He was seemingly very unhappy. I don't really follow any of them but it kinda looks like that to me from what I saw online. I think that that movie of hers was huge flop and life has became even more insufferable with her after that.
Jlo is known to be such a mean girl so that personality probably finally surfaced no matter how hard she tried to hide it and not be like that with him. Personality is just that it will never change. Who can live with someone like that? No one.
He didn’t want their love live public and she made a video, album, documentary on it. One can be inspired by her personal relationship but she did not respect his wishes
When she breaks up she always instantly replaces them. Usually some guy she bumps into at a club or a backup dancer. Lol. They stay together until she bumps into another star. Same thing over and over.
It didn’t work the first time- why did they think it was gonna work the second time. She needs to let it be- and just be married and stop trying to make money off her marriage. Just live!!!
Gosh I really hope this isnt true, divorce isnt great for anyone. This is their second time trying to make it work. Maybe theyre taking time apart instead of divorce, at least i hope
It will be really shocker if they don’t divorce at some point. Why I say that? Both are highly narcissistic, both are very broken but never takes time to self heal and truly be healthy. Ben run back to her without look at himself that JLo is never going to be the ingredient to cure him or make him any better, he also probably deeply regrets how he single hardly ruined his beautiful family with JG. He didn’t learn his lesson because escaping his own pain to marry a past diva is not going to make his life any better. JLo on the other hand, showed extremely low self esteem by lock down a man who dumped her years ago on international television. She probably want to get her ego repaired by lock him down, just to prove that he wants her. But why she needs to do this? Why you marry a man who has so many issues that even a strong woman JG had to give up on him? Why?!!
You are right about many things, but Garner is not strong but a typical co-dependent. She stayed with Affleck despite the fact that he was disrespecting and cheating on her so many times. She was ready to do anything to fix him instead of having self-respect and self-love- that's co-dependent .
@@michaelasun7593 yes in some way Gardner is a codependent empath to Ben. But she eventually realized that she need to give him up and let him out of her life. The whole world is structured with narcissistic and codependent empath, only very very few people on this earth are truly healthy at this point of time. Gardner is a loving, giving and caring lady, but she also controlling just like a narcissist. For her, controlling is through giving and caring. But I like her, she is down to earth, authentic. I wish she learned her soul lesson this time around, have a higher standard for what kind of man come into her life. She need to get over for being a fixer, no one can fix anyone, it is our own job to fix ourselves. Fixing someone is form of control.
Not going to lie, I'm not crazy about either of them, but I guess I'm a hopeless romantic too... I was hoping they would make it. I'm always rooting for couples. Breaking up is rough, don't care who you are.
As a longtime Jlover, I would be so sad if they did divorce. I do agree that Jlo has a very “Leo-diva” personality but I do not wish ill will not their relationship. 😢 Also, I'm so sorry for whoever missed the timestamps I posted on yesterday's video, I'm convinced CZcams has shadowed me bc it's happened before. I might just stop posting the timestamps altogether since the algorithm targets it as spam.
Who’s surprised? The stopwatch started the day that they got married.This will be her 4th divorce. She remains the toxic common denominator in all of her marriages.
😂 “For once it’s not Ben’s fault!” Why because at the moment she’s getting more shade…. 🙄 STOP LOOKING AT THESE PEOPLE LIKE THEY’RE DEMI-GODS & GODDESSES!!!!! THEY’RE JUST PEOPLE!!!
Ben has untreated substance issues which resulted in the end of his relationship with Garner. You can see how unhealthy he is. Back when he dated Lopez when he was younger, he was very macho and couldn't handle all the media attention. She has since emotionally grown and eclipsed him and she is a superstar and has to focus on her career because sadly, in Hollywood women's careers have a shelf life due to age unlike old male actors who keep working. She supports her family. Six months to two years is the honeymoon period in a relationship and then reality hits and you have to be committed to working on it. Ben should not be in a relationship until he deals with his inner demons. Or the whole thing is orchestrated by their Illuminutty overlords who dictate their lives. Jen does look much thinner but she's a professional. She shows up to all her events.
Sadly I think he wanted so badly after splitting with Jen G he wanted to go back to JLo and it be this true love moment and for it to work with her this time and now that he realized it isn't he might feel like he can't leave AGAIN. Now all of this is my own opinion but the fact is you can almost SEE this written all over this poor man's face and in his eyes
Here is my question of their relationship if they broke up the first time what makes they think that it will work again the second time because I know there’s a quote says I know I’m not gonna make the same mistake twice👀
Try to imagine what it must be like to be a recovering addict and you realize you have just married a woman who wants to do too outrageous mega projects simultaneously while doing “renovations/improvements“ on a $60,000,000, 30 bedroom, 17 bathroom house. Can you imagine how exhausting it would be if you were stuck with a person that insatiable? It would be nearly impossible to keep your sobriety being married to someone that superficial needy and vacuous.
