LIFE UPDATE: WHERE HAVE I BEEN? | Mental Health, Motherhood, Journey of Finding Me Again

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024

Komentáře • 137

  • @elsieodame-amoah1059
    @elsieodame-amoah1059 Před 6 měsíci +55

    We really missed you 😢

  • @cegecej
    @cegecej Před 6 měsíci +12

    The black sheep is usually the curse breaker of the family. It's a heavy thing to carry but you carry more because you receive more. Where much is given, much is required. There are battles that Valerie will never have to fight because of your obedience to God and your prayers. Cultivate her gifts because her fulfilling her purpose is directly tied to you fulfilling yours. So kudos to you for being where God has and needs you. Val will be a healthy woman because of the work her mom has put in during prayer, teaching her about God, etc. Keep it up Alisha, we're all so proud of you and happy for you. We're rooting for you always❤

  • @latonyathomas8496
    @latonyathomas8496 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Alisha, you've been through alot! Watching your baby sis get married and your twin having another baby and her marriage being ok. I know how it can be. God got you and trust his plan and the process. Pray and ask God for your soul mate. Don't go looking for him, you let him com to you. Your heart desires God will give it to you. I know. I have a few things I'm asking God about but I'm waiting on him. Press push pray have faith, and jus wait

  • @cynthialayeni4799
    @cynthialayeni4799 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Life gets the best of all of us. We just have to ground ourselves in God and take it a day at a time. We need to stop looking at everyone around us and be still with ourselves.

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +3

      So so true! Last year was a year of “being still”… it’s so necessary

  • @gloriaalleyne7135
    @gloriaalleyne7135 Před 6 měsíci +16

    Welcome back. Judge Lynn Toler, said in an interview that life is not a mountain to climb it is a roller coaster. I so much took that to heart because every day I was complaining . If it was not Hark the Angels, It was While shepherds. If you know that you are going to ride a roller coaster you prepare yourself whatever comes my way, I am prepared and I have found that nothing takes me by surprise anymore. I wish you the best on your journey.

  • @l3l3Cakes
    @l3l3Cakes Před 6 měsíci +19

    The irony of this post when I literally mini binged on your content yesterday is nuts😅. You’ve gone through a lot of transitions dear, and gracefully I might add!
    I’m not sure how most people feel but I personally am more interested in long form content than IG and Tiktok at the moment. Tiktok has been wearing my me out mentally, but with CZcams I can connect with the people I want to see and just sit and relax instead of constantly scrolling. The other apps just feel like noise compared to CZcams, but I get it’s more effort of to post here.

    • @aprilcurtis2929
      @aprilcurtis2929 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I agree!

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +4

      That makes complete sense! ❤️

    • @iamshe3275
      @iamshe3275 Před 6 měsíci

      You hit the nail on the head! I could not figure out why I couldn't get into it. Short form content. 😊😊😊 I don't have an ig. I was on tik tok, but not anymore, and I will not be going back.

  • @deejea5413
    @deejea5413 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I am the black sheep but I’ve learned to take it as a compliment. I’m taking steps to break generational curses and take accountability for my mental health. So glad you are in a better place! ❤🎉

    • @cegecej
      @cegecej Před 6 měsíci

      The black sheep is usually the curse breaker of the family

  • @nikkic2710
    @nikkic2710 Před 6 měsíci +25

    Congratulations 🎊 👏🏽 💐 on reaching 100k on IG.....That's mega...you are loved❤

  • @realbeautifulbeauty1556
    @realbeautifulbeauty1556 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Very lovely, saying I love me is important & feeling like yourself again is fabulous

