I Killed My Boyfriend's Side Chick, Family Background, Losing My Virginity, Prison - Part 1.

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  • @chrisnetwork1266
    @chrisnetwork1266  Před 4 měsíci +88

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  • @catormofokeng9198
    @catormofokeng9198 Před 3 měsíci +184

    Part 2 please
    People are saying that this shouldn't be posted on the internet but they're missing important points... this is very educational... it's painful to the family of the deceased but this information can raise awareness to people who might find themselves in the same position

  • @user-qo4xd7lj9t
    @user-qo4xd7lj9t Před 3 měsíci +98

    You can see her pain
    But shes holding back her tears
    May you Forgive yourself and forgive the guy who led you to this
    Repent to God ask for forgiveness
    Ask him to cleanse you and follow him ..yes people will say whatever people will always talk people might always see you as umbulali but Once God says Yes nobody can say No
    Once you turn back to God ,follow him .....other peoples perspective doesnt matter
    GOD IS WITH YOU ❤he loves us all and theres no sin that can not be forgiven if you repent ..he will never forsaken us FORGIVE YOURSELF SIS ...Take everything step by step kuzoba ryt learn from your mistakes..the devil is a liar. Peace is with You....❤

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci +2

      thank you for noticing

    • @nomusamajola1860
      @nomusamajola1860 Před 2 měsíci

      Do come back for p2

    • @mathewuvictory9031
      @mathewuvictory9031 Před 2 měsíci +2

      She's just heartless there's numerous folks like her,u can't do such a thing&hold back your tears....this is so heartbreaking.

  • @LouiseMiswolk-mw8xf
    @LouiseMiswolk-mw8xf Před 3 měsíci +85

    This is why I walk away from situations, I don't want my temper to get the best of me.

  • @ntombizodwalukhele8810
    @ntombizodwalukhele8810 Před 3 měsíci +166

    Anger is such a dangerous emotion when there is no self control.

    • @tunzamassudi8142
      @tunzamassudi8142 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Agree with you the is no reason to kill sameone bcz of men

    • @ndileka216
      @ndileka216 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Absolutely

    • @katametsimolamu6555
      @katametsimolamu6555 Před 3 měsíci +10

      Please don’t judge her
      Some men can really drive you crazy and most of the time
      People who do that are not in their right mind…… I have a friend who is in a psychiatric hospital cause of a men…. Ladies please learn to love yourself

    • @ndileka216
      @ndileka216 Před 3 měsíci

      @@katametsimolamu6555 there is no way in hell that I would be angered by a man, to a point where I kill someone. Self-control and self-love.

    • @Skillset_Solutions_Media2024
      @Skillset_Solutions_Media2024 Před 28 dny

      That is very true especially when you are trying to protect those around you.

  • @nombewu33
    @nombewu33 Před 3 měsíci +51

    Oh guys , I don’t know but I think she does regret. Listening than rather focusing on her facial expressions,you will understand that she does regret. I don’t condone her actions and I wish justice was served,but what’s done is done. Yhooo this is so heavy, phumani ebantwini abanganifuni please .

  • @nontobekomohlala8345
    @nontobekomohlala8345 Před 3 měsíci +66

    I think she's trying to tell her story exactly how it happened and to her it doesn't matter how we judge her.

  • @unlockwiththandomaumela
    @unlockwiththandomaumela Před 3 měsíci +17

    It is my prayer that Ntokozo finds a job and eventually build her life and also find peace, joy and happiness in this lifetime. What a lesson her story is to our youth.

  • @leratobela5621
    @leratobela5621 Před 3 měsíci +47

    Shy does not mean quiet. It means you are socially awkward. When you are with people you are comfortable with you can be talkative.

  • @ntombikwebulani
    @ntombikwebulani Před 4 měsíci +48

    What stood out for in this interview is how people especially your friends rejoice at your downfall.
    Great interview
    Hope she's rehabilitated.
    May the family of the deceased find healing ❤❤

    • @EntleDingiswayo
      @EntleDingiswayo Před 3 měsíci +13

      There were not rejoicing at her downfall they wanted justice for an atrocious act done in the society..How she even wanted her friends to protect her during this is crazy

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci

      @@tkmothiba5573 No

  • @sparrow62210
    @sparrow62210 Před 4 měsíci +349

    The lady took someone's life because of a men that showed her that he does not love her, but continued to blame other ladies for her misery, how😢 Today she has a privilege of making interviews and the deceased who was a daughter, sister and a mother cannot speak for herself 😢I wish the family of the deceased peace and forgiveness cause life can be unfair❤

    • @RastaAfricanGentleman
      @RastaAfricanGentleman Před 4 měsíci

      But a majority of men kill each other for cheating girlfriends as well and blame other people as well

    • @lindohlatshwayo4950
      @lindohlatshwayo4950 Před 4 měsíci +51

      My cousin’s daughter (Niece) akana mama ngenze yakhe and she’s out here telling the story as though she doesn’t care💔😭

    • @marthamoitheri2633
      @marthamoitheri2633 Před 4 měsíci +9

      😢😢😢 ubuyenzwa yibu thakathi as you are saying ukuthi you were One in Two
      Wasibulalela ingane yethu wena, mthakathi

    • @user-mp1dh3ve8c
      @user-mp1dh3ve8c Před 4 měsíci +4

      😢😢😢

    • @BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5cz
      @BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5cz Před 4 měsíci

      Her showed her countless times

  • @user-eq9ci3hj2f
    @user-eq9ci3hj2f Před 2 měsíci +13

    This guy was sent by the enemy. Few wont understand her and judge her but her background means a lot. I really feels pain for her. And the deceased also painful 💔.

