Trevor Noah ON: For People Who FEEL LOST In Life, WATCH THIS To Find Yourself | Jay Shetty

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  • čas přidán 24. 04. 2024
  • Today, I am talking to Trevor Noah. Trevor is the most successful comedian in Africa and is the host of the Emmy and Peabody Award-winning “The Daily Show” on Comedy Central. Under Trevor, “The Daily Show with Trevor Noah” has broken free from the restraints of a 30-minute linear show, producing engaging social content, award-winning digital series, podcasts and more for its global audience. He has written, produced, and starred in 11 comedy specials, including his most recent, “Trevor Noah: Son of Patricia,” which launched in November 2018 on Netflix. He is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller “Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood” and its young readers adaptation “It’s Trevor Noah: Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood,” which also debuted as a New York Times bestseller.
    Trevor opens the conversation by sharing what it was like growing up, how he sees the rest of the world, and why it felt like it was okay growing up the way he did. We then exchange thoughts and perspectives on topics such as finding the true meaning of having a ‘home’, the type of friends we often surround ourselves with and why, finding independence in a completely new and foreign place, and being mindful of yourself and in one with your inner thoughts.
    What We Discuss:
    00:00:00 Intro
    00:02:18 Same story, same book but different meaning
    00:05:33 Comparing your hardships to others experiences
    00:09:27 “It was not bad because it happened to everyone.”
    00:13:27 Are you forced to be grateful for everything?
    00:19:13 The true definition of the word home
    00:21:39 What is your purpose?
    00:25:19 Who are your friends?
    00:35:43 Becoming unrelatable to people
    00:44:43 How does a monk fire someone?
    00:46:48 What is your idea of safety?
    00:52:30 When’s the best time to walk away?
    00:56:37 Having conversations with yourself
    01:03:37 When you leave home
    01:09:25 The burden our parents unconsciously give us
    01:17:54 The Many Sides to Us
    01:24:03 Trevor on Final Five

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  • @iheartcandra
    @iheartcandra Před rokem +3016

    I like to say “I’m not grateful for my suffering but I found meaning in it. And that meaning is what I’m grateful for “

  • @Rin-jo2se
    @Rin-jo2se Před rokem +642

    I am yet to come across a person in my life where I could have a deep heart to heart conversation like this..people like them are so rare.

    • @stacielivinthedream8510
      @stacielivinthedream8510 Před rokem +11

      Wow, you should look for groups maybe on meet-up app. They're are lots of groups that you could join. There are hiking, spiritual, etc. Also there are addiction groups of all kinds to join. We need others who we feel comfortable with to share with.

    • @sassycat6487
      @sassycat6487 Před rokem +14

      I work in retail so I meet a lot of people and I've had a lot of deep conversations with people like this! If you are a people person and want to connect with others working in customer service can be very rewarding.

    • @minah19845
      @minah19845 Před rokem +2

      @@stacielivinthedream8510 me too, am looking for deep people

    • @thesingerintheshower
      @thesingerintheshower Před rokem +6

      Exactly. This is the reason that I love Trevor Noah. It's also the reason that I love my best friend 💕. She is one of two people, next to my sister, with whom I can have conversations like this one.

    • @madeline467
      @madeline467 Před rokem +8

      ❤ wow! I love Trevor Noah even more now! Not only is he gorgeous and funny he’s also extremely wise! Very inspirational.

  • @j.r.bergstrom6230
    @j.r.bergstrom6230 Před 9 měsíci +429

    I'm nearly 70 years old. I just discovered these podcasts. It's work like this that gives me hope for the future. There are so many wonderful younger people, like you, doing amazing work. Thank you.

    • @BeatheSommer
      @BeatheSommer Před 5 měsíci +7

      I am 35 years old and I feel the same way!

    • @didid7880
      @didid7880 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I never realized that Trevor was such a cerebral person. This was a great interview!

    • @DonovanAlexander-lj3gu
      @DonovanAlexander-lj3gu Před 3 měsíci +1

      You too

    • @182sanroque
      @182sanroque Před 2 měsíci

      I know Trevor is smart but boy this conversation gave me a new meaning of life and what's is all about (well almost) thank you both Jay and Trevor.

  • @therealsWa
    @therealsWa Před 7 měsíci +23

    Trevor Noah is a true Son of Africa. The depth of mindfulness. The spirituality. The empathy. The kindness. The humor. I miss my brothers and sisters of Africa.

  • @Meowx96
    @Meowx96 Před rokem +3177

    "The only thing scarier than accepting who we are is accepting that we don't know who we will be when we let go of the things that have made us who we are today."

    • @eye-ris8898
      @eye-ris8898 Před rokem +41

      Powerful

    • @calinapopa6690
      @calinapopa6690 Před rokem +26

      This right here

    • @shawnlivers2757
      @shawnlivers2757 Před rokem +26

      Profound statement, thank you.

