Disciplining Your Kids
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- Is spanking effective? Does it work to send a kid to their room? The hosts get REAL about how they were disciplined while growing up. Plus, moms Tamera and Tamar open up about how they share the disciplinary responsibilities with their hubbies.
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I was spanked as a child and as a result I now suffer from a condition known as respect for others.
loooooool😂😂😂😂
Lululululululs
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well stated
I want spanked as a child and i have respect for people to its called being nice and having common sense
"Keep crying or I'm gonna give you something to cry about"
Lol right
Or my mom would tell me to stop moving lol
right .
+kandi preciado right. like ima really stop moving lolol
+Juliana Fernandez After a whooping or a scolding my mom would say, "stop sticking that lips out, suck that lip in."
"Logan would bite Vince and Vince would bite him back" Lmfao oh my god
Kottonmouth Kingsfan me as a parent
That takes a whole nother dimension with the reports of vince biting tamar 😳
My son used to play with my nipples, so I’d grab his back. It helps them see how it feels and they think twice about doing. It tickled him, but he started to see if I keep doing this mommy will do it back and it’s not so fun when it happens to them.
Kottonmouth Kingsfan When my older sister was 2 she bit our mom and she bit her back and then when I was 2 I pinch her and she pinch me back lol 😂
Honey my mom did that to me and my sister lol she was the biter and I was the little picher crap lol 😂
Tamera and Tamera 😂😂 I Love Them " didn't-I-tell-you-not-to-do-that-again" 😂😭 every Black Household if you got a beating !
Tamar **
I Was weak😂😂😂 that is my mom all the way. You know momma don't play but that grandma. Don't ever do bad her house. She will set sit down before I beat you five minutes later didn't-i-tell-to-sit-down diem sit your tail down. 😂😂😂
right !
BeautyByLay PREACG
BeautyByLay *Tamar
I tried to hid the belts and my mom was like, "I got two hands." One time I tried to run out of a room and I figured I could "jump up" past my mom. She smacked me in mid air with a belt!
+Isatu Mansaray MID AIR
+Isatu Mansaray i'm dying laughing
+Isatu Mansaray Wild stab in the dark here.....West African? Sierra Leone, perhaps? Massy!!!
MANNN
My dad is from Freetown, Sierra Leone. I was born in the States.
that "didn't i tell you..." in sync had me dying! 😂😂😂
"Vince, you're 42. You can't be biting him with those grown teeth." LOL! Hilarious!
The key to surviving a whoopin was to get to the bedroom. if you could get to the bedroom, you could wrap a blanket around to soften the blow lmao
Lol I use to do that as a kid but I locked the door in my moms face but I didn't get a harsh discipline as bad as my older siblings thank god
lmaoooo
***** haha my momma used to make me take off my pants
Hhahaha freal
naw once the belt came off you can't run away cause the punishment would be worse. Honestly two licks was all it took for me to recognize LMAO!!
My mom didn't need to whoop me all she had to do was give me a certain look I was scared to death
That only happen when we was out in public lmaooo
I can relate to that. My mom just needed to watch me with that look back then I would already know what's up. #ScaredIndeed
lol I've brought up "the look" with friends from different cultures before and we ALL got it, it's like a universal mom thing
Same! My parents never whopped me but if I started to act out in public my mom would pinch my arm and give me a look 😹
I think just about every mom gives the stink eye!
I used to pretend to sleep, to avoid getting beatings from my mum.
LOL me too!
mouna3242 lol. i bet that didn't work.
Candy Flores Sometimes it would work, but then my mum started to catch on.
mouna3242 LMAO
I tried this once before....it did NOT stop her lol
I believe every black kid knows the Didn't. I. Tell. You. Not. To. Do. That. whoopen 😂😂
It's Marcii It’s universal
That's Latino culture too
I’m white and that happened to me😂
Alejandro Ospina Latino isn’t a race there’s black Latinos
Bruh where is the lie
Did anyone else notice the shady camera man putting the camera on the Asian girls at 3:11? 😂😂
Ikr 😹😹😹
LMAO omggaaa
He triiiiied it!