  • @jenniferjones4113
    @jenniferjones4113 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hey Alisha!! I enjoyed the video. Congrats on reaching 100K on Instagram. It's really helpful. I'm just curious as to what makes you feel as though you are and label yourself as the Black Sheep of your family? I would have NEVER guessed that as your positive within your family dynamic. Please explain how you came to this conclusion? Is it something that you yourself feel internally due to certain circumstances like being divorced and the only one not married out of you and your sisters? Do you feel that you're the Black Sheep being that you are now raising your beautiful daughter in a single parent household? I'm beyond curious, because I can't phantom you being labeled as the Black Sheep of the family being that you and your sisters are ALL super successful and accomplished and especially with you making things happen for you and Val all on your own within your household. On top of that, your family appear to be so very close-knit and supportive. I would have never guessed that there would be any Black Sheeps in your family....especially not within your immediate family (parents and siblings). Honestly, I have certain feelings that come up here and there when I'm around my immediate family that have caused me to conclude that I must be the Black Sheep. So, I'm so interested to know why you feel that way.

  • @sylviajackson8920
    @sylviajackson8920 Před 6 měsíci +2

    We can see how much you love being a mom. You have always made it look so easy! You're doing a great job, Alisha, continue to be gentle and kind to yourself.

  • @Mmakwena_
    @Mmakwena_ Před 6 měsíci +5

    I love that you feel like you are where you are meant to be. Many of us are looking for that place.

  • @1wisenana938
    @1wisenana938 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Yeah. Glad to see you. Was wondering where you were the other day. Glad you and Valerie are well!!

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +3

      Happy to be back! Val is doing well too 🥰

  • @cocobenj007
    @cocobenj007 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Thank you for checking in. It was so incredibly great to see you!💕

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +1

      It felt great being back! Will definitely be posting more often 🥰

  • @lisa8084u
    @lisa8084u Před 6 měsíci +4

    Love your hair and skin is just glowing you are truly a natural beauty❤

  • @staceystevenson6206
    @staceystevenson6206 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Awe Alisha WE LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your honesty and transparency. Welcome back 🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @christineadams796
    @christineadams796 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Welcome back it is so nice to see you you have really been missed glad that you are doing well see you next time take care and God bless

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you love! I definitely missed my YT fam ❤

  • @miraclevaughn7310
    @miraclevaughn7310 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Definitely missed you. You're definitely my favorite person to watch. You give me inspiration

  • @RudinaMVicks
    @RudinaMVicks Před 20 dny

    I haven’t seen you and Val in a long time glad to see you back

  • @TNA_bloom
    @TNA_bloom Před 6 měsíci +2

    Alisha your presence is so greatly needed on this platform. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci

      🥹 don’t make me cry! Thank you so much for watching!!

  • @lakershaolivarez1034
    @lakershaolivarez1034 Před 6 měsíci +2

    We missed you and Thank God you’re doing better ❤

  • @patriciaterry4652
    @patriciaterry4652 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Heyyy Alisha I missed you and Val, but I completely understand about life lifing! Please continue to take care of your mental health and finding your peace. You have been a blessing to us by sharing a little if your testimony. I’m here for you when ever you post a video.❤God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @larondapaden7589
    @larondapaden7589 Před 6 měsíci +1

    So glad you are back to yourself. We love you, and I am so glad you are well.

  • @rosalinddudley9420
    @rosalinddudley9420 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I’m glad you’re doing good. Let God keep ordering your steps!🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @jroock017
    @jroock017 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Oh wow welcome back!

  • @sparkle8609
    @sparkle8609 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Omg so good to see you back! I understand your need to take care of you! Stay truthful to thyself ❤

  • @jenniferjones4113
    @jenniferjones4113 Před 6 měsíci

    You are an absolutely amazing mother to such an amazing little girl. Both you and Valerie are both beyond blessed to have one another❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lifeandstyleatlanta8689
    @lifeandstyleatlanta8689 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I thought about you a few days ago…and here you are!! If I think of lottery numbers will they are too? Welcome back sis!

  • @JustJasmineJ
    @JustJasmineJ Před 6 měsíci +1

    We missed you sugar but we understand! Love you and your little Boo Boo 💕 rooting for you queen !

