Literally my grandma came in my dreams and warned me of the terrible life I chose. She kept coming in mu dreams until I left him. Almighty was on my side, I was able to escape him in 4 months of the relationship
I could breathe, I could sleep, and I even began to be able to think more clearly. My skin cleared up, my stomach settled down, my headaches subsided. It is not a coincidence. 😂😮❤
Had dreams of snakes just before being triangulated. Had dreams the devil was attacking me and me trying to wake my narc husband up to help, but he slept on, then Jesus came to my rescue.
In my first marriage to a narc I had dreams of being raped by Satan. Being dead in the ground eaten by rats and snakes. The night we got married I could not stop crying. I was young and thought everyone would be mad if I did not go through with the wedding. After 15 years of marriage and two kids later I earned a nursing degree R N. My sister all in horrible marriages, hated me for leaving him. Now my covert narcissistic sister is working hard on a smear campaign to destroy me. She even had me meet her at a trail by a river after a heavy rain. I still hoped we could talk and start to heal. Instead she verbally abused me. Said really horrible things about me. I thought I was a horrible person and should die to lift my family's burden. This happened a few years ago. Only about a month ago, the thought popped into my head that she probably wanted me to go into that river. Today my kids call her Mom and no longer visit or speak to me. My heart has broke so many times. Everything I've done such as sending cards to my kids is interpreted as being manipulated. I do not see my grandkids. Only God can change this if it is his will. In the last few years I found new sisters in Christ that are kind and I've never felt this kind of love before except from my parent's and second marriage husband and father in law. My husband is still living. Parents and father in-law have died.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of them who will not give you the adequate help you need in order to keep you coming back and seeking out their services. They drag your treatment out as long as possible.
My NM started taking me to psychiatrists my first day of 3rd grade. She told me I was ‘going to meet a new friend!’ It was a probably 67 year old man. At 8 years old I remember thinking he looked like an uncircumcised wiener. Disturbing. Went to a psy every week until I was 17. She often went in with me to speak FOR me and tell the dr what she had diagnosed me with herself and what drugs she wanted me put on. I never saw one Dr for too long. But according to a demonic woman who is not and has never been a psychiatrist, psychologist, or any other kind of doctor or qualified persons- I am a bipolar, histrionic narcissist with borderline personality disorder. Of course! Name any psy med and I was probably on it for a good 3 weeks. I wish we could go back and press criminal charges or hold these creatures accountable in some way.
I had dreams of snakes, troubling me, frightening me. And some nights I felt as if my spirit is leaving out of fear, frightening body shaking. And at last I made solid move was when, I dreamt that narc was taking me on the irreversible highway knowing it was the wrong road. And then when in some lift, I was told to get down from 15 th floor. Forcibly. That was the final nail on the wall for me. I left narcissistic people, family, friends, everyone all at once. And then for almost 2 years I spent alone, started healing. I thank GOD for you Danish and Dr Ramani, who played huge role in my abuse recovery path.
It was drRamani for me as well. Like i finally got it even though i watched videos on narcs on psych2go but i didnt realize it applied to my family or coworkers or romance. Only after her videos.
So true... it was a Psychology Certificate course, and then Dr. Ramani... I literally searched for how to improve or get out of my situation and found out about this... Even the urge to take a psychology course was for this reason... Only after removing the major narcissists from my life did I get rid of these dreams and finally sleep somewhat peacefully...
For last 6 years, my dreams are i was getting chased by Buffalo/bull and me holding their horns trying to not get attacked. Indeed it was a sign from god
When I was with a narcissist, I kept having dreams I was in a car speeding down a road but trying to drive from the back seat, and so afraid to crash. As I gradually extricated myself from the relationship, the dreams shifted to being in the driver's seat going slowly. But the car had no working brakes. I'd stimp in the brake, pull the emergency brake, and nothing would happen. In these dreams, my now ex would be telling me to drive anywat because no brakes was just fine, not a big deal! Now that he's completely gone from my life, the nightmares are gone too.
Biggest sign shown by God- the strong gut feeling that something is definitely off with the person. Still i chose to ignore because i really really loved him. After five years of passionate relationship, i found him to be married. Still he continued with his cheating and outright lying right on my face. And not to mention money siphoning. Finally, i gave him the no contact. Please pray that i can hold my ground. It really hurts. Really really hurts. But i finally decided to remain resolute.
I'm HAPPY FOR YOU! I was in exactly the same TOXIC RELATIONSHIP...Like you...I REALLY LOVED HER AND SWALLOWED HER MASK SHE PROJECTED FOR ME HOOK...LINE...AND SINKER!! I believe now that It was only devine intervention that FREED ME FROM THIS HORROR!! I wish all the JOY AND HAPPINESS YOU DESERVE as you sweep aside the toxic fog from your eyes so that you can see your true self and be able to share that with those WHO REALLY DESERVE IT!! May you find real love, happiness and peace!
Keep watching these videos and also sadly you have to realize that nothing about him was real. It was all performance. You will make it. You must stay strong and realize that your silence is some form of payback bc your silence is hurting him more than you realize. Be well.
Stay strong!! Im 12 yrs divorced from the 1st narcissist who was very verbally abusive. The kids are his pawn to get to me now.☹😡. And im almost 3yrs seperated from the 2nd who ended up being a spychopath and covert narcissist 😡😡 Life goes on..im still waiting for God to drop a man on my doorstep so i know hes a good one!
Mine were recurring dreams of being trapped in a filth-flooded bathroom of overflowing toilets filled with filth, like you would see at the bottom of a porta-potty, and being unable to find a toilet to use. I haven’t had that dream since I kicked him out almost 12 years ago.
I used to have dreams like that all the time. I always dreamt that I was looking for a toilet but every time there was a problem that prevented me from using it, like the door wouldn't close or there were people staring at me and in my dream I was always holding back and couldn't pee. The day I left him I dreamt I had a very long pee. I'll always remember the relief I felt.
You are right. We have all those scary dreams when we are being attacked by the narcissistic evil energy. It’s no joke. Thank you Danish 😊 God bless you ❤
When I first met him I had a dream that I was looking at him laughing and talking to people as his charming self (the person I thought he was at the time). Then a voice kept repeating the word “incongruent”. Then I woke up. I now see it as a warning dream.
For years I often had dreams where I was in some dire situation and in need of assistance and when I would call out or try to scream I could only manage a whisper or no voice strength at all.
I had a dream that I came face to face with a demonic prescence (had a male face, black eyes). I was standing my ground, telling it I was not afraid even though I felt inner panic. This was just a couple of months before my ex discarded me and his abuse took a turn for the worst. At the time, I understood it as fighting against his toxic ex-wife, who is a grandiose narc. Either way, it helped me recognize my inner power but also dark energy I was living with. It's so clear now, that dream was God's way of showing me this. As a Jewish woman, I remind myself of God's protection daily and envision white and golden light surrounding my home and myself. Turning to daily prayer and meditation has also been helpful. Thank you for your unique takes on narc abuse, Danish. You are doing so much to bring light and healing into the world. Much love to you💜
My narc had the sleep paralysis and it freaked me out a few times at first but he’d talk of what he saw and I always attributed it to his demons which I whole heartily know he had around him anyway.
Most of those dreams resonated with me. Brilliant. I feel so bad for my child self. It took many decades-I’m 72-to understand what happened to me. Thank you Danish.
I saw snakes all my life and then after I was married, I saw myself very often running away from dangerous places always trying to protect my children. Never linked the dreams to my reality!
My dream from a Very young age, over and over, was hearing my Mama's voice calling me, and looking for her. I knew she was downstairs. Everything was dark. I followed her voice, but snakes, spiders and alligators were on the lower steps. I turned around to go back up, but now there were snakes and alligators above me also. And then I heard a witch cackling. It was my mama. That's always when I woke up. I could never tell her about the dream because I was ashamed of having dreams where she was a witch, and I didn't want to hurt her feelings. 💔
You're right on being ill & getting worse when this person came into my life. Unfortunately, for me, it was my sister (2 yrs younger) . . . & my family backed her up after she reduced & destroyed my life 2.5 yrs ago. My mom just passed 2 wks ago, I was not allowed to get info while she was in the hospital & only learned of her death 2 days after her passing & was not allowed to say goodbye. And the filth is present in my waking life -- due to the mobility problems since her willfull destruction of my life. But, I am starting to recover. Thank you.
If your mother didn't hear from you then, please go ahead and tell her now. She knows how you feel, and she also knows exactly who your sister is. I had a similar situation with my family, but I also know that narcissistic relationships also are always a testing spiritual journey. I've learned it all the hard way. ❤
Thank you so much Danish for doing what you do. You are saving lives, literally. I have been in an environment full of narcissists who constantly stabbed me in the back, and attempted to make me believe I was the problematic one. And the irresponsible and evil one. My own brother betrayed me and trapped me in a mental ward for over a month, in his efforts to steal my part of the inheritance after our father's passing. He called me the worst names possible and tried to convince me I was the crazy one. The abuse started many years ago. What saved me was the fact I attended therapy and got to know myself really well, via the eyes of professional psychoanalysts. Most of the people in my environment betrayed me, due to his lies and manipulation, and not only his. He missed ONE very important thing though: I started talking. He had the illusion I would remain silent forever...
