Struggle of a Single Mom with an Autistic Child | Lhakpa Choedon - ​⁠

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Komentáře • 606

  • @TashiPassion
    @TashiPassion Před 17 dny +38

    She is not just a great Mom, she is very honest and truthful. And most of people don't know that lots of inventions are done by Autistic minds. They have very sharp mind and can be very focused. So, respect all with Autism

  • @pasanglhamo9442
    @pasanglhamo9442 Před 17 dny +65

    I am here for A for Ball. Nowadays its very hard to find the people who is very transparent and honest like you. Honesty never dies. Always stay like this and god bless you. We love and respect you ❤

    • @tenzindorjee1909
      @tenzindorjee1909 Před 16 dny

      I respect for who helping for other beings practically. Mom like this I put in garbage 🚮 I think you enjoying her videos... Always Tu and Likpa all that words from her videos .

    • @pasanglhamo9442
      @pasanglhamo9442 Před 16 dny

      @@tenzindorjee1909 if you dont like her why are you still watching her vidoes? Who is forcing you? You are just jealous of her. How do you feel when someone says i will throw your mum in garbage? Does that hurt you? If so same for her. She is also human like your mum

    • @pasanglhamo9442
      @pasanglhamo9442 Před 16 dny +5

      @@tenzindorjee1909 why are you watching her videos if you dont like her? Who is forcing you? People like you who dont have anything to do in your life have nothing to do with her. Dont compare yourself with her. You are just too jealous of her. Do you like when someone said to your mum i will throw her in garbage? If you feel bad. She feels the same. She is also human being. Be nice to someone.

  • @Tseyang10
    @Tseyang10 Před 17 dny +41

    She is really a strong mother . Very honest & straight.

  • @TheTsedorlama
    @TheTsedorlama Před 17 dny +176

    She is awesome mother. In a Tibetan society she is a one of best mother, ❤❤❤

    • @Samurai-ke5ie
      @Samurai-ke5ie Před 17 dny +7

      Want to be like her ?

    • @tenzinchoeden3166
      @tenzinchoeden3166 Před 17 dny

      @@Samurai-ke5ie i got two words for you . Suxk it

    • @user-ef8is1pk9z
      @user-ef8is1pk9z Před 17 dny +5

      Yes I want !

    • @tenzintopchoe112
      @tenzintopchoe112 Před 17 dny +4

      I also want to be like her.she is amazing ❤❤❤

    • @tenzinpaldon7041
      @tenzinpaldon7041 Před 17 dny +21

      Ur world is too small to see nothing but her as the best mother. There r lot of other mothers who have much harder life but since they r not on social media, u can’t say she is the best. I know she has an autistic son but she get everything free from the French Govt. In our society(India) there are mothers who have child with special needs who have got no help at all. They struggle to meet their ends meet. So there is nothing special about a for ball. She became famous of talking rude rubbish sexual things on CZcams. I guess that sums up her followers😂

  • @tseringlhamo4583
    @tseringlhamo4583 Před 17 dny +56

    I am so sad to hear your story. I know what you are going through. I am also a single mom. It’s not easy to say but be strong, you are a pillar to your son. When he grows up he will be proud of you. Although he is an autistic child, they are more sensitive than others and he can definitely feel your love. Wishing you both a happiness in life. Everything will work out.

  • @user-lq1wu8sr7v
    @user-lq1wu8sr7v Před 17 dny +98

    Tibetan community should support our tibetan people like her😢

    • @taidelek9994
      @taidelek9994 Před 17 dny +11

      Why ? Have she done anything for society or for Tibet cause

    • @user-lq1wu8sr7v
      @user-lq1wu8sr7v Před 17 dny +9

      To being a བོད ་པ།

    • @user-ef8is1pk9z
      @user-ef8is1pk9z Před 17 dny +14

      @taidelek994 , Oh WOW!!! all people have to do something for community tangibles and have to be seen by you.
      She has been a role model for 1000 more people. She needs our support ❤. First you must do your assignment !

