Candid closeness, these photographs were created for, by, with intimate ( not necessarily sexual ) affection not really meant for voyeurs like us, or others Interpretations. Love in all it's shapes, colors, degrees IS all that matters.
How the closeness of stance, a hand on another, a arm around waist or shoulder, longing or happy gazes between two, defied what was considered "the norm" in days gone bye. Thanks to these brave souls who created their "norm" when they could, inspite of a society that did not want to know them. We stand on the shoulders of mighty brave men and women. ♡♡♡
Photos like these remind you about mortality. All these people are no longer with us, yet, they were young, they were fit and enjoying life, just the same as us, but like them, one day we will no longer be here.
Exactly what I think as I look at these photos. These are split second records of a fleeting moment in the life of the men. We don't know anything about them except for this one still moment. And they are all dead. Once alive and vibrant, feeling pain and pleasure and anguish and joy...and all of it is long over with...and here we are...it's our turn to have these fleeting moments...and one day we will no longer be here and others will have taken the stage... Makes me remember: "Don't sweat the small stuff...it's all small stuff".
@@efandmk3382 and more is the pity...the reminder is to help us enjoy the parties all that much more because the reality is that the moments are fleeting...
About eight of us were being posed on the steps of our dorm for a photo about no water! The hot guy behind me pulled up my tee shirt and began rubbing my back. This went on for several minutes. I let it continue. No one else knew. Great memory. BTW neither of us ever mentioned it again.
1959: Drake University Moorehouse dorm steps: Very hot young Iowan sat behind me on steps and put his hand under my tee shirt and kept rubbing my back. Heaven!
all these beautiful men who fell in love with each other are now gone before us, what they found before they left this earth was true love, as a straight man, I am glad to see this, may these beautiful men and their soul mates rest in peace!
First, some may still be alive today. Hard to say. I hope that this is true and even moreso, hope that some of them are still with the same man, all their lives. I know... wishful thinking. As a Gay man, it warms my heart that "back in those days" there were some men with such courage as to have their pictures taken. They are the original trail blazers of Gay rights. So heart warming!
So Many of these photographs from the past are now making it to light of the present!! WOW!! This is "our" history...."our" story....."our" heritage....Gay Culture of the past, bridging to our future. I look at these photos with awe & personal inner reflection of who and what I am....and it makes me proud!! Thanks!!
Exactly. Not only are we celebrating their friendships (be it gay of "just" friends, who knows?), by showing these, we are also validating our own loves and lovers.
Often in challenging times, cognizant of our humanity, mortality etc. we realize how short life can be and how to be most supportive and loving. That alone forges all kinds of relationships, alliances and loving behaviors that might have otherwise never been.
globehunter2 said it well. Styles change, but the gleam in their eyes is just as it was and just as it is today. To state the obvious, love transcends eras.
Undoubtedly some of these photographs may be of gay men. But I have my father’s WW II photo album as well as his high school photos, and there are a great number of photos of my father and his brothers and their friends touching one another in ways which, to my gay eyes, look like intimate affection. But I knew some of these men my father had his arm around, and I know they were not gay. In the time before there was widespread awareness of “gay things,” I do believe that men were less self-conscious about showing affection to one another (except for gay men, who had something to hide and would have never been photographed in a “suspicious” situation). If anyone wants to “bash” me for thinking this, I am a seventy-year-old gay man who came charging out of the closet at eighteen, in the very year of Stonewall (which I didn’t hear about until a year later), so bash away!
You are right, most likely. Nevertheless it is wonderful to see men being affectionate towards each other. US-culture has taken a wrong turn in this respect somewhere after WW-II. Nowadays, even being friendly openly is suspect.
I believe exactly what you say. And now when homosexuality is more open, straight men are more "closeted" about showing their affection as friends. Shame. I love the photos.
It's really quite sad that straight men these days cannot allow themselves to even the slightest intimacy in a friendly way with another man. Out of the fear of being perceived as gay, as if that would be something bad. And why does everything have to be black or white? If you're feeling 3% gay, why not allow that feeling to be there?