I had night sweats, and my heart will be pumping for dear life, I was paranoid and anxiety hit at a all time high when ever I slept with her because we didn't live together, we were always together she just needed me around always. I was so drained with her, I've experienced the falling and waking up before hitting the ground or w.e is there. Also dreamed about her cheating, Last but not least my mom threw a black bag at me in a dream, which I felt was a sign to get away from the female narcissist I was dealing with, or that bag would have came to reality only with me in it permanently😮 I am glad to be out, been no contact 10 months, never going back. Stay strong survivors and thrivers🙏💙💯😎💜✨🏆🤙
When i was 13 and had to go live with my narc father and grandmother soon after i had a terrible nightmare as if a gigantic snake wrapped me in circles and then bit me right in my open mouth. The extent of terror after the dream i cannot describe. I didnt tell anyone and i didnt know what that could mean. Only after decades of suffering, coming to God, discovering about narcissism and my father’s possibly practicing magic all his life and killing animals that i do imagine why i had that dream. I also had strange dreams when he and my grandmother collapsed and i started feeling considerably better physically and mentally. But do not think your key to health and happiness is your narcissist demise. Youll have to do work on yourself in front of God as well.
In the beginning I had nightmares of something terrible happening to him and I couldn't protect him. Thrn i began having dreams about something terrible happening to me and my kids and he was doing nothing to protect and save us. And finally, a week before he abandoned me, I had a nightmare that he had shoved me off a cliff and as I was lying on the ground and unable to get up and beggibg him to help me, he stood at the cliffs edge and said, "no one likes you anyway!" If I had any other dreams, I dont recall them. But those stabd out, even after over a decade.
I had dreams of hidden tiny dangers SO MANY TIMES. Like a beautiful picnic lunch by a river with hundreds of baby alligators in the tall grasses. My mom swimming in a beautiful lake with thousands of water moccasins. Walking down a beautiful path with tons of snakes crossing it everywhere. There was ALWAYS beauty but always unseen perils just behind the beauty.
I repeatedly dreamt of snakes and lions chasing me and I was choked and couldn't call out for help...i dreamt of falling down the stairs without reaching the ground, also not being clothed inside a bathroom with broken latch. This has continued since childhood, intensified during my stay with narcissistic husband. I'm still in the process of officially splitting from him. Dreams are still continuing but with lesser episodes and lesser intensity. Thank u so much for finally interpreting my horrific dreams.
Oh, no, if anything, this is the life path God has given me, and I know it because every day I prove to myself how strong my spirit is. I have now learned my worth. Never again. ❤
Danish, You have got me at the start!! You sir, know all about narcissist abuse. I thank you and all of your listeners have to feel just as thankful as I. Peace and Blessings to you and your family 🙏🙏🙏
towards the end of my 10 month marriage... the Narc was triggering my PTSD of my earlier decades with a narc father and family. with lies, and radical rages.... etc. ( which he absolutely enjoyed terrorizing me) twice I was startled by dreams so demanding. that from a deep sleep.....I found myself bolt upright and standing next to my bed. wide awake. such adrenaline pumping in me it was impossible to sleep again. so I just quietly stayed up and cleaned house. I took note at my extreme reactions..... and I knew I was to run from the marriage asap.
I used to dream I was being chased by an unsavory character and could not get away. Since I have distanced myself from the covert religious narcissist as much as possible I had a dream I was being chased and I finally got away! When I woke up I felt that the dream came from being able to distance myself and they are not able to control everything in my life any more.
As a Child I often had this nightmare which was always introduced in the same manner: I saw a scarf made of silk moving in front of my eyes . I then found myself on the bottom of something huge a grey fluffy egg, in which‘s midst I fell downwards constantly. I was unable to scream and hoped this would come to an end. The dream ended like it began. I found out recently by your videos and those of others that both of my parents were narcissists. That’s where I ended up twice in my two marriages. A dreamI had in my first one was I went down a staircase step by step and all of a sudden the nice guardrails on each side turned in a way they were the stepstones. So I walked down on these guardrails . They often changed their spin. I don’t dream this any longer now. My first husband was a noncovert narcissist, my second one a covert one. I already took an addiction to alcohol in me. To silence the pain I felt.Meanwhile I am sober for 11 years now and member of an AA group. I even did. this in my childhood. I remember my father missed small bottles of a bitter „ digestif“ ( that’s called a helpling to digest a heavy meal in French) and took a sip when I felt lonely. I was about 9 years old at that time. My father asked me, if I had taken…I admitted this and showed him where one of those bottles were in the closet of my dolls. My parents were masterminds in shaming, blaming and giving guilt to me.I often times felt a huge anger I couldn’t explain. Acting in a certain way was something to be ashamed of, another day the exact opposite was required. I could hardly ever do something in the right way. Esp. my mother was very good at this. I was parentified by both of my parents. I remember I had to weigh two golden bracelets hanging on one of my fingers, one of which I should tell the highest weight, meaning, the most precious one.I told my father to pick the one he liked best. Desperation at its best. My inner batteries are drained, but I started my healing journey. I give myself plenty of time , not urging myself to hurry up and I am kind to me. I take small steps and stay patient.
I have the dream of chewing glass pieces very often. And actually not chewing but rather spitting them out. And no matter how much I spit out, the amount of glass pieces dont reduce hindering me from speaking.
I remember feeling trapped in a cage -- and this is while I was asleep. I could see everything in the room around me, but I couldn't move to get out and run away.
I've had dreams of me being attacked, drowning and falling to my death. I hate them 🥺💔 ( I wrote this before watching the entire video. It makes sense thank you🙏)
I had a recurring dream as a child about 8 to 9 yrs old of a huge snake, anaconda size chasing me, coming up from the basement of our home. I would run out of the house down the street and spread my arms out like the wings of plane and the wind would lift me up way above the trees , flying, where I was safe. I had no understanding then that I was being raised by narcisistic mother, and had narcisistic grandmother and uncles. Years later after becoming a Christian , I went to deliverance minister and he broke off of me generational curses and what came up was a breaking off of me the Leviathon spirit coming through generational lines. Leviathon is a serpent, it constricts, suffocates and thus squeezes the life out of you, eventually killing you, silencing you. Then many years later I began to learn what narcisism is and connected the dots. There is definitely demonic spirits involved with it. God can set you free. So as a young child before I understood the psychology of it all, I believe God was trying to show me what I was up against, and how to be set free. To rise above the storm by the wind into Gods Presence.
So true... And if it's in a family... everyone except "the narcissist" has these symptoms... Unfortunately, one or the other of the ones tolerating the abuse can't really take it and break down... The old story of narcissistic families....
I used to have a bunch of these types of dreams. I was constantly being chased in my dreams, trapped in places I couldn't get out of. Naked in public. My old boss was a narcissist. I stopped have those dreams after I quit lol
I have had these nightmares for 32 years/ snakes attacking me/ in a room with no windows or doors/ being outside with no clothes on/ and falling out of the air or sky and now why dam it man
I think these dreams sometimes happen when the narcissist is actually fantasizing about hurting you, when they are resenting you, when they are staring at you while you sleep. You are subconsciously aware that you're being bombarded with negative energy.
Yes to health issues yes to repeated frightening dreams of being trapped yes to snakes and alligators in my dreams yes to doors closing on everywhere around me. At the end I was waking up every night around 3-3:15 am. Dreams of having hooks hooked to my back and me trying to take them off but I couldn't lift my arms. The terrible dreams are gone now. Anytime my ex calls me I have bad dreams.
Danish, thank you for all you do to spread awareness on narcs, how we survive, and thrive afterwards. You were one of the channels that got me through when I left my narc ex nearly 3 years ago. I still tune in every now and then over my long-term healing. I never had these kinds of dreams while I was in the relationship, but sadly, I’ve had recurring nightmares afterwards of what happened. However, while I was still in that situation, my Mum, for about a year, had a recurring dream of my narc ex holding my head down in a bucket of water. Looking back, I believe this was a sign from God to get out. I’m out, happy, and in a healthy relationship with a fellow survivor, 2 years strong 💪❤️. Again, thank you x
I experienced the dreams of being naked and vulnerable and helpless and attacked. I would be in a room with all of my ex family and my ex-husband, and they would start saying terrible things about me, and I was unable to leave and unable to speak to defend myself. But my number one recurring nightmare through my entire adult life was that of being chased by some unseen evil force. I would run and run and run and try to hide and try to find weapons so I could defend myself, but I never actually figured out who the enemy was, I rarely found weapons, and I would wake up exhausted from running in my nightmare for hours. These nightmares completely stopped when I figured out who the unseen evil force was: my husband. I am seven months out now. I only sometimes have nightmares still, and they are nowhere near as bad as they used to be. My ex-husband is in most of them, but I am able to defend myself against him. I am no longer fooled by his tricks. It’s great!
I totally resonate with what you're saying. I've just taken the opportunity to extricate myself from a very bad relationship, not a romantic one, just a friendship. I couldn't even talk whenever we were out visiting! She told me that since I wouldn't tell her everything about a private matter, that she felt she was entitled to know everything about, that I was just "using" her, and I should leave! I was never more releaved! I just said, "you're right. So long!" Thank God that's over!