    • @kalsangdolma9312
      @kalsangdolma9312 Před 16 dny

      @@taidelek9994why. Have You did Tibetan community service and you have disabled kids. Shut up

    • @tashitsentso3851
      @tashitsentso3851 Před 16 dny

      Right ❤️

  • @freetibet8133
    @freetibet8133 Před 17 dny +63

    Thank you very much Bhuchung Kata La for interviewing Ms. A-For-Ball. I believe she is the most popular CZcamsr in Tibetans. God bless her & her kids lives. We all love her so much.

  • @tenzinydonchen429
    @tenzinydonchen429 Před 17 dny +33

    She is loving mom,beautiful and very smart ❤️❤️❤️👍

  • @tibetan_sonam8615
    @tibetan_sonam8615 Před 16 dny +18

    God gave her this child becuz god knew she will take good care of him…Be strong and avoid negative comments and people.

  • @Zey909
    @Zey909 Před 17 dny +19

    Nyinjey … thank you so much for sharing your painful memories. You are really strong women. I really wanted to give you one tight hug for you ah lhakpa 🥰😍. I wish you will get succeed in drukta dream. He is very lucky son

  • @Peaceful33517
    @Peaceful33517 Před 17 dny +95

    Thank you Bhuchung lak for covering Lhakpa lak’s life as a single mother with Autistic child. We need more awareness in our societies that Autism is not a disease it’s just that their brain functions in different ways and little slower but not less.

    • @tenzindorjee1909
      @tenzindorjee1909 Před 16 dny

      A lot of tibetan single mother in India. Poorest than Lhakpa (phakpa). What you want to say about them?

    • @Peaceful33517
      @Peaceful33517 Před 16 dny

      @@tenzindorjee1909 Lhakpa is on social platform and I follow her as a very honest person who is not afraid of our society. I don’t know about poor jhichak poor people as I didn’t say that I am a millionaire lo… I am sure you are jealous of Lhakpa lak…

    • @Peaceful33517
      @Peaceful33517 Před 16 dny +2

      @@tenzindorjee1909 what you mean by that? She is on social media platforms and I follow her because of how honest she is. Looks like you are jealous of her popularity. Injjay about your thoughts…

    • @user-bt6fv3dq6q
      @user-bt6fv3dq6q Před 16 dny +4

      @@tenzindorjee1909you should never compare a parents struggle with one another , shame on u

    • @ten_hype4207
      @ten_hype4207 Před 15 dny

      y, you mean that our society don't treat them properly.

  • @tashichodon1692
    @tashichodon1692 Před 17 dny +23

    She is strongest lady in Tibetan society
    You are the best Lhakpa la. Praying for your dream to come true

    • @tenzindorjee1909
      @tenzindorjee1909 Před 17 dny

      Hahaha..... What a funny comment.

    • @tenzintopchoe112
      @tenzintopchoe112 Před 17 dny +1

      Wat something smelling hahaha​@@tenzindorjee1909

    • @tenzinchoeden3166
      @tenzinchoeden3166 Před 17 dny

      ​@@tenzindorjee1909 is the ex bf of lhakpa . She dumped him hence the sourness

  • @devloggirl_
    @devloggirl_ Před 17 dny +31

    She is really strong mother and women ❤she direct and honest.she is funny also.

  • @JampaKhundok
    @JampaKhundok Před 17 dny +15

    Be strong and stay strong, Lhapa Choedon la . One day, you will have a better life, and your son will be alright. Don't worry . Love you as how you are !!

  • @dekyitashi434
    @dekyitashi434 Před 17 dny +9

    Lhakpa la we do understand what you are going through in your life. You are doing your best with love and care for your kids specially your son. You are brave and straight forward. It will take time and please continue with it a little more for your son. It will make a great difference in his life. Thank you for your sacrifice and take care of yourself.

  • @user-yu1ei2fp5v
    @user-yu1ei2fp5v Před 17 dny +12

    Makes me cry. Big salute to Lhakpa la. Superb mom, superb human being. Just live and peace to her

  • @longlivehhdl5479
    @longlivehhdl5479 Před 17 dny +16

    I think all her old friends must be friends with her always. like shame on lobsang 22 becuase she show her attitude but in reality she live on someone else money which is big shame...

