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Female computer programmer here: one thing that wasn't mentioned is that it's a male-dominated profession where there's often a lot of bias against women. That guy saying his partner's code was "convoluted"? I wonder if he just didn't understand it and assumed she did a bad job. The tutor saying it would be easier to write in another language? I wonder if that's the language the tutor was more familiar with.
The partner was clearly trying to be accommodating by letting him rewrite everything she'd done, and her only mistake seems to be underestimating how much time it would take for her to learn what may have been an ENTIRELY NEW PROGRAMMING LANGUAGE in order to do one last part. It sounds like she could have finished the whole thing by herself in the language they originally agreed on. And he wasn't even allowed to use a tutor?! My jaw hit the floor.
That story made my blood boil. Would be great if the classmate or the professor finds the post 🤞🏼
And also the professor believed him and not her, seems he is also biased against female programmers which is unacceptable.
@@Thegolactika Entirely possible! That makes me even more angry
also seems to me that he isn't great at coding. He said her code was too convoluted, but the tutor seemed to have no problem with it, and this dude also needed help to convert it
That's a thing that stuck out to me, too, like if the tutor could translate it to Rust, then clearly her code was decent, otherwise they would have just created new code. @dlonska
Just to be clear, when he said that her code is convoluted, he meant that she's a much more advanced programmer than he is.
"Her code is so convoluted" (he doesnt understand APIs)
Literally, that was the first thing I thought😂
Nobody was confused by that dummy.
@@RottenSloth93not every smosh viewer is a programmer
@@ultimategotea "wHy cAnT wE uSE sOaP tHoUgH?" ~ that guy, probably
As a woman that studied a CS Major, I've always run into men that want to mess up my grade and generally make working with them impossible. One time, I had to spend an entire day at the college library/data center working on code with my project partner. He then proceeded to ask if this counted as a date because we had spent the day together, and when I simply stated that we're just working on a project, he decided to sabotage my part of the work at every chance he got. Even started calling me a trator because at some point he asked me to be his gf and I declined. Another project partner stole my work and presented it in front of class because his presentation day was a whole day before mine.
I feel like being a woman in a male-dominated work/study environment can be extra harsh. Every woman I meet in these kinds of work/study environments had has eerily familiar or relatable experiences to mine.
I also think a lot of men that are attracted to careers like CS, for the life of them, do not know how to socialize. And when it comes to talking to women, what little skills they do have get completely thrown out the window.
💙💙💙
well my CS faculty (it's kinda CS college inside Uni for you Americans;) was called a "Bride Finder" because only a few girls got through, and they were "smart enough to marry". yeah, like I've got here to start a trad family, not to get a degree🤡
Female programmer with a CS degree here, when I was in school there was this arrogance of few male students(not all) having better grades than females and didn’t do anything to help them whether as a tutor or group partner. They would always intimidate or assume all females will drop out or fail their classes before changing majors. So they do that to reduce the numbers.
As a man who has never worked in that field I'm gonna say if you're a woman play the game or get out of it. Play dirty like we do and get a level up on the game. You're already a female in a male dominant field so you gotta adapt especially with nerdy men we already have issues with women and unless you dress down or at least act like one of the guys, nerdy men are looking for hot nerdy girls you're gonna get hit on regardless but if they make you uncomfortable respectfully make them uncomfortable
28:16 That coding story - I hope the girl finds the Reddit post, print that all out with the top comments, the conversations that the group had together, the fact he got a tutor for the project, and then print out her coding that she was able to do and put that on the professors desk. Like what!? Actually so selfish and just no respect of that guy … that’s so frustrating omg
Fingers crossed this girl in a coding class is on Reddit
Odds might be good
I hope she gets the evidence before the teacher, but the teacher is clearly in on it.
Still, plagiarism is taken pretty seriously in college.
Dude could lose his tuition over this, and get banned from the school.😅
GOOD. 😈
20 seconds in and Angela immediately turns into a demon. It's great to see your heroes at work
I can hear this in her voice lmao
if this comment does the get into a smosh pit theater i will be upset
This comment is crazy cause I just started binging Sword AF 2 days ago
BAZONKA
best comment 😂😂
Second story: I would bet money that the whole family is toxic and this isn’t the first time something like this has happened. The mother knew the brother and his gf were going to announce their pregnancy and instead of discouraging it she helped them. They got photos with everyone but those family members…. It seems like whatever is going on is a lot deeper than this one incident. Instead of uninviting them they let them come however they wanted to avoid any of their bs so they left. Which if the family is really toxic might be the best thing to do.
My thoughts exactly, this has to be the boiling point of a lot of building issues
Yess 👏🏻 that was my initial take on this as well!
Oh good it wasn't just me thinking this, something just screamed "This is a recurring behavior".
Agreed. Almost seems like this was how they decided to go no-contact. At least all the guests knows why. So did the pregnant couple felt like their announcement was ruined because they couldn't steal the spotlight anymore? 🤔
At 12:37 I was disagreeing with him so hard. No, don't tell anyone your brother is getting married at your own damn marriage. That will take the focus away, telling everyone yourself instead of them doesn't change a thing. 💀
About the coding story: something I haven’t seen anybody mention so far is the fact that she will FAIL the course unless he clears things up with the professor. Not only will that tank her GPA, but also impact her financially! College tuition is insanely expensive, and scholarship/grant money usually doesn’t cover courses you have to repeat because you failed! Not only is OP a MAJOR asshole, he’s also potentially putting his classmate into the hole for thousands more dollars in tuition. What an absolute scumbag.
@@ItsMeBarnaby Alright, let’s recap this slowly with a new example:
You’re in an English lit class with Shakespeare. For your final project, Shakespeare writes the entirety of Macbeth, and all you gotta do is insert the stage directions into the script. Except, English isn’t your first language. So you ask Shakespeare and your professor if you can write the script in German instead. Your professor says that’s okay, so you pay a German speaker to translate everything Shakespeare wrote to German. You go in and add the stage directions in German. Then, you turn the script in and claim it’s all your own work when really you put zero original thought or ideas into the plot, dialogue, setting, story. Shakespeare gets angry with you and you tell him “tough shit, not my problem”. But all you did was plagiarize. See how that would make you a major asshole?
Keep in mind that the story is written from OP’s perspective (aka the party who has a vested interest in fudging some details to make themselves look better) and it’s still ABUNDANTLY CLEAR that he’s the asshole. It’s not “making the woman the victim”: it’s basic listening comprehension skills. If you can’t understand that, set up an appointment to get checked by a neurologist- ya got some brain worms there, bud.
@@ItsMeBarnabyfound OPs CZcams account
@@ItsMeBarnaby She did her half. He translated her half to another language and then claimed all the credit for her half.
@@harmoen he admits in his comments that she did 85% of the project in C++, and she offered to do his parts when he couldn't understand what she wrote.
@@dimsufferer9951 reply to the other guy not me
Chanse saying all the quiet parts out loud is killing me!!!!
“Okay so you don’t know a gay person”
Yuppp lol one of my friend groups is so queer and polyamorous that I didn't even bat an eye at the idea that people can be FWB and then go back to being "just friends." So when that one commenter questioned whether that's even a possibility, I was like "wtf do you mean."
"But I got married in the offseason" is crazy lol getting married unlocked so many new jokes
Whats funny is in my head as a bit of a cliche dude bro myself I jokingly thought that right before he said it. I died laughing.
