beautiful which should be received positively. You are not only beautiful for Evan but even people that meet you. Those who say you are hot don't know that you are dating. It's simple, smile and politely say Thank you. In America you look for some one to compliment you to no avail. When I sit in a bus, people don't sit next to me, they would rather stand. The Swiss must be friendly. Bless the Lord for the compliments 🙏
Wat!!! 😥 U mean there are racists there? Oohhh God. That's why I don't wanna leave Uganda. I lived with Arabs but they are the very hostile rac...... a human could ever be with.
Not only wazungu also some Asians people who haven't been in Africa think that Africa is poor and is only one country and they really wonder about our hair that is hard and spira ...I have been in India and experienced .
In America, I get asked if I am American because some men that are of Black cultures think I am from Jamaica or Africa. The hair comments are universal. It's more common in the US.
Thank you for the great video ❤️❤️it's true I thought that maybe Arabs are the only ones with such characters kumbe it's a white man's character all over the world haha 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Evan we don’t mind white Girl/women wearing braids, the problem is they’re giving another name to a style that has already been there for centuries and acting like they created it or made it popular. That’s our only problem with them, we just are not ok/agreed with them trying to make it seems like they created it. We don’t mind them wearing braids, we also don’t mind teaching them how to braids. But here in the States sometimes they are trying to make it seems like they created them (specially the white celebrities) meanwhile we all know our ancestors from Africa are the blueprint and will forever be. Of course with more supplies now the braids styles have more creativity. *Ash you are right someone who isn’t your husband/boyfriend or you don’t have a strong friendship with saying you’re hot is disrespectful. It could be a compliment depends on the relationship you have with the person and the tone that person who knows you uses to say it. Even family shouldn’t say it to each other. Appropriately the word hot should use only for Husband/boyfriend or Wife/girlfriend. A stranger should use other words to compliment a girl/woman or boy/man of any race instead of saying you are hot.
I was looking for this comment about the hair. The cultural appropriation is not in the doing, but in the profiting from, renaming and sometimes desecrating. The both of them should do some reading and gaining of different perspectives on topics to better understand them. You can tell they both have no idea about cultural appropriation. I find in these types of intercultural relationships it can be easy for each partner to judge an entire group or feel validated in a certain idea based on their partner.
African hair is special. That's why other races love to touch it. Especially when it's an afro. Embrace the Africanacity in you and never feel offended.
European hair is a wonder to rural Africans too and any African who seen it close or touched it but you don't see them grabbing without permission to touch it like in China and some European countries like you ard and alien or in the Zoo
Some cultures in Uganda before marriage they keep a girl in the room for some time feeding her with 10 litters of milk a day by the time of the wedding she will be very big and beautiful
🤣🤣Ash you really make me laugh
And the smile on Evans face when you said your only hot for him was priceless 😂😂
I feel we should see the beauty in all races, colours, and sizes. I remember a very elegant lady coming to my bag stall (when I used to sell handbags) and she asked if I had been a model and I'm only 5ft 4" and only think I'm of ordinary build. Ash, I think people see different beauty in people. I agree about being called hot, I'm not too happy when guys call me hot. Bless you both 🥰
When I see a Muzungu wearing braids, I actually feel good about it. I recently saw one in Uganda rocking them. I don't see any racism in that at all.
Uganda is the Best country on the African continent with well shaped ladies so Ash dear you Just be ok with it.We the Bantu people we are blessed and in the entire Africa its Uganda with the well shaped women😍
Arguable. There’s well shaped women in Rwanda, Burundi, South Africa and other parts of the countries. There’s beautiful women with beautiful bodies in all countries. 😊
This is the same feeling I get , I'm on dating site but the moment a man says your sexy I will never respond
I agree with Ash, Evan doesn’t think that way and is a bit innocent to how men can treat woman. It doesn’t matter the country it’s global.
