Lizzie sweetheart, It's not weird, nor unusual, to have dreams and fantasies. You know that it's fantasy so it's not a real problem. That's the same thing we all do when we read a book, or delve into a movie or series. It's a way to temporarily escape from the crap in this "real" world. You're not alone lovely lady ❤
Yes, we all do it. Most people just don't mention it, but I'm sure it is very common. I read a study once where they asked people if they make up fantasy worlds with ongoing plots, characters, etc., and a very high percentage of people said they do.
I have heard this called "maladaptive daydreaming" and I have done it all my life. I am completely alone, have a ton of issues and problems, and it's just better. Thanks for posting this, feel better to know it's not just me.
Yes that’s it! I’m the same exact way, although it has gotten worse and has bled into my actual life, which is where the “maladaptive” part comes into play. I’ve been doing all my life as well, it’s just very soothing and comforting
maladaptive is then it starts to be a problem and take big part of life away, usually people just have some daydreaming before sleep or like, in rest hours
My mind is blown & her story was very interesting & relatable. Peace & love to you all. I have friends & family I can call but mentally & emotionally I feel alone because of the things I’ve been through in life. When you feel like no one understands it’s easier to drift away, I feel like. Lizzie you’re not the o my 30-40 year old who has never had a relationship either. I’m 30 & come to the realization that being single may not be bad. As long as I have the things I love to: music, podcast, video game & a few other things. I am most happy when left alone. I do realize that’s me speaking from a privileged situation because do have ppl that want to be around me. I just tend to shut the world off, ignoring calls text & all. I empathize for the ppl who don’t have a friend to talk to or relative to show them unconditional love. My little sister and my best friend of 20 years were dealing with that and that quarantine time really was hard for most ppl. I lost them both within the past 3 years😢 Ik they are not dealing with this cruel world any more but I wish I could’ve been there more for them. I say this sincerely to the ppl that feel alone. Know that there is someone that loves & cares for you. And there is also ppl like me who is that friend you don’t know you have. My favorite song of all time is The Jackson 5 “I’ll be there” R.I.P Ashley Jackson 11/95-11/23 & Tylor Banks 12/93-05/21❤❤
As a writer, I feel it’s my responsibility to make you think, to expand your curiosity, and to trigger your imagination. So, the reaction you have when watching these shows, or listening to these podcasts, is exactly what a writer hopes to achieve. We want to take you away from reality for a while, and immerse you in a world that you may never experience. And I absolutely love hearing that you GOT IT! So, instead of questioning it, just enjoy it, because reality always comes crashing down around us. And when you can ‘get away from it all’ by reading a book, or watching a movie, just embrace it for as long as you can. It’s quite a beautiful thing! ❤️❤️❤️
And you feed her the validation and lies she wants to hear. Your inauthenticity is weak, hive-like, you are a sheep, your fear is your Shepard. You never dare to tell the truth, because you are scared of it. Cope NPC.
Hey, I've seen you around the internet a long while back. Very happy to see you're still around spreading the good messages you do. 😊 Thank you for all you do.
I do the same exact thing. When I’m falling asleep I make up unrealistic scenarios in my head to help me fall asleep. I think it’s a normal thing to do! Especially if you have trouble sleeping. I do it to get rid of unwanted anxious or negative thoughts.
I also do this for the exact same reasons. It's a coping mechanism and my way of taking a mental vacation. I'm 41 and have been doing this since I was a child. It's good to know that I'm not the only one who does it lol.
It’s universally relatable. There have even been studies showing that people who get caught up in the stories of fictional TV characters see themselves as having real friends and social lives and are overall more content. The only down side is when a series ends, who else ends up dearly missing their fictional friends/family?
@@menartd2618 Nope, being vulnerable makes you human. In this case, it doesn't mean defenseless, it means that she opened up to people about something, either because she needed to talk or get it out of her chest.
My son is 15 and on the spectrum and as I’m watching this I’m understanding him so much more. He has no interest in dating and doesn’t find people attractive, but he has a whole world in his head he loves to live in. Thank you for this wonderful video. I’m going to show this to him to he understands he’s not alone.
I don’t know if he’s at all interested in hearing a Taylor swift song, but one of her new songs is called “I hate it here” and I relate to it so much!! It’s a lot about going to imaginary worlds in your mind to escape ❤
@@lanawr80omfg I started BAWLING when I first heard that song. was not expecting that from taylor especially since she seems to have the "ideal" life that many of us would imagine living in our daydreams
@@violetfaurschou1381 OMG SAME!! I find it so comforting to know that most humans, regardless of our circumstances, can feel like we are left out or we hate it here. Sending you ❤️
LIZZIE, I'M A 62 YEAR OLD MAN NOW, BELIEVE ME ITS NOT STRANGE, I FIND MYSELF DOING THIS ALL THE TIME,.. I JUST THINK IT'S PART IF OUR HUMAN EXPERIENCE. ❤
Agreed. I'm a firm believer in character shines from the inside and projects the beauty outside. You are beautiful. Never doubt that. Bullies are ugly and know it, so they are jealous. Their ugliness shows.
I’m a writer, so what you’re describing is what I do when I’m creating fictional stories, I’m creating and living in imaginary worlds. It’s one of my greatest joys. Also, as a writer, our goal is to create characters that the reader can step into their shoes 👠 👠 and experience what they experience. So, know that you are doing just what the creator wants you to do, and what everyone should be doing. It’s completely normal. I almost joined the circus when I was 18. It was a dream of mine I never experienced. Not until I read a novel about being in a circus. I was swept away into that world and really got to see and feel what that was all about. Like you were describing how you fantasize beyond the story, I was definitely doing that while reading that book. Without reading that novel, I would have never had that amazing experience. The great thing about humans is that we can actually feel like we experienced things that we never really did, simply by stepping into the shoes of others. It’s why when we’re watching a movie, and something really frightening happens to the main character, we might scream 😱 as if whatever happened happened to us. It’s actually pretty cool. It’s perfectly okay to enjoy other worlds. ❤
Yes!! I have the same experience when I’m having my maladaptive daydreams. Which are rather immersive! So it’s very normal especially for writers and this is very relatable!! You’re not alone Liz :)
@@kierrahunter5049 so this is what it's called. i do that literally from the age i became a thinking being and i never knew this strange state has a name, huh.
Facts, I just wrote a comment about writing because I do the same thing! It's a very creative thing, and she may actually be an amazing writer seeing how eloquent she is too
You have so much insight into your own thought processes that most people don’t. Daydreaming can be a good coping mechanism, but if it starts to interfere with your happiness or daily life, you can get help! Tons of people struggle with maladaptive daydreaming, it’s common among people who have experienced trauma.