@@johnathankorkie4984 well in the broncos case,the off-season started in week 4 or 5. Whenever they got 70 dropped on them.
@Reidroshdy we won 7 games in a row at 1 point. Definitely didn't end at the 70pts. As a broncos fan myself I will admit we are pretty mif
yea they can finally be open about it and make jokes now lol
My husbands family only came because because college football was off season. His dad didn’t stay for the reception though, because of the casino buffet deal going on 😂😂
first story is already making me feel very midwestern bc i thought it was very normal to know your mailman 😭 if you’re working on your house outside often, you’re simply gonna see the mailman, and god knows us midwesterners can’t resist a friendly hello
i get it i used to live in the suburbs and i was friendly with my mailman but now in the city? not at all
@@boxturtle5643wow can’t imagine not knowing the mailman 😢
Yup. As a MAILMAN in the midwest U r CORRECT!
@@stellamariss3335Even I, who grew up in the suburbs, never interacted with any mail person. Maybe if someone from UPS wanted a package signed, but I've never had a conversation with a US postal service worker while they were doing their drive-by.
Not that I don't doubt they're nice, I just think I didn't want to interrupt/delay them if I could help it. Didn't feel the need to talk to a stranger that bad. Not even sure it was ever the same person delivering mail each time.
And that's from someone born in the 90s.
Same, I grew up in the Midwest and it was very normal to know and talk to/be friendly with your mailman. Unfortunately where I live now is in a weird area between a city and woods and my mailbox is too far from my house to even see who drops off the mail. But I miss having more of a sense of local community!
I’m always so amazed that people can recount their story so accurately where they’re SO OBVIOUSLY in the wrong and still ask if they’re the asshole.
It’s because a lot of them are fake and intentional rage bait 😩 it’s still entertaining tho
related to the dog story: my hs english teacher told us an anecdote from her young adult years about how her very serious boyfriend before her husband told her to give her dog away, and if she didnt, he would dump her. so, she dumped him, left with her dog, and then met her now husband who loved both of them and the dog passed away while with the love of two owners instead of one. being on the same page with pets is TREMENDOUSLY important!!
Do people not understand that when giving an ultimatum between “me or the dog” , the dog is/should always win.
Yes, but it sounds like OP got the dog after they moved in together, and she had been adamant that she didn't want him to bring a dog into her house.
as a CS degree-holder, the idea of him translating C++ code into Rust being ‘him doing the code’ is insane. that’s not writing code, even disregarding the academic dishonesty that is claiming the tutor’s work as his own. writing code is not just typing the functions, it is thinking through and figuring out the logic of what you want to do that is the biggest hurdle. i hope that OP gets found out for academic dishonesty and has the consequences he deserves
Exactly, that's textbook definition plagiarism
Reasons why 90% is figuring out what to do and 5% is writing code (and 200% debugging). From the story, the only strange part to me was the zero hesitation written down regarding changing the project to Rust. Either the OP just left the detail out of her, saying "I don't know Rust that well" or that didn't come up which would at most be odd. All in all though, converting code is not creating code.
As a fellow cs degree holder, I 100% agree
I only have a surface level understanding of programming and that one made me mad. He practically did nothing of value, changed the entire programming language without properly communicating, and leaves her high and dry at the mercy of the professor? Who probably won't change his mind without the additional context to the situation? Fuck 'im.
Yep, I've done some amateur coding just to learn a skill. Pseudo-code, understanding the logic of computer systems, and being able to translate that logic into the language you're using is a must. That's the whole point of the assignment in a classroom setting. Obviously in any academic situation, choosing to let somebody else do it for you is dishonest and prevents you from learning key behaviors. In this case, it's preventing him from thinking about what is probably a bite sized piece of what will be a larger program, if he was doing this professionally. His solution being "let me write it in a way I'm more comfortable with" should have been a red flag from the prof honestly. If this guy is apparently not doing well at the language he's *expected* to be learning, how was he going to make it work with something that's totally different? I hope for the sake of his partner that the partner got through to the prof and/or reported both to the dean.
angela doing the borat “my wife” under her breath for the first story is so real
This made me realize that Ted and Grace have more in common than either of them would like to admit. If you know, you know.
@@applepie6871 Duck is lord
1:30
Hatchetfield reference?????
I noticed that as well! With how much the cast has been teasing Shayne in streams, you just know she wanted to do it in the video as well but stopped herself!
Nothing like "hey bro congratz on getting married, but I'm going to use your party to celebrate my special announcement rather than pay for my own party"
KFC Guy never cared about the dog. If he did, he would have prevented it from getting into the chicken because the chicken bones are dangerous to the dog. He just wanted to ruin the party his wife planned.
He didn't care for the dog or his wife. He would've consulted his wife before getting the dog and he would've trained the dog.
The guy has no empathy.
Chanse and Angela really are the perfect duo for this
I was so excited to see them both!!!
They look like Fear and Anxiety from Inside Out 😃
Either one of them makes a perfect duo as well with nearly every other cast member as well!
the vibes were so off today tho
Yes, and Arasha is a close 3rd, Damian 4th. My fav reddit commentators 😂
from the first story - sounds like she works from home. she might just look forward to talking to someone besides her partner all day.
the thing is... unless stated before this new mailman got hired she WASNT doing this with the previous mail man... and also she doesnt do it in the autumn or fall probably because the mailman usually drop things off strictly in their mail trucks. so... hmmm idk. they both seem very weird.
@@KnightMcfleeI feel like she was doing light yard work. Which you wouldn't be doing in the fall or winter.
@@KnightMcflee or she's always done this and he might've taken issue with it this time because the new mailman happens to be "objectively attractive", as he described. we can't know for sure
@@kyndramb7050Nor would you wear long sleeves and jackets outside in the summer. Her behavior is normal, it's going outside in summer clothes when the weather is hot and staying inside and covering up when it's cold. He's just delusional.
i agree that could've been a possibility, imo no matter what your take on this is he probably could've done anything else other than make an excel spreadsheet to track data of his own partner
last story is like a cartoon
him: booho me no get sandwich
her: cartoon image of her cooking, cleaning, takin care of kids,... doing everything.
living with an untrained dog is miserable. my family has a dog that is aggressive towards my cats and they won’t train him. it’s not fair to live with other people and not train your dog
For the second story, there is a small part that I think is really important. OP says that the family knows that they don't want children. It feels like there might be some family pressure for them to get children, in which case an announcement like that could feel like a really disrespectful wau to one-up them. Like "look at us, we are getting married, AND we are actually having kids". The fact that they planned it and told some people shows they still cared about the guests
Honestly, I don't care the reason. They didn't need a reception but they should have told people. Not have people announce it in the moment.
I think an important bit of information that we do not have that might change everything: We do not know that the Brother and his Wife did not try to resolve this reasonably. If the whole thing was taken from them, no one was listening to them, and everyone just kept telling them it would be great, they may have literally just decided to ditch the day of. The brother does not seem like a reliable narrator.
Yeah this is family. There could be layers to this. Grudges that go back decades. I’m surprised more people aren’t supportive of the couple, assuming this conspiracy of the other brother and the parents aren’t also deeply shitty in other ways the post doesn’t talk about. It’s such an extreme thing to do it feels like a “last straw.”
