I'm a female and I've been following your channel ever since I discovered you, this morning, Nov 24, 2021. I've being binge watching. I'm literally hooked. Your channel is my new drug. As I have the attachment style you make reference to, I've found that I attract avoidance men as you mentioned in a pervious video. I've been working on my attachment style and I find your videos incredibly helpful. Albeit your videos are for men, I watch them nonetheless, take what I can get and apply what I learn to my way of thinking, my life, and the way I handle situations. Thank you. Keep up the good work. By the way, sorry about your dog.
thanks for your sweet note Lauralee. Yes, Smart people see that everything we say For men is exactly transferable to women but in their own unique feminine way. I’m happy you’re getting something out of the videos
I want to thank you Steve for your excellent advice! You really opened my eyes about the things that I’ve been doing wrong in my relationship with my wife and about the things that I should be doing right. And I’m very sorry to hear about your dogs. I’m praying for Chauncy! God bless you Steve & take care!
Ha! I met someone today who’s changed so much of my outlook in life in just a few conversations… it’s my same life but different perspective! Intuitively, I’ve been following these steps.. I’m in a healthy place though & in the past, i haven’t always been.
Make yourself accountable.... a better person and never fully attach to the woman. You never know which way they will go. Show them love but tell them little. Stay mysterious because they love the game. Tell them NO when they test you. Be able to walk and mean it. You’ll never lose her then. Oh yeah.... stop asking their opinion. It looks weak. You call the shots. If she has an idea, nod you head and don’t say anything. Consider it later. Guys.... keep them guessing about you. Period! You better play this game continually if you want to keep her. Oh yeah... let her know you hate feminism!
Sounds like a recipe for resentment, distrust and divorce. If your whole relationship is a game/power display then you’re dating/marrying a sick individual and there’s no roadmap to keeping that person in your life.
Do woman stay in this condition for long? Like you said you give her nice compliments your there for her always you give her ever bit of you but get nothing back. it makes you feel unsure , does she still love me or is it just something she is going through & I need to sit tight until she comes out the other side. I want to feel her emotional side again, I want to connect with her.
Alot of guys lose opportunities with women because they pressure her right away. He might actually be nice to know, but if he puts too much pressure on her she may reject him entirely. They should discuss what they are looking for, so there are no misunderstandings, as well.
Thanks! This is very insightful! I've been making most all these mistakes in one way or another. I hope I can consciously start avoiding these going forward. It just so hard for me to fight my feelings! To recognize them and consciously not going down these roads. I might have to watch this video every day until it sticks and I can learn to not make these mistakes. Sorry to hear about your dog. My thoughts are with you.
These ideas are not only great for relationships but good psychological understand for all types of interpersonal relationships. When dealing with women these emotional components are very present... but also when dealing with friends or coworkers they are all people and have feelings too. Expecting a certain outcome or reaction out of someone else is a bad idea in general because you can't control another's emotions or viewpoints.
Hi, I would like to know how your second best favorite dog is doing. I pray for my animals all the time..... Senconly.... I'm by no means a horseman but if send most of my live sincei can remember on horseback...... Woman are like horses..... Period..... And for those who don't know this, well I suppose they suffer with one of the two or both
hey coach: how to make trust and connection with a woman? go to university be a doctor, be a lawyer, or be a rich businessman!!! its all about money and security!!! the rest is dramas....sorry ! truth is bitter !!!
I'm a female and I've been following your channel ever since I discovered you, this morning, Nov 24, 2021. I've being binge watching. I'm literally hooked. Your channel is my new drug. As I have the attachment style you make reference to, I've found that I attract avoidance men as you mentioned in a pervious video. I've been working on my attachment style and I find your videos incredibly helpful. Albeit your videos are for men, I watch them nonetheless, take what I can get and apply what I learn to my way of thinking, my life, and the way I handle situations. Thank you. Keep up the good work. By the way, sorry about your dog.
thanks for your sweet note Lauralee. Yes, Smart people see that everything we say For men is exactly transferable to women but in their own unique feminine way. I’m happy you’re getting something out of the videos
These things make sense. I'm 59 and still women confuse the heck out of me.
You are a very transparent and sincere man, Steve. That's exactly what makes you so trustable. Thanks for your time and support.
Very simple yet thought provoking information. At it's core being unselfish and allowing a woman to be who she is verus who we might want her to be.
I want to thank you Steve for your excellent advice! You really opened my eyes about the things that I’ve been doing wrong in my relationship with my wife and about the things that I should be doing right. And I’m very sorry to hear about your dogs. I’m praying for Chauncy! God bless you Steve & take care!