This is so addicting and so true. You are not alone and it's most definitely exciting and addicting. Things could be worse and there could be worse addictions! Lol😂❤❤
You are so incredibly beautiful JUST. AS. YOU. ARE. ❤❤❤ You're personality is so much better than a good amount of "pretty" people. Honestly, fake people in a fake world is sort of what the fake society is about anyway. Not all fake, but you're amazing the end.❤
Makes a lot of sense, Lizzie. I think you're spot on. Thats quite a level of self-awareness not many have. Very fascinating, dear, thank you so much for sharing such a deep part of yourself. I bet many can relate to this, but not know why.
Very relatable when you really immerse yourself into things you find interesting and enjoyable. It’s like falling down the rabbit hole of fandom and never quite finding your way back out.
I've been in that dream world where we make ourselves the star of the show and enjoy the things we are deprived of. It's not a good place to be because it distorts our thoughts and emotions away from the repair zone. We have a left hand body and a right hand body but via this dream world we become totally left handed...one dimensional...whilst our RH body goes to sleep and doesn't function. Prayer and Jesus Christ helps unravel this lack of function using comforting, soothing tactics, that we all need desperately.
Just found this channel and I can't handle how lovely this woman is 😭 Just want to bundle her up in hugs and head pats, such a sweetheart is too pure for this world
I have been living in my other worlds through my dreams since I can remember. It truly is, in my opinion, the only thing that has kept me sane in this fake, cruel world, as crazy as that sounds.
The way you describe your escape through your dreams reminds me of a show i used to watch as a kid its a called “chalk zone” and the boy basically does the same thing by brining things he creates to life in a chalk world . Being lonely is also very hard these days people are just nasty and all the nice people hide themselves its bad situation this generation is in but dont give up he is out their waiting to find you!
I think a lot of people can relate to you. Some of us live through others vicariously. I know I do. I think thats why novels haven't gone out of style. Escaping reality can be very comforting.
Right?!? She's so very sweet and genuine and beautiful and if I were a guy, I'd definitely ask her out! I was shocked when she said that. They're missing out, for sure!!
I have been watching you for YEARSSSS...always inspiring always kind hearted and a Wonderful Teacher! I do the same as you! I escape through Tv sometimes like my Favorite shows Smallville, Burn Notice. I also escape through video games which is where I got popular through my CZcams Channel. We all escape sometimes. Thank you for helping a lot of us Escape our lives by watching your amazing Story and being a small part of your life! Keep at it!
You are such a blessing to many, Lizzie, and that is as real as it comes. 💞 I used to love to sleep because I would say that my dream-life is so much better than my real life. I've suffered many traumas, that are unfathomable, and there is nothing wrong with getting immersed in a show, or movies. I do it a l l t h e t i me 😄 And I do not feel bad about it, nor do I question it. When I'm binging a show, whether it be silly and fun, thriller, romantic, or watching a great movie, I'm transported there and I'm in my own little sacred world. I get my snacks, comfy pj's, and I feel safe. The fact that you're talking about it, means you're not crazy. You are creative, sensitive, caring, and a beautiful woman that knows she deserves to be happy. More of us do this than you know. This world can be cruel, so we need to do what we can do and enjoy it in our own ways. Love and hugs.💞💞🤗
Completely relatable. Every story offers its own distinct "channel" of experiences that allow us to extrapolate beyond our own daily routines. Ideally the people who are part of our lives offer similarly unique opportunities for growth and learning but fictions can expand on those universal human needs by *transcending* reality. Imagination is the greatest achievement of evolution.
I have maladaptive daydreams, as well. So, I can relate to you, Lizzie. Sometimes, it's better than reality to some of us, although at times, they can be a bit depressing.
Very relatable. Sometimes the fantasy is much better than the reality. Imagination is definitely a playground for the untethered soul. Thanks for sharing.
@@cjdig86my ex never wanted to go hiking or camping or even walk around the block. He claimed there was no instant gratification (like his drinking I guess). Oh but there is! Being out in nature and fresh air and sunshine, or rain, it's all instant gratification. Plus exercise and knowing you're doing something good for yourself. Bring a bag and pick up any trash you see for more endorphins.
Aw man this actually made me tear up. I've always had to imagine things to go to sleep and often find myself embarassed about it, and the ridiculous and impossible scenarios I invent. So it's very kind of you to share in this way and assure us all that it's nothing to be ashamed of, and just part of being human. Haven't seen you before but you came across so delightfully in this video and I hope you know what a difference it made :)
I love that u shared this with us and I think almost everyone can relate to the feeling of wanting to escape to a better place somehow to a certain extent. Mostly when I’m upset about a certain thing or feel down that I haven’t experienced things like the ppl in shows do so casually, I just remember everything I have and what I can be thankful for. It’s totally normal and human to wanna be accepted and not be an outcast and therefore okay to be sad about it. What helps me is thinking about things that make me happy in the real world and what im thankful for, maybe this helps u too :) ! Have a lovely day, u’re a lovely person
I have a whole imaginary world full of characters and they all have their own personality and some are just so fun to be around even though they're in my head. I would put my characters and world to paper but have drifted from writing lately. I'm basically still six years old and playing with my imaginary friends.
i feel like its human nature to want something else, another face, body, lots of other stuff. Honestly i think "daydreaming" just makes people more human,not that people tht dont day dream are not human but all of thesse kind of stuff just make a person more humanising, relatable... (btw thx lizzie think ur genuinly badass)
You are so lovely and well-spoken. I enjoyed listening to every word you said. Also, the video wasn't too long, in fact, i would have love to hear everything you feel like you need to talk about. I love you & you are not alone either. We have so much in common & i think we are gonna be just fine! Wishing you only the BEST & BIG BIG 🤗'S. 💛☮️💛
So relatable but recently I’ve been finding I can’t handle the whiplash of coming straight back to bad reality after being sucked in for any amount of time
I have just come across your videos and there should be more people like you in the world and it would certainly be a much better place. Liked and subscribed
The sheer bravery Lizzie shows time and time again to be so open and honest with the whole world makes me feel embarrassed that I would struggle to do the same thing in any setting. She is a real life angel ❤
That's amazing how you've described it as when I cut myself off from everyone I watch lots of reality tv shows and get lost in them and I feel as if I'm living through the characters in the show or films.. For me it's a great distraction from other things which I find hard coping with. Thank you for explaining it this way as it makes more sense and I'm not the only one who does it ☺💜
Man this lowkey made me tear up and I am a man, it broke my heart that such a normal beautiful woman was dealt with tragic cards. Could be much worse but this made me rlly sad bc you can tell she would be really beautiful by beauty standards if she didn't have this ailment even tho she is perfectly fine aside from maybe arthritis or some weakness cuz her hands are rlly skinny. You are beautiful and don't let anyone and I mean ANYONE tell you diff! Your dreams are not a delusion they are proof that other dimensions exist. Keep pushin and you will find a man that is right for you! It is your birthrite!
