THE HEALING POWER OF QUILTING, I share my Story.......

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
  • Quilting is more than just a creative outlet. It has the power to heal. The repetitive motion of stitching can be meditative, calming the mind and reducing stress. Quilting can also be a form of therapy, providing comfort and solace in difficult times. It is pure and simple love.
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  • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
    @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci +11

    Today I opened my soul and share how quilting has healed my wounds and helps me to continue my quilting journey, share with me how this form of therapy has helped YOU.

  • @veviticushumphrieswallace2546

    Oh Lord, I know that this video is older, but for while I couldn't stop crying. I feel your pain and anguish, and hearing you talk about your lost made me think of my many loses. I'm so thankful for your channel. Thank you for trusting your viewers enough to share what you normally hide. You are healing even if you are not aware of it. This video is the proof. I watch and give the thumbs up with every video I see. I suffer from constant pain, and some days are better than others. I crochet, spin yarn and sew. I'm teaching myself to sew. Eventually I will make a quilt using everything that you have taught. May God continue to bless and keep you and your loved ones, always. Love and healing hugs.

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 4 dny

      @@veviticushumphrieswallace2546 thank you for such an awesome message it maybe an old video but the feelings can be very raw at times still trying I still ask GOD why

  • @nitahooper6137
    @nitahooper6137 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Karen, this is a beautiful quilt. Yes quilting is therapy for your soul. I'm so glade you opened up because it helped you in a difficult place. I pray that each day will get better for you, take one day at a time. Your smile is beautiful , but it's ok if you cry.

  • @annetrenary2875
    @annetrenary2875 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Don't ever apologize for your feelings! This video really hit home this morning, my youngest daughter was killed in 2011 and it still hurts today as if it was yesterday. God's Blessings to you today.

  • @user-rc1bk1ly7x
    @user-rc1bk1ly7x Před 6 měsíci +4

    Before my mother passed away, she and I worked on a cross-stitch quilt pattern. We lived in different states and compared notes constantly. When all the blocks were finished, she sent me the blocks that she had worked on and I made a large quilt for her which stayed on her bed until her passing. My siblings sent the quilt back to me and I decided to take it apart and divide it up into 6 lap sized quilts and gave one to each of my brothers and sister and kept one for myself. Then, we could all have happy memories of our mother as she used the quilt for several years and loved it! It gave me great joy remembering all the good times with my mother while I redesigned the quilt to benefit each of her children.

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci +3

      That’s a beautiful story
      Thank you for sharing it made me smile with love for your family

  • @LucilleOneal-vk7be
    @LucilleOneal-vk7be Před 6 měsíci +5

    That quilt is gorgeous, a good memory of your sister, and the love behind it.

  • @kymdixon8083
    @kymdixon8083 Před 6 měsíci +1

    That's a beautiful quilt Karen, I'm pleased your on a journey for healing x

  • @debbiesiedhoff5285
    @debbiesiedhoff5285 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing. You are a beautiful woman inside and out. Those memories will get you at the most unexpected times.Quilts are healing and peaceful.

  • @helenpeddycord2241
    @helenpeddycord2241 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Yes Karen, God is very good💕 I love the way you cuddled and gently touched your sister’s beautiful quilt.
    In time perhaps, you will be reminded of the many beautiful memories, each time you gaze upon it.
    Quilting and a quilt itself are very therapeutic for all of us. I have one for my young brother who died in a horrible accident yrs ago and one I made for my Dad when he passed. I almost lost my husband last November, and when I was able to leave the hospital, I came home and wrapped myself in his quilt, saturating it with the many tears and gratitude of the wonderful man God blessed me with 52 years ago. It was my comfort along with our family.
    May you continue your journey of healing thru your quilting. It is a beautiful, special time and journey.💕🙏🏻🧵
    Happy! Happy Quilting💕🎉🎉🎉🎉🧵🪡

  • @ksharpe8137
    @ksharpe8137 Před 6 měsíci +2

    You have such a beautiful soul 💞 I’m sorry for your loss. Just hold on to the wonderful memories. When my Mom passed away I made each of us four kids a quilt from her clothing. While making them I laughed, I cried, I mourned and many other emotions but it was very therapeutic. As I sewed I was healing little by little day by day. My siblings didn’t know I was making them and when I presented it to them all three of them cried. They were elated that they had a quilt from the clothing she used to wear. And, they were beautiful if I say sew myself! 💞😂 Happy quilting and I love your videos!!!