    • @user-zl4lp5vv2m
      @user-zl4lp5vv2m Před měsícem

      End of the day she chose to take a life it is what it is

  • @BonganiKhumalo-le9ec
    @BonganiKhumalo-le9ec Před 3 měsíci +79

    She meet the devil when she was still young and innocent

  • @nolwazimazibuko2036
    @nolwazimazibuko2036 Před 4 měsíci +67

    Thank you for sharing your story Ntokozo, may we all learn from your mistakes. May you heal and may the family of the deceased heal and forgive you.

  • @zandiledlamini4493
    @zandiledlamini4493 Před 3 měsíci +26

    Mara manithi akazisoli nifuna akhale,azibulale,azibhuquze phansi?🙄we deal with pain differently

  • @SJ_KingMthembu
    @SJ_KingMthembu Před 4 měsíci +63

    😢😢I feel sorry for her but when a book of ypur life is written trust me you cannot avoid it, you can blame her all you want but trust me your journey in life you can never run away from it. Usala nabo I should have or I shouldnt have

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci +3

      This is so profound🙌

    • @user-zl4lp5vv2m
      @user-zl4lp5vv2m Před měsícem

      Not true. Theres no such thing as fate or destiny. We all make choices as we all have free will.

    • @LuckyJudaz
      @LuckyJudaz Před 5 dny

      ​@@user-zl4lp5vv2mthose choices were already written before you were mos.. what do you want to say wena .?

  • @TheChainedAnchor
    @TheChainedAnchor Před 3 měsíci +24

    Classic case of how the devil works. This should be an eye-opener to everyone, ukuthi if you ever decide to stand for something good (in this case, the lady wanted to keep herself pure for as long as needed), the devil will attack that.
    Have you ever noticed how difficult things get, when you try to do the right thing? 😢
    But all these things shouldn't distract you, stay positive, push and do stand for the good thing you believe in, God will see you through in due course.
    And to the lady, hardy ntwana😢 continue to share your story, it'll surely help a lot of people. Power to you. May God protect and guide you, ukuya phambili😢
    To the gents, we can change the trajectory of the world, thina nje sisodwa... It starts with us gents😢

  • @dinnydee7576
    @dinnydee7576 Před 4 měsíci +129

    Not to judge here, what lead to this she became obsessed with this guy. The girl wasnt provoking her, the guy played both of them and sweet talked his way. He made them think they are main chicks. This is sad and may the decease rest in peace 🕊️✌️✌️

    • @thandekanzuza1286
      @thandekanzuza1286 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I agree with you

    • @Luyandampanza_
      @Luyandampanza_ Před 3 měsíci +2

      Exactly my thoughts 😢

    • @nomaphelomyataza737
      @nomaphelomyataza737 Před 3 měsíci +3

      I think her problem was the betrayal of the girl cos she took the lady as her friend😢

    • @user-um6mm9cp4s
      @user-um6mm9cp4s Před 3 měsíci +1

      She was very young and didn't know any better. We all thought our first love was the ultimate. It's only later in life that we realise that it wasn't even worth our time😢

    • @user-tl2wz6sq3f
      @user-tl2wz6sq3f Před 2 měsíci

      I like your honesty ❤

  • @zelokuhlegina5886
    @zelokuhlegina5886 Před 2 měsíci +11

    The pain of being played and betrayed by someone you love is very deep. Best thing leave all unhealthy relationships

  • @nicoliam_7
    @nicoliam_7 Před 3 měsíci +340

    Who else is coming from TikTok? Let’s gather here 😊

  • @HilariaMbono
    @HilariaMbono Před 2 měsíci +13

    It started with the dad who rejected her, then another male who rejected her and she did everything to stop it until....

  • @lonaradebe2101
    @lonaradebe2101 Před 4 měsíci +26

    It’s so so critical to teach our kids what love is so they don’t seek it from their partners 😰 this girl was so needy for love and adoration that she ended up sacrificing herself for a man who has never loved her 😰 & a life was lost 😞

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 Před 3 měsíci +2

      She didn't sacrifice herself she sacrificed somebody else......that is the deceased

  • @user-um6mm9cp4s
    @user-um6mm9cp4s Před 3 měsíci +9

    Both families were hurt and lost their daughters in different ways. Its not easy to live with that guilt and she was a little kid when all this happened. I hope the victims family may find peace and healing😢

  • @winniedlamini5177
    @winniedlamini5177 Před 3 měsíci +19

    Thank you for sharing this story with us. Lesson learnt here is self love and emotions management is very important

  • @faithful410
    @faithful410 Před 3 měsíci +95

    Jesus loves you receive him today and he will fill your life with peace and joy.

  • @user-zv4zz1zc3g
    @user-zv4zz1zc3g Před 3 měsíci +27

    Part 2 please 😫😫lapho akamuhle ubabygurl🔥🔥Forgive yourself sweety sometimes kuyabhayizeka empilweni❤

  • @Alegria-Alegria
    @Alegria-Alegria Před 4 měsíci +82

    The evil person in this equation was the boyfriend who enjoyed pinning girls against each other. I wish this lady had left his ass alone and continued with the second boyfriend.
    The side chick was extremely wrong for doing that to her friend and even constantly provoking her, all because of a man, but her child did not deserve to be left motherless.
    This lady was trauma bonded to the guy, that's why she kept on going back to him. Trauma bonds are the biggest cause of abused women constantly returning to their abusers.
    She needs counseling to deal with the trauma bond. She also needs counseling to deal with the murder , I sense her trying to block feeling remorse for it. I understand she was not in her right senses when she commited the murder, hence she seens to be emotionally distancing herself from the actual act, but she needs to accept it and the emotions that come with it so that she can start afresh.
    Most importantly she needs to write a sincere apology to the family of the side chick, although they may not accept the apology, it needs to be done for their healing as well.
    MORAL OF THE STORY for us ladies: if you find yourself in a situation where have to fight for a man or over a man, that boy is not worth it. And if you just can't leave the guy alone no matter how badly he treats you, consider counseling to deal with the trauma bond. Most importantly sex is spiritual and a man that sleeps around with different people is bound to bring you bad energies and you end up doing things you would never do in ur right mind. Also consider that some people out there can hit you with 'isichitho' over a man and ruin ur life forever.