    • @suzettewillams7487
      @suzettewillams7487 Před rokem +14

      This right here is powerful

    • @lmansur1000
      @lmansur1000 Před rokem

      They talk about dying before dying - that is a total letting go and living life in liberation right here. We cannot control it, we just have to gently let go until the "Berlin" wall crumbles and then, I suspect, it will be a new experience of being.

  • @fomorekontent83
    @fomorekontent83 Před rokem +2285

    Trevor Noah is such a phenomenal human being. Not only is he a comedian but also a teacher and inspiration

    • @Amish07
      @Amish07 Před rokem +6

      only that he became too woke

    • @brendakmorales
      @brendakmorales Před rokem +66

      @@Amish07 Seriously?! You know his background, right? His parents were not even allowed to live together in South Africa. He titled his memoir Born a Crime because of that. If anyone has the right to be "woke", it's Trevor Noah.

    • @Jojos329
      @Jojos329 Před rokem +30

      @@Amish07 you are too misinformed

    • @jkovert
      @jkovert Před rokem

      @@brendakmorales He's repugnant.

    • @elsaelsa2213
      @elsaelsa2213 Před rokem +20

      Yesss and he is cute too

  • @jimpayne9545
    @jimpayne9545 Před 8 měsíci +15

    21:12 -- "My definition of home has always been where I feel I am living my purpose."
    🤔💯

  • @lucasnkgabane7679
    @lucasnkgabane7679 Před 11 měsíci +155

    Trevor is one smart guy, we need to hear him talk some more. The world needs this kind of content from him

  • @nnooan
    @nnooan Před rokem +739

    This is the magic that happens when two insightful, enlightened people converse! That there was a free counselling session for us listeners🙏🏼

  • @siyolisemakaka6013
    @siyolisemakaka6013 Před rokem +726

    This is not an ordinary interview, it's a conversation between two intelligent men that are open to learn from each other.. This is Phenomenal ❣️.... Mad respect for you guys💟

  • @dwijenshah8193
    @dwijenshah8193 Před 6 měsíci +68

    I loved what jay said about, “ The only place higher than heaven/spiritual world is the one where you living your purpose.”

    • @ngalahansel6066
      @ngalahansel6066 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I would rather say it's a place closer to,but not higher than heaven😊

    • @ilsagita5257
      @ilsagita5257 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@ngalahansel6066there is no heaven life to the fullest here

  • @holly_kalonji
    @holly_kalonji Před 11 měsíci +210

    This is, by far, one of the BEST "brain-picking", thought-provoking & eye-opening interviews I've ever watched! Trevor's way of thinking is utterly mind-blowing & completely OUT OF THIS WORLD!👏🏾❤️

  • @PriyaTilkar
    @PriyaTilkar Před rokem +596

    I love how clearly he is able to think and explain his thoughts ❤️
    Sometimes I really can't find words to explain what I am thinking.

  • @spiracrosslifecare
    @spiracrosslifecare Před rokem +441

    I have watched many interviews but this one is on a different level all together...... Trevor and Jay are pure gems, how vulnerable you guys are on this episode is just phenomenal and will definitely help millions of people!!!!

    • @roumelio
      @roumelio Před rokem +8

      I feel like this is something every other person who is watching the Joe Rogan podcast, and Jordan Peterson should actually watch instead. They're talking about vulnerability and healing in a healthy way, rather than a destructive way.

    • @silviahoffmann158
      @silviahoffmann158 Před rokem

      ❤❤

    • @ajdarc880
      @ajdarc880 Před rokem

      @Enrich Media Kenya, hata mimi loved loved them

  • @jasminekyoko7179
    @jasminekyoko7179 Před 11 měsíci +7

    That comfort in chaos phenomenon Trevor talks about hit deeply for me...

  • @keriannmeyers1171
    @keriannmeyers1171 Před 11 měsíci +368

    I have 4 sons. I'll consider myself a successful mother if they turn out with Trevor Noah's character traits. I want them to have his empathy, compassion, understanding, wisdom, and ability to see humor in life.

    • @stinareed270
      @stinareed270 Před 10 měsíci +13

      We need more nurturing mothers for our sons. That's a great intention for your boys.

    • @MV-xu8xv
      @MV-xu8xv Před 9 měsíci +1

      wonderful words.