  • @annabrown9000
    @annabrown9000 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Love your quilt and your story. Quilting is therapeutic and it’s my passion. ❤

  • @christifranks1116
    @christifranks1116 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I can relate for sure and I appreciate you opening up because it can help others to talk about or even just continue to process how they’re feeling. Last summer I purchased some patriotic fabric on a beach trip to make a quilt for my veteran brother. He died a week after we got home. The fabric is still sitting here waiting for me. I think I’ll make it and give it to his daughter. But I just need it to not feel so heavy first. Soon.
    God is so good! ❤

  • @debmckasson1953
    @debmckasson1953 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I experienced a wildfire in 2018. 95% of our town was destroyed. I call it a miracle but fellow quilters from around the world sent us house blocks. We got to make quilts from them. It helped us get our minds off our troubles. This was Paradise CA.

  • @AuntDi2
    @AuntDi2 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Quilting truly IS therapeutic! It gives you the story with each stitch. I am so sorry that I didn’t know that you lost your sister. I can’t imagine. My heart goes out to you. Much love from Ohio 💞💞💞💞

  • @patcorona5979
    @patcorona5979 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Never apologize for showing emotions especially when it’s about a love one. Listen to your heart and mind, they are letting you know that it’s ok not to be ok. You don’t always have to be strong. We can notice the change of demeanor when holding the beautiful quilt. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you Pat you are right sorry for apologising

    • @patcorona5979
      @patcorona5979 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@CraftyQuiltingDesigns apologies not necessary. Take care.

  • @LucilleOneal-vk7be
    @LucilleOneal-vk7be Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thanks for the love of quilting, and the positive feelings it gives, including the memories, oh the memories. I can tell you love what you do. Keep making these lovely quilts and your teachings, the love shows.

  • @karenbirckhead3101
    @karenbirckhead3101 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wow!! What a masterpiece! May this beautiful quilt bring you much comfort forever!! What a blessing that making this quilt helped with your healing.❣️🙏🏽❣️

  • @janepaquette2110
    @janepaquette2110 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this beautiful video. I've sewn since I was a child and, for me, It's always been meditative, therapeutic and creative. When my children were young and I worked full time, they would always ask permission to come into my sewing room when I was there. I had never said anything about it being private, they just instinctively knew it was my sweet escape. It's such an important part of my life. ❤ I feel privileged to be one of the viewers who could help you heal. ❤

  • @paulettekemper8492
    @paulettekemper8492 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I’m crying with you because I totally understand. I have 1, my very first, made with my grandmother, she made me promise to finish it after her passing. I did, in the wee hours of the morning all alone in my room I cut the last thread of the binding and held it close and just sobbed uncontrollably. It now hangs proudly in my house, as ugly as it is. It has shown me how far I’ve come and the love and memories just fabric and thread holds. The next one was my youngest brother. I finished his birthday quilt 3 months before his untimely death at the age of 36 in Dec of 2018. I made a memory quilt for him on Valentine’s day, 2019, my blocks are horrible, but it is the best quilting I’ve done to date. They were both healing for me as well. Quilting gives me POWER to deal with things that are out of my control. Almost everything I make is improv, as I have trouble with patterns. I’ve started to design my own and have 2 so far. Thank you so much for sharing your story.!

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Paulette this is lovely, thank you for sharing with us. wow you made me tear up 🥲

  • @KM-cu4kd
    @KM-cu4kd Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hi Karen. Thank you for sharing what quilting means to you. God bless you.