  • @paulalewis567
    @paulalewis567 Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome back Beautiful Lady! I really enjoy your content and will start following u on IG. (Just not a Tik Tok fan). Your baby is so blessed to have YOU as her mom! We know she’s your WHOLE ENTIRE WORLD! ❤ And Sis, your positive vibe is always appreciated and loved by your followers-family!! 🤗

  • @heatherrichards3103
    @heatherrichards3103 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Missed seeing you. I’ll have to follow your IG and Tik Tok. Glad you’re doing better. Continued blessings to you 🙏🏽😊

  • @keonamonae2290
    @keonamonae2290 Před 6 měsíci

    We appreciate your presence!! And understand that you have to take life for what it is, work on what you can and continue to press forward. You are gracefully working on you and we appreciate that!! Give us what you can when you can and don’t worry about the rest!!! But yes I agree with the other ladies ytube is so much more better to watch than the other socials!! Keep growing and glowing!! You’re amazing!!

  • @manisymone8622
    @manisymone8622 Před 6 měsíci

    I can so relate, Alisha! But (you) know that you are LOVED❤. Remain blessed 🙌🏾

  • @shay1376
    @shay1376 Před 6 měsíci

    Glad you are doing OK.. Your demeanor reminds me so much of myself. I'm the first to say I am my hardest critic. I'm applaud you for taking steps to prioritize yourself! It's important to celebrate ourselves and our needs just as much as we celebrate others. Keep it up!!!!!

  • @barbarabrown7276
    @barbarabrown7276 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hi Valerie🥰 Great to see you back and congratulations on your 100k on IG🤎🤎🤎

  • @cassandrakennedy9478
    @cassandrakennedy9478 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You were truly missed ❤. May God give you beauty for your ashes 🙏🏾.

  • @dianejackson3627
    @dianejackson3627 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Keep doing what brings you Joy and always take God with you ❤❤

  • @larondapaden7589
    @larondapaden7589 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I wished I would have traveled more with my son when he was younger. I know I wasted so much time in a bad relationship, and if I could've told my younger self one thing at that time, it would've been to get away, travel, travel, travel.

  • @lindalewis8001
    @lindalewis8001 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Hey sis love your hair cut looks good on you loving being single life take your time relationship thanks for sharing blessings 🙏

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank youuu! The short hair is a fave of mine right now! I am taking my time in this dating life. No need to rush anything!

    • @lindalewis8001
      @lindalewis8001 Před 6 měsíci

      @@AlishaWilliams hey I know that's right I was glad to see you hairstyle always look nice we love you thanks for sharing blessings ❤️🙏

  • @I_am_her_
    @I_am_her_ Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey Alisha! You’re glowing sis ✨

  • @JustJasmineJ
    @JustJasmineJ Před 6 měsíci +1

    I went through a bad break up as well that caused me anxiety I call him the mistake of my life and we dated after my divorce then next I met the love of my life and it is all well I promise you will meet your next and he will be the BEST to you and Val ❤ he loves cherished me and my boys .

  • @sheilaprice9504
    @sheilaprice9504 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm so glad that you're back! I have missed you and love all of your content! Welcome back!❤ Alicia ❤

  • @ShutokaJefferson
    @ShutokaJefferson Před 6 měsíci

    Happy to see you back on CZcams here for whatever you have for us

  • @lindalewis8001
    @lindalewis8001 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hey pretty lady how are you doing I am well watching replay love your missed you glad you are back congratulations 🎉 you deserve it you are great mom strong independent praise God thanks for sharing blessings 🙏❤️

  • @kcourtney6826
    @kcourtney6826 Před 6 měsíci

    My mom is visiting in March thanks for the restaurant recommendations. I follow you on IG so I don’t really feel like you’ve been gone, but I love to see your beautiful home.

