why you're struggling to connect with people after a spiritual awakening (& how to start)
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- čas přidán 7. 07. 2022
- making friends after a spiritual awakening & why it can be so difficult
There have been so many points throughout my spiritual journey that I have felt isolated and lonely. Going inward, learning about yourself, and healing can make it hard to connect with others. And while I think these periods of solitude are sometimes necessary, I realized that I was closing myself off from ppl because of fear rather than love. In this video, I talk about how to start breaking free from the loneliness of a spiritual awakening, let go of spiritual ego, and begin building a community that you feel safe to heal and grow with.
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I completely agree. I've been isolating myself because I want to protect my energy but I love having a community and making new friends. It's definitely a journey.
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I'm right with you! 😁
Yes, I think I’m in too deep & it just may be time to “pull it back in”
spread love not war, as long as you find people with that mindset you shouldn’t care about what they look like
your energy will be safe around them, and you keep climbing through your journey
When spending time with others remember the affirmation “Connect, don’t solve.”
Love this
Thank you for this ❤️
beautiful message thank you
thank u for this
i love that you pointed out that the first step is accepting that we don't need to save people or "convert" them into our way of thinking. you start such valuable conversations, love you!
yesss, that part was so good!!
Not sure if I agree with that, wouldn't you agree that it's better to be more aware of who you really are than not be awake?
@@branten123 personally i believe everyone’s on their own path, not everyone is meant to have the same beliefs or live the same way
💯 that's how I initially felt, but I quickly understood that it rubs some spirits the wrong way. Discern.
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Once you become spiritually awakened you see people for what they really are.
Agreed, it's easy to feel like you are outgrowing relationships but in reality you might just be outgrowing yourself. Then that's when you have to relearn how to connect as you are. People who love you will try to understand and support that transition.
Wow I love that “outgrowing yourself” I never thought of it that way!
@@rsamuels6969 same. Very helpful way of looking at things.
Actually have been feeling a bit disconnected these past couple years. "Not everyone has to be your friend" really got me.
That took me so long to realize too!!!
I think a lot of us have, you're def not alone
I think the last couple years shook alot of things up for many with everything that has gone on. Especially with friendships and people's view on things. In the end sometimes a shake up can be good when looking back on it over time bc it reveals alot and can put things in better perspective even if the current time can be tough.
Are you in love with someone and he/she doesn't reciprocate the gesture, frustrated because of a Break -up 💔 then you can use this to attract that lover into your life. It brings back your ex, and help solve broken marriages. Life is too short to be unhappy. Think about that. You deserve utmost happiness and love.
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I couldn’t agree more with this. Finding balance between creating time for yourself and time spent more with others is so crucial for growth. Definitely the wake up call I needed 💛
Yesss
I'm always called to be alone. But I fight it so hard, cause it feels like the world revolves around relationships 😭 maybe I'm supposed to be a monk
Literally thinking the same thing😂😭
I used to fight it so much too but whewww it get's exhausting! The world revolves around whatever u want it to atm
Are you in love with someone and he/she doesn't reciprocate the gesture, frustrated because of a Break -up 💔 then you can use this to attract that lover into your life. It brings back your ex, and help solve broken marriages. Life is too short to be unhappy. Think about that. You deserve utmost happiness and love.
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I don't think I've become better than others. But I'm just not interested in what my old friends have to say. I really have to make an effort to exchange ideas, make them laugh, etc, and keep a semblance of a relationship. Your priorities and perspective change so much that you feel like you're worlds away from them.
I usually don't talk to people about anything too deep, it feels like a very personal thing for me. But if someone brings up something I'm open to it. It's nice to hear other people's perspectives. One of the most enlightening conversations I've ever had was with an uber driver.
Uber/Taxi drivers definitely have taught me a bit. And I was just speaking with my friend about this, in spirit you never have to go out of your way to spread your message. Aka it's not that deep for it to be every conversation - there's definitely a space and a place. 💛
@@NYKIRA well said!
I'm the same way - I only start getting into deep stuff if someone does it first. It's always a fun surprise when convos turn into enlightening moments!
@@LynetteAdkins i love it! i live for those moments
Same here!