  • @mirtaPR
    @mirtaPR Před 6 měsíci +3

    Karen it’s a beautiful quilt. So glad u could talk about your sister 🥰quilting is therapy n Keeps u sane. You will never forget her n always miss her I hope you have a lot of happy memories w her. 🥰🤗I’m glad your going to enjoy that quilt in her memory

  • @stephaniedavid8820
    @stephaniedavid8820 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Quilting is so peaceful for me too.
    It’s good you have take this beautiful quilt to show it us.
    Take care Karen.

  • @conniejoperkins2181
    @conniejoperkins2181 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Sewing is my therapy also I started sewing when I was my mother care taker for her who had dementia and that heald me when she passed and I still quilt to this day it has been a few years now since she has passed.

  • @rwillingham6342
    @rwillingham6342 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. This helps your healing.

  • @vickypetry1049
    @vickypetry1049 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Sending love. I lost my 17 yr old daughter and wish I would have kept her clothes to make a quilt with but gave away for others to enjoy.

  • @glendahyde804
    @glendahyde804 Před 6 měsíci +2

    So sorry about your sister. So happy you are moving forward and sewing is therapy in so many ways . Very beautiful quilt.

  • @myronmitchell1791
    @myronmitchell1791 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Karen I understand...The Quilt is Beautiful and was good therapy for you , Btw I need to get back to my Quilting, BC I need therapy now, I just lost my oldest Brother last week, Brain aneurism, suddenly, it took us all by surprise. The uncertainties of life! We just gotta Hang in there until we see our loved ones again in the near Future.....Sheila 🙏💔💔

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Hi Sheila, this is exactly how my sis died, I'm so sorry for your loss thinking for you.

  • @yvonnerivera7317
    @yvonnerivera7317 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This quilt is beautiful. Sending you hugs my dear lady. ❤ Thanks for sharing. God bless you

  • @TerriHastings-p1u
    @TerriHastings-p1u Před 6 měsíci +4

    Karen, I had started a quilt for my father before he got sick. When he got sick, he had lung cancer. For a long time, every time I touched it, all I could do was cry.
    One day I picked it up cuddled it and I could hear my dad say suck it up, get it done. I finished it that day. I cried all through finishing it. When I took it to get it long armed the lady lrt me do it, as I was coming to the end I asked her to write Daddy in the quilting. I am so glad that I finished it. When I am snuggled up in it, I talk to my dad. I sometimes think I am crazy because I swear I hear my dad talking back to me. So maybe your quilt could be a blessing also just like mine. Thank you for being so real. And also for sharing your story. Stay strong.

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you for sharing your story brought tears to my eyes you have inspired me thank you

  • @beckyvillines1613
    @beckyvillines1613 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much for opening up to us about your sister and your journey. I feel like we are all friends on here even though most of us have never met each other. I will pray for you as you continue to heal from your loss. May the Lord bless you as you have blessed us!

  • @connywelch5192
    @connywelch5192 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Dear Karen, Thank you for these lovely videos and your reply, quilts, love and empathy- it means a lot to me!

  • @tonigould2589
    @tonigould2589 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Quilting is my therapy, too. I call it "stitching the world together". Yes, each of the many quilts I've made holds a story and many memories. Thank you so much for posting your reflection on the healing power of quilting. You have beautifully expressed much that is in my heart.

  • @rondacooper4578
    @rondacooper4578 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you Mrs Karen for sharing your heart may GOD bless you on your journey. We all will get a chance to help someone who is walking down a valley

  • @donnabaker3569
    @donnabaker3569 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Beautiful quilt! ❤ I think this was the right time for you to bring out your quilt. You could see your face light up when you brought it out.

  • @mts764
    @mts764 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I have learned so much from you.I have a brain disease. You have helped with my disability quilting inaccuracies.You don’t need to explain your pain or feelings, they are no one’s business. I love hearing about your life, and quilting journey.

  • @marjoriemahoney6577
    @marjoriemahoney6577 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you for sharing such a beautiful and meaningful message of how quilting has helped you get through the loss of your sister. I also lost my younger sister about 10 years ago and I don’t talk about the grief I felt and sometimes still feel very often. I’ve quilted a little bit since her death, and have just recently made a commitment to myself to make some quilts and other items since it is such a therapeutic hobby. Your quilt is beautiful and I hope you do start using it and allowing it to continue to comfort you.