Hakeem Lyon omgggg I now notice
Rachel symonds he definitely did
Dead at Tamera's mother scheduling ass whoopings. My mother always felt bad when it came to disciplining us, so she rarely did so; however, my grandmother was a different story.
Never discipline out of anger
Yes agree. You never know how far it can go. And discipline does not mean beat!!
Lissa Lissa it did in my house
@@lissalissa9246 that's well said
Lissa Lissa
So is spanking like a “cute” beating then? A little swat? I’ve never quite understood this one. They both exist on a continuum of violence. Spanking is linked with the same negative child outcomes as abuse, just to a slightly lesser degree. If spanking is not abuse, when does it become abuse then? When you leave a mark? When you do it daily? How do you really determine this? It’s not a game you want to try to get into. Given that the intent of spanking is to cause your child pain, injuries can easily happen.
The bottom line is this: When you spank you are teaching your children that you use violence to solve problems, that you lack self-control, and that you are unable to come up with a better way to teach them. Period.
The word “spank” exists because it is a euphemism to convince yourself that hitting children is acceptable. It is not loving. You don’t hit someone out of love. Is that the message you’re really trying to send?
Spanking is about a lack of self-control.
Our children are not property. It is our responsibility to guide them, love them, teach them, and provide for them, but we do not have the right to violate their bodies. It is a basic human right to be free from physical harm, and this certainly should not exclude defenseless children who don’t have a voice.
@@kendra3329 I'm a child and I disagree...
"If you gon show out, you gon get woah out"
Woah? Or "wore" as in worn out
+GodsGirl4K Yea I just noticed Adrienne said that
I have enjoyed Loni Love ever since I saw her as Rose the Lunch Lady on "Ned's Declassified School Survival Guide."
I was told that too
“I just figured if I popped his hand, it would hurt less than him sticking it in the fire.” That got to me when Tamar said that. That sentence was so symbolic in terms of how a good mother never wants to hurt her baby, but instead teach and discipline the baby so they don’t get hurt 10x more in the real world.
This was the funniest segment they ever had
Agreed!
yesss I'm laughing over here
Asia Neloms no its not
I love Tamar and Tamera in this section they really capture how it is to discipline and how important it is.
Yeah, it's great for those of us who are preparing our minds for having children
Lol, I used to hide belts from my mama when I knew I was about to get whooped! 😂😂
+Jasmyne Tyus IKR then she would hit you wit that line like"Don't let me find it first. Think Im playing" Then you gotta magically find it.
LadyK Lol worst line in history 😂
I used to hide my phone from my mom. Cause Lord knows that it would disappear for a few weeks to a few months if she found it. The best place to hide it from her was pockets of jackets in my closet that I never wore.
+Grace Brielle I wish I would've thought of that
Jasmyne Tyus truuuuu
I was never spanked, I turned out great!!! But I was also a child that cried if you raised your voice. I didn't like being yelled at so I followed the rules. I think you have to know the child you have.
Yep or just calmly talk to your child
Finally!!! I have found a fellow Black Person who also never got whooped but instead just got the hell yelled out of her so bad, anytime they here anyone else yell be it boyfriend/girlfriend/friends/family etc. they automatically have flashbacks too the "discipline" that their guardians gave them. Lucky for me, because I'm part Italian, I can yell for hours. My future children are going too need earplugs!🤬🤬🤬🤬
🙄🙄🙄 okkkkayyyyy. If you say that happened, then it happened.
Thanks for understanding
I was whopped and turned out Fine.
Didn't *SMACK* I *SMACK* Tell *SMACK* You *SMACK* Not *SMACK* To *SMACK* Do *SMACK* That *SMACK*Again!? 😂😂 I'm over here dying at work right now.
We're so rhythmic, aren't we? 😂
I liked that little interaction with Tamar and Jeannie lol
me too but they do actually interact sometimes, unfortunately it is not shown on the clips posted on CZcams.