Honesty, it just sounds like only the grooms family didn't know about the plan. The bride's family knew, as did the couple's friends. OPs family were all in on the other brother hi-jacking the reception
@Caelinus they were leaving for their honeymoon right after the wedding, that wouldn't have happened if they had decided to not attend the reception at the last minute
The coding story: The dude who wrote the post payed someone to do his code, thats what happened. Two students partner for a project, she does her part and he does not know how to do his, he then pays a "tutor" to do his part, but the "tutor" is better at rust than C++, so op decides to ask the teacher, change the language, makes the tutor redo her code in rust and then he gives the assignment by saying to his teacher "i had to do everything by the end". So yeah, op in that story is the worst kind of person, because at the end he didnt do shit. For the partner, the correct answer would be to get proof that op cheated and give her assignment in c++.
Yeah, i think that they forgot that at some point. Angela says both of them did work but differently when the reality is, she did work, his tutor did work, and his wallet did work. He didn’t do anything and I hope she goes to the Dean about this
C++? More like F--
Yeah this 100%
@@mahbluebirdoooooooooooooh burn 💀💀💀💀
This is how those privileged kids get to graduate from prestigious universities and claim they are the shit, and claim you just "need to work harder" to get where they are.
For the couple leaving the wedding reception, the wedding still happened, so it wasn’t really waste anyone’s time, they still had the ceremony and got married just didn’t attend the party after
I fully disagree about the honeymooners who skipped their reception. The guests got to see the couple get married. Then they got to have a party. Big whoop the newlyweds weren’t there. They don’t owe you much of anything at this point. The party still went off. Only difference is no announcement of newlyweds and no first dance/parents and kids dance. That’s it….. they were smart
The whole reason the professor gave her a zero was because the guy said he did all the work. Even if he turned in the translated version she wrote the original code and he only translated it. It was still her work that he used but he said it was his. That’s what pisses me off the most
the professor for sure should also be more on top of this and listen to her. He should have asked her for her files and compared to see what the partner actually added.
@@malkam.7543absolutely. they're choosing to be difficult when this while situation was brought to their attention in the first place! it's maddening that they turn round and say she actually did nothing
Yeah. They went over this on the episode? That’s exactly why she got the 0. And she shouldn’t have.
THAT HE DIDN'T EVEN TRANSLATE!!! The tutor did a lot of the work (it sounds like) and was against the terms and conditions of the coursework. He's the one who should get a 0 and fail the course!
@@CHiCguitarcorrection, the tutor did all the work. This man didn’t lift a finger, just his wallet
The last story is NUTS - they didn’t even mention that the wife has barely been away from home since the eldest child was born, and the one overnight she was away the husband told the eldest that “mom doesn’t care about you.” I hope that she was able to leave him eventually, because this dude is a garbage human being.
she hasn't left yet according to the updates, but she's building a case in the event she does. she and the baby also ended up contracting covid from him, which is just the cherry on top
@rosie2871 omg how sad!
@@jennifervaughn2466 right!
"Mom doesn't care about you."
What the fuuuuck?
Oh my god wtf!!
With the fifth story I think with the way he treated her after, he must have been confusing “friends with benefits” with “fuck buddies” because that’s not how you treat a real friend
Rewatch the reading. The actual problem is directly she knows he has feelings. She stepped back knowing that isn't what she wants. He was her friend before the sex but for some guys it is hard to remove the feelings he caught so I understand backing away and not being a core part of her life and support system. He ultimately couldn't hold in the resentment from the rejection of his feelings and spitefully cut her off as a friend. I think it's sad to kill a friendship but maybe he will emotionally grow if he looks back on this.
If I was at the wedding reception and was told the couple wouldn't be showing up and then heard it was because of the selfish other brother and his partner wanting to announce their pregnancy or what not, I would absolutely cheer my absent friends and have fun at the reception regardless.
I wouldn't feel slighted - if I was close enough with the newlyweds, I'd understand, and if I wasn't close enough, hey, free food.
Just got a degree in Computer Science so that third story really sent me war flashbacks.
If I were the girl, I'd seriously consider accusing him of plagiarism. And if that Operating Systems professor was any of mine, they'd accuse the same. Translating pre-made code and claiming it as your own is plagiarism. It's the exact equivalent of translating Shakespeare to spanish and claiming it as your own. Just cause you had to adjust for grammatical and syntax rules doesn't mean its an original thought.
She did all of the work. He did virtually nothing to create the system and the only work he might've had was porting things over to Rust, but even then, he had a tutor so his contribution is even less.
Too many CS folks take the ethics or social classes to be nothing when this situation shows that they are everything.
Looking further at OPs comments, the code doesnt seem to be convoluted at all. Its just something he doesn't understand. Yes multi threaded programming can be complex but that doesn't mean its convoluted. Him thinking that way along with his love of tutors shows that he will get caught eventually and he is no where near ready to get an actual job.
His Tutor wrote the code!!!
Yes! She did the entire project on her own because he insisted he couldn’t understand what she was doing. If anyone did not contribute to the project, it’s him!
Yup I’m a CS major and relearning C++ (had a shitty teacher), and immediately I figured out that he didn’t understand the code and was too prideful to ask his partner for help. Instead he decides to get a tutor and plagiarize her work because he’s too good to ask a woman for help🙄I hope he gets into some serious trouble for this
Ethics in general are becoming deader by the minute because so many science people see it as beneath them and don’t value them for one reason or another. I’m on the bio side, so it’s slightly better since we deal with direct harm to humans, but so many people I know in either EE or mech engineer and computer science completely disregard all social sciences or just straight up don’t understand why ethics exist. It’s really concerning tbh 😅 (obviously not the majority, but wayyy more than there should be)
A thing about the coding story - Rust is fucking hard. It's a infamously complicated, especially compared to c++, the language that most colleges use to teach comp. Sci. This is like doing a spanish class and then converting the whole project to fucking pig latin because your tutor said it would be better
Right?! Like deciding to code it in Rust from C++ is wild. Sure it may be better in the end (because Rust is great), but how many fucking classes have they taken using Rust vs C++? I imagine none or very few for Rust and many C++. Also the whole convoluted thing is BS, just ask her to add notes or explain where you're confused. Sounds to me like the dude is just inept and relying on this tutor to actually do his work.
I don't understand the professor giving her a zero unless the guy lied a lot more than just omitting the tutor part. If I as a professor knew that the group was switching languages, but the bulk of the work was originally completed in C++ by the girl, I would just ask both code bases to be submitted if I had a question about it, not give a 0. Also, it's wild that one group assignment would be 75% of the grade.
@@rinylvinyl I'm think that he used some of the same phrases talking to the professor as he did in the post and gave the professor a very clear impression that she contributed nothing. Also if it's a class whose focus is application, it could be a multi-part project that is the bulk of all course work. That wouldn't surprise me at some technical schools.
@@rinylvinylMy school has a similar system for CS majors where basically if you fail the final you don’t pass the class even if it’s worth less than 30% and you get a good grade in everything else
100% he doesn't want to talk to the professor so he can try to hide the fact that he hired a "tutor" to do the work for him
58:09 “they’re both on opposite sides of the house scrolling through Reddit”
Bro that was so funny it didn’t get the chuckles it deserved
I had the DJ ready at my wedding with clown music incase someone decided to propose. I was like "yeah throw down!"
I love this 😂😂
I would not want to spend my wedding reception with people who would try upstage me on the day where its a celebration of my wife and I. Also im guessing that, like with a lot of these stories, this isnt the only time theyve tried do something like this. The fact that the family tired to do it in secret tells me they know the brother who was getting married would have had a problem with it.
i actually hadn't even thought about that, did the two getting married even know there would be an announcement at their wedding?