    • @SowingSeedsWithChristy
      @SowingSeedsWithChristy Před 8 měsíci +7

      Yes, it's our greatest wish as mothers, along with being able to create something valuable out of adversity. May your wish come true for all your sons. ❤❤❤❤

    • @linawiers4715
      @linawiers4715 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Smile! I understand!
      However, what Trevor has accomplished, came with a price.
      I grew up in the south, but in a different era than my mom and dad and I still will not want to go thru the challenges of growing up to accomplish his success.
      We as people sometimes want what someone else has, but if we knew their trials and sacrifices made to get it, we’ll say, “Oh no, forget it. I don’t want it!”
      If U are a believer in Christ Jesus, pray and ask God to give all 4 of your sons those characteristics traits; and to give to U as well, if U don’t have them; but a couple of those requests are taught and learned behaviors.
      If U haven’t purchased his book, “Born a Crime” please do.
      Best wishes to U and your sons! ⭕️

    • @SowingSeedsWithChristy
      @SowingSeedsWithChristy Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@linawiers4715 Wise. We have to be careful what we ask for. We just might get it and in ways we didn't want. I know something of that. The hand of God is mighty.
      I will add that we do have to remember as parents to allow our children their own challenges and hurdles to overcome, whatever they may be. We mustn't think loving them means giving them everything we didn't get or sparing them hardships of various kinds. Just be there as a guide or to help them recover, hopefully, better for the lesson. And for those reading along, I'm not talking about standing back and letting extreme things happen to our children, lest anyone go there. We are, of course, to protect our children as best as we can and when necessary, but only when appropriate to the age and developmental ability of each child. Then the question comes, "How do we do this?" Perhaps like you, I learned the discernment needed for this kind of parenting by studying and practicing biblical principles.🙌🏽 I made no important decisions that impacted my son's life without prayer and consulting the Holy Spirit.
      Thank you for your inspiring comment. 🙏💞
      Best!

  • @halaali1721
    @halaali1721 Před rokem +294

    This was definitely 2 way interview for two whom I really admire 👌it felt two friends meeting each other

    • @evstyle
      @evstyle Před rokem +5

      I agree. I thought the same thing. They are a great duo together.

    • @sparliah
      @sparliah Před rokem +5

      I agree, it was a wonderful conversation and very inspiring. Thank you for sharing this conversation with us Jay

    • @handlum
      @handlum Před rokem

      Exactly right? I feel like they must become friends if they're not already.

  • @tomasandersongallagher5753
    @tomasandersongallagher5753 Před rokem +311

    This aging Vietnam Vet feels grateful that somehow I found this discussion with Trevor & Jay. It made me look deeper into myself, the good, bad and ugly and how I can become a better human being. A very challenging time over the last several years that has tested all of us. Feel more than ever that kindness, love, truly listening to others can break down the walls between completely diverse people on this small planet of ours.

  • @taariqkhanoflegend4622
    @taariqkhanoflegend4622 Před 11 měsíci +33

    I still remember when Trevor was a small time presenter on some South African kids program. His climb has been something out of the heavens.

  • @stinger_chronicles
    @stinger_chronicles Před 5 měsíci +16

    When your two mentors seat at the same table, Its Amazing.

  • @aaroncmumba8568
    @aaroncmumba8568 Před rokem +181

    Man! I love trevor's mind. The guy is a genius. I love how articulate he is. This is one of the best interviews I've ever seen.

  • @sukuloluhlen
    @sukuloluhlen Před rokem +183

    Two lessons I’ve learnt from this episode:
    1) I need to reevaluate my safety net and determine whether certain parts of myself that I’m holding onto are actually holding me back.
    2) In order to learn and understand others, it is necessary to let go of self.
    One word for this episode - wow.

  • @deniseyang9723
    @deniseyang9723 Před měsícem +4

    What’s so special about this is you can tell they’re not trying to impress each other, they’re just sharing thoughts. This kind of interaction is so soothing yet so rare now

  • @damionbiddy673
    @damionbiddy673 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Forgot for a second going into this video that Trevor is also an interviewer, and was reminded about halfway through 😂 I could listen to these two talk for hours

  • @hebelu959
    @hebelu959 Před rokem +72

    Trevor has such thoughtful perspectives, love that guy.

  • @Kamulah
    @Kamulah Před rokem +406

    There's just something about listening to Trevor. I could do it all day. And the way they bounce energies and ideas off of each other is so refreshing. I love this!

    • @LauraMorland
      @LauraMorland Před 7 měsíci +6

      I totally agree. I could do it all day, too. (Unfortunately I have a life that interferes... ;-)

  • @MrCrumbie
    @MrCrumbie Před 11 měsíci +25

    I did not want this conversation to end. Thank you for this.

  • @TheRunpoker
    @TheRunpoker Před 2 měsíci +8

    When i first Trevor’s standup I immediately knew that her is one of the wisest and brightest people alive. Now I understand that he is as insightful as he is brilliant❤

  • @LucyDiamond31
    @LucyDiamond31 Před rokem +184

    I like "Your friends in life are your horcruxes. We break ourselves into parts. Whenever we meet people, we give them a part of ourselves."

    • @susanbyron6499
      @susanbyron6499 Před rokem +6

      Had to look up the HP word "horcruxes" and was quite surprised what it all includes...