Thanks for sharing. I too wondered about how much easier it would have been to have affection from another man as a matter of fact in life rather than being afraid of other men. Most guys were afraid of me growing up and ostracised me. Maybe that is what made me gay, the desire to belong with those who had shut me out. It is sad to see this photo spread because I see bonds I'll never have.
The old adage that a picture conveys a thousand words..is so apt. Friendship,commaraderie and family. These images are Iconic and a bit bittersweet...thinking all these young lads might be gone. Thanks for the nostalgia.
About 25 years ago, I was explaining a work related plan among a lot of coworkers, to a guy I was attracted to, and felt compelled to put my arm around his shoulder while doing so. I thought, "fuck it," and did just that. I left my arm there all of 1 minute and I was kinda surprised when seconds later he put his arm around the back of my waist. It was just one of those moments in life that you remember years later.
Absolutely Outstanding !!! Thank you so much for the high quality of this video and especially the musical scoring !!! This is nothing else but the very BEST !!!
I remember in the 60's my mother explaining to me that the word "gay" was misapplied. It was originally written as G.A.Y and stood for "Good.As.You". My mum wasn't well-educated but she had a loving heart and stayed abreast of the times in which she lived.
Either your memory is defective or you’re lying. Anyone can look up the epistemology of the word, “gay” - meaning homosexual dates from at least the 1930s. G.A.Y. meaning, “Good As You” - was a purposeful attempt to remove the pejorative aspect of the word when meaning homosexual, its origin dates from the 1990s, and was coined by a red-dot Indian gay rights organization.
Oh how sweet love is love, their all brave to have their photos takn, I know their all gone now, but I certainly would of wanted to HAVE meet, talk to ALL OF them and especially thank them for their services. RIP 🙏🙏🙏 EVERYONE, RIP.
The music with this piece is wonderful. What is so normal and natural to one may not be so normal and natural to another. But that does not give reason to negate or demonize those of us who are "different". Our love and lovemaking is just as passionate; just as intense.
Men still enjoy camaraderie. We still see it expressed physically but mostly around sports groups. Men have a right to enjoy and express friendship without it being misconstrued as sexual.
But we also have a right to be romantically attached to other men, as long as it is reciprocated. At least, that is my opinion. Sometimes we make errors in this regard, but life has a way of teaching us...
Likely because in 2021, men cannot share closeness, as depicted in this pictures, without being labeled as "gay", or some other despicable and degrading term. This IS deeply sad, as half the population is "out of bounds" for males to seek comfort and love from.
@@d.j.7069 Gay is not "a despicable and degrading term". The people who use that word in that manner are despicable and really degrading themselves and probably projecting on top of that.
@@jerrylee8261 I found that the music was glitching out. But then, when I came to the comments section, I noticed that this vid was posted over 13 years ago! So glitchy is expected.
This was great to see, but I must admit kind of sad they had to be so closeted. It is these men and many others after, who helped pave the way for the freedoms gay men have today.
Long time ago in a beautiful land far far away❤❤❤❤❤❤😪🌹 to all of those beautiful guys that have gone on please let them rest in peace and become angels❤🌹
Beautiful! They were free in themselves to document their love for posterity- despite the limitations of the era in which they lived. Whether only some were Gay relationships is not important to me. Clearly you can see an emotional intimacy between the men photographed- be it simply friends or indeed romantic as indeed most undoubtedly were. It really is a documented celebration of love between men- again be it hetero or homosexual. Very moving to behold.
Two guys have more recently collected a major collection and published many in a book, mostly much more obviously of gay relationships than most of these. Two long videos of examples - search here for LOVING: A Photographic History.
I am sorry Terry. I should not have broken up. Terry was my boy friend in high school. I'm sorry. I beg your forgiveness, even if we never talk again. God bless him only with good and grant him happiness.
Makes one wonder at what point did hyper masculinity ignite to the point where even best friends are not safe around society to show affection to each other without being judged as homosexuals? Women can still, to this day, express affection as friends without such judgment, but why can’t men? It should not be mistaken as a weakness. Showing affection to a friend takes a lot of courage and strength nowadays.