@@carat_lightI'm guessing they found out during or right after the wedding.
I personally wouldn't mind because it's just spreading the love and joy, but people are obviously allowed to be upset about it.
I definitely get the sense that their family does shit like that all of the time, and that was the last straw.
Yeah, I honestly feel like that was probably the latest of a long line of family drama. As Angela said, they might not even have wanted the big hoopla but got pressured by family to do it. So when this extra thing happened they just said screw it, we'll do this for us!
@@Amzzyyo I think it's totally a fine thing to do when everyone is already gathered IF (and that's the important part) you check with the people getting married and get a clear and genuine yes from them. Can be a very sweet thing and perfect when your important people are already gathered. But just trampling on someones occasion is just... unnecessary..
Attending a wedding is pretty common but for an individual getting married is ideally once in a lifetime. I would rather remember running off and starting the honeymoon early than having to remember my sibling going behind my back and in turn causing drama at my wedding. Either way there’s drama, but at least you don’t have to sit through it at your own wedding
preach it!
yea but you tell people, idk
@@highdefinition450 to be fair they did tell the attendees, they didnt make the announcement themself but they did let them know and didnt leave them in the dark. if the family would react that way i could see them trying to pressure them to stay and being passive aggressive to them on their special day which they seem to have wanted to avoid.
@@highdefinition450 they did all the photos in advance with the bride's family. People knew. OP's family who tried to steal the spotlight seem to be the only ones who didn't know.
@@highdefinition450I think they knew exactly what they were doing and hopefully they never have to talk to that side of the family for a long time
Guys I’m being so honest. These episodes get me through work. Please do not ever stop making them PLEASE. Idk what I would do if they ended.
I listen while I crochet 🤣 and I love it
“People still have mailmen ??” Who do you think delivers your mail 😭
Storks lol
the postal fairy obviously ✨🧚♂
The fourth story literally had me floored. How tf did they even get married? I can't begin to fathom how this man came to the conclusion that bringing home a pet against his partner's wishes was a form of vengeance for having to treat her son like a human being...
Especially considering that in return he is "Not cruel to the son". So basically this dude brought home the subject of his wife's trauma in return for him treating her son like a stranger. Wish i could meet the wife and tell her to leave that man ASAP
I'll never understand why people would marry someone who already has kids if they don't want/like kids and refuse to become a parent to them. He clearly doesn't even particularly like his wife either, so god knows what was going through his head when he asked her to marry him
@@blackoutamvs6550yeah but maybe she is cruel to his dog….
@@moyaxoxo5923there was no evidence of that… if there was any moment that the wife would hit the dog it would be when it ate $50 worth of food
@@moyaxoxo5923honestly from what it sounds like she seems to avoid the dog since she’s terrified of him.
Getting a dog as an an emotional support animal (ESAs do not need any training and just need a piece of paper from a therapist saying that a pet would be beneficial to the person) while your partner has visible scars on her face from being attacked by a dog as a child is…let’s all say it together: PSYCHOTIC.
I went to the post and someone in the comments pointed out that the dog must be pretty big given how much it ate in such a short time which makes it that much worse. Like, you know your wife is traumatized from literally being attacked by a dog that was bad enough to leave physical damage and decided to not only get a dog anyway but one that’s big enough to jump on the table/counter and scarf down a shit ton of chicken. It’s like he wanted her to feel unsafe and threatened by it.
LITERALLY! If he just needed an "emotional support animal" he could've just as easily gotten a cat. No, he just wanted to get his way without giving af how it affected his family
@@meggsntoastyesss and not training a dog when you’re in that situation is absolutely insane
@@mushroon4950 Right?! He knew EXACTLY what he was doing by getting a larger untrained dog to keep in the same house as someone who hates and fears dogs. He was probably so smug whenever the dog would act up and she’d have to deal with it.
@@meggsntoast but he tolerated her son so clearly he can’t be in the wrong 🤷♀️
angela had so many jokes get brushed over, her “dual citizenship” joke was so funny
That joke should have gotten way more play.
“I can’t even text my friends back during a shoot week.” 😂 Angela being the goat as always
My 31yr old middle son, aka the sweetest human alive, is a mail carrier. There are elderly people on his route that he makes time to have a conversation with every day he works because they have no family. AND…he has a few on his old route who he stops by to say “hi” to because they also have no kids or family. My kid does that! MY KID!
You clearly raised him well :)
He single?
i love that youre so proud of him
he sounds like a gem and from this sweet comment, he obviously gets it from you :)
@@feralthought6282 Does he sound like he has time for a relationship?
that dog story???? absolutely insane to get a dog as revenge on your wife for having a son (which by the way, saying you “had to make compromises” and patting yourself on the back for not being actively cruel to your wife’s SON is exceptionally insane behavior on its own), but on top of that, it’s not fair to the dog either! dogs can sense human emotions and are generally very sensitive to what their owners/the people they live with are feeling. that dog is well aware that the wife hates and is terrified of him, which is likely causing immense stress for both the dog and the wife, all because this absolute freak of a man decided he wanted to “punish” his wife for her asking him to give even a single shit about his OWN STEPSON!
The emotion that ESA is supporting is SPITE. That’s the type of thing that might be funny in a meme, but in a marriage it’s disgusting and frightening
Crazy to agree to marry someone you knew had a son and act like forcing a dog that wasn’t part of the agreement onto them is like??? The same???
He was vile and I think even neglectful to the dog because he allowed it into the meal with bones that could harm it. I know that Shane and everyone talked about the dog being connected to OP emotionally but it is probably best the dog goes elsewhere. OP seems only capable of having toxic relationships even with dogs.
And the dog isn't trained
I'm still trying to figure out why she didn't immediately divorce him.
I died laughing at the people who dipped at they’re own reception 😂😂😂😂 they literally said “nope you aren’t going to ruin our wedding”
The last story with the frustrated mom is so common. Men will promise the world and then when it comes down to it, sometimes they can’t step up the way they should! New slogan: Make Dads step up! Imagine the change in society!
The last story is literally insane, I went to check out the wife’s Reddit and somehow it got worse. The wife + the baby got covid because of him, according to her it was the sickest she had been, but luckily nobody was hospitalized. And during said time she wasn’t able to take care of the rest of the kids, so the husband had to “step up” and solo parent their kids for the FIRST TIME. Genuinely baffling.
Then she caught her husband badmouthing her to his coworker, saying she was ‘divorcing him and trying to take the kids out of nowhere,’ letting those people have this weird untrue perception of her. So that coworker and his wife avoided her at some sort of party.
I honestly hope she’s doing better now, and is far, far, FAR away from that man.
Edited to fix some grammatical mistakes.
And how do you know her account is more accurate than his?
She could be lying to get sympathy.
@@ajc1482yeah a wife with two kids, her first pregnancy was a covid ridden one, barely has time to relax, yeah she’s definitely lying about it
@@ajc1482and why you think she’s lying?
This is one of those times where I would've been happy to see her post her venmo or some other way to help her financially so she can leave that man.
@@5JSX5 I disagree the man should step up and be a better husband/father id rather not see another single mom struggle to raise their kids the answer isn't always bail them out with money so they can leave
Angela unhinged immediately
FRRRR 😭😭❤
always on 10
@@aestherienahhh, 10 is Angela on low idle.
I ❤ when she dials it up and brings her EH Game! (Canadian here 😊😂)
She always brings the best vibes!