    • @methu6
      @methu6 Před rokem +3

      Felt this

    • @bilqiswilliams
      @bilqiswilliams Před rokem +5

      My favorite part of the conversation, it literally summarizes this whole conversation and reiterates that he is truly mercurial

    • @jnioursunshine836
      @jnioursunshine836 Před rokem +1

      My favorite 💝

    • @benmavinn1666
      @benmavinn1666 Před 8 měsíci +2

      What I realised is that as we evolve through time, we tend not to resonate with some parts we left in the hands of our friends.
      They know as differently as we know ourselves now.

  • @naturallyfit4443
    @naturallyfit4443 Před rokem +121

    What a blessing it is to be witnessing this conversation!!

  • @sifisomabuza
    @sifisomabuza Před 10 měsíci +46

    This is one the Best if not thee best talk show or podcast I've ever Watched, so chilled and profound conversation... Salute Jay Shetty + Trevor Noah 🔥👌💯

  • @masseradumas
    @masseradumas Před 10 měsíci +34

    It’s amazing, I can listen to Trevor Noah and Jay Shetty speak for hours. It’s the eloquence of their dialogues, the clarity of their answers that allows even for someone with different experience to find logic in their thoughts process. I found a bit of myself that can relate, through this podcast.

    • @clarelouise42
      @clarelouise42 Před 2 měsíci

      Do you know if more conversations between these two? If so please share, I would love to hear them.

  • @teresiasyowai5156
    @teresiasyowai5156 Před rokem +232

    The mutual respect and admiration from both Jay and Trevor is amazing

    • @ingebrauer2674
      @ingebrauer2674 Před rokem +9

      What a feast for the mind, as well as the eyes

    • @kcp44
      @kcp44 Před 8 měsíci

      I agree

  • @curiousgirl.4134
    @curiousgirl.4134 Před rokem +26

    I love that both Trevor and Jay were interviewing each other. The back and forth should be a lesson on how to seek understanding of others. 🤗

  • @amberts180
    @amberts180 Před rokem +14

    Their conversation had so many levels. We miss seeing you everyday, Trevor. Jay is more intellectual than I thought. It was an opportunity to see Trevor and Jay differently.

    • @amberts180
      @amberts180 Před rokem +1

      Jay, I have so much more respect for you. It’s good to see how people move in discomfort and get a better idea of who they really are and what they’re really about. I’m glad you posted this interview. 10/10 you shined.

  • @moniquemichelle7295
    @moniquemichelle7295 Před 11 měsíci +8

    The safer belt keeping you safe but tapping you when it’s no longer needed is a perfect explanation of trauma. Just beautiful. Great conversation.

  • @maymunahsydow6276
    @maymunahsydow6276 Před rokem +140

    He is from South Africa and we are so so proud of him! What a journey! In so many ways we are blessed!

    • @vasmoodley7634
      @vasmoodley7634 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Two brilliant men.lv them to bits🙏🙏🙏

  • @Khoigeek
    @Khoigeek Před rokem +42

    "Friendship is a choice"- we forget that so often. Thank you for sharing Gents. Reflecting right now on so many things. 😍

  • @mutintamwiya4881
    @mutintamwiya4881 Před 9 měsíci +78

    What I appreciate the most about the fruit of this conversation is how at the end of it, you’re fueled with a deep desire to look into yourself and not to necessarily lean onto one’s view or outline of life and that’s super dope… we aren’t being influenced to see life a certain way, we’re being influenced to sit with ourselves and reconcile our experiences and journeys and challenged to grow ❤️

    • @pamelaconstantine170
      @pamelaconstantine170 Před 4 měsíci +3

      So well said! You summed up exactly how I am feeling.

    • @LumkaJwara
      @LumkaJwara Před 3 měsíci

      Love this ❤

    • @leilagoncalves2185
      @leilagoncalves2185 Před měsícem

      ❤❤❤ amazing ! I just found Jay ! This combination is amazing ! Out of this world !

  • @AChorister
    @AChorister Před 2 měsíci +1

    I totally understand Trevor's ability to handle chaos better than calm.

  • @claptongirl536
    @claptongirl536 Před rokem +230

    Trevor is self-aware, insightful, mindful, and empathic. To move and grow in life, it's essential that you let go of some things, but it is scary; especially when it is something familiar. Learning how to ask thoughtful questions can result in conversations that go beneath the surface that can promote enlightenment (for the person asking and the person answering the question). Great interview!

  • @VivashaGovinden
    @VivashaGovinden Před rokem +388

    Ive only seen Trevor doing comedy but today I resonate at another level. Especially as a someone who suffered from child trauma. Loved the fact that we do not need to be grateful for what happened but for the resilience. Thank you Trevor.

  • @Emma-7777
    @Emma-7777 Před rokem +18

    Trevor is phenomenal I love the way he process the world & his reflectiveness, wow.

  • @cedricjones7470
    @cedricjones7470 Před 8 dny +1

    This truly humbled my soul to share this conversation with the two of you.