You're right Ash about people from Europe thinking people from Africa are poor ' people are here living their dream lives and they don't even wish to live in Europe
They use the same brush to paint all black people the same, despite the fact that Africa has the most diverse people on earth. They use the black skin color to assume that blacks are all one and the same when it couldn’t be farther from the truth. Comparing Africans with Afro Americans, Caribbeans and Afro Latinos, people of African decent in the West is not a good comparison. They are totally different cultures, among other differences. Yet Scandinavians would not like to be considered as Turks, Greeks, Italians, Iranians, etc. because despite all being white skinned, they are totally different cultures/people. However, they treat Africans as if Africa is one country so the people are all one and the same. They treat All black people that way, even black people from the Americas who know nothing about Africa they assume are from the Continent.
I need my own Evan 🥰🥰
Ash they all compliment so be proud! Black is beautiful
Ash I am a Black South African.
If they ask you, are you a model, you should take it as a compliment. You're very beautiful and you have beautiful hair. You should not be offended.
I think so too
Againing weight in most parts of Uganda is beautiful ☺️ when you are small everyone looks at you with sadness like you're sick or you don't have food 😀
Ash I totally agree with you about being called 'HOT'. 😤 This irritates me so much lol. 😂 About my hair I don't let anyone touch it. 😁
I'm glad you already found a church to attend. ☺️☺️
Being told you're hot and beautiful is a compliment that you can get from any male species, regardless of the status. The context in which is said is what matters.
Being called a model is actually a compliment that I really embrace.
Ash you are right about people coming up and saying “you are beautiful “ I understand why they feel compelled to say it however I feel they are patronizing me to make me feel acceptable. My husband gets annoyed as he said he doesn’t need to be told that.
I first travelled to China in 2008 for a training,my goodness,I was with this tall ,dark guy from West Nile,everytime we went to the market,he became an attraction.Almost the whole market,would be on standstill staring at us.On many occasions my skin was touched and they were always amazed at how soft my skin felt.As for the hair,hooo,pulling here and there .I wasn't offended though because of language barrier.
Great topic !!!!
Respect is universal. Your natural hair is beautiful Queen Ashemeza Rita !!! Your wigs are
beautiful on you also !!!!
Many cultures have different rules of etiquette. One should never ask a rancher how many cows or acres he owns. It is the equivalent of asking how much do you earn or how much money do you have in the bank.
Many in places of power in this world want to see division,
strife, hatred and war.
Only because they profit from such.
I believe we need to become one in this world. Embrace our differences. Embrace our family histories.
Embrace each other.
Be Christ like. Easier said than done. RESPECT one another !!! May the Lord Bless you both and your families ALWAYS !!!!!
Hey Ash, someone yesterday said I speak like you. I honestly didn't know about you but I know you womt believe I stayed up till very late watching your videos. 😊 I like them all and wish you the best
I agree with you Ash, gaining weight is good thing in Uganda.
It’s a no no no to touch a black womans hair. That’s just disrespectful especially in the western countries. Under no circumstances would i allow anybody that is not black to disrespect my beautiful African hair.
YOU VIDEOS ARE UNIQUE,INFORMATIVE AND ENJOYABLE.LOVE THEM.
For the hair,I can relate 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
When Ash touched on the subject of the perspective that most Occidentals have about Africa that they are poor.. when she said “let me make this clear” 👀👀👀🤣I took my seat 😬😆😆😂😂. Tell them Ash!! You are such a wise and well articulated woman!
🤣🤣🤣I feel u Ash, where I work they always tell me I'm sexy 🤣🤣🤣 even my boss, en then after a while they're jealous so I have to put on something big on me to make sure my body is lost in the clothes 🤣🤣 it's annoying, Love u though 🥰🥰🥰
We are all the same in the eyes of the lord.
I think it is a difference in compliments in the western world and else where. Also in the western world it is called small talk opening up conversation from what is physically seen though sometimes this goes wrong as the culture and upbringing is different. However with time one learns to live in harmony and practices the same. I have lived in Europe for while and if one tells me how I have gained weight,i do not find it funny because I try hard to loose it .
Its not abusing its just compliment, but it depend how thy approach you
But I think saying you’re hot 🔥is a compliment,right?
The Ash you like your language Runyankole 😂,kafe enaku 😂😂😂🥰🙏
Nice to see you again 😜
Love you guys 💗💗
I have studied in Germany in 1978 to 1982 and worked 3 years there.
I have experienced very many questions. These questions are just part of plain curiosity. Kids from Kindergarden touched my Skin and ask me why your brown color did not rub off on him.