Aww Lizzie don’t be embarrassed about having a fantasy world. If we were all honest I bet we would find that most of us do. Glad to hear “The Rookie” is your favorite. It was also a favorite for my late wife and myself. It is so well done and for a cop show I also find it comforting (well mostly… there are intense moments that are not). Love to listen to you sweetie. You probably don’t realize what comfort you bring to others :))).
I get what you’re saying, but, at least for me, beauty is largely in a person’s personality. It didn’t used to be like that for me, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve found that a person’s personality makes them look different in my eyes. Of course, initial looks are something I notice prior to learning about a person, but after that, it’s all personality. An incompatible personality results in me perceiving an ugly person. A compatible personality makes me see a beautiful person. I use the words “incompatible” and “compatible” personalities because I believe there is no good or bad personality per se, it’s rather subjective. I’ve disliked people who others love, so who am I to say someone has a bad personality? So what I’m saying is that whilst for you her beauty may be a lie, there are many who do perceive her as beautiful because of her personality changing their perception of her. It’s like a positive association with a person makes them better looking.
That makes a lot of sense. I enjoy watching shows of things that I used to be able to do. I love that you have those stories to go to sleep. I think that will help me a lot. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
I used to be like this, suddenly, one day, it just stopped. Honestly, I kind of miss escaping into my dreams. Reality is hard and there's not a lot we can do to escape.
You have nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of Love. We all dream, imagine scenarios and get sucked into things that give us comfort. You might not want to be seen as 'normal', but in this, you definitely are. Do whatever makes your heart and soul sing (as long as it hurts no one). Wishing you much love ❤️
I can completely relate to what you're saying. It's a very fun and safe thing to immerse yourself in another world without risking the heart-break like you said, or in some cases dangerous situations. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
I'm so glad you raised this. I, too, have been doing this since childhood. I think it's a wonderful escape into a eworld we have some control of! Daydream on sweetie! xo ❤
You’re not alone, Lizzie. I understand. I can relate. I live with a very rare solar allergy so I spend the majority of my life indoors in my apartment. I have to be very careful when it comes to UV, including indoor sources. I also get flash burn easily due to UV. My imagination is my temporary escape and so are my dreams. As long as the line between fantasy and reality does not become blurred, enjoy your imagination and have sweet dreams.
I can relate to that. When you dream, or watch a show you enjoy you get to imagine yourself in it's just a break from reality for that amount of time. Everyone needs a break from life once and awhile, that's why some folks go on vacation. There's nothing wrong with the way you think Lizzie, that's something that everyone does.
Especially the IMDb part highly relatable. But yeah, when I got to emotionally invested into characters I tried distancing myself from the medium. But it's also nice to see that it takes real craftsmanship of storytelling and script writing in order to feel for the characters of shows and movies.
Thank you. I can relate. Basically, giving up on humanity & the delusional realities we choose to keep trying find that one decent person. Atleast you were brave enough to speak out. I think many of us try, except we are always prayed up on.
You're not alone girl. I found this type of escape through gaming, so I actually totally understand an aspect of this. Don't feel weird. Lots of love to you
I absolutely get you on this. I do the same thing. I have a hard time keeping friends, I feel like I get ghosted very often by people I thought were my friends, and I think that's the reason I spend so much time watching groups of friend play games and do things on youtube. It sometimes makes me feel like I'm in the group and I'm friends with the people I'm watching, even if though I've never met them and they don't even know I exist. It just feels really nice to feel like apart of something that I can't seem to experience in real life.
I think we all retreat to our "little worlds' to cope and deal with this life. THANKS FOR SHARING and I think you have the sweetest voice on Earth! I love you, Lizzie!
Lizzie, thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability with us. This is how I've lived my life since I was a kid (Im almost 27 now), and for so long I was embarrassed to share it with anybody. How engrossed I'd be in these fictional worlds, and how it took up so much of my day just daydreaming. It was more fun and felt more natural than trying to socialize with "real people", who often didn't really understand me and my undiagnosed AuDHD, because I could be who I wanted to be and do what I wanted to do. I used it as a creative outlet and now I write and daydream about my own characters and their world. It can be lonely sometimes, almost never really connecting with other people unless they're somewhere on the autism/ADHD spectrum, but I'm proud of the things I've made and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I'm glad to see other people here relate to the experience, and I hope you never stop feeling the joy that comes from our fictional worlds.
Same here, adhd sister! Although as soon as study-life was over and adult-life started, i found myself too overwhelmed or busy keeping track of the daily demands and routines society asks of the adult life, so i get distracted/dont have the patience for it anymore to write them down. I sure as hell wish i could install a camera in my brain somehow and film my dreams sometimes tho. Whenever i wake up from one of those dreams, the happy vibes surrounding the dream stay with me during the day, such a weird/comfy/safe feeling or something. Love it
oh this is so relatable to me. i use these scenarios and entire worlds in my head from shows or just what i wished my life looked like and replaying my life doing things differently in such detail to comfort and torture myself daily. i can be doing anything and really be in my little worlds at the same time instead of doing the things i want to in life out of fear. im trying to stay more grounded and present and find comfort in healthy ways, but the comfort those moments gave me are unmatched!!😭
I do that too! My comfort is in my characters and my story. I use escapism to get away from the hurt. So my characters have become my escape. I'm glad that Im not alone. This video was really comforting for me.
BRO SAME! I have Mlp oc’s and I’ve had them for years! I have customs of each of them!! I even have roblox OCs that I create stories in my head every night. 😂😂😂
I can relate to you. I do imagine a different world I can be in. I've never had a good life. So I go into worlds to get a way to a nicer place. Were no one can hurt me.
I am a 47 yr old disabled female since i was 34 years old. I'm also on the spectrum. I feel like you described my life totally. My children who are all grown have given me a confidence I've never had before. Because they've noticed my struggles with socializing and verbalizing how I feel. My daughter got tired of seeing me watch the same episodes of the 1st season of the show I LOVE. So, for Christmas 2 years ago she bought me the entire box set of all 12 seasons. It is the only show I ever watch. But I have over 250 episodes to choose from 😁 i have a set schedule in my head for my daily living events. Routine is key to my well being. I also get hung up on a certain food and eat it everyday for weeks or longer. I understand that my ways are not for everyone & it hurts me when it interferes with life outside of my box. Which it often does, I have zero friends because i know i cant be a good friend and keep my routine. My sister and mother are my caregivers & they accept my weirdness. I just hope one day i can overcome the anxieties that normal everyday life presents to me. 😢
Lizzie, you have a beautiful way of explaining. We're really not so different, and I've always believed people have more in common than not. You probably just described perfectly what it is we all share. Sending you love and light.
I'm a paraplegic Lizzie and while our situations aren't similar they are in this way as well! In these shows and video games I too find an escape from the pain and discomfort of my paralysis and actually I went to school 2 blocks away from the high school Nathan Fillion attended in Edmonton Alberta Canada ours was public, his was catholic. I've met him in person a few times and you couldn't meet a nicer guy, and i believe he'd be a fan of YOURS! ❤ Keep your chin up! Were behind you 😊
This is why entertainment exists-to see and feel experiences we may not have had the chance to see and feel yet. It's safe, good, and comforting. You are not alone.