    • @Tenzma
      @Tenzma Před 16 dny +1

      Are u here to support Aforball or belittle Lobsang22. Please keep ur hatred for Lobsang22 out of this important Topic. Shame on u for keeping His Holiness name as ur profile name and defaming a Tibetan girl. 🫨

  • @karmawangdu3637
    @karmawangdu3637 Před 17 dny +3

    you are real hero, god bless you.

  • @tenzinphentok
    @tenzinphentok Před 16 dny +1

    ❤❤❤❤ she is the real mother she have been through a lot n lot that no other momma ever has. Love n support for her

  • @NgaDoma
    @NgaDoma Před 17 dny +19

    Thank you Bhuchung Kata la for inviting a for ball in your channel..❤

  • @WaNgMO542
    @WaNgMO542 Před 16 dny +4

    She is so genuine and amazing especially very patient mother ! My role model ❤ Thank you Kata la worth to watch !

  • @whopawmo
    @whopawmo Před 16 dny +3

    I’m glad your Daughters are very thoughtful and help you in need. I hope you get what you pray for. Stay strong and we’re all rooting for you. 🫶🏼

  • @Tenchi143
    @Tenchi143 Před 16 dny +1

    So touching,emotional and very inspiring..lots of love ❤

  • @jetsun685
    @jetsun685 Před 17 dny +31

    This is to all the haters and who have posted negative comments here. First and foremost my heart goes out to you for judging her and pointing fingers at her. I suppose u are someone with no private parts in your body, for that again my heart goes out to you. She smokes. she drinks. uses swear words but that doesn't make her a bad human being nor is she failing as a mother. She's in no shape or form promoting foul languages or smoking and drinking. This is her life and her struggle. If u have problem with that then don't watch, if your life is so pure good for you but my humble request is please don't be a coward and hide your identity behind and post all the negative comments. At the end of the day, she has feelings just like you have too. Please also remember that your life might be very happy and satisfied today but you never know what tomorrow holds for you. So please think twice before pointing fingers and judgemental. Thank you.

    • @yangchandolma309
      @yangchandolma309 Před 15 dny +3

      ངའི་སྙིང་གི་སྐད་ཆ་དེ་རང་གིས་ལབ་སོང་། ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ།

    • @user-ef8is1pk9z
      @user-ef8is1pk9z Před 15 dny +1

      I agreed with you and thank you

    • @hellohi_____________4089
      @hellohi_____________4089 Před 14 dny

      @@yangchandolma3090k

  • @tseringchoenzin2807
    @tseringchoenzin2807 Před 17 dny +1

    Thank you for sharing her story. She is always strong and good heart inside and outside . Love you alwys my friends

  • @tsomotsering1787
    @tsomotsering1787 Před 17 dny +5

    May A for ball dream come true.🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @deckyiboom204
    @deckyiboom204 Před 16 dny +3

    You're fighter , strong, honest, supermom and good human being. You're giving 100℅ unconditional love❤ care and compassion to your son .
    There's no doubt the day of your success and dream coming soon . One day Dudak will stand🧍 in front of you handsome 😍 independently boy. God bless from Delhi❤

  • @SarvaMangalam22
    @SarvaMangalam22 Před 16 dny +1

    As a mother I completely feel the emotions and pains. I appreciate and respect her for sharing the journey to the us viewers. Very strong woman.

  • @tsetendolker5943
    @tsetendolker5943 Před 17 dny +2

    Thanks for interview my favorite person❤❤❤

  • @samtenpalmo1323
    @samtenpalmo1323 Před 16 dny +1

    She is very strong mother and honest mother too. I really appreciate her great patience with her little son ❤

  • @Lob-sang584
    @Lob-sang584 Před 15 dny +1

    She is very strong mother she is an inspiration for all young single mothers …..very pure heart 👏👏👏 keep going Acha …n love you so much be happy and healthy ❤❤❤

  • @Jutho529
    @Jutho529 Před 17 dny +2

    Stay strong!I know what you are going through. I can feel your pain.