I have heard comments about my hear how soft it is.
Many people in Europe and North America only see Africa as naked people with Soears etc. They are not aware that many top notch beautiful Cities are in Africa.
So please don't feel offended because of how you look. Thats God's Gift to you. Be proud of your Assets. Your Biyfriend is proud of you and Loves you.
The Hot is truly sexist but it's also a Compliment.
Touching uour Ass or Body Parts is Sexual Harassment.
See Europeans as curious especially Switzerland.
I have visited almost all the Western European and Eastern Countries.
Treat those eyes as curious.
You are indeed beautiful too. Your Better Half must be a proud man.
Thanks Ash for ur narrative 🇺🇬🤗🤗❤❤
This is a little alarming, Evan, men are the same in very Country, it does matter how "civilize" the country is. Men who have bad intentions hide their bad behaviour if they feel like no one watching. Ash is a very intelligent and abreast woman, please take her complaint serious. Ash be careful, keep distance between you and stranger. She maybe laughing, but take her serious she feel uncomfortable.
More love guys. We should respect and love each other ❤❤🥰and stop racism
Good to see you again
God bless you!🥰
Much love from here ❤️ Guys.
Hi Ash&Evan yes that great to hear you are sharing this and I never understood why people when they meet someone asked certain questions to the person they meet that they wouldn’t ask another person..Yes all these cultural appropriation that is okay for one over the other. Those were great points…The stereotypes we have as a culture yes tell them Ash the assumptions on status (poor) it’s everywhere. I think the comments on your hair is a way to touch and ask ?s The model question can be a pickup line as Evan said or trying to be facetious because there are more and more Africans/Black Americans that are models these days it all bias and blindspots in the world we live in. Great topic bring more like this it’s your experience
love you guys
I agree wiz u ash, love u both.
My power couple 💑 be blessed forever..lots of love ❤ ash and evans
I love Ash’s accent!!!
"am hot for my boyfriend.....my future husband" 😂😂wama 👏👏👏👏 preach 😂😂
Am laughing today Ash your killing me with laughters.Those white guys are yarning for u because we blacks are naturally gorgeous.🌹
love you guys....
Ash, you are real. I love your personality 😍😂😂
Yes so true Ash totally different culture
Eeh Ash, you are something.... lovely sister
Ash if someone tell me am hot i feel good.kindly accept it not bad thing love u guys
Yeah they also annoy me , some can call you when your busy and say do you know your beautiful or you have a nice figure
Even in the US, they say that about hair and they ask though, "Can I touch it?" LOL 😆
Ash here in kenya when someone tells you ,you are hot its a compliment...
Good job
People who usually shout such comments like you're hot in Uganda are considered disrespectful. In Uganda its mainly done by idle boda boda men or taxi. I totally understand why Ash would feel uncomfortable.
she is just shy but I don't see any offence in some one complementing positively about you so long as thy don't fiscally harass you
Love you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Watching this a year later but those are beautiful compliments take them warmly my dear Ash though you're not really comfortable with that
Mukama abakume maziima 👏👏👏
Just watched your last video 👌
It looks so nice seeing a muzungu putting on braids or pencil 😃it looks funnily amazing
In some cultures 'hot' means your are sexy or beautiful. Ash every country's culture and language is different, not all models are tall. So true Ash every country have people who live under the poverty line but in lot of cases they are loving, healthier and happier than some rich people.
The thing about stopping you and telling you you're beautiful is real, I found it to be exaggerated at first but now am used to it.
People have all kinds of prejudices. It’s how you were raised. You can not group all people together. There are a lot of misconceptions of how we think.
Totally agree!!!!
The way I love the the bazungu'z hair.
May I ask why ?
