HEALING A CRUSHED SPIRIT by rc blakes

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    HEALING A CRUSHED HEART by Bishop RC Blakes
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Před 2 lety +385

    THANKS FOR STOPPING IN. Please LIKE 👍

  • @suskelleykelley7241
    @suskelleykelley7241 Před 2 lety +715

    Never want or desire a man who doesn't want you!! It's his loss. Learn to love YOU more than a jerk

    • @GodsLove911
      @GodsLove911 Před 2 lety +18

      ❤️💕💕 Frogs can't live with Royalty!!!!

    • @tynaangelici3023
      @tynaangelici3023 Před 2 lety +36

      Thank you. this is what I’m dealing with right now.six months later still trying to heal.

    • @Sdollrossi
      @Sdollrossi Před 2 lety +22

      Yeah but how does one begin to love themselves? It’s easier said than done I don’t know how to start

    • @rpw6033
      @rpw6033 Před 2 lety +6

      Even if you are married to that man.

    • @k.prince6799
      @k.prince6799 Před 2 lety +28

      @@Sdollrossi Queen you just have to know that you are valuable and worthy of the highest form of healthy love. Begin with The Word which teaches us how to love ourselves and others. Then set your standards/boundaries/consequences for relationships/friendships. Anyone who doesn't align with them should not be in the forefront of your life. Best wishes on your Self-Love journey. ❤

  • @letmebelovedwithoutthefake7100

    🙌🏽 Heal Lord! Everyone that comes across this video. In the name of Jesus….🙏

  • @kita-1116
    @kita-1116 Před 2 lety +281

    Don’t let being crushed guide you into another bad/toxic relationship. Some people have sensors for broken women and are predators towards them. Love on yourself and remember to aim high... AND recognize those early red flags to save yourself future heartache. Don’t be a desperate/low esteem dater. ❤️

    • @amberensminger7247
      @amberensminger7247 Před 2 lety +12

      This is amazing advise Ms.Kita I need to learn how to walk away when red flags presents themselves 💗

    • @meetai1774
      @meetai1774 Před 2 lety +14

      These are WISE words I never knew these types of people existed and it’s true it was at my lowest broken point when a cruel person found their way in…. Do not let this happen to you if you are reading this❤️‍🩹 look to GOD not to others and He will heal you..

    • @kimberly0717
      @kimberly0717 Před 2 lety +13

      Yes, most men can detect vulnerability or weakness due to their hunter instincts. My mom always told us to “never jump from the pot into the frying pan”.

    • @jimmylittle9295
      @jimmylittle9295 Před 2 lety

      @@meetai1774 c

    • @shebrownsuga
      @shebrownsuga Před 2 lety +2

      Amen

  • @northshorelight35
    @northshorelight35 Před rokem +42

    Yes. I have had my heart crushed. God answered my prayer though. He sent me the most amazing man ever and that man married me.

  • @soposh5671
    @soposh5671 Před 2 lety +350

    “Nothing good comes from holding onto something that’s clearly dead”.. Wow!

  • @kadinsmomma07
    @kadinsmomma07 Před rokem +117

    "Allowing your heart to break, so your soul can heal" 🥺😭😭

  • @lakeshasykes1860
    @lakeshasykes1860 Před 2 lety +253

    Thank you so much for sharing this. My heart has been shattered for the past 6 months over the end of a 4 yr. situationship. My emotions and heart manipulated and abused. In counseling right now to help me to heal from this. Nothing more painful than realizing you didn't mean as much as what you thought you did to someone you loved. Thanks you RC Blakes Jr.

    • @coleenchapman8889
      @coleenchapman8889 Před 2 lety +22

      Lakesha Sykes it’s the worst pain!!! I was blindsided by this revelation but trying to get stronger.

    • @kimberly0717
      @kimberly0717 Před 2 lety +29

      Remember that is a issue with that person not you! Some people lack the ability to appreciate or value gifts. The right person will see YOU without you trying! 💞

    • @monicanicole738
      @monicanicole738 Před 2 lety +11

      I’m here with you 😔💔

    • @T.pattzem
      @T.pattzem Před 2 lety +8

      I feel this too , it sucks

    • @shadiamonforever21
      @shadiamonforever21 Před rokem +8

      I’m sorry! Praying for your comfort and peace

  • @brettswiferose50
    @brettswiferose50 Před 8 měsíci +26

    Had my heart crushed by a soul tie and i asked God take this weight off of me, i wanted the pain to pass...I cried for 7days before God lifted it from me

  • @Sonya21786
    @Sonya21786 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I have watched this over and over for continual healing. This ministry is such a blessing.

  • @d.l.w.3916
    @d.l.w.3916 Před 2 lety +201

    Yes. Betrayal is a hurt that is incredibly hard. I’m there now.

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Před 2 lety +7

      Move forward thru it.....
      there will be scars. Proof you survived.💕

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Před 2 lety +11

      Yes, Betrayal is Personal & is unexpected ....it's not from an enemy. Those wounds cut deep. It's a slow healing process because this pain isn't physical. Forgiveness is where healing will begin.
      Been there, still healing...it's only by the grace of God. 🙏

    • @lynellb
      @lynellb Před 2 lety +7

      @@rosemariefrusteri4087 grace of God indeed. It was unbearable but I knew I had to cycle through the emotional hurt in order to move forward.

