2nd Frozen Embryo Transfer Results are in | Daily symptoms VLOG after IVF FET

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  • čas přidán 8. 06. 2024
  • After my second frozen embryo transfer, I vlogged regularly to keep records of my day to day symptoms. Can these be implantation / pregnancy symptoms, or were they just progesterone side effects? Unfortunately my first transfer had ended in a chemical pregnancy, and I went into my second FET hopeful that this time it would work...
    In this video, I share my IVF medications to prepare for another medicated transfer cycle, and the reasoning behind my decision not to PGT-A my embryos once again, and my daily thoughts post embryo transfer. In addition, I share my current status at the end of the video.
    00:00 Introduction
    04:21 Prepping body for FET
    08:17 Deciding whether or not to do PGT-A
    11:41 Daily symptoms after transfer
    20:22 My current status
    About me ❤
    My name is Hellynn and live in the US, but I've traveled to Korea (where I'm from) to undergo multiple rounds of IVF. Being 40+ and trying to bring children into the world is hard, but I also have a condition called diminished ovarian reserve, so I've done back-to-back IVF egg retrievals and now have moved onto transfers after banking some embryos.
    Navigating this world of infertility is definitely a challenge - a million new acronyms, hormones and protocols to learn - it's a lot. So I thought I'd just talk about everything I've been learning for the women out there who have had similar struggles. I'm also happy to share info with anyone who is interested in traveling to Korea for IVF, since it's much more cost efficient + high success rates here.
    I am treating this channel as my diary, talking about the ups and downs of my journey to motherhood so that one day, hopefully, my babies will see how they were created... with fierce, enduring strength and love.
    I hope you find my videos helpful - thanks for stopping by.
    Please SUBSCRIBE here! bit.ly/HELLYNN
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    Join my FB support group where I give updates, share general info about IVF, but also getting IVF in Korea for those interested: / 1058899261969918
    Thanks for watching! ❤
    #ivfjourney #frozenembryotransfer #embryotransfer #ttc #implantationsymptoms

Komentáře • 366

  • @hellynn_j
    @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +10

    Please join the Facebook group I just started so that we can support each other! I’ll share updates and info about getting IVF in Korea there for those interested. facebook.com/groups/1058899261969918/

  • @TheArgenta2009
    @TheArgenta2009 Před měsícem +53

    I got pregnant at 42 after failing two IVF cycles. Don’t give up!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you for the hope❤❤

  • @jd-hs5lj
    @jd-hs5lj Před měsícem +15

    Hang in there! ❤ in your 40s it’s very much a numbers game of going through enough embryos to get to a genetically viable one. Try and think of every “failure” as getting closer in the odds to the one that will work ❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      I totally agree with you, thank you so much for your encouragement❤❤❤

  • @Mermiez4
    @Mermiez4 Před měsícem +11

    I’ve never been more invested in a strangers story than yours. Sending you as much positive energy as I can! Hoping 3rd time is a charm for you!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Aww thank you so much. I can feel the good energy. ❤❤

  • @lauraellerman9443
    @lauraellerman9443 Před měsícem +10

    23:11 “I’m HAPPY with it … and I’m HAPPY without it… I acknowledge that what happened in the past was very difficult and sad… but I don’t want to live in the past. I want to MOVE FORWARD. So I am LIVING FOR RIGHT NOW.“
    Listen … 👏 your mantra is my mantra now, as well as many other women walking along our path I’m sure. I thank you so much for sharing that and for graciously deciding to share this part of your story with us. Feeling that sympathetic and empathetic connection means a lot to me and I truly hope you know how much I appreciate you and your story.
    I’m so sorry what happened, that just sucks and there’s nothing that can be said except for that’s just awful and I wish so bad that you were living in the moment that you deserve. 🙏
    One day Hellynn, you WILL find yourself walking in blessings that used to be prayers and a whole bunch of infertility warriors that you helped will be there in spirit and cheering you on. 🙌🏻
    I’m so glad you found your hope & positivity for this third FET that you are currently in and even more happy that your husband is able to physically be with you for this trying time. I can just visualize him and you celebrating together when the time comes, a union and a true partnership is all about that see-sawing affect and helping each other out when the other one is down and celebrating those highs too. And what a high it will be!
    May God watch over and protect you both during this time and provide peace & comfort at all moments as well as give way to a guide to any next steps needed. ❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +2

      Hi Laura!!! Thank you tor this amazing message of hope. You always give me such positive energy and I am so grateful for you, and that we are in this together. Thank you for lifting me up. I hope I can do the same for you. 🙏💗