1) This does not surprise me, JLO gives me the same vibes as Mariah Carey. Maybe they don’t know what they want but they want it so bad hence going through this many marriages/relationships. High maintenance (they maintain themselves and there’s nothing wrong with that) but maybe emotionally high maintenance. Perhaps therapy? 2) I wonder if the PDiddy situ has affected JLO and 3) maybe stay single til the kids are out of the house? Celebrities are notorious for changing partners like socks and just cause there’s money and status doesn’t mean this is healthy for anyone involved. But that’s just my opinion.
I recently read a story where Ben Affleck wanted to tip a dealer in Vegas $4,000.00 apparently she made Ben take it back and give $400...I can only imagine the car ride home said "stop treating me like a child"..."its my money and i can do what i want...how emasculating 😢very sad
There is no therapy in the world that would help JLo overcome this once again. she’s clearly going downhill…. her career, relationships and lately everything she touches. It was the publicity that destroyed their relationship the first time. What does she do now? exposes everything private about their love to the world. no one wanted to be part of her movie or watch it. She has major issues, and like she said she’s most afraid of being irrelevant . I’m sorry, no one stays on top forever. I’m sure her loved ones are worried about her mental health and future.
She needs to stay alone for a number of years to find herself. Sad Ben took a big hit, he tried. He said he didn’t want his life splashed everywhere, that didn’t stop her. They're just not on the same page, hell they're not even in the same book. Good luck to them. Ben was best with Jennifer G ..a calmer more relaxed life.
They are separated ppl do that so, they still have a possibility to get back together! Its nobodys business what they do! Of coarse, it is too bens fault hes weird like that! Why? Do you want him?😮
I really hope they try to work it out.But let's be in the realistic world.Benefit has a drinking problem.He's an alcoholic and he can't hide it anymore.This is not about Jennifer Lopez or his ex-wife.Everybody tried to help him but he doesn't want help.And one of these days he's gotta drink himself to death
I go all the time to places without my husband . And we have great relationships for 30 years . I just don’t force him to to things he is not interesting
Jen should just stay single. Marriage aint working for her. Ben always looked miserable anyway.
I know Jennifer Garner is somewhere chilling and drinking good good tea while she minds her business and lives her best life
Ben seems like he's way more low key then Jen. She wants all eyes on her all the time. Very different lives!!!
Yep and was same first time around
Jlo can't stay married to anyone because she is the only person who matters. Egotistical and Selfish.
He hasn’t looked happy, since the day they got married:(((😂
true. energy never lies
Ben is Finally FREE, MAN THAT GUY NEVER LOOKED HAPPY WITH JLO, HE COULDNT HIDE IT EITHER, RUN BEN
I thought that his face always looked like he had been crying since being with her.
If they do divorce I’ll bet Ben will never marry again lol
Run JLO! You have two totally different stars now! Yours is brighter!
He is miserable...clearly
I think it just all came to head because of the whole Diddy situation
Yup yup. The kids are#1. Run ben 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ protect your kids from that diddy follower.
😂😂😂@@celiaferreira2028
He was seemingly very unhappy. I don't really follow any of them but it kinda looks like that to me from what I saw online. I think that that movie of hers was huge flop and life has became even more insufferable with her after that.
I agree. Now she’s online thanking the people who made her movie #1. She exhausts me.
Jlo is known to be such a mean girl so that personality probably finally surfaced no matter how hard she tried to hide it and not be like that with him. Personality is just that it will never change. Who can live with someone like that? No one.
He didn’t want their love live public and she made a video, album, documentary on it. One can be inspired by her personal relationship but she did not respect his wishes
When she breaks up she always instantly replaces them. Usually some guy she bumps into at a club or a backup dancer. Lol. They stay together until she bumps into another star. Same thing over and over.
It didn’t work the first time- why did they think it was gonna work the second time. She needs to let it be- and just be married and stop trying to make money off her marriage. Just live!!!
Yea like if she was truly happy - wouldn’t have to be out there constantly monetizing on it
There has got to be something seriously wrong with J-Lo. She cannot keep a man to save her life!