  • @Resacup78
    @Resacup78 Před 6 měsíci

    I love your content and follow you on IG, Tik Tok and here. As long as you and Val are happy, that’s all that matters. ❤❤

  • @BronzeGirl
    @BronzeGirl Před 6 měsíci +1

    welcome back. Mental hair is important. Where you got the round table and chairs if you don’t mind sharing

  • @kdubkdub1523
    @kdubkdub1523 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Daily Gather??
    Got it! I've been to Joey Uptown and I really liked it. Thx for the recommendation! Missed you!

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci

      Yes! If you go you have to let me know what you think!

    • @kdubkdub1523
      @kdubkdub1523 Před 6 měsíci

      @@AlishaWilliams I will! 😊

    • @kdubkdub1523
      @kdubkdub1523 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@AlishaWilliamsDaily Gather was very good!!! Thx for the recommendation!

  • @shaletastevenson4551
    @shaletastevenson4551 Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome back girl!!! We missed you!!! I SALUTE you for putting yourself FIRST and doing what was best for you! I also commend you for your transparency and vulnerability!! 🤍🫶🏽🤍

  • @Ashley-dt2gz
    @Ashley-dt2gz Před 6 měsíci +1

    Here from the begining always loved your honesty.

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +1

      This channel will always be a place of honesty and transparency ❤ thank you for still being here!

  • @karenwashington8334
    @karenwashington8334 Před 6 měsíci

    Hi Alisha 👋🏽. Good to see you again! I remember you saying in one of your videos that you like to listen to Gospel music and sermons when you’re in the house moving around. I have a Gospel song that I think you will love. The singer is Anita Wilson. The song is More Than Anything. I love that song and I think you will too ❤.

  • @skinjunky
    @skinjunky Před 6 měsíci

    Stay true to you sis. We miss you but also understand that you gotta take care of self first ❤

  • @sinneh2
    @sinneh2 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Welcome back ❤

  • @shantinamonque
    @shantinamonque Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations on 100k, wishing nothing but the best for you🥰

  • @serenaparker7560
    @serenaparker7560 Před 6 měsíci

    Hi Alicia. Glad to see you back on CZcams. Congratulations on 100k❤❤😊

  • @SoulAumMomsFlow
    @SoulAumMomsFlow Před 6 měsíci

    18:39 you are Sis! And don’t feel guilty for not having a 9-5 job! This is for you. Period💚😀!

  • @aprilcurtis2929
    @aprilcurtis2929 Před 6 měsíci

    Glad you are back, and you and Val are doing well. We all need a break sometime.

  • @Neshaturner15
    @Neshaturner15 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Welcome back 🎉

  • @Beautiful-61
    @Beautiful-61 Před 6 měsíci

    Hey girl how have you been we miss you God bless you it's good to see you again ❤

  • @joylynne8
    @joylynne8 Před 6 měsíci

    I am so glad to see you. Be encouraged young lady. 💗

  • @Tabby-Xo
    @Tabby-Xo Před 6 měsíci

    Soooo happy to see u back! Praying for u! X❤!

  • @portiaonuekwusi4179
    @portiaonuekwusi4179 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I missed u🎉🎉🎉

  • @Christine-hy3jd
    @Christine-hy3jd Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for the update. I see you on IG from time to time. Glad to know you’re doing well.

  • @latonyathomas8496
    @latonyathomas8496 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations Alisha on hitting 100k on Instagram 🎉❤

  • @jessicatierrayt
    @jessicatierrayt Před 6 měsíci

    Glad you’re back! I literally smiled!

  • @kathrynmoore8199
    @kathrynmoore8199 Před 6 měsíci

    Wow Alisha welcome back! We missed you.

  • @shesforeverchanging
    @shesforeverchanging Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am the black sheep in my family. So I totally understand how you felt.

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yeah it’s definitely hard when you feel like the odd one out at times.

  • @azizalehman
    @azizalehman Před 6 měsíci

    Hi Alisha I was just thinking I haven’t seen you in a while glad your back

  • @lynnpowell3275
    @lynnpowell3275 Před 6 měsíci

    Alicia I love you content. I know how you feel. It will get better.