    • @nataliemoore9965
      @nataliemoore9965 Před 2 lety +4

      I will pray that you move pass the pain

    • @nadinehammonds1312
      @nadinehammonds1312 Před 2 lety

      Incest...."given men my heart but they gave me a dagger."

  • @talentedt5080
    @talentedt5080 Před 2 lety +363

    This will be a great topic to speak on because after going through a heartbreak and feeling disappointment your feelings do hurt but we have to remind ourselves that God will mend a broken heart he’s done it for me even though I’m still in my healing three after realizing I was a narcissistic Situationship I’m just glad God has kept me through it all and I am much wiser now🙏🏽💯💜

    • @nolajones366
      @nolajones366 Před 2 lety +21

      Same here keep the faith God has it all under control

    • @jenniferadderley2566
      @jenniferadderley2566 Před 2 lety +30

      I was also in a narcissist situationship. It's a blessing how God show his children through pruning and give us the knowledge to move forward with the lessons we learn from those type of situations. To become stronger and wiser. We are Queens that deserve much more with Godifidence. May God continue to strengthen you through the healing process, you got this God got you with his Greatness. In Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏❤ 👑

    • @almacolic
      @almacolic Před 2 lety +8

      same here 🙏🙌♥️

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Před 2 lety +11

      It's unfortunate, I understand it all to well.
      Keep movin forward & shining your light & love

    • @latoyam1785
      @latoyam1785 Před 2 lety +16

      Thank you for sharing your journey! Gives me more hope! I wasted 3 years and when I walked away from a narcissistic relationship, I left heartbroken and disappointed! God is Good! He’s been pulling me through each day…..bad or good! I don’t wish this feeling on anybody! Narcissistic abuse is real and it just leaves you numb and confused! I gave my all and he was never satisfied! But there is light at the end of the tunnel with God! Finally moved to another state and finally feeling a sense of peace….God’s Peace! Thank You Lord!❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @sharhughes1086
    @sharhughes1086 Před 2 lety +115

    God will mend and heal a broken heart! They say time heal all wounds, that's God and his healing power by his stripes you are healed!

  • @RLC8093
    @RLC8093 Před rokem +6

    I remember being in a broken place and never seemed like the pain was going to end, but let me tell you, take it 1 day at a time and it gets easier, but make sure you heal completely because if not you will fall into the same trap over and over until you finally get it right. After i was set free I said to God, I FINALLY GOT IT! AND BE GETTING BLESSED EVERY SINCE. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!

  • @KL-pq3mz
    @KL-pq3mz Před 2 lety +161

    Yes. Been crushed almost beyond repair. Just ground zero devastation! So thankful for God and for this channel! Yes Bishop Blakes, your so right! On the healing journey to repair this brokenness. Never lose hope and faith in what can be! Never lose your shine ✨ and never give up. God has you! He has you! 💝💝

    • @haileywilliams2108
      @haileywilliams2108 Před 2 lety +7

      I’m going though a crushed heat right now

    • @MODISHYE
      @MODISHYE Před 2 lety +8

      Yes he does, it hurts for the moment but once you allow God to heal you , comfort and trust Him 100% He will restore you and give you the peace that surpasses all understanding.

    • @lelo46
      @lelo46 Před 2 lety +4

      I am too. I would love to know what you’re going through…

    • @pendomayeka588
      @pendomayeka588 Před 2 lety +3

      Painful but wise fatherly counsel.Bless you Bishop Blake's on time message

    • @CC-br9qg
      @CC-br9qg Před 2 lety

      God bless you sister.

  • @lynnec8832
    @lynnec8832 Před 2 lety +227

    He's the best. I'm watching from N. Cali.. I discovered Pastor Blake 4years ago, coming outta a dark, lost place Abusive relationship...... BUT GOD!! I watch his videos daily at least 2 a day.. impacted my life, role model father figure. Thank you Pastor. God bless everyone watching as well. ✝️

    • @BC-qb2vw
      @BC-qb2vw Před 2 lety +6

      Watching from northern cali too! Blessings to you sis 🙌🏽

    • @jenniferjones3657
      @jenniferjones3657 Před 2 lety +10

      Keep walking Sis. I have been through and restorative power of God is just amazing. Oh the peace that resides in my home. I would not trade this peace for nothing.

    • @mrsbutterflyrainbows5900
      @mrsbutterflyrainbows5900 Před 2 lety +2

      God bless 🙌you. From 🇵🇱Poland

    • @LarennPBel
      @LarennPBel Před 2 lety +2

      Yessssss I understand that. I started watching his stuff at the end of 2019

    • @constanceconnor7908
      @constanceconnor7908 Před 2 lety +4

      God bless you as well. I'm so grateful for discovering Pastor Blake's I've had so much Devastation in my life over the past few years and I'm trying to patch my everything back together! Heart so health everything has been shattered but I know that God is working and better things will be coming. Always keep the faith

  • @CH-tp3re
    @CH-tp3re Před 2 lety +31

    11 years with a broken narcissist. The PTSD is real. I have God Our Lord Jesus Christ leading this healing I need ..