Jlo is scared to be alone but got twins that soo weirdo
How worse can it get having a song and movies about how they finally found love again to be splitting up the next month 🤣
Where's the surprise 🎉
😂😂
Gosh I really hope this isnt true, divorce isnt great for anyone. This is their second time trying to make it work. Maybe theyre taking time apart instead of divorce, at least i hope
No shocker 🤣🤣
It will be really shocker if they don’t divorce at some point. Why I say that? Both are highly narcissistic, both are very broken but never takes time to self heal and truly be healthy. Ben run back to her without look at himself that JLo is never going to be the ingredient to cure him or make him any better, he also probably deeply regrets how he single hardly ruined his beautiful family with JG. He didn’t learn his lesson because escaping his own pain to marry a past diva is not going to make his life any better. JLo on the other hand, showed extremely low self esteem by lock down a man who dumped her years ago on international television. She probably want to get her ego repaired by lock him down, just to prove that he wants her. But why she needs to do this? Why you marry a man who has so many issues that even a strong woman JG had to give up on him? Why?!!
You are right about many things, but Garner is not strong but a typical co-dependent. She stayed with Affleck despite the fact that he was disrespecting and cheating on her so many times. She was ready to do anything to fix him instead of having self-respect and self-love- that's co-dependent .
@@michaelasun7593 💯 but people want to call clinginess "strength".
@@michaelasun7593 yes in some way Gardner is a codependent empath to Ben. But she eventually realized that she need to give him up and let him out of her life. The whole world is structured with narcissistic and codependent empath, only very very few people on this earth are truly healthy at this point of time. Gardner is a loving, giving and caring lady, but she also controlling just like a narcissist. For her, controlling is through giving and caring. But I like her, she is down to earth, authentic. I wish she learned her soul lesson this time around, have a higher standard for what kind of man come into her life. She need to get over for being a fixer, no one can fix anyone, it is our own job to fix ourselves. Fixing someone is form of control.
Jen already has her next 3 relationships already picked out. She can't be alone. Sad
Not going to lie, I'm not crazy about either of them, but I guess I'm a hopeless romantic too... I was hoping they would make it. I'm always rooting for couples. Breaking up is rough, don't care who you are.
As a longtime Jlover, I would be so sad if they did divorce. I do agree that Jlo has a very “Leo-diva” personality but I do not wish ill will not their relationship. 😢
Also, I'm so sorry for whoever missed the timestamps I posted on yesterday's video, I'm convinced CZcams has shadowed me bc it's happened before. I might just stop posting the timestamps altogether since the algorithm targets it as spam.
oh, no Im sorry youre getting shadow banned by YT from posting timestamps. what a bummer ☹️
I love how everyone knows she’s a toxic Leo! Just like Ben! Just like Ryan Garcia! Leo’s are the worst!
@@sacredspace. thank you, you're always so sweet ✨🫶🏻
@@NormaLilia24 ☺🫶
Ben tell us about Diddy
J Lo needs to step down now her time is up and ben had enough
Who’s surprised? The stopwatch started the day that they got married.This will be her 4th divorce. She remains the toxic common denominator in all of her marriages.
😂 “For once it’s not Ben’s fault!”
Why because at the moment she’s getting more shade…. 🙄
STOP LOOKING AT THESE PEOPLE LIKE THEY’RE DEMI-GODS & GODDESSES!!!!! THEY’RE JUST PEOPLE!!!
Ben has untreated substance issues which resulted in the end of his relationship with Garner. You can see how unhealthy he is. Back when he dated Lopez when he was younger, he was very macho and couldn't handle all the media attention. She has since emotionally grown and eclipsed him and she is a superstar and has to focus on her career because sadly, in Hollywood women's careers have a shelf life due to age unlike old male actors who keep working. She supports her family. Six months to two years is the honeymoon period in a relationship and then reality hits and you have to be committed to working on it. Ben should not be in a relationship until he deals with his inner demons. Or the whole thing is orchestrated by their Illuminutty overlords who dictate their lives. Jen does look much thinner but she's a professional. She shows up to all her events.
Agree!
Life is too short just separate and wish each other well just go do yourselves separately
Agree!
Sadly I think he wanted so badly after splitting with Jen G he wanted to go back to JLo and it be this true love moment and for it to work with her this time and now that he realized it isn't he might feel like he can't leave AGAIN. Now all of this is my own opinion but the fact is you can almost SEE this written all over this poor man's face and in his eyes
Break up to make up that’s all we do, first you love me then you hate me that’s a game for fools.
She should of took a long break from Hollywood when she got married.Paparazzis always in they face is terrible.
