Reasons Why Highly Intelligent People Prefer To Be Alone | Sadhguru
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I'm no prophet but I love being alone. It's peaceful and easy. We're truly not ever alone. We are always dancing with the Divine.
True, that is the biggest reason I like to be alone is the peace of mind. I'm not interested in small talk and drama or potentially creating drama when there is none. Being alone I don't have to worry about that.
That is ABSOLUTELY TRUE. I call it
SOLITUDE is very different from LONELINESS. In SOLITUDE we REFLECT, GET in TOUCH with our
TRUE self, the Spirit beings we really are and WHOSE
we are. GOD'S .
And no Noise. 😊
The BIBLE says...
In Silence and Hope shall your
Strength be. AMĚN ❤
@Sydney Duque thank you for the insight.
@@tana5098 it is true. 😊
@@tana5098 Blessings to you
Tana!!!
The highly intelligent prefer to be alone because they realize that most people are unable to understand them. The best things cannot be explained with words because they must be experienced.
Exactly, and the intelligent person's emotional needs and interests are overlooked which they are validating and being responsive to someone else. The conversation is one-sided, more like a therapist and client
I’ve loved being a,one since I was a child….also I’m an ONLY child so that made me imaginative and creative because I only had me….and no siblings
Even love that is between 2 people connecting only in silence is the most beautiful relation. It opens new spaces and causes high spiritual development. The connection between those 2 people becomes eternal love ... only through silence.
@@NovemberRain-1975 you surely chose this way in order to fall in love with silence! Beautiful!
@Don't Belong Here, From Another Planet Exactly. I feel this way all of the time. The more i'm around humans, the less i enjoy their presence. When i'm around nature, i'm much happier. Wildlife brings me peace and i feel in touch with God on a more intimate level. I've begun to learn to enjoy the quiet and not feel so lonely. As another post said, we are never really alone. The Lord is with me, so why would i feel lonely? I remind myself often when i start to feel alone in this world. It is preferable to being around others who don't have the capacity to have to think at a higher level of awareness. I'm not trying to sound like a snob, but there are not that many people who i see that have intellectual conversations in my neighborhood. 🤔😧🙏✝️
I absolutely love being alone... I'm not HAPPY being around people just talking about absolutely nothing... this came to me in my forties...❤❤
Don’t do small talk!😊
Me too. I treasure that time to reflect on my inner being. No judgement inner or from outer influence. Time to collect thoughts and emotions. Bliss. 🙏🙏🙏
Right, people that talk about the same things that never go anywhere at all. Men talking about foot ball is major ignorance that has gone on for at leasy eighty years. Then talking about travel, when they cannot even pay their own way where they are at. Always talking about their plans but never doing it. Its waste of time and listening when there is always something to learn
It's not that we're "highly intelligent" it's ust that people are becoming c0rrupt and d ü m in the west.. or at least majority..
@@ShareTheMystery I can't do small talk.
It's no coincidence that many prophet's spent a lot of time alone. Gurus prefer the mountains. Monks prefer the hilltops. Being alone makes you stronger.
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Namaskar. I am alone 90% of awakening time…😂❤
And makes you/ me feel better!
And makes us enlighted
I still. Native monk...white man's body.!!;::
1200s. 1400s. 1900s. To my noing.,
Been same soul spirit many life's 🙏.
Still working through it,.understanding it... I live within as now....lost long term speech , injury to jaw.temple left side .
I'm gaining other skills earing. Seeing..noing......now talking as is. .as. stoping. More stop then chat chat..
I hear spirit clearly. .Happy on the inside..... . Good blissness to yall.hope peace. Calm. Love caring sharing. .finds all. And war umong men. Will. Stop forever..
It's not that I don't like people it's just that I feel better when they are not around. Love
Haha well said! Agree. Nothing personal against others. It's more the pull of the peace and comfort that solitude offers. Nothing like it!
@@soutterly2259 exactly 😉😄
The same❤
LOL, love it...
Highly introverted people NEED A LOT OF QUIET TIME. I love it.
There is peace in solitude
Maybe the idea is to also be at peace when with others!