  • @viviananderson7663
    @viviananderson7663 Před rokem +22

    I am getting over a narcissist relationship. I didn't realize what was happening to me, until I started listening to your messages. I thank God I found your messages

  • @Shrimpylo
    @Shrimpylo Před 2 lety +138

    I called off my wedding 5 months ago and this message was posted just in time. thank you Pastor Blakes

    • @PyrPupMom
      @PyrPupMom Před 2 lety +17

      So much better to call it off, than to go through incredible pain... Then a divorce... I know!

    • @carterthegamernoob6128
      @carterthegamernoob6128 Před 2 lety +11

      God bless you sister for your strength and healing ❤️‍🩹

    • @ellenjohnson5323
      @ellenjohnson5323 Před 2 lety +9

      Thankfully you called it off. God will mend your broken heart.

    • @aminamaradesa9778
      @aminamaradesa9778 Před rokem +15

      i admire your courage...

    • @lizashone1976
      @lizashone1976 Před rokem +2

      Good for you!!

  • @Banyi570
    @Banyi570 Před rokem +18

    Your teachings have changed my life. No longer a slave to my weaknesses. I’m Queen conscious. Woke ❤

  • @DeemMeBeautiful
    @DeemMeBeautiful Před 2 lety +91

    My God the level of revelation I’m receiving from this teaching!!! I was in the middle of a mental/emotional breakdown all yesterday!!! Dysregulated, Ruminating and obsessing smh This is so on time!!! God wants me HEALED

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Před 2 lety +10

      Keep your eyes on Our Father. Be in the moment.
      You are never alone.

    • @robinc5226
      @robinc5226 Před 2 lety

      Ugh. Same. Right now. So dysregulated. 😩😩😩

    • @lawandalh2387
      @lawandalh2387 Před rokem

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @Albastar7869
      @Albastar7869 Před rokem +1

      Same...so exhausted, but don’t seem to be able to stop this.

    • @charisselewis5401
      @charisselewis5401 Před rokem

      I would like to know how you all are feeling now?

  • @geek5908
    @geek5908 Před 19 dny +1

    You are blessing to us Bishop RC BLAKES, will keep listening to you till I completely break free from a 16year situationship, you give me hope

  • @heyonope7682
    @heyonope7682 Před 2 lety +47

    This is for me, choose pain of holding on or choose pain of letting go... he can go ! Opening door to Gods best 🙏 🙌

  • @MsVMirka
    @MsVMirka Před rokem +34

    10/13/2022- I choose to let go of the pain of holding onto the dead relationship I had. Though it is painful to move forward and deal with myself, I choose to grow through this. In Jesus name!!! Amen!

    • @susannabbosa9415
      @susannabbosa9415 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I choose to do the same today, the27/11/23!Praise God!

  • @jamekac.stuckey3228
    @jamekac.stuckey3228 Před 2 lety +28

    I take full accountability for how I feel and what I’m going through right now. Again, I’m loving myself enough to walk away from the things that no longer serve me.

    • @nicoleoneal5115
      @nicoleoneal5115 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I am with you on this, I am also taking full responsibility for my action that should have never been compromised,

  • @lynellb
    @lynellb Před 2 lety +19

    "u need to feel the pain"..so very true. As badly as it hurts, sit in the pain and process it. I learned so much from this experience. Be sure to include God in the healing...🙏🏾💕 Be patient with yourself and don't rush the process. 😘

    • @markesastewart4741
      @markesastewart4741 Před 2 lety +1

      I have sista come this choosing to devorce beating myself ... Forgiving myself being kind to me failing forward to becoming the best version of myself unapologetically 🙏🏾💜💕😭💐 I'am above never beneath .. finally putting distance inspite of how I'am feeling.Embracing my new Direction.😘 sisterly love

  • @amieklein6043
    @amieklein6043 Před 2 lety +36

    I’ve fought for so long and I’m so so tired. My will is broken, trying to find my drive again and envision a new future. I just don’t want to be disappointed and burnt out again. Thank you for message as I keep healing.

  • @phoenixrising8007
    @phoenixrising8007 Před rokem +6

    Listen and enjoy your fav music instead of dancing to someone else’s tunes. Seek those who enjoy your tune

  • @aliatianna888
    @aliatianna888 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Idk. My heart has been heavy for a very long time. Just when I thought I met that special someone, disappointment came beating my behind again. I’m just now getting to the place where I can feel peace in my life. It’s taking time but I have so much to heal from. I’ve been single and not looking for about a year now. I plan to make it two. Next year My focus is on finishing school and meeting new friends 😊

  • @donnastotts6816
    @donnastotts6816 Před 2 lety +63

    I've been there...CRUSHED, the rebuilding part has been tough, but I am reminded of a song that says, Lord, DONT MOVE MY MOUNTAIN BUT GIVE ME THE STRENGTH TO CLIMB!! In this process, I have had a LOT of quiet moments with GOD...he has NOW been able to Minister to me without all the EXTRA chatter...