When you are surrounded by narcissists it's not ego it's reality. There is no saving anyone other than ourselves. Most of us who are awake were brought up by narcissists and that's not just from my experience.
Agree
My advice is to lead by example. Just by going through my own journey throughout these past 3 years, I’ve not only aligned myself with new friends but have revolutionized friendships from before. All of my current friends are improving themselves in their own individual ways and that’s all that really matters :)
Feeling called out but in the best way. The last couple months I've realised how closed off I've been and since have been trying to connect through attending local events, actually being open to conversation and enjoying the pure joy of feeling connection in all forms. Looking at the comments it's nice to see others resonate so much as well, such an important reminder xx
Thanks for the reminder! While it’s nice to isolate sometimes, being out in the world and accepting and loving people, no matter how awakened they are, is basically the whole point!
Yes exactly we are here to love!
This is so timely as I'm looking to meet new people, I'm done isolating myself.
same here! 🙏
Me too ✨ it’s time to meet amazing people.
It’s so hard to make friends now 😢
OMG I feel like this video showed up for a reason. I feel like a lot of people distance themselves from me during my spiritual awakening. I feel like my vibration is so high that all of the toxic folks just let themselves out the door before I had the time to cut them off
Girl, tell me about it!👏🏽
Are you in love with someone and he/she doesn't reciprocate the gesture, frustrated because of a Break -up 💔 then you can use this to attract that lover into your life. It brings back your ex, and help solve broken marriages. Life is too short to be unhappy. Think about that. You deserve utmost happiness and love.
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It sucks when you’re super aware of everything around you.
After a day of hanging with people I feel like I need a whole month lol.
a month of what?
Same! I’m so drained after very little socializing. 1 day = a month of recharging.
Going through this for a while now. Went through a spiritual war last year into this year. I had to cut everyone off. I am now starting to connect with different people but with good energy and people I can grow with
I agree to an extent. Sometimes it’s necessary to phase out of certain relationships though 🤷🏽♀️ For instance, if you connected with someone by going out to bars/parties, and that was what your whole friendship was based upon, but now you don’t really do that anymore. I think it’s ok to move on from that friendship if there isn’t much substance there.
the spiritual ego is a thing but sometimes we do outgrow people... it`s a balance I think but you make a lot of good points where maybe I do isolate myself too much at times although I like my alone time. it can be a tricky balance.
agreed about outgrowing people!
Rightt.. im a natural loner so it's hard to genuinely want to be around ppl at times.. I like to people watch instead, love them from a distance.
Definitely agree!
Exactly
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I absolutely needed to hear this. I had my awakening about a year ago. I had outgrown a bunch of friends and family. It took me a few months but with the help of my therapist, I was finally able to let them go. Now i have a few friends left but they really dont seem to want to connect or hang out as of late. Im starting to feel some resentment and frustration with them. I know they are good people but its exhausting to constantly be told no. This video gave me some perspective and some food for thought about my situation. Thank you!!! 💕
I know how you feel. Sometimes it best to let just things be if people really value us then they would make time and actually want to connect with us.
I love how open minded you are. I used to not want to be friends with people who didn't think like me, who couldn't talk about the things I'm interested in and I just used to be so closed off. I've always struggled with making friends in the first place so this was super helpful.
wow that part abt everyone being “you” in a different form resonated w/ me like i feel like that’s a big reason why a lot people are judgmental/think they’re better than someone, or don’t get along w/ ppl more is bc they don’t take the opportunity understand other ppls perspectives more. & lot of the time the ppl who are judging have done the same or worse than the ppl they’re criticizing
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Existing in multiple layers is definitely a big one! I try not to throw my spiritual theories on people or make them understand, it’s simple not everyone’s lifestyle. Thank you for this! Definitely something to grasp and learn!
Yesss took me a while to learn this
I completely agree. I’ve always struggled with finding a balance so that’s what I’m working on now ❤️
I definitely shut my self out from people who just don't get me
This resonates. I feel on one level so connected to everyone around me and even those at a distance but at the same time I feel I need that alone time . Biggest message here … ‘its all about love and we need to be existing in all the different playing fields ‘. Love that . Thankyou ❤
VERY HELPFUL!Excellent insights! How loving that you were so vulnerable to share this to help me and many, many others!