  • @dentistsu29
    @dentistsu29 Před měsícem +31

    Listen Hellynn! You are so strong and you’ve got this. I wish that you get a BIG FAT POSITIVE! I’m 45yrs old and after my first FET, I’m progressing nicely. I too did embryo banking (1-2 eggs retrieved per cycle), but through a mini IVF protocol with an awesome doctor in NYC - Dr. John Zhang (New Hope Fertility). Mini IVF is very cost effective and less stimulation involved. I believe that is best for women over 40. My HCG continues to rise, and I’m so happy. If you can withstand it, don’t give up! ❤❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +6

      Congratulations🎉🎉🎉 this makes me so happy you don’t even know. I hope that everything goes perfectly for you moving forward as well. Please let me know how it goes!!❤

    • @dentistsu29
      @dentistsu29 Před měsícem +2

      Thank you! I will keep you posted! There is hope for us! ❤

    • @HE..n
      @HE..n Před měsícem +1

      ​@@dentistsu29hello dear, are you talking about New hope in dubai?

    • @dentistsu29
      @dentistsu29 Před měsícem +2

      @@HE..n Hi! No. I’m talking about New Hope Fertility Center in (Midtown) Manhattan, NY. If you look up the doctor, (John Zhang) who is the Medical Director there, you can find it. There is also a female doctor and 2 other male doctors who all treat fertility in the same way - extremely personalized to each woman based on her age/circumstances. ❤❤❤❤

  • @danijelafalls9118
    @danijelafalls9118 Před měsícem +6

    I am wishing you a big fat positive ➕❤️ Your videos have helped get me through my own IVF journey and I felt less alone. You have such a beautiful energy and I think you would make the best mama. I hope this so much for you. I did my second 5 day FET last Friday. I tested 6DPT but got a negative. Although it’s not great I’ve read different things so I haven’t tested again and will just wait for the blood test in two days time. It’s been such a long journey. I hope we both get to hold our babies soon.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      I'm wishing you so much luck and love dear. I know it's such a stressful time this 2 week wait period. I don't think that I will test this time around either because it causes a lot of anxiety. No matter what happens, I am cheering you on and we are in it together😘 let me know how it goes, You got this mama

  • @jas_creates
    @jas_creates Před měsícem +8

    I’m just starting my first FET and we only have one embryo. It’s been tested and they said it’s a high grade. But I’m mentally preparing for it not to work. My husband is optimistic. I’m hopeful but also trying to contain any excitement until I get a positive pregnancy result. Sending you lots of positive energy. I know it’s so tough. I love what you said about how if something is meant for you it will not miss. That’s so encouraging.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      I think you can allow yourself to be hopeful! I am sending you so much positive energy, and baby dust. Let me know how it goes!❤

  • @mochichan88
    @mochichan88 Před měsícem +12

    I am sending you ALL the love and positive vibes your way!!!! YOU GOT THIS! And it's okay to protect yourself. This is YOUR journey. You share what you want when you want to. The fact that you're sharing your journey with us, it's so admirable and you are incredibly strong. ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Aw thank you for your kind words. Thank you for being on this journey with me. I really appreciate you💗💗💗💗💗

  • @jd-hs5lj
    @jd-hs5lj Před měsícem +10

    Also definitely agree with your decision not to test! Even if it takes longer going through the ones that may not work it’s better to give every embryo the chance. There are hundreds of women in facebook groups who had healthy babies from mosaics and even abnormals. I saw an article recently about how studies on the benefits of PGT are skewed and people who previously championed it are changing their minds. My aunt did not test embryos made over many rounds at 43/44 and after several failures and miscarriages she was able to have 2 children from them at 45 and 51. One of those was a poorly graded embryo too! Persistence is the key at this age, you’ll get there in time ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so much for sharing this story. This is very encouraging and beautiful to hear.❤

    • @itsssdamiasmr219
      @itsssdamiasmr219 Před měsícem +2

      Hello! Thank you for sharing this!!!! I agree with you!

    • @mariegro09
      @mariegro09 Před měsícem

      Where I live (Scandinavia) PGT is only recommended if you have a specific condition you need to screen for. Generally it doesn't increase the chance of conceiving in other situations.