  • @brendadossantos701
    @brendadossantos701 Před rokem +90

    I didn't know I could love this guy any more than I already did. What an amazing human.

  • @juliemidgley5287
    @juliemidgley5287 Před rokem +263

    This is by far, one of the greatest prodcasts that you have done Jay. Trevor, just WOW. An inspiration beyond words. I am absolutely blown away, by the depth of this conversation. Love each and every minute, shared between you both.
    FERTALISER....what a beautiful purpose.

  • @benlake5903
    @benlake5903 Před 9 měsíci +15

    The audio book of Born a Crime is amazing because Trevor reads it so it’s like he is talking to you telling his story

    • @AviMarie21
      @AviMarie21 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Yes I listen to it twice

    • @maameaba4701
      @maameaba4701 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Now, I'm looking forward to listening to it!

  • @evamariealvarezdeltoro4962
    @evamariealvarezdeltoro4962 Před 9 měsíci +83

    When Jay expressed his purpose in life, I felt it. I receive from his interviews exactly what he described on this interview and I never had an idea that it was his purpose. All of those perspectives help me amplify my view of things and even shape them for better. Jay is phenomenal and this interview is great because both of them have such beautiful and optimistic views of life that I love to soak it all in.❤️❤️

    • @mutintamwiya4881
      @mutintamwiya4881 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Yes and he’s super intentional about it, it’s inspiring

  • @lynewandia8453
    @lynewandia8453 Před rokem +92

    That was great..
    I learned that.
    I don't always have to glorify or be grateful of the pain but acknowledge the resilience that I got from it.
    2. Never assume
    3. Like a seatbelt it's the most important thing when it comes to your safety on the road or air but when it becomes dysfunctional you can get stuck.(apply it in your life)
    This conversation was so profound. I love ❤️ Trevor Noah. Learnt alot for sure

  • @rosh3478
    @rosh3478 Před rokem +21

    The humility is striking, from both Jay and Trevor. That makes this a profound conversation. Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @TerriTie
    @TerriTie Před dnem +1

    Comparing different heights with different brain types was a wonderful way to explain his view very wisely ❤️ 🧠

  • @Iam_only_human
    @Iam_only_human Před 6 měsíci +7

    As an African, I always relate to his stories, and feel attached. We have the same mindset and view of the world. I've always appreciated this man.

  • @ROCK_Music_Fan_BG
    @ROCK_Music_Fan_BG Před rokem +202

    These two are the real deal. Congrats on this amazing interview 💛

  • @yuvashreeharidoss7496
    @yuvashreeharidoss7496 Před rokem +140

    I love that this is one of Jay's only two way conversation with a guest. This interview feels like a true collaboration

  • @ann3700
    @ann3700 Před měsícem +1

    Being comfortable in chaos totally relatable to my core...thanks Trevor for bringing this to discussion

  • @maryboros-te8wn
    @maryboros-te8wn Před 11 měsíci +109

    This conversation has helped me to remember who I am at my core. It also re-inspired me, to forgive myself. Thank you both.

  • @lorna197
    @lorna197 Před rokem +85

    What a fantastic interview. I see Trevor as such a gracious, kind, open-hearted man. Jay, I see you as being just as kind and open-hearted. Beautiful to watch two open-hearted men share their souls. What has stuck with me from the podcast is much; however, Trevor shares how he views being grateful, and not being grateful for the traumatic event, but grateful for what was learned and how he grew from the experience. Wow, that is big. The term grateful and gratitude get used out of context often. I so enjoyed this special interview. Thank you.

    • @maryluvsmusic9298
      @maryluvsmusic9298 Před rokem +3

      I agree 💯!! This interview was so powerful that it brought tears to my eyes from such profound, honest, & thought provoking statements & ideas.

    • @carlasamuels479
      @carlasamuels479 Před rokem

      👌

  • @thiagolive3
    @thiagolive3 Před rokem +41

    “I try my best to eliminate GOOD or BAD”, that was powerful

  • @bonniejmattson
    @bonniejmattson Před rokem +34

    Trevor Noah is so talented and in so many ways. I love his contributions in this time. He’s positive, so funny, completely lovable and needed in our day! ❤

  • @walterminja5817
    @walterminja5817 Před rokem +53

    I'm grateful for this conversation for many reasons, partly because I have heard Trevor say " my child"... As an African I can't wait to see Trevor Noah Jr 😍🤠

    • @mapaseka3941
      @mapaseka3941 Před rokem +6

      Lmao me too😂, when I heard that I was like oh he changed his mind now 😅

    • @walterminja5817
      @walterminja5817 Před rokem +2

      Sure!

    • @msbeecee1
      @msbeecee1 Před rokem

      It surprised me to hear that too !

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 Před rokem +17

    Omg I didn't know you were going to have Trevor on.Trevor is always a blessing.No matter what he Talks about, I could listen to him ALL DAY!