  • @metokla7781
    @metokla7781 Před 17 dny

    She’s an amazing mother! ❤

  • @passtens
    @passtens Před 14 dny

    Thank you for being you! Best wishes to you and your son. Stay strong and keep going. One day at a time..

  • @chozomchozom5633
    @chozomchozom5633 Před 17 dny +7

    I salute acha .I can feel your pain can’t continue my emotions ❤❤❤

  • @tseringkhangchen2641
    @tseringkhangchen2641 Před 16 dny +1

    I'm a big fan of her..makes me so emotional. Thank you so much Bhuchung la for inviting her in your show🙏

  • @immigrant-nurses
    @immigrant-nurses Před 16 dny +2

    I just love her for being real! I pray that Drukdak gets his therapies and get better every day. Stay strong acha lhakpa la❤️❤️

  • @tenzinnakshoe4308
    @tenzinnakshoe4308 Před 14 dny

    I just wanna say Aforball is the GOAT. Best interview. Made me go thru all types of emotions. So happy that I never judge her. I always knew straight forward people are the realest.

  • @cyoung4063
    @cyoung4063 Před 10 dny

    Extremely strong woman you are 🥰 I am praying for your son already . ❤️

  • @staytrue308
    @staytrue308 Před 16 dny +10

    Aha Moment still left one great women named Acha Dolkar la AKA Mother teresa staying in Chandigarh 👍

    • @aachisonam6452
      @aachisonam6452 Před 11 dny

      Yeah that's true really incomplete without her interview.👍🏼

  • @jangchupdolma1122
    @jangchupdolma1122 Před 16 dny +2

    Thank you so for inviting A For Ball❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @norlha4168
    @norlha4168 Před 17 dny +3

    Bhuchung la thank you .that interview is awesome ❤

  • @dolkartenzin3523
    @dolkartenzin3523 Před 17 dny +3

    This whole interview being raw was very engrossing and as usual, I really liked this ep.

  • @zema-vv6ee
    @zema-vv6ee Před 16 dny +1

    I love how Raw She is 🩵

  • @tseringsangmo
    @tseringsangmo Před 17 dny +1

    Loads of luff nd support to Lhakpa nd more power to all the beautiful moms who has an autistic child or children

  • @user-pu8kd8cm2r
    @user-pu8kd8cm2r Před 10 dny

    I think she’s a brave mom, frankly,truthful and I truly understood her emotional as a mom.

  • @TibetKitchenRestaurant
    @TibetKitchenRestaurant Před 17 dny +2

    She’s great mother ❤

  • @nimadorjee8267
    @nimadorjee8267 Před 16 dny

    The best, touching, honest and most inspiring episode of Aha. Thank you very much.

  • @Babytenxyvlog
    @Babytenxyvlog Před 17 dny +1

    Very excited and waiting ❤❤❤❤

  • @metokla7781
    @metokla7781 Před 17 dny

    Amazing video to watch! Very inspiring to watch and learn!👍👏🙏❤️

  • @BhuchungTsering-pz3dd
    @BhuchungTsering-pz3dd Před 17 dny +6

    Bhuchung lak thanks for invite Afor ball in your channel lhakpala keet it up God bless u always

  • @yeshibhutia4103
    @yeshibhutia4103 Před 16 dny +3

    Thank u bhuchung la for inviting lhakpa la, she is very strong women, I appreciate the way she take care of her son, may guru rinpoche bless her to fulfill her dreams, I always enjoyed watching her videos.

  • @meerathakur7654
    @meerathakur7654 Před 14 dny

    She is owesome n transparent .❤

  • @Behappy69500
    @Behappy69500 Před 16 dny +1

    A for ball love you 😘 you are the best mother ever ❤️😘

  • @tuetara4119
    @tuetara4119 Před 17 dny +3

    I feel fr you Acha.. when dukda grown up n watching ur video m sure he feel so proud of u.. Buddha blessed u n stay strong lo.. lots of love n hugs..