    • @TheyenaSihlangu
      @TheyenaSihlangu Před 3 měsíci +2

      She died the day, he took her virginity and broke up with her. She needs healing and deliverance.

    • @MomTheCook
      @MomTheCook Před 3 měsíci +5

      Well said... You have really broken down the entire situation without prejudice..

    • @leratoolifant1988
      @leratoolifant1988 Před 3 měsíci +1

      That's what happened to my friend first time fighting she killed someone. Sad to me you are not a murderer so will be my friend .Sorry dear condolences to both your family and the deceased.

  • @matthewsngidi5833
    @matthewsngidi5833 Před 3 měsíci +20

    This lady has such a beautiful aura is not believable what she says

  • @msngema1380
    @msngema1380 Před 4 měsíci +155

    She does not look like she is remorseful…im sorry it’s just my observation

    • @allanwhittaker4700
      @allanwhittaker4700 Před 4 měsíci +17

      Ngivumelana nawe akazisoli 😢

    • @Professor_Stark
      @Professor_Stark Před 4 měsíci +40

      Yep! I feel like its mixture of her personality as someone who was always quiet and keeping to herself and growing up in a cold household. Perhaps her mother didn’t show her love too…She lacks remorse and has that element of being a psychopath. I’m actually caught between feeling sad and Yho wtf.

    • @beniesmatsetse2202
      @beniesmatsetse2202 Před 4 měsíci +46

      You want her to scream guys? Hau lona

    • @Professor_Stark
      @Professor_Stark Před 4 měsíci +31

      @@beniesmatsetse2202 From lack of remorse to screaming? I was about to tell u the difference between them, but It seems I would trying to explain theoretical physics to a pigeon.

    • @sachinboyce6876
      @sachinboyce6876 Před 4 měsíci +22

      ​@beniesmatsetse2202 We want to her to seem like she cares about the fact that she killed someone

  • @itsnaomi7137
    @itsnaomi7137 Před 4 měsíci +14

    she wasn't even married and why would you end the other women's life her boyfriend chose to see the other women she should if walked away now she as blood on her hands

  • @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana
    @DzivhuluwaniPhaswana Před 3 měsíci +11

    The boyfriend was a player and the lady was too attached to the boyfriend. But am so disappointed with the interviewer he so calm as if a pet was killed not a human being and he's disappointed that the guy came and testify . And the lady she's not showing any remorse all.
    Cause the lady didn't kill that women by mistake she planned everything. Who was sent by Devil the lady who intentionally stabbed a mother to death or a guy who wants to justice, am so disappointed with the interviewer

  • @keaolebogambanjwa110
    @keaolebogambanjwa110 Před 3 měsíci +21

    some of us we will think she's not remorseful but myb she healed n tried to fix herself apologised to the family ..men will make us do things

    • @sinovuyobandezi2815
      @sinovuyobandezi2815 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Women and not wantin to take accountability of their actions!🌚 wow

    • @user-zs8oq9fm2f
      @user-zs8oq9fm2f Před 3 měsíci +1

      Banna ke M.S.P sheam mo lefatsheng lena😢

    • @LuckyJudaz
      @LuckyJudaz Před 5 dny

      It's all your choice to do or not do those things at the end of the day

    • @LuckyJudaz
      @LuckyJudaz Před 5 dny

      ​@@user-zs8oq9fm2fin life you got 2 choices to choose each of them everyday

  • @simply_angela4315
    @simply_angela4315 Před 3 měsíci +19

    We as women, we need to teach the younger generation more about self love & self value. It’s sad the things we do for men. We can really be much better if we learn to love ourselves 1st before men.

    • @dineophotolo285
      @dineophotolo285 Před 3 měsíci

      This was a definition of lack of self love hle 😭😭😭

  • @bangiwenjanga2949
    @bangiwenjanga2949 Před 4 měsíci +29

    All I can say is that, this beautiful lady made a mistake that anyone can do and I hope she stay strong and forgive herself too..❤
    To the family of the deceased I'm sorry about your loss

    • @lindohlatshwayo4950
      @lindohlatshwayo4950 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Mistake when a child is growing without a Mother , you don’t know how it feel for your cousins life to be taken so easily .. My niece ukukhula engena mama because of someone thats not remorseful💔

    • @bangiwenjanga2949
      @bangiwenjanga2949 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@lindohlatshwayo4950 I'm sorry about your cousin and I didn't mean to hurt your family and I don't judge this beautiful lady also, I pray for you and your family to find peace and forgive her also..

    • @tlhogikgomo
      @tlhogikgomo Před 4 měsíci +7

      Killing is not a mistake. She does not even feel sorry for murdering someone. She does not see the wrong in killing someone. How does she gets forgiven if she shows no remorse whatsoever? Imagine if you are the deceased's family watching this, how would you feel.

    • @sibonelo_dacu88
      @sibonelo_dacu88 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@lindohlatshwayo4950💔💔💔💔she's not remorseful at all.

