EPISODE 27: LIGHT IN THE DARKNESS with Mayratouchofglam
Vložit
- čas přidán 27. 05. 2024
- On this episode of Overcomfort podcast, I sit down with my friend my Mayra Garcia and give a huge life update. After going through preterm labor, the loss of her son, having a new baby she tells us how she finds the light in the darkness and her new journey of motherhood.
LETS CONNECT:
Instagram: / jenicka_lopez
Twitter: / jenicka_lopez
Facebook: / jenickalopezofficial
#JenickaLopez #NewVideo
I’ve been a huge fan of Mayra for years now and seeing the sad experience she went through really broke my heart for her and Bryan. It makes me genuinely happy to see her glowing with happiness. I loved this episode! She is such a humble queen
Yikes. A little sloppy, sorry to say. Jenika I feel you owe Mayra a public apology. There's a time and place for everything. This could've been a really special episode and unfortunately your lack of professionalism overshadowed the candid and sensitive subject.
I Gotta Say I Admire Myra Because She Sat There Remained Professional I Would Have Walked Out , Jenicka Drunk And Smiling Through Such A Sensitive Topic Is Crazy!
You can tell she was feeling a little tipsy but I agree with you as well it was a little unprofessional of her to start the podcast already a little tipsy
I was so excited for this episode, I am a huge supporter of both Mayra and Karina but I feel like Jenicka was not prepared for this episode. I agree with another person who commented that this should have been a sober episode, there were times where Jenicka would ask questions that were already answered and other times where she referred to her as karina. I know she has stated that she gets nervous and she tries her hardest but when she doesn't have a clear outline, it comes off as uninterested, a simple google search would have let Jenicka know that Chins and Giggles was still active.
I agree that question threw me off about the podcast. This could’ve been better, Mayra deserved to express herself more 🥺
Especially since she said they’re good friends.
I don’t like how jenicka was basically drunk during such a sensitive topic like it’s not funny at all I wish she was sober for this podcast because I love Mayra
I love you so much Jenika but when you bring up sensitive topics you should not be smiling and almost laughing. I know we all deal with shyness differently but GURL that is not the correct way to bring up suchhhh a SENSITIVE topic. Because to Mayra that shit wasn’t anything to smile about. I was feeling uncomfortable and Bryancito isn’t even mine. Just be mindful of how sensitive the questions you are asking and maybe not drink prior to a podcast that is going to be talking about someone worst time of their life.
As someone who has lost babies it brings me comfort hearing and relating to other mommas who have angel babies 🤍
Same here! Only us who have been through it understand the pain. 🫶🏻🪽
I’ll never forget the day I saw Mayra’s post about Bryancito. I was 2 month pregnant and showed my husband talking about I could never imagine going through that. Well a month later my 25 weeker also decided to come. I was praying for both Bryancito and my baby girl. Seeing her updates on him gave me comfort, until I stopped seeing them and I just had a feeling something didn’t go well. My daughter is now 2 years old and each time I listen to Mayra talk about Bryancito I always start crying reminiscing on those difficult days. Wild thing is we both were pregnant again and I related to everything you were going through with Noah. I also saw a high risk Dr and was terrified for the outcome. But thank God we both made it through to our C-section dates. ❤ just a reminder you may feel alone but you’re never alone when it comes to life experiences.
P.S My husband and I also started dating on June 14,2009
Oh my gosh how crazy is that! Feeling like that can’t happen and then it happens I would of been terrified.
Does your baby have any complication now ? Thank god your baby made it that it so traumatizing 😢
I know it was an out of body experience when I was going through it and my husband and I were just talking about her situation. By the grace of God my daughter had no major complications and you would never think she was born a micro-preemie, only weighing 1 pound. Thank you ❤️ it was very traumatizing.
Enjoyed the podcast but once jenicka started talking with Mayra about her loss and she stopped making eye contact with her & was sorta giggling really threw the whole podcast down the drain! If Jenicka felt uncomfortable, Sad or not emotional ready to talk with Mayra about that her loss SHE SHOULD HAVE TOLD MAYRA!