  • @juleetarver268
    @juleetarver268 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Trevor, you are an amazing Human. Thank you for your thoughtfulness!

  • @jeannaheflin2846
    @jeannaheflin2846 Před 11 měsíci +112

    It was truly eye opening to hear what "safe" meant to Trevor and to realize that safety and what it means to be safe is so different for each person. I am a teacher, so this was very necessary for me to hear and understand as it will allow me to further reach and teach my students understanding that their primary need (to be safe) means something different to each and every one of them. Thank you for being fertilizer in my life Trevor!

    • @jennieshepherd5845
      @jennieshepherd5845 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I would love to hear what you have to say about integrating that into your classroom. If one child finds safety and therefore an ability to learn in chaos while their classmate finds it in solace, can you ever teach a successful lesson or are you doomed to create 2 of everything for the sake of necessary accomodation?

  • @responsablehlongwane1031
    @responsablehlongwane1031 Před rokem +39

    This interview is so healing . Why am I in tears. Thank you

  • @michellecd4722
    @michellecd4722 Před rokem +14

    Most people can't receive love; so refreshing that Jay understands this. It can be challenging & even lonely being a deep thinker & I believe whenever we deep thinkers all scattered about the globe find another kindred spirit, even if they're on YT, TV, an author of a book, or whatever we'll feel that unspoken connection over the distance & airwaves even if it is in one direction, you know you're not alone. We truly are in a unified field.

  • @muhendaaron
    @muhendaaron Před 18 dny +1

    I love it that Noah is peaking from an honest African mind this is a story for most of us

  • @ed70erjml
    @ed70erjml Před rokem +7

    For me until now the best interview. Love from Portugal

  • @marciahamilton2513
    @marciahamilton2513 Před rokem +104

    It was an eye opener when Trevor said” how lonely comedians get after the show has ended”.
    We hold comedians and other artists in such high regards, that we sometimes don’t think about them as being lonely, ( call me naive if you must). It is so important to have close friends, that understands who you are, and you can totally be yourself with. This was a wonderful interview thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤.

    • @cal2780
      @cal2780 Před rokem +1

      Stephen Fry spoke to this in an interview. The overwhelming emptiness after experiencing overwhelming adoration from an audience, going back alone, to an empty hotel room.

    • @kelliyarbrough1111
      @kelliyarbrough1111 Před rokem +3

      @@cal2780 yeah I've heard a few comedians talk about it. I've always been a really really really big fan of stand up comedy, like to the point that I would rather watch a stand up that I've seen a hundred times than watch anything else 😂😂😂 so of course I love to watch their interviews. Roy Wood Jr actually talked about being lonely after a live show in 2020 when a lot of the celebrities were doing the "ask me anything" highlight on IG? Roy Wood Jr decided he was going to ask the questions and post people's answers on his highlights and one of them was about being lonely after a show. I remember thinking about Robin Williams when I read Roy's highlight...

    • @mimiboucher1182
      @mimiboucher1182 Před rokem

      I never thought about that after the show let down. I just assumed they partied with a bunch of random people. I know alot of comedians have inner pain or a hard life they use humor to cope

  • @MimiMosia19
    @MimiMosia19 Před rokem +105

    I have never felt more relatable to Trevor then I do now.
    This was such a good conversation between you two, opened a lot more avenues that I need to reflect on in my own life.

  • @sarahlieberman2421
    @sarahlieberman2421 Před rokem +4

    Humility is honoring our soul

  • @thaisbrown5018
    @thaisbrown5018 Před měsícem +2

    The thrive in chaos concept is 🤯🤯🤯🤯

  • @rame6652
    @rame6652 Před rokem +293

    I start typing something but then nothing seems to justify how grateful I feel for Trevor and genuine people like him, so I end up with this 💜Thanks for existing! Beautiful conversation, thanks Jay, was really waiting for Trevor to be on your show. There are fans, and there are admirers but for me, Trevor feels like home/familiar. 💜

    • @maryluvsmusic9298
      @maryluvsmusic9298 Před rokem +9

      Well said!! Such a beautiful sentiment for such an inspiring conversation 🙏🏾.

    • @Nordia16
      @Nordia16 Před rokem +4

      Yes! He does feel like home.