I've had a FWB situation. We not only stayed friends, but were in each other's weddings. He was my man of honor and I was one of his two chuppah holders.
14:41
Shayne *mentions Shourtney-related lore*
Me: *fangirls a little, every time*
That last guy has absolutely no room to complain, YOU 👏🏻 ARE 👏🏻 A 👏🏻 RISK 👏🏻 TO 👏🏻 YOUR 👏🏻 CHILD 👏🏻
Apparently per the wife's comments, he previously accused the wife of being abusive in front of their eldest kiddo, who told everyone at school that Daddy called Mommy a bad word and had to spend the night at a hotel. Then he cried to anyone who would listen that she was trying to keep the kids away from him. If this is real, wife may want to consider leaving.
@@sparrowsayshi _wow_
@sparrowsayshi she needs an escape plan first, starting by getting a job and daycare established
“WAAA I wanna sammich who cares about my children” f-ing grow tf up dude you made adult decisions, endure the consequences
My husband and I left our reception early. It wasn't planned but his family were being awful to me before the ceremony (which I set up basically by myself). They were yelling at my friends that were trying to help. They made the day absolutely awful for us so after cake, we left and 16 years later, still glad we made that decision.
That's different. They could have announced Bro was going to steal the reception..but it sounds like it was His parents doing the reception. Glad you two are well.
Ayo, but they still got fed and whatnot! The mom and the dad were in on it, and I absolutely would do the same thing instead of being there and being miserable because of my family (who should be supportive and not playing favorites). It's gross :/
Fuck. Dat.
@@lifewuzonceezr, how is it different if his family was conspiring to steal their day from them?
@@naylas3908 from the comment..
Im a software engineer, Ill tell you that the teacher is also part of the problem. The fact that he won't talk to the student that submitted about the areas of code to see if he cheated, or the fact that he won't even acknowledge the female side of the story, or how the parted ways at that point. If i was an employer, I'd be embarrassed for both of them on how they decided to approach this project, for not considering each others strengths and weakeness in working together.
That group project programming gives me flashbacks to group work in college…
They split the work, she did her part, handed it over- he didn’t understand it so she took it back and did the work he was supposed to do… he didn’t like it so he hired someone else to convert it to rust, submitted it, and thinks he deserves a grade?! 😂😂😂😂 eff off my guy!
As a software engineer, Shayne's English-Spanish analogy is a perfect way to describe what this d-bag did. Not to mention hiring a "tutor" to do the work for him which was against the rules, but the fact he's allowing her to get a 0 is evil, because it's not even that he thinks he's in the right, he just described exactly how he screwed her over and said "not my problem"
It's even worse, first of all there's no tutor, he paid someone to do his part, but the person he paid didn't work with c++, he changed it to rust, the worst part is he on purpose told the teacher he did everything to screw on purpose his partner. My guess is he doesn't know how to code and just screwed over someone with him doing none of the work
As he read it I thought, "If a book is translated and published into a different language it's not like the translator is credited as the author of the book?!?" 💀
yea, surprisingly good comparison to explain to people who don't get it lol
The way it wouldn't have cost him anything to just actually credit what she did! Like he screwed her over for literally no reason and then tried to act like he's a bystander??
"emotional support dog"
Trained dogs don't scarf down half a feast when you turn away for a minute... MF dog owners not training their pets are infuriating
Edit:
I understand you don't need training or certs legally for ES pets... I DONT CARE! If you're bringing an animal into public space it NEEDS to be trained. If you're bringing it into a home it needs to be trained for the comfort of ALL who reside there.
No exceptions
Yeah I have never had a dog that would do that, if they would, you need to get a professional trainer or rehome the dog to someone who can take care of them properly
yeah that dog isn’t a emotional support animal because they need to be trained
Bingo.
That man is a pr!ck. He got the dog out of spite, because he had to "acknowledge her kid" "her kid, her problem" your dog made it a your problem. Sit down. The way she wrote the message to him, I knew things have happened prior and this was the straw that broke the camel's back
I was about to write almost exact comment
story 4: if you don’t want to be a father, THEN DONT FUCKING MARRY SINGLE MOMS??? ITS NOT LIKE YOU DIDNT KNOW SHE HAD A FULLY GROWN CHILD??? HER HAVING A CHILD IS NOT A BARGAINING CHIP FOR YOU IN THE RELATIONSHIP
With the story about the dog, I would be so curious if the ultimatum wasn't about the dog, but about the way they handle ownership of a dog. If they treat it as their best friend who does cool tricks and they don't do an adequate job of training them, it's not the dog's fault, but it is still the case that that person shouldn't have dogs.
Just wrapped up the story while typing, WOWZA. I HOPE she served those papers, she deserves better. So much better
Oh no! A computer science dude who is self-serving and will throw a woman under the bus and refuse to set the record straight? Sounds right.
Right? I can already hear him whine about diversity hiring after standing over a woman colleague and making uninvited suggestions. (Source- me lol)
I'm sure he'll have a long and prosperous career at Blizzard
welcome to STEM where inflated dudes will dismiss work simply b/c of the source demo then claim as their own… *intellectual gentrification*
Omg I might be a guy who is in computer science but almost finished his degree in English studies and my god can guys in CS be tediousssss. I have to routinely shut down some... less than appealing behaviour from some of them bc I refuse to let those nerds get away with it and also it's annoying. No wonder there are like 10 women in my freshers group.
@@ItsMeBarnabydid you listen to the story?
I think the second story got weird responses because Shayne misread the line where the brother and his girlfriend weren’t announcing their wedding they wanted to get married at the reception. That’s very different.
Even if they just announced the wedding, that would have been awful.
I don't think they were planning to GET MARRIED at the reception. But that they were going to announce they were going to be married. But it depends on punctuation and how it was worded. I watched it back and it can be precieved either way. Hard to say, especially with an overbearing, entitled family that it seems they are.
@@theray-venfam1536the OP says the brother and gf planned to get married too at their reception
@@theray-venfam1536 I found the original post on reddit .The way it's worded is it seems like they were going to Announce the pregnancy AND get married at the same time. Personally that makes more sense for the newly weds to abandon your reception (If someone plans to get married there) as opposed to doing what Chanse said if it was just an announcement.
@@theray-venfam1536 if you look at the post that’s linked, it says they wanted to get married at the reception
Postal worker here, tipping or gifting something to the mail carrier, is very normal, especially in smaller areas where you get to know them.
Lmaoo the husband in the last story was like “So this is whatI get for working overtime😒😠??”
that dog owner is like actually psychotic. "i stepped into a father role" yet he makes it clear he thinks of the kid as her son only. and using someones trauma against them for revenge because YOU decided to date someone with a kid? i dont know why this relationship even lasted to the point of getting married
And nobody FORCED him to, either. I was a step-mother for 5 years. I knew that my then partner would come with a child, so I thought about it and to me it was obvious that my love for him also meant I love his daughter, because she is a mini-version of him and she is a child who deserves a loving adult in her life. But I knew full-well that children are not easy, and even (or especially so) 6-year-olds have a lot of needs that need to be met. Homework, hygiene, activities, socialising, dinner, whatever. I did that because I WANTED TO. Not because someone forced me. Him complaining about a "problem" he created for himself (basically saying "well she has a kid so I'm here I guess I gotta be nice to it") is insane. Then break up if you don't give a sh*t about her son. People are ridiculous.
Men calling women psychotic or hysteric are usually projecting.