I had all these dreams. From when I was a pre-teenager to a young adult I had those paralyzed dreams where your mind wakes up before your body and you feel as though you’re trapped. It got so bad I remember being so afraid to fall asleep. To this day I’m afraid to fall asleep in the dark in fear no one will see me suffering in the shadows. After I became an adult I kept having dreams about “zombie apocalypse” where I was running away from many things, creatures (which makes sense because there really isn’t one good person in my immediate family). I remember climbing closets and boulders trying to get to safety and knowing I was all alone. Now that I’ve gone NC I’m surprised how much I’m dreaming “about them”. I kept having nightmares that I have to rescue my pets from snakes and scorpions. I will be walking enjoying my day with my kittens and in the background there will be some creepy crawlers chasing us. I always wake up before we make it to safety. Two of my stray cats died before I could go NC and get us to a safer place. My last dream I was trapped in a house with my brother. I couldn’t leave and I was hiding trying not to run into him, eating scraps of food like some rat. The only “way out” was to move into my malignant narcissistic mother’s house which is probably just as bad. This is basically what happened that I ended up going NC. My brothers wife called the police on him, he had a restraining order so he had to come live with my malignant figure (whom I was living with in isolation in a room). I was basically trapped in this room for 7 days until I couldn’t take it anymore. My brother wouldn’t leave and I exploded. That was the end of it.
So true. I saw poisonous snakes , fire, a mad man trying to attack me..all sorts of weird dreams. I had severe stomach aches that woke me up in the middle of the night. But i didnt know what that meant. I was dealing with a covert narcissist who acted like the kindest person but was destroying me bit by bit. I ended up getting ptsd and also shaved my head in a mental fog. Im glad i chose to go no contact with him 2 months ago. Im slowly building my life back again.
A few days ago, after deciding to go no contact, I had a dream of a huge yellow snake, dead or almost dead and oozing a weird, yellow and clear liquid (maybe bile). Very strange.
While in a business partnership. I suffered with nightly dreams of apocalyptic themes, where I had to carry on with the business functions. I have a long standing history of night terrors and sleep paralysis as well. Since I have removed myself from my business partner, my dreams and health have improved in only a way that God can be responsible for. Thank you for channel 🙏
I personally have experienced the sleep paralysis from a past narc, snake dreams, Hooved demons, repeated dreams with beautiful nature scenes (yet I feel off, like someone’s hiding or watching while in the dream). My most recent dream, I was alone sitting on a dock at night and I felt the presence of someone. Next thing I know, I was pushed in the ocean. I was struggling to stay a float and gather my things that fell in at the same time. Then all of a sudden, (this presence, felt like the narc ex) pulls me out back onto the dock and they vanish. Then the dream continued.. it all of a sudden turns daylight and I’m still on this dock. Im trying to walk off back onto the main land. Then I see this huge wake in the water about 20 feet from the dock. I stopped and watched, it moved fast like an anaconda under the waters surface. I couldn’t see it but felt it was a big snake. Next thing I know, I’m in the water next to the docks piling and the narc ex (who randomly appeared) is in the water with me holding onto me. Im trying to ask him, what’s going on? Can you get me out of here? I held him tightly and I felt his “legs” wrapped around me. I felt a moment of safety, but it was all a facade and false. He did end up putting me on the shore to safety but why was I put into that circumstance to begin with!? I believe the snake presence was his spirit (he’s obviously sold) or whatever dark energies he’s harboring. It’s an attempt to make me feel safe in the presence of the enemy. I didn’t have any dreams whatsoever when we were together for 3 months. I only had 1 in the beginning when I first stayed over at his house and I don’t even remember it, but I did wake up in a panic attack. (I believe my subconscious was protecting my conscious self from what he spiritually might have been doing to me while we were sleeping next to each other, that’s why I have no recollection of any dreams). Now 4 months no contact and I’m getting these reoccurring snake dreams.. 🤔 he was extremely controlling and tried to even lay on top off me to the point I had trouble getting air. (If that’s not obvious, HE WAS TRYING TO SNUFF OUT MY LIGHT!!) 😮 We’re no contact, he’s blocked on everything, I changed my number and I don’t ever plan on speaking to him again. I will pray more and ask all of us to pray for each other as a collective ❤️🙏 peace & blessings 😇💫
I was chased by a helicopter in one dream and i was kidnapped and stuck in a house with a faceless pot bellied man and i knew if i were to get in a dark room in his house that i would never get out so i escaped but people saw me and didnt help so i realized that i was on my own even surrounded by people in freedom. I needed a bathroom in my dreams and they are always dirty like a mens truck stop restroom, there are always many options but they all look and smell terrible and i have no choice so i use them. I wake up and this feeling i cant describe just lingers with me and it takes all morning to regulate myself so im not walking around screaming negativity. Sucks. I am trying to save myself. Its hard but im not giving up getting out and going no contact.
Right before I got out, I had a dream that I was in a dark dungeon with a blob that looked like a Star Wars character. It had no skin and was in a lot of pain, and I felt so much empathy for it, but the only exit was above my head and if I didn’t get out, I knew that it would devour me even though I felt so sorry for it.I got out through the small space and I realize that my ex was the narcissist and that I’d best run now or I’d never get out. It’s been over a year and I think God Dailey that I got out of that hell that I was in.
For the last six years of my marriage I had demonic dreams of being in an earthquake. Then in the last few months I was hallucinating of seeing things that weren’t there. Finally I had a physical demonic attack. I left him and all attacks stopped. I believe that my faith in Jesus kept me from so much more!
I believe you 100% because after a year of emotional abuse i feel like my brain broke im not sad anymore my only 2 emotions are either nothing or anger now but my anger isn’t normal it feels like something takes over me and I even get an endorphin rush and feel better the angrier I get I need spiritual help
While regular cannabis use contains my dreams, I've had the partial paralysis dreams (also with something trying to climb down my throat). For me, the size of the creature isnt a problem at first; it starts oun small and as one. But then it multipliirs by dividing...THEN the individuals begin to bloat. And they keep dividing, but slower, yet still growing. A lot like the blob, but with goldfish with glassy eyes. ...Cannabis for me, y'all!!
My narc abandoned me when I was pregnant. Throughout my pregnancy, I had multiple dreams that were so realistic I’d wake up shaking and sweating. They were so crystal clear. In the first dream, he was apologizing. In the second one, he was too busy to care about his child coming into this world. In the last and final one, I asked him if he wanted to meet her. And he said yes. It’s been almost two years since I’ve had contact with him and those dreams. Something about them was different. It felt like I was watching myself in another timeline. Or my subconscious was painting some deep desire to reconcile and be the family I once saw. Interesting stuff
I have a narcissistic family I went on no contact on 2021 since then I've been having strange dreams 😳 I dreamed my mom pushed me on a building and I fell but mysteriously I rope crossed my way and I could hold on it and I survived 😢 Another dream my brother strungled me with a rope and I couldn't breathe for seconds luckily the rope fell apart and I could breathe again, the dream ended.
Everything you have said was so on point. It's so true that God gives shows you signs. It doesn't lie .Thank you for your wise message its so powerful and uplifting Bless you .
Many years ago I had a repeating dream that I was being chased by a vampire and tried to scream for hell but couldn't make any sound. At the time I dismissed them as being caused by watching scary movies. Thanks to your videos and those of others I have come to realize that those dreams were a reaction to my covert narcissist father's behavior. The insights I have gained as a result of your videos have been very helpful to me as I work to remove the consequences of his behavior from my life. Thank you for sharing your information and experience!
I had a dream again and again and again that he was homeless and knocked at the door. This went on for a period of about eight years, and then stopped. It started after he left. He did become homeless, lost everything(mid level executive) drug addict, alcoholic, and died. How bizarre- I told several people about these dreams so I know they had happened over the years. Your subconscious is so strange, it does truly tell you things that are going to happen. Before we split up, his aura was truly black -it’s the first time I felt that and I knew it was time to end it. When he left, he said “it was a good run“ 24 years.- seriously????
My night mare was fighting extreme wind against me, preventing me from walking. I fully realized what the dreams meant as I studied up on narcissism. Message received, dreams ended.
The dream that I had as a child and into my early teens was from the book "Where the Wild Things Are." This makes total sense since my father was a toxic narcissist. I could never escape! He disowned me for years, criticized me and made me feel worthless. Totally makes sense to me 😊
It’s good to pay attention to your dreams anyhow, regardless of the situation. Especially if you see a person from your life in them, pay close attention to the feeling that the dream leaves you with.
Looking back, I'd been having nightmares for years about planes crashing (free falling forever, flipping upside down, trying to hold onto random things, etc...), giant flying bugs chasing me, burglars breaking in and looking for me while I hide in rooms with no windows to escape), tornadoes barreling down on me, etc...the moment I cut off the last narc in my life (my boss), the dreams stopped! It's been 2 years since I've had one of those dreams. I thought they were my norm because I've had a narc in my life most of my life in one way or another. I thought I could handle a narc boss, even though God was warning me and sent a very clear message that she was showing the same signs as the narc in my life that almost destroyed me. I thought it would be different at work because I worked from home and could just put my head down and be fine, but she managed to creep into my dreams in the exact same way, and I never had a moment off working for her. She'd text me or call at the worst times as if she intentionally wanted to destroy my vacations or relaxing evening moments. I now know they DO do this intentionally, but I didn't listen. My health was destroyed too, but now I feel better than ever after changing nothing else! (But plan to start working out again "soon" lol! Now that my body isn't killing me every day!)
There were two dreams I had over and over again. One, I was back in the town where I grew up and searching my home. I was going with a bus, or walking, going through streets I knew and when going around the corner, I was somewhere else. I never found my home, the place where I would feel safe. These dreams left me in despair, feeling so alone and unsafe. Two, in the other repetitive dreams I thought I could fly and tried to move up from the ground. Then I floated up to the ceiling, went outside and tried to fly higher. But it was very difficult to stay from the ground, to keep on floating. Dreams like this left me so tired when I woke up. I felt like I didn't find the freedom I needed to keep on breathing and stay alive.