Hey Lizzie! I find this particular conversation really fun to dive in because we all try to imagine a better world in our heads and love to kind of thrive in our own imaginary worlds/fictional worlds we like to watch. I personally find enjoyment in the expression of self in creative works such as the one that you are describing for fiction or movies and I don't find it weird personally cause the need for creative expression is always needed and loved! Thanks for this powerful thought, love your openness to go off the cuff, unscripted in these videos!
You’re literally adorable 🥺 and yes, i can relate to that so much! With AvPD, a heavy anxiety diagnosis, i often dream myself away into movies and series too, and kind of lose myself in that world as well; even as I say daydream before sleep about existing there. i agree it’s human and it’s wonderful to be dreamy, but…sometimes i also feel I’m holding myself back a bit over perceived flaws? Like “ no one will really like me for who i am”, including friends. It’s a deep rooted feeling and i try to work on it, but it’s hard… i so miss having wonderful friendships in life and I’ve struggled with it for so long, and sometimes you feel like just dreaming yourself away. But lets not give up, i see you 🩷 and thank you so much for sharing your heart with everyone, your vulnerability resonates deeply 🥺💕
Yes! The rookie is great!! Anybody else ever binge watch an old comfort show that you haven't seen in a while? It's very fun. I just watched the first season of "the OC" lol
@@CaliPho3nix Yes! I love both of those. As someone born in the early 80s, my go-to comfort shows are mainly from the 90s and early 00s. Some other good ones: Third Rock From the Sun, X-Files, Just Shoot Me, Roseanne, Frasier
Bless you! You have so much insight into yourself. That’s so much more than most people have. I think people who are hyper aware of reality or the state of the world …. It’s only natural to need an escape sometimes. This form of escape is creative. 💚🙏
This may be the first video I’ve seen of yours but I just started my mental health journey to try and fix myself and seeing you be open and vulnerable makes me think maybe it won’t be so difficult and I thank you for that, you seem like a truly wonderful woman and I can’t wait to see the rest of the content to come
Girl, I'm the same way when it comes to certain shows and even books! It's not weird or crazy at all! With books, I almost think I'm watching a movie or imagining what the characters look like. It's so much fun! Love ya girl!
If anyone says anything bad in this comment section about this amazing woman you will not be spared
Second that. Let's get em.
Non negotiable agreed..
Love your hair ❤ beautiful intelligent lady and so interesting !!! ❣️
I'm in also❤
I am, too💕
Lizzie sweetheart, It's not weird, nor unusual, to have dreams and fantasies. You know that it's fantasy so it's not a real problem. That's the same thing we all do when we read a book, or delve into a movie or series. It's a way to temporarily escape from the crap in this "real" world. You're not alone lovely lady ❤
This exactly 🙌 It's not weird at all! ❤️
Well said .
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Exactly....well said😉
Yes, we all do it. Most people just don't mention it, but I'm sure it is very common. I read a study once where they asked people if they make up fantasy worlds with ongoing plots, characters, etc., and a very high percentage of people said they do.
I have heard this called "maladaptive daydreaming" and I have done it all my life. I am completely alone, have a ton of issues and problems, and it's just better. Thanks for posting this, feel better to know it's not just me.
Yes that’s it! I’m the same exact way, although it has gotten worse and has bled into my actual life, which is where the “maladaptive” part comes into play.
I’ve been doing all my life as well, it’s just very soothing and comforting
maladaptive is then it starts to be a problem and take big part of life away, usually people just have some daydreaming before sleep or like, in rest hours
I've been doing this since I was 6 years old and there are thousands of other people like us. Definitely not alone man!
My mind is blown & her story was very interesting & relatable. Peace & love to you all. I have friends & family I can call but mentally & emotionally I feel alone because of the things I’ve been through in life. When you feel like no one understands it’s easier to drift away, I feel like.
Lizzie you’re not the o my 30-40 year old who has never had a relationship either. I’m 30 & come to the realization that being single may not be bad. As long as I have the things I love to: music, podcast, video game & a few other things. I am most happy when left alone.
I do realize that’s me speaking from a privileged situation because do have ppl that want to be around me. I just tend to shut the world off, ignoring calls text & all.
I empathize for the ppl who don’t have a friend to talk to or relative to show them unconditional love. My little sister and my best friend of 20 years were dealing with that and that quarantine time really was hard for most ppl. I lost them both within the past 3 years😢
Ik they are not dealing with this cruel world any more but I wish I could’ve been there more for them.
I say this sincerely to the ppl that feel alone. Know that there is someone that loves & cares for you. And there is also ppl like me who is that friend you don’t know you have.
My favorite song of all time is The Jackson 5 “I’ll be there”
R.I.P Ashley Jackson 11/95-11/23 & Tylor Banks 12/93-05/21❤❤
As a writer, I feel it’s my responsibility to make you think, to expand your curiosity, and to trigger your imagination. So, the reaction you have when watching these shows, or listening to these podcasts, is exactly what a writer hopes to achieve. We want to take you away from reality for a while, and immerse you in a world that you may never experience. And I absolutely love hearing that you GOT IT! So, instead of questioning it, just enjoy it, because reality always comes crashing down around us. And when you can ‘get away from it all’ by reading a book, or watching a movie, just embrace it for as long as you can. It’s quite a beautiful thing! ❤️❤️❤️
The real true heroes of our time are the ones who DARE to be authentic, open and vulnerable ! Thank you Lizzie ❤ You are beautiful
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Yes, i agree totally ❣️❣️❣️
And you feed her the validation and lies she wants to hear. Your inauthenticity is weak, hive-like, you are a sheep, your fear is your Shepard. You never dare to tell the truth, because you are scared of it. Cope NPC.
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Yep. Definitely not firefighters and paramedics. Only the people you mentioned are true heroes!
You speak so eloquently and honestly. This is one of your gifts! Thank you!
I love her voice it's beautiful..
@coyote_killr frr!!
Damn how perfect she would be for dnd, and really just embrace the chaos and loveliness of it.
Hey, I've seen you around the internet a long while back. Very happy to see you're still around spreading the good messages you do. 😊 Thank you for all you do.
I do the same exact thing. When I’m falling asleep I make up unrealistic scenarios in my head to help me fall asleep. I think it’s a normal thing to do! Especially if you have trouble sleeping. I do it to get rid of unwanted anxious or negative thoughts.
I also do this for the exact same reasons. It's a coping mechanism and my way of taking a mental vacation. I'm 41 and have been doing this since I was a child. It's good to know that I'm not the only one who does it lol.
Me also. Beem doing that since I was a kid. It helps to put the crap from the day in the background and relax
Samesies. Though, sometimes it gets interrupted.