  • @angela2979
    @angela2979 Před 16 dny +1

    A FOR BALL I watched your videos three times . God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-xr1mc4cj8e
    @user-xr1mc4cj8e Před 17 dny +1

    You are very strong mother Acha ! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tenzang5830
    @tenzang5830 Před 16 dny

    So much love and respect to acha lhakpa .. thank you to the channel..

  • @DechenD-tw5to
    @DechenD-tw5to Před 15 dny

    Proud of mother like this.❤❤ well said

  • @tenzinwangmo5464
    @tenzinwangmo5464 Před 17 dny +1

    Best interview ❤

  • @passgal2
    @passgal2 Před 15 dny

    Sending you and your son lots and lots of love and prayer from 🇺🇸

  • @dikeyyangzom2561
    @dikeyyangzom2561 Před 16 dny

    Hats off!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @tseringtsesang4724
    @tseringtsesang4724 Před 15 dny

    She is super mom and very strong woman. God bless ,Acha

  • @sonam2182
    @sonam2182 Před 17 dny +2

    She is a inspiration woman 👩‍🦰hats off to Aja lhakpa ❤❤❤much love from Bhutan 🇧🇹

  • @charlierana4420
    @charlierana4420 Před 15 dny

    She is so straight love it 👍❤️

  • @Me2yota
    @Me2yota Před 17 dny +1

    First time watching your channel. Here for this amazing human, who loves sticking out and speaking up in our rather conservative society . Lots of thank you for covering a heat tht we need not the heat that will destruct.

  • @tashiyg6369
    @tashiyg6369 Před 14 dny

    Don't cry be strong god bless you

  • @Tibetaninthephillipine
    @Tibetaninthephillipine Před 17 dny +2

    Hope u get through this n god bless u n ur child

  • @thuptentsomo3665
    @thuptentsomo3665 Před 15 dny

    Thank you so much Aha ❤❤❤❤

  • @kelsangyoudon8272
    @kelsangyoudon8272 Před 16 dny

    Superb Lhakpa la, hats off to you... you are a great mother. Being a mother to an autistic child is not an easy task. Love you... give my big hug to your son... I really like your attitude.

  • @phurbudolma8610
    @phurbudolma8610 Před 12 dny

    So emotional. Yes, I feel it. Be strong lo. Tsering. Our prayers and best wishes with you dear. 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖👍👍👍💐💐💐

  • @jtseten1
    @jtseten1 Před 17 dny +16

    As a Functional Nutritionist in integrative Medicine, we all must know that Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a range of neurodevelopmental conditions that affect communication, social behavior and knowing the causes, symptoms and natural support strategies. Besides social deficits, systemic inflammation, gastrointestinal immune-related problems, and changes in the gut microbiota composition are characteristic for people with ASD. Interestingly, studies have shown that mTOR activation can also be modified by nutritional stimuli, in particular by amino acids. Moreover, specific amino acids are demonstrated to inhibit inflammation, improve gut barrier function and to modify the microbiota composition.

    • @Chupsssse
      @Chupsssse Před 17 dny

      v interesting . pls make Vlog on it

    • @Me2yota
      @Me2yota Před 16 dny +2

      Did you read what you have written? No one asked you to share your assignment

    • @dzeners
      @dzeners Před 16 dny +1

      Are there tests that ASD can be detected during pregnancy?

    • @bronxtomzee8778
      @bronxtomzee8778 Před 15 dny

      tell me you googled without telling me u googled 😂😂😂😂

  • @tenzin5347
    @tenzin5347 Před 17 dny +2

    Acha we love u....stay 💪...one day he will be proud of u.