The famous poet Khalil Gibran said this to newlyweds "May there be space in your togetherness."
You really broke it down psychologically. Thanks a lot. Much needed.
Ha! I met someone today who’s changed so much of my outlook in life in just a few conversations… it’s my same life but different perspective!
Intuitively, I’ve been following these steps.. I’m in a healthy place though & in the past, i haven’t always been.
This video is an underrated gem. I wish I dealt with horses so I could understand you better but this is absolutely spot on.
Interesting. If we're not supposed to expect anything out of our relationship, why should we be with them?
Make yourself accountable.... a better person and never fully attach to the woman. You never know which way they will go.
Show them love but tell them little. Stay mysterious because they love the game.
Tell them NO when they test you. Be able to walk and mean it. You’ll never lose her then. Oh yeah.... stop asking their opinion. It looks weak. You call the shots. If she has an idea, nod you head and don’t say anything. Consider it later. Guys.... keep them guessing about you. Period! You better play this game continually if you want to keep her.
Oh yeah... let her know you hate feminism!
You watch Corey Wayne
Sounds like a recipe for resentment, distrust and divorce. If your whole relationship is a game/power display then you’re dating/marrying a sick individual and there’s no roadmap to keeping that person in your life.
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Do woman stay in this condition for long? Like you said you give her nice compliments your there for her always you give her ever bit of you but get nothing back. it makes you feel unsure , does she still love me or is it just something she is going through & I need to sit tight until she comes out the other side. I want to feel her emotional side again, I want to connect with her.
Alot of guys lose opportunities with women because they pressure her right away. He might actually be nice to know, but if he puts too much pressure on her she may reject him entirely. They should discuss what they are looking for, so there are no misunderstandings, as well.
I'm 22 and i discovered your channel today. New follower!! I enjoy your videos
This just makes me sick because I know this is what drove her away, just simple things I know I can do and understand but she's gone...
James Nelson sorry bro. Working on mine now..
Only 5% of woman are even worth trying for. Stay single and build a great life alone. Away from toxicity!
Hopefully by now youve moved on brother. Just learn from it and live your best life brother
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I really wish you guys would turn these videos into a podcast. The world needs it. Thank you
Done! Just go to the website and click on the resource tab and they are there in podcast format
@@Goodguys2Greatmen 🙌🙌🙌
I'm guilty of the second one. Man I wish I saw this video two months ago....
Thank you for your videos👌. Your advise is priceless.
Thanks! This is very insightful! I've been making most all these mistakes in one way or another. I hope I can consciously start avoiding these going forward. It just so hard for me to fight my feelings! To recognize them and consciously not going down these roads. I might have to watch this video every day until it sticks and I can learn to not make these mistakes. Sorry to hear about your dog. My thoughts are with you.
E=MC squared is easier to understand lol life is not a game with the other person having all the cards.
This is spot on. I'm guilty of especially #2.
Excellent advice. Spot on!
We should definitely take advice of a man in his sixties... who still only has a "girlfriend"
What a world!
Judging a guy for his relationship status, you must have it all together man! Cos every guy who is married, feels completely fulfilled.
What exactly is he is saying that you disagree with? Everything he is saying makes perfect sense
implementing now.
Thank you.
These ideas are not only great for relationships but good psychological understand for all types of interpersonal relationships. When dealing with women these emotional components are very present... but also when dealing with friends or coworkers they are all people and have feelings too. Expecting a certain outcome or reaction out of someone else is a bad idea in general because you can't control another's emotions or viewpoints.
so view my woman like a spooked scared horse. makes sense, I'll try it !
Well, makes sense, let me try that, sounds legit
Thank you!
Hi, I would like to know how your second best favorite dog is doing.
I pray for my animals all the time.....
Senconly.... I'm by no means a horseman but if send most of my live sincei can remember on horseback...... Woman are like horses..... Period..... And for those who don't know this, well I suppose they suffer with one of the two or both
Great advise! Have you written a book about this? Or is it yet to come?
Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband on Amazon.
please help
What is going on with your furbabies getting cancer? What food where they on???
They’re always sleeping in the microwave , I just don’t know why
So fucking complicated 😪
hey coach: how to make trust and connection with a woman?
go to university be a doctor, be a lawyer, or be a rich businessman!!!
its all about money and security!!!
the rest is dramas....sorry ! truth is bitter !!!
Go vegan and be/look healthy and attractive