I remember seeing Mayra’s story and never did you think it will happen to you, years went by and it happened to me my daughter was born January 2nd and passed January 13. My heart is destroyed her first birthday is coming up and it hurts because I don’t know what to do to celebrate her. I miss her so much. Thank you for sharing Mayra ❤️
I have never lost a baby, but my son was also a preemie & had a month long nicu stay, I resonate with mayra in the sense of nicu trauma, hospital trauma, pregnancy trauma. I love how open she is & i dont think she realizes how much she is doing by sharing her story. Mayra, my heart is with you, i follow your journey & i am so proud of how far you've come. We are all so happy to see you thriving with noah & bryancito as your precious guardian angel 💙
I wish Jenicka would make more eye contact. She’s steady looking down at the table and not at the camera or her guests.
Lost my 1st child my Babygirl 21 years ago to SIDS she was 4 months old. I have connected so much with Mayra an prayed for her healing through this heart breaking journey. I remember when bryancito was in the hospital I begged good for his healing. I would never want any momma to experience the pain i experience everyday missing your child for the rest of our lives. This kind of loss can either break you completely our make you stronger then steal. Do we have our weak days yup even me 21 years later. This loss created the kind strong woman who values everyone and everything good or bad in life. God chose us to carry his angels I feel blessed an honored to be my sweet Nadine’s momma for the small moment on earth and for eternity even with her in heaven. I know she’s still by my side. Love you Mayra ❤
So nice to see Mayra happy and healthy. I prayed so much for them…baby Noah is the cutest baby ever!
I feel like this episode could’ve been better if jenicka wasn’t so drunk.🤦♀️ can’t even focus on the episode because im too busy watching her be out of it and slur all her words
I think this should of been a sober interview. For my opinion to much giggles and smiles during such a sensitive topic.
I agree!
Yess, Jenicka was very smiley the whole time.
Definitely. She came off hella rude!
DEFINITELY!!!! Almost insensitive of her knowing dam well what she was going to be talking about
YESSSS
Jenicka is so awkward.. it almost makes it uncomfortable to watch how she can’t keep eye contact with any of her guests.
The triggers after loss with periods is sooo real. I still til this day feel ptsd when I do get my period it’s the worst 😢😢😢 this topic needs to be talked about more because I understand it’s rough to talk about it needs to be discussed!
I love the podcast but I do think this should’ve been a sober podcast.
I hate to say it but doctors are supposed to be blunt . They are literally trained to not get emotionally involved . Imagine how draining it would be for them if they did … if they weren’t blunt they would be giving false hope to parents when they know the for sure outcome would be bad . However they should always tell you everything in person and bring a counselor to you. I’m so glad Mayra and Bryan are thriving with their second baby boy 💕 love to see their videos with baby Noah .
This podcast episode was everything I love Myra and I admire her strength daily love this podcast so much and how jenika makes everyone feel comfy and relax ❤
Definitely do agree with everyone saying this should’ve been a sober episode. There’s a time and a place for shots girl. Also I know she’s close to the twins but her coming on her podcast and saying Karina’s daughter is bad, should’ve been kept to herself. In my opinion
Thank you so much for sharing Mayra. It’s a pain no one ever wants to go through. ❤
This is one of my favorite episodes I've been a big fan of Myra since her makeup tutorials back in 2014/15. I was pregnant around the same time she was when I found she lost her baby I was heartbroken. When I had my baby I couldn't help but to feel bad about having such a beautiful moment with my baby while there was other mother's out there like Myra who lost their babies. I'm so happy to see her full of peace and glowing again❤. I will forever have Bryancito in my heart and prayers 🙏🏼
I LOVE my girl Mayra! Been riding for her since early CZcams and so proud of her. I wish her and her fam nothing but the absolute best ❤
I remember when I lost my baby at 4 months, it was the worst experience ever. I had contractions and I literally had to push my baby out in the toilet then I fainted. I wish I didn't feel lonely but I will forever remember my angel baby.
I am so sorry you went through that. My heart goes out to you ❤
@@vm21037 thank you 🙏🏽🥹
I’m soooo happy for Mayra and Brian ❤
Karina and Mayra have a great personality ❤ smart, Hustler's, talented.
Love this episode and the posdcast.. much love Myra and Jenika 🙏🏽
She’s one of my fav 💘🙌🏼 as well as her sister 🥺🥺
Marya thank you for sharing your story. You’re so strong and a I’m so happy you have your baby boy now. There’s many moms and dads that have lost their babies whether if was early or late in pregnancy or even months after and this will bring them some comfort in knowing that they are not alone and god has a plan. It’s so hard to lose faith and hope when one wants to become a parent and they lose their baby but that’s when the faith must be greater. There is a god and he will put you in the path that you are meant to be in ✨ ❤️
I feel like im going to cry, i love Mayra❤
So excited to watch this episode of the podcast ❤❤❤ i love Mayra!