"If you don't like to be alone, it means that you are not a good companion" - Sadhguru
43 and for the last year I was brought to solitude by God. He brought me to isolation to speak to me. Now I love being "alone". People don't get me so I have no friends. They come and go and I'm ok with that.😊
To be alone is just so comfortable, freedom to just belong to yourself and create, imagine, think. I get very stressed if I don’t get a lot of time alone. It’s necessary for my well-being. I understand that other people mostly like to socialise a lot and constantly seem to need people around them to be happy, we’re all different like this. As long as I can just get enough alone time, I can function properly.
Right, you don't have to deal with the nuances of others by focusing on their emotional needs
11:18 even though I am mostly alone, I am not against those who like to socialise a lot as it depends on the individual n situation. Whatever our preference it's good to keep some time for our solitude
@@yaoliang1580 11:18
It's really good that we have a personal preference time say, each week.
I am very much the same. I'm trying to work on my ascension and I'm constantly being disturbed by my housemate to discuss trivial things that don't interest me. I cannot be rude though as I only moved here a few months ago from living alone, but I'm in training to be a humanitarian and my solitude is essential to my inner growth.
They said if you don't like being by yourself then you have a bad company...
Fortunately I love being by myself...
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If you like yourself, being alone most of the time, is better than living with others.
The only way to be happier is to live with a twin soul. Someone with a keen intellect and great sense of humor.
I just love being alone..its not because i am smarter than average, i am not...its the DRAMA that comes with people that cant or wont get their shit together in life...my life is very peaceful because i make it that way...we all have a choice of what we will tolerate ...
This way you are not around crazy, competitive, jealous people. Great video
And liars
Running errands dear and you
Sent to wrong person by mistake
Being alone is good. You can think and organize everything you need... without distractions.
i agree with you gigi.
Yes, one can think and organize everything one need when one is alone. But the question is, for how long can one hold to be alone? If one knows the nature of life, or in other words, if one is already self-realized, one can hold to be alone for years, or as long as one wishes it to be!
Wasting your precious alone time to something as frivolous as thinking? That’s almost criminal levels of wasting good presence.
Or not do not think not 🎉or talk or listen ….
@@georgitaylor2922 whatever serves you, stick with that. I can't tell you how to conduct your life. I know what works best for me personally... I shared because it might help someone else...
It’s easy to be happy when you have nothing to cling to. Often people seem to say the opposite, it’s easy to be happy when you have something to hold on to, but clinging and holding on leads to suffering without a fail.
Eventually that clingy grasp dissipates and there you are!!
Time alone is spending time with life, love and let the still small voice of the creator teach you in silence :)
i just love my alone time. and since my husband died i prefer it even more
Are both of you close n loving while he's alive
"I'm best when I am alone" Yep... 😀
Jesus frequently went to be alone.
TO PRAY TO GOD ❤
I’m very happy being alone. Family and friends think I’m anti social they don’t understand. I don’t have alot of people around me at all. I can be around someone and in ten minutes I know there past present and future amazing.
"To know yourself, you must spend time with yourself, you must not be afraid to be alone." -Aristotle
My father survived WW2. He came home….a changed man. I was born after that time(1953). . His past experiences caused him to interpret God and things differently. Even tho he claimed to be an atheist…..he agreed to send me to a religious College….because of the ‘life structure/personal discipline’…..that I would learn. He saw many horrors overseas in war. He was a self-taught man. I say all this to say….that I too eventually let go of organized religion gladly. I have since journeyed off and on through self-realization. God…as I perceive….has protected me while I had to learn/re-interpret many things in my life. I am my father’s daughter. I am 69 years old.
Ahna 🕉️🕉️🕉️
As a combat vet, I would like to thank your dad for his service during the largest and deadliest conflict in human history, involved more than 50 nations. And thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Neither God nor Jesus invented religion - religion is manmade. Jesus said to be a good person, and love God.
I think you are everyone's daughter. Structured religion is for those who need structure, not those who need religion
He's right. Were all losing ourselves to the daily grind.