It would be nice if these photos were cleaned up and colorized like some other videos of old photos. Its sad to think they are all gone now. Maybe they continue on the other side as pals. I think that maybe some of them were brothers, or even father and son. Some the photos remind me of my fathers photo albums with his brothers taken together in the navy and Coast Guard during WWII. These photos would really look great colorized.
The pictures are beautiful, and so is the music. I'm just curious about the year these pictures were taken. Las fotos son muy bellas, junto con la música. Sólo tengo curiosidad acerca del año en que fueron tomadas.
Many of these men might of been straight guys displaying affection.even relatives.like cousins and brothers.it's really hard to tell whether these men were straight or gay.At one time men weren't afraid to display non sexual affections not be threaten by it .What happen as sex got out in the open. Straight men began to fear that being affectionate might urn them into gays so they got cold.If the whole world was affectionate to one another there would be no more wars.
@@MrCrowebobby Yes, many of these are likely to be buddies in a period when gay relationships weren't even thought of. Particularly in a military or men's college situation where they were together closely day and night. But some definitely are not. Sometimes a seemingly buddy photo might have a detail that is likely to indicate something else, like the legs at 3:15.
This just goes to show you, homophobia and the stigmatization of male affection is much more of a contemporary problem. If I had to guess it probably had a dramatic rise in the 1970s onward.
The 70s were relatively free compared to the more LGBT-hostile, religious and conformist 40s,50s & 60s. Jobs could be lost if knowledge of being gay was discovered; newspapers printed the mug shots and full names of men arrested in a gay bar raid. Famously, Alan Turing the brilliant mathematician who broke the Nazi military communication codes and in a major way helped the Allies’ victory. He was the man who originated the computer. He studied and taught at Princeton and other superstar universities. Nevertheless after WWII was won, the British legal system arrested him, later forced him to undergo estrogen treatments to cut his gay libido, enforced psychotherapy and hounded him to suicide. He’s only one publicly documented case of homophobic persecution. I’m old enough to remember the safety and joy of leaving the 1960s for the 70s. Sure things have improved every decade, but the 60s hippie free-love movement liberated gays too, first seen in the 70s in the US. in Canada Pierre Elliot Trudeau initiated the decriminalization of same sex acts. The 60s and 70s laid the basis for our current visibility and freedom in North America.
How sad that the word “ gay “ was adopted and brought about discrimination against homosexuals. These photos are of bromance and caring and now men are too embarrassed to pose like this lest they be called “ gay “ .
@@neilmurray6943 Most of them are actually. You are looking at these photographs incorrectly. Culture and society was totally different back then. They were not gay but friends.
@@royedwards51 as a Gay man, i see many of these men as 'Gay' before it was a visible part of mainstream culture. But you are also correct in pointing out that culture in the 20c became increasingly intolerant of displays of sensitivity in men. That was specifically homophobic. The collateral damage was to straight men, but the primary attack was on Gay men. Valuing Gay men and their predominant characteristics is likely to mean more acceptance for the breadth of male behaviour/characteristics for all men. We already see this in young people today.
Pasarán todos los años por venir, la creación es sabia..y el amor en cualquier relación, es lo que hace al ser humano, un ser especial, sin importar lo que pasó, o, pasará después...🌹🙏🌹
These pictures must have been taken at the beginning stages of the invention of black people! Love is like the air, it’s everywhere, and we all need to have it. Rich or poor black or white, we mortals will dissolve into love, the spiritual solvent that created us.
@@robsanders5808 it means that in the public reflection of civil society at a certain time in our American history, Black people and Homosexuals were under represented. My use of the word “invented” was my ironic way of expressing that observation over my 77 years of life so far.
@@robsanders5808 I accept your opinion about my choice of words, but my sentence structure is is good. I know that Black people and Homosexuals existed before they were realistically represented. It seems like they didn’t exist, if one were to observe early television or cinema. There was one Black man depicted in all of this montage of photographs. His image was the inspiration for my comment. If his image had been omitted I might have not noticed at all. Irony is my coping mechanism. I know that Black people and Homosexuals are not really an invention, and you should know that I know that, and be able to see beyond the chosen word into its intended meaning.