    • @lynoresmith7118
      @lynoresmith7118 Před rokem +15

      Mom was a single parent , 5 kids ,now being 67 yrs ,growing up on welfare ,playing street games ,no exams tree ,due each child given a gift ,an a cake on each birthday,an not realized we were undepriveliged ,been grateful for everything. Mom always had music playing even when we had chores.loving home ,spirituality was always on the agender .starting with Sunday school. Pleased to say were all doing ok ,Mom an dad have passed on .I personally I have great memories. xxxx

    • @rame6652
      @rame6652 Před rokem +1

      @@lynoresmith7118 Thank you for sharing your story 🤗💜

    • @lwandomweetwa2908
      @lwandomweetwa2908 Před rokem +1

      Trevor Noah the day walker seems ages ago now ☺️ Very deep and timely conversation here.Keep on

  • @jr33zy57
    @jr33zy57 Před rokem +7

    Trevor Noah is so articulate man. Bro is so aware of himself and seems like such a rational person. I loved this video so much

  • @johnphakathi6369
    @johnphakathi6369 Před 8 měsíci +3

    From this convo, "my vibe attracts my tribe"🤔☯️🙏🏼👍🏽

  • @samyafawz3695
    @samyafawz3695 Před 10 měsíci +14

    I felt JOYFUL listening to these deep thoughts .. thank you 🙏🏼

  • @mariabravo-ruiz1214
    @mariabravo-ruiz1214 Před rokem +12

    I am grateful for genuine people who can publicly admit they are not grateful for their pain and suffering. 🙏🏼 How refreshing!

  • @donnaperry6015
    @donnaperry6015 Před rokem +15

    I would love to hear Trevor talk more about how he manages his ADHD. I'm a therapist who made assumptions about people with that diagnosis. Not good ones. Trevor has changed my perspective. He could help so many to feel better about themselves. I would never have guessed he has that diagnosis.

    • @nissan_skyline
      @nissan_skyline Před rokem

      Me too! Because I have ADHD and its been incredibly challenging. Wish I hadn't been misdiagnosed for years and years whenever I attempted to seek help.

    • @celestialnubian
      @celestialnubian Před rokem +2

      One's success in managing ADHD is greatly influenced by one's emotional maturity and mental development.

  • @paula4086
    @paula4086 Před rokem +49

    I have platonically loved Trevor for years and I'm so happy I will be able to see him perform in June. This is such an amazing interview, thank you Jay! Namaste

  • @ConsultancybyTS
    @ConsultancybyTS Před 2 měsíci +3

    I used to be a fan to Trevor Noah as a comedian, but now I am amazed also by the other side of his personality as a person, this interview is on a very different level, thank you for sharing

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Před rokem +73

    This was such a great conversation about how to be open to our identity changing. I loved how Trevor stressed that we don't have to glorify our trauma but we can use the lessons to teach us and ground us❤.

  • @karenknowles1537
    @karenknowles1537 Před rokem +141

    I was a psychotherapist for 30 years and I can fully relate to being seen in only one dimension. A few times in those years a client wanted to be friends after their therapy ended. They could not handle or relate to 360° of me and likewise I could not connect with the whole of them.
    Where people may want/expect Trevor to be funny all the time, my clients thought I would be wise about everything all the time. Perception of people sets the path for the connection or lack of connection.
    The conversation between the two of you was enlightening and special. Thank you.

    • @halcyonmanchew2079
      @halcyonmanchew2079 Před rokem +8

      Wow , the Level of this intellectual discussion, the ease with which it is delivered and the language and clarity of their minds are beautiful and amazing

    • @dreamingrightnow1174
      @dreamingrightnow1174 Před rokem

      Aside from all that, it would be super narcissistic of you to become "friends" with a client, but it happens.

    • @karenknowles1537
      @karenknowles1537 Před rokem +3

      @@dreamingrightnow1174
      I disagree. I never suggested a friendship and carefully evaluated the client when they asked to be friends and an appropriate amount of time had elapsed after therapy ended.I have ex clients that became my long term friends.

    • @wonderfullymade5191
      @wonderfullymade5191 Před rokem +1

      @@karenknowles1537 How would you handle what Trevor was talking about? Being on stage then nothing - he resorted to chocolate.. do you know what it’s called. I have the same situation.. doing great work in the community-daily-coming home to nothing - overeating. How do we overcome it?

    • @karenknowles1537
      @karenknowles1537 Před rokem +5

      @@wonderfullymade5191
      We tend to fill an emotional void with something. For some people it is drugs, sex, food, work and countless other things. Recognizing the void is the first step, talking about it out loud with others is the next step. The third step is to try something other than our chosen fix. It will most likely feel strange and unsatisfying in the beginning. But stay with and try several things until something clicks a bit. It takes about two weeks to form a new habit. Be patient with your self, the emotional void you feel is painful. 🌷

  • @jakkimassey904
    @jakkimassey904 Před 11 měsíci +12

    Trevor & Jay... What an incredible duo of articulate culture and wisom ❤

  • @sophieakoth5771
    @sophieakoth5771 Před 10 měsíci +3

    It was lovely especially the last part about bank balance.

  • @dossube
    @dossube Před rokem +99

    Man, I can watch these two brilliant minds converse for 10 hours straight. Love the fact you both asking each other questions and honoring the answers. This is fantastic and so therapeutic. Need to do it again very soon. ❤

    • @beatrixczagany7245
      @beatrixczagany7245 Před rokem +5

      I feel the same way.I wish they have 2. Part and 3. Part
      The depth of this conversation was refreshing compered to other people podcast.Thank You Trevor & Jay

    • @kjarchow
      @kjarchow Před rokem +3

      Love your phrasing, "...honoring the answers" Many have mastered the question part and have yet to get to the listening. Bravo.