    • @LuckyJudaz
      @LuckyJudaz Před 5 dny

      ​@@tlhogikgomowhat must she do to show that she's remorseful.?

  • @sfisosimelane8315
    @sfisosimelane8315 Před 4 měsíci +29

    Ag shame this lady was pushed harder to the corner, but beautiful girl, she's was too honest in the relationship, trying to keep the good moral...

  • @tlhogikgomo
    @tlhogikgomo Před 4 měsíci +83

    Our justice system is extremely poor. She killed someone and was still roaming the streets freely for 2yrs. Watching this interview makes me mad because she is NOT remorseful. She wanted to get away with murder, even the interviewer was disappointed at the fact that the baby daddy showed up to testify. I'm disgusted. So according to this lady and the interviewer, justice should have not been served. She doesn't feel anything wrong with killing a person and she will do it again. I feel sad for the deceased's family. Imagine seeing your loved one's killer roaming the streets freely, worse, doing an interview and showing no remorse. THIS IS THE WORST INTERVIEW I'VE EVER SEEN. THE INTERVIEWER IS TERRIBLE AT THIS. AT THE LEAST, THINK ABOUT THE FAMILY OF THE DECEASED.

    • @user-ex8xj5cz3g
      @user-ex8xj5cz3g Před 4 měsíci +13

      Yes the interviewer is terrible, he doesn't direct the interview with questions, his interviews are unnecessarily long. He asked about how the murder occurred, and she tells a long story of what she was not asked and he doesn't control her.

    • @user-pk7dm1wg3i
      @user-pk7dm1wg3i Před 4 měsíci +6

      Neh!! Yoh she is busy smiling yet she killed some1😢

    • @tlhogikgomo
      @tlhogikgomo Před 4 měsíci +10

      @@user-pk7dm1wg3i What hurts is that she doesn't see anything wrong in killing her instead she's playing the victim and yet, of the other 2 baby mamas, she was the sidechick.

    • @ThandolwethuNzama-cd5vq
      @ThandolwethuNzama-cd5vq Před 4 měsíci +7

      I agree the system failed the family of the deceased

    • @deborahramaphala9056
      @deborahramaphala9056 Před 4 měsíci +5

      This reflects the ills of South africa

  • @user-nd8sw5il5g
    @user-nd8sw5il5g Před 4 měsíci +32

    But the lady feels nothing about killing a person, not remorseful
    Part 2

    • @naledidube3532
      @naledidube3532 Před 3 měsíci +9

      I could be wrong but it seems like she feels the victim derseved to die... she keeps saying the victim provoked her

    • @theSANewsnow
      @theSANewsnow Před 3 měsíci +2

      its like some gossip from Sowetan nxa

    • @ThabsileDlamini-pl1ne
      @ThabsileDlamini-pl1ne Před 3 měsíci

      Part 2

  • @sindiswamnyanda8216
    @sindiswamnyanda8216 Před 3 měsíci +11

    "Bangi treater ngathi ngiyi serial killer"...😢😢😢😢... Hyooo. Imagine hearing this from someone who killed your sibling😢

    • @Mbalings
      @Mbalings Před 3 měsíci +3

      Ay mina bandla ngithi abamthakathe nje straight.

    • @FikileMbele
      @FikileMbele Před 3 měsíci

      Hi Sindiswa, the deceased lady was your sibling? May her soul rest in eternal peace

    • @Lebogang_Mathe
      @Lebogang_Mathe Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@Mbalingsme2 mbali nje ngiyamsaba she’s even laughing 😢

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci

      I am very much sorry if you are the sibling to the deceased.

    • @MissFlapps
      @MissFlapps Před 3 měsíci

      As opposed to…👂 Ntokozo isn’t normal in her head quite honestly. You just killed someone in broad daylight.. after serving a lite sentence (instead of a life )YOU STILL SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT YOU DID?🥺

  • @summer.magano4037
    @summer.magano4037 Před 4 měsíci +18

    I struggle to reconcile the heaviness of the events that transpired and how detached this lady is, you would swear she is telling someone else's story.

    • @Monae_gft
      @Monae_gft Před 4 měsíci +8

      I sense no remorse whatsoever 😢

    • @summer.magano4037
      @summer.magano4037 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Monae_gft none whatsoever 😏

    • @user-kh3dz8nb2m
      @user-kh3dz8nb2m Před 3 měsíci

      She is not remorseful, she is so detached from reality I feel she has a undiagnosed mental disorder.the way she laughing and talking her body language doesn't say Sorry .

  • @rosemary-kc3ox
    @rosemary-kc3ox Před 3 měsíci +42

    Life is cheap in South Africa it has no value . You kill somone in cold premeditated murdet and you get a second chance to move on like nothing.

    • @kitsontuli2713
      @kitsontuli2713 Před 3 měsíci +5

      That's the frustrating part!

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci +5

      kuzobasathwani,abulawe naye?👀

    • @nombonisongedle2185
      @nombonisongedle2185 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Shes not the only responsible for this situation.The boyfriend,the deceased and her.

    • @nombonisongedle2185
      @nombonisongedle2185 Před 3 měsíci +4

      The name of this boy is Waze wadlala ngabantwana babantu

    • @thotyelwanobanda3334
      @thotyelwanobanda3334 Před 3 měsíci +6

      This was her friend, betrayed by 2 people who are so close to you.. I'm not pleased with what she did.. But is she supposed to carry the coffin... She was jailed.. Let's leave God for the judgment

  • @Redbottoms1
    @Redbottoms1 Před 4 měsíci +76

    Can we at least respect the deceased who is the only victim in this situation, she is not a side chick because the boyfriend was not married. Furthermore…this boyfriend seems to love the victim more than the killer.