Oh wow really? I only get to watch on youtube, and most of the interactions they have that I see is Tamar jumping on Jeannie for her opinions. Like 'No no no etc etc etc' they never seem to agree on anything lol like Tamar makes her her job to disagree with anything Jeannie says.
Well if you only watch on CZcams you shouldn't judge. They always interact.
I'm not judging. Take a chill pill I'm not saying that they don't speak. All I said is in the girl chats (which I see for alll the episodes via youtube) Tamar always seems to disagree with Jeannie no matter the topic
MrsTatertots I liked it too! I only watch from youtube since I live in Asia currently. It gets really annoying when I constantly see Tamar roller her eyes at Jeannie, but this episode she seems nice to her! Hopefully they will have a better relationship on the show! Tamar is so funny and love her makeuptoday:)
Syllable Beatings...damn...the memories.
Latinos are just like black people with the syllables cause my mom would say the same thing in Spanish "YO. NO. TE. DIJE. A TI. QUE..." 😂
OMG so true!
+Yoneiris Florimon LMAO!!!!
hahaha forreals!!! 😂😂😂
So true!!!!!! I'm Mexican and I remember whenever I did something that would like puss my mom off, she would automatically grabbed the belt or "chancla" (flip flop) and pull my panties down to spank me. Every time she would add syllables. LOL!
YESSSSSS
This new generation kids definitely need that old school whoopings. Lol. For real.
Yaaaaas honey I'm raising kids during this day and age and mine know I do not play!!!
They really do
They really do. I knew I didn't want to get in trouble or else... but my sister does not get the same discipline as I did.
Yes, they are beating their parents up nowadays...I couldn't even *dream* of doing any of that. All it took was a look from my dad and we all would sit down and shut our mouths lol
Yes Lord
I can relate to this all to well. I was raised by Jamaican parents so my tail was red for "just in case" purposes, but the worse thing my mother could say after I did something was "do you want me to tell your father?"......Translation: Jesus couldn't save you from his beatings :'(
Lol tell it
Lol! Im Jamaican and I can testify to this! They dont plaaay with disciplining! Ass whooping! They dont care abt time out in a corner! I wish I had time out
STRAIGHT LICKS BREGGIN..these young American kids will never understand
or when they tell you walk past them and then they hit you by surprise and then you're so taken back that you don't even make a sound. you mouth is just open and then give it 5 seconds then the bawling begins
raqraqxox yeeeees, lawd Jesus these were the worst!!!!!!
My brother would layer his clothing when he knew he was about to get spank lmao so he didnt feel it soooo he would pretend to cry lmao he tried my mama lmao
I use to do that but my mom was too smart. She told me to take off the pants lol
Mitzi Alpizar Same!
@@EMERALDPMD and spanked you good for it
Lol smart!!..I didn't layer but I would scream so loud off the first hit so she would stop quick lol
Shayvideos1 😂🤣
I vividly remember the "syllable beatings" and theven catch phrase "Imma give you something to cry about." I can tell you firsthand that whoopinga do hurt.
i literally went through the same struggle and im 18, nigerian parents dont play
Lol girl, don't get me started on Nigerian parents, they beat you and make you cry then beat you to stop you crying lol 😂 its not easy lol
Nigerian parents would be stammering while hitting you "How how how how dare you". Every stammer was accompanied with a hit
Anita lol I remember getting whooped but then had better stop crying or get more. Lol the stutter cry trying to stop crying
"DID I TOUCH YOU? WHY ARE YOU CRYING?" ...this is after they've beat you
oh ghanian too ' youll see what ill do to u when we get home'
Tamar and Jeannie look so beautiful today😍😍
I can't save you homie
Lmaoooooo
😂😂😂
Omg I'm dead she's so hilarious
I was in tears when they started talking about how their parents used to discipline them, Adrienne showing how she ran around the table killed me lmao!!!
This is HILARIOUS!!! They took me right down memory lane!!
It's funny because I was a pretty good child EXCEPT when I was around my cousin. So my parents would never have to spank or whoop me BUT MY AUNTS AND UNCLES?! Whole nother story!!! Babyyyy I've been chased with extension cords, telephones, switches, rulers, remote controls, EVERYTHING!