  • @matselisomosebi1269
    @matselisomosebi1269 Před rokem +35

    Trevor never fails to amaze. He is so gifted.

  • @AHayatGul
    @AHayatGul Před 8 měsíci +6

    This whole podcast with Trevor and Jay was so wholesome, the part where these guys discussed taking up the role of the "Peacemaker" and how your seatbelt can also become your trapping made me tear up at how much it was resonating with me. I also liked how they discussed the mind and that we really need to understand these concepts surrounding our minds more. But some moments like how thoughtful Trevor's answers were at the end had me feeling giddy at the same time. And the explanation of how society is designed for the 'normal' was also very eye-opening. This was phenomenal to watch.

  • @DK-oh5mr
    @DK-oh5mr Před 12 dny +1

    after one year still that feeling of 'how pure'

  • @SamanthaStew
    @SamanthaStew Před rokem +34

    One of the best episodes yet, so grateful for this podcast. If you haven't read Trevor's book "Born a Crime" highly recommend it, especially the audio version. It's like he's sitting there telling you his life's story over coffee.

    • @karenlara3788
      @karenlara3788 Před rokem +3

      Thank you for commenting this, I’ll definitely get it!

    • @Gamelover11
      @Gamelover11 Před rokem +1

      It’s on my list, I absolutely adore Trevor Noah. Will miss his nightly show.

    • @MomoHien
      @MomoHien Před rokem

      So the audio version is Trevor's voice?

    • @SamanthaStew
      @SamanthaStew Před rokem

      @@MomoHien Yes, Trevor narrates

  • @conradmiller5735
    @conradmiller5735 Před rokem +39

    This was one of the most amazing podcasts I've ever watched. I came for jokes and found a sober but open Trevor. Thanks Jay and Trevor.

  • @loislarabamachunga5434
    @loislarabamachunga5434 Před 8 měsíci +8

    You cannot buy the messages, opinions, experiences, intellectuality of the both of them in a book, movie or imagination. So genuine! Thank you gentlemen ❤🎉

  • @jolierenee4763
    @jolierenee4763 Před měsícem

    One of the best Jay Shetty interviews. Seems really genuine from both sides.

  • @angiemosoaboli4622
    @angiemosoaboli4622 Před rokem +68

    This felt more like a conversation than interview. I love it. Thank to both you Trevor and Jay🙇🏻🙇🏻

  • @erinh5191
    @erinh5191 Před rokem +35

    I loved listening to two men around my age connecting, talking, sharing, being introspective, listening, seeking to relate....I don’t see a lot of this in my personal world, and I really value it, it’s healing....to listen and feel...warm hearted, intelligent, humble, compassionate men. Loved this. Many warm wishes.

  • @Kasah_
    @Kasah_ Před 13 dny +1

    most of the other videos of Jay have always felt like an interview but this one is definitely giving conversation vibes ❤

  • @ms.cooper2872
    @ms.cooper2872 Před měsícem +1

    My takeaway is being intentional about "daily healing". Thanks Trevor ❤

  • @tarahrousseau-sakho5154
    @tarahrousseau-sakho5154 Před rokem +146

    I loved that Trevor said he hopes to be fertilizer to enrich the soil. I must say both Trevor and Jay have provoked many thoughts by asking the questions they have and sharing their perspectives on topics. I am grateful for this. I personally took away alot of understanding from this interview about why I myself interact in the world the way I do and how I want to proceed.

    • @maggyhanrahan
      @maggyhanrahan Před rokem +4

      It's so enrishiñg listening to people. Who have something real to talk about.🙏

    • @maggyhanrahan
      @maggyhanrahan Před rokem

      Took it from this interview Jay and Trevor sound people.

  • @juanitabeason1644
    @juanitabeason1644 Před rokem +55

    This was the most insightful and meaningful conversation I’ve heard all year. So glad I stumbled upon it!

  • @lelialarosiliere742
    @lelialarosiliere742 Před rokem +4

    Jay is a genuine person who makes you feel at ease.

  • @olyachernyak
    @olyachernyak Před 7 měsíci +7

    Thank you so much! I'm from Ukraine. The interviews you've been doing are such a beautiful therapy. This one is healing as well. 🙏

  • @saraoblakspeicher
    @saraoblakspeicher Před rokem +9

    What a remarkable and relatable conversation! Former elite athlete & an immigrant here. Trevor and Jay sharing about their journeys of self-discovery, multidimensionality, navigating different cultures, being unrelatable, questioning things, daring to leap into the unknown yet yearning for some stability within the core inner circle. Yes! Thank you!