Thank you love. I’ve been meditating and feeling like this is why I’ve been needing to do… then your video puts it into the words that I needed in order to receive it.
THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH! ❤❤❤
Yes! Thank you for this reminder. As we grow, subconsciously we put our friends to the side when we expand our mind/experience but there's still so much those people can teach us & there's also things we can teach them. Just because we're not all growing at the same speed doesn't mean we're not aligned.
i really enjoy the perspective that this video takes. completely takes the fundamental paradigm on which this topic is usually operating in (the ability to only relate to people who speak "our language") and had us question and think about how to approach it differently. thanks girl:)
this was divinely posted, thank you for sharing this message 🤍
I think we do exist within different connections but we just consciously choose to have our close friendships to be like minded spiritually and there's nothing wrong with wanting that! Your vibe attracts your tribe!
I agree! It’s so important to open up and make the effort to understand people
Thank you for this video, Lynette. This is something that I am working on. I'm glad I'm not the only one experiencing this.
you constantly seem to come up with topics that I need to hear or which are essential to my healing .honestly thank you 💗
Your energy is truly encompassing and accepting and I love it.
I’ve been feeling disconnected from everyone and everything. You helped me come back to connection by checking that ego. Thank you Lynette for the spiritual wisdom!
"I am here to love" Thank you so much!!
You literally post about everything I’m going thru. Thank u for sharing
This is so beautiful. I’m constantly trying to find a balance and approaching this from a place of love and compassion helps a lot. I’ll keep opening myself up and seeing myself in other people. Thank you!
This is a powerful video. Loving and connecting w people that are different from you definitely expands your ability to love and that’s beautiful.
Whew!! I felt this so much. I’ve been struggling to connect with people when we’re having surface level conversations but I can learn to open myself up to different personality types & hangouts. Not every convo needs to be woke or deep. Thanks for this perspective shift
You are such a gift every time I watch a video of yours I swear it’s PERFECT timing right when I’m thinking the same thing and your thoughts just help me piece it all together ❤️ thank you!
WOW. Your videos always come at the right moment in my journey. I looove the part about being present in every aspect of the world 5d, 3d etc. And being able to be open and see yourself in every person is a tremendous challenge and way of thinking I'm excited to jump in !!!
Best video of yours I’ve seen in a while. Thank you. This reassured a lot of what I was thinking.
Thank you for this! I totally agree with you and I needed to be reminded of this in this moment. 🦋
much needed! Ughhh I swear all your videos speak to me on so many levels! Creating that balance can definitely be a challenge but will graciously help with growth, so I'm continuing to embrace it even on the days I don't fully understand it. Thank youuuuu 💛
Such a great video. It's hard to learn to balance where we're investing our energy, but that's a big lesson for me this season - finding my people and the friends that build me up spiritually.
Happy to stumble upon this video 💖 much needed for reassurance, especially in my current phase where I’m learning to protect my energy AND reconnect with community..and being gentle with myself because I want to enjoy the journey
Love this video. I'm going through a spiritual awakening and it's been hard feeling like I can't relate to most people.
I agree! We don't need to save anyone AND also it's harming us to fixate on that. Love your videos 💞
Really needed to hear this! Love that I found your channel about a year ago. Very thankful 🙏🏾
Thank you. You're talking directly to me right now!
Wow powerful message. So relatable and helpful. Grateful for you
I see myself in you!!! 💜 thank you
This is so helpful. I am in flux and going through so many changes like you described, thank you.
Wow I really appreciate your video. I was thinking about dating and wanting to be with someone on their spiritual path. But I think finding someone/friends with similar values, like love, is SO GREAT. I really really appreciate this video- life changing! Thank you 🙏🏾
Hi love!! Just subscribed, so grateful to be a part of the journey with you! Love your videos, and I TOTALLY resonate with this vid too 💕
thank you for making this video. something my ears needed to hear 🧡
This video really helped me realize how connected I already am the this aspect of myself 7:56 - I kinda tilted my head and thought of it when you said “see yourself in it” and I just had a mini realization. I’ve always been told that I’m warm and personable but I never saw it until today! Thank you🥰🥰
creating and maintaining value aligned friendships is one of the things I'm going through right now and shifting my perspective from transactional relationships. they are so much more fulfilling and long-lasting. spirituality has played a huge part in helping me define which is which
I love it! You are speaking my thoughts!❤
such an informational video, i learn so much from you. love you lynette, u inspire me each and everyday 💓
Thank you for this video. Sometimes it’s a struggle between showing compassion and telling people to F off. But I’m learning daily, nobody’s perfect and everyone is living through their own perceptions. I just have to maintain my boundaries while being kind and respectful towards others.