  • @alisha4232
    @alisha4232 Před 2 lety +4

    I lived in a marriage for 25 years of heart ache that he put me through. It took me three years of counseling to get my life back. And become a better woman.

  • @ruthwells3990
    @ruthwells3990 Před 2 lety +39

    I had my heart crushed and someone feet wrapped around my neck(figuratively) . But God’s loving Grace saved me!!!

  • @imralljoshae5978
    @imralljoshae5978 Před 2 lety +65

    Amen, God continues to pull me up from the pain I could never fathom!! I don’t wish divorce on anyone.

  • @anietieoduah9794
    @anietieoduah9794 Před 2 lety +27

    I'm crushed. Definitely am there. It's been 4 yrs and I'm ready to move on. It's very lonely and sometimes hopeless. Lord help

    • @Godlywoman88
      @Godlywoman88 Před 2 lety +3

      I can say the same. I've moved to a ew city 3 years ago, letting family and papers go. I have felt alone and as if there was no point for my life, along with many other emotions.

    • @valjean9581
      @valjean9581 Před rokem

      I hope you're better now

  • @nataliemoore9965
    @nataliemoore9965 Před 2 lety +7

    God keep giving me the strength and healing

    • @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024
      @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024 Před 2 lety

      Hello my name is Natalie too🙏. He will give us the strength and healing to move on😞😇

  • @chosen1612
    @chosen1612 Před 2 lety +10

    Mine heart has been crushed more than I like to admit but it wasn’t until the last time that I really stop and realized everything wasn’t normal… I had a wounded heart… But God…I finally stopped to reflect, learn and grow through the pain….lots of nights of tears… I’ve now been single for over 4 yrs healing and loving myself.., I feel confidence have forgiven myself yet still growing and healing but wiser 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️
    Thanks for your messages 🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️

    • @tommyfoster5616
      @tommyfoster5616 Před rokem +1

      How u do it ,,, 😢😭🙏🏽

    • @chosen1612
      @chosen1612 Před rokem

      @@tommyfoster5616 1. Lots of prayer 2. Strong conviction to do what’s right for me so I’m not played again… don’t believe the nonsense… 3. Journal thoughts a feeling…
      Why be with someone that doesn’t really care about you and playing games… you know the difference… if you go for the games you will end up hurt again…

  • @laceylynne5848
    @laceylynne5848 Před 2 lety +17

    I think the only ‘good’ thing that comes out of having a crushed spirit and heart.. is it makes you look at yourself in every single way possible. God has kept me isolated for a while now. But I went from being on a platform, to being all by myself. Warfare. Everything. But God makes beauty out of all things He loves. I think the best lesson I learned out of my last relationship I have to fix me first. And that means without projecting my toxic energy onto other people. Blessings pastor. 🙏🏽💕

  • @kingdomcome5262
    @kingdomcome5262 Před 2 lety +13

    Just reading the comments here ❤️🙏🏼 I'm in a season of my life of healing. I think what hurts is to finally come to the realization that when someone doesn't care about you, used you, called you out of your name.. and all you were simply doing was remaining obedient to God's instruction, but got taken for weak. Then you broke completely. It's a hard reality to face. From being so confident to God slowly picking me back up. 🙏🏼🕊️☀️

    • @bluebirdwing6021
      @bluebirdwing6021 Před rokem

      I so get this. God sees. He sees. 🎉

    • @tamisharowland4933
      @tamisharowland4933 Před rokem

      I feel like you're talking about me I'm trying to heal I was in a 17 year relationship I have two kids with him it's so hard I'm doing this by myself and all I do is cry and pray I feel so stupid because I stayed for so long

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Před rokem +1

      @@tamisharowland4933 You're not stupid. You hoped, you loved, you thought the kids needed that father in the home and you sacrificed. It's ok to be confused. I sure went through it too. It's so painful to find out when you finally do get out, that you caused for more damage than you ever could have guessed. You only realize this when you're on that other side, attempting to heal. Oh my, have I found this out. I felt foolish and made a fool (by his cheating and the nasty way he did it) for some time too. Now I give myself grace and love. What I'm going through to get to full healing is bad enough, I won't let myself or let the devil make it all the worse.

  • @promisegrace2248
    @promisegrace2248 Před 2 lety +34

    Been there I thank God for healing me it was not easy but the Heartbreak was necessary for me to open my eyes to see how mess up I was to praise God and give him the glory for healing me

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 Před 2 lety +18

    Very deep. I thought I had repented and was humble. After today's breakdown over my past. I really repented

  • @BC-qb2vw
    @BC-qb2vw Před 2 lety +48

    Meditation has deeply helped me become aware of the obsessive and destructive thoughts and clears my mind and spirit so that I may hear and receive messages from the divine 🙌🏽 I believe with all my heart that anyone on a spiritual path will deeply benefit from
    Developing a meditation practice 💫

    • @a.b.2405
      @a.b.2405 Před 2 lety +1

      I’m trying to be consistent with my meditation practice.

    • @charli2285
      @charli2285 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes amen, thank you for blessing my spirit. Crushed heart!