  • @veraweeks8534
    @veraweeks8534 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Karen, you are so right about quilting being therapeutic. It is for me as well. I make a lot of quilts for donations for various reasons. I try to pray over each one. Thank you for sharing your heart with us.

  • @louisealexander2001
    @louisealexander2001 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Karen I loved the beautiful quilt and talking to us. I’ve just found your channel and I love the quilt as you go . I’m hoping to try it. . Love your channel.

  • @theresamitchell4649
    @theresamitchell4649 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks for sharing this with us May god bless you and continue to make those beautiful quilts. You have taught me a lot love you. God loves you and is healing you.

  • @0161teresagreen
    @0161teresagreen Před 6 měsíci +1

    Lovely quilt,my heart felt your loss and pain,I lost 2 sisters nearly 14yrs ago both had cancer,died 9wks apart,we were very close,some days are better, we are blessed,hv a beautiful day,here in England is grey but dry,cold soon be spring with love Teresa xx

  • @constanceklagge
    @constanceklagge Před 6 měsíci +1

    I feel you. I decided last year to get into quilting after I lost my youngest son unexpectedly in 2022 within days after his 36th birthday. I wish I would have started years ago and would have been able to make him one. I'm going to make a memory quilt from his tshirts once I get comfortable. There's nothing wrong with showing your emotions especially with the loss of a loved one. Healing is a day by day thing. Prayers for peace and healing 🙏.

  • @sandybrenda3226
    @sandybrenda3226 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I am sorry for your loss. I lost 4 older brothers and my youngest sister in less than a year. I was overwhelmed emotionally, I went to visit my daughter to recoup. She ended up with a cancer diagnosis the day I was to fly home. I ended up staying with her 8 months through treatments. She is now 6 yrs. cancer free . I began to make baby quilts as a way to cope with the stress . I ended up getting to donate over 30 quilts to a hospital caring for babies born addicted. My donation was anonymous but I felt joy knowing these precious babies were possibly receiving some comfort from those quilts. Ironically I had my own cancer diagnosis 18 months ago. Sewing is my therapy as I am still recovering from treatments. The quilt is lovely. Wrap yourself in the warmth and the sweet memories.

  • @marcellarodriguez7955
    @marcellarodriguez7955 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Karen thank you for your sharing. My sewing & my crocheting are both therapeutic for me. It’s therapy for me in the loss of my dear Mom that taught me and we enjoyed some time doing it together. It’s my quiet and relaxing time to enjoy and share my art with others through the gifts I give. My mom always enjoyed making homemade gifts too and I smile at the thought that now I’m so similar in that sense. CZcams has been such a blessing for me because it’s people like you that I watch and listen while I sew as if we’re doing it together. I don’t know anyone in person that sews and it’s nice to have this online community of similar people to share what we enjoy and cheer each other up.
    I had bought an embroidery kit to work on when my mom was in the hospital, I cannot get myself to do it also. It’s been four years since she passed, right before Covid and sometimes days are more difficult than others. My mom was 92 and I still wanted more time with her. I try to believe she’s always in my heart and right next to me smiling at me and proud of my sewing work:)
    Please don’t apologize for being emotional, it’s good to be honest and be yourself.
    Thank you for your videos 💐

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Marcell you are amazing thank you for your words they deliver comfort and love thank you

  • @pauletteliddell2923
    @pauletteliddell2923 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Dont feel bad about having emotions. Ive been where you were. When my husband got sick I took care of him until I couldnot anymore. He was a vet ., so I had to take him to the hosital and that's where he passed away. It will be 17 years ago this year. I knew how to sew, but I learned to quilt and it really helped me to get through everthing. It does help heal. Im glad you shared your story.
    Since then I've taken a class made a quilt. Now I've made quite a few and working on one now. Thank you so moch. Hug and love.My prayers are with you. 🙏❤❤ God bless you.