I always wonder how so many couples who clearly don't even get along end up married. WHY?!? It's like they pick someone at random with no regard for compatibility and assume marriage is "the next step". Marriage Should never be just the next step it should be what you truly want
Chance talking about an “anti-wedding” reminded me of a friend that had an “anti-bachelorette party”. Her engagement was broken off, but she and her friends had already planned and paid for a bachelorette trip, so they still took the trip and had a blast. I just love that she was able to celebrate a new chapter of her life with the support of her friends, regardless of how anyone may think she should’ve reacted.
Legend behavior
Story 3, SHE LITERALLY WROTE THE ENTIRE CODE ALL HE DID WAS GET A TUTOR TO CONVERT IT FOR HIM!!!!
The fact that the brother announcing things at the wedding story had parents who didn’t see an issue and the op didn’t see an issue kinda points to a pattern so I understand them dipping out
Chance is so right, not every person is fit to be a pet owner. People do not train their dogs and it becomes a danger for people, children, and other animals. You also can't be mad when no one likes your dog because it's untrained. That's directly your fault.
For the coding story, she did all the work, he then converted it and said HE did all the work when he just converted her work into another language. In a music context imagine you wrote an entire musical with a partner who ended up outsourcing all their (minimal) contributions, then they said they didn’t understand it in the key signatures you chose, so they change the key signatures and claim they wrote the entire musical themselves, that would be equivalent.
Not only that, he then refused to let her help at the end... allowing his own "frustration" to disallow her from doing the rest of her part. It was definitely entirely his fault. Awful partner in every way
Or like, playing the piece on a different instrument. More work to convert but still not his creative piece.
She didn’t do the work, he did. She did 20% of code and he did the rest. And then she didn’t do the last part that she said she’d do. It’s her fault
@itsohms were you listening to this with your ears closed? She did most of the work, then he had to just translate it and do a little bit of other stuff.
@@itsohms mama let's watch the vid again
As a mailman from canada, It's not rare to have tips, especially during the holidays. However, it's not 250$, it's more like 50$ max😅
16:50 see someone announcing a pregnancy or wedding at someone else’s wedding only works if they have asked permission and were granted that permission. But because only the parents knew and didn’t tell anyone else until the aunt and uncle knew and spilled is what the problem is.
like angela said, the coding guy pisses me off because instead of working with his groupmate, he decided to use his *own* way and hire a tutor instead of speaking with his groupmate. definitely "MY way isn't wrong, YOURS is" energy. like..... 😭 sorry this guy pisses me off. in my brain i'm putting him through a shredder
such man in STEM energy 🙄
Even I, as a man, can feel the patronizing attitude throughout that post
Even with the most stubborn people to have in a group (I'm one of them) I've only ever had a third party brought in because we all agreed to it. And even then it wasn't because we needed someone to do the work for us, we just needed a decision to be made and again we were stubborn and the people that weren't didn't care lol
@@CrazyTributeGirlI have a Computer Engineering Bachelor’s. Men like this are SOOOOOOOOOOO prevalent, and the sucky thing is that its normalized. I went through a situation similar to this, where I wrote all the code and my male partner did nothing. I spoke with my professor, and he still got an A on it. It discouraged me so much I lost the love I had for coding and I still work in IT. Which is another whole ordeal with sexism. It pisses me off so much because other people, especially fem looking people and women get discouraged from the field, so we have VERY little support once we’re in.
Bro really said “your coding is so dumb I gotta pay someone to help me understand” instead of “hey I don’t really understand what you wrote, can you walk through your work?” He really paid money, kept secrets, and lied to not look dumb in front of his female classmate
Not only risking their newborn child’s life for a non-mandatory work trip, then expecting her to take care of him and transferring germs to their baby and herself while she would still be the only one caring for the babies. He skipped mother’s day for a fun out of the house weekend. Not to mention a mothers immune system is way down for the first year after giving birth, especially a difficult premature birth. he is a c-u-next tuesday and awful!
yeah she said in updates that she was physically unable to take care of the kids because of the toll that covid had on her body
I LOVE how Angela just lives through experiences she’s seen on reality Tv 😂
my mom is a mailwoman and she gets several “tips” (mostly just homemade cookies or candies) from the people she delivers mail to and it starts in the middle of november 😤
I worked at an art museum and the biggest tell for if a pet was an actual service animal was if they would pull on the leash and ask for pets. Properly trained service animals stay by their human at all times and only ask for pets when signaled by the owner that it is okay.
The one time it was a real emotional support animal, we made an exception because the guy called us in advance to check if it was okay and he held the tiny dog the whole time so there was no worry about damage to the art.
People really use pets and kids as excuses for preferential treatment and respect but don't seem to own up to the huge responsibility that guardianship entails.
The grossest part is that because so many people do this they themselves will turn around and accuse anybody who uses the system of being a fraud, and now everyone who needs those accommodations has to fight those stereotypes to even get the help they need. It's so frustrating.
@@play-fool For sure! That's why I would go above and beyond for the people like the guy who called or just anyone with a trained dog inside.
I wish there was a way to hold the frauds accountable without hurting the people who actually need these animals, like you said.
Yes, however, I will forever be emotionally scared from the time my service dog got frightened by a sculpture at a museum, and barked at it. I immediately removed him from the environment and we worked on not being afraid of human-looking (but not human) things. There are the occasional things, especially with younger dogs, that you just don't think to get them ready for, loke mascots and funky sculptures, until you're in the moment. But honestly, I completely understand how, if you didn't know what a sculpture was, a very exaggerated, unproportional, big humanoid thing, menacingly standing in the corner, could be extremely terrifying.
We came back to that museum to train on it many times, but my dog never stopped giving that same sculpture the side eye.
Yep
Happens all the god damn time, I love dogs and the amount of entitled pos people who bring them into grocery stores or other public places not meant for animals is too damn high. I feel pity for the animal they have such irresponsible and ignorant owners.
It's not so much about the dog, but how well the dog is trained. A poorly trained dog could be a menace and even a threat to people. It is the responsibility of every dog owner to train their dog properly.
especially if that dog is supposed to be a emotional support dog
They didn't even mention how big the dog was, and did they say the dog has bitten faces before? That's a terror. Makes me appreciate my big dope.
@@cranklefobESAs dont need formal training. just that the person applying have an appropriate condition that an ESA would help and basically a doctors approval. we got our dogs approved for my bipolar moms ESAs and one is a (small and very sweet) pit bull puppy, and he hasnt been formally trained yet. we obviously dont take him into stores and what not because he hasnt been trained not to bark and react to others yet and thats obnoxious and embarrassing, but he is still officially an ESA, which mostly helps us with trying to find housing that is iffy about animals or his breed
@@ashleyjohnson9651i have an ESA and yes, they don’t need formal training, but as a pet that is then supposed to go in public/be in spaces where pets typically aren’t allowed/approved of, they need to be trained as in normal pet training. they need to understand simple commands and at least have decent temperament around people, other animals, and other objects like food and furniture. that’s what i think that commenter meant
@@honey.possum6351 oh yeah they definitely SHOULD be trained if you are planning on having them in public spaces, ive just seen a lot of comments that seem to think ESAs need formal training/certification to even be an ESA (confusing them with service dogs i think), when in reality you just need the equivalent of a doctors note
There’s a difference between a stay at home mom and a solo parent. My mom stayed home when me and my brother were kids and my dad still helped with dinner and did the dishes and took out the trash. A stay at home parent doesn’t excuse weaponized incompetence.