Being alone forces us to look inward. I find it impossible to really go deep within with people around. So I take every opportunity to do so, and relish every moment. Always wishing there were more….
When I lost my dog Zacko, the pain made me change completely. I’m more compassionate, help homeless, cry when I see someone suffering, became a vegan but on the other hand I have no patience for human superficiality and uselessness anymore.
Alone and lonely are light years away.
Being alone is wonderful you give space to your brain and hence invite strength to your body and mind.
I'm love being alone because alone is my the best time and I don't care other think on me
A year ago I was challenged to try living without the daily drama of social media and constant communication with the world. I had already bought a place far away from my stomping grounds, so I relocated myself to solitude. Then, started shutting down one thing at a time. I found that I really could live without knowing what my friends were eating or doing (without me). A year later, I started slowly easing back into society, but with a little more peace! Instead of feeling like I should interject my thoughts openly, I keep them to myself and you know what? I still have my off the wall humor, but I don't offend anybody!! This has been a life changing event in a very positive way!! Thanks for sharing your wisdom!
I find being around people just causes problems. I prefer to be alone and keep a positive mind.. not be with people who suck my life's sourse out if me with negativity
Is better to be alone than in bad company
I am glad when I am with people. I am also completely well when I am alone aswell. I have come to realise it's actually about how you utilise the time you get to have. Even when with people around or just by yourself. If you find value in what you are doing you will be happy but if you are mocking and doing things which feels out of morality you will be unhappy. You chose your mood. So stop letting other people decide the way of your life.
Unfortunately, the internal state of a highly intelligent person will never be known to a moderately intelligent or modestly awakened one. It is a fruitless frustration trying to share the interior life of a highly evolved soul with those who have no access to the depths of thoughts and feelings, or even of the blissful nothingness that a mystic perceives at every moment.
That is the point of being a mystic! It makes us become more of our Selves, and helps us better identify with the Source paradise instead of the mundane; what it does not do is give us an abundance of playmates with whom we can share the riches of our journey, and after a while, even that does not rankle as much as it did when we were young and still trying to make it into the cool clique, or make a mark on the world like our classmates and siblings. It’s a process. The loneliness of our 40s gradually gives way to the soul’s expansion and spiritual enrichment of our 50s and 60s.
@@veritas2222 you are so right! Yes, people without spiritual experience cannot even see what they miss, while meeting a highly developped person. They see that the person is different but mostly react with rejection or eben aggression... if that happens within a family it is better to leave them if possible.
@@veritas2222 i agree. I'm 58 and am changing how i look at things in recent years. Women become much more settled in themselves as they age. I like myself more now than i ever did when i was young. The only hard part for me is not having a partner to be in my life. I know i don't need to be married, but i sure would love a man who shared my dreams and faith in God. Even a companion as a friend would be desirable. Sometimes it gets old doing everything alone. What helps is knowing that i'm ok and if God wants me to be in a lifelong relationship, then it will come my way. If not, i will be the best woman i can be to myself and others.
Blessings go out to those that understand what i wrote here. 🙏 ✝️🙇♀️💞📖
I’m an immigrant living in the USA for over 20 years.once I realized the amount of non sense talk crying complaining and mental health issues filled with drugs alcohol sex entertainment and fake life basically just retracted kept tv off.yes this country is sick.
1 of the reasons: When the equation does not appear to have a possible positive ending, it is better to subtract the negativity even if that means the results ends at O, at least it is a better number than a -1. Translation: When a group of people does not appear to bring you anything constructive or positive in your life, it's better to take them away from your life even if that means you end up with 0 friends, at least being alone it's better than a bad influence putting you in a bad position causing you losses.
well, duh, but one doesn't want to be unfairly strict and mis-judge people due to a false bias or misperception, remember also that people who have rich complex lives have many more variables to weigh or karma to consider
Even though we can get lonely, we choose being alone because people in general are too ignorant for us to tolerate. When a person talks and everything they believe is indoctrinated and just not true or offers any definition we have to correct it, but then we when get tired of freely educating idiots we just respond with yea yea yea yea yea. I am probably life times ahead of most people
Ok
Better be alone than waste time on nonsense social interaction, be alone can be only productive if you focus on self development
Agree..I read all the time..