Wow, this is so true. For years I was haunted by dreams of snakes, but when the mask fell I realized what God was trying to show me all these years. Can you believe it, not a single snake dream since then. Being living with the snake all along. God always exposes the evil doer's, we just need to build a strong relationship with God to see these monsters before they attack or become apart of our lives.
One of my power being a super empath is being a dream empath, which most of the times I have vivid dreams that feels like it happens in real life. Sometimes, I can predict my own dreams. I was given a few dreams last year, while being with someone that I have suspected a few months after we were together, who has a strong narc tendency or perhaps a psychopath. I had a dream after I was planning on leaving him. I got so mad because he told me I'm worthless during our first argument. In the dream, I was with a guy sitting side by side while dining out. I left the table for a while and as soon as I left, there was a woman walking towards him. Then from far, I looked at them, they were talking and laughing which looked like they were flirting. And then, when I came back to the table, I found him laying on the floor with some green slimy thing came out from his mouth. While I was approaching him, one of his arms tried to reach out to me and he tried to say "so sorry". The woman was just standing a bit a way from him and did nothing. I said to her "why are you just standing there?", then that woman eventually left. A couple months later, I've found out he was cheating left and right. I confronted him, but then he confessed that he has been talking with a woman for few months. A month after that, I told him about the dream I had. He tried to manipulate me by saying, "Your dream was a biblical dream. She came right after I thought you left when we had our first argument. In the Bible, she represents as a serpent, she tried to poison me". Before telling him about that dream, I've already predicted what my dream was about. So, my response was just smiling. My dream was telling me that everything comes out from his mouth is lies, bullshit, trash. Why? The most dangerous poison is color green and slimy represents as our inability to place trust in someone. Another dream I had, few months after the previous one I mentioned. There was this tall, muscular but pretty damn dark/black person was in the garage of my house, looking around inside the house. I saw this thing from inside the house. I again told him about this dream and he again tried to manipulate me saying "yeah that women is tall and she's dark, blah blah blah". My prediction of the dream is that the house represents myself, my soul and my all as I was inside the house. That dark damn thing was checking to find out on how to destroy me. Because for almost 2 years he tried and tried to take control over me and my life, he almost never succeeded. I said almost, because sometimes I let him took whatever he needed and wanted, since sometimes I felt pity which I also cared and have loved him, somehow.
I'm telling you Mr.Danish.. you must know about narcissism inside out, back to front... I have had dream no. 4 and 5 many, many times when I was with my narc ex.. this is totally fascinating..how a personal experience like a dream has a lot of connection to our real-life situations.. I'm awestruck!
As a very small child, had a dream or a vision once, about big snake under my bed. A father, blessed his good soul, had to look under the bed to persuade me, all is clear.
I had 2 kinds of recurring dreams before while i was targeted by an organized group or Narcissists. 1. I was playing chess with a demon, and i won the chess match, but the demon flushed me down the toilet. I was struggling to get out, and vowed to clobber the demon when i get out of the continuously flushing toilet. 2. I wake up sweating after dreaming of spiders, thousands of spiders in their webs that have taken over my room and outside the house too. This was the kind of dream that i was already awake but i can still see the spiders slightly moving in their webs, as if it was the real thing. I can't move my body though, and my seeing the spiders lasts for like 5 to 10 minutes after i've opened my eyes.
I’ve journaled my dreams for many years ,,, I think looking back thru the journal,, these were guidance from God. I constantly searched for the meaning of dreams. Constantly. But I do not want to go against Gods will. So I just ask Him to reveal to me. My dreams are in great detail.
Before leaving I dreamed I was trying to run away from something but my legs always felt like lead weights, I couldn't lift them, I'd fall and try to drag myself along. I could never get away. Since leaving my narc husband, I've had lots of terrible dreams, dreams of being killed by him in various ways, dreams of being naked somewhere and trying to cover myself, and lots of other terrifying exhausting dreams that I can't quite remember but from which I wake up exhausted and sometimes sweating, usually I'm the early hours of morning just before I'm supposed to get up. This has gone on for 9 months. I'm doing a lot of work and the dreams are finally starting to subside.
After taking in Danish Bashir's video information about narcissists I realize my now deceased husband was a covert narcissist. This dream info resonates. I had recurring terrifying dreams of scary cartoonish figures throwing things at me and I would try to scream for help without finding my voice. Finally I would waken and be able to shout, to which he would convey irritation, didbelief, and detachment- no comfort. I rarely had a good night's sleep in our marriage, I thought due to chronic body pain and his sleep anea. Finally I was so desperate to sleep that I asked him to sleep in the spare room until he got help for the apnea. We hadn't been intimate for a long time anyway which I thought was my fault of course. He wouldn't get sleep help and played the sad victim telling his friends how I wouldn't sleep with him. Well Danish, those dreams stopped and I got better sleep although the chronic pain interrupts, but not as much. My experience validates what you've been saying in this video about dreams. Now I am looking forward to your video on breaking the trauma bond. Before ending, I do believe Divine Mother sent those dreams to warn me, but I was blinded by my husband's love bombing.
omg yall - its my daughter........the worst dream I had was we had a car wreck into a lake, and I couldn't find her, my husband woke me up because I was screaming for her and crying in my sleep. I kept telling him we have to find her!
Dreams of running like a mad man somewhere is a sigh in dreams of sabotage. Trying to wake up and seeing the room but unable to wake up is a sign on danger in your environment. The dreams that heal you and you wake up more vibrant can also trigger the narcisstic people to attack. Keep having a dream❤💐💜💫🙏🏾🧿🪬
It's amazing what you said🙏 I dealed with it all, the horrifying dreams. I my case, because he had lovers on a side, literally they both hunted me at night in my dreams. I was discharged just before last Christmas (after 25 years),was introduced to the new supply in my dream😱 . After few months my dreams stoped and I am not afraid to fall asleep.
a black wolf was chasing me in one partnership. It was over after the break up. If I started to pray to the divine and the archangels because i was in a not so good life situation they showed me in the dreams the plans from my ex very detailed that saved my life for sure. The falling dream i know from my family home. . .I learned a lot to this point. I'm very grateful for everthing. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏❤️
I had a snarling black werewolf! It was in the house and I had to get away. Also a dream where he became someone else with habits he didn't have, like smoking. I would cry and say, 'no, this isn't you,' but it was.
I have had all these dreams. Even after I got away for years after I got away. I don't know how but God reveal to be one day I could just say noto these dreams because I wasn't there anymore. I would wake myself up and say go away. Finally they all went away. It took a lot of concentration and time but it finally worked.
a head that attacks...trying to get to a robber, and have to drag myself to see my car being stolen...trying to yell, can't...only when i am under the same roof as the narc.
One of the last days when I finally took the decision to leave the narcissist, I dream that something very dark was taken out of my chest !!! I understood everything then
After leaving my narcissistic husband I encountered a narcissistic colleague who was 13 years older than me controlling me. I was ok with him controlling me as I thought poor chap let him survive too. Till I started to go breathless in the nighttime stuck between concrete slabs unable to breathe or exit. I thought I was in denial about losing my mind. I couldn’t tell the root of that dream where I was going breathless. Ty for this video
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God did show me.. I didn’t listen 😢 Thankfully God also gave me the strength to leave!
Same
Also same
I took the reverse discard and left!
Wish my youngest daughter with 5 kids wud have courage to leave !
Same 😮💨😖
Thank you Jesus for your patience with me 🤍
I’ll never been angry w/God because when I look back, I realize that I either missed or ignored the signs that He gave me.
Right, same
He even gave me opportunities to get away from him and I didn’t take them 🥲
Literally my grandma came in my dreams and warned me of the terrible life I chose. She kept coming in mu dreams until I left him. Almighty was on my side, I was able to escape him in 4 months of the relationship
Within a week of leaving, I stopped having night terrors! It was THE sign
I could breathe, I could sleep, and I even began to be able to think more clearly. My skin cleared up, my stomach settled down, my headaches subsided. It is not a coincidence. 😂😮❤
That's fabulous news!
Still having them. Got a day bed, so bars. Wake up clinging.
Had dreams of snakes just before being triangulated. Had dreams the devil was attacking me and me trying to wake my narc husband up to help, but he slept on, then Jesus came to my rescue.
In my first marriage to a narc I had dreams of being raped by Satan. Being dead in the ground eaten by rats and snakes. The night we got married I could not stop crying. I was young and thought everyone would be mad if I did not go through with the wedding. After 15 years of marriage and two kids later I earned a nursing degree R N. My sister all in horrible marriages, hated me for leaving him. Now my covert narcissistic sister is working hard on a smear campaign to destroy me. She even had me meet her at a trail by a river after a heavy rain. I still hoped we could talk and start to heal. Instead she verbally abused me. Said really horrible things about me. I thought I was a horrible person and should die to lift my family's burden. This happened a few years ago. Only about a month ago, the thought popped into my head that she probably wanted me to go into that river. Today my kids call her Mom and no longer visit or speak to me. My heart has broke so many times. Everything I've done such as sending cards to my kids is interpreted as being manipulated. I do not see my grandkids. Only God can change this if it is his will. In the last few years I found new sisters in Christ that are kind and I've never felt this kind of love before except from my parent's and second marriage husband and father in law. My husband is still living. Parents and father in-law have died.