I feel.she is a hasbeen.... like I don't mean to be horrible or anything 😢 I just feel "thank you,Next"
Maddison I agree with you 100%
Good but Ben's made a HUGE MISTAKE
Here is my question of their relationship if they broke up the first time what makes they think that it will work again the second time because I know there’s a quote says I know I’m not gonna make the same mistake twice👀
❤Y E A H ! ! ❤
Try to imagine what it must be like to be a recovering addict and you realize you have just married a woman who wants to do too outrageous mega projects simultaneously while doing “renovations/improvements“ on a $60,000,000, 30 bedroom, 17 bathroom house. Can you imagine how exhausting it would be if you were stuck with a person that insatiable? It would be nearly impossible to keep your sobriety being married to someone that superficial needy and vacuous.
Ben is not happy with Jlo run Ben run go be happy😊
Run JLO! Your star is brighter! The past, leave it!
This was a “DUH Marriage”, as in duh when’s the divorce. Be honest , I said the quiet part out loud. Peace
They're both at fault.. They could have spent a short time together without saying I DO...
He always looks bitter and unhappy. She is a happy person and it’s hard to make that work.
1) This does not surprise me, JLO gives me the same vibes as Mariah Carey. Maybe they don’t know what they want but they want it so bad hence going through this many marriages/relationships. High maintenance (they maintain themselves and there’s nothing wrong with that) but maybe emotionally high maintenance. Perhaps therapy? 2) I wonder if the PDiddy situ has affected JLO and 3) maybe stay single til the kids are out of the house? Celebrities are notorious for changing partners like socks and just cause there’s money and status doesn’t mean this is healthy for anyone involved. But that’s just my opinion.
I recently read a story where Ben Affleck wanted to tip a dealer in Vegas $4,000.00 apparently she made Ben take it back and give $400...I can only imagine the car ride home said "stop treating me like a child"..."its my money and i can do what i want...how emasculating 😢very sad
This woman really talks super fast.
There's a reason why they didn't work the first time.
JLo should stay single. retire and enjoy her teenage children.
We all knows that 😔
JLo is in love with love married 4 times 54 years old hang it up. Ben 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️
Jen seems so self centred you can see why it ended.
I’ve been called it while everyone was stuck in the hype about it lol they was never good for each other
always thought and wrote that they are not for each other because Ben cannot stand so much media attention. JLo was born for it.

There is no therapy in the world that would help JLo overcome this once again. she’s clearly going downhill…. her career, relationships and lately everything she touches.
It was the publicity that destroyed their relationship the first time. What does she do now? exposes everything private about their love to the world.
no one wanted to be part of her movie or watch it.
She has major issues, and like she said she’s most afraid of being irrelevant . I’m sorry, no one stays on top forever.
I’m sure her loved ones are worried about her mental health and future.
How can he leave her? I mean she may drive him crazy, but she has dat boot-tay?!?! I mean that’s all you need to build a happy relationship around.
She needs to stay alone for a number of years to find herself. Sad Ben took a big hit, he tried. He said he didn’t want his life splashed everywhere, that didn’t stop her. They're just not on the same page, hell they're not even in the same book. Good luck to them. Ben was best with Jennifer G ..a calmer more relaxed life.
They are separated ppl do that so, they still have a possibility to get back together! Its nobodys business what they do! Of coarse, it is too bens fault hes weird like that! Why? Do you want him?😮
No, I don't!
@@famf6234 🥱
Cuando Ben la reconquistó; fué un acto como un niño caprichoso…dadas las circunstancias con A-Rod.
Too sad.
Couldn't care less....marriage means nothing to most stars....it's become a joke.
Hope she's not gonna end up like amber
I really hope they try to work it out.But let's be in the realistic world.Benefit has a drinking problem.He's an alcoholic and he can't hide it anymore.This is not about Jennifer Lopez or his ex-wife.Everybody tried to help him but he doesn't want help.And one of these days he's gotta drink himself to death
It’s JLo’s 4 th divorce…
THEY DESERVE EACHOTHER 😂😂😂😝😝😝
BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!!! You aren't sure of anything that you reported on this video.
JLO very toxic women🤣🤣🤣
He looks very different
Girrrl its just YOU. Its not gonna work out you not relationship worthy stay single and just date.
I go all the time to places without my husband . And we have great relationships for 30 years . I just don’t force him to to things he is not interesting
Always gonna happen!! He’s miserable. He looks like he hates the world!!
IKR!
It never worked
Will they stay together?
Matt Damon was right
What did he say?
Who cares 😅😑😅😑
Not true
Who cares🤷♀️
Hiii Maddison ❤
Meh
Nooo 🫣
Love these shorts clips