Maladaptive daydreaming. I don't want to be that person who thinks everything is a "diagnosis" but I've also been doing this since I was a child.
I do this either with daydreaming before falling asleep or I'll listen to music and imagining myself doing amazing things to the soundtrack lol
It’s universally relatable. There have even been studies showing that people who get caught up in the stories of fictional TV characters see themselves as having real friends and social lives and are overall more content. The only down side is when a series ends, who else ends up dearly missing their fictional friends/family?
This happened to both me and my husband when we finished watching the Malcolm in the Middle series years ago. I missed my friends. 😢❤
When I was a kid I cried when my favorite show ended because I was sad that it was over
My escape is watching Seinfeld every night as a stress reliever & it’s true I feel like they’re my fictional friends.
I haven't been able to watch the last season of 'Blue Bloods' because I can't handle that it'll be over soon!
@@AngelBlu7 I just had a 30 min chat with my mailman about Seinfeld tonight. Truly good comedy and relatable story
Never apologize for video length! Thank you for being vulnerable, you're a gem in a messy world, stay gold Lizzie! 🙏
Why do you think being vulnerable is a good thing?
@@menartd2618 Because it's what makes you human.
@@theauditor322 So you think being defenseless makes you human?
@@menartd2618 Nope, being vulnerable makes you human. In this case, it doesn't mean defenseless, it means that she opened up to people about something, either because she needed to talk or get it out of her chest.
@@theauditor322 Opening up to people is not a sign of being vulnerable. You don't know what being vulnerable is.
My son is 15 and on the spectrum and as I’m watching this I’m understanding him so much more. He has no interest in dating and doesn’t find people attractive, but he has a whole world in his head he loves to live in.
Thank you for this wonderful video. I’m going to show this to him to he understands he’s not alone.
the only spectrum that exists is your failure as a parent.
I don’t know if he’s at all interested in hearing a Taylor swift song, but one of her new songs is called “I hate it here” and I relate to it so much!! It’s a lot about going to imaginary worlds in your mind to escape ❤
Did u ever heard the term asexual ? maybe he is.
@@lanawr80omfg I started BAWLING when I first heard that song. was not expecting that from taylor especially since she seems to have the "ideal" life that many of us would imagine living in our daydreams
@@violetfaurschou1381 OMG SAME!! I find it so comforting to know that most humans, regardless of our circumstances, can feel like we are left out or we hate it here. Sending you ❤️
Lizzie is always so authentic and vulnerable. A true role model. ❤
LIZZIE, I'M A 62 YEAR OLD MAN NOW, BELIEVE ME ITS NOT STRANGE, I FIND MYSELF DOING THIS ALL THE TIME,.. I JUST THINK IT'S PART IF OUR HUMAN EXPERIENCE. ❤
I love seeing comments from people who come from a completely different generation. Reminds me that there’s a big world out there.
Yep! I'm a 57 year old man and I've done this as long as I can remember.
Please lower the caps and be more respectful.
@@zajournals the guy is 62, i dont think he knows that this reads as shouting LOL
Gautier Mississippi loves you
Stay positive Lizzie. You are freaking awesome!
I find her beautiful, I think it's her wonderful and sweet aura and smile.
Liar
Same i feel like she is beautiful people tell me im lying too but i believe beauty is subjective
@@GeorgeNewman795some folks can see the real person, others can't. That's true sight.
Agreed. I'm a firm believer in character shines from the inside and projects the beauty outside. You are beautiful. Never doubt that. Bullies are ugly and know it, so they are jealous. Their ugliness shows.
I’m a writer, so what you’re describing is what I do when I’m creating fictional stories, I’m creating and living in imaginary worlds. It’s one of my greatest joys.
Also, as a writer, our goal is to create characters that the reader can step into their shoes 👠 👠 and experience what they experience. So, know that you are doing just what the creator wants you to do, and what everyone should be doing. It’s completely normal.
I almost joined the circus when I was 18. It was a dream of mine I never experienced. Not until I read a novel about being in a circus. I was swept away into that world and really got to see and feel what that was all about. Like you were describing how you fantasize beyond the story, I was definitely doing that while reading that book. Without reading that novel, I would have never had that amazing experience.
The great thing about humans is that we can actually feel like we experienced things that we never really did, simply by stepping into the shoes of others. It’s why when we’re watching a movie, and something really frightening happens to the main character, we might scream 😱 as if whatever happened happened to us. It’s actually pretty cool.
It’s perfectly okay to enjoy other worlds.
❤
I left a comment asking if she was a writer, because I'm new here. I know an artist when I hear one.
Yes!! I have the same experience when I’m having my maladaptive daydreams. Which are rather immersive! So it’s very normal especially for writers and this is very relatable!! You’re not alone Liz :)
@@Silverfirefly1 exactly 👍
@@kierrahunter5049 so this is what it's called. i do that literally from the age i became a thinking being and i never knew this strange state has a name, huh.
Facts, I just wrote a comment about writing because I do the same thing! It's a very creative thing, and she may actually be an amazing writer seeing how eloquent she is too
Honesty is attractive.
Authenticity is so rare. We all know it when we see it. But we don’t see it much. Especially now.
For sure.
So true
This comment is HOT and I love it ❤
This reminds me of the comment from the video *"Being ugly, my experience"*
*Are you planning on marry her?*
You have so much insight into your own thought processes that most people don’t. Daydreaming can be a good coping mechanism, but if it starts to interfere with your happiness or daily life, you can get help!
Tons of people struggle with maladaptive daydreaming, it’s common among people who have experienced trauma.
This is so addicting and so true. You are not alone and it's most definitely exciting and addicting. Things could be worse and there could be worse addictions! Lol😂❤❤
You are so incredibly beautiful JUST. AS. YOU. ARE. ❤❤❤ You're personality is so much better than a good amount of "pretty" people. Honestly, fake people in a fake world is sort of what the fake society is about anyway. Not all fake, but you're amazing the end.❤
Ok Dr
Makes a lot of sense, Lizzie. I think you're spot on. Thats quite a level of self-awareness not many have. Very fascinating, dear, thank you so much for sharing such a deep part of yourself. I bet many can relate to this, but not know why.
Very relatable when you really immerse yourself into things you find interesting and enjoyable. It’s like falling down the rabbit hole of fandom and never quite finding your way back out.
It's especially peaceful. Quiet and calm.
It's normal.
I've been in that dream world where we make ourselves the star of the show and enjoy the things we are deprived of. It's not a good place to be because it distorts our thoughts and emotions away from the repair zone. We have a left hand body and a right hand body but via this dream world we become totally left handed...one dimensional...whilst our RH body goes to sleep and doesn't function. Prayer and Jesus Christ helps unravel this lack of function using comforting, soothing tactics, that we all need desperately.
@trevorbates9017 no, fantasy is normal. Theres no need to pray away the fantasy, 😅.