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Back during Highschool and college, I always danced by myself (majority of the time) whether it was in public or someplace secrete. I just tuned out the world with music and focused on myself, the way my body feels and moves when I try different things. My friend who was a breakdancer told me “Bro you just started right before summer break, then came back to school and all of a sudden you start doing THIS (as he mimicked some of the new things I learned within those few months)”.
Never alone is never any privacy
Sadhguru videos is always so satisfying to came back to
You are so right bobby. Bless you.
Personal truth for myself . I am relieved to be alone and at the same time also feel living with awareness I came to realize I am more connected to all and everything.
I love being alone… I don’t watch TV, or listen to music, I rarely go on social media. In the past few months it has been more. I have never been happier than now in my whole life. There is know drama… It’s more relaxing… I am enjoying my solitude that much… I have been doing this for many years… Freedom is to be alone. No misery…
I cant make friends because i do not feel that real connections and there is no reason to build a fake friendships.
I prefer to be alone but making friends is also appreciated ❤🎉😊
There is so much clarity in his thought process. Just astounding.
Out of a deliberate isolation came the enjoyment and freedom of being alone with so many aspects of one self. You’ve got to love your own company to be able to utilize and enjoy your peaceful time with you and your soul.
That being said, it’s wonderful to mingle with friends and family from time to time.❤️
I've always spent a lot of time alone. I prefer to be alone & recharge that way.
I learned a lot being alone about life and nature. Its what saved me.
I love to be alone!
This solitude and hermit lifestyle isn't a once in a while thing. It's 24/7 365 kind of journey.
When fate sent me into loneliness, I started watching much more clearly what is happening around me and in my inner life. I started to regognize, that even a platy fish can be as true to his wife like a swan. This little fish, considered to be a peaceful fish living in small groups, has incredible emotional capacities. My platy fish stopped eating, when his wife died, he refused a new "partner" and obviously died of grief and sadness, there was nothing to be done ... How often does this happen to people? Perhaps the fish can feel deeper than most of other human beings. How can we be sure, when we still believe, that we are the "crown" of creation of this universe? Doesn`it make us arrogant and even more stupid - more destructive against nature? Maybe we are only the little "children" of the universe, naive and nearsighted, concentrated on us and our unimportant abilities which many of them are to destroy and pollute this planet ... while the plants, that are on earth since millions of years and dedicate themselves to life on earth in a selfless way, communicate through mushrooms and chemistry, in a silent language ... maybe they are our real docs, and the birds our "soul-keepers" ... nobody realizes, that birds and plants know our thoughts and react in an adequate - mostly in a healing way. They don`t ask, they just heal. One day I found out, that my favorite shrub in the garden is watching all my thoughts: in the middle of winter it sent at tremedous smell without having any flowers or leaves, because I thought about it and how beautiful it will become, when spring will come. When my father died, the same shrub gave me a treatment with its smell for half an hour which was very intense and the sadness was gone forever. I could let him go in peace.
Who knows what it means, when hundreds of ravens perch on the treetops as the sun goes down and they suddenly fall into deep silence? What kind of sun meditation are they doing? What are their true skills as yogis? I guess, their repertoire of meditation is much bigger than the one of all cultures of humanity - and I wonder, if they are enlightened ... why not? I am not crazy, I am just watching and I am astonished to see, that there are so many meditating animals hanging up in the shadow or on the top of trees, like birds, that use the top of tress as antenna of the universe. Are they talking directly to God? All animals love meditation, they do it actually the whole day, while they are not hunting...- but only few humans like meditation and practise it and that is what makes me think that something is wrong with us: We cannot feel the real taste of being silent, as we are thrown out of paradise - the paradise of silence that is within every creature ... we live in a kind of hell full of noisy thoughts and empty words, a world full of manipulation, greed and anxiety - we do not see the beauty of this universe, that is why we kill all beautifull regions, where there is only nature: The human being is afraid of this silence within nature and that is a true sign of being a not very spiritual creature. Silence and loneliness are just the doors into the spiritual world and our culture calls lonely people psychopaths, that need a treatment or ane endangered to became crazy. THAT is really crazy!