Love podcasts glad this one came out cause I listened it during my finals
This is such a good podcast episode! You 2 have such beautiful hearts such queens! ❤
Drinking my tea and enjoying this podcast while my kids are asleep ❤
Im so happy Mayra and Brian are doing great
Ugh I love mayra so much❤
omg por fin
Mayra is so strong love this queen love u guys ❤❤❤❤❤😊
Eating my breakfast watching this crying😢 sending so much love mayra❤❤ love the podcast jenicka
I LOVE MAYRA SO MUCH 💖💖💖😭
This was a great episode ❤
I wish you didn’t drink before this podcast her story could’ve been handled better instead of you smiling and laughing calling her her sister name and smiling when asking her questions specially about her angel
I’ve been waiting for this one ❤
I love both of you girls❤ I also had a horrible experience with Kaiser
They are careless and so not compassionate at all it’s so sad
That these are the people that see us in our worse and can’t be kind
I have a 2 year old special needs toddler that was born in Kaiser and when I was my most vulnerable doctors just slam.l you with the worst diagnosis and are so blunt about it
I also changed insurance and I’m so happy . These new doctors are so compassionate and helpful
Love Mayra so much!! 🫶🫶🫶
Love yall so much ❤
finally! this was the guest i was waiting for!
Looove The twins, but specially Mayra! ❤❤❤
Yay you jenicka are my happy time girl I love listening to your soothing voice while I get my mommy time taking a bath relaxed love itt 💕
I love Mayra ! Every time she talks about baby Noah and Bryancito it makes me so emotional I recently had my rainbow baby too back in February and I also gave him the name Noah his name is Ismael Noah and the meaning is God will hear and Rest/response and I feel like it fits him perfectly 😭
I felt so bad for Mayra when she lost her baby 😢 I cried when she announced that she was pregnant ❤ so happy for her and to see her glow through the struggle.
I wish they wouldn't have spoken about MIA and her behavior. So sad. As a mom I would be upset if someone is talking about my child and saying she is so BAD., especially someone who is a friend. We have to be mindful of judging kids and they behavior cause we don't know what is going on in their little head. My son is going thru some mental things that are out of my control which make him react a certain way and if a friend spoke like Jenika about my son I would hate it. I would still be her friend but I would have a different view of her. @chinsandgiggles.
Worst is MIA m8ght see this podcast when she grows up and image her listening that people think she is so bad...makes me upset.
Love Mayra and her sis! I’m a fan of their podcast too ☺️ literal queens haha 😉
def watching this one
Aww i just love her ❤
Omg sorry mama , you had to go through that this made me cry & sad it brought me back to what I when thorough when I was pregnant lucky I found a good doctor and actually care for me and I have my baby girl
I felt this whole Kaiser comment. I felt so belittled by Drs. at Kaiser. The worst labor experience of my life. I genuinely felt that that was one of the factors that contributed to my postpartum depression. I gave birth to my 2nd in PIH Whittier and man night and day difference.
I can relate when she says she has trauma but with her not wanting to go to Keiser. My dad passed away in Feb at the hospital and I feel like he was neglected by the hospital. I live 5 mins from the hospital my dad died at and I cannot drive by the hospital, I get anxiety seeing this hospital or affiliates. It sucks. 😭
i literally cried with mayra when bryancito passed👼🏻 and was so happy for her when she announced her pregnancy with noah🙏🏼🙏🏼 loved how you let her open up a bit and lol the cuts were off going on the breaks. jenicka slow down on them shots😅
😢 the trauma never goes away. So true ,but God is so powerful
Kaiser is literally the worst! My sister had issues with her pregnancy (twins) and they never had her see a high risk doctor and she would tell them what she was experiencing and they would ignore her. We almost lost her because they were ignoring her concerns :(
I love myra!! ❤
I love this queen ✨🤍
Doctors aren’t supposed to be emotional they have to deliver the facts as hard as it may be. If they went around giving everyone hope and working based on emotions people would be upset with them when they don’t deliver. 😢
Coming from a medical background you are right but it still was the wrong way to tell someone . You can’t call someone and say they are dying come we are taught to stand on compassion and empathy above all .