    • @Jennifer-fk8kb
      @Jennifer-fk8kb Před měsícem +1

      @@hellynn_jI’m going to give you the opposite opinion. I disagree with your decision not to test. Here’s why:
      1. The study everyone references where “abnormal” embryos become healthy babies is seriously flawed. If you read the fine print, that study included a dozen or so embryos with “no result” not just embryos deemed abnormal. Statistically embryos that come back as “no result” are chromosomally normal 50% of the time. This would account for the majority of the supposedly abnormal embryos that led to success in the study.
      2. Yes, mosaic embryos have a decent chance of success. But PGT testing would identify those and you could transfer them.
      3. Lost time. The time wasted transferring abnormal embryos, could better be spent doing more egg retrievals to get a normal embryo.
      4. Too many assumptions. Not testing at your age assumes that your only challenge to getting pregnant is Chromosomal abnormalities. You don’t know that. Plenty of women make PGT normal embryos, only for transfers to not take in their uterus. They move on to a surrogate and it works. The uterus is a whole other part of the equation that you won’t know could be a problem. Chemicals and miscarriages at your age will be assumed to be due to chromosomal abnormalities and uterine issues will be overlooked.
      I can use my own story as an example. My first transfer with a chromsomally normal embryo resulted in a miscarriage at 6 weeks. Because the embryo was tested, doctors knew to look to my uterus for answers. I had a uterine biopsy which determined I had a uterine infection that needed to be cleared. I cleared that and my next PGT tested transfer worked- just entered my third trimester.
      Had I not had the first embryo tested doctors would have assumed chromosomal abnormalities (I was 38/39) and not checked my uterus and I would have miscarried again.
      5. The possibility of future termination of pregnancy. The chances of Chromosomal abnormalities are high at your age. I was 38 and newly 39 during my three retrievals. My results where: round 1: 1/3 normal, round 2: 1/2 normal, round 3: 1/6 normal and 1 mosaic.
      You don’t want to have a “successful” pregnancy only to get further along and be faced with the decision to terminate. Not all chromosomal abnormalities miscarry early.
      I am probably the opposite of what you described yourself as in kind of “fantasizing”. I forgot the exact term you used. Not to say I never fantasize or dream, but when it came to getting pregnant I looked at it very logically and methodically. When you are struggling to get pregnant, you want to eliminate as many variables are you can, so that you can find answers and solve problems. Without PGT testing you are leaving a huge variable unanswered.
      Also I believe a lot of the studies on PGT testing are old and not up to date. PGT testing is a lot more reliable now than it was previously. One way we know this is that NIPT results for PGT tested embryos very rarely comes back as abnormal- the results are way lower than the general population that uses NIPT tests.
      In a world where you want to give yourself the highest chance of success possible, you don’t want to use “exceptions” to make the rule. Abnormal embryos becoming babies are exceptions.. extremely rare exceptions, that like I said, are often questioned- could be a flawed study or even flawed test results. Pregnancies with PGT tested embryos being abnormal also happen but they are extremely rare and are the exception.
      Anyway… that’s my two cents. Hope you take it as I meant it, respectfully. Good luck!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      @@Jennifer-fk8kb thank you for your views, they are appreciated, and I understand them. The reason why we committed to not testing was because I had already transferred a few untested at that point and thought we might as well stick to not testing for the rest of this batch because there were only a few left, and we would just transfer multiples. Also, the last transfer I went through, my embryos had only grown to day four, so you can’t test at that stage. Never said that I was fantasizing about anything to do with PGT, but I did say I have a naivete about my overall success, and that I was hopeful. I think the study you are referring to might be different from the one I read because it entailed a larger group than that, while still small. Anyway, I also said that I was open to testing in the future if I had to do more retrievals, and I also said that I am not against testing so I do understand your perspective. Thank you💗

  • @ElenaPilleris
    @ElenaPilleris Před měsícem +6

    Hellynn, your CZcams channel feels like such a safe space; thank you from the bottom of my heart for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. You are such an inspiring force and I cannot begin to tell you how deeply I want this for you and your husband. I can sense your positive energy and kind heart. You’re already a mama to those embryos. You know what they say, right? Third times the charm. Praying that this pregnancy goes to fruition. Thank you for sharing your IVF journey .. sending love and light from NY! ❤️

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much for your kindness! Thank you for being a part of my journey, it really does mean so much to me.❤

  • @ai89gu
    @ai89gu Před měsícem +2

    Praying for you!! ❤❤❤

  • @ashleehanson4862
    @ashleehanson4862 Před měsícem +1

    Sending you prayers and all the good energy ❤

  • @tmd7514
    @tmd7514 Před měsícem

    Praying for you and your longed for baby. Sharing your journey has been so helpful.