5 therapists in 20yrs! Not one of them said you’re dealing with a narcissist UNTIL I ASK! And then it was confirmed
So frustrating…
I wonder why they don’t educate us…I started seeing psychologists before marrying him and no one told me 😢
Made great $$ off you, welcome out of the therapist narc trap!!! They've all hid thus knowing on purpose... your healing hurts their agenda. .
Unfortunately, there are a lot of them who will not give you the adequate help you need in order to keep you coming back and seeking out their services. They drag your treatment out as long as possible.
Many are narcs themselves. Even worse is when they are unaware.
My NM started taking me to psychiatrists my first day of 3rd grade. She told me I was ‘going to meet a new friend!’ It was a probably 67 year old man. At 8 years old I remember thinking he looked like an uncircumcised wiener. Disturbing.
Went to a psy every week until I was 17.
She often went in with me to speak FOR me and tell the dr what she had diagnosed me with herself and what drugs she wanted me put on. I never saw one Dr for too long. But according to a demonic woman who is not and has never been a psychiatrist, psychologist, or any other kind of doctor or qualified persons- I am a bipolar, histrionic narcissist with borderline personality disorder. Of course! Name any psy med and I was probably on it for a good 3 weeks. I wish we could go back and press criminal charges or hold these creatures accountable in some way.
I had dreams of snakes, troubling me, frightening me.
And some nights I felt as if my spirit is leaving out of fear, frightening body shaking.
And at last I made solid move was when, I dreamt that narc was taking me on the irreversible highway knowing it was the wrong road.
And then when in some lift, I was told to get down from 15 th floor. Forcibly. That was the final nail on the wall for me. I left narcissistic people, family, friends, everyone all at once.
And then for almost 2 years I spent alone, started healing. I thank GOD for you Danish and Dr Ramani, who played huge role in my abuse recovery path.
It was drRamani for me as well. Like i finally got it even though i watched videos on narcs on psych2go but i didnt realize it applied to my family or coworkers or romance. Only after her videos.
So true... it was a Psychology Certificate course, and then Dr. Ramani...
I literally searched for how to improve or get out of my situation and found out about this... Even the urge to take a psychology course was for this reason...
Only after removing the major narcissists from my life did I get rid of these dreams and finally sleep somewhat peacefully...
I used to have sleep paralysis on the nights that I went out somewhere with tbe narcissist....
For last 6 years, my dreams are i was getting chased by Buffalo/bull and me holding their horns trying to not get attacked. Indeed it was a sign from god
Try to tell that bull about Ferdinand the Bull, by Munroe Leaf 🙏💙❣️
When I was with a narcissist, I kept having dreams I was in a car speeding down a road but trying to drive from the back seat, and so afraid to crash. As I gradually extricated myself from the relationship, the dreams shifted to being in the driver's seat going slowly. But the car had no working brakes. I'd stimp in the brake, pull the emergency brake, and nothing would happen. In these dreams, my now ex would be telling me to drive anywat because no brakes was just fine, not a big deal! Now that he's completely gone from my life, the nightmares are gone too.
Look at all that symbolism! 😮
Biggest sign shown by God- the strong gut feeling that something is definitely off with the person. Still i chose to ignore because i really really loved him. After five years of passionate relationship, i found him to be married. Still he continued with his cheating and outright lying right on my face. And not to mention money siphoning. Finally, i gave him the no contact. Please pray that i can hold my ground. It really hurts. Really really hurts. But i finally decided to remain resolute.
Nail it
I'm HAPPY FOR YOU! I was in exactly the same TOXIC RELATIONSHIP...Like you...I REALLY LOVED HER AND SWALLOWED HER MASK SHE PROJECTED FOR ME HOOK...LINE...AND SINKER!! I believe now that It was only devine intervention that FREED ME FROM THIS HORROR!!
I wish all the JOY AND HAPPINESS YOU DESERVE as you sweep aside the toxic fog from your eyes so that you can see your true self and be able to share that with those WHO REALLY DESERVE IT!! May you find real love, happiness and peace!
Keep watching these videos and also sadly you have to realize that nothing about him was real. It was all performance. You will make it. You must stay strong and realize that your silence is some form of payback bc your silence is hurting him more than you realize. Be well.
Sending all the strength and positive vibes your way! May u stay strong, get over it and heal in a beautiful way ❤
Stay strong!!
Im 12 yrs divorced from the 1st narcissist who was very verbally abusive. The kids are his pawn to get to me now.☹😡. And im almost 3yrs seperated from the 2nd who ended up being a spychopath and covert narcissist 😡😡
Life goes on..im still waiting for God to drop a man on my doorstep so i know hes a good one!
Im so happy that you choose to help others instead of using your trauma to hurt others love ya brother danish
Mine were recurring dreams of being trapped in a filth-flooded bathroom of overflowing toilets filled with filth, like you would see at the bottom of a porta-potty, and being unable to find a toilet to use. I haven’t had that dream since I kicked him out almost 12 years ago.
Omg me too!! same reoccurring dreams!!
Wow. Awful. 😢
I used to have dreams like that all the time. I always dreamt that I was looking for a toilet but every time there was a problem that prevented me from using it, like the door wouldn't close or there were people staring at me and in my dream I was always holding back and couldn't pee. The day I left him I dreamt I had a very long pee. I'll always remember the relief I felt.
You are right. We have all those scary dreams when we are being attacked by the narcissistic evil energy. It’s no joke. Thank you Danish 😊 God bless you ❤
When I first met him I had a dream that I was looking at him laughing and talking to people as his charming self (the person I thought he was at the time). Then a voice kept repeating the word “incongruent”. Then I woke up. I now see it as a warning dream.
For years I often had dreams where I was in some dire situation and in need of assistance and when I would call out or try to scream I could only manage a whisper or no voice strength at all.
Oh those are the worst !! Had ones like that too
I can never make a sound or scream in nightmares; and when I try to run away, I run on all fours, like a cat
I had a dream that I came face to face with a demonic prescence (had a male face, black eyes). I was standing my ground, telling it I was not afraid even though I felt inner panic. This was just a couple of months before my ex discarded me and his abuse took a turn for the worst. At the time, I understood it as fighting against his toxic ex-wife, who is a grandiose narc. Either way, it helped me recognize my inner power but also dark energy I was living with. It's so clear now, that dream was God's way of showing me this. As a Jewish woman, I remind myself of God's protection daily and envision white and golden light surrounding my home and myself. Turning to daily prayer and meditation has also been helpful.
Thank you for your unique takes on narc abuse, Danish. You are doing so much to bring light and healing into the world. Much love to you💜
So absolutely true plus Dark Shadows , sleep paralysis ,being chased, evilness staring down on your bed at you while it's clutches on the wall .
I had exactly this, I can't even think/talk about it, it was terrifying. But it made me leave that relationship
My narc had the sleep paralysis and it freaked me out a few times at first but he’d talk of what he saw and I always attributed it to his demons which I whole heartily know he had around him anyway.
Most of those dreams resonated with me. Brilliant. I feel so bad for my child self. It took many decades-I’m 72-to understand what happened to me. Thank you Danish.
Yes me too, in July I turn 72. 😢
I saw snakes all my life and then after I was married, I saw myself very often running away from dangerous places always trying to protect my children. Never linked the dreams to my reality!
My dream from a Very young age, over and over, was hearing my Mama's voice calling me, and looking for her. I knew she was downstairs. Everything was dark. I followed her voice, but snakes, spiders and alligators were on the lower steps. I turned around to go back up, but now there were snakes and alligators above me also. And then I heard a witch cackling. It was my mama. That's always when I woke up. I could never tell her about the dream because I was ashamed of having dreams where she was a witch, and I didn't want to hurt her feelings. 💔
Oh thats very sad. Im so sorry 💔
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You're right on being ill & getting worse when this person came into my life. Unfortunately, for me, it was my sister (2 yrs younger) . . . & my family backed her up after she reduced & destroyed my life 2.5 yrs ago. My mom just passed 2 wks ago, I was not allowed to get info while she was in the hospital & only learned of her death 2 days after her passing & was not allowed to say goodbye. And the filth is present in my waking life -- due to the mobility problems since her willfull destruction of my life. But, I am starting to recover. Thank you.
I am so sorry for your pain. 😢
If your mother didn't hear from you then, please go ahead and tell her now. She knows how you feel, and she also knows exactly who your sister is. I had a similar situation with my family, but I also know that narcissistic relationships also are always a testing spiritual journey. I've learned it all the hard way. ❤
Thank you so much Danish for doing what you do. You are saving lives, literally. I have been in an environment full of narcissists who constantly stabbed me in the back, and attempted to make me believe I was the problematic one. And the irresponsible and evil one. My own brother betrayed me and trapped me in a mental ward for over a month, in his efforts to steal my part of the inheritance after our father's passing. He called me the worst names possible and tried to convince me I was the crazy one. The abuse started many years ago. What saved me was the fact I attended therapy and got to know myself really well, via the eyes of professional psychoanalysts. Most of the people in my environment betrayed me, due to his lies and manipulation, and not only his. He missed ONE very important thing though: I started talking. He had the illusion I would remain silent forever...