So beautiful. Thank you.
@@crystalefooks9666 Thank YOU for your kind appreciation!
I will be thinking about your platy fish and shrub forever now. Thank you!
I agree with you ... unfortounatly.
I would agree with your comments 100%! It is unfortunate that humans are not that insightful of what wrongs they commit to others and the world. We get warnings every day that nature is trying to tell us. But, we don't pay attention. It's so sad we will figure out how to coexist with this planet too late. I don't have a good feeling about the fate of Earth. People are a destructive, selfish species and they seem unable to learn from their past mistakes. Praying for the Lord to return soon and take me out of the crazy world today. There is just too much evil going on.
Wish i didn't feel this way, but my faith leads me to see the truth and it is not going to be a good ending for a big portion of humanity. The only way to eternity with the Lord is to accept His gift 🎁 and repent of your sins. Living of the world is to die in sin.
God Bless You. 🙏🙇♀️💞✝️⛪️🇺🇸
Be alone till the right ones comes
and suffer ever after..😉
@@shanbala9600 of that respond = are you a man who feel not good? If so start embrace your self 👍✅
@@shanbala9600 LOL!
I pray most of my waking times and I love knowing I am loved beyond human understanding as Abba says in His book. God 🙏 thank you 😊
His comment on how only miserable people live a long time recalls this vignette: The philosophy professor received the following answer to the assigned question, "If the world was going to end in an hour, what would you do for that hour?" Answer: "I would spend it in this class, because an hour feels like an eternity here."
Most of the time I love being alone! I am at peace with myself. If I want to be with somebody that person should have the same.mind set, the same understanding of things around me and the same level of intellect with me. Because I abhor conversations that are going nowhere or in other words, nonsense!!
Right from my childhood I love being alone studying alone sleeping under a starry sky at night time I just loved my own company in dafe peaceful pleasant calm environment full of trees and natural beauty
Answer: bcuz whenever you're trying to bring awareness to somebody else understanding. It's more than frustration to get them to think with common sense, but while they're stuck on none sense.📢💯
People trying to ask me all the time, "Do you have friends left?" "Aren't you afraid of being alone?"
Truth is, being alone brings me happiness and calm without any voices that always wanted me to be somebody else. I have everything I have even if no good friends left, I smile cherished after I discovered true value of reading book, which I consider as a companion.
Agree..better alone than with liers/ womanizers/ takers or Gossiping... phycopath.. wicked falsehood of people...
As someone who is both an introvert and an only child, this truly speaks out to me. I've always been known to keep to myself most of the time as well as having everything to myself. It wasn't until the covid pandemic and being stuck in quarantine that I started to find solitude with being alone and it wasn't until very recently that I learned the difference between being alone and loneliness, which are two things that some people aren't able to differentiate. As far as working on a project though, I definitely prefer to work by myself because things get done more quickly and efficiently, I'm more organized in that way and I have more creative input.
5:22
I love to quote this one at parties. 😆
God is silence and only listen to those that are silent. This is why people meditate in silence so they can connect with God. The All-Knowing does not need to make noises. People make noises to impress others how much they know, but the silent ones are the smartest.
I enjoy deep, meaningful conversations, but if people just want to talk about the latest sportsball game or something similar, then I’d just rather be alone.
i cud spend a whole month without talking to people and i wud be at thee most generous peace ever but once i open my gate n heard out, then problems begins, financially, physically and emotionally. im glad im not alone.....
I use to be very socialable....then swung around to being unsociable....I am happier 😊
Its kind of simply,People who can be alone or like to be alone have no issue facing themselves and work to improve,People who dont like to be alone dont lika facing themselves they dont want to solve or face some things within themselves so they run away to distractions,i am fine facing myself and having fun with myself :)
Truth be told I experience exhaustion after being socially engaged.
I feel the same. There is a vampiric effect from some people that just makes me want to get away from their soul-sucking BS.