  • @user-st1te7ck4x
    @user-st1te7ck4x Před měsícem +1

    I send you as much positive energy as I can!
    I'm rooting for you!!!

  • @Misslou2425
    @Misslou2425 Před měsícem +1

    I am so so very hopeful about your journey. I am a mommy of 4 little ones. Am 42. We actually decided AFTER seeing your journey to try naturally again for one last one.... God's willing. I am invested in your journey and wish you all the very best. Am praying for you and every woman that one day wants to be a mommy. 🙏& ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +2

      Thank you so much for listening to my story. You’re so blessed with for a little ones! I wish you the best of luck on your journey. Sending you lots of baby dust✨💖✨💖✨

  • @anujoyikumar
    @anujoyikumar Před měsícem +3

    Praying for you❤
    Stay strong and positive 😊

  • @ogonwaneri5553
    @ogonwaneri5553 Před měsícem +1

    I pray to God that you receive amazing news soon!

  • @YuhsuanChan0215
    @YuhsuanChan0215 Před měsícem

    Best luck and sending you much much positive energy!!
    Thanks you for sharing your journey so far and it’s really have been helpful and informative.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you for being a part of this community! Your kind words mean the world to me❤

  • @angielin4565
    @angielin4565 Před měsícem

    Praying hard for you ❤❤ your time will come and thank you so much for sharing

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      I appreciate you❤ thank you so much.

  • @lalina1304
    @lalina1304 Před měsícem

    I'm praying for you!!! 🙏🏽 This will be it! Sending positive vibes 🙌🏽

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much!❤❤❤

  • @daphneecharles3781
    @daphneecharles3781 Před měsícem +4

    I am rooting for you baby!

  • @FA-tf3bb
    @FA-tf3bb Před měsícem +5

    I just had my first FET 3 days ago and I’m feeling worried since all I feel is mild cramping. I’ve been following your journey and it’s been making me feel less alone. You got this!! All you need is one good embryo! 💕

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Oh nice, we are transfer buddies! Don’t worry, just try to do things to relax and make yourself happy! We got this!! Cheering you on💖💖

    • @FA-tf3bb
      @FA-tf3bb Před měsícem

      @@hellynn_j I’ll keep you in my prayers! You got this! We both do! 💕

  • @winglu4369
    @winglu4369 Před měsícem +1

    Dear Hellyn, you WILL BE HAPPY with it or without it. I wish the best for you! May God bless you. God loves you and has the best plan for you❤❤❤

  • @helennkayy
    @helennkayy Před měsícem +2

    I am on my TTC journey. I ended up here because I wanted to educate myself more about IVF. Thank you so much for sharing your story and experience through this challenging process. Listening to you makes me feel like I am listening to my big sister. I am routing for you, Hellynn!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Aw thank you love.. Thank you for following my story ♥️ wishing you so much baby dust🙏💖✨

  • @jellyone333
    @jellyone333 Před měsícem

    Thank you for being an inspiration!!! I started my F.E.T journey so I appreciate your courage in sharing!!! Sending good vibes and prayers!!!!❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Wishing you lots of luck! You got this, transfer buddy!! ❤️❤️

  • @nycgirl8253
    @nycgirl8253 Před měsícem

    I’m sending you all the positivity and prayers your way!!! Your optimism and hope are so inspiring. ❤ Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you for being on the journey with me❤❤❤

  • @Ellyu021
    @Ellyu021 Před měsícem

    Wishing you all the very best, Hellynn! ❤❤❤ Sending you all the best vibes, courage and love! 💕❤🤗

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so much!!🙏✨💕💗💖

  • @tiffanyl3296
    @tiffanyl3296 Před měsícem

    You got this! Best wishes ❤ sending you good energy and love

  • @rahshedasmith5812
    @rahshedasmith5812 Před měsícem

    Praying for you! Rooting for you! Be happy and hopeful! You are a beautiful person for sharing with all of us out here. Continue to relax.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much, what a sweet message🙏💗

  • @julieibebuchi1514
    @julieibebuchi1514 Před měsícem

    Keep your head! Thanks for sharing your story 🎉😊

  • @karlaOrduna-jv5yv
    @karlaOrduna-jv5yv Před měsícem

    Hellynn, you are always in my thoughts. Wishing you the best!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much, it means the world to me❤

  • @nnelson4557
    @nnelson4557 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. You sharing has truly been a blessing as I embark on the same process of IVF. Your positivity radiates and I'm sending positivity and prayers your way

