10 Things I Don't Own As A Minimalist | things I stopped buying to get out of debt & live simply
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- čas přidán 4. 08. 2024
- Today I'm talking about 10 things I no longer own as a minimalist. And as someone getting out of a pile of student debt, these are 10 things i've also cut from my budget to save money.
What are some things you no longer own to either simplify your life, or save money?
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Intro 0:00
1) free samples 0:42
2) knick knacks 2:13
3) kitchen gadgets 3:13
4) obsolete tech 4:13
5) underwire bra 4:53
6) high heels 5:51
7) dryer sheets 7:10
8) dresses 7:55
9) skirts 8:47
10) holiday decorations 9:32
Outro 10:23
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What are some things you no longer own?
Skirts, high heels (still have some low block heels), kitchen gadgets (except garlic press and peeler), free samples, "swag bag" type stuff (like random branded pens and thermoses), extra canvas totes (why does every brand give these out now??)... I'm sure the list goes on!
Omg! ditching the skirts and dresses? I love you
I've gone through 5 cycles of clothes decluttering. I do enjoy some of my skirts and yeah I get rid of the ones I don't wear/like. Thanks for the inspo!
Clothes that I am not willing or look forward to wearing (i do easily drop and gain weight, so i keep 4 specific pants for that). Excess make up (1 liner, 2 small 🎨 and 3 lipgloss. I still find it a lot but i want to finish one of the pallet). Extra linens (i got one set that i use year round. Rugs, my apartment already has a carpet and i don't even like that. Dryer sheets. Extra plates.
I don’t own paper towels. There r a lot of shops on Etsy that make reusable paper towels made out of Cotten, flannel, bamboo etc... They will fit on a regular paper towel holder. When you’re done using them u just wash/dry and snap them back together on your roll. I stopped buying napkins and purchased cloth napkins. I stopped buying shave gel and just use soap. It probably only saves me about $40 a year, but every little bit counts. I have kids, so when they would go to grab a paper towel, they would use 4 to dry their hands and 2 napkins instead of one. I just got sick of nobody listening and following the rules to just use ONE. I just got sick of spending money on items that were just going in the trash.
The trick with free cosmetic samples is to use them before your holiday because they will run out of date before your holiday. And if you don't plan to use them donate to a women's domestic violence shelter. They need those free samples :) x
Oh the fantasy wardrobe... in my head I had this image of “successful, confident and business like” when it came to skirts, dresses, heels, ladylike $$$ handbags. I never EVER felt confident in any of these because I knew I was way more myself in flats and jeans/pants. 🤷🏻♀️
I can totally appreciate your thoughts on not wearing dresses or skirts. It’s so liberating when you realise something doesn’t work for you and you accept it.
Thank you for addressing these items in a “you do you” way. Sadly I have seen another minimalist say things like “you MUST get rid of jeans” because she does not like jeans. No-one is saying she has to wear jeans but I firmly believe everyone should choose what works for them and leave others to decide for themselves.
It's so interesting to hear your experiences and see similarities and differences to my own life. For example, I have actually decluttered in favor of dresses because I find them so much easier to style and wear! And I drop money on supportive bras because my larger bust needs them. But it just goes to show how it's different for each person, different results but the motivation is the same :)
Totally! Everyone’s preferences and needs are so different ❤️
Yes!! I did the same thing with dresses! They're so much comfier and easy to wear. I get "wow why are you so dressed up you must be judging my sweatpants right now lol" ALL THE TIME but I'm ok with it.
I so agree with you about the dresses, skirts, and heels. For years I tried to fit into that fantasy self image too, but I just can’t do them anymore. There is no point in trying to look good in clothes that are uncomfortable to wear.
I am on a journey to use up all the free samples... Been using foil pack shampoos and conditioners for months 😂 I used to try and use them up out of guilt, even if I didn't like the product, but no more! If I don't like it, it goes and I move on
You can put all the little shampoos into a container and put in just some of the conditioner packs and use it as a hand soap. I never had so well-scented, moisturized hands as when I used up all of my tiny shampoo rests or samples that I didn't want on my hair.
@@Nina-cd6uw interesting! I will have to keep that in mind. Thanks!
We use dryer balls instead of fabric softener, reusable make-up remover pads instead of disposable ones, bar shampoo instead of bottled shampoo, silicone baggies instead of plastic disposable bags, reusable coffee pods instead of the one use pods, cloth napkins rather than paper napkins, and we rarely waste food by eating all our leftovers....not necessarily a minimalist list of items rather the ways we try to reduce our carbon footprint...thanks to our 15 year old daughter.