    • @charli2285
      @charli2285 Před 2 lety

      Tammy pastor tonight has been great with your wisdom!

  • @caur739
    @caur739 Před 2 lety +33

    This resonates strongly......a broken world full of broken people

  • @caranasser3710
    @caranasser3710 Před rokem +7

    It’s been about a year and a half. I’ve prayed and done everything I can think of and Im still devastated. I keep expecting it to get better.

  • @shannonmcgill8206
    @shannonmcgill8206 Před rokem +6

    I have been abandoned repeatedly and rejected, left without resources and feeling like I needed to lie when people asked me where my husband was. The crushing part was that I went through that more than once. 😭

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 Před 2 lety +100

    Yesss. I needed this today. Was really in tears about how bad I messed up my past. Thank you

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Před 2 lety +11

      Key word....."past". 💕👍

    • @francescahmulenga3265
      @francescahmulenga3265 Před 2 lety +3

      Amen

    • @lynellb
      @lynellb Před 2 lety +13

      Be sure to forgive yourself since u feel u messed up your past, forgive YOU...God gives us brand new mercies everyday, if he can have mercy on you why can't you have mercy on you? 😘💕🙏🏾

    • @kekebrown4119
      @kekebrown4119 Před 2 lety +6

      Yelp me too. I allowed people to break me down so many times because of my brokenness.

    • @jean_6524
      @jean_6524 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kekebrown4119 Amen,it's painful when I realized I wasn't perfect at all in my past.I had many spirits back then and pride was one of them. I was some of those bad words ppl called me back then. I didn't care because I had a good job. So therefore I thought everyone should just almost bow for me. I could go on.. but I felt your message spiritually and wanted to share.

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 Před 2 lety +66

    I needed this tonight Pastor. Yes I have had my heart crushed. Recently, as in the last few years and got tired of holding onto a group of co workers opposite of my personality and Wickedness and evil lived in them...including boss and supervisor. It was causing sickness, illness, and confusion. I let go 7/29. I Feel FREE to Live again. 🤗

    • @nicholajoseph1433
      @nicholajoseph1433 Před 2 lety +5

      I have the same identical situation. I had to hurry find a job to n my career field , and resigned in 6/30 . God bless pastor . Powerful msg

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 Před 2 lety +5

      Look into cassandra mack
      About work situations
      She's amazing
      Here on CZcams..
      I def had the work issue
      Still do...
      Her teachings have helped me understand i wasn't alone..
      She talks alot of work issues
      Friendship co workers
      Business pertners etc

    • @weireffie29
      @weireffie29 Před rokem

      Thanks for such hope and encouragement.

  • @fefeanng7
    @fefeanng7 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I’m over the broken hearts seriously after all these years of having them I mean damn, I only have one 😢. Thank you for this Sir

  • @AbsolutelyLinda555
    @AbsolutelyLinda555 Před 2 lety +30

    Ur as real as it gets I’ll NEVER LET this WISDOM GO 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽thank you

  • @khatanialemon1295
    @khatanialemon1295 Před 2 lety +22

    I feel my heart is crushing. What is sad about it is that I see everyone is happy with their life except me. I been crying most of the time. I been this way for a couple of months. I don’t have nobody to talk too.

    • @Tameka_White
      @Tameka_White Před 2 lety +3

      I’m so sorry for what your going through.

    • @susanmunyi5680
      @susanmunyi5680 Před 2 lety +7

      You have someone close to you that you can imagine talk to God who created you and who loves you so much God sees you hurting even if you don't feel His presence at the moment I assure you God is closer to you than you can imagine.

    • @allyb5156
      @allyb5156 Před 2 lety +1

      Khatania do you have a church home ?

    • @donnastotts6816
      @donnastotts6816 Před 2 lety +2

      Praying for you sis......you'll be alright. Keep your head up and look to the hills ....consider therapy, its helped me a LOT.. be blessed

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Před 2 lety +2

      I haven't had anyone to talk with.....so, I started writing.....I have years of journals. Try it....it's therapeutic. God bless you. Remember, you aren't alone.

  • @krystinmcadams4594
    @krystinmcadams4594 Před 2 lety +34

    I am happy to have found your channel. I def am crushed / broken / sour right now. Praying my heart out for a light at the end of the tunnel

  • @GaminGawdess
    @GaminGawdess Před 2 lety +49

    Thank you for your time pastor and for fighting through the low energy.🥰

  • @fakouabynum2385
    @fakouabynum2385 Před 2 lety +5

    often times we love and live in the fantasy of the personality of the person- job, money, looks, lifestyle (who dsnt value them) instead of waking up to who the person is in character. Hence, the unending abuse and pain. Find yourself first and ur values are the core foundations of all kinds of relationships

  • @nathaliejimenez110
    @nathaliejimenez110 Před rokem +8

    You mentioned around 23:30 about how..” you left my channel because somethings you didn’t want to hear.” I watched your channel probably more than 5 years ago. Today I am watching this in the process of healing from such a pain - I could’ve avoided if I would’ve watched more videos and had an open heart to God and trusting His path. Amazing that you said this. Grateful for your messages and my Heavenly Father’s huge mercies!