  • @lydiakim2093
    @lydiakim2093 Před měsícem +1

    Praying for the good news! sending you all the positive vibes from NY!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much love ❤️

  • @zouamoua1024
    @zouamoua1024 Před měsícem +1

    Sending a lot of good vibes, prayers and positive energy your way! Good luck Hellynn.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much♥️♥️♥️

  • @brindadhandha7703
    @brindadhandha7703 Před měsícem

    My prayers are with you, Hellynn. I wish that you definitely concieve this time :) Sending you lots of positivity!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you. I can feel your positive energy and I am so grateful! ❤️

  • @Briellabrae
    @Briellabrae Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing your journey and being an inspiration. Never lose hope and stay strong. God bless you.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you, I will. Sending love.❤️

  • @aurorasnow8642
    @aurorasnow8642 Před měsícem

    Hellynn, wish you all the best of luck with your next embryo transfer.
    Stay strong and positive. My thoughts are with you.
    Looking forward to your update.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much, my heart is full. No matter what happens I’ll always be grateful for your kind comments.

  • @mizzcachon
    @mizzcachon Před 7 dny

    Sending you more love and prayers ❤❤

  • @rosianaeo9380
    @rosianaeo9380 Před měsícem

    Sending all the prayers and best wishes for you Hellynn. Thank u for sharing your journey for the fellow fertility warriors.. 🫶

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Fertility warriors we are! Thank you so much for being on the journey with me.❤❤❤

  • @tanyatomar
    @tanyatomar Před měsícem

    rooting for you Hellynn!!! go girl!!!!

  • @jennyz3257
    @jennyz3257 Před měsícem

    You're so brave! Pray for you!

  • @josephine2756
    @josephine2756 Před měsícem

    Sending baby dust! Really hoping this works out for you ❤

  • @alwfsu06
    @alwfsu06 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for sharing in the midst of your waiting. You are so brave and I know that God sees that and your desire to strengthen and encourage others. I pray that God will bless you with a beautiful and healthy baby!!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Aww thank you so much, love❤

  • @christinaheddesheimer3711
    @christinaheddesheimer3711 Před měsícem +1

    Following your journey and sending baby dust your way! Thank you for sharing your story with us!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      You are so welcome! Thank you so much for your kind words, and being a part of my journey.💖💖

  • @samanthagnimavo8324
    @samanthagnimavo8324 Před měsícem +1

    Sending you love and positivity ❤

  • @Cocomerise
    @Cocomerise Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing your fertility journey with us. You’ve come this far so stay strong, positive and know that you are surrounded by much love and support. I wish you all the best❤❤

  • @elaineqin6173
    @elaineqin6173 Před měsícem

    I’m rooting for you, Hellynn! This is not an easy journey and am glad your husband can be by your side to be with you every step of the way this time. Hope to hear good news on your next video.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much! 💖💖💖

  • @kat.699
    @kat.699 Před měsícem

    Wishing you the very best of luck with this 3rd FET!!! Crossing fingers for a positive outcome 🍀

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so very much! It means the world to me❤

  • @elysium888
    @elysium888 Před měsícem

    You're such a strong woman! Whatever happens, wishing you all the best! I'm also in my early 40s and going to do my first FET soon. 🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Wishing you so much luck!! Thank you for listening to my story❤❤❤

  • @classicredwine
    @classicredwine Před měsícem +1

    I’ve been waiting for your update! I go for my HSG next week. Sending baby dust to you ❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Good luck! Make sure to take some tylenol beforehand 💗

  • @learnedbylinda
    @learnedbylinda Před měsícem

    I just started my first FET journey and came across your videos. Wish you all the best... You got this!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much! Wishing you so much luck on your transfer💗

  • @moonhoanimontero2456
    @moonhoanimontero2456 Před měsícem +4

    Girl we are praying for you!!

