He was likely traumatised by what he saw and his reaction rather than being empathetic it turned to something negative towards the wife....Mkuru (Abel Mutua) often says that his experience of watching the wife go through childbirth traumatised him to the extent of never wanting them to have other one....and many men have the same reaction...there is a reason why men were never allowed near where a birth was taking place in the olden times
Men should be allowed in the labour ward, otherwise how will they know what you go through?, but they should attend all prenatal classes, my husband attended all the classes with me and he was with me in delivery room, supported me through the pregnancy, during birth and post birth, cut the umbilical cord for our kids, gave them their first bath and he remained supporting through out....they should be allowed to be there during birth but be prepared emotionally.
My sister u are a beautiful girl and u hv a beautiful soul. God has a purpose for u continue putting your faith in Him. God bless the future of you, your baby girl and your brother in Jesus name
The spirit of rejection 😭. Starting from the person she was named after. Everyone is calling her takataka (trash/garbage) - the power of the tongue. Am scared, I hope her baby girl won't go through the same😭😭😭
So in other words since his mother gave birth to him the same way he saw you delivering , means he see his mama as takataka Too? Jesus !! What’s wrong with this man?
It is always advised that a man should go through a counselling session before entering in labour ward. But I thank God for my husband coz he appreciated me more after witnessing my cesarean section.
Mimi huona nikiwa na shida lakini listening to her story, I pray for God's favor to follow you aki, Kwanza this issue of not having a place to call home or rather a rental house to host your daughter is so disheartening 😭😭. May God's grace locate you now,.
Parents please show love to your daughters no matter what u are going through. Stop sending your daughters away. U are making them to face alot of problems.
Most of the time it happens that your best lady friend that you share your marital problems with, end up taking your spouse. Be wise, know who to share your problems with, but mostly share your problems with God. He is the only good friend and will never forsake you.
The lady has literally never had a day of peace in her life.. I wish young gals wld learn frm this stories.. Most of this early marriages r a waste of tym...one will always end up losing direction in life.. Focus and build urself first
the problem comes in when us mothers fail our young girls, not been there for them, downloading all the issues that we maybe facing with maybe their fathers.... so mostly i dont blame the young gals but i blame the mothers coz they contribute alot to them loosing focus in life
@@BeyondHighLife I concur with u ...most pple ..me included were left to learn through our mistakes ..atleast nowadays young pple can learn alot thru social media which was not available back then..
Even for women, it's not easy to witness child birth, but that doesn't make this lady takataka,he should have respected her knowing it's not easy to birth.
@@lydiawamuyu1884 a man who respects you should not have any problem seeing your body. When you marry somebody you love them unconditionally. No need to put off the lights, you can walk naked when alone and enjoy your marriage.
I disagree with u , the man wasn't enough grown up ,my last nlimpata kabla nipelekwe hosi ,what can u do if a child come out?, infact nlijishalisha peke yangu ,mzee alikua anajitayalisha anipeleke hosi, infact ata alifarahi cos tuli save hio pesa tungelipa hosi, afadhali kuonwa uchi na bwanako kuliko mtu mwingine, kama sio hosi
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wuiyeeh,,,Ngai heaga atumia hinya,,,nitodu nimageragira morito maingi muno,,,ngoro cia atumia aingi ikoragwo na ruo na maithori maingi
Women are passing through difficult tyme out there please God come for a rescue take heart my sister God will intervin
Whaaaaat!!! 😭takataka?this the most painful disrespect of the highest order...wasn't he born??waiting for this episode...
Same question iam asking, kama alitoka mbinguni!!!
He even supposed to respect women juu aliona venye watoto hutoka mbali
Sarah, sorry for the pain you were subjected to by a man....You sound very strong and daring to say the least.
You are a hardworking lady and great things will come your way go to your knees and pray against the spirit of rejection.
This lady has been through alot since childhood.She needs counselling and to feel worthy of herself.Oh my😭😭😭
He was likely traumatised by what he saw and his reaction rather than being empathetic it turned to something negative towards the wife....Mkuru (Abel Mutua) often says that his experience of watching the wife go through childbirth traumatised him to the extent of never wanting them to have other one....and many men have the same reaction...there is a reason why men were never allowed near where a birth was taking place in the olden times
Talk of experience
And the way White husband Like to be there when a wife is in delivering room. They respect wives.
Yu've spoken well but my quiz is was he forced? Coz many men stay far from the scene mbona alikaa hapo.
Men should be allowed in the labour ward, otherwise how will they know what you go through?, but they should attend all prenatal classes, my husband attended all the classes with me and he was with me in delivery room, supported me through the pregnancy, during birth and post birth, cut the umbilical cord for our kids, gave them their first bath and he remained supporting through out....they should be allowed to be there during birth but be prepared emotionally.
@@salumewanjiru4880 this is a bias comment, it's not ONLY white men.