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Wow I have the best subscribers thank you for shari h and the encouragement 😇

  • @sherrigoodlow4608
    @sherrigoodlow4608 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey lady, That quilt is gorgeous. You are so right, Quilting is so therapeutic, I'm dealing with allot myself and sewing instead of baking,Works! Thank you for opening up and sharing your story with the world. Which is also therapeutic.I adore you and your teaching. I have learned and continue to learn allot from you. Thank you Karen😍

  • @karin0963
    @karin0963 Před 6 měsíci +1

    The quilt is beautiful! Thank you for sharing it and your story. I am so sorry about your loss. I have one sister and we are very close. No need to apologize for getting emotional. I didn't start quilting till a few years ago, but it is very therapeutic for me too. It was so good to see you smiling at the end.

  • @wandaforrester9118
    @wandaforrester9118 Před 6 měsíci +2

    What an awesome person you are ❤ thank you for sharing. I wish you only good feelings in your future. I'm glad you are going to use your quilt. You will now smile each time you look at it.

  • @bevcote2357
    @bevcote2357 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Such a beautiful story and quilt. As a retired Navy Vet and three divorces quilting has brought me peace. Thank you for sharing. Blessings.

  • @beckysouk2510
    @beckysouk2510 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You are inspiring me to actually use one of the quilts my mom made - she passed away in 2022. Good for you!! Hugs ❤

  • @audreynanapreps2543
    @audreynanapreps2543 Před 6 měsíci +2

    It’s a beautiful quilt and a heartwarming story. Thank you for sharing! Use it and remember her thru the quilt. I’m 76 and just started sewing and quilting

  • @ThirdStoryThreads
    @ThirdStoryThreads Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. I won't lie, quilting and sewing was not peaceful for me at first, but over time it has turned into a therapy. This video was beautiful.

  • @darlenemitchell4198
    @darlenemitchell4198 Před 6 měsíci

    Oh Karen…you will always have those feelings. Remember grief means you loved deeply and still do. We lost our son in 2009 & not a day goes by that I don’t shed a tear. When he passed I STOPPED sewing & it took a long time to get back to it but when I did it felt good. When I walk into my sewing room it’s my happy place and I feel real joy. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

  • @user-qv5sp2hs1c
    @user-qv5sp2hs1c Před 6 měsíci +1

    I just found your channel this week. I am just beginning to quilt. Your first video that I found, I thought you were so talented. You are creative in piecing your quilts together. I knew I could learn from you. I understand about quilts having memories attached to them. First of all, I am so sorry for your loss of your little sister. I have a quilt that my sister made after our parents both passed away. My mother had made quilts for all 8 of us. My mother had a quilt she had only started on. My oldest brother was ill and my sister asked him if he would like her to finish that quilt for him. She was almost finished, but he died before she could finish and give it to him. My sister brought the quilt to me and said she wanted me to have it, since I was the one who was looking after him. I didn’t use it at first, but now I have it on the quilt rack that he had made. He gave it to me before he died. I put it on my bed and use it. It helps me to remember my mother who was so generous in her quilt making, my brother who was waiting to enjoy it, and my sister who lovingly finished it as a gift . Think of that quilt as a process in dealing with your grief. The quilt is beautiful! You are smiling now as you show it. Good for you wanting to use it now!!! God is good! Think of your sister and smile when you start using that gorgeous quilt! Hugs to you! From Judy

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you, for sharing your experience with us it's amazing the love that's poured into a quilt I pray that all the quilts that you make bring joy to whoever they wrap around.

  • @Gymnastics-tq2zl
    @Gymnastics-tq2zl Před 6 měsíci +1

    Karen that’s a beautiful quilt, although the loss of your youngest sister was so very sad and heartbreaking this quilt made during your time of grief is too nice not to be used and enjoyed in her memory.

  • @rebeccasteichen
    @rebeccasteichen Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing…you’re awesome!