  • @lovelyshoe13
    @lovelyshoe13 Před měsícem +2

    All the best ! Sending positive vibes to you ❤ ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so very much!!!🥰

  • @justineoaes5258
    @justineoaes5258 Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing your journey. I pray for a positive outcome

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much🙏❤️💖

  • @aliciahutcherson7653
    @aliciahutcherson7653 Před měsícem

    Don’t give up! God will definitely bless you. Praying for a positive pregnancy. Your videos have encouraged me to be hopeful. 🥰

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      That makes me so happy to hear. Sending you lots of positivity.💗

  • @itsssdamiasmr219
    @itsssdamiasmr219 Před měsícem

    Hello, I just recently followed your channel, you gave me such good vibes even just watching you through a screen!, you give us women that are TTC hope and courage! Sending you lots of baby dust your way! ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Oh wow, thank you for your kind words. I am grateful for your positive energy! Thank you ❤

    • @itsssdamiasmr219
      @itsssdamiasmr219 Před měsícem

      @@hellynn_j ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kyliherb6983
    @kyliherb6983 Před měsícem +1

    From the bottom of my heart, all the best and highest vibes on this journey✨ I have a good feeling about this one transfer!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Omg, thank you so much!!❤❤❤

  • @FA-tf3bb
    @FA-tf3bb Před měsícem

    Thought about you today! You and I had our frozen embryo transfers at the same time! I really really hope you got great news! Keeping you in my prayers!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Hope you got good news! Sending good vibes❤

  • @shasia0785
    @shasia0785 Před měsícem

    Sending love and Positivity, I just transferred again myself for the fourth time Prayers that this is it❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you 🙏 Sending you massive amounts of baby dust!

  • @dharshytharshan136
    @dharshytharshan136 Před 24 dny

    Hey lovely! Don’t worry for anything, you will definitely get a good news. Stay strong please ❤

  • @kcmusings
    @kcmusings Před měsícem +1

    I recently subscribed so I could follow your journey. I'm starting IVF in a few months after a decade of infertility. It's one of the hardest journeys I've ever had. I really hope God gives you all the desires of your heart. I'm supporting you from a distance! ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      We are all in this together. I know what you mean.. this is a tumultuous journey, but we are just being prepared for something amazing, I know it. I am cheering you on as you embark on this new journey! Let me know how it goes.❤❤

  • @mahviccastaneto7312
    @mahviccastaneto7312 Před měsícem

    I’m praying for you. You’re so strong and brave. You got this.❤ good luck and baby dust for you 💕🫶🏼

  • @FD-1111
    @FD-1111 Před měsícem +2

    Good luck sweetie!! I totally understand what you are passing through and all the stress and agony. When the science stops, God takes over and I wish to you and your husband strong faith and your baby soon will meet you.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      ‘When the science stops, God takes over’ I love that. Thank you so much 💗

  • @richasingh1012
    @richasingh1012 Před měsícem

    Hey strong girl! My heart knows you will be a mom. I have never met a stronger woman than you. You are a rock star. I admire you so much. You are my hero. Lots of love and good wishes. Will keep you in my prayers.❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you for your uplifting energy!❤❤❤

  • @user-gl8ek2kd4k
    @user-gl8ek2kd4k Před měsícem

    I know how you feel cuz I recently did my transfer. You are not alone my prayers are with you, you are a really strong woman and God will surely make the last one to work. Sending you baby dust

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you for your kindness. Your prayers mean a lot to me. ❤

  • @pattieh807
    @pattieh807 Před měsícem

    Sending you prayers and baby dust. My daughter just had her egg retrieval, awaiting genetic testing. Good luck!!!❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you! I'm sending your daughter positive energy!!💗

  • @dbrian267
    @dbrian267 Před měsícem

    I admire your strength and positivity despite it all…you and I have very similar fertility conditions and I can only hope to be as strong as you are when my transfer time comes! Sending you lots of love and prayers, may God protect you and fulfill the wishes of your heart! 🙏🏻

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you for your uplifting words. We are all in this together. Sending you love and light💗💗💗

  • @Swatabdi
    @Swatabdi Před měsícem

    Don’t forget, You are a force of nature and you can do anything!! Sending you all the positive vibes and baby dust!!!!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Awww thank you so much for this!!! ❤❤❤

  • @carolinemartins568
    @carolinemartins568 Před měsícem

    Sending you positive energy and baby dust! I loved your mantra of what is meant for you will never miss! soon you will be holding your 🌈 baby or babies ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much!!! ❤❤

  • @shrutipatil1879
    @shrutipatil1879 Před měsícem

    Sending your way some baby dust for the current embryo transfer😊😊.
    I am very inspired of your resilience. All the best 😌. Keeping you in prayer 🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

  • @jamiedunne9451
    @jamiedunne9451 Před měsícem

    Thank you for vlogging your journey.. Im 33 and just starting this journey of egg freezing or deciding on it. even though my situation is a little different your journey is educating and relatable. You are an inspiration, stay positive and know people are rooting you on ! you are so helpfully detailed and genuine I dont feel so alone. thank you again.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Aww thank you so much 💖 Those are very kind words. I empathize tremendously with women going through egg freezing. It is pretty much the same thing, but more having to do with self empowerment. Either way we are on this journey of becoming our best selves. Wishing you luck and love, keep in touch. ❤