  • @jamned9758
    @jamned9758 Před 2 lety +2

    Listening from Europe. I was one of those women that cut you off 2 years ago. Was 44 years old then, was single for a while and was so desperate for a partner and thought I found my happily ever after. Was definetly not interested in your precautionary measures. Was so hopeful that I could treat him kind and he would eventually see how kind and sweet I was. Then I would become his wife.
    2 year later to say I am schattered would be an understatement. The man was already married and has his wife and children in his country of origin. I got played, got used and I am so broken, totally devastated with unspeakable pain.
    Lost my job, was unable to function at work. I feel useless, like a fool and a reject.
    At the moment I am binging on all your recording on CZcams. You and my bible are my counsellor. After listening to your recording entitled WALK, I implemented all those steps abd started to begin my healing process.
    Thank you and may God continue to bless you and your lovely wife.

  • @onelelabase1778
    @onelelabase1778 Před 2 lety +16

    I chose the pain of letting it go a couple of months ago, and after watching this video I broke down for the first time since
    I really thought I had this under control
    I have a lot of work to do.

  • @zuli7hernandez80
    @zuli7hernandez80 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you Lord, thank you Jesus for guiding me to this video in this moment. To guiding me to pastor Blake’s channel…this has brought me so much inside, knowledge, wisdom, healing…
    There are no coincidences. The Holy Spirit directed me here
    But tonight more than ever I needed this bc I’ve been really struggling with mending my broken heart/crushed spirit
    My mind has being obsessive
    And I’ve been hurting so much n can’t stop thinking abt him despite the fact that he hurt me so much, it’s been almost 5 mths since the break up (the fact that his my neighbor makes things that much harder bc I’m reminded everyday of what happened, pain, and the fact that he has already move on. It hurts like hell!!)
    But I thank you pastor Blakes. Thank you Jesus for his words
    This has helped me tremendously!
    This is so wonderful! ❤
    Thank you father god 🙏🏼
    In Jesus name I pray 🙌🏼
    This too should pass. I will heal. I will be patient n I will trust in you lord
    Amen

  • @ruthwells3990
    @ruthwells3990 Před 2 lety +24

    Man of God, I praise and thank you, you are a TRUE BLESSING, ALWAYS!!!!

  • @user-ih5hh9ox2o
    @user-ih5hh9ox2o Před 6 měsíci +2

    My heart has been crushed and still crushed, I'm seeking God

  • @tynaangelici3023
    @tynaangelici3023 Před 2 lety +3

    Everywhere I go I see happy couples. This is what I desire.

  • @lorrainedemarco4927
    @lorrainedemarco4927 Před rokem +7

    Excellent message! Every time I'm feeling weak and wanting to look back to my past, I just turn your messages on and listen to them and they guide me right back to God again. Thank you for investing your time and effort in us women, who find ourselves on the wrong path in life. Thank you for always pointing us back to God and reminding us that God can heal us and bring us the life that we hunger for one day. We just need to take your messages and actually apply them in our lives! Again, thank you 😊

  • @arikawi
    @arikawi Před 2 lety +33

    Ahhh yes, thank you sweet Jesus for this one tonight. And thank you to the good Pastor Blakes for his obedience to the Lord regarding what to speak to us about, every time. I’m praying in advance that the good Lord will grant us all the healing that we may need, and mend our broken hearts. Amen.

  • @viettehunter2854
    @viettehunter2854 Před 2 lety +28

    Yessssssss...I'm in this place! Divorce & the death of my mother...I feel like I'm on this journey alone! Brokenhearted!

    • @princesssawyer9345
      @princesssawyer9345 Před 2 lety +5

      I’ve been there, exact same place as you 3 years ago! Stay close to God! It’s the only way you will get through! To God be the glory🙌🏾 I can say I’m in a much better place

    • @kmack3202
      @kmack3202 Před 2 lety +3

      May God continue to bless you, I was at that exact point a year ago. By his Grace I’m still standing

    • @judithvenable3113
      @judithvenable3113 Před 2 lety +3

      I am so sorry for the loss of your mother and I pray for your strength as you journey through both situations. Divorce is a type of death, too, for so many hopes and dreams that you may have had for your marriage. However, after a season of pain and time for reflection and grieving, you will regain your joy. God can give you double for your trouble and "make your latter days, your best days." Think about Job and how he gained so much more after so much loss. Keep God at the forefront and talk to Him honestly about your feelings - the good, the bad, and the ugly. He already knows everything about you and is faithful to bless you in every area of your life!! You are not alone!

    • @viettehunter2854
      @viettehunter2854 Před 2 lety +2

      @@judithvenable3113 Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I will keep God first!

    • @viettehunter2854
      @viettehunter2854 Před 2 lety +1

      @@princesssawyer9345 Thank you so much!