  • @christinefoster3225
    @christinefoster3225 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I totally understand and can relate. I was sewing a project when my father passed away. The project had nothing to do with him, yet for whatever reason I associated it with his passing. You are healing to be able to finish it. 25 years later it remained unfinished and I had to get rid of it. Hang in there. I just love your personality and watching you. Thank you for sharing!

  • @maggiefuller6291
    @maggiefuller6291 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you. Hearing you tell all the things you think and feel about the loss of your sister are the exact things I think and feel about the loss of my sister in 2021. Exactly. And I still cry if I think about her. My cousin gave me some of her clothes to use to make a quilt about her. I am about to get started on it. You have given me the gumption to get started on it. Thank you for all your videos.

  • @sewquilty357
    @sewquilty357 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Quilting is my therapy I lost my Dad 6 yrs ago and oh how I mis him .I think you are a very kind sweet soul and it is ok to so your emotions , I will cry with you and then we will think those blessed memories be have . I started quilting shortly after he passed . Mom gave me some of his jeans and bib overalls two yes ago I made twin quilts for two of my grandsons and they loves them . Now I am getting ready to make memory bears out of Dads bibs and jeans and flannel shirts . Your emotions are from your love for her and sweetie never apologize for your feelings . I am sorry for your loss .Quilting gets me through my bad days . My Mom now lives with me and my husband She is 90 and some days are so so very hard caring for her . But I wouldn’t have it any other way . Hugs to you and I so love your videos and the quilts are beautiful. Sorry this is so long . Guess I needed someone to share with as you did to. Bless you sweet lady ❤

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Never apologise for a long message I loved everything you said thank you for sharing I so appreciated

  • @charoletthoward7312
    @charoletthoward7312 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love your sister's quilt and completely understand your feelings.❤ Be blessed.

  • @vickypetry1049
    @vickypetry1049 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. No you're not being too emotional. I'm sending a big hug and love to you. I needed to hear this today. I just lost .y cousin last week who was like a sister to me. Bless you.

  • @connywelch5192
    @connywelch5192 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Dear Karen Again, P.S. I’m empathizing with your pain and suffering personal trauma, quilting therapy, hiding it. No one knows that l still get mad at myself, the sewing machine, my usually comforting fabric, and it’s all because of that blasted fire their deaths their deaths that WEREN’T SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN! Of course l realize l didn’t cause them to happen. But… l guess l blame myself and for some really crazy reason my sewing machine and fabric and quilting because it all meant/means so much to me. After my son and his family died in our home’s fire l blamed the beautiful large bed quilts l had lovingly so beautifully made for him because they’d been under something heavy under their bed and been protected! A few days after the fire she was digging around, discovered them and tenderly, devotedly, fondly presented them to me. They mean so much to me and I love those quilts because he loved and cherished them and l’d made them especially for him. But at the same time that first year l’d occasionally see them and be upset, mad at them for being here and not my son. Then when my daughter died l didn’t feel the same way about her quilts. Why, l can’t fathom. Now I love and cherish them all and can now use them enjoy the love and comfort of them, even if sometimes a little pain and anger and grief sneak in… A little bit

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Wow Connie ... I just do not have the words, your story shows pain, anxiety love and forgiveness, I pray you heart is ease with it all.

  • @grace-v2d
    @grace-v2d Před 6 měsíci +1

    I understand completely. Blessings.

  • @deliaaguilar6981
    @deliaaguilar6981 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I lost Mama and my oldest sister within 3 weeks of each other. It was a hard time. I learned to quilt while I was taking care of Mama. They passed 3 years ago. This last Christmas made quilts for my 5 other sisters and I used clothing from both of them in these quilts. My sisters loved them Sisters are hard to lose. But you’re right. It was so healing to make these quilts and bring my other sisters joy

  • @sandrariehl7483
    @sandrariehl7483 Před 6 měsíci +1

    What a stunning quilt, absolutely gorgeous..the colors are so beautiful ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @mignonnerogers6848
    @mignonnerogers6848 Před 6 měsíci

    Speaking these feelings and thoughts aloud is so therapeutic also, releases so much that we hold in. The quilt is so beautiful, your smile is too! Enjoy your quilt and the therapy it brings to work through the emotions we need to get through. ♥️. I love the way I can think through things while working on my quilts, and sometimes totally escape a bit.