  • @047stk
    @047stk Před měsícem

    I’m 40 just had a failed fet, I get what you’re going through. It’s tough with all the meds and invasive procedures it’s just the worst when you end up with nothing. I was so sad I was crying for a week . Preparing for my second fet and hoping it works. Id subscribed when I was in the middle of my first fet and and felt like I was in the same boat as you. Love your attitude and I’m sure it’ll happen for us soon enough. All the best and lots of baby dust.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Aww lots of hugs to you. I was also crying quite a bit… we gotta let it out. I am sending you so much love and positive vibes for your next FET. Thank you for sharing your story, and following my story too♥️

  • @ZaraBizara
    @ZaraBizara Před měsícem

    Dear Hellynn, I hear you, witness you, support you, and believe in you and this! One foot in front of the other, one baby step at a time. You are doing all the right things and the road is not over. I will be thinking of you and sending you so much loving energy over these next days. 🤗♥️

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Hi Zara, sending you so much positive energy. We got this.

  • @cumplemikael6246
    @cumplemikael6246 Před měsícem +1

    Hi Lynn! Thank you for your video. I needed too know I was not only on this one. I'm 42 years old and have had two failed IVF rounds in New Zealand: my embryos didn't make it =( I'm getting ready for my last treatment with the eggs from when I was 40. I will be doing it in my home country Argentina where treatment is cheaper. It's been hard to maintain a positive attitude in preparation for my last round but you sharing your story makes feel more hopeful! Send you all best wishes!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Hi there, thanks for stopping by! I am wishing you so much luck and baby dust. This journey can definitely induce anxiety, please take care of your mental health and heart through this process, and let me know how it goes!❤❤❤

  • @seq4168
    @seq4168 Před měsícem

    Sending SO much love and good vibes your way! Praying for a healthy pregnancy for you and baby/babies! You’re right, what’s meant for you, will never pass you by ❤️. I’ll have to keep reminding myself of that. I’m 42 and right there with you. You’re not alone! Someone as kind-hearted as you deserves all the blessings & I truly hope this is your happily ever after 🙏❤. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable and sharing your journey with us…if it weren’t for people like you, so many of us battling with infertility would feel so alone. Thank you & God bless 🙏. It’s going to happen! ❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Oh my goodness thank you so much for this heartfelt message. I am praying for you too. I really truly appreciate the positivity that I can feel from your comment… In fact, you are making me not feel alone!❤ we got this.

    • @seq4168
      @seq4168 Před měsícem

      @@hellynn_j I somehow feel your positivity too 🥰. I know what you mean about wanting to protect your energy…a convo w/ you feels like a safe space though and I’m grateful to have chatted…even through You Tube! Lol. It helps ❤️ Thank you so much for prayers sent my way; please know that they are greatly appreciated 🙏! ...and, yes, we’ve totally got this! 🙂❤️

  • @vickybenson8451
    @vickybenson8451 Před měsícem

    You got it! Blessings coming your way.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      I love that. 💖✨🌈

  • @ishratmahbub2287
    @ishratmahbub2287 Před měsícem

    You are a positive soul, I recently started following your vlogs. I am also 40 and trying naturally fr my 2nd pregnancy. All the best and take my love and hugs for you.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you, love. You are so kind. Sending you lots of baby dust ✨✨✨✨✨

  • @clau78_54
    @clau78_54 Před měsícem

    Wish you the best on your journey! I am sure god will bless you with a child, you deserve it ❤️

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much!❤❤️❤️

  • @cherylmartinofchemarsilico7080

    Sending wishes for a successful pregnancy this round

  • @SincerelyMrsLilly-mw4xq
    @SincerelyMrsLilly-mw4xq Před měsícem

    Here are the high vibes you asked for and deserve! I hope you’re happy and feel celebrated by your husband and this community you are building ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Hi there, thank you so much for the great energy! I needed this today❤

  • @lanenaboricua161
    @lanenaboricua161 Před měsícem +2

    ❤ I’m 3dpt and also being cautiously optimistic about it. My heart goes out to you and wishing you all the best. Sending you all of the best vibes and baby dust.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so much! Let me know how it goes. Sending lots of calming, happy vibes!!❤

    • @lanenaboricua161
      @lanenaboricua161 Před měsícem

      @@hellynn_j thank you, definitely will :)

  • @ltree05l
    @ltree05l Před měsícem

    You're so amazingly brave!