All these people found love a hundred years ago with all the discrimination going on , and I couldn't find one person my whole life. Maybe it was just me.
seeing these pictures its all so interesting... who posted these pics in the first place to compilate them ? I saw a post ref Mortality... and yes...these are young men and many serving in the forces possibly war time... but non will be alive today...And that will be us soon enough I guess...
Many times a couple of guys posed for pictures together, and expressed a friendship and affection for each other. Sailor "mates", but despite our wishful thinking, these photo's don't necessarily reveal a gay relationship. They sure are cute pictures tho.!
Hello- I'm betting most of the couples shown weren't actually couples so to speak but just good friends when it was acceptable for men to show physical affection in public.
Some of the men judging by their body manerisms were obviously gay. Others appear to be straight-looking. What I was wondering was I only saw a couple of pictures where the men were inter-racial. So may be at that time there weren’t many couples who were Black and White or Latinos and Whites. But I always thought that different races found other races attractive. Even back in the 30s. But it was kept quiet.
My gaydar says virtually none of these men are gay. While the gay rights movement has done a lot of good, the worst aspect has been making straight men so isolated from one another intimately.
Tender photos of men loving each other, no matter if they were friends or couples- Love is what really matters.
Candid closeness, these photographs were created for, by, with intimate ( not necessarily sexual ) affection not really meant for voyeurs like us, or others Interpretations. Love in all it's shapes, colors, degrees IS all that matters.
May we all find someone to bring a little happiness into our lives! Live long and prosper, y’all!
They were lucky to have found each other in those days. I hope they all found a little joy in their lives
How the closeness of stance, a hand on another, a arm around waist or shoulder, longing or happy gazes between two, defied what was considered "the norm" in days gone bye. Thanks to these brave souls who created their "norm" when they could, inspite of a society that did not want to know them. We stand on the shoulders of mighty brave men and women. ♡♡♡
These photos remind me of what I had and today I miss.
Photos like these remind you about mortality. All these people are no longer with us, yet, they were young, they were fit and enjoying life, just the same as us, but like them, one day we will no longer be here.
Exactly what I think as I look at these photos. These are split second records of a fleeting moment in the life of the men. We don't know anything about them except for this one still moment. And they are all dead. Once alive and vibrant, feeling pain and pleasure and anguish and joy...and all of it is long over with...and here we are...it's our turn to have these fleeting moments...and one day we will no longer be here and others will have taken the stage... Makes me remember: "Don't sweat the small stuff...it's all small stuff".
@@iseektruth64 How true ,a lot of these men never returned home but how nice to see they had their moments of pleasure before being killed in war .
Don't remind that...
You don't get invited to a lot of parties, do you?
@@efandmk3382 and more is the pity...the reminder is to help us enjoy the parties all that much more because the reality is that the moments are fleeting...
It is so heartwarming and gorgeous images! Beautifully captured. I like that it so natural and the photographers knew their best compositions!
So beautiful! These amazing men and lovers live on in our adoration.
About eight of us were being posed on the steps of our dorm for a photo about no water! The hot guy behind me pulled up my tee shirt and began rubbing my back. This went on for several minutes. I let it continue. No one else knew. Great memory. BTW neither of us ever mentioned it again.
1959: Drake University Moorehouse dorm steps: Very hot young Iowan sat behind me on steps and put his hand under my tee shirt and kept rubbing my back. Heaven!
all these beautiful men who fell in love with each other are now gone before us, what they found before they left this earth was true love, as a straight man, I am glad to see this, may these beautiful men and their soul mates rest in peace!
There aren’t enough people like you!
Love your comment: "true love as a straight man"
First, some may still be alive today. Hard to say.
I hope that this is true and even moreso, hope that some of them are still with the same man, all their lives. I know... wishful thinking.
As a Gay man, it warms my heart that "back in those days" there were some men with such courage as to have their pictures taken.
They are the original trail blazers of Gay rights.
So heart warming!
Beautiful collection of photos. Thanks for sharing them.
So Many of these photographs from the past are now making it to light of the present!! WOW!! This is "our" history...."our" story....."our" heritage....Gay Culture of the past, bridging to our future. I look at these photos with awe & personal inner reflection of who and what I am....and it makes me proud!! Thanks!!