  • @maiangellove8949
    @maiangellove8949 Před 2 lety +36

    It feels good to be happy alone. God bless you Pastor!💕

  • @Lifeisfun84
    @Lifeisfun84 Před 2 lety +11

    This man is spot on … always! ….. I was like why am I so hurt still after 6 months …. Everything he says was on my mind , so glad he explained this….. just keeping moving don’t stay stuck , stay with the proces …. Your feelings are not final…. Stay focus on the outcome… 🙏🏾

  • @theresanatiemumba9962
    @theresanatiemumba9962 Před 2 lety +12

    Am sharing this message with my girlfriend she just got a massive heartbreak.. she is struggling to let go but i believe upon her hearing this message something will shift within her ..Thank you Pastor , you have really been helping us

  • @susanhampton9671
    @susanhampton9671 Před 2 lety +22

    Thank you for speaking of your own "big smile", while attempting to regulate your emotions , going through your own personal trials. It is easy to think someone has it all together most of the time. The truth is, we never know the inner battles someone is facing. It was a relief to think most everyone has obsessive thoughts; we are normal.

  • @jenniferb5342
    @jenniferb5342 Před 2 lety +28

    Just purchased the book Father Daughter talk. Thank you to the person who recommended it!❤️

  • @Ashlynma
    @Ashlynma Před 2 lety +1

    I have been there and am currently there right now Pastor Blake's, I have been crying out to My Father God to comfort me for yet another failed relationship.
    I am tired, I believe I can do better through God's wisdom in my judgement on choosing men.

  • @AbsolutelyLinda555
    @AbsolutelyLinda555 Před 2 lety +13

    Thanks for sharing your DEPLETED ENERGY 🙏🏽UR APPRECIATED 🥰FEEL BETTER 🙏🏽

  • @speakinggracellc
    @speakinggracellc Před rokem +2

    Praise Jehovah Rapha for mental health healing🙌🏾 God Bless you @RCBlakesJr. for your sessions!

  • @lisaharris5473
    @lisaharris5473 Před 2 lety +8

    Pastor, I listen to your videos at least 2 or 3 times a day, to all scenarios in my Life from filing divorce in 2019 till now, still in court it has REALLY BEEN HELPFUL, no father as a leader 22 years of a marriage with to be said in my 40s... God knows 🙏 this has changed me Forever...blessings upon your ministry

  • @naticat15
    @naticat15 Před 2 lety +26

    This is SO timely. Speaking straight to my heart ❤️ Thank You.

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways Před 2 lety +10

    GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR BLAKES & MRS. BLAKES!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

  • @cindydelu4055
    @cindydelu4055 Před rokem +6

    I NEEDED THIS! Father God, heal us all.

  • @JudionSmith
    @JudionSmith Před 2 lety +11

    This is so amazingly profound. Too many of us seems broken beyond repair, but there is hope in knowing that God loves us too much to leave us broken. I had my experience for years to the extent of self-destruct and self-sabotage. It was a conscious decision not to heal. I was waiting for an apology, but one early morning the still small voice woke me up and said 'unless you forgive, you will never be free'. After my healing I was commissioned to speak on 'Matters of the Heart'.
    Life will hurt us all in different ways and at different times, but it is how we respond that determines whether we become a permanent victim or an overcomer who is healed, centred and whole. Pain will ooze out of our body one way or the other. Whether we become easily frustrated or angry. No more pretending it's not there. Its time to feel and then heal. The world will benefit more from the healed version of us. It is time to soar to new heights. Time to release the weight we are constantly carrying at the expense of a purpose worth pursuing. Healing is the new high and forgiveness is the new drive. Let forgiveness kick start the process. Sometimes, the misconception of forgiveness is what makes it difficult at times. As a result, I was inspired to write '12 Fundamental Truths about Forgiveness' to clear up the misconceptions. It is available on AMZ. All the best everyone. Let us stay close to Him who heal the broken hearted and bind up their wounds. x

  • @lscrap9567
    @lscrap9567 Před 2 lety +4

    This seems to be true in other relationships too. I need to be delivered from people, ie friendships that have been plagued with betrayal. God is moving me on but sometimes the discomfort shows itself. Thank God foe healing.

  • @lorettamarshall7577
    @lorettamarshall7577 Před 2 lety +2

    Yes, I am embarrassed RC Blake , I really am this is the best word that I didn't want to admit Amen.

  • @duaajaved3935
    @duaajaved3935 Před 2 lety +5

    I have been through this, Thank you RC blake for your teachings. I made a few mistakes in the past because I didn't know any better, got my heart crushed, loved people who never loved me back, lived in fantasies, settled for bare minimum quite literally because I was lacking a mans love. But now no more, I'm becoming aware of myself, my values, my worth. People might come in your life, who would not treat you right, who won't respect you and stuff but I will never let myself down for anyone, especially someone who won't earn it.

  • @tracylondon844
    @tracylondon844 Před rokem +2

    MY HEART HAS BEEN CRUSHED, BUT I THANK GOD FOR BEING THE HEALER

  • @BrittanyPOPins
    @BrittanyPOPins Před 2 lety +10

    Love this. It doesn't have to apply to just romantic relationships, but life situations as well 👏👏👏

    • @lscrap9567
      @lscrap9567 Před 2 lety

      Yes, that's what I just said too

  • @Rashmi_Motivation
    @Rashmi_Motivation Před 2 lety +6

    Let all broken heart heal🙏

  • @kendradamm1428
    @kendradamm1428 Před 2 lety +13

    Become comfortable with discomfort. Very good advice!! I needed this tonight. Thank you.