100%
Just found this channel and I can't handle how lovely this woman is 😭
Just want to bundle her up in hugs and head pats, such a sweetheart is too pure for this world
Head pats... 🤭 All 💯 *_agreed_* tho. 👍🤟
I thought I was the only weirdo who likes head pats 🥹
@@FleetwoodCaddy59 That isn't weird... XD
I'm pretty sure a lot of couples do that...
Great comment x
I have been living in my other worlds through my dreams since I can remember. It truly is, in my opinion, the only thing that has kept me sane in this fake, cruel world, as crazy as that sounds.
The way you describe your escape through your dreams reminds me of a show i used to watch as a kid its a called “chalk zone” and the boy basically does the same thing by brining things he creates to life in a chalk world .
Being lonely is also very hard these days people are just nasty and all the nice people hide themselves its bad situation this generation is in but dont give up he is out their waiting to find you!
I think a lot of people can relate to you. Some of us live through others vicariously. I know I do. I think thats why novels haven't gone out of style. Escaping reality can be very comforting.
Lizzie, you deserve the best relationship anyone could have. I can't believe guys are passing you up.
I told her that i'm the guy that wants to share a life just depends of her answer.
Right?!? She's so very sweet and genuine and beautiful and if I were a guy, I'd definitely ask her out! I was shocked when she said that. They're missing out, for sure!!
"I can't believe guys are passing you up" Happens vice verse too and more often so 🤷🤷 ...
JUST SAYING
I have been watching you for YEARSSSS...always inspiring always kind hearted and a Wonderful Teacher! I do the same as you! I escape through Tv sometimes like my Favorite shows Smallville, Burn Notice. I also escape through video games which is where I got popular through my CZcams Channel. We all escape sometimes. Thank you for helping a lot of us Escape our lives by watching your amazing Story and being a small part of your life! Keep at it!
You are such a blessing to many, Lizzie, and that is as real as it comes. 💞 I used to love to sleep because I would say that my dream-life is so much better than my real life. I've suffered many traumas, that are unfathomable, and there is nothing wrong with getting immersed in a show, or movies. I do it a l l t h e t i me 😄 And I do not feel bad about it, nor do I question it. When I'm binging a show, whether it be silly and fun, thriller, romantic, or watching a great movie, I'm transported there and I'm in my own little sacred world. I get my snacks, comfy pj's, and I feel safe. The fact that you're talking about it, means you're not crazy. You are creative, sensitive, caring, and a beautiful woman that knows she deserves to be happy. More of us do this than you know. This world can be cruel, so we need to do what we can do and enjoy it in our own ways. Love and hugs.💞💞🤗
You seem amazing, bullies be damned your chill af.
April is autism awareness month
Yes i am socially weird with non verbal learning disorder but i embrace with love 🙌🏻🙌🏻
My nephew has autism he's in his early twenties, and now he is hi functioning
Greeting to my autistic family.. your so not alone . We out there being weird and proud
@@greghogan5451God bless you ❤
I'm an autistic single mum of three also autistic children❤ Believe me you arent alone in being weird❤❤
Autistic here too, love to everyone here 🫶🏽❤
I often feel weird and it's good to know I'm not alone.
Completely relatable. Every story offers its own distinct "channel" of experiences that allow us to extrapolate beyond our own daily routines. Ideally the people who are part of our lives offer similarly unique opportunities for growth and learning but fictions can expand on those universal human needs by *transcending* reality. Imagination is the greatest achievement of evolution.
I have maladaptive daydreams, as well. So, I can relate to you, Lizzie. Sometimes, it's better than reality to some of us, although at times, they can be a bit depressing.
You are my HERO....you are fearless....kind, authentic.....you are a beautiful soul....be who you are.....and be PROUD!!
I completely agree with you 💯 percent! What a lovely soul she is!
Very relatable. Sometimes the fantasy is much better than the reality. Imagination is definitely a playground for the untethered soul. Thanks for sharing.
I’m not gonna cry. 🤧😭😖 Ugh that was so very well said! 😭 👏🏽 👏🏽 I totally agree!
Without the imagination to dream and create life would be dull.
It's ALWAYS better than the reality. Real life fucking sucks
Does she have a podcast? She has a very calming voice, girl you should totally consider reading for audiobooks! :)
Well said!! Thank you for putting it so eloquently! And I am so inspired the the amazing strength you have to be vulnerable!!
I've always been that way too. It's wonderful to imagine alternative lives and adventures.
Whenever you’re in California, let’s go Hiking.. it’s beautiful and relaxing seeing and hearing the Wildlife.
I'll join ya! I'm in Burbank
I'm not coming. I got other things to do. I'm with you in spirit.
@@That-Ninjamasturbating doesn’t count as “other things to do”
@@cjdig86 the only way for us to know for sure is for you to JOIN ME RIGHT HERE AND RIIGHT NOW BIG RED 🍒
@@cjdig86my ex never wanted to go hiking or camping or even walk around the block. He claimed there was no instant gratification (like his drinking I guess). Oh but there is! Being out in nature and fresh air and sunshine, or rain, it's all instant gratification. Plus exercise and knowing you're doing something good for yourself. Bring a bag and pick up any trash you see for more endorphins.
Aw man this actually made me tear up. I've always had to imagine things to go to sleep and often find myself embarassed about it, and the ridiculous and impossible scenarios I invent. So it's very kind of you to share in this way and assure us all that it's nothing to be ashamed of, and just part of being human. Haven't seen you before but you came across so delightfully in this video and I hope you know what a difference it made :)
Being vulnerable and putting yourself out there is bravery uncommon bravery good lucky pretty lady
You are such a beautiful person…❤❤❤
Amen
Isn’t she , though ? I just love her . ❤️
❤🙏
Agreed 💯 percent! Lovely person ❤❤❤.
She don't need pity , people equal ?
You are the stuff that writers and poets are made of!
She is also the stuff that they muse about!
I love that u shared this with us and I think almost everyone can relate to the feeling of wanting to escape to a better place somehow to a certain extent. Mostly when I’m upset about a certain thing or feel down that I haven’t experienced things like the ppl in shows do so casually, I just remember everything I have and what I can be thankful for. It’s totally normal and human to wanna be accepted and not be an outcast and therefore okay to be sad about it. What helps me is thinking about things that make me happy in the real world and what im thankful for, maybe this helps u too :) ! Have a lovely day, u’re a lovely person
I have a whole imaginary world full of characters and they all have their own personality and some are just so fun to be around even though they're in my head. I would put my characters and world to paper but have drifted from writing lately. I'm basically still six years old and playing with my imaginary friends.
This lady has my admiration, love and respect ❤
I stand beside you with those exact same feelings ❤
i feel like its human nature to want something else, another face, body, lots of other stuff. Honestly i think "daydreaming" just makes people more human,not that people tht dont day dream are not human but all of thesse kind of stuff just make a person more humanising, relatable...