  • @thintamo3880
    @thintamo3880 Před 16 dny

    I love acha lhakpa ❤ she is very good nd strong mom in the world, acha lhakpa don’t cry plz lo always good. Bless you. God bless❤ I watch your video I also be crying😢 i no mom life is so hard I no I no always

  • @tsangsejourney
    @tsangsejourney Před 16 dny

    Priceless program

  • @methokmethok8105
    @methokmethok8105 Před 16 dny

    I will pray for your dreams .. your dream comes true soon ❤be strong ✊✊✊

  • @passangtsechu1160
    @passangtsechu1160 Před 17 dny +1

    Sending more prayers and power to u gyela❤

  • @pemaaage7992
    @pemaaage7992 Před 17 dny +5

    It is not easy to be mother without family close by and especially your child has special needs. I am mother of two and can understand how you feel. Eventhough motherhood is a bless however it is hard and needs space to be alone sometimes to recharg energy

  • @dikeyyangzom2561
    @dikeyyangzom2561 Před 17 dny +2

    Can’t wait ❤❤❤❤

  • @Choetsam
    @Choetsam Před 16 dny +1

    She is superb mom ❤️❤️awesome women👏👏honest person❤❤❤

  • @PhayulDigest
    @PhayulDigest Před 14 dny

    @A_FOR_BALL you are super strong, ignore the negative noises. Sending good vibes & hug.

  • @lhakpachoedon7637
    @lhakpachoedon7637 Před 14 dny

    I love you AForBall.....Dukta is very lucky have a mom like you who is caring, loving and hard working. You are very mom. I love your honesty and straight forward.....

  • @tenzindolma1827
    @tenzindolma1827 Před 17 dny +1

    She is really strong mother ❤❤❤

  • @MsTenamo
    @MsTenamo Před 17 dny

    You are not a survivor but a fighter 👊 just love your thoughts and expressions 🫶AforBall

  • @lobsangdolma4766
    @lobsangdolma4766 Před 17 dny +1

    Love you Lhakpala ❤❤❤

  • @tibetanyoutuber23
    @tibetanyoutuber23 Před 15 dny

    She is the best , kind and coolest Tibetan mom.may god always keeps her strong n happy

  • @kunchokchodon7722
    @kunchokchodon7722 Před 16 dny

    Bee storm 💪🏾you are good mom and strong mom and hard worker mom good luck always we pray for your family we love you ❤God bless your family

  • @tashiphuntsok3721
    @tashiphuntsok3721 Před 17 dny

    You are doing awesome job. I wish your son can get help asap. My prayers are with your family.

  • @Lhamo821
    @Lhamo821 Před 17 dny

    ❤❤❤ finally you realised ! Love you acha lhakpa la we will pray for your dream to be fulfilled 😇

  • @samtenchoedon2504
    @samtenchoedon2504 Před 15 dny

    She’s awesome❤❤❤❤

  • @Muffin-star
    @Muffin-star Před 17 dny

    A for ball the survival hustler… way to go

  • @user-no2rb5fh5g
    @user-no2rb5fh5g Před 17 dny

    Thank you so much bhuchung la. dukdak was so lucky to have a mother like you.God always bless you both stay strong 💪🏽 tse… ring one day your dreams come true 🥰👍genla

  • @dolmakirti3122
    @dolmakirti3122 Před 15 dny

    It’s makes me so emotional ❤

  • @LIF149
    @LIF149 Před 9 dny

    Lots of love for A for ball ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sonamchozom5267
    @sonamchozom5267 Před 17 dny

    Loved how she concluded survivor as her aha moment.

  • @MsTenamo
    @MsTenamo Před 17 dny +5

    Single moms are the real silent heroes 👍👍👍 especially like yourself with a specialneed kid more power to you and your kind✊✊

  • @user-ge5uf3ex3n
    @user-ge5uf3ex3n Před 16 dny

    You are best mom Lhakpa ❤🎉

  • @rinzindolma2753
    @rinzindolma2753 Před 15 dny

    Lhakpa la no more tears please 🙏 stay strong 💪 you’re inspiration to all the single mothers in our community.please don’t judge her

  • @tashidolma9937
    @tashidolma9937 Před 17 dny +1

    You are really a strong mother. 🫡

  • @ngakyi2361
    @ngakyi2361 Před 16 dny +1

    Super mother I love to way she is doing on her children God bless you n your cutie pie kid duktak ❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸🌸❤️❤️❤️will be ok one day your duktak 😍😍😍