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omg you are the sweetest 😭🥰
Your channel is my new favorite thing. Whenever you search minimalism you find a lot of "zen" stuff, nothing wrong with that it's just too much for me. I find your minimalist approach much more realistic, the same with the way you talk about finances and last but not least, your styleeee
I feel like it wouldn't feel like Christmas without a Christmas tree in the house.
Your videos are such a treat and make me so happy
Absolutely with you on the kitchen gadgets!! Awesome video as always!
I’m right there with you when it comes to holiday decor. It felt hard at first, like I was slacking in an area where other adults excelled, but now I’d never go back.
Such an interesting POV! I have def felt that but you put it into words!
Omg your fantasy self is mine too! I’ve been really needing someone to just call out the “ideal” side of ourselves that actually aren’t who we are or matches our lifestyle. Also, you are very pretty!
I could sit and listen to any amount of “ten more things” - awesome !!!
Love this!! Learning a lot from you! I've started to better identify my fantasy self😅
I love your editing style!
We have a lot in common in our lists. One thing to think about is the difference between the things that I don't own and never have (like holiday decorations and dryer sheets - for me) and the things that I used to have and insisted on trying, but gave up on (like dresses and underwire bra - for me), because the mostly the second group tend to reflect parts of myself worth paying attention to and exploring - my fantasy self or getting mature or learning about myself and the environment, what those things mean to me as I start to see balance as something ever evolving and ever changing
What you said about free samples resonated so much. I literally just found another box of those hotel soaps, shampoos etc. I made a pact with my family that we would not buy any more of these items until we used all the samples. Luckily most of the samples are unscented or from brands we recognize and are okay with using them which leads me to believe that I either must have declutterd all the ones I knew we wouldn't use or didn't take them in the first place--wishful thinking on that second part but its a good reminder to leave what you don't need so you don't create more waste. Great video!!!
Great points! I feel like we are always trying to force things to work for us.
As i grown in my journey i love watching these
I really do love your created content lately. You are so true and so authentic. Many things you talked about resonated with my experiences. I gave away my TV, as I never was fond of it till my youth. I don’t own a coffee machine and many other things. About the dresses, I own some, but only wear my very oldest very classic one, a shift dress which is now over 30 years old, but such good quality (summer dress). I got very upset, once my baggage got lost, only because of this one dress 😂😂😂. Luckily I got it back ☺️
This was cool! We got rid of ALL of our Christmas stuff this year, deciding that we will spend Christmas away from home from now on. Either with relatives or on a big vacation, *looking at you Paris*. But it's coming along slowly, but surely. This video made me realize I may be doing something right! LOL Thank you for your transparency and for sharing. New subbie.
great video! very inspiring, I just decluttered a pile of stuff watching your videos!
I agree with all your items 👍🏼 Especially, high heals 😫
Every single point is on point! I've always liked your content, and lately I feel like I've been able to relate on a whole 'nother level. A few years ago I upgraded my knife set and took a knife skills class, and it has allowed me to avoid buying so many kitchen uni-taskers. Also, as a trying-to-be mama minimalist, I don't buy any toys or kid stuff that require batteries. They either need to be rechargeable via USB, or powered by imagination.
We are re-doing our living room and I got rid of all of the useless vases and weird Home Sense stuff that was only there for decoration. It was totally just a pain to dust and the new minimal style makes the room feel huge and we love it. Now working on a new kitchen and I donated a load of kitchen small appliances and gadgets I didn't even realize I had. I only want things I use in the new kitchen. I do LOVE my heels and dresses and will never get rid of those 😉. I am far from a minimalist, but I love watching your videos and they do inspire me to change in small ways.
It still shocks me every video you post how similar our style and minimalism approaches are! So glad I found your channel! ♥️
Great minds! 🥰
I totally agree with you on all free samples unless they are a product that I already use. If I can get travel sized versions of my usual toothpaste or shampoo then I still find that to be super handy.
I do agree with all of your don´ts and your reasons. As regards dresses, I only love linen large comfy dresses in summer. Cheers!
Hey, I'm on that same committee! I now wear silk camisoles under my tops rather than bras. I also no longer buy dresses, skirts, or high heels. And I never buy dryer sheets or holiday decor (save a candle). I wondered if you might consider making a video about being a Canadian minimalist. Have you noticed any differences between your approach and minimalists from other countries? Love your videos, Christina!