(btw thx lizzie think ur genuinly badass)
You are so lovely and well-spoken. I enjoyed listening to every word you said. Also, the video wasn't too long, in fact, i would have love to hear everything you feel like you need to talk about. I love you & you are not alone either. We have so much in common & i think we are gonna be just fine! Wishing you only the BEST & BIG BIG 🤗'S. 💛☮️💛
So relatable but recently I’ve been finding I can’t handle the whiplash of coming straight back to bad reality after being sucked in for any amount of time
thats true haha
You are such a beautiful person. Love you bunches Lizzie. ❤❤❤
Heartbreak is the worst. Also i can relate for the most part.
Love your turquoise nails btw. ☮️
Yeah! They rule!
Yeah Her Nails colours are class ❤ Lovly personality ✨️✨️
Her nails are just gorgeous ❤
@@jerzgirl6780 I agree. ❤️
Yeah her nails are the best! I could never wear them as I know I would be breaking them, losing them Tec but the colours cool!
I have just come across your videos and there should be more people like you in the world and it would certainly be a much better place. Liked and subscribed
I understand this. I have this happen sometimes too. Being someone else for a little while is nice.
The sheer bravery Lizzie shows time and time again to be so open and honest with the whole world makes me feel embarrassed that I would struggle to do the same thing in any setting. She is a real life angel ❤
That's amazing how you've described it as when I cut myself off from everyone I watch lots of reality tv shows and get lost in them and I feel as if I'm living through the characters in the show or films.. For me it's a great distraction from other things which I find hard coping with. Thank you for explaining it this way as it makes more sense and I'm not the only one who does it ☺💜
Man this lowkey made me tear up and I am a man, it broke my heart that such a normal beautiful woman was dealt with tragic cards. Could be much worse but this made me rlly sad bc you can tell she would be really beautiful by beauty standards if she didn't have this ailment even tho she is perfectly fine aside from maybe arthritis or some weakness cuz her hands are rlly skinny. You are beautiful and don't let anyone and I mean ANYONE tell you diff! Your dreams are not a delusion they are proof that other dimensions exist. Keep pushin and you will find a man that is right for you! It is your birthrite!
You have a kind and gentle spirit, it made me cry
Aww Lizzie don’t be embarrassed about having a fantasy world. If we were all honest I bet we would find that most of us do. Glad to hear “The Rookie” is your favorite. It was also a favorite for my late wife and myself. It is so well done and for a cop show I also find it comforting (well mostly… there are intense moments that are not). Love to listen to you sweetie. You probably don’t realize what comfort you bring to others :))).
YOUR SO BEAUTIFUL DONT LISTEN TO THOSE HATERS THEY JUST JELLY BECAUSE YOUR BEAUTIFUL BESTIEE
You don’t have to lie. I still think she can find love, just has to find the right person.
@@RoIIingStonedBeauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
@@RoIIingStoned Who tf is lying? OP? Back to mom's basement with ya... ✋🤏
@@CaliPho3nix It is technically a lie. Obviously they still feel bad for her so what's the issue??
I get what you’re saying, but, at least for me, beauty is largely in a person’s personality. It didn’t used to be like that for me, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve found that a person’s personality makes them look different in my eyes.
Of course, initial looks are something I notice prior to learning about a person, but after that, it’s all personality.
An incompatible personality results in me perceiving an ugly person. A compatible personality makes me see a beautiful person. I use the words “incompatible” and “compatible” personalities because I believe there is no good or bad personality per se, it’s rather subjective.
I’ve disliked people who others love, so who am I to say someone has a bad personality? So what I’m saying is that whilst for you her beauty may be a lie, there are many who do perceive her as beautiful because of her personality changing their perception of her. It’s like a positive association with a person makes them better looking.
That makes a lot of sense. I enjoy watching shows of things that I used to be able to do. I love that you have those stories to go to sleep. I think that will help me a lot. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
I used to be like this, suddenly, one day, it just stopped. Honestly, I kind of miss escaping into my dreams. Reality is hard and there's not a lot we can do to escape.
You have nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of Love. We all dream, imagine scenarios and get sucked into things that give us comfort. You might not want to be seen as 'normal', but in this, you definitely are. Do whatever makes your heart and soul sing (as long as it hurts no one). Wishing you much love ❤️
I can completely relate to what you're saying. It's a very fun and safe thing to immerse yourself in another world without risking the heart-break like you said, or in some cases dangerous situations. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it.
I'm so glad you raised this. I, too, have been doing this since childhood. I think it's a wonderful escape into a eworld we have some control of! Daydream on sweetie! xo ❤
I can so relate...❤ You are so lovely - you just radiate light.
I hope you never feel embarrassed to post a video and speak your mind, because these videos help me out so much! ❤
You’re not alone, Lizzie. I understand. I can relate.
I live with a very rare solar allergy so I spend the majority of my life indoors in my apartment. I have to be very careful when it comes to UV, including indoor sources. I also get flash burn easily due to UV. My imagination is my temporary escape and so are my dreams.
As long as the line between fantasy and reality does not become blurred, enjoy your imagination and have sweet dreams.
Hello
You won't live long!
I can relate Lizzie! There is something very soothing about your videos. Thank you for being transparent. God Bless You 🩷
Absolutely, this is me. I do it all the time. Special Interests are real. As an AuDhd person, I find that accepting this about myself helps me a lot.
I can relate to that. When you dream, or watch a show you enjoy you get to imagine yourself in it's just a break from reality for that amount of time. Everyone needs a break from life once and awhile, that's why some folks go on vacation. There's nothing wrong with the way you think Lizzie, that's something that everyone does.
We’re all with you Lizzie! God bless you. I think we all can. It’s survivor mode. Mindlessly scrolling is zoning out, detaching from real life too.
Especially the IMDb part highly relatable.
But yeah, when I got to emotionally invested into characters I tried distancing myself from the medium.
But it's also nice to see that it takes real craftsmanship of storytelling and script writing in order to feel for the characters of shows and movies.
Thank you. I can relate.
Basically, giving up on humanity & the delusional realities we choose to keep trying find that one decent person.
Atleast you were brave enough to speak out.
I think many of us try, except we are always prayed up on.
You're not alone girl. I found this type of escape through gaming, so I actually totally understand an aspect of this. Don't feel weird. Lots of love to you
SO relatable! I have never felt so comforted by a video like this. It really means a lot.❤❤❤
You are so sweet. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.
I absolutely get you on this. I do the same thing. I have a hard time keeping friends, I feel like I get ghosted very often by people I thought were my friends, and I think that's the reason I spend so much time watching groups of friend play games and do things on youtube. It sometimes makes me feel like I'm in the group and I'm friends with the people I'm watching, even if though I've never met them and they don't even know I exist. It just feels really nice to feel like apart of something that I can't seem to experience in real life.
