Finding A Soul Mate: A Blunt Conversation

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  • čas přidán 24. 11. 2011
  • Chayei Sarah: 11/19/08

    Are you having difficulties finding your soulmate? If yes, welcome to the club... What exactly is a soulmate and how do I identify the right one for me? Besides for physical, emotional and intellectual compatibility, what else should I be looking for? What blind spots or other self-defeating behavior may be blocking me from recognizing my bashert? Is there such a thing as a a bashert, and then why is it so difficult to find him or her?
    Join Rabbi Jacobson in this important class as he candidly addresses the critical issue of finding and building healthy relationships. The traps, the pitfalls and the distortions; the yearning, the beauty anf the fulfillment. And above all: Practical things that you can do to change your future for the better.
    - Discover the three signs we learn from Isaac and Rebecca to recognizing a soulmate.
    - Learn the fourth, secret ingredient necessary in identifying a soumate -- beyond physical, emotional and in tellectual compatibility.
    - Come away with fresh ideas and newfound hope in your future of finding a lasting and loving partner in life.
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Komentáře • 62

  • @trevortractor
    @trevortractor Před 6 lety +51

    A soul mate will challenge you. Thats why it will never get boring and can last for an eternity. If you are emotional your soul mate will be logical. If you are materialistic your soulmate will be soulful. Your soulmate will be living in the opposite sphere of reality but in a complementary way. Misunderstandings will occur and in those times you will hate your soulmate. And your soulmate will hurt you more than anyone else. But then you learn to forgive them for their mistakes and you learn to forgive yourself. And forgiveness is what our souls are here to learn. When we learn to forgive deep wounds we heal and our bodies become lighter. This is how we transcend. Our soulmates purpose is to force our souls to grow.

    • @Darkempress45
      @Darkempress45 Před 2 lety

      Very well put, I absolutely love this comment! ✨❤️

    • @joyr7309
      @joyr7309 Před rokem

      💛

    • @lpine4211
      @lpine4211 Před rokem +6

      If this was to be true.... Well.... I could never stand to be hated or hate then forgive. That's pretty strong language. Sounds like a toxic type of relationship this that is written about here. If this is true. I don't want and will probably never find let alone stay with, my so called "soulmate" if like this comment. God, strange how much this described hear is liked yet it sounds so horrible and terrible to my head n heart. Got a feeling soulmates are the opposite. Of this. So much more ease, so much less ugliness.

    • @onuchinathaniel4367
      @onuchinathaniel4367 Před rokem +4

      I dont agree with you totally. May be for some people. Those who are morally deficient may need the opposite to pull them up and out of their shortcomings. To make bold that everyone needs a direct opposite as a soulmate is not true and can never be. Your soulmate brings peace and rest.
      Yes they bring a balance of some sort, not contention in any way. A GOD fearing and peaceful person does not need an opposite to live.
      We may marry not for the looks but character. One may be short and the other tall; one may be beautiful and the other not so good looking; one may be rich or from a rich background and the other poor; one may well read and the other less educated etc. Notice these are of the flesh and worldly. But in terms of character, mind, belief, temperament or simply put our spiritual wellbeing, your soulmate can NEVER be your opposite. It actually feels like a perfect match.

    • @GUCC1197
      @GUCC1197 Před rokem

      I don’t fear god

  • @Melissa-gy9dp
    @Melissa-gy9dp Před 6 lety +72

    As a Muslim woman, I can say that I get the best advice from Jewish Rabbis haha

  • @tonymazz9912
    @tonymazz9912 Před rokem +15

    Being Christian, Sometimes I wished that I was raised Jewish. There seems to be more structure and order in life. A young person learns the value of life at 13 years old, thus becoming more mature and taking on personal goals. Education and career goals are planned vs playing with toys and video games. Also the family is involved in relationships and marriages vs the chaotic ,unstable dating between two people. We tell our parents '' To butt out or mind there business ", while we are to ignorant and blind to see the truth. This mostly leads to unhappiness or divorce. So I respect the Jewish traditions because it stood the tests of time for thousands of years. Blessings 🙏.

    • @stevenflores972
      @stevenflores972 Před rokem

      Many commit sins, not caring and believing their forgiven every time they ask for it. Just repeating Bad behavior over and over and over. What religion comes to mind there ?????

  • @profgoodheart
    @profgoodheart Před rokem +5

    I dreamed I finally found my soul mate, a Jewish man of great kindness and wisdom. I finally found the song in my heart.

  • @freedomera
    @freedomera Před 6 lety +6

    Admiration, respect and gratitude -> I owe it all to Rabbi Jacobson. 😊♥️

  • @ofmeijers
    @ofmeijers Před 4 lety +4

    I'm half way into this video. What a great lesson and how friendly it is shared. Thumbs up.

  • @juliepowell7357
    @juliepowell7357 Před rokem +2

    Love everything you have said so far. You are amazing. Thank you for perspective

  • @janetwebb1507
    @janetwebb1507 Před 2 lety +4

    Very candid & informative info. Thank you. God bless you.

  • @adams2385
    @adams2385 Před 2 lety +2

    Excellent shiur dear Rabbi! Thank you so much!

  • @stevejackson961
    @stevejackson961 Před 9 lety +11

    i learnt something from this guy

  • @kimimasih7005
    @kimimasih7005 Před 2 lety +4

    I like rabbi simon 🤗 such a joy to watch him.