"damn" "woah" "damn" "woah" is my favourite part tbh
Got my cookies, my milk and a warm blanket- I’m ready
Glad I’m not the only one. 😂
Oooh love that,I have cereal and my favorite Dunkin coffee
There is no way you were ready for this
@@somefreshbread not even a little bit lol.
How was it?
Chanse's explanation of a wedding is exactly why I don't want a big wedding. Just a one night party sometime afterwards
Edit: also Angela having her glasses for the one video she doesn't need them is hilarious to me
That is so funny about her glasses lol
The most valuable part of a group project in CS is learning how to work together and integrate ideas and code from your team members. I know at the end of the day, you mostly get solely graded on the end product, but companies will be looking for people who are not only qualified but who have good communication and team working skills. I know this sounds silly but genuinely there are many people in my degree (CS) that do not get this. Nobody can work with team members that are not openly communicating their problems and asking questions. What are you gonna do when you get to a new software team and have to understand the 15+ year old code base? Rewrite it all so you understand it? No!! You have to humble yourself and ask questions and be stupid for a couple weeks or months. There is nothing wrong with that. Leave your pride and arrogance at home. The project is not about who did what right, code is owned by everyone. One person’s bad code is everyone’s bad code because it is your job to check over and approve people’s designs and work.
this! I'm a CS major and left the field because of people who cannot work in a group
With the second story… did anyone else notice that the WIFE’s family was told ahead of time but the groom’s was not? He said “a few of their friends, and the wife’s dad and his wife.” Sounds REALLY like the groom’s family has a history and they decided to fuck ALL of them over, while letting the wife’s fam in on the joke.
40:45 Angela's "It has a duel citizenship" = underrated comedic genius
Chanse sort of coming to the realization in the last story that the woman is stuck felt pretty awesome. I don't think it occurs to a lot of men that stay at home moms are often financial dependent on their husbands and it's hard to "just leave him" because she would still be pretty much solely responsible for the kids as well. Props to him for really putting himself in her shoes.
24:00 the professor is the biggest AH in this story. Design and concept are biggest parts of a project. OP is just the code monkey
I love the visible 13:13 “that’s totally us” moment between Chanse and Angela
I disagree with the "eating a load of KFC is what a dog does", as someone who works with dogs, that is your responsibilities as an owner to never put your dog in the situation. It's dangerous for the dog, they should be trained, but also you should never be leaving them with access to get in to the food. Yes, mistakes happen and dogs can be quick and sneaky, but he sounds like he never took responsibility for training or ensuring the dogs safety
I felt like they were saying it was more like it’s in the dog to take the food, but it’s up to you to stop them. He’s responsible for his dog.
@@Heytheremeg Yeah I heard it more as them saying, "The dog getting into food around the house because you were absent-minded is something that can happen unfortunately, but that's exactly the reason that everyone in a house needs to be on the same page about taking on the responsibility of a dog before you do it. The only thing that changes is that the problems here go way further back than when the dog got into the KFC." Plus if the wife is doing all the work of getting ready for the party on her own and all she asked you to do is specifically to watch *your own damn dog* to make sure he doesn't get into the food because he has a habit of doing that, then "That kind of thing just happens when you have a dog" definitely no longer flies as an excuse.
well he also said he wasn't paying for the food HIS dog ate so it doesn't sound like he's used to taking responsibility in general
Yeah no I do think too, that he meant exactly what he said. It's the dog thing to just eat whatever delicious meat is available! It's the owners responsibility to make the meat unavailable to the dog, or to at least train the dog to a level of discipline where it doesn't eat without waiting for the command.
I wonder what the dog ate, because I can see a large dog snatching maybe one box off the counter, but HALF THE FOOD? Even if all of the chicken was spread out in a pile, the dog wouldn't have been able to eat that much and not been noticed. Considering he mentioned the dog ate bones, he should have heard it sooner.
shayne’s thing about not being able to be mad at dogs as a dog person is so painfully real. i work at a boarding kennel and unfortunately a lot of irresponsible owners bring in completely untrained, crazy, intact (not spayed/neutered) dogs, which makes my job very hard. no matter how hard of a time a dog gives me, i can’t bring myself to be mad at them. drag me across the yard? poor baby i know you’ve never been taught. shit all over your cage overnight? poor baby is way too stressed and shouldn’t be boarded. at the end of the day it’s always the owner you have to scrutinize. op in that situation sounds like a wildly irresponsible owner and i hope that poor woman divorced him fr
@@birdy9549 oh absolutely. poor training by owners is never the fault of the dog.
Also like even if you were mad at the dog as a dog person, like you wouldn't not care that they ate chicken bones. Clearly this women is terrorized by and terrified of this dog because she has trauma and her husband didn't train or care for the dog or respect her wishes.
help are we twins im literally at work at the kennel rn while watching this video. Its so real, its literally why i choose to work with dogs rather than the service industry. I never go home feeling angry at any of our ‘clients’. A dog could be sitting next to the nastiest pile of shit and looking up at me like “do you like it?” and i would only be able to laugh.
@@lindsayf9225 If she's not familiar with dogs she may not recognize the danger a chicken bone poses. But it definitely sounds like this guy has allowed this dog to run rampant (probably after promising he'd train it), and favors the dog doing what it wants over his wife and stepchildren.
I truly think the only thing my dog could ever do that would hurt me is attack me or my daughters, and she wouldn't because dogs don't attack unless they feel attacked. But I agree, I may get annoyed situationally, but I'm over it by the time I clean up the mess or within a few minutes. I trained my dog as a puppy and she's a sweetie. That dog deserves to be in a home that can care for it properly
My boyfriend’s a dog trainer, people who keep dogs in their home and continue not to train them, leads to kids with their face bitten off. I feel like you maybe underestimating the safety of this dog. An untrained dog is the worst thing you can do to a family. People can get serious injured from untrained dogs. Do not blame this woman for wanting to keep her child and herself with their faces intact. This man is creating a monster out of a puppy. There is no one to blame but him. You think you would keep any dog in your house no matter what, but then your child has no face. This is not an exaggeration either, google it.
Also types this before hearing the whole story….. but see I was right about how common face bitting is….
"okay so you've never met a gay person" took the words right out of my mouth lmao
Regarding the wedding story Chance and Shayne immediately went to the "the guests were affected negatively and were collateral damage in their attempt to get back to the groom's brother and his wife and their parents" but the more I think about it... were the guests really that affected? Like as OP says, the newlyweds did take photos. Some of the guests knew. They got pictures of friends and the bride's side of the family. It was intentional that they didn't take photos with the groom's side of the family (who are implied to either sided or would've sided with the brother that wanted to "steal the spotlight"). We don't know the situation or the relationship the newlyweds had with the rest of the guests. Angela and Chance made a joke about the joy of spreading gossip and what if that was exactly what happened tho? They got pictures with the people that they were close with. Some of the guests were likely just there out of obligation or just wanted to dress up, that's a thing. Because here's the thing, OP's doesn't mention the other guests were upset ... at least not immediately. The first thing he says is "Obviously we were embarrassed." His first instinct is to point out the how embarassed his family is (which seems to be the scenario the newlyweds wanted). When he does mention guests being upset, he goes "lots of people are upset especially my brother and his girlfriend" AGAIN focusing on HIS family, not the guests. I can't help but imagine the rest of the guests being just as Angela and Chance joked going "did you here" or "have you heard", 'cause like idk it's gossip. I can't really relate, but afaik family LOVES to gossip. This could've been a gift to the rest of the guests honestly.