It's always the cousins that get you in trouble 😂
***** ikr lol same here even elder siblings, cousins...teachers...geez
***** me too...and I have whooped my younger brother and sister too
@@TheJayWashExperience Why?? Your not the parent and that isn't your job.
"nothing is like getting chased around with a chuncleta" LMAOOOO
Adrienne is so naturally funny!!! And I definitely have experienced that lol I was a good runner as a kid 'cause of that lol
This was HILARIOUS! When they demonstrated the syllable beatings I nearly DIED!! hahahahhaha #memories!
They so true tho my mama beats to the syllables Nigerians don't play
We never got syllables... We got to view beating dances and got beating songs sung to us as we got beat. Nothing more terrifying I guarantee it.
Yeah man my parents are Panamanian and we definitely got them syllables lmaoo
I use to be scared of certain people though not anymore
I will not ever let anyone mistreat me etc…. ever again
After a certain age, whoopings stop hurting. I would act all over dramatic after every swat, jumping & hollering. My mom, bless her heart, was really putting in work thinking she was tearing me up. I only put on a performance so she would feel satisfied enough not to get my dad involved or whoop me harder.
omg ahahahahahahaahah!
I saw a video of my cousin (he's was 16/17 at the time) doing that. It killed me. Eventually she just gave up tho.
Yes this was me every time I got hit after the age of 10
Cant whoop a teenager now we can successfully dodge the belt and if you hit me i lowkey wanna hit you back
@@tribal_2692 lmaooo
Tamera and Tamar have some good points and perspectives about discipline as mothers. I like how they were all able to tell their different experiences with getting disciplined (from their culture). I've actually heard about all of those before.
I'm black and my parents are from the Caribbean and when I was little my parents will spank me with a belt, and they used to give me a scary death look when I did something wrong. All of those worked for me and I straightened up really quick LOL. I am thankful for my parents disciplining me that way and I appreciate it because I am 25 years old and I am the person I am today because of discipline. It's interesting to see how different cultures/races discipline their children because they all do it differently. Discipline is very much needed because children needs to know structure and boundaries and they also have to know what respect is and they have to give it and it starts at home.
It's so sad this show will never have this vibe again.
yes. ikr
Vanessa Pascual was that a shade or....?
Tamar reaction to tamera saying “it’s rough in the streets” 😭
"He looked at me like I stole his bike" dead I'm ddeeeaaad
I'm not completely against spanking but I can understand why some people are. Because let's be honest, spanking can and does turn into physical abuse if the parents emotions are out of control. I'm not saying parents shouldn't be parents but they have to keep in mind that their child is a person too, only younger.
Researchers from Canada say that spanking a child can put them at risk for developing mental Illnesses.... Spanking doesn't teach children coping skills... It will potentially increase their aggressive behavior,.... Did you know that spanking is banned in 59 countries? That includes most of Europe and other countries.... And a lot of those countries are doing so better than the U.S.
No not true that's baloney that's an excuse not to discipline our kids. We all were disciplined growing up we never had emotional problems. You don't spank your children they end up being very disrespectful towards others because they had no structure.
@@mikesworldtv Treat other's how you'd want them to treat you. If you would like someone dictating to you and hitting you each time you don't comply then you have no right to do it to them. Do unto other's as you'd have them do unto you as Jesus said.
@@Mr.Goodkat he also said spair the rod you hate the child you don't spair the rod you love the child meaning if you discipline the child when he or she does bad you love them by disciplining them you don't discipline them you pretty don't care what they do. thats straight from the bible
@@mikesworldtv The bible uses shepherd metaphors all the time, the rod is something shepherds have which they use to guide sheep, they don't hit the sheep with their rods, when you combine this with Jesus saying "Do unto other's as you'd have them do unto you." and also it's description of love as "patient", "kind" "not arrogant or rude", "not irritable" and "does not count wrong doing's" in Corinthians plus the preaching love is the most important thing it clearly doesn't mean we should NOT treat our sons/daughters like we want to be treated.