Iyo ni ng'ombe ya mundu.nikirimu kinene siku hzi ata kwa maternity wanaume dio wengi.
@Jane Wambui Mwangi, congratulations mummy!
My sister u are a beautiful girl and u hv a beautiful soul. God has a purpose for u continue putting your faith in Him. God bless the future of you, your baby girl and your brother in Jesus name
Dear God, I pray the pain she is going to be over. May this be the end of her pain. May she live to tell your goodness and mercy. Amen
People are agonising only don't like publicizing.pole may God intervene he is able and faithful
The spirit of rejection 😭. Starting from the person she was named after. Everyone is calling her takataka (trash/garbage) - the power of the tongue. Am scared, I hope her baby girl won't go through the same😭😭😭
Prophet of doom.
Take heart njeri..I know her..she is just a amazing gal.. prayerfull and hardworking
Akh pole sana sarah may God see you akh....I wish nina uwezo akh
Wooie.. Pole sana,
Maundu maritu nimunagwo ni atumia 😢😢
Am thinking to travel there any hint how I can do that easily Coolkenyan?
@@ferra-lb5zk for a tour visit?
Pole sana. Its really heartbreaking to listen to what you've gone through. I pray that the Lord will restore you and heal you completely 🙏
So in other words since his mother gave birth to him the same way he saw you delivering , means he see his mama as takataka
Too? Jesus !! What’s wrong with this man?
Úcio múthuri nîahoe Ngai amúhe úgí. Niî nî dagîtarî mangiragia ngoro ho.
Pole sana njeri. May God see you n heal you completely 🙏
Thanks wambui for the host, kindly seek counseling and then deliverance for her first.may God heal her
It is always advised that a man should go through a counselling session before entering in labour ward. But I thank God for my husband coz he appreciated me more after witnessing my cesarean section.
Ohh God. this is very painful story. pole sana..may God intervene and remember this gal. God will make a way.
Waiting from saudi
A sad story indeed but don't give up Sarah , there's a new dawn of new possibilities ahead mbele iko sawa..
Mimi huona nikiwa na shida lakini listening to her story, I pray for God's favor to follow you aki, Kwanza this issue of not having a place to call home or rather a rental house to host your daughter is so disheartening 😭😭. May God's grace locate you now,.
Oooh God!😓😔 may God remember you and give you comfort..learn to love your baby..she is your blood no matter what.
U just reminded me of what mommy told me when she was in the dying 🛏️😭😭😭gosh am all in trs
I feel for you dear sis,eish one day God will see you through.
Parents please show love to your daughters no matter what u are going through. Stop sending your daughters away. U are making them to face alot of problems.
I can feel this pain now....... At that tender age she wasn't supposed to pass through this OHHH GOD. Can imagine how I could handle it if it were me
Wambui siku uko chonjo kila wakati tunasoma mambo mapya watching from Middle
Wambui wa mwangi you are doing a job what happens later after the touching stories because have not seen any follow up.
Viewing from Saudi arabia
Weeeeh ......sisemi kitu coz waaaah story for another day
ooh painful testimony hi God take over now
Badala mzee ashukuru mungu umejifungua Salma😍 it's okay dear njia ya mtoto ujifungua after time inajifunga ..
So alizaliwa na mwanaume .some men wanakuanga aje
Aki wambui ww eti nduonete maisha ta may ma magatheti😂it's a sad story nway n so sorry to this lady
Ngai ..kwani huyo mwanaume hana mzazi alimzaa 😢
Ngai aromurekera
Oh God remember this woman demolish the sprit of rejection and give her favour,,make her Joseph who was rejected but later they bowed to him
Woiye so sad story 😭😭😭may God renew your life
There is God of another chance all will be well Inshallah
Wambui congratulations
Wooooi Ngai 😭😭😭😭narikorwo waigua tha mwathani,,,mutumia uyu niahitukiire maritu ma
Wambui kwanza huyo employer atafutwe....Alazimizwe alipe 10 years za kazi....That can be a starting point.
haaaiiii noooo 10akh i second you,anafaa alipe nkt
Wambui doesn't do the follow ups
Woie,such a painful story 💔may God wipe your tears and restore your life to bloom
Most of the time it happens that your best lady friend that you share your marital problems with, end up taking your spouse. Be wise, know who to share your problems with, but mostly share your problems with God. He is the only good friend and will never forsake you.
muthuri ucio amenye nigou aciarirwo
So sad ,that man needs forgiveness from God ,because he was also born by women.
Pole sana
Aki anafutwa na Spirit ya rejection
Sorry Serah for that may God send destiny helpers 🙏🙏
Waiting
Very painful, I think she needs deliverance
Weee am waiting maya maundu
Woi Ngai iguaga kiriro gia atumia maa tondu😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It's very sad.ni kama yeye hakuzaliwa na mwana mkr
Akh wanaume,Mungu tu asaidie women
Mamako akufukuze,huna amani ya kulea mtoto wako then on her death bed akupatie jukumu la kumlelea mtoto wake.Kai kwi wa nda na wa mugongo.