Exactly. Not only are we celebrating their friendships (be it gay of "just" friends, who knows?), by showing these, we are also validating our own loves and lovers.
They have lived their lives, that is what really matter! Be yourself!
Another lovely compilation. The war years resulted in many close friendships.
Nice comment Joe.
@@charles5596 Thanks for the compliment, Charles!
@@joeowens6180 ..... Happy Easter
@@charles5596 Bless you, Charlie, and the same to you.
Often in challenging times, cognizant of our humanity, mortality etc. we realize how short life can be and how to be most supportive and loving. That alone forges all kinds of relationships, alliances and loving behaviors that might have otherwise never been.
Those that came before, thank you for sharing these photos.
globehunter2 said it well. Styles change, but the gleam in their eyes is just as it was and just as it is today. To state the obvious, love transcends eras.
Undoubtedly some of these photographs may be of gay men. But I have my father’s WW II photo album as well as his high school photos, and there are a great number of photos of my father and his brothers and their friends touching one another in ways which, to my gay eyes, look like intimate affection. But I knew some of these men my father had his arm around, and I know they were not gay. In the time before there was widespread awareness of “gay things,” I do believe that men were less self-conscious about showing affection to one another (except for gay men, who had something to hide and would have never been photographed in a “suspicious” situation). If anyone wants to “bash” me for thinking this, I am a seventy-year-old gay man who came charging out of the closet at eighteen, in the very year of Stonewall (which I didn’t hear about until a year later), so bash away!
You are right, most likely. Nevertheless it is wonderful to see men being affectionate towards each other. US-culture has taken a wrong turn in this respect somewhere after WW-II. Nowadays, even being friendly openly is suspect.
I believe exactly what you say. And now when homosexuality is more open, straight men are more "closeted" about showing their affection as friends. Shame. I love the photos.
I am 64 and have a similar take on the world. We had to hide from the world and it was stressful.
It's really quite sad that straight men these days cannot allow themselves to even the slightest intimacy in a friendly way with another man. Out of the fear of being perceived as gay, as if that would be something bad. And why does everything have to be black or white? If you're feeling 3% gay, why not allow that feeling to be there?
Thanks for sharing. I too wondered about how much easier it would have been to have affection from another man as a matter of fact in life rather than being afraid of other men. Most guys were afraid of me growing up and ostracised me. Maybe that is what made me gay, the desire to belong with those who had shut me out. It is sad to see this photo spread because I see bonds I'll never have.
The old adage that a picture conveys a thousand words..is so apt. Friendship,commaraderie and family. These images are Iconic and a bit bittersweet...thinking all these young lads might be gone. Thanks for the nostalgia.
Wow! That was pretty amazing some pretty Hot Dudes back in the day.
Cheers 🇨🇦
Absolutly gorgeous
I have tons of feels about this.
About 25 years ago, I was explaining a work related plan among a lot of coworkers, to a guy I was attracted to, and felt compelled to put my arm around his shoulder while doing so. I thought, "fuck it," and did just that. I left my arm there all of 1 minute and I was kinda surprised when seconds later he put his arm around the back of my waist. It was just one of those moments in life that you remember years later.
So BEAUTIFUL!
Thank you profoundly to all the women and men of the armed forces for your service
Absolutely Outstanding !!!
Thank you so much for the high quality of this video and especially the musical scoring !!! This is nothing else but the very BEST !!!
I kept wondering what were their stories. Most likely all are dead now, but the expressions on their faces made me want to know their lives.
I remember in the 60's my mother explaining to me that the word "gay" was misapplied. It was originally written as G.A.Y and stood for "Good.As.You".
My mum wasn't well-educated but she had a loving heart and stayed abreast of the times in which she lived.
Well then, I’m G. A. Y. I’m not gay, but I am homosexual. There is a slight difference in the spectrum to acknowledge.
@@christopherrobertson7723 I didn't know that. Good to know.
