Being Honest with My Boyfriend

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Komentáře • 281

  • @HeyRowanEllis
    @HeyRowanEllis Před 6 lety +400

    if you insist on pursuing these unnatural man/woman relationships i guess you've both chosen rather well

    • @leenanorms
      @leenanorms  Před 6 lety +64

      Rowan Ellis your lifestyle choice of moving in with us is just as disturbing but I guess we'll just be the uncouth household

    • @CraigSimmonds
      @CraigSimmonds Před 6 lety +19

      GET IN OUR FLAT NOW, ELLIS

    • @namename8120
      @namename8120 Před 6 lety +8

      Im so confused

    • @peplar3797
      @peplar3797 Před 5 lety

      Clarisse Boa I was at first 😂

    • @AnalyzewithAstephen
      @AnalyzewithAstephen Před 2 lety

      Im confused...

  • @melaniemurphyofficial
    @melaniemurphyofficial Před 6 lety +251

    I loved this SO MUCH he’s wonderful and you both are just wonderful *together* xxx

    • @leenanorms
      @leenanorms  Před 6 lety +13

      thanks love, your couple video made me a pile o'mush too. xxx

  • @juicyfruit4132
    @juicyfruit4132 Před 6 lety +87

    I was a little uncomfortable watching this because it felt so intimate. It was fantastic.

  • @EllenJones
    @EllenJones Před 6 lety +180

    Okay but listening to Craig talk about mental health stuff/hearing you be supportive has literally made me so full of hope because I have never really seen that discussion before and I don't know, it makes me reassured that it is possible to have that sort of dynamic? Anyway I am also really in love with your content at the moment, it is all just on such a consistently high and rad level

  • @KhanStopMe
    @KhanStopMe Před 6 lety +172

    3 minutes in and have been grinning ear to ear the whole time

    • @jenniferclapham6539
      @jenniferclapham6539 Před 6 lety

      KhanStopMe what happened after the three minutes that stopped you from smiling?

  • @JacksonLanaa
    @JacksonLanaa Před 6 lety +91

    "Chafe your dreams" 😂 This was fantastically fun and Craig's imitations of you are HILARIOUS/spot on hahah

  • @katybroadmusic123
    @katybroadmusic123 Před 6 lety +123

    ok. where did u find craig and where can i get one??

  • @Idontneedadevil
    @Idontneedadevil Před 6 lety +44

    I know people talk about relationship goals, but like, really. I would really like to have this level of openness and honesty and just plain comfortableness in my future relationships.

  • @eveblack4705
    @eveblack4705 Před 6 lety +60

    Aw this is really lovely! I'm glad that you're in such a supportive relationship.
    Also what I loved (in a kind of petty way) is that growing up I was told that if I were a feminist and held men to a standard of acting like a decent human, that I was being too picky and would never find anyone. Seeing you two call out that bullshit just gave me a lot of joy.

  • @heywhatupitsash7389
    @heywhatupitsash7389 Před 6 lety +20

    Short snippet that i love "i dont think what you have is bad, its just different" nice to see a supportive relationship

  • @aydie8809
    @aydie8809 Před 6 lety +53

    You two are genuinely the loveliest, authentic and non-cheesy #couplegoal impersonated! :)

  • @lucymoon
    @lucymoon Před 6 lety +88

    AMAZING

  • @figmoon
    @figmoon Před 6 lety +20

    this is so fucking cute and weird and honest and i love it. im so glad you two found eachother.
    also GIVE 👏🏼 US 👏🏼 THE 👏🏼 OSTRICH 👏🏼 STORY 👏🏼

  • @shining_faith
    @shining_faith Před 6 lety +41

    you both look so ridiculously happy and that makes my heart feel so warm :’)

  • @PopcornEmma
    @PopcornEmma Před 6 lety +73

    This is so wonderful. I love seeing people just talk and be honest, even though there's a camera on.

  • @Robbieleecats
    @Robbieleecats Před 6 lety +29

    You two are so great! While I laughed a lot, “Chafing Your Dreams” really cracked me up because the chafing is real!

  • @BigRedGlowingNose
    @BigRedGlowingNose Před 6 lety +39

    "We're like IKEA-shopping for a better life"

  • @PauuOtero
    @PauuOtero Před 6 lety +22

    How masochist of me is it that I watch this right after a breakup?