  • @RLC8093
    @RLC8093 Před 2 lety +5

    This man is truly God sent, his videos has really helped me overcome the worst heart break of my life, God truly speaks through him! Thank you Blakes, God is going to bless you even more for being obedient and doing HIs will. I'm back in the light ladies, no more darkness Hallelujah!

  • @lisam6907
    @lisam6907 Před 2 lety +15

    Such wise words..I really needed to hear this as I’m going through it

  • @gracemercy9599
    @gracemercy9599 Před 2 lety +5

    2 years listening to this Man of God, he never disappoint me, always learn something deep about myself and the whys of my situations. The grace he gives to the hurt and broken is a breath of fresh air. God may keep blessings his ministry so more Queens in transition make it to the other side of pain.

  • @spreadthegospel6667
    @spreadthegospel6667 Před 2 lety +19

    Always God sent messages! RC is so used by God. This is exactly what I am going through… I cannot wait to donate to ur ministry once I get paid! Thank you
    I WILL let it go! Time to move on and enjoy life and ALL God can do!!! Lesson Learned!

    • @spreadthegospel6667
      @spreadthegospel6667 Před 2 lety

      “The pain is necessary” 😖
      The pain aides in renewing our mind…
      We needed the pain to learn the necessary lessons…..

  • @rosieneal1530
    @rosieneal1530 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you and I pray that God bless you and give you the health and wholeness in Jesus name.

  • @mischelldavis7617
    @mischelldavis7617 Před 2 lety +1

    Broken Consciousness!! I lived this for a very long time. One day I said yes to walking away from the bondage that my mind and heart kept me attached to. Healing is an ugly process but ohhhh Lord!!! God creates the net of love through it all. Forever grateful

  • @GloAlston
    @GloAlston Před 2 lety +8

    I would like to listen to the opening song on repeat, it’s so empowering and someone to aspire to be!

  • @nomzamojele7100
    @nomzamojele7100 Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much Sir i have transformed a lot because of your teachings. God bless you

  • @kbraxt2613
    @kbraxt2613 Před 2 lety +4

    Absolutely have! Had my heart crushed.

  • @jaywill6783
    @jaywill6783 Před 2 lety +7

    Amen, it hurts like nothing else

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 Před 2 lety +6

    We need the pain to learn the necessary lessons. Yes we do. Thanks Pastor. I pray that we do learned from our pain 👏🏿

  • @PattiH-gj2xy
    @PattiH-gj2xy Před 9 měsíci +1

    More times than I care to admit. Working on turning that around -working on myself. That seems to always be the key. A door slammed in your face will enforce what's important...that's for sure.

  • @CC-br9qg
    @CC-br9qg Před 2 lety +3

    God bless. This message has brought me great comfort today in letting go and not giving up on myself and my higher purpose in life. Thank you so much.

  • @rayyjayy274
    @rayyjayy274 Před rokem +1

    I have a crushed heart! I left domestic violence 9 months ago after 17 years! I am so grateful for you Bishop and your content. I know almighty God brought me here! To learn that I am a queen and that I am chosen and worth so much more!!

  • @heathermadigan7199
    @heathermadigan7199 Před 2 lety +9

    Amen, have been there and still feeling it… Yes, I feel like the only one going through this!!! The pain is very hurtful. I felt like my heart was coming through my chest and devastated

    • @rosemariefrusteri4087
      @rosemariefrusteri4087 Před 2 lety +2

      Keep speaking to your Heavenly Father. He is & will use you. Keep your armor on soldier. God bless 🙏💕

    • @heathermadigan7199
      @heathermadigan7199 Před 2 lety

      @@rosemariefrusteri4087 Thank You, God Bless You as well🙏🙏😇😇

  • @thanksmuch8547
    @thanksmuch8547 Před rokem +1

    I found the only way to heal my crushed heart was when I hear Jesus Christ voice tell me he loves me first thing in the mornings when i open my eyes.
    When i hear my Heavenly Father sing his songs of deliverance over me in the nights after my divorce.
    When he touches me with healing my physical, emotional pains and promises me.
    There is so much Jesus has done, is doing & will do for those who love him and pray to him.
    It is not natural in my sinful life to want to read the bible as we are not aligned with God's Word but i pray to stay close to Jesus & he creates desire in the right places, he takes away sinful desires& opens up the scriptures to us for us to understand them in depth. What we don't understand, Jesus explains to us, through his Holy Spirit, or even sending his angels.
    So Jesus, true groom, our maker is our husband, who cleans our body & moves in with Father & make themselves known to us bringing more healing, grace, mercy through Holy Spirit.
    Directional purpose comes from Jesus Christ.

  • @shanievans2371
    @shanievans2371 Před 2 lety +6

    Happy and blessed to be here…joining from The Bahamas 🇧🇸. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @adiliaflowers4606
    @adiliaflowers4606 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this. Week ago I was disappointed. I’am asking my self why can’t I let go special I know it was on my best interest to let that man go . I’am so blessed to know that it is a process just don’t stay there. Now I feel so much better and I was able too let go.