Being alone is good/bad. Age is great factor. Loneliness is poison. People die from Loneliness. We r social animals. It is better to be alone than in bad companion.
Your best creativity, ideas come when you are alone
Nowadays I notice that our younger generation is more smarter than our generation not because they are tech savvy, but because they frequently tell the following mantra to their parents and friends... "LEAVE ME ALONE"....
Being alone makes one to think deeply
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Being in crowd is a kind of education as well as being alone is also a kind of education there needs a balance as preferred both are a part of education as we sleep as per requirement our energy regained rejuvenate similarly our wisdom grows as wel as our energy in silence as per requirement in tranquility so staying alone for sometime is preferable thanku so much I am grateful to you
Yes i need balance of both. It was hard for me when I stopped working the balance wasn’t there anymore. I am better at it now but i still need to go outside and be around people to feel better than i can enjoy the alone time way better.
i had no choice 😢❤ i spent my entire adult life alone .its crazy bro im still happy
When you are not getting any, you spend a lot of time alone wondering why. Then, wondering why about other things becomes a welcome distraction. In the process, you learn a lot about yourself, which is then a template for learning about anything else.
Charlie Brown said it best: "I love humanity; it's just its people I can't stand."
i am 21 and i think finding your soul is much greater than becoming something you just make money for,being alone is gives you peace and happiness. which many people cannot find even after completing there whole life span.
Thanks alot everything you explain shows how environment affects us either positively or negatively but if we get time and confer with our own selves we can truelly find our true potential
This why I don't have friends , I don't have to co sign anybody's shit
being human is super ~ I love this
Yes we all need abit of human connection at times but the older I get it becomes less and less. It's mostly small talk with people and they put on a front,bragging or running others down. I find it all so tedious. I need time alone to ✍️ and to survive. The Belfast poet Andrew Beattie.
I enjoyed this video's commentary.
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Can't deal with empty small talk!! Need to be alone more than many people do.
Blessings to you and all love and light ❤❤
Been living alone since 1995 😮 It’s a lot to get everything done but at least I don’t get distracted by the superficial.
Sharing is caring, the mind is a mesh of thoughts and emotions, being alone is reflective to ones peace
I am a mathematician and love sitting alone thinking about mathematics or the nature of my own consciousness.
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No words to talk about... Ultimate truth
This is crazy. I have lived alone for 6 years, after divorce. 30 years together. I wanted another relationship but none have shown up. I like alone time, but this is too much alone time. Not sharing is hard... Overall, all my life I have spent time alone. growing up, Hiking, motorcycles, bikes, , and working my own businesses, very many solo voyages. I don't mind social time. Its really strange that god is punishing me, failure after failure. If it wasn't for the internet, I would be really alone just with my two dogs. Good thing I have a garden now.. I don't quite understand... but yeah, I'm done with people now after this last experience with online people, scamming me, huge amount of stress. crazy.
You are not alone. 😂
Feel ya!
Great, this is exactly what I needed to hear!
Life lesson make me understand myself, I enjoy being on my own ! Their is a time for everything! Thank you for sharing! SoSo Lobi
Thanks sadhguru.
Being alone is essential for exploring your internal being, if you constantly have distractions around you it's impossible. Although there is a point where you must STOP trying to understanding yourself. When that is only you can decide,?
He is very straightforward
People who choose to be alone do not become millionaires and billionaires, do not desire for material riches, do not have organisations and followers. They naturally stay away from all these.
Of course being with people or being alone is primarily a preference, we are all different, but I do think that one only truly knows themselves when they are alone , without the judgement, influence and expectations of others.
So good and clear words about a human creations.
Finally, some affirmation!
Thank you😊
I feel down that's why I'm alone. But I never regret being alone because I learned to know myself very well. But I still have hope I can find the right one for me and I know it's not in this place but somewhere.
It's easy to delude yourself when you're alone because there's no one to challenge your ideas
Hear hear! I'm astounded that adults take this BS seriously. Gullibility galore! 😊
I have been a loner my entire life.. it's crazy how this video was recommended to me ..
Just realized that Sadhguru is only 65 years old. Just a youngster!