    • @zikhonazish8546
      @zikhonazish8546 Před 4 měsíci +12

      Indeed she was not 💯👍

    • @Christi.Azalea
      @Christi.Azalea Před 4 měsíci

      I agree atleast the title should be I killed the woman I shared a boyfriend with

    • @ntsako_nxu
      @ntsako_nxu Před 4 měsíci +12

      The day women learn to accept that you’re just a girlfriend as long as the guy hasn’t done the needful,there’s no side chicks in such situations, what worsens these types of things is that they give men children without a ring which in their heads means marriage ai.

    • @langutamacheke2412
      @langutamacheke2412 Před 4 měsíci +12

      True! The victim was another girlfriend. Sidechick is a woman who is in an extramarital affair with a married guy. She regarded herself as a 'wife' to a boyfriend who didn't even love nor respect her.

    • @tunzamassudi8142
      @tunzamassudi8142 Před 3 měsíci

      Sheeem to this lady she is not married but she is calling side shick...crazy girl she is possessed

  • @phumlanindlovu5653
    @phumlanindlovu5653 Před 4 měsíci +25

    Syabonga sis wam for sharing your story, wishing the best for the future and heal from your past.

  • @mandisatiti27
    @mandisatiti27 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Oh my BabyGal you had it hard even before you were born, your own father established a spirit of rejection in your life. I'm grateful to both your grannies for not abandoning you
    same as your mother and her family. May God be merciful upon you and your young ones. Age is still on your side, you can pick up the pieces and rebuild a beautiful life❤❤❤❤

  • @Sophisticated_Kitso
    @Sophisticated_Kitso Před 4 měsíci +27

    But we thank your honesty sisi.... we learning

    • @robbylebotha
      @robbylebotha Před 3 měsíci +1

      You're learning to not kill people? You didn't know this already 😂 yoh ai

    • @Sophisticated_Kitso
      @Sophisticated_Kitso Před 3 měsíci

      @@robbylebotha osa tlwayela masepa. Ake boleli lwena

    • @siposihletukela2194
      @siposihletukela2194 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@robbylebothaNop we are learning that it is important to stay away from toxic relationships and we get to understand traits of ama narcissists

  • @nontyatyambomashaya9454
    @nontyatyambomashaya9454 Před 4 měsíci +41

    This girl still needs counselling cause we don't see remorse in her face also because shes been through a lot as a young girl .She still needs to look at things as they were and are emotions shes lacking them shame 😔

    • @rotondwamudau9537
      @rotondwamudau9537 Před 3 měsíci

      Even in her voice I am not picking it up 😭

    • @MGold00
      @MGold00 Před 3 měsíci

      I think she doesn't have remorse yet cos she is still in denial cos the the fact that she still hasn't acknowledged where & how the lady died.

    • @mantoamamsika6925
      @mantoamamsika6925 Před 18 dny

      I'm not judging but I don't see any remorse. She was betrayed though and paid her price. I'm not supporting her ending the other lady's life

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Před 4 měsíci +43

    Unto was supposed to kill her boyfriend, instead of fighting the side chick

  • @nosiphomgeni4242
    @nosiphomgeni4242 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Part 2 Please❤!
    May the merciful God heal the family of the deceased including you sisi, and give wisdom to raise your kids well without a men.
    We cannot judge you we were not in your situation. We all have different blunders in life. Be well, forgive yourself and move on!

  • @summer.magano4037
    @summer.magano4037 Před 4 měsíci +25

    I am a little puzzled 🤔. The perpetrator diligently picked out a knife, concealed it, proceeded to get her child to safety in anticipation of some kind of confrontation and made her intensions clear to the bystanders of what she was about to do and yet she had the option to plead guilty to unintentional murder!!!?? The sequence of events indicate premeditation of the poorest precision of course but nonetheless INTENTIONAL. Had the victim not prematurely lost her life it would still be considered intentional grievous bodily harm. I do not mean to be insensitive because there are always nuances to these type of situations but it seems like more than anything the narrator was too caught up in the idea of not wanting to lose. May the young lady who lost her life so senselessly continue to rest in peace 💫.

    • @theSANewsnow
      @theSANewsnow Před 3 měsíci +1

      Definitely intentional

    • @mrsdubenxasana8619
      @mrsdubenxasana8619 Před 3 měsíci

      Absolutely I feel like 4 years sentence was another kick in the teeth to the deceased family members.

  • @kitsontuli2713
    @kitsontuli2713 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Things like this happen when you don't value or love yourself. You can never love someone to the extent of wanting to harm anyone you feel jealous or threatened by. Ladies love and respect yourselves enough to walk away... (Worse, the guy wasn't working)

  • @user-hl3wu5ln8j
    @user-hl3wu5ln8j Před 3 měsíci +23

    No1 deserves to die like that 😢may she rest in peace n wish the family can find peace as hard as it is...sending love to the deceased's family 💔

  • @mncedisiboosta6777
    @mncedisiboosta6777 Před 4 měsíci +16

    All I can say to the lady is,You are still young, beautiful, smart and capable to make it in life. Prison is not a life sentence ,every thing is possible with God, trust and believe in him.

    • @robbylebotha
      @robbylebotha Před 3 měsíci +2

      She was in prison for stealing jeans at a shop. She killed someone like a dog in the street, because she couldn't control her emotions. She planned it, she faked being happy, she killed and carried on like nothing happened.
      Maybe you should date her lol... I wonder if you'd sleep peacefully especially after an argument.