Ok the beauty of these three comments are enough to make me and my recently deceased mother cry. God Bless Us All 🙏
Either your memory is defective or you’re lying. Anyone can look up the epistemology of the word, “gay” - meaning homosexual dates from at least the 1930s. G.A.Y. meaning, “Good As You” - was a purposeful attempt to remove the pejorative aspect of the word when meaning homosexual, its origin dates from the 1990s, and was coined by a red-dot Indian gay rights organization.
Oh how sweet love is love, their all brave to have their photos takn, I know their all gone now, but I certainly would of wanted to HAVE meet, talk to ALL OF them and especially thank them for their services. RIP 🙏🙏🙏 EVERYONE, RIP.
What an awesome compilation. Thank you gringorie for posting. Very poignant.
The music with this piece is wonderful. What is so normal and natural to one may not be so normal and natural to another. But that does not give reason to negate or demonize those of us who are "different". Our love and lovemaking is just as passionate; just as intense.
Men still enjoy camaraderie. We still see it expressed physically but mostly around sports groups. Men have a right to enjoy and express friendship without it being misconstrued as sexual.
But we also have a right to be romantically attached to other men, as long as it is reciprocated. At least, that is my opinion. Sometimes we make errors in this regard, but life has a way of teaching us...
Why do all these past happy moments make me feel so sad?
For me it's not sad persé, but more melancholic.
Likely because in 2021, men cannot share closeness, as depicted in this pictures, without being labeled as "gay", or some other despicable and degrading term. This IS deeply sad, as half the population is "out of bounds" for males to seek comfort and love from.
@@martijnspruit Agree, but perhaps my 83 years makes a little sad for me.
@@d.j.7069 Gay is not "a despicable and degrading term". The people who use that word in that manner are despicable and really degrading themselves and probably projecting on top of that.
the music
imagine if the photos were set to, say, the Andrews Sisters or some Glenn Miller
So beautiful guys.
quanta dignità e quanta fierezza su questi volti.
Very poignant. Uplifting, but with a touch of melancholy. A touching soundtrack too.
Yeah, a lot of the time the music is TOO loud and grating on the ears and I have to mute the sound.
❤️ BEAUTIFUL ❤️
@@jerrylee8261 I found that the music was glitching out.
But then, when I came to the comments section, I noticed that this vid was posted over 13 years ago! So glitchy is expected.
@@BlondieSL Beautiful pics. Especially liked the one at 3:04.
This was great to see, but I must admit kind of sad they had to be so closeted.
It is these men and many others after, who helped pave the way for the freedoms gay men have today.
Someone just replyed to me saying, No not gay just friends! Part of the, there were no gay men on earth until 1969 and Stonewall mind set.
Exquisitely beautiful photos!
LOVE is LOVE
Beautiful photos whatever the true relationship between the men - love or friendships
great piano music
some beautiful old photos there indeed.
Awesome old photos... Have happy loveliest Easter!
Everyone dressed so formally in those days
Long time ago in a beautiful land far far away❤❤❤❤❤❤😪🌹 to all of those beautiful guys that have gone on please let them rest in peace and become angels❤🌹
Beautiful
Que bonitos y elegantes eran los hombres.
The sound track is a nice touch
Crap lol... Have happy loveliest Easter!
Awesome pics.
Beautiful! They were free in themselves to document their love for posterity- despite the limitations of the era in which they lived. Whether only some were Gay relationships is not important to me. Clearly you can see an emotional intimacy between the men photographed- be it simply friends or indeed romantic as indeed most undoubtedly were. It really is a documented celebration of love between men- again be it hetero or homosexual. Very moving to behold.
Very handsome people
Handsome and stylish
Hey 😌 paul....
Two guys have more recently collected a major collection and published many in a book, mostly much more obviously of gay relationships than most of these. Two long videos of examples - search here for LOVING: A Photographic History.
these people are NOT gay
I'm not gay but I think these are some absolutely fantastic photo's . The music is wonderful also great job.
Courageous people, facing all the adversities to have and maintain their love. Those were "Heroes of Love".
So lovely! thank you for sharing
Depressive but beautiful music
thank you David
Despite the clothing,many of these men seem quite contemporary.
I am sorry Terry. I should not have broken up. Terry was my boy friend in high school. I'm sorry. I beg your forgiveness, even if we never talk again. God bless him only with good and grant him happiness.