  • @deborahannreid5655
    @deborahannreid5655 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Loved healing with you. Thank you for sharing. Sewing or quilting is therapy for me also. I was born to sew - necessity. Good tonic for what ails you. So....soothing.

  • @shawnaleewhitney6630
    @shawnaleewhitney6630 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Oh, Karen, what a wonderful video. I remember emailing with you about the healing power of quilting. Its so good to see this video and to hear more about the role quilting has played in your journey through the loss of your sister and more. Powerful. 🧡

  • @sandrariehl7483
    @sandrariehl7483 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is very good that you’re talking about this, you will probably find peace now that you’ve opened up its the best therapy in the world when we can talk about things, I know what that’s like..I lost both of my sons..2.5 years ago part & now my husband is in the hospital with dementia 😢😢😢 and venting is a great therapy Sending love and prayers to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️

  • @janpos9435
    @janpos9435 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I was so touched by your story. I could relate to your emotions as I had those same when my brother passed, he was just 35 and I was 25. As for quilting... I got hooked on quilting in the 90's, I fell in love with it!!! Unfortunately, I got Lyme disease and it real.ly messed up my brain for decades, so I made a quilt here and there, very few. Finally, last fall I got hooked again and it was to be my therapy as I am now stuck in the house (alone most of the time) due to wet macular degeneration. Unfortunately, because of the vision loss I rip out my stitches many times over before I get decent results. I say I make perfectly imperfect quilts. It is very hard on me, but I cannot give up as I can't do much of anything with the vision loss. I need to find a way to accept where I am at calmly and just keep going as long as I can. (I really hate putting all of this out in the public, but wanted to share with you. BTW, Lyme still messes with my brain. ) Happy quilting!

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you for sharing your story it’s lovely to see that even though things are not perfect that you still find a way to quilt quilting brings about a peace in us, remember it does not have to be perfect as long as it’s close enough it will be good enough. The imperfections makes it perfect❤️

  • @user-qz6sn4mz6n
    @user-qz6sn4mz6n Před 6 měsíci

    Beautiful quilt. Thank you for sharing this story, when my mom passed in 2012 I had not done any sewing. But all her sewing stuff was just sitting there…so I started teaching myself to sew and quilt. Love your videos and stories 💕

  • @joannechampagne9863
    @joannechampagne9863 Před 6 měsíci +1

    What a beautiful video you have made. I totally understand your thought process and I have the same feeling about my Mom's wedding ring that was given to me after her funeral. It has been 14 years and I still can't open that little velvet pouch that holds her ring. I suppose I should try. Your quilt is gorgeous and I thank you for your inspirational video.

  • @santagreen7360
    @santagreen7360 Před 6 měsíci +1

    It’s an amazing piece. Your dear Sister in watching over you with love. She guided you during this clip. Please do talk to her as your remember times when you were growing up together, she is near you 😇😇😇😇😇much love, and many huge hugs ❤️❤️❤️

  • @christinegonzales3514
    @christinegonzales3514 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing your heart. Today I ran into a scrap quilt you did. That when I subscribe. Then I saw this video. Now I know why I’m a very new to quilting it helping me both emotionally n spiritually.

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      Thanks for subscribing I’m happy to know that quilting is helping you in those ways

  • @charoletthoward7312
    @charoletthoward7312 Před 6 měsíci +1

    My brother and I were not speaking for 15 years prior. I made a quilt for him that was only half completed and now I'm hanging on to it and won't quilt it. I need that connection.❤

  • @thecajuncrafter
    @thecajuncrafter Před 6 měsíci +1

    The power of talking it's amazing. I believe it alot that quilting and other crafting. Has those powers to have all your feelings go into it. It's like prayer shawls. When crocheters are working on them say prayers to who they give it to. It's amazing what our crafts help us :D ❤

  • @Reikiht56
    @Reikiht56 Před měsícem +1

    So strange I've viewed this before, it suddenly came up again. It's going on 14 mths I've been taking care of mommy. Every morning I come around that corner holding my breath not knowing! Quilting has always been therapeutic for me. I rush nothing. Mommy sewed all her life. She's bed ridden now and lives vicariously through my work now. I was lucky enough to retire (from healthcare) in order to take care of her. 4 generations under one roof ❤😊.