I had night sweats, and my heart will be pumping for dear life, I was paranoid and anxiety hit at a all time high when ever I slept with her because we didn't live together, we were always together she just needed me around always. I was so drained with her, I've experienced the falling and waking up before hitting the ground or w.e is there. Also dreamed about her cheating, Last but not least my mom threw a black bag at me in a dream, which I felt was a sign to get away from the female narcissist I was dealing with, or that bag would have came to reality only with me in it permanently😮 I am glad to be out, been no contact 10 months, never going back. Stay strong survivors and thrivers🙏💙💯😎💜✨🏆🤙
When i was 13 and had to go live with my narc father and grandmother soon after i had a terrible nightmare as if a gigantic snake wrapped me in circles and then bit me right in my open mouth. The extent of terror after the dream i cannot describe. I didnt tell anyone and i didnt know what that could mean. Only after decades of suffering, coming to God, discovering about narcissism and my father’s possibly practicing magic all his life and killing animals that i do imagine why i had that dream. I also had strange dreams when he and my grandmother collapsed and i started feeling considerably better physically and mentally. But do not think your key to health and happiness is your narcissist demise. Youll have to do work on yourself in front of God as well.
My entire childhood 😞 finally was able to see my covert narc mother at age 39 and end all abusive relationships!
Danish, thanks for finally interpreting all these dreams that I've had ever since I was a child. God bless you. 😇
A narcissist repeatedly shows us only God is perfect.
Yup
Amen
Amen
No
God is not perfect, God just IS, We are god, ALL is god.
I AM THAT I AM.
In the beginning I had nightmares of something terrible happening to him and I couldn't protect him. Thrn i began having dreams about something terrible happening to me and my kids and he was doing nothing to protect and save us. And finally, a week before he abandoned me, I had a nightmare that he had shoved me off a cliff and as I was lying on the ground and unable to get up and beggibg him to help me, he stood at the cliffs edge and said, "no one likes you anyway!" If I had any other dreams, I dont recall them. But those stabd out, even after over a decade.
I had dreams of hidden tiny dangers SO MANY TIMES. Like a beautiful picnic lunch by a river with hundreds of baby alligators in the tall grasses. My mom swimming in a beautiful lake with thousands of water moccasins. Walking down a beautiful path with tons of snakes crossing it everywhere.
There was ALWAYS beauty but always unseen perils just behind the beauty.
aaaaaaaa the alligator dreams!
I repeatedly dreamt of snakes and lions chasing me and I was choked and couldn't call out for help...i dreamt of falling down the stairs without reaching the ground, also not being clothed inside a bathroom with broken latch. This has continued since childhood, intensified during my stay with narcissistic husband. I'm still in the process of officially splitting from him. Dreams are still continuing but with lesser episodes and lesser intensity. Thank u so much for finally interpreting my horrific dreams.
These are symptoms of black magic attack... Someone made a curse or curses on you!
I feel so sad that you were abused as a child. I was too and as a kid, there isn’t much you can do.
Oh, no, if anything, this is the life path God has given me, and I know it because every day I prove to myself how strong my spirit is. I have now learned my worth. Never again. ❤
Danish, You have got me at the start!! You sir, know all about narcissist abuse. I thank you and all of your listeners have to feel just as thankful as I. Peace and Blessings to you and your family 🙏🙏🙏
These nightmares are truly very close to feeling extremely real
towards the end of my 10 month marriage... the Narc was triggering my PTSD of my earlier decades with a narc father and family.
with lies, and radical rages.... etc. ( which he absolutely enjoyed terrorizing me)
twice I was startled by dreams so demanding.
that from a deep sleep.....I found myself bolt upright and standing next to my bed. wide awake.
such adrenaline pumping in me it was impossible to sleep again.
so I just quietly stayed up and cleaned house.
I took note at my extreme reactions..... and I knew I was to run from the marriage asap.
I used to dream I was being chased by an unsavory character and could not get away. Since I have distanced myself from the covert religious narcissist as much as possible I had a dream I was being chased and I finally got away! When I woke up I felt that the dream came from being able to distance myself and they are not able to control everything in my life any more.
I know someone who had that stuck feeling or more like feeling suffocated.
I had nightmares of volcanoes erupting and swallowing me, and of the sea rushing out and grabbing me and I'd wake up screaming.
As a Child I often had this nightmare which was always introduced in the same manner: I saw a scarf made of silk moving in front of my eyes . I then found myself on the bottom of something huge a grey fluffy egg, in which‘s midst I fell downwards constantly. I was unable to scream and hoped this would come to an end. The dream ended like it began.
I found out recently by your videos and those of others that both of my parents were narcissists.
That’s where I ended up twice in my two marriages.
A dreamI had in my first one was I went down a staircase step by step and all of a sudden the nice guardrails on each side turned in a way they were the stepstones. So I walked down on these guardrails . They often changed their spin. I don’t dream this any longer now. My first husband was a noncovert narcissist, my second one a covert one. I already took an addiction to alcohol in me.
To silence the pain I felt.Meanwhile I am sober for 11 years now and member of an AA group.
I even did. this in my childhood. I remember my father missed small bottles of a bitter „ digestif“ ( that’s called a helpling to digest a heavy meal in French) and took a sip when I felt lonely. I was about 9 years old at that time.
My father asked me, if I had taken…I admitted this and showed him where one of those bottles were in the closet of my dolls.
My parents were masterminds in shaming, blaming and giving guilt to me.I often times felt a huge anger I couldn’t explain.
Acting in a certain way was something to be ashamed of, another day the exact opposite was required. I could hardly ever do something in the right way. Esp. my mother was very good at this.
I was parentified by both of my parents. I remember I had to weigh two golden bracelets hanging on one of my fingers, one of which I should tell the highest weight, meaning, the most precious one.I told my father to pick the one he liked best.
Desperation at its best.
My inner batteries are drained, but I started my healing journey. I give myself plenty of time , not urging myself to hurry up and I am kind to me. I take small steps and stay patient.
I have the dream of chewing glass pieces very often. And actually not chewing but rather spitting them out. And no matter how much I spit out, the amount of glass pieces dont reduce hindering me from speaking.
Silent treatment is like: "don't talk about what you see and hear at home" - the narc-mother
Wow. Truth❤. Do what I do... Blame it all on yourself, walk away. Let him keep the opinion of you. Do not stoop to that level. GOD loves you❤
I remember feeling trapped in a cage -- and this is while I was asleep. I could see everything in the room around me, but I couldn't move to get out and run away.
I've had dreams of me being attacked, drowning and falling to my death. I hate them 🥺💔
( I wrote this before watching the entire video. It makes sense thank you🙏)
I had a recurring dream as a child about 8 to 9 yrs old of a huge snake, anaconda size chasing me, coming up from the basement of our home. I would run out of the house down the street and spread my arms out like the wings of plane and the wind would lift me up way above the trees , flying, where I was safe. I had no understanding then that I was being raised by narcisistic mother, and had narcisistic grandmother and uncles. Years later after becoming a Christian , I went to deliverance minister and he broke off of me generational curses and what came up was a breaking off of me the Leviathon spirit coming through generational lines. Leviathon is a serpent, it constricts, suffocates and thus squeezes the life out of you, eventually killing you, silencing you. Then many years later I began to learn what narcisism is and connected the dots. There is definitely demonic spirits involved with it. God can set you free. So as a young child before I understood the psychology of it all, I believe God was trying to show me what I was up against, and how to be set free. To rise above the storm by the wind into Gods Presence.
Wow! I love this outlook on the topic. Very insightful 💫
Falling. Always falling but I honestly never sleep. It’s like I can’t.
I was always dreaming of falling for 10 years I was there and the sense of being chained. Spot on.
So true... And if it's in a family... everyone except "the narcissist" has these symptoms... Unfortunately, one or the other of the ones tolerating the abuse can't really take it and break down... The old story of narcissistic families....
I used to have a bunch of these types of dreams. I was constantly being chased in my dreams, trapped in places I couldn't get out of. Naked in public. My old boss was a narcissist. I stopped have those dreams after I quit lol
God showed me how beautifull real love is ❤
I have had these nightmares for 32 years/ snakes attacking me/ in a room with no windows or doors/ being outside with no clothes on/ and falling out of the air or sky and now why dam it man
Wow. I cannot believe how many of you have dreamed about snakes! I hope this video has helped you.
Thanks man, you have explained so much. The last 3 of the dreams haunting me nearly all my life.
I think these dreams sometimes happen when the narcissist is actually fantasizing about hurting you, when they are resenting you, when they are staring at you while you sleep. You are subconsciously aware that you're being bombarded with negative energy.
Omg so true, 3 days before he plan to hurt me, I got nightmare
Yes or your intuition kicks in!
Yes to health issues yes to repeated frightening dreams of being trapped yes to snakes and alligators in my dreams yes to doors closing on everywhere around me. At the end I was waking up every night around 3-3:15 am. Dreams of having hooks hooked to my back and me trying to take them off but I couldn't lift my arms. The terrible dreams are gone now. Anytime my ex calls me I have bad dreams.
So true, it was repeated dream of snake bite, snake chasing
Danish, thank you for all you do to spread awareness on narcs, how we survive, and thrive afterwards. You were one of the channels that got me through when I left my narc ex nearly 3 years ago. I still tune in every now and then over my long-term healing.
I never had these kinds of dreams while I was in the relationship, but sadly, I’ve had recurring nightmares afterwards of what happened. However, while I was still in that situation, my Mum, for about a year, had a recurring dream of my narc ex holding my head down in a bucket of water. Looking back, I believe this was a sign from God to get out.
I’m out, happy, and in a healthy relationship with a fellow survivor, 2 years strong 💪❤️.