Lovely ❤😊
Makes one wonder at what point did hyper masculinity ignite to the point where even best friends are not safe around society to show affection to each other without being judged as homosexuals? Women can still, to this day, express affection as friends without such judgment, but why can’t men? It should not be mistaken as a weakness. Showing affection to a friend takes a lot of courage and strength nowadays.
I agree.
Maybe in your circles !
I’m not talking about circle of friends/acquaintances. I’m talking about society as a whole.
Beautiful men,all
It would be nice if these photos were cleaned up and colorized like some other videos of old photos. Its sad to think they are all gone now.
Maybe they continue on the other side as pals. I think that maybe some of them were brothers, or even father and son. Some the photos remind me of my fathers photo albums with his brothers taken together in the navy and Coast Guard during WWII. These photos would really look great colorized.
The pictures are beautiful, and so is the music. I'm just curious about the year these pictures were taken. Las fotos son muy bellas, junto con la música. Sólo tengo curiosidad acerca del año en que fueron tomadas.
🎶"Happy Together"🎶 ~ The Turtles
I remember my Dad and others very comfortable with one another, it was just affection, not sex.
God bless sailor suits.
Many of these men might of been straight guys displaying affection.even relatives.like cousins and brothers.it's really hard to tell whether these men were straight or gay.At one time men weren't afraid to display non sexual affections not be threaten by it .What happen as sex got out in the open. Straight men began to fear that being affectionate might urn them into gays so they got cold.If the whole world was affectionate to one another there would be no more wars.
And many may have felt they were so self-evidently straight that no one could possible think they were queer.
@@MrCrowebobby Yes, many of these are likely to be buddies in a period when gay relationships weren't even thought of. Particularly in a military or men's college situation where they were together closely day and night. But some definitely are not. Sometimes a seemingly buddy photo might have a detail that is likely to indicate something else, like the legs at 3:15.
@@emjayay I know and agree with all that.
Wish I knew who they were and their stories. Love is what matters most
This just goes to show you, homophobia and the stigmatization of male affection is much more of a contemporary problem. If I had to guess it probably had a dramatic rise in the 1970s onward.
I am thinking the same.
The 70s were relatively free compared to the more LGBT-hostile, religious and conformist 40s,50s & 60s. Jobs could be lost if knowledge of being gay was discovered; newspapers printed the mug shots and full names of men arrested in a gay bar raid. Famously, Alan Turing the brilliant mathematician who broke the Nazi military communication codes and in a major way helped the Allies’ victory. He was the man who originated the computer. He studied and taught at Princeton and other superstar universities. Nevertheless after WWII was won, the British legal system arrested him, later forced him to undergo estrogen treatments to cut his gay libido, enforced psychotherapy and hounded him to suicide. He’s only one publicly documented case of homophobic persecution. I’m old enough to remember the safety and joy of leaving the 1960s for the 70s.
Sure things have improved every decade, but the 60s hippie free-love movement liberated gays too, first seen in the 70s in the US.
in Canada Pierre Elliot Trudeau initiated the decriminalization of same sex acts. The 60s and 70s laid the basis for our current visibility and freedom in North America.
Excellent video...So emotional..What is the title of piano song?
So l❤️ vely ❤️❤️❤️❤️
How sad that the word “ gay “ was adopted and brought about discrimination against homosexuals. These photos are of bromance and caring and now men are too embarrassed to pose like this lest they be called “ gay “ .
You think all of them are straight? You live in a fantasy world!
@@neilmurray6943 Most of them are actually. You are looking at these photographs incorrectly. Culture and society was totally different back then. They were not gay but friends.
@@royedwards51 as a Gay man, i see many of these men as 'Gay' before it was a visible part of mainstream culture. But you are also correct in pointing out that culture in the 20c became increasingly intolerant of displays of sensitivity in men. That was specifically homophobic. The collateral damage was to straight men, but the primary attack was on Gay men. Valuing Gay men and their predominant characteristics is likely to mean more acceptance for the breadth of male behaviour/characteristics for all men. We already see this in young people today.
What rock did you crawl out from.