It IS "arrogant" to dish out punishments to people because they offended your sensibilities and it is "rude" to hit people, it isn't "patient" to do so either and it is "counting wrong doing's" to remind your son or daughter of the things they've done wrong etc,
There's also part's of the bible which talk about the wife being subservient to the husband why don't you institute that? or stoning an unruly son to death? not mixing fabrics and other things which our society just flat out ignores because they don't like those parts but you embrace a part which you think is telling you to hit a loved one with a rod? "loved" one remember the bible's description of love? patient, kind, doesn't count wrong doing's, isn't arrogant or rude that is how you're supposed to treat your loved one, don't you ever feel guilt when you "discipline" your son? how many times in your life have you felt guilt after doing something right? it's something you feel only when you've done something deep down you know/sense is wrong.
So each society looks at the bible and chooses the parts they already agreed with before reading to bring into their lives and ignores the parts they disagree with which is always the ones their society doesn't like because society trumps the bible IT is what decides your morality not the bible.
Also clearly Jesus thought "do to other's how you'd have them do to you" was more important than any passage about "disciplining" or "punishing" your kids in fact he said nothing about that as far as I know and said lot's about being kind, loving and not hurting other's and when asked what was important that's the sort of stuff he'd empathise you get uncomfortable picturing Jesus hit children with a rod because you know that's not in his character and shouldn't it be his character you're emulating? it feels wrong because it is wrong.
always run to your grandparents but it's not 100% fool proof lol
"DIDN'T I TELL YOU NOT TO DO THAT". That is so true.
"It's rough out there in them streets" LMAO! I replayed her saying that like five times. Too funny, and Tamar's reaction only made it better.
“Wait till yo father come home” LMFAO 😭😭😭
HAHAHA CHANCLETA YESS OMG OR THE WOODEN SPOON😂😂😂
Where are my Nigerians? We didn't call it a switch. it was a "Koboko" or "doctor do good"
My moms sister had a koboko that she kept next to her chair at all times. When she started reaching in that direction, everyone was on their best behavior. 😂😂
Lol in Tanzania we called it, kiboko lmao
marie brii no wayy. lol i love hearing about the similarities/differences between african countries
OMG! I don't know how you just reminded me. The beatings weren't the worst for me! My mum would make me stay in awkward positions like kneeling down with my arms in the air or with one finger touching the ground and one leg in the air and we weren't allowed to move!!! Everyone would be going about their business around me and if I moved she would she would either scream at me or smack me. That was the WORST punishment EVER!!
C Fas yesss i know those positions. The one with one finger on the ground and one leg up in the air is called "Pick pin" lmao
They got reeeeeal black on this segment today! Not the switches & talking your way through a whooping! Hilarious! OMG! I can't believe they allowed that on daytime TV! LOL! I'm ALL for it! Now THAT'S keeping it real!
I'm 18 and the chancla never misses. My mom can throw it from 2 rooms away and still hit me in my damn head 😂😂
Yes my mom did to
🤣🤣
I sooo agree with Tamar and Tamera on this one. Black moms , at least my mom and aunts, always beat us in broken syllables while giving us a lecture during our spankings. This so brings back memories
2:51 did anyone catch the look that Adrienne and Jeannie have to Tamar 💀😂
Also at 2:39 😂
They did that look for no reason.
it was bc tamar trier to make it seem like she was so much older than them lol. jeannie is like a 1-2 years younger. they didn't grow up in different time periods 😂😂😂
But she said that they were in their early 30s tho.
Tamar is on point, "Wait til your father gets home!"
"...and I can't save you homie"- I miss Tay-tay
So nobody comments when Tamar and Jeannie get along but once Tamar gives her a "look" the comments are filled with "Why does Tamar always gotta be a bitch, etc, etc." ☕️🐸
Lool hilarious. My dad would always quote the "spare the rod and spoil the child" verse every time before spanking one of my brothers cuz I rarely got beat lol..But in an African household a spanking is absolutely nothing. What's worse is having your mom ground ginger and put the ginger in your behind for it to burn. Africans don't play at all smh
Danielle A. chaleee, you must be ghanian! the akikedro was wicked!! am crying right now just because of me remembering it!