Kafenaku😂😂😅😅... U just killed me😂😅
Every culture is different so some things they said is ok in their culture but for other it may be offensive so just no what you will accept great topic
It's the poor people for me 🤣, buh seriously they make us feel small
Yeah also me here in Dubai my workmates always ask me is that real hair or fake and I feel so offended
Wow 🥰🥰
That issue of Africans being poor in general one of my workmates mentioned it and I replied to her like okay we’re but am here working with you rich people and I receive a salary which is just 4times huge than yours and you know that right….. so wats that and who’s poor 😂😂😂😂😂
Y’all look like a good couple
Nice to see you guys
Ash you are right I don't know if it's the Ugandanness but I find it rude when someone calls me hot or sexy
Esp if not your boyfriend or husband
@@Emilyanks exactly
I face sm experience here in Jordan wen we go out
Braids is a common hairstyle, I feel with afro hair its protective but other than that, it's not really an issue 💜
Hey lovelies 😘
There's no any Country in this world who doesn't have poor people. Each Country has poor people and rich people.
Yeah Ugandans we are strong not so sensitive you just put the negativities behind and move on 😃
Ash, some one saying you are hot is a compliment to let you know that you are beautiful which should be received positively. You are not only beautiful for Evan but even people that meet you. Those who say you are hot don't know that you are dating. It's simple, smile and politely say Thank you. In America you look for some one to compliment you to no avail. When I sit in a bus, people don't sit next to me, they would rather stand. The Swiss must be friendly. Bless the Lord for the compliments 🙏
Wat!!! 😥 U mean there are racists there? Oohhh God. That's why I don't wanna leave Uganda. I lived with Arabs but they are the very hostile rac...... a human could ever be with.
You’re right….in a world full of negativity, a compliment goes a long way👌
Not only wazungu also some Asians people who haven't been in Africa think that Africa is poor and is only one country and they really wonder about our hair that is hard and spira ...I have been in India and experienced .
In America, I get asked if I am American because some men that are of Black cultures think I am from Jamaica or Africa. The hair comments are universal. It's more common in the US.
💕💕💕💜💜
What's hot 🔥 in ash's voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
cool video
They always tell me am sensual
Is it mean i don't care alot about it
So many times this happen I swear that’s why I hate Walking alone at the street
Am also small Ash don't worry we are too 😂😘😘😘😘
Thank you for the great video ❤️❤️it's true I thought that maybe Arabs are the only ones with such characters kumbe it's a white man's character all over the world haha 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Kaffe nakku
Die misery😁😁
Evan we don’t mind white Girl/women wearing braids, the problem is they’re giving another name to a style that has already been there for centuries and acting like they created it or made it popular.
That’s our only problem with them, we just are not ok/agreed with them trying to make it seems like they created it. We don’t mind them wearing braids, we also don’t mind teaching them how to braids.
But here in the States sometimes they are trying to make it seems like they created them (specially the white celebrities) meanwhile we all know our ancestors from Africa are the blueprint and will forever be.
Of course with more supplies now the braids styles have more creativity.
*Ash you are right someone who isn’t your husband/boyfriend or you don’t have a strong friendship with saying you’re hot is disrespectful. It could be a compliment depends on the relationship you have with the person and the tone that person who knows you uses to say it. Even family shouldn’t say it to each other. Appropriately the word hot should use only for Husband/boyfriend or Wife/girlfriend. A stranger should use other words to compliment a girl/woman or boy/man of any race instead of saying you are hot.
I was looking for this comment about the hair. The cultural appropriation is not in the doing, but in the profiting from, renaming and sometimes desecrating. The both of them should do some reading and gaining of different perspectives on topics to better understand them. You can tell they both have no idea about cultural appropriation. I find in these types of intercultural relationships it can be easy for each partner to judge an entire group or feel validated in a certain idea based on their partner.
Yeah it's weird yet you know that all a Africans I like you guys but sometime I don't comment by I really like ur content
No one💖💖
Hi ❤👋
Awo Evan nasinika mbu my only futuer husband nasinika🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤗🤗
All these are common here in Asia
African hair is special. That's why other races love to touch it. Especially when it's an afro. Embrace the Africanacity in you and never feel offended.
European hair is a wonder to rural Africans too and any African who seen it close or touched it but you don't see them grabbing without permission to touch it like in China and some European countries like you ard and alien or in the Zoo
yaa i have got alot of comments and questions about my hair
Some cultures in Uganda before marriage they keep a girl in the room for some time feeding her with 10 litters of milk a day by the time of the wedding she will be very big and beautiful
Africans r not poor we are just middle pple