  • @CrazyNaturalPrincess
    @CrazyNaturalPrincess Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome back! Love your channel❤

  • @LScott-hq7mm
    @LScott-hq7mm Před 6 měsíci

    So glad you're back❤

  • @demetra4939
    @demetra4939 Před 6 měsíci

    It's really good to see you Alisha ❤

  • @dedriadavis-tate1774
    @dedriadavis-tate1774 Před 6 měsíci

    ❤ So good to see you! Happy New Year 2024!!

  • @crystaljackson240
    @crystaljackson240 Před 6 měsíci

    Glad ur back!!
    The music playing in the video is nice can u send the link to it?
    So glad u came back to you tube land! 😊

  • @patriciarobinson5172
    @patriciarobinson5172 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈🍾 missed you too 🤗

  • @sophiaosei1980
    @sophiaosei1980 Před 6 měsíci

    OMG! I said to myself, what's new with Alisha! And BAM, you uploaded a few hours ago. Welcome back!

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Girl living life the best way I know how 😩😭 stressed, but living haha

    • @sophiaosei1980
      @sophiaosei1980 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @AlishaWilliams Looks like you're holding up well. Through it all, you got this!

  • @victorious9146
    @victorious9146 Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome back.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @truebelieversallarewelcome7876

    blessings 🙂 long time no see, good to see you back

  • @tamirinsworld
    @tamirinsworld Před 6 měsíci

    So glad you are doing well.

  • @TiffanieDianna
    @TiffanieDianna Před 6 měsíci

    Missed you girl! ❤

  • @islandgirllove9114
    @islandgirllove9114 Před 6 měsíci

    Yayyyyyy a vlog from my fav youtuber🎉🎉🎉

  • @newjohn02
    @newjohn02 Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome back Alisha!! What music was that on your video? It’s so calming 😊

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you! Music is from the website epidemic 🤗

  • @evenatandnico3771
    @evenatandnico3771 Před 6 měsíci +3

    you are so beautiful in that hairstyle

  • @stephaniesharp6690
    @stephaniesharp6690 Před 6 měsíci

    Yes, we really miss our girls😢

  • @lisac.5718
    @lisac.5718 Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome back! 🥰

  • @debjb5038
    @debjb5038 Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome back!🎉

  • @nicole6816
    @nicole6816 Před 6 měsíci

    You was definitely missed we need some regular uploads even if it’s not long lol

  • @buzzinbee9463
    @buzzinbee9463 Před 6 měsíci

    Reset is good for us. ❤

  • @JustbeingKatherine
    @JustbeingKatherine Před 6 měsíci

    I am truly inspired by you. 💛

  • @SoulAumMomsFlow
    @SoulAumMomsFlow Před 6 měsíci

    11:14 Yes, I don’t feel
    Like I’ve missed much because I’m connected to you on IG.

  • @Mmakwena_
    @Mmakwena_ Před 6 měsíci

    Beautiful vlog.❤ And you are amazing.

  • @Rarestbeauty2028
    @Rarestbeauty2028 Před 6 měsíci

    Welcome Back!💕

  • @katythebeauty330
    @katythebeauty330 Před 6 měsíci

    Yess a new video!! 🤩

  • @danahardeman487
    @danahardeman487 Před 6 měsíci

    You look very happy. Live the hair

  • @crystaljackson240
    @crystaljackson240 Před 6 měsíci

    Just come back once a month or here and there😊

  • @val-tyme7402
    @val-tyme7402 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hey Alisha 😊

  • @godsprecious6884
    @godsprecious6884 Před 6 měsíci

    Let me get my behind up!🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ilovesilver205
    @ilovesilver205 Před 6 měsíci

    I just came to your channel to see if you had put out any new content!! Look at God!!!! 😂🙏🏾

  • @Nikkitoney
    @Nikkitoney Před 6 měsíci +1

    I enjoyed the video

    • @AlishaWilliams
      @AlishaWilliams  Před 6 měsíci

      Yay I’m so happy you did!! Thank you for watching ❤