Same! I love a nice candle in the winter ❤️ and cool! I can def do that! It will be parkas and thermals galore 😂 🇨🇦
I'm about to binge alllllll of your videos because I really need a refresher for my low buy year! I haven't bought much clothing, but somehow other things are accumulating! I just wanna dump it all haha.. xx
Dryer balls with essential oils is the best combo! Dresses, I have the same problem, my fantasy self. I never wear them but I love buying them.
I feel like everyone can relate to these videos. We all need to downsize and be more deliberate. There’s so much trash and pollution. I’ve been sharing with my family. They’re honestly helpful in saving money and just in general life hacks. Everyone loves getting a little better. And everyone really loves having someone who can relate to the journey of admitting almost all of us have more then we need and are wasteful. And you have a way of making it so guilt free. If anything. It’s really changed my self esteem and helped me find myself. Xoxo thnx
Yes, the fantasy wardrobe! So freeing to get brid of those pieces. ✌
Just shifted to dryer balls a couple of months ago. Love them.
Great video! I'm with you on everything. I only "decorate" with candles and plants. And I swap out the candles for holiday ones and call that my holiday decorating, LOL.
I am going to have to get honest with myself about the nice dresses that hang in the back of my closet for the social events that never happen because I'm just not that girl. A couple of good quality dresses can be dressed up or down and handle everything from funerals to weddings. And no thank you to ever suffering in heels again!
You are such an inspiration to me. I like your style uniform and outfit repeater mindset. But this video made me just go slack-jawed. I don't use heels, dresses or underwire bras either and always felt "strange" for it but knowing someone as stylish as you is the same, made me som relaxed and relieved. Thank you for your content, it feels so authentic and genuine.
I really liked this video, I went through my closet and could relate sooooo much
I'm on the same journey as well and I ditched the hair products and stuck with natural products that I could make or mix together instead.
Yes! I am striving to be more minimalist but I have a very long way to go. No underwire bras (for year), I have 1 dress and 1 skirt, we don't decorate for holidays, and doing a kitchen reno last year we only kept kitchen items we actually use
A minor tip on dryer ball - I learned from somewhere to just use unused socks clean them and wrap in a ball (can add a few drops of essential oil of your choice before you wrap them up to give it a nice scent ) and it just does the trick :)) I have 3 or 4 of them they work wonders x
I just ditched all of those samples about 4 days ago so I’m with you 💯 on that
Oh I absolutely LOVE my apple slicer. So easy when you have 5 kids and need to prep lunches. I also use it for onions to reduce my eye watering time lol. Push it down on the onion, bundle the slices in a heap and give it maybe 3-4 chops with your knife and you’re done fiddling with the onion!
Just subscribed to your channel, Christina. Love your videos on lifestyle and minimalism. Unlike a fair few minimalism CZcamsrs, you're funny and not at all smug. Some of the minimalist CZcamsrs are just SO smug!
You've mentioned that you are planning to rebrand your channel. This is a great idea: you're now a Lifestyle Apotheca rather than a Style Apotheca.
Good luck with the rebrand.
😭🥰 thank you so much!
Yes boo! I’m not a holiday decor person. I much rather decorate for seasons 3+ months at a time if anything.
This was a great video!!
Its funny how different our list is I love dresses, heels, samples even dryer sheets (my bf loves dryer sheets for some reason), and I actually make it a point to use up samples. Here's my list: Phone payment plan (pay in cash and second hand only), cute stationary, toys and figurines, fandom/stan merch, eating out w/o an occasion, victoria secret, organizational storage, headbands, starbucks.
Good list. Some of these I still own and most of them can go. I do use my avocado holder daily though.
Love your videos !😍 your right keep what makes you happy and less is best I started a year ago going through my clothes ,shoes etc
I stopped wearing dresses and skirts probably 12 yrs ago ... I wasn’t happy in them and I love pants😉,
But I used to have at least 35 shirts , 15 pairs of jeans and dress pants , funny thing is I only wore 8 shirts and 4 pairs of jeans and 2 pairs of dress slacks so I donated the rest with the dressy shoes I wear flats or sneakers 😉 my feet are happier.
so last year I started watching different videos on minimalists .
I downsized all my clothes and my husbands . Got my daughter doing it as well.
Started cleaning out the house We no longer own a China cabinet and all those extra tables
They only hold stuff that we never look at😊
I kept a very small box of things that I enjoyed and makes me happy.
My husband will be retiring next yr and if we move it’s best to downsize now.