***** I remember my sister telling me where one time my mom just gave it to her for fun lool No mercy
Nipah ann Yeah I am lol Gh parents or just african parents go in. We have struggled and overcame lol
Yep! And we Thank God for that
"What's worse is having your mom ground ginger and put the ginger in your behind for it to burn." What in the world? I hope you know that and beatings are definitely abuse. That sounds incredibly insane...
All of this is so true. Especially when every word was enunciated with the belt. Then God forbid they miss! Then you get hit for that and they say stop moving. Which would automatically make you move for the next one. lol
I'm LOVING the more serious/important topics lately. GOOD ON YOU PRODUCERS!!!!!!
I love how Jeannie impersonates her momma’s words😂😂😂It’s hilarious
Anyone remember going to "sleep" when you know you're about to get it?
This is The Real that I love and miss. Real conversation about real things that happened. Truth and comic relief at the same time
Lol, at Tamera moms writing in her calendar. I
I had two different ways of discipline.
My mom had a Spanking cane and my Dad had his belt.
Anyone ever dare defend themselves?
I Broke my Mom's cane and deflected all of her swings with the broken end, and Stopped my Dad's belt by grabbing it as he swung, it hurt my hand but I didn't let go.
they tried using their hands and I blocked grabbed their hands/wrists. I'll never forget the look of defeat
Mason Perry what are you a goddamn ninja
So did you get the beat down or not? In my experience, if you grab the belt or broke any instrument of discipline, it only got worse for you. Therefore, it was better to just get the whipping over with and hopefully learn a lesson. ( such as not to do what you did to get in trouble in the first place)
Mason Perry LOL my dad was with the flip flop and my mom was the belt queen
Mason Perry Hell no I didn't defend myself but my mom used to say "take those pants off" before we got a whoopen and I used to think to myself oh hell nah she's gonna have to work to get these pants off of me. So I put on a belt and made her struggle until she was too tired to keep going.
Mason Perry good, fight back
Remember "it hurt me more than it hurts you?"
Tamar looks soo freaking beautiful. #ShimmyShimmy I love it...
I love that too. Her skin supposed to look dewy and moistened I think it looks pretty on her but apparently we are in the minority on this one.
Yea we kinda are. But its ok. We are entitled to like what we like girl. 😊
iman campbell nope I think Tamar looks absolutely gorgeous!!!!!
iman campbell let me clarify I'm saying Nope I agree with y'all. Just in case somebody wanted to say I was hating on Tamar 😳just taking precautions
musiclovesoul33 LOL I know I understand you were saying the nope in reference to us being in the minority on Tay's look. LOL I got you:)
I was never spanked as a child or physically abused and as a result I have never resorted to physical violence/abuse toward others. Because I was never taught that physical pain would teach someone a lesson, resolve the issue, or correct someone else's behavior. Because violence will only create more violence.
Savannah Bishop true. Preach for you and ur words. Everytime I post something like this I get hate. I'm still wondering why I get hated so much for trying to be nice you know? It's also sad to see that these days all the kids in the comment section laugh about it like it's normal. It shouldn't be so thank you for sharing the same feelings as me about this topic. 😊
obsessed with your comment. my wife and i plan to raise our future children exactly the same
@@rivkavanbreugel2500exactly...they are laughing about it like it is funny and not abusive at all. like i do not understand why... thank you for understanding common sense and having it
Why do I loooovvveee these old videos?? With all of Tamar’s ‘extraness’!!
I am of Trinidadian /Grenadian descent and I got whooped until about nine and then my mom stopped because she said " it was like I had become immune to it lol and I was defying her regardless. So from that point on she started grounding me and let me tell you, honey she so good at it. She would hit me where it hurt, man. You could cry blood and she wouldn't budge . She was the queen of grounding.
At 3:54, that described my childhood perfectly.
My mom didn't tell me to pick another switch. She made my brothers and sisters pick one, and they were sadistic as hell. They picked one of the thicker ones and laughed when I got my butt whooped. Jokes on them though because I volunteered to pick the switch for them.