I think we all retreat to our "little worlds' to cope and deal with this life. THANKS FOR SHARING and I think you have the sweetest voice on Earth! I love you, Lizzie!
Lizzie, thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability with us. This is how I've lived my life since I was a kid (Im almost 27 now), and for so long I was embarrassed to share it with anybody. How engrossed I'd be in these fictional worlds, and how it took up so much of my day just daydreaming. It was more fun and felt more natural than trying to socialize with "real people", who often didn't really understand me and my undiagnosed AuDHD, because I could be who I wanted to be and do what I wanted to do. I used it as a creative outlet and now I write and daydream about my own characters and their world. It can be lonely sometimes, almost never really connecting with other people unless they're somewhere on the autism/ADHD spectrum, but I'm proud of the things I've made and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I'm glad to see other people here relate to the experience, and I hope you never stop feeling the joy that comes from our fictional worlds.
Don't feel weird! You (she, I) aren't alone!✌️
Same here, adhd sister! Although as soon as study-life was over and adult-life started, i found myself too overwhelmed or busy keeping track of the daily demands and routines society asks of the adult life, so i get distracted/dont have the patience for it anymore to write them down. I sure as hell wish i could install a camera in my brain somehow and film my dreams sometimes tho. Whenever i wake up from one of those dreams, the happy vibes surrounding the dream stay with me during the day, such a weird/comfy/safe feeling or something. Love it
Making our own World's become beautiful instead letting the horrors of it get through, I understand it , thank you for the inspiration Lizzie ❤️🌹
oh this is so relatable to me. i use these scenarios and entire worlds in my head from shows or just what i wished my life looked like and replaying my life doing things differently in such detail to comfort and torture myself daily. i can be doing anything and really be in my little worlds at the same time instead of doing the things i want to in life out of fear. im trying to stay more grounded and present and find comfort in healthy ways, but the comfort those moments gave me are unmatched!!😭
I do that too! My comfort is in my characters and my story. I use escapism to get away from the hurt. So my characters have become my escape. I'm glad that Im not alone. This video was really comforting for me.
Same here! I'm obsessed with my own characters lmfaoo
BRO SAME! I have Mlp oc’s and I’ve had them for years! I have customs of each of them!! I even have roblox OCs that I create stories in my head every night. 😂😂😂
@@BIGCATSMILES00 Real bro
I can relate to you. I do imagine a different world I can be in. I've never had a good life. So I go into worlds to get a way to a nicer place. Were no one can hurt me.
I am a 47 yr old disabled female since i was 34 years old. I'm also on the spectrum. I feel like you described my life totally. My children who are all grown have given me a confidence I've never had before. Because they've noticed my struggles with socializing and verbalizing how I feel. My daughter got tired of seeing me watch the same episodes of the 1st season of the show I LOVE. So, for Christmas 2 years ago she bought me the entire box set of all 12 seasons. It is the only show I ever watch. But I have over 250 episodes to choose from 😁 i have a set schedule in my head for my daily living events. Routine is key to my well being. I also get hung up on a certain food and eat it everyday for weeks or longer. I understand that my ways are not for everyone & it hurts me when it interferes with life outside of my box. Which it often does, I have zero friends because i know i cant be a good friend and keep my routine. My sister and mother are my caregivers & they accept my weirdness. I just hope one day i can overcome the anxieties that normal everyday life presents to me. 😢
I totally relate. Nice to know I'm not alone! You are amazing and wonderful - such a bright light in a sometimes dark world.
You are definitely not alone. I feel everything you said. Im a writer, so i have fun creating worlds to escape to. 😁😁
Thank you girl im exactly like that. Thanks for beautiful insights ur so not alone
Lizzie, you have a beautiful way of explaining. We're really not so different, and I've always believed people have more in common than not. You probably just described perfectly what it is we all share. Sending you love and light.
I'm a paraplegic Lizzie and while our situations aren't similar they are in this way as well! In these shows and video games I too find an escape from the pain and discomfort of my paralysis and actually I went to school 2 blocks away from the high school Nathan Fillion attended in Edmonton Alberta Canada ours was public, his was catholic. I've met him in person a few times and you couldn't meet a nicer guy, and i believe he'd be a fan of YOURS! ❤ Keep your chin up! Were behind you 😊
To you use the word "beautiful", to describe you just, isn't enough❤
This is why entertainment exists-to see and feel experiences we may not have had the chance to see and feel yet. It's safe, good, and comforting. You are not alone.
Hey Lizzie! I find this particular conversation really fun to dive in because we all try to imagine a better world in our heads and love to kind of thrive in our own imaginary worlds/fictional worlds we like to watch. I personally find enjoyment in the expression of self in creative works such as the one that you are describing for fiction or movies and I don't find it weird personally cause the need for creative expression is always needed and loved! Thanks for this powerful thought, love your openness to go off the cuff, unscripted in these videos!
You’re literally adorable 🥺 and yes, i can relate to that so much! With AvPD, a heavy anxiety diagnosis, i often dream myself away into movies and series too, and kind of lose myself in that world as well; even as I say daydream before sleep about existing there. i agree it’s human and it’s wonderful to be dreamy, but…sometimes i also feel I’m holding myself back a bit over perceived flaws? Like “ no one will really like me for who i am”, including friends. It’s a deep rooted feeling and i try to work on it, but it’s hard… i so miss having wonderful friendships in life and I’ve struggled with it for so long, and sometimes you feel like just dreaming yourself away. But lets not give up, i see you 🩷 and thank you so much for sharing your heart with everyone, your vulnerability resonates deeply 🥺💕
Yes! The rookie is great!! Anybody else ever binge watch an old comfort show that you haven't seen in a while? It's very fun. I just watched the first season of "the OC" lol
All the time, Seinfeld is always a go-to, That 70's Show used to be but it's hard to watch anymore... Dang it. 😅🤟
@@CaliPho3nix Yes! I love both of those. As someone born in the early 80s, my go-to comfort shows are mainly from the 90s and early 00s.
Some other good ones: Third Rock From the Sun, X-Files, Just Shoot Me, Roseanne, Frasier
You have a wonderful imagination!
Bless you! You have so much insight into yourself. That’s so much more than most people have. I think people who are hyper aware of reality or the state of the world …. It’s only natural to need an escape sometimes. This form of escape is creative. 💚🙏
Great to hear from you again Lizzie.
You may not be a model..... but you are a beautiful person... love you Lizzie
This may be the first video I’ve seen of yours but I just started my mental health journey to try and fix myself and seeing you be open and vulnerable makes me think maybe it won’t be so difficult and I thank you for that, you seem like a truly wonderful woman and I can’t wait to see the rest of the content to come
You are precious! God bless you Lizzie! ❤
Girl, I'm the same way when it comes to certain shows and even books! It's not weird or crazy at all! With books, I almost think I'm watching a movie or imagining what the characters look like. It's so much fun! Love ya girl!