This video came right on time! I came to accept that we are all on different levels of reality (which I believe is the yin and yang of earth). I was asking myself why I wasn't connecting with people outside online spiritual communities. It was because the second someone was not on a similar path as me or same race, I wouldn't put in much effort to connect. This video has opened my mind.
I love everything about this and found it so helpful for the place I'm in. Thank you thank you!
needed this!! thank you 🧡
So glad I found your video today. Divine timing! Thank you for sharing ♥️
NEEDED THIS. Thank you!
Loved the video. I myself practice buddhism and your video was explaining so well what happens when you connect more with yourself, how to become a better version of yourself in order to contribute a better world. Really appreciated your video, thank you !
So joyful I came across your channel this was literally one of the most informative videos I’ve come across regarding spiritual journey yet and such an eye opening perspective because I found myself doing this exact thing thank you for this knowledge I’m going to use this in my life going forward
I literally was journaling about my friendships and experiences I’ve had on an energetic level. Then I get on CZcams & your video pops up. Love it, divine timing
Not to mention when I clicked on the video the likes were at 888, that was confirmation for me
Bro I really needed this. Thanks and have a good one :)
Lynette Thankyou so much for being a beautiful soul you have inspired me in different areas of my life 💜
Perfect timing with this topic
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a very very good video....especially for those of us that are extra detached from other people
I love your videos. I connect with everything you say. It's refreshing, especially at the space I'm in rn. Thank you for your content.
Some very good points you have made. Thank you ☀
i’m late but this definitely helped me get a better understanding of why i feel like ppl seem to become annoyed with me as i progress thru my journey. gonna apply this advice immediately thanks!
Love Love Love this message
This helped me so much. Thank you ❤
The isolation period that I’m coming out of was soooo necessary for my growth and healing… thank you for the reminder that all of the people that I surround myself with don’t need to be awake lol. I will be more open now 💗😌
I agree , I have a few , maybe 3 that are on 3D level ( I do isolate ) however - as a starseed it helps me and feeds me to be with them and to not always talk love, light and quantum things . We dont get to connect often, but its refreshing ! I need those relationships outside of my spiritual tribe to keep that balance.
I knew to click this video with what i searched for. Thanks for the reaffirmation of what i already know. Just hard sometimes especially with some people.
Gosh, I really needed this video today. Thank you and keep up the great content! So glad I found your page :-)
Thank you for this video. So well said!
💚Gracefully give yourself space to be misunderstood, trust me they wouldn't get it anyway💚 I believe there's a balance to learn when journeying and that it's so in sync that you've uploaded this video now - I am sure many will resonate. It's a powerful practice to be present with those that trigger your new found sensitivity (even old found) and to allow yourself to be present & experience happenings, instead of avoiding the sensations that come with them. ✨
This video was right on time! 🎯🎯
ughh I love you yo!!!! ✨🌸💕
Love you. Your videos always feel like home
Whoa ❤ girl I never have anyone to talk to about higher consciousness and this resonates soooo much! ❤
Lynette do you read my mind before posting every video??😭😭 Cause every time I’m struggling with something, you post a video on how to handle it! I love you, thank you so muchhhh❤️✨
Its difficult to b honest but im sleepy grateful that I've came across ur video coz this is where i am currently. Im longing for a community a connection but find it so difficult to connect with my people i use to hang out, like i cant entertain the things we use to do or talked about. Im literally praying for new connections
SUCH A BEAUTIFUL SOUL
Thank you❤️
Goddess I think you so much I needed this right know
I love how as a collective where growing in our own time yet we all understand what we’re trying to imply 😭awe
This resonates with me 100%. 🙏🏾
I needed this thank you!
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