We saw both our parents move into and literally saw lots of things being removed dumpster after dumpster or donating
Very sad
I don’t want to have a lot of things less dust I have noticed
🥳🤩thank you for your videos ,
I've attempted minimalism many times and one of the reason I "failed" multiple times was believing minimalism could only be done using certain shapes or colours (neutrals). I love black, but the rest of the neutral shades just don't suit me. I also didn't quite like the "minimalist" shapes and cuts I saw on videos and from brands. I learned that minimalism could include colour and could include the shapes I liked. The key was just making good, considered choices :) My colour palette is made up of black, blue, green and purple. I keep it from being boring by having different shades of each colour, and because my base is usually blue jeans it all works together. I keep my outerwear black as well as accessories to make sure it goes with each colour. I have small wardrobe but it's colourful and well thought out. Bottom line is - define your own version of minimalism!
Great video, more please. 🙂 I try to own as little as possible. Funny you mentioned holiday decorations. I am getting rid of that also. Why hold onto stuff that takes up needed space and is used once a year? Thank you for sharing. 👍🏻💕
So true!
wow your hair looks really nice!
I stopped buying clothes because I had way too much and I realized I did not use most of it. It ended up being a bigger problem than just having too much clothes. (SMH) Your videos are helping me get to where I want to be as far as owning less and having a savings.
Same for me stop buying clothes and with wfh lots i haven yet put on me so i just decide to use them till the end. Anywzy my style is shirt and business trousers so they are always good 😀😀😀😀
Our lists are so similar! I just decluttered all of my mini samples and half used bathroom products and boy- i have so much more room. I kept all the shampoos i bought and OMG i have enough to last me lifetimes..I only wash my hair twice a week, somehow whenever i went to Costco i needed more shampoo even when there’s plenty at home...it’s a weird thing I just collected and didn’t even know.
Definitely only keep the things that you use. My apple slicer gets used every few days! I’ve replaced the thing 3 times in the last 15 years cause eventually they break if you use them all the time!
Goodness! someone else whom doesn't wear dresses and skirts :) When I got to know myself, I also found I only felt very comfortable in pants and shorts. Why it took me 30 years to work that out, I don't know LOL. Maybe when I got into minimalism, I saw the light, but it's been very freeing to become so certain of my comfort and style.
My 40 H cups wish they didn’t need underwire bras. Underwires are so uncomfortable.
Have you tried the Knix bras? I switched to them last spring and I will never wear another underwire again.
Girl you’re so right ☺️
Thank you! I am 36C and agree. Days without underwire are bad bad days!
Many of the things you mentioned I don't have either or decluttered them just recently. Except that dresses and skirts are a staple for me, if I didn't make a decision to finally stop buying them 2 years ago, I would have a problem :)
I only get samples if it’s something I have really been wanting to try and have considered buying the full sized item. It helps me to see if I actually would like to make the commitment to the product or it’s it’s something that wouldn’t really fit into my routine.
Love my apple slicer. I have children and them being able to cut up apples without me. And not chopping off their fingers. 👌👌
I have definitely said this before but your editing style is super cool. It matches your personal style as well (if that makes sense 😅)
Thank you!!!
Banana 🍌 guard? Never saw that before! Thanks for another informative vid.
Ha! who would have guessed that I'm a minimalist lol! Well except for the clothing and shoe part. But everything else, I don't have or buy either.
It's shocking (in a positive way?) how similar our list is. Ok, I never owned high heels, but I'm so done owning/wearing shoes that are slightly uncomfortable just to get my money worth and/or because they are pretty. It's just not worth it. It's stressful to think about to wear them at least once or twice a year. It's like an annoying 'To Do List' that will be shifted everday until you tick it off... My feet don't deserve that kind of treatment.
So true! I need to declutter my shoes/boots and that’s exactly what I need to remind myself of
Hi Christina, I too hate underwire, I’m a D cup girl and still can rock a bralette anyway 😀
More more more! ❤️
My apple slicer is an essential in my home. And also my citrus squeezer.
love it!
I only dry towels and beddings in the dryer. I hang dry the rest, for the same reason, lasting longer.
Lost me at not decorating for Christmas, lol. To each their own ☺️
Cleaning supplies are minimal. Hand soap, one bulk for every sink and refill them. I use an all purpose cleaner in the bathroom and a vinegar, soap and water I mix up myself for the rest of house.
I no longer have a lot of shoes or clothing. I have less than 40 items in my whole wardrobe. ( not including underwear,socks and bras)
Hair care products down to 4 products. Facial Skincare, 4 products. Body lotions, 3 products ( I have eczema and psoriasis so needed) Makeup is way down it all fits in a little 3 drawer clear container. I have 1-2 items per category excpasha less,
Plastic kitchen containers have all been used to death and replaced with glassware with lock lids.