  • @JanicaDiane
    @JanicaDiane Před 6 lety +13

    YES, MORE POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP ROLE MODELS, THIS IS GOLD ❤️❤️❤️

  • @muxajetaptocom
    @muxajetaptocom Před 6 lety +34

    Everyone should have a Leena in their life. Loved this! Nice too officially meet you Craig 😊

  • @itsdaneesaur
    @itsdaneesaur Před 6 lety +11

    I’m stupidly grinning the whole way through this is so ADORABLE

  • @katiadjaoued3709
    @katiadjaoued3709 Před 6 lety +20

    Looooooved this not just cuz we finaly kinda get to meet your BF on the channel
    But this is the kind of conversation i have with my own boyfriend and friends and i never realized how fascinating it is to listen to the same type of conversation but with other people
    That was soooo great loved it please more

  • @CitizenDuMonde
    @CitizenDuMonde Před 6 lety +20

    YES shout out to supportive relationships that understand & integrate communication and trust into them~ I'm so happy for you guys

  • @JenTheEllis1
    @JenTheEllis1 Před 6 lety +27

    You've found such a good egg! You both look so happy!

  • @katherinerajwar2151
    @katherinerajwar2151 Před 6 lety +7

    I immediately need more videos of both of you. This was so sweet

  • @ladance32
    @ladance32 Před 6 lety +4

    Seeing happy people is the best. Thank you Leena and Craig! 💞

  • @marievolcko5489
    @marievolcko5489 Před 6 lety +6

    I love THE AND! And you guys!! This was such a sweet tribute. So happy for the two of you.

  • @peculiaritea
    @peculiaritea Před 6 lety +8

    Thank you so much for this. A real thing involving people who love each other and communicate. Shouldn't be as rare as it does feel.

  • @illbeyoursign
    @illbeyoursign Před 6 lety +16

    I really loved the way you look at each other like you really SEE each other
    and also I didn’t expect to cry but oh well
    this was absolutely lovely in every way

  • @jacquileather1329
    @jacquileather1329 Před 6 lety +15

    Every second of this warmed my heart so so much

  • @shumibegum3599
    @shumibegum3599 Před 6 lety +1

    Just caught this on my way home from work and was an absolute delight. You both bounce off of each other in such a wonderful, funny way! Already in love with you guys - more videos together please!

  • @annar7102
    @annar7102 Před 6 lety +11

    I love this, it's so refreshingly honest. I wish there was more content on CZcams like this!

  • @carolineissleepy
    @carolineissleepy Před 6 lety +33

    This video is so so wonderful. I watched a lot of your videos about being single recently and they helped me gain the courage to end a long term relationship that was so not a good fit - it brings me joy to see you guy so joyous both in and out of a relationship. You guys are rad

  • @pontmercyingthroughlife150

    I don't think I've ever felt such pure joy just by watching two people I don't even know personally. This is so lovely and wonderful. xx

  • @BamblingsofNaffy
    @BamblingsofNaffy Před 6 lety

    Watched this twice and literally made me smile from start to finish!
    It is nice to see a honest unfiltered relationship where you both clearly adore each other and show it in your own way. The way you talk about compromise, liking the way each of you are as individuals because you have each other too is important and are elements of a relationship which are not often spoken about.

  • @kritickatie
    @kritickatie Před 6 lety +11

    I was laughing and so happy throughout this whole video! Such a beautiful and honest and heartfelt union, I wish you a happy life together ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lydiahehir4664
    @lydiahehir4664 Před 4 lety +3

    Rewatching this video for the third time since it was posted and it makes me teary every time...I have got into my first serious relationship since the last time I watched and it feels the most like this relationship of any other I have had but watching again is reminding me of things i could improve and inspiring me to improve them! thanks leena your videos always make me think

  • @palelegs
    @palelegs Před 6 lety +3

    you two are so smitten with eachother its absolutely adorable to see

  • @OpheliaVert
    @OpheliaVert Před 6 lety +11

    This reminds me of the wonderful video that Ash and Grace did together. I’m sure this was super personal to share, but it was a lovely insight and awesome to see the two of you together after watching you both for a long time. Best of luck with everything!

  • @tabithamalet574
    @tabithamalet574 Před 6 lety +3

    I've always thought the most important thing about a relationship is to like the person you are when you're with them. I love the way that you articulate that Leena! You're proof that it can happen in real life

  • @fionablackmoore8035
    @fionablackmoore8035 Před 6 lety

    I found The And from your twitter recommendation and am now OBSESSED so thank you for that and now thank you for this video!! You two are adorable and nothing makes me happier than to see a good healthy relationship 😍

  • @comediaace
    @comediaace Před 6 lety +1

    Gosh, this was great. It'd be a lot of fun to see a follow-up on this format like, a year or two from now or something like that. It be such a great look into how relationships change and deepen.