  • @thamikunene5131
    @thamikunene5131 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Sorry my sister 🙏. In future please think before you act. I know sometimes pressure and external circumstances, and frustration can make you do things that you will regret later. Stay strong siswam, God will help you. Condolences to the family who lost her daughter because of a childish guy who created a very bad situation between two ladies. This Guy unenhliziyo embi usathane and nguye odale yonke lenkinga. Please put all your faith to God. Very sad story 😭😭

  • @mncedisiboosta6777
    @mncedisiboosta6777 Před 4 měsíci +20

    Yhoo!!!..what a sad story, this lady is a good narrator. Can we please have a Part 2...

  • @alllove1392
    @alllove1392 Před 3 měsíci +20

    Kaze ujola nobani manje cos some men cheat ,is she gonna kill again, she must stay away from umjolo she will destroy other lives. this girl is cold hearted there is no excuse.

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci

      Ucinga kanje everyday or uloyiwe?🍋

    • @alllove1392
      @alllove1392 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@PeacefulPromises312 Ngilowe wuwe im sure. kodwa vele birds of the same feather flock together im sure nawe ungabulala if u have not already.

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@alllove1392 hayi sundfaka ezingxakini zakho nantsika "flock of the ..." hay cima,mekwenzenjani ngoku?😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣hay khome whuzet ngoku

    • @alllove1392
      @alllove1392 Před 3 měsíci

      @@PeacefulPromises312 Wena uzifake ku comment yami, uhlanganaphi ku comment yami skhohlakali ndini.

    • @alllove1392
      @alllove1392 Před 3 měsíci

      @@PeacefulPromises312 U commenting on every comment yini she is your family? ungazo sangana la wena scefe.

  • @zolakayise7188
    @zolakayise7188 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Thank you for sharing your story. A woman is a woman's worst enemy. May the all concerned find peace. I understand reasoning and thought process that led to this event. Excuses aside, it's just a sad story all around.

  • @mfanelomdunusana5087
    @mfanelomdunusana5087 Před 4 měsíci +25

    Wow so sad man,I love you lady, what's done its done ,the good God will forgive you and I forgive you

  • @amandasuka1237
    @amandasuka1237 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This is very sad yhaz coz usisi feels justified ngobulala this other woman whereas bebebhanxwa boyitwo nguguy😥💔
    Uguy yena is probably busy enjoying his best life.. carrying on nobu selfish bakhe😏

  • @TheyenaSihlangu
    @TheyenaSihlangu Před 3 měsíci +19

    Basically, two girls died that day. My heart breaks, girls and thier first time. How we define this issue killed are lot of women literally. How many girls committed suicide because of this one thing that. Eish..... And Many walking dead because of these, how many women are going through hell, "because he was my first. "
    People must share their experiences to save a life, because either you die, kill or punish their bodies because you feel like you have no value anymore.

  • @olgamokhohleso
    @olgamokhohleso Před 3 měsíci +5

    My princess.Im happy your a testimony to as..I love 💕 you..God be with you and your children..

  • @maxine6933
    @maxine6933 Před 3 měsíci +3

    The killer has zero remorse. She is all smiles like she killed a chicken. No justice in SA

    • @mantoamamsika6925
      @mantoamamsika6925 Před 18 dny

      There's people who express any kind of situation in smiles, even in a serious situation they would even laugh. It happens even though it potrays a negative imagine about them

  • @bethhlongwane1808
    @bethhlongwane1808 Před 3 měsíci +15

    She's not normal, my jaw been dropping 😮, no remorse or whatsoever

    • @mazwideamahle4091
      @mazwideamahle4091 Před 3 měsíci +3

      So casual about the entire thing, yoh!

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci

      Awrhaleli kuzithuka? ndikunika ichance zithuke. nive nibemuncu noba akhoneed nina.

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci

      @@mazwideamahle4091 apho ngesithini abeformal njengawe? ayinguwe moss lo or?

    • @mazwideamahle4091
      @mazwideamahle4091 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @nikitasigowadifferent363 maybe the real person you should be questioning here is yourself....we talking murder, not a walk in the park here, someone's child lost their life.

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci

      @@mazwideamahle4091 SO WHAT MUST HAPPEN,MUST SHE ALSO BE KILLED. YOU MAKING IT AS IF YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE EMPATHETHIS. I CAN IMAGINE HOW THE DECEASED FAMILY IS FEELING BUT AS SOMEONE WHO IS NOT IMMUNE TO MISTAKES NDIFUNA UVA NGAWE UBA URHALELWA KWENZEKENI?

  • @mvuzowenkosimaq646
    @mvuzowenkosimaq646 Před 3 měsíci +15

    It hurt because she doesn't look like uyazisola or uyabona her mistake mxm

  • @BasaniShilubane
    @BasaniShilubane Před 2 měsíci +4

    I want to highlight to anyone who hears voices that you need to be delivered from evil demons. Is a sign of severe depression that can Lead to mental illness .Many poeple committ Suicide ,please check on your children.

  • @user-tk4mg8mv3p
    @user-tk4mg8mv3p Před 3 měsíci +7

    Mna I understand nkosiyam and I hope unkulunkulu akuxolele,sibhlungu istory sakho

  • @nomaphelomyataza737
    @nomaphelomyataza737 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Uguy actually loved Phumzile more than you😢 i wish you chose yourself and removed yourself from that situation and raised your baby alone but whats done is done💔

  • @sandagcadinja8045
    @sandagcadinja8045 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Killed someone for a man that hated you, he showed you so many times that he hated you. We hai bandla

    • @theemapsmash
      @theemapsmash Před 3 měsíci +1

      The way I see it, she was young, she met him when she was 15, she wasn't fully developed to make proper decisions. I don't support wat she did but there was a Lil bit of misunderstanding on her side as she was young.