Again, thank you x
I experienced the dreams of being naked and vulnerable and helpless and attacked. I would be in a room with all of my ex family and my ex-husband, and they would start saying terrible things about me, and I was unable to leave and unable to speak to defend myself.
But my number one recurring nightmare through my entire adult life was that of being chased by some unseen evil force. I would run and run and run and try to hide and try to find weapons so I could defend myself, but I never actually figured out who the enemy was, I rarely found weapons, and I would wake up exhausted from running in my nightmare for hours. These nightmares completely stopped when I figured out who the unseen evil force was: my husband.
I am seven months out now. I only sometimes have nightmares still, and they are nowhere near as bad as they used to be. My ex-husband is in most of them, but I am able to defend myself against him. I am no longer fooled by his tricks. It’s great!
I totally resonate with what you're saying. I've just taken the opportunity to extricate myself from a very bad relationship, not a romantic one, just a friendship. I couldn't even talk whenever we were out visiting! She told me that since I wouldn't tell her everything about a private matter, that she felt she was entitled to know everything about, that I was just "using" her, and I should leave! I was never more releaved! I just said, "you're right. So long!" Thank God that's over!
I had all these dreams. From when I was a pre-teenager to a young adult I had those paralyzed dreams where your mind wakes up before your body and you feel as though you’re trapped. It got so bad I remember being so afraid to fall asleep. To this day I’m afraid to fall asleep in the dark in fear no one will see me suffering in the shadows.
After I became an adult I kept having dreams about “zombie apocalypse” where I was running away from many things, creatures (which makes sense because there really isn’t one good person in my immediate family). I remember climbing closets and boulders trying to get to safety and knowing I was all alone.
Now that I’ve gone NC I’m surprised how much I’m dreaming “about them”. I kept having nightmares that I have to rescue my pets from snakes and scorpions. I will be walking enjoying my day with my kittens and in the background there will be some creepy crawlers chasing us. I always wake up before we make it to safety. Two of my stray cats died before I could go NC and get us to a safer place.
My last dream I was trapped in a house with my brother. I couldn’t leave and I was hiding trying not to run into him, eating scraps of food like some rat. The only “way out” was to move into my malignant narcissistic mother’s house which is probably just as bad. This is basically what happened that I ended up going NC. My brothers wife called the police on him, he had a restraining order so he had to come live with my malignant figure (whom I was living with in isolation in a room). I was basically trapped in this room for 7 days until I couldn’t take it anymore. My brother wouldn’t leave and I exploded. That was the end of it.
Danish, your dream interpretations are very insightful and #3 resonated with me - loss of voice. Thank you!
I am so glad that you're channel exists this helped me in so many ways 🥺❤️
So true. I saw poisonous snakes , fire, a mad man trying to attack me..all sorts of weird dreams. I had severe stomach aches that woke me up in the middle of the night. But i didnt know what that meant. I was dealing with a covert narcissist who acted like the kindest person but was destroying me bit by bit. I ended up getting ptsd and also shaved my head in a mental fog. Im glad i chose to go no contact with him 2 months ago. Im slowly building my life back again.
A few days ago, after deciding to go no contact, I had a dream of a huge yellow snake, dead or almost dead and oozing a weird, yellow and clear liquid (maybe bile). Very strange.
While in a business partnership. I suffered with nightly dreams of apocalyptic themes, where I had to carry on with the business functions. I have a long standing history of night terrors and sleep paralysis as well.
Since I have removed myself from my business partner, my dreams and health have improved in only a way that God can be responsible for.
Thank you for channel 🙏
I personally have experienced the sleep paralysis from a past narc, snake dreams, Hooved demons, repeated dreams with beautiful nature scenes (yet I feel off, like someone’s hiding or watching while in the dream). My most recent dream, I was alone sitting on a dock at night and I felt the presence of someone. Next thing I know, I was pushed in the ocean. I was struggling to stay a float and gather my things that fell in at the same time. Then all of a sudden, (this presence, felt like the narc ex) pulls me out back onto the dock and they vanish. Then the dream continued.. it all of a sudden turns daylight and I’m still on this dock. Im trying to walk off back onto the main land. Then I see this huge wake in the water about 20 feet from the dock. I stopped and watched, it moved fast like an anaconda under the waters surface. I couldn’t see it but felt it was a big snake. Next thing I know, I’m in the water next to the docks piling and the narc ex (who randomly appeared) is in the water with me holding onto me. Im trying to ask him, what’s going on? Can you get me out of here? I held him tightly and I felt his “legs” wrapped around me. I felt a moment of safety, but it was all a facade and false. He did end up putting me on the shore to safety but why was I put into that circumstance to begin with!? I believe the snake presence was his spirit (he’s obviously sold) or whatever dark energies he’s harboring. It’s an attempt to make me feel safe in the presence of the enemy. I didn’t have any dreams whatsoever when we were together for 3 months. I only had 1 in the beginning when I first stayed over at his house and I don’t even remember it, but I did wake up in a panic attack. (I believe my subconscious was protecting my conscious self from what he spiritually might have been doing to me while we were sleeping next to each other, that’s why I have no recollection of any dreams). Now 4 months no contact and I’m getting these reoccurring snake dreams.. 🤔 he was extremely controlling and tried to even lay on top off me to the point I had trouble getting air. (If that’s not obvious, HE WAS TRYING TO SNUFF OUT MY LIGHT!!) 😮 We’re no contact, he’s blocked on everything, I changed my number and I don’t ever plan on speaking to him again. I will pray more and ask all of us to pray for each other as a collective ❤️🙏 peace & blessings 😇💫
I was chased by a helicopter in one dream and i was kidnapped and stuck in a house with a faceless pot bellied man and i knew if i were to get in a dark room in his house that i would never get out so i escaped but people saw me and didnt help so i realized that i was on my own even surrounded by people in freedom. I needed a bathroom in my dreams and they are always dirty like a mens truck stop restroom, there are always many options but they all look and smell terrible and i have no choice so i use them. I wake up and this feeling i cant describe just lingers with me and it takes all morning to regulate myself so im not walking around screaming negativity. Sucks. I am trying to save myself. Its hard but im not giving up getting out and going no contact.
You put the thoughts I have into a perspective that is hard but helpful to realize . Thank You 🙏🏼
Right before I got out, I had a dream that I was in a dark dungeon with a blob that looked like a Star Wars character. It had no skin and was in a lot of pain, and I felt so much empathy for it, but the only exit was above my head and if I didn’t get out, I knew that it would devour me even though I felt so sorry for it.I got out through the small space and I realize that my ex was the narcissist and that I’d best run now or I’d never get out. It’s been over a year and I think God Dailey that I got out of that hell that I was in.
For the last six years of my marriage I had demonic dreams of being in an earthquake. Then in the last few months I was hallucinating of seeing things that weren’t there. Finally I had a physical demonic attack. I left him and all attacks stopped. I believe that my faith in Jesus kept me from so much more!
I believe you 100% because after a year of emotional abuse i feel like my brain broke im not sad anymore my only 2 emotions are either nothing or anger now but my anger isn’t normal it feels like something takes over me and I even get an endorphin rush and feel better the angrier I get I need spiritual help
While regular cannabis use contains my dreams, I've had the partial paralysis dreams (also with something trying to climb down my throat). For me, the size of the creature isnt a problem at first; it starts oun small and as one. But then it multipliirs by dividing...THEN the individuals begin to bloat. And they keep dividing, but slower, yet still growing. A lot like the blob, but with goldfish with glassy eyes. ...Cannabis for me, y'all!!
My narc abandoned me when I was pregnant. Throughout my pregnancy, I had multiple dreams that were so realistic I’d wake up shaking and sweating. They were so crystal clear. In the first dream, he was apologizing. In the second one, he was too busy to care about his child coming into this world. In the last and final one, I asked him if he wanted to meet her. And he said yes. It’s been almost two years since I’ve had contact with him and those dreams. Something about them was different. It felt like I was watching myself in another timeline. Or my subconscious was painting some deep desire to reconcile and be the family I once saw. Interesting stuff
I have a narcissistic family I went on no contact on 2021 since then I've been having strange dreams 😳 I dreamed my mom pushed me on a building and I fell but mysteriously I rope crossed my way and I could hold on it and I survived 😢
Another dream my brother strungled me with a rope and I couldn't breathe for seconds luckily the rope fell apart and I could breathe again, the dream ended.
Everything you have said was so on point. It's so true that God gives shows you signs. It doesn't lie .Thank you for your wise message its so powerful and uplifting Bless you .
Many years ago I had a repeating dream that I was being chased by a vampire and tried to scream for hell but couldn't make any sound. At the time I dismissed them as being caused by watching scary movies. Thanks to your videos and those of others I have come to realize that those dreams were a reaction to my covert narcissist father's behavior. The insights I have gained as a result of your videos have been very helpful to me as I work to remove the consequences of his behavior from my life. Thank you for sharing your information and experience!
I had a dream again and again and again that he was homeless and knocked at the door. This went on for a period of about eight years, and then stopped. It started after he left. He did become homeless, lost everything(mid level executive) drug addict, alcoholic, and died. How bizarre- I told several people about these dreams so I know they had happened over the years. Your subconscious is so strange, it does truly tell you things that are going to happen. Before we split up, his aura was truly black -it’s the first time I felt that and I knew it was time to end it. When he left, he said “it was a good run“ 24 years.- seriously????
My night mare was fighting extreme wind against me, preventing me from walking.
I fully realized what the dreams meant as I studied up on narcissism.