Waiting patiently 😌
Ooh no take heart dear😢😢😢hata ana adabu
May the good Lord remember her
The girl should be rescued very fast not to go through what her mother has gone through they need a room somewhere.
What? Ati takataka 😭😭 waiting from Saudi Arabia in dammam 😢
Cousins from hell!we must expose them all
Aki Mungu aingilie 😢😢😢😢trust God utaenda far
Andu thiku ishi mena nginya ngoma expecialy arume, mahanite ngoma na mbona hua anakaa na takataka😏😏
Very true mena ngoma cia biu
Men are just selfish. You cannot control nature especially when a woman is giving birth. Shame on that man.
ni vile aliona kuma kumbwa
If the guy saw her give birth, that scene yaani kama aliona mtoto akitoka alichafuka roho. Some men do that's why wengi hukatazwa kuingia labor wards.
Woooiiima naniguo guku america athuri maikaragia atumia ao magiciara.
Arume nimainiirwo ni queen pole dada
Sad and painful, please God help this girl
Wambui do you do follow up.was njeri helped . God almighty remember njeri in Jesus Christ name amen 🙏.
Learn to love yourself first no matter what you have passed through.......I learnt to love myself no matter what I passed through in my life
I give birth with my hazband present and he respect me for that love and treasure our children
Mungu ahurumie huyo mwanaume...
The pain is extra excruciating, sad sad
Very heartbreaking 😭😭😭 take heart mum
Haiya am here waiting nikiwa 966
Pamoja sanaa wambo
Pola sana mam.biamimi xwexi kukaribia maali bibiyangu anabewa mtoto kabisaa
Kiu ni kirimu gia mundurume
Khai endea mtoto aki asi go through the same thing you went through pliiz better u struggle with your child aki
Sorry Njeri, it shall be well from now on. Goodbye to the past
Wawawa so painful
The lady has literally never had a day of peace in her life.. I wish young gals wld learn frm this stories.. Most of this early marriages r a waste of tym...one will always end up losing direction in life.. Focus and build urself first
the problem comes in when us mothers fail our young girls, not been there for them, downloading all the issues that we maybe facing with maybe their fathers.... so mostly i dont blame the young gals but i blame the mothers coz they contribute alot to them loosing focus in life
@@BeyondHighLife I concur with u ...most pple ..me included were left to learn through our mistakes ..atleast nowadays young pple can learn alot thru social media which was not available back then..
I have this discussion with some of my friends i was trying to tell them having birth in front of your husband is not good
Not good at all maundu maria tugeragira ma nimaritu muno
True it's not good. Mimi hata bwanangu hajawahi niona aki🤦🤦. Yes tutafanya haya mambo but I have never expose my private parts to him.
Even for women, it's not easy to witness child birth, but that doesn't make this lady takataka,he should have respected her knowing it's not easy to birth.
@@lydiawamuyu1884 a man who respects you should not have any problem seeing your body. When you marry somebody you love them unconditionally. No need to put off the lights, you can walk naked when alone and enjoy your marriage.
I disagree with u , the man wasn't enough grown up ,my last nlimpata kabla nipelekwe hosi ,what can u do if a child come out?, infact nlijishalisha peke yangu ,mzee alikua anajitayalisha anipeleke hosi, infact ata alifarahi cos tuli save hio pesa tungelipa hosi, afadhali kuonwa uchi na bwanako kuliko mtu mwingine, kama sio hosi
Men should avoid going into the delivery rooms. Those rooms are for women only.
I second you this room is 4 woman hakunanga mchezo
Aki pole pia mm ni sarah njeri
Kuri maundu maa thiino no Ngai nomwihokeku take hrt dea
Take hrt mamii but murutaga kuu hinya waguthii n muthuri labor ward mtu akungonjee kwa mlango
I am just admiring that Monstera plant next to njeri♥️
Must have brought forth very sweet fruits
The problem of this gal is more of spiritual than physical and social, she needs spiritual help. Nothing is impossible with God.
Hakuna mtu anaeza kukulelea mtoto wako vizuri ila wewe tu.
😭😭😭😭wambui she need deliverance spirit of rejection
True, woie pia mtoto coz as she said she rejected her from birth to this day, the girl is suffering the same fate through no fault of her own.
That man should not have said such words,afadhali angeenda tu.alizaa ju yeye ndie alimpea mimba
Men are so heartless 💔 njeri take heart God will change your life.
Don’t generalize men , kuna wale wazuri
This is sad, hawa Wanaume Shida huwa nini?
What a sad story 😭😭😭
Ucio ni kuguruka