  • @Nomhle965
    @Nomhle965 Před 3 měsíci +2

    It's a lesson not to get too attached to a person . Mentally , spiritually physically and otherwise

  • @zanelenhlapho1403
    @zanelenhlapho1403 Před 3 měsíci +4

    You were young and having that mantaliity of most woman think of. I forgive you 🙂. Condolences to the family of the decease. May you please forgive her too. Zixolelwa zibomvu although I know the quensiquensis of the pain and trauma you were going thru and still into it now, Ngiyamxolisela ugal . P2 please.

  • @sinethembamagasela1833
    @sinethembamagasela1833 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This lady is heartless and the way she has narrated her story she sounds as someone who committed a premeditated murder, and as far as I'm concerned she doesn't seem remorseful whatsoever. I have picked up that she doesn't want to FULLY take accountability of her role in this whole situation, she is victim blaming the late girlfriend even the words she used she "provocked" her etc, she has the audacity to blame everybody else but herself because she also played her role. Now the child of the late girlfriend has to grow up without a mother because of a selfish act caused by this lady its sad. Moving forward this lady must release all this HATRED and ANGER that she harbors within herself.

  • @bongiwencayiyana220
    @bongiwencayiyana220 Před 4 měsíci +29

    What a drama what a mess ngenxa kaskhotheni ongasebenzi ongenalo nothando hayi anenhlanhla lamadoda angenamsebenzi walutho yhooooooo I feel sorry for the family of the deceased 💀kunzima emhlabeni.😢😢😢

  • @Baldandbeaut
    @Baldandbeaut Před 3 měsíci +4

    Yoh please she has a chance to reside her child while the other kids lose their mother? Ende no remorse

  • @pearlnyawoza7765
    @pearlnyawoza7765 Před 4 měsíci +13

    8 years for killing someone is mad business😢

    • @robbylebotha
      @robbylebotha Před 4 měsíci

      Female privilege. She’s the victim and the man is the demon. Oh and she was hormonal so nje, she’s not at fault for anything. It’s justified because she was sad. And the guy is a bad guy for testifying against a cold blooded murderer 😂, how dare he. Mind you, forget that this person killed someone’s mother and daughter over a man. She’s nothing. The real victim is this beautiful lady.
      Ya ne… society and its triple double standards.

    • @tlhogikgomo
      @tlhogikgomo Před 3 měsíci +5

      Worse, she was in jail for how long? A year or 2? This hurts. In SA people's lives are of no value.

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 Před 3 měsíci

      Yoooh uyazi so

    • @PeacefulPromises312
      @PeacefulPromises312 Před 3 měsíci

      Uthini ngoku wena?

    • @user-zl4lp5vv2m
      @user-zl4lp5vv2m Před měsícem

      8 years for murder is crazy

  • @SunshineZar
    @SunshineZar Před 2 měsíci +1

    So this girl is not even remorseful for killing someone? Not once did I hear her say she is. A murderer because of a boy??

  • @Anele_M
    @Anele_M Před 3 měsíci +39

    It is so unsettling to hear a lack of remorse for such a tragic and irreversible act.

    • @DiseboMosia
      @DiseboMosia Před 3 měsíci +9

      She lacks remorse 😢. I'm shocked 😲 😢. I.wonder if she's well mentally 😢

    • @Mbalings
      @Mbalings Před 3 měsíci +3

      Mele acoshe amaphepha.

    • @ZinhleSekwane-zj7bt
      @ZinhleSekwane-zj7bt Před 3 měsíci +1

      I'm also worried yazi 😢😢😢
      All smiles and laughing ukhuluma ngenja nje yendoda. Worse ngalomuntu odlulile emhlabeni ngesandla sakhe.......so sad ngomufi

    • @LLBaddest15
      @LLBaddest15 Před 3 měsíci

      She needs serious help

    • @Zinhletshbll
      @Zinhletshbll Před 3 měsíci +1

      And she is still not taking responsibility, saying that the "voices" mad her kill someone, she can't remember. This is clearly a narrative she stated for her defense in court, LOL.

  • @yvonnemdaka3125
    @yvonnemdaka3125 Před 3 měsíci +13

    The story of this lady is touching, but please we want part two 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sekoaib
    @sekoaib Před 3 měsíci +11

    We girls can be so naive growing up I also thought my first boyfriend was the One and we would be together forever 😂

  • @Ucntando
    @Ucntando Před 3 měsíci +11

    Don't stay kuma toxic relationships kugcina kunje

  • @gidelamkwanazi
    @gidelamkwanazi Před 3 měsíci +4

    We need to teach our girls self love. Choose yourself in any situation ❤

  • @KHOSI.D.KHUMALO
    @KHOSI.D.KHUMALO Před 3 měsíci +2

    She's still justifying her actions. A family lost a loved one and a kid is motherless because of her yet she shows no remorse.🤢🤮

  • @ernestmotsamaimolefe423
    @ernestmotsamaimolefe423 Před 3 měsíci +3

    It is really tough to deal with anger issues. “Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.” It's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.”

  • @user-ih4dy2mg9l
    @user-ih4dy2mg9l Před 3 měsíci +2

    Gal we all learn from our mistakes,who r we to judge may God b with u n the family u killed their daughter,n hv space in their hearts to forgive u Amen😢🙏

  • @mongezimaonga
    @mongezimaonga Před 4 měsíci +17

    Its sad to see how the thought of just loving someones child can destroy and damage your life so much! Sad story.
    Looking forward to the part two. I am touched.