Message received, dreams ended.
❤ I love the background on this one that it was blurry. When filming you can keep the house as messy as you want and it still looks good.
The dream that I had as a child and into my early teens was from the book "Where the Wild Things Are." This makes total sense since my father was a toxic narcissist. I could never escape! He disowned me for years, criticized me and made me feel worthless. Totally makes sense to me 😊
It’s good to pay attention to your dreams anyhow, regardless of the situation. Especially if you see a person from your life in them, pay close attention to the feeling that the dream leaves you with.
Danish, you are an angel
May God bless you always ❤
Looking back, I'd been having nightmares for years about planes crashing (free falling forever, flipping upside down, trying to hold onto random things, etc...), giant flying bugs chasing me, burglars breaking in and looking for me while I hide in rooms with no windows to escape), tornadoes barreling down on me, etc...the moment I cut off the last narc in my life (my boss), the dreams stopped! It's been 2 years since I've had one of those dreams. I thought they were my norm because I've had a narc in my life most of my life in one way or another. I thought I could handle a narc boss, even though God was warning me and sent a very clear message that she was showing the same signs as the narc in my life that almost destroyed me. I thought it would be different at work because I worked from home and could just put my head down and be fine, but she managed to creep into my dreams in the exact same way, and I never had a moment off working for her. She'd text me or call at the worst times as if she intentionally wanted to destroy my vacations or relaxing evening moments. I now know they DO do this intentionally, but I didn't listen. My health was destroyed too, but now I feel better than ever after changing nothing else! (But plan to start working out again "soon" lol! Now that my body isn't killing me every day!)
There were two dreams I had over and over again. One, I was back in the town where I grew up and searching my home. I was going with a bus, or walking, going through streets I knew and when going around the corner, I was somewhere else. I never found my home, the place where I would feel safe. These dreams left me in despair, feeling so alone and unsafe.
Two, in the other repetitive dreams I thought I could fly and tried to move up from the ground. Then I floated up to the ceiling, went outside and tried to fly higher. But it was very difficult to stay from the ground, to keep on floating. Dreams like this left me so tired when I woke up. I felt like I didn't find the freedom I needed to keep on breathing and stay alive.
Wow, this is so true. For years I was haunted by dreams of snakes, but when the mask fell I realized what God was trying to show me all these years. Can you believe it, not a single snake dream since then. Being living with the snake all along. God always exposes the evil doer's, we just need to build a strong relationship with God to see these monsters before they attack or become apart of our lives.
Wow thank u
My heart is pounding while watching this
One of my power being a super empath is being a dream empath, which most of the times I have vivid dreams that feels like it happens in real life. Sometimes, I can predict my own dreams.
I was given a few dreams last year, while being with someone that I have suspected a few months after we were together, who has a strong narc tendency or perhaps a psychopath.
I had a dream after I was planning on leaving him. I got so mad because he told me I'm worthless during our first argument. In the dream, I was with a guy sitting side by side while dining out. I left the table for a while and as soon as I left, there was a woman walking towards him. Then from far, I looked at them, they were talking and laughing which looked like they were flirting. And then, when I came back to the table, I found him laying on the floor with some green slimy thing came out from his mouth. While I was approaching him, one of his arms tried to reach out to me and he tried to say "so sorry". The woman was just standing a bit a way from him and did nothing. I said to her "why are you just standing there?", then that woman eventually left.
A couple months later, I've found out he was cheating left and right. I confronted him, but then he confessed that he has been talking with a woman for few months.
A month after that, I told him about the dream I had. He tried to manipulate me by saying, "Your dream was a biblical dream. She came right after I thought you left when we had our first argument. In the Bible, she represents as a serpent, she tried to poison me". Before telling him about that dream, I've already predicted what my dream was about. So, my response was just smiling.
My dream was telling me that everything comes out from his mouth is lies, bullshit, trash. Why? The most dangerous poison is color green and slimy represents as our inability to place trust in someone.
Another dream I had, few months after the previous one I mentioned. There was this tall, muscular but pretty damn dark/black person was in the garage of my house, looking around inside the house. I saw this thing from inside the house. I again told him about this dream and he again tried to manipulate me saying "yeah that women is tall and she's dark, blah blah blah". My prediction of the dream is that the house represents myself, my soul and my all as I was inside the house. That dark damn thing was checking to find out on how to destroy me. Because for almost 2 years he tried and tried to take control over me and my life, he almost never succeeded. I said almost, because sometimes I let him took whatever he needed and wanted, since sometimes I felt pity which I also cared and have loved him, somehow.
Thank you for your videos. I used to be a vivid dreamer, now I rarely remember any dreams but I have night terrors. 😥
I'm telling you Mr.Danish.. you must know about narcissism inside out, back to front... I have had dream no. 4 and 5 many, many times when I was with my narc ex.. this is totally fascinating..how a personal experience like a dream has a lot of connection to our real-life situations.. I'm awestruck!
As a very small child, had a dream or a vision once, about big snake under my bed. A father, blessed his good soul, had to look under the bed to persuade me, all is clear.
I had 2 kinds of recurring dreams before while i was targeted by an organized group or Narcissists.
1. I was playing chess with a demon, and i won the chess match, but the demon flushed me down the toilet. I was struggling to get out, and vowed to clobber the demon when i get out of the continuously flushing toilet.
2. I wake up sweating after dreaming of spiders, thousands of spiders in their webs that have taken over my room and outside the house too. This was the kind of dream that i was already awake but i can still see the spiders slightly moving in their webs, as if it was the real thing. I can't move my body though, and my seeing the spiders lasts for like 5 to 10 minutes after i've opened my eyes.
I’ve journaled my dreams for many years ,,, I think looking back thru the journal,, these were guidance from God.
I constantly searched for the meaning of dreams. Constantly. But I do not want to go against Gods will. So I just ask Him to reveal to me. My dreams are in great detail.
Before leaving I dreamed I was trying to run away from something but my legs always felt like lead weights, I couldn't lift them, I'd fall and try to drag myself along. I could never get away. Since leaving my narc husband, I've had lots of terrible dreams, dreams of being killed by him in various ways, dreams of being naked somewhere and trying to cover myself, and lots of other terrifying exhausting dreams that I can't quite remember but from which I wake up exhausted and sometimes sweating, usually I'm the early hours of morning just before I'm supposed to get up.
This has gone on for 9 months. I'm doing a lot of work and the dreams are finally starting to subside.
After taking in Danish Bashir's video information about narcissists I realize my now deceased husband was a covert narcissist. This dream info resonates. I had recurring terrifying dreams of scary cartoonish figures throwing things at me and I would try to scream for help without finding my voice. Finally I would waken and be able to shout, to which he would convey irritation, didbelief, and detachment- no comfort. I rarely had a good night's sleep in our marriage, I thought due to chronic body pain and his sleep anea. Finally I was so desperate to sleep that I asked him to sleep in the spare room until he got help for the apnea. We hadn't been intimate for a long time anyway which I thought was my fault of course. He wouldn't get sleep help and played the sad victim telling his friends how I wouldn't sleep with him. Well Danish, those dreams stopped and I got better sleep although the chronic pain interrupts, but not as much. My experience validates what you've been saying in this video about dreams. Now I am looking forward to your video on breaking the trauma bond. Before ending, I do believe Divine Mother sent those dreams to warn me, but I was blinded by my husband's love bombing.
omg yall - its my daughter........the worst dream I had was we had a car wreck into a lake, and I couldn't find her, my husband woke me up because I was screaming for her and crying in my sleep. I kept telling him we have to find her!
Dreams of running like a mad man somewhere is a sigh in dreams of sabotage. Trying to wake up and seeing the room but unable to wake up is a sign on danger in your environment. The dreams that heal you and you wake up more vibrant can also trigger the narcisstic people to attack. Keep having a dream❤💐💜💫🙏🏾🧿🪬
It's amazing what you said🙏 I dealed with it all, the horrifying dreams. I my case, because he had lovers on a side, literally they both hunted me at night in my dreams. I was discharged just before last Christmas (after 25 years),was introduced to the new supply in my dream😱 . After few months my dreams stoped and I am not afraid to fall asleep.
a black wolf was chasing me in one partnership. It was over after the break up. If I started to pray to the divine and the archangels because i was in a not so good life situation they showed me in the dreams the plans from my ex very detailed that saved my life for sure. The falling dream i know from my family home. . .I learned a lot to this point. I'm very grateful for everthing. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏❤️
I had a snarling black werewolf! It was in the house and I had to get away. Also a dream where he became someone else with habits he didn't have, like smoking. I would cry and say, 'no, this isn't you,' but it was.
I have had all these dreams. Even after I got away for years after I got away. I don't know how but God reveal to be one day I could just say noto these dreams because I wasn't there anymore. I would wake myself up and say go away. Finally they all went away. It took a lot of concentration and time but it finally worked.
a head that attacks...trying to get to a robber, and have to drag myself to see my car being stolen...trying to yell, can't...only when i am under the same roof as the narc.
One of the last days when I finally took the decision to leave the narcissist, I dream that something very dark was taken out of my chest !!! I understood everything then
After leaving my narcissistic husband I encountered a narcissistic colleague who was 13 years older than me controlling me. I was ok with him controlling me as I thought poor chap let him survive too. Till I started to go breathless in the nighttime stuck between concrete slabs unable to breathe or exit. I thought I was in denial about losing my mind. I couldn’t tell the root of that dream where I was going breathless. Ty for this video