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Pasarán todos los años por venir, la creación es sabia..y el amor en cualquier relación, es lo que hace al ser humano, un ser especial, sin importar lo que pasó, o, pasará después...🌹🙏🌹
great! thanks
El amor entre iguales no es nada desigual.!
Lové you
I think back then being friends and taking happy pictures together was what you did. They didn't consider straight or gay.
Everybody was skinny!
Slim. No junk food in those days.
Because they were constantly smoking!
@@michaelward5134 No. People were busy and MOVING.
The first two pics with some old school twinkage going on.
Someof the men might not be gay, but friends. Where is the borderline between love and friendschip, never knows!
I was thinking the same thing.
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Don't know if they were all gay or not. Still amazing pictures.
Hey buddy 😊 how's the weather treating you today
These pictures must have been taken at the beginning stages of the invention of black people! Love is like the air, it’s everywhere, and we all need to have it. Rich or poor black or white, we mortals will dissolve into love, the spiritual solvent that created us.
"...at the beginning of the invention of black people...???...WTF does that mean?
@@robsanders5808 it means that in the public reflection of civil society at a certain time in our American history, Black people and Homosexuals were under represented. My use of the word “invented” was my ironic way of expressing that observation over my 77 years of life so far.
@@christopherrobertson7723 poor choice of words and sentence structure.
@@robsanders5808 I accept your opinion about my choice of words, but my sentence structure is is good. I know that Black people and Homosexuals existed before they were realistically represented. It seems like they didn’t exist, if one were to observe early television or cinema. There was one Black man depicted in all of this montage of photographs. His image was the inspiration for my comment. If his image had been omitted I might have not noticed at all. Irony is my coping mechanism. I know that Black people and Homosexuals are not really an invention, and you should know that I know that, and be able to see beyond the chosen word into its intended meaning.
Another 'Karen' taking a lovely video and making it about something else.
Me da mucha tristeza pensar que estos hombres no hayan podido vivir su sexualidad y amor plenamente
All these people found love a hundred years ago with all the discrimination going on , and I couldn't find one person my whole life. Maybe it was just me.
Same here
seeing these pictures its all so interesting... who posted these pics in the first place to compilate them ?
I saw a post ref Mortality... and yes...these are young men and many serving in the forces possibly war time... but non will be alive today...And that will be us soon enough I guess...
A lovely video and then people like you make it something else.
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What makes them think all the men were gay or a couple?
People like You. READ the title.
@@billhosko7723 a lot of these guys are just friends
Cigarettes everywhere...
The majority of these photos appear to be father and son or brother and brother if you compare the facial features.
And some were gay... Move along.
Many times a couple of guys posed for pictures together, and expressed a friendship and affection for each other. Sailor "mates", but despite our wishful thinking, these photo's don't necessarily reveal a gay relationship. They sure are cute pictures tho.!
Good grief. READ the title.
Hello-
I'm betting most of the couples shown weren't actually couples so to speak but just
good friends when it was acceptable for men to show physical affection in public.
На ваших фотографиях нет ни одной женщины, мне кажется, что это ущемление прав женщин! 😭
Some of the men judging by their body manerisms were obviously gay. Others appear to be straight-looking. What I was wondering was I only saw a couple of pictures where the men were inter-racial. So may be at that time there weren’t many couples who were Black and White or Latinos and Whites. But I always thought that different races found other races attractive. Even back in the 30s. But it was kept quiet.
My gaydar says virtually none of these men are gay. While the gay rights movement has done a lot of good, the worst aspect has been making straight men so isolated from one another intimately.
Oh get lost .
@@charles5596 Bingo.
Pfft. Karen.
Sorry but you can’t assume these guys were gay, it was a different era
They could be the result of photoshop pairing. We have no full proof that they were an actual couple.
👌 amazing photoshop buddy
What crap !
@@charles5596 LoL 😆 Have happy loveliest Easter!
Ideat (sic) trolling on lovely videos such as this, and then commenting stupidity in desperate attempt for attention.
So lovely
those people hsve lived loved had their share of problems and now we are warching their pictures on youtube. irs HARTBREAKING
Nah... the Music did That! If it'd been Happy Days Are Here Again...