  • @clararodriguezc1874
    @clararodriguezc1874 Před 6 lety +1

    This was absolutely lovely. Thank you for sharing this with us!

  • @alainakester3719
    @alainakester3719 Před 6 lety

    This was so cute! I remember that video it was like the second video of yours I watched and I started following Craig after watching that video. What Craig said about people rushing their thoughts to what they think they should be doing with their relationship like getting married is so true. I catch myself doing that and have to tell myself to relax and just enjoy my relationship with my boyfriend the way it is because we're happy and still figuring out what we want.

  • @terrysansom3862
    @terrysansom3862 Před 6 lety +7

    you two really just sound like you work together so well. So happy and comfy with each other and even just bouncing off eachother on camera. I hope one day i find someone i'm that comfy with.
    Hope you and Craig last for a long time to come :)

  • @clairepaley6735
    @clairepaley6735 Před 5 lety

    This is such s joy to watch, you exude genuinely, authentic and acceptance of each other 😊 best wishes for the future!

  • @stephaniewild6184
    @stephaniewild6184 Před 6 lety +5

    This is so great, I learned a bit about myself and also about my other half watching this. You put the things that I’ve often thought into words 🙌🏻
    Also, you’re both great
    X

  • @mollyimogen9669
    @mollyimogen9669 Před 6 lety +2

    This is the best thing I’ve watched in ages! You two are the absolute loveliest 😍😍😍

  • @KingaZajacNNR
    @KingaZajacNNR Před 5 lety +1

    You're freaking giving me hope for the future, that maybe I, too, will find someone for my strange self. So, I'm here for like 4th time, soaking the good energy. thanks!

  • @karencanan6199
    @karencanan6199 Před 4 lety

    I am crying!!! :-) I love the part where it talks about you being patient with him checking the taps 20 times, or not being able to sleep. I also like the humility of laughing at yourselves for being so happy about your relationship, and acknowledging that you'd still be making artwork, still be getting stuff done, but that it would be sadder. Thank you for sharing :-) Yay, you shared how you met!

  • @NinaTheLudaca
    @NinaTheLudaca Před 2 lety +2

    getting harder to believe there are kind men like Craig out there :( you two are absolutely wonderful!

  • @mrswats
    @mrswats Před 6 lety +14

    This is real relationship goals. I can carry on with my day much happier, now 😍

  • @georgiebarreett7298
    @georgiebarreett7298 Před 2 lety +1

    This is so wholesome, honestly outstanding content

  • @talkthruthenight2299
    @talkthruthenight2299 Před 6 lety +10

    I'm about ten minutes in and this is beautiful. Thank you for sharing this wonderful moment with us

  • @ellieconsadine3467
    @ellieconsadine3467 Před 6 lety +15

    I was smiling the whole way through this ☺️💕

  • @ranabanana
    @ranabanana Před 6 lety +1

    So incredibly sweet and so genuine!! So happy for you both ❤️

  • @beanhope8739
    @beanhope8739 Před 6 lety +3

    This is real. Really cool and really real and just like looking into a little window of y'all's relationship--something that's so vulnerable (but not anxious? idk how to explain it, but vulnerable but not fragile) and just real. Thank you Leena and Craig for this snip of a rolling vignette. :)

  • @sinahasler562
    @sinahasler562 Před 6 lety +5

    Thank you for sharing this video!!
    Love your content lately (publishing & love, what more could one ask for??)
    This video made me even more want to randomly run into you on the streets of london!
    which will be hard since I live in Switzerland, but one day it we'll get there!!

  • @vildekm
    @vildekm Před 6 lety +13

    You guys have such a good dynamic, love how your conversations flow

    • @CraigSimmonds
      @CraigSimmonds Před 6 lety +3

      If you think THIS flow is good, you should see us when we beatbox and spit bars together

  • @aliciavelice3806
    @aliciavelice3806 Před 5 lety +1

    I love you two, You are so fun and compassionate, and lovely to each other.

  • @crisrosso9884
    @crisrosso9884 Před 6 lety +5

    This was so precious. Thanks, guys

  • @shmoolicious
    @shmoolicious Před 6 lety +7

    Wow! This is amazing... It feels a bit like a School of Life video.

  • @cutoutpaperheart
    @cutoutpaperheart Před 6 lety +6

    can't help but say aww! he seems like a good soul, and also has a pretty face :) so happy you're happy. but it also makes me miss someone I once had this with :( xx

  • @michaela6662
    @michaela6662 Před 6 lety +7

    i love how this is shot so much

  • @samanthamalone2464
    @samanthamalone2464 Před 6 lety +17

    BEST. VIDEO. EVER!!!!!!! Please make more together!!!!