  • @commoveo1
    @commoveo1 Před rokem +1

    Experienced many a times. Most often while driving I could be thinking of things a million miles away and not remember what I had passed last ten miles lol.
    Eleven years ago this video was recorded ha ha. Nothing new under the Sun.
    Thanks for sharing ✌🏼.
    ✨♥️✨

  • @the.3d.eye.the.one.
    @the.3d.eye.the.one. Před 9 měsíci

    Hello everyone professor Rabbi words can't describe how I'm thankful appreciate every second ,please guys walk behind the camera respect to you all

  • @Beesmakelifegoo
    @Beesmakelifegoo Před rokem

    I think that love is a force on its self.
    So I see love as an expression that is imbedded in the soul.
    So to attach to another is an other entity.
    If a couple fine tune to this mutual power they would have found it mutually.
    I personally have not found the link.
    So I think that God’s love is the most lasting.
    I wish happiness to all.
    Thank you for your insight.
    Your love heals,redeems,by connecting to the Torah.
    An educational inspiring beautiful inspired conversion.
    I was born in 1937
    My birthday is June 17th.
    Mother did what she could,but did not want to have her children.
    Nevertheless I was born 2
    and half pounds,saved by the Tropical Sun.
    ❤️

  • @MamaBear0823
    @MamaBear0823 Před 8 lety +7

    he is brilliant

  • @veronicakaese7655
    @veronicakaese7655 Před rokem +1

    Thank you! Rabbi Jacobs...enjoy your depth of discussions very helpful. My problem
    Obvious showing stagnations matted trying very much to reach the city of Jeruselem! The fork is long and in between praying for God's help. And when light appears I move! To divine enroute.! Thank you! Rabbi always look forward to your addresses. Struggling with computers mobile etc. So process when weaknesses is recognized strafegies on interference on ones becomes a withdrawal effect with constant interferences of energies exerted on unnecessary matters. Guess I sm listening daily for clues! Free from unecessary enslavement. After 20years of such inherent exoeriences is now living in faith & constant trust in My Father God's guidance so take my rest and the test of Grea t Faith. My Father God will win! I am here to honour and Glorify My God Lord Jesus Christ for hus greatest passion and Greatest LOVE for his Fathers creation s of humans. SO praying daily with bible reading everything in God's Time..All in God's Holy Hands with His Celestial Mission Band. GREAT HOPE RESIDES! HOLY BLESSINGS TO YOU
    RABBI ! THANKS AHAIN! SHALOM!😇♥️💫🙏🏾🦉🌳🌈🌐🌓🧭🧠💥👑👁🌏🔥🦁💎🗽🎯

  • @cathycombs414
    @cathycombs414 Před 11 lety +6

    Really enjoy this.....I also....agree....seems kind of dis respectful...I hear talking..ect...wonder why?

  • @elizabethszymanska2107
    @elizabethszymanska2107 Před 2 měsíci

    I would like to meet a Jewish man as my soulmate. 😊 I’m Catholic and Jewish from my grandfather side (my mother’s dad, not her mom). My grandma was hiding him during the WW2 and they got married after the war. He would get killed if not her. Story like that. But, that not making me Jewish. But,, I know a lot of nice Jewish people, they are so opened and wise. They really look on life differently. Life is the art.

  • @profgoodheart
    @profgoodheart Před rokem

    When the people throughout your life feel compelled to try to blow out your flame for whatever reason, only Hashemi can keep it burning... Where can we find the follow up on this class?

  • @Smokillo
    @Smokillo Před rokem

    So what are the three principles???

  • @rivkier7214
    @rivkier7214 Před rokem

    My husband changed since we got married but he became more amazing

  • @rivkier7214
    @rivkier7214 Před rokem

    I believe in love for life ❤

  • @GuardianesdelaTierra13
    @GuardianesdelaTierra13 Před 5 lety +1

    🌹

  • @ginacurly
    @ginacurly Před rokem

  • @keithhughes9237
    @keithhughes9237 Před 4 lety +1

    Lite em up

  • @commoveo1
    @commoveo1 Před rokem

    ✨♥️✨

  • @elizabethash4720
    @elizabethash4720 Před rokem

    Bring back the rolodex 😄

  • @Reporterreporter770
    @Reporterreporter770 Před 9 lety

    The soul is the name given to the supposed immaterial part of an individual, which some believe can exist separately from the body in the afterlife. Though the term itself largely comes from Christian traditions, most religions have some concept of a "part" of the person that is separate and distinct from the body. It's considered by those who believe in it to be a self-evident and intrinsic part of humanity (hence why things like philosophical zombies can exist in some peoples' minds). It is an important aspect of much religious belief-particularly when concerning the afterlife.

  • @alanstarkie2001
    @alanstarkie2001 Před 3 lety +1

    You may meet your soulmate god willing, but it doesn't guarantee any success. I'm not a jew unfortunately. Baruch atah adonai, eloheinu melech ha-olam, she-loh asani goy. .

  • @junerm21
    @junerm21 Před 2 lety +3

    The worst thing is a low class husband. Rich or Poor. Totally disgusting for a high class woman. Social education determines class. Cultural barbarism devolves class.

    • @Smokillo
      @Smokillo Před rokem

      what is cultural barbarism?

    • @junerm21
      @junerm21 Před rokem

      @@Smokillo Someone from a Third World Culture who inflicts barbaric culture values and practices on modern people in the West.

  • @cathycombs414
    @cathycombs414 Před 11 lety +6

    Stop disturbing this wonderful man..............I hear talking walking noise even laughing? PLEASE stop

  • @junerm21
    @junerm21 Před 2 lety +4

    Imagine barbaric ethnic religious leaders trying to spread homosexual men as congregants on straight women in their congregation, turning a blind eye to the man's homosexuality. Psychiatrists tell us this happens all the time.

  • @redlipblonde1
    @redlipblonde1 Před 10 lety +1

    whos the dat santa cluse not my soulmate eww