I'm so confused how they went from "they shouldve told almost everyone" to 'love the gossipers'. It would've immediately got to the brother.
@@ohhi7168 yeah I agree. That said, I do agree what the couple did was fairly petty. Shayne and Chance's stance is arguably the mature way of doing it; communicating with the guests what's going on, why they aren't comfortable going to their own reception, etc. But like my first instinct is to be petty (irl I do hold it back) so to me the way the newlywed handled it MAXIMIZED embarassing the grooms family as intended. If I was their I'd be at the reception poking fun ("cant bElieve they would do that to their own brother's wedding! My gosh!!") at the whole fiasco by the open bar.
And the food was still payed to them, right? So basically it's just whining.
It was basically a free party for the guests anyway. I wouldn’t be all that mad
@@iansorono5376 I don't know if it was really being petty. It sounds like the newlyweds were like, "screw this, I can't take this anymore" and their friends handled the rest so they could enjoy their wedding and honeymoon
Coding story was predictably infuriating. Code is INFAMOUSLY difficult to collaborate on. If you read someone else’s code and don’t understand it, that is completely normal and does not speak at all to the quality of the code? Also, since it’s a graded code, my guess is it needed to be commented significantly, meaning the code is literally laid out intricately so new people looking at the code understand it, so it’s very hard to believe it would be convoluted.
Also, RUST??????? For those who don’t know, C++ is like the first coding language most people learn. RUST is a crazy language to translate to. My guess is this poor girl figured the syntax (how to code in the program) would be close enough to C++ and then realized how difficult rust would be. I really do feel for this girl. I can’t imagine doing all that work just for it to be plagiarized and to have the person who KNOWINGLY plagiarized it be like “that doesn’t sound like my problem”. I hope he’s found out and I hope she gets the grade she deserves. It’s difficult not to make her work being insulted, plagiarized, and then her not being believed into a gender thing as well. Just a big yikes all around. This guy can go to hell.
Yeah, I can only imagine the horrors of someone who just learned C/C++/Python having to contend with Rust.
To make it worse he mentions that she couldn't do it in rust because she had a ballet competition the weekend it was due. So even though this was such a long and huge project that it was 70% of the grade he waited until last minute to ask her to do the final part and turned down her offer to do it in the language she's actually familiar with 😭
Angelas intro gives off Chaos Gremlin energy, and it fits her perfectly
SCARS ON HER FACE FROM A DOG? I DID NOT EXPECT THAT
That coding story is insane, shocked that no one brought up that she'd have to pay to take the class again if she failed.
the payment is not even thw worst part of having to redo a class, it's having to spend 3-4 months again on it.
Chanse calling the word “mutt” a slur is sending me
THANK YOU, I searched the comments for someone else mentioning this, I can't, I was actually cackling and losing it!
@@EulogyPlagerism right I was like no one is giving this the proper credit 🤣😭
Someone I know had a FWB situation like that. He agreed to be just friends. After 3 months, the girl confessed it was her wanting to see how they would get along without sex, and when it turned out great, she knew she wanted to committ to a relationship finally. No idea if they are married now but they were dating 2 years last I talked to them.
The guy who urged his project partner to switch from C++ to Rust is an actual psychopath. Rust isn't taught in most college courses, is notoriously difficult to work with, and can't be learned without weeks to months of persistent practice. In order to jump from C++ to Rust, you have to completely shift your way of thinking about the code you've written. This person was trying to set her up from the beginning.
Back when every mom was a stay-at-home mom, it was super common for the other moms in the neighborhood to help each other out. The mom group would visit each orher and gossip/hang out, helping that mother with anything she'd fallen behind on at the same time. now days a stay at home mom is expected to do everything by herself.
I dont know if this is true but I believe it *and* this is one of my issues with the modern structure of society. People are expected to be able to do everything (or, at least, expectations are unreasonably high for other people. You cant be most everything someone needs. Its simply too much.) There is a lack of true community and support. Family may be there for you but they are usually further away and not always there for you, arent good family, or in and of them selves not that many, only a few relatives near by, may be inconvenient
Instead of being surrounded by your aunts, second uncles, third brothers wife and all the relatives that come with marriages. You only have yourself and maybe a few others. And now days both parents need to work, unless one of them is trained and very good at home stuff; sewing, cooking, preserving and growing food etc. But even then you may be risking your childs future because of the lack of money.
This problem is further exasterbated by the mobility of the modern person. We move when we go to college, for work, for a different life, job, etc. Leaving suppprt systems that were once ingrained in society. Now the state is expected (and usually argued) to pick up where the community no longer does. Which is not the same thing.
As the saying goes, “it takes a village to raise a child.” But today, people have to be their own village and that’s a lot of responsibility for one person to bear.
Added context on Story 3: coding languages are very distinct. Knowing how to code in C++ does not mean you know how to code in other coding languages. So what OP was proposing would be like writing an essay in French instead of English.
Now, Rust is syntactically similar to C++, just as French and English have the same root languages, but that does not mean a person skilled in one can completely switch to the other without issue.
Not only that, but OP mentions the tutor doing parts of the project, which makes me wonder just how much OP actually did. Maybe he’s unwilling to defend his project partner because he thinks the professor will realize OP didn’t do as much of the work as he claims.
that's what I'm thinking too... like if he were to go in with her to say "yeah she wrote it in C++ but then I converted it to Rust" the Professor would probably have some questions about WHY he needed/wanted to convert the code from C++ to Rust and HOW he went about doing it... and if OP doesn't actually know Rust well enough to explain the process because HE didn't actually do any of the conversion, but rather the "tutor" did all of the work converting the code... it could easily out him as a cheater/plagiarizer and then HE could end up as the one with a Zero and maybe even put on academic probation.
OP admitted that their 'tutor' really did his part but obviously won't admit to that because that's an easy way to be kicked out of the program.
Edit: OP also talked at length how their prof is sexist so uses that as an excuse.
Because I’m a little linguistics mad, I just need to point out that though English and French certainly both come from the root language (indo-european) they don’t come from the same language family and aren’t closely related in origin. The similarities between the two languages are largely due to the Norman conquest of England in 1066 which predates modern English by 400 years or there about. French is a Romance language and English a Germanic one. English used to sound a lot more like German, and still sort of does if you squint at it. It does have a lot of French influence, but not in its origin- its origin being all Germanic. Before language standardization of course, there was a lot more variation. But I would be interested in how that relates to coding languages. The languages we speak all by necessity evolved organically and messily, influenced by conquest and cultural mixing on the one hand and isolation on the other. It’s much more of a tangled web than a tree, the further back you try to go especially. Since coding language is by its necessity invented, does it have that same quality or is it more direct in its origin? Do you know what families so to speak a coding language belongs to, etc.
@@katyj6058Perhaps a more apt comparison would be translating Italian to Spanish. The two languages are very similar, yet they are still two very distinct and separate languages. Or, better yet, translating Sicilian to Italian. Sicilian is an Italian dialect, but it is so distinct from its mother language that being fluent in Italian won’t necessarily aid you in understanding Sicilian. I’m not a coder, but I do enjoy linguistics.
These stories make me appreciate my husband and his family all the more. He takes care of me so much, so I know he would never treat me like these men, but his family have also jokingly said in the past that if he ever hurts me, they're disowning him and adopting me. 💀
Ya know with Covid, that last husband probably wouldn’t taste the rat poison