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před měsícem +1

      Sometimes things pop up so we can address them so we could face our fears Thanks for sharing!! i know how you feel. my heart and prayers are with you ❤️

  • @karencladere8997
    @karencladere8997 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing. It is a beautiful quilt and i think i might try to put some of my time into therapeutic quilting. I think some people call it mindless quilting for relaxation. I'm glad you were able to trust your feelings with us and i know i will honor your trust and pray for a renewed appreciation for the many ways God gives us courage. ❤ I hope that makes sense, I'm not good at writing.

  • @charoletthoward7312
    @charoletthoward7312 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Karen, when my Mom passed I stayed up all night until I finished it. A part of my heart was healing with each stitch. Then I lost my brother a year ago.

  • @anacosta5278
    @anacosta5278 Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤love karen. Nini

  • @jeanniemiller9358
    @jeanniemiller9358 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your testimony. I understand I feel the same way.

  • @genafuscaldo1121
    @genafuscaldo1121 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am crying with you, I Lost my sister too.. I feel the same way. ❤❤

  • @janicebadeau
    @janicebadeau Před 6 měsíci +1

    This video is so good - thank you ❤

  • @jindih
    @jindih Před 2 měsíci +1

    I was living in Sydney in 2008 and I had bought cross-stitch to make. I moved back to UK because my mum went into a nursing home with dementia. Anyway, long story short, I have never completed the cross stitch because I am suffering from grief of having left Sydney but mum was very important to me and I am grateful for the time I spent with mum. I can’t go back to Aus because I my visa ran out. So I can’t complete my cross stitch.

  • @dingtonia
    @dingtonia Před 6 měsíci +1

    I agree - get out of your head and into your hands. Your grief isn’t “secret”, it’s “private”. Don’t apologise for your emotion or your need to be private.

  • @gnviev
    @gnviev Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kristisimerly2474
    @kristisimerly2474 Před 4 měsíci +1

  • @phyllismawyer5368
    @phyllismawyer5368 Před měsícem +1

    So sorry for your loss.

  • @ikatmax
    @ikatmax Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love your hair ❤

  • @scottydog6539
    @scottydog6539 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Artistic accomplishment we get from
    Making a quilt.

  • @user-tu6od3oo4k
    @user-tu6od3oo4k Před měsícem +1

    Please don’t apologise for crying. I had a daughter that suffered with Retts syndrome who died two years ago, when she was 46 years old. I went to a grief counsellor, I kept apologising for crying, but she made me realise, just how healing it is to cry. God bless you. ❤

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před měsícem +1

      @@user-tu6od3oo4k thank you for telling me this sometimes I feel horrible to shed a tear and hide it but
      It’s getting better

  • @maureenleclair8773
    @maureenleclair8773 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Karen, I a sending Light and Love to you, It was so nice to just sit and hear you talk. The quilt is beautiful. Was it made for your sister? How long ago did you make it? Please be well. ❤🙏❤

    • @CraftyQuiltingDesigns
      @CraftyQuiltingDesigns  Před 6 měsíci

      i made it 3 years ago and it was made when she died i was in the process of making it

  • @kathykaplan2451
    @kathykaplan2451 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Quilting helps me deal with ugly stuff...and at times it brings back unhappy memories...

  • @MsRitay
    @MsRitay Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hi Karen love your videos glad I found you, in which video is the quilt you did for Karl jelly roll stash buster star burst quilt. You are awesome

  • @andikrob
    @andikrob Před 6 měsíci +2

    Each seam is a prayer or a mantra.

  • @bethknight4342
    @bethknight4342 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I miss my Sis...

  • @kimberlykring2475
    @kimberlykring2475 Před 6 měsíci +1