One thing that has grown are mask for covid.I now own 10 masks. I have to wear one every day. Some times have to change it out, (I work 12 hour shifts.) Since the pandemic, I no longer have a minimal pantry. We now keep it stocked. Not hoarding, not parshables, just enough food/staples for 3 months. I'm never going to go back to a minimal pantery and freezer.( Our grocery stores where empty on and off for 3-4 weeks.)
I'm dead at T-Rex arm lolol same Christina same, me too
Part 2!!!
I've come to accept that I'm not a skirt person either, and so I decluttered my one and only skirt recently; it feels good to not be holding onto it anymore! Also, I can relate a lot to the fantasy self mindset and how I used to buy clothes that made my outfits look more polished or elevated. I'm grateful that most of my purchases throughout my style journey were secondhand, so it wasn't a total loss when I had to part with those items.
I still use samples because I rarely use or buy anything other than my basics. It gives me a chance to try something out without comitting and for travelling which I rarely do. I hardly get samples anyway.
I didn't even know wuch a thing as drying sheets existed. 😂 And yes, our list is very similar. 😃
I literally didn’t own any skirts and about 2 months ago my boss gave me on of hers. She kinda forced it on me 😂. I’ve worn it once but I think I’m going to give it back to her lol. I’m going to try those dryer balls thing!
High Heels, flat uncomfortable shoes, mini skirts, shorts (for outside the house) I get rid of. Some clothes for „painting only“. I wish I could quit underwire bras 😆 I’m not buying unhealthy products for my body, only clean or green beauty. And I try to use less plastic, in the bathroom is it the easiest way 😊
I have been struggling to give up jeans and skirts. I wear dresses in the summer and black ponte pants in the fall and winter. How did you let go? What do you wear in the summer? Thanks for a great video.
I'll never ditch my appleslicer, it changed my LIFE 😂😂
Could not live without my underwire bras. Victoria's Secrets are so good they last for years and years. I buy quality when on sale and rarely have to replace them so far.
Wait! .. What??! .. You got rid of the apple slicer?!
It’s so funny, growing up I loved playing dress up and would dream of the day I could wear high heels. I came to the realization I am just not a person that has a place to wear them to, nor that can walk on them. I’m strictly pump and block heel. During this pandemic tho, I’ve stuck to my sandals and sketchers lol.
Agreed 👍
Whenever I get skincare free samples, I keep them so that I can apply to my neck!
same with me with the holiday decor...I still have some Xmas decor but I never take it out...hey! something to get rid of! LOL
and decorative items.....what a waste of space and cleaning time...no thanx!
Not just you. I've always thought those banana guards looked very suggestive too!
I think every woman watching the video thought the same thing, LOL!
I love my nippies too :) Greetings from Austria ☀️
Me too!!
Oh I meant to say I also don’t own wire bras. I’m apart of the IBT committee as well. I own 2 bras from Uniqlo. Hands down so comfortable and affordable! I own a black and nude one
Do you happen to have a “laundry care” video?
that istanbul travel book :') love from TR
I used to wear higheels when I was 16-19 years old. I had so many. My dad make special shelf for me. 😅 even wear them to school plus dresses and skirts. 10 years later never again. 😁
nice dad!
I’m planning to stop buying tissues and use cotton handkerchiefs instead. I stopped using cotton wool sometime ago and have never used paper towels so this is the next step
I no longer own most of those things as well as shaving supplies, hair conditioner, body wash (I use a bar of soap), and I'm in the process of decluttering my makeup
Oh boy if I got rid of our apple chop, my strange little family that I've collected would be sad, it's the only reason the cobbler gets made cos I can use that fun chopper!! Heh
Lotsa thoughts here!
Haha if you use it, rock it! 🥰
I do get samples of the products I use for my gym bag + travel. And especially if they are able to be refilled! Otherwise.. I get masks and that’s it.
The skincare/cosmetic samples I have is ridiculous and ya, these probably need to go. I do keep hair samples (shampoo/conditioner) as I find these items useful for travel.
While I do own most of these things. I definitely can say I own less of them, especially decor. We are very fortunate that we have greenery in our yard and I cut and bring this in for decor all year round. We particularly enjoy doing this at Christmas.
I don’t own extra makeup/ shampoo/ lotion. Only have what I use daily. :)
Don’t own extra gadgets or table decor/ house decor.
No bedding decor.
No extra cleaning supplies
:)