Laughing so hard at the "Didn't. I. Tell. You. Not. To. Do. That!" because I got that so many times. It's not just a black thing. I wish more people would actually whoop their kids nowadays. That's why kids are terrible now. I love what Tamar said about What hurts worse, sticking your hand in the fire or a pop on the hand from me?
I never got spankings so much, but when it happened I went through the 3 stages.
1)the look-which scared me
2)the yell-
3the spanking
i'm with tamera and the thinking my mo mforgot something. I remember I pulled out her chair from under her in public. i'm thinking it was over, we're laughing and then we got home and I think I saw my life flash before my eyes lol
This comments 😂 hilarious
JkGirlhi15 lol
Omg I'm dead over here laughing. A flash, really? Lol
lol Maurice I kid you not! My mother was not playing with me lol!
Omg, you pulled her chair from under her in public? I'm so dead😂😂 I probably would have whooped you too😂😂😂
I love this segment. Ya know in these days the media discourages disciplining your kids especially physical discipline. It's tough love. I don't agree with that being the only resort. I see that the mothers on the panel really have a good head on their shoulders.
Caribbean parents are the worst thoo. We're from Barbados, my mother would find the hardest thing near her to whoop us with. Lamps, poles.. you name it.
Hahaha!! this was TOO good man. they all summed it up pretty well lol especially Tamar and Tamara. wow, memories...smh
"Keep crying or I'm gonna give you something to cry about" LMAO
"It's rough out there in them streets." Tamera, bye! Lol
Anybody else here never beat as a child..?
I have Mexican backgroud but was never spanked by either parent.
I've been told stories by friends before about their parents 'disciplining' them with a hot iron/extension cords but I always thought that was insane.
I got spanked maybe once or twice on the butt. But never with a belt or anything like that and I turned out fine. I don't understand how people here condone being beaten by a belt or something, I think that's a bit too much. Kids don't have to fear their parents to learn how to be respectful.
ivy lala Sometimes when a child is being notorious it is necessary to discipline them. They have to learn that there are consequences for certain actions. That's where the spanking comes in handy until the reach that age where they can tell the difference between wrong and right. When a child starts being picky aka "stealing" you have to tell them it's wrong and if they don't listen you take another measure i.e spanking so they understand the seriousness of the matter coz quite frankly if you don't eradicate that behavior at a young age they grow with it and when this child is 21 and they steal they'll face the wrath and cops will have no mercy. I'd rather spank and teach my child than watch them get "spanked" and taught by the world. As long you care about your child it's all done out of love!!!
Tiara tequan There're different ways of disciplining your child. I'm not saying these parents don't love their child. I'm just saying that kids don't have to be spanked to learn respect. My mom didn't just talk to me when I did something wrong, somehow people here think that when parents don't spank their child speaking to them is the only option? There're are so many ways to discipline your child. My mom pretty much embarrassed me when I did something wrong. Do you really think I would do it again? My aunt would take everything from my cousins room when they did something bad. I put my little sister in time out or take fun things away from her and that seems to do the trick. Like I've said I turned out fine and so did my brother.
ivy lala Absolutely!!! There are different ways of disciplining children. Quite frankly there are children who could care less about getting embarrassed simply because that's just how they are. Different ways work for different people. Spanking a child won't make them necessarily respect you and embarrassing them won't either. The goal is finding an effective method to teach them what is right coz quite frankly all you're trying to do as a parent is protect them the worst. I was spanked as a young child and I thank my mom for doing that because I feared the cane until I got to a point where I didn't have to be spanked because I understood why some of my actions were wrong and the repercussions and by that time I had respected my mom enough for her not to have to repeat something twice for me to learn from it and I turned out just fine. People are different, have different ways that work for them. They don't have to be the same but serve the same purpose which is discipline!!Do what suits you!!!