Ofc we say the facts but in a more caring way . Every hospital has a mission statement on what they stand on and they trust the doctors to follow .
That & telling them that kind of news over the phone is very different
She needs to stop drinking, specially since you can tell she cant handle it.
Girl you were buzzed 🤣 but I love it, it’s the first time I listen to your podcast and I liked it ❤
I don’t know if it’s just me but i like sober jenika more .
Sober?
Her being super drunk on this podcast was not it. Especially talking about such a vulnerable subject.
Awww Mayra💟🙏 God Bless
I can already tell this is gonna be such a great podcast 💞🥹
I could smell the alcohol from Jennicka’s breath 😂 be more professional girlie
Love Mayra ❤
I love Mayra❤❤❤❤❤❤
Guys before the podcast I’m pretty sure they held a mature conversation, it’s obvious Jenicka was there for her through the actual unfortunate event. No need to throw shade at Jenicka….
have a blessed night ❤🙌🏽
I wish this episode could’ve been longer 😭
The fact that I’m still awake for this momma 🤗😌
Jenicka asking if they still have chins and giggles tells me she’s not really a friend bc you would know lol.. means you’re not a supporter of their podcast
“I saw you go through child loss first hand” “what was it a miscarriage?”
Love the pod cast and all the guest she has on but for the life of me why doesn’t Jenika make eye contact with them.
Mayra is a QWEEN!!!!! 👸🏻
Omg yay!!!
I’m so distracted by jenicka. She looks buzzed 😂 6:50
Jenicka I love your vibe !!!!
I love your podcast and your videos ily 🫶🏽
Im new to jennikas podcast is she always looking down when she does podcast ?
Saying someone’s child is bad multiple times is not the vibe. Her and Karina might be close but I don’t think it’s ever ok to use the word bad to describe a child. 🥴 especially when you don’t even follow it up w something positive about the child. Maybe just use better wording next time? Love the pod 🫶🏼
I could feel Mayras awkwardness when she brought that up 😩🤣 I love Jenicka but drinks with such topics don’t go
Agree! Like do not talk about how someone else’s child ‘looks’ idc if that’s your friend or not. I would not be ok with that if I was Karina
Everyone talking down on Jenicka is kind of weird . They’ve expressed they’ve been friends for a while now , Mayra literally points her out , from a big group of people who were there for here during the loss of her baby ! Stop trying to figure people out from a screen when they’re giving you all the context!
Dios las bendiga 🙏🏼
Skinny queeeeeeeen ❤❤❤❤
My son's name is Mateo David. Mateo means 'gift of god' and David means 'beloved' and that's exactly what he is!!
Yes Mayra omg! To know that how u experience kaiser drs on how blunt and it’s hard to explain but yes I went through the exact same thing with the drs,omg I’m crying right now just hearing that. I sooo hate going to the kaiser it gives me sooo much anxiety. but yes my high risk dr at kaiser was an angel who gave me hope and saved my baby girl.❤
Jenicka relax on making ppl drink idk I could tell mayra didn't wanna take shots she looked uncomfortable ! And also u kept bashing on Mia like you know her she's 2 years old who's cares what she's like what 2 year old is perfect ! 🙄
lol she wanted to, I never make people unless that don’t want to. And I wasn’t bashing on Mia! She’s a beautiful fun baby
Seriously!
@@JenickaLopezwere you drunk replying to this too 😭
Even Mayra looked so uncomfortable in this podcast. And with Jenika smirking and drunk so unprofessional. You should of been sober doing this interview. Yes you say you were nervous but you don’t go to an interview drunk honey. Wtf
I saw this post cast 3 months ago and now I am in the same situation 😢 I am feel like a Zombie right now GOD PLEASE !! 😭😭😭
You both are so beautiful 😍
All of you are reaching.. “sober podcast” she wasn’t the only one taking the shot. You guys find it rude but only Myra and Jenicka know the mutual feeling.
Aww Jenicka looks so much like her momma 🥲🥹❤
❤❤❤
Hi Jenicka Lopez you tube channel Love my favorite one fan Big Feliz Natal 🎄 ❄️ ☃️ Happy New year 2024🎉