  • @Beekay10132
    @Beekay10132 Před 4 měsíci +51

    Sgaxa after sgaxa unprovoked. Self love is important

  • @trishngobeni9758
    @trishngobeni9758 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Part 2 but its a lesson to our daughters that loosing virginity to someone even if you love him that doesn't mean u have to throw Yourself lesson 1 and two they were red flags that this guy was a user or telling himself is a king having different kids and you still go and fell pregnant again that triggered your anger and the least if a boy or man love you will never be promiscuous around or near you will respect you hope gorls are learning

    • @catormofokeng9198
      @catormofokeng9198 Před 3 měsíci

      Lesson 2
      Gents, if you're a player and you think you have someone's daughter in the palm of your hands. STOP! That's a ticking time bomb... hell will break loose when it explodes

  • @user-jm1xt9gu4d
    @user-jm1xt9gu4d Před 3 měsíci +2

    Cc, ebudlelwaneni, amathanga ahlanzela abangenama bhodwe,uqotho udinga umuntu ozokuthanda , athembeke kuwe,awusuye umbulali kwaba iphutha, ngenxa yalendoda eyayisilingo kuwe, siyabonga ngoba siyakubona usungaphandle, uyaphila,nabantwana bakho bayaphila❤

  • @Sinojay97
    @Sinojay97 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Ingamnandi le podcast if ebekwazi ubuza imibuzo ebhadlileyo uChris sana

  • @thuladumakude2511
    @thuladumakude2511 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Devil is a master of destroying people's life sorry my sister Iknow exactly the situation you were in,when demons full force you to do wrong,(my advice for you is to Hide in prayer)

  • @keaolebogambanjwa110
    @keaolebogambanjwa110 Před 3 měsíci +4

    what I've learned is that man will turn you into something you are not ..I started seeing myself breaking things in the house ...Im on my healing process and I dont ever want to see myself hurt like that for the person who doesnt value me ...sis get therapy ..may the other lady rest in peace ..she didnt deserve to lose a life over a man

  • @NkosinathiMasango012
    @NkosinathiMasango012 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hopefully this episode will also teach men to know that akudlalwa ngama ntombazane. Playing girls in this way can have serious repercussion.

  • @Funeral1000
    @Funeral1000 Před 4 měsíci +11

    Thanks God for the internet we get to learn more about men and women in the townships our conditions make us behave in a very evil way I am glad Chris keeps bringing all these victims and instigators we need to know our surroundings as for the lady I cant judge her she is a victim of circumstance so far no one I know has survived impilo yase loskhin

  • @Mbalings
    @Mbalings Před 3 měsíci +11

    She should be in prison. Honestly. Not on podcasts spewing entitlement.

  • @mzansileadersandbeyondnetwork
    @mzansileadersandbeyondnetwork Před 3 měsíci +3

    the interviewer is seeking justice like me. he is not fine with the fact that she stabbed the wrong person😂

  • @babalwamvulana3095
    @babalwamvulana3095 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Eish yazi ndiyayiva yonke lento abantwana benu are siblings 🙆‍♀️yeer umamakho wabulala umamam hayi izoba nesono lendoda🤞🏻yhuu

  • @sinegugudladla8870
    @sinegugudladla8870 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I won't judge you sweetheart what they done to you it big and i understand.they are the one's who destroyed you.
    But i thank God who controlled my feelings when i was on the same situation as yours at the age of 17 but i chose to move on.
    I'm happy with my decision I moved on with my life

    • @alllove1392
      @alllove1392 Před 3 měsíci

      But she was not married she was also a girlfriend and that girl was not a side chick he was dating both of them, why not leave the relationship instead of killing someone, nah she is evil period

  • @nkosinathingwenya6162
    @nkosinathingwenya6162 Před 4 měsíci +13

    "That will be the day when 7 women will gang up on 1 man, saying, We'll take care of ourselves, get our own food & clothes. Just give us a child. Make us pregnant so we'll have something to live for!" - Isaiah 4:1.
    Indeed some men have all the luck. While some men lose their virginity to strippers(hola Chris😉) ; Our guest's ex broke her virginity, has 2 children with her, provoked her to prison & had side chicks.
    The scriptures don't lie.
    Thank you my Sister for sharing your story & Chris Network may you keep growing.

  • @yvonnemdaka3125
    @yvonnemdaka3125 Před 3 měsíci +5

    The boyfriend was a crook and both girls the deceased and the culprit both falls in the trap of the irresponsible boyfy, and it resulted in one child losing a mother and two kids losing a plus one kid losing the stupid father 💔😭

  • @StrategicTumi
    @StrategicTumi Před 2 měsíci +2

    And yet none of these women had a marriage certificate. Ladies please do better. Wake up.

  • @user-ml1ge2qc8t
    @user-ml1ge2qc8t Před 4 měsíci +6

    Matter of a good girl gone bad, because of a foolish man

  • @chris-rosemlam8776
    @chris-rosemlam8776 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Life is hard. I feel her pain although she hides it. I wish she heals from the abuse and may God forgive her and heal her .

  • @xiluvamitileni3004
    @xiluvamitileni3004 Před 3 měsíci +19

    8 years was too little.... sis is not even showing remorse. The host yena why is he shocked that the guy came to testify, so sis was suppose to get away with murder

    • @diphalepashe5361
      @diphalepashe5361 Před 3 měsíci +4

      You are out of control

    • @xiluvamitileni3004
      @xiluvamitileni3004 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@diphalepashe5361 someone died, someone lost their mother, sister daughter and how am I out of control???

    • @abongilenombombo3016
      @abongilenombombo3016 Před 2 měsíci

      I am so disappointed with the interviewer yoh