***** Exactly!!!
1:15 Adrienne has always been a mom. God prepared her 💜💜
So did anybody Peep that when Jeannine started talking the camera went directly to the Asian people in the audience. Lol 😂
I can't deal with Tamar's shine and theme makeup. It's like she's at a costume party by herself
Oh interesting b/ c I think it looks pretty on her. Her skin is supposed to look dewy
Maybe if she were at a sports illustrated shoot but sitting around a desk it looks out of place to me
ahhhh yes. it looks ridiculous.. and a professional makeup artist is doing that to her face? man.
***** Maybe that's it. Too much at once
knp814 for sure.. she's going dramatic on the eyes, and the lips, AND the skin, AND the hair.. Lesson is- focus on one feature @ a time.
Tamar is so effortlessly funny 😂😂😂
Lmao. I tried to run to my room and lock the door to avoid a whooping once. My mom got a screw driver and not only did I still get whooped I also had to go a month with out my bedroom door.
Your Guys Rick keep Rick and God Bless good luck on your new show The Real Show make me smile☺
i can't save you homie! haha
Tamera's mom is the realest!!
Still watching these oldies with Tay Tay in 2019
I don't agree with spanking period. I'm black an don't agree with that abuse. Parents don't spank there kids out of Love , you do it out of anger. Now how would that show a child what they did wrong and how will it solidify that you love them?
My mother never spanked me and I turned out very well in life. What my mom would do is talk to me about what I did wrong and how I will make up for my wrongs, and in a lot of ways that taught me responsibility, owning up about my wrongs etc . My mom would even take things I adored the most , which definitely worked. lol. So I just believe it's always a more effective way instead of spankings.
+Darius Shivers I was spanked my whole childhood. You should fear your parent because then there is no reason to be good if you dont. You're acting like if my dad spanked me i would be afraid of him at every waking hour. What spanking does is make you fear your parent when you know you've done something wrong.
WittyName
Well good for your spanking My parents didnt and I thank them for that. It taught me a lot. And no you shouldn't fear your parents you should respect them.
+Darius Shivers Fear and respect go hand in hand. You respect a lion for fear of dying. You respect the law for fear of going to prison. A man who respects God is known as a God FEARING man. Fear is a good thing, without fear we would all be dead. If your parents weren't scary then theres no reason to be good. And spanking does not come from anger. When a kid does something bad at a young age its hardly ever anger inducing to the parent, but the child needs to have fear associated with the bad behavior so he learns not to continue doing it. So when a parent spanks a kid its not cuz they that hate their kid and are always mad at them, its so their kid grows up to be a good person who respects the right thing to do and fears the wrong thing. Spanking comes from love.
WittyName
For one, when a man fears God that's nothing compared to human emotion. Fear in God is totally respect not that of fear. Spanking isn't biblical period. You can't show me any were in biblical text that allows one to pick up a stick or object to discipline a child.
WittyName
If spanking did do swell then we wouldn't have a vast amount of criminals or African American men in jail now would we.
This was so entertaining. Everything they said was true. I love Tamar's hair in this video
Didn't. I tell you. Not to. Do that again* 3:49 😊. Tamar looked nice, Toni Braxton vibe going on. #thereal
❤ the show hate how much Jeannie & Adrienne ALWAYS!!!!! talk over others and make it ALL about them. Omg if they took it down a bit it will a PERFECT show
I can relate so much it puts a smile on my face
I for one am going to learn the art of THE LOOK. Some parents have it mastered. The threat can be more powerful than the act itself. Still, I don't believe the rod should be spared.
I adored this clip! They really did keep it real.
Growing up we could never even mumble the word no much less to say it my mom n dad were very strick on discipline just that one look my mom gave me.. Quickly reminds me that i need to go back up in my shell. I'm so grateful for my parents they truly are amazing if it wasn't for them i wouldn't be who i am today
They was Television Gold!!!! The diversity amongst POC is so dope… Bring Tamar Back!!!
tamar and tamera got it so right "in the black culture it goes like didn't ! I ! Tell! You! not ! to !......." the accuracy
I never had wait till your dad got home since I live with my mom. I always got it right after.
Amazing show!
i absolutely adore Tamar and Tamera's friendship