  • @shaligasuksomsong
    @shaligasuksomsong Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. I like how you said you’ll give it your all and not let age deter you. I had a negative comment from a friend who told me that if I wanted a second child I would be too old and 80 by the time my children are in college. I was so taken aback by that especially since I’ve been trying to have 1. Ideally I’d like 2 if faith lets me have it. Keep trying ! If it helps, I would avoid taking a pregnancy test to relieve such anxiety and stress. Let it roll and soon enough you’ll have that miracle baby!!!! Sending you positives your way. Go women!!!!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you for your encouragement! Let's not let negativity affect us in any way, Your friend has no business saying that to you and that's definitely not a very nice thing to say to somebody who is TTC. Don't let it in! Sending you lots of positive vibes and positive vibes only!

  • @mimsable
    @mimsable Před měsícem

    sending you love and prayers🙏🏼

  • @stellazstar5552
    @stellazstar5552 Před měsícem +1

    Good luck!!! Single mother by choice here. I did IVF and FET.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Love that. Nice to meet you… thank you for the luck💗💗💗

  • @Aurora-cb2ji
    @Aurora-cb2ji Před měsícem

    Sending you positive energy ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před 29 dny

      Thank you so much!💖🙏💗

  • @laar9675
    @laar9675 Před měsícem

    Wishing you all the best for this transfer sending lots of baby dust

  • @user-ux3nl2mn3m
    @user-ux3nl2mn3m Před měsícem +1

    Hellynn I haven’t talked you a while. I would like to leave comment. I feel your pain and I really feel that God has prepared for the stronger baby as much as stronger you are.
    Keep visualising that baby is in your arms I strongly believe that God has sent perfect baby to perfect couple. You are very strong, faithful and good hearted. It is okay to share hard feelings. I will pray that you will meet him/ hers

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much for this. I really truly believe that I am just being molded to become the best mother. I will continue to visualize my baby… thank you for being so encouraging and uplifting. ❤❤❤

  • @lisa-mariaradler5272
    @lisa-mariaradler5272 Před měsícem

    I am sending you a lot of positive energy and a lot of good vibes!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much! Hope to visit one day. 💗💗💗

  • @rupalimendhe9386
    @rupalimendhe9386 Před měsícem

    Sending you lots of love and blessings...keep trying dear❤..

  • @jleung7347
    @jleung7347 Před měsícem

    best of luck, Hellynn!

  • @shruti8647
    @shruti8647 Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing your story! I am praying for you!!
    I am ~40 and at the FET stage. I am constantly getting rescheduled coz my linings either low some cycle or is more somecyles. I was looking for vlogs of others on the IVF journey.. You definitely give me hope and strength to stay the course ❤❤Thank you 🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you for being a part of my journey! Glad to have you part of the community💗 Are you doing a medicated cycle or natural cycle FET?

    • @shruti8647
      @shruti8647 Před 17 dny

      @@hellynn_j my doctor keeps switching between medicated and natural for the fet. But, we didnt do fet yet, since my doctor wasn't happy with the linings each time.

  • @gautambanka1165
    @gautambanka1165 Před měsícem

    Just believe in your body , sleep a lot and love yourself, you are a beautiful and strong human being. Praying for you ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much for your kindness🙏❤️

  • @A_Vets_Life
    @A_Vets_Life Před měsícem

    Sending you all the fertility goodness and positive vibes. ❤❤ Thank you for sharing.

  • @abosedeoni6412
    @abosedeoni6412 Před měsícem

    I wish you very big, fat positive this round, and I pray you have a complete and successful pregnancy. Congratulations in advance ❤❤🎉🎉

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so much, this is just what I need to hear😊❤

  • @sarahsmiling100
    @sarahsmiling100 Před měsícem +1

    Praying for you and your journey. May hope stir in your soul and peace sustain you when you need it. Praying that the God who created you would give you the gift of a beautiful baby.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you so much, that means a lot to me 🙏❤️

  • @Rockera1982
    @Rockera1982 Před měsícem +1

    Good Luck. Sending you good wishes❤

  • @annahakamaki2922
    @annahakamaki2922 Před měsícem +1

    Good luck!💫

  • @ginatsui7194
    @ginatsui7194 Před měsícem

    You are so strong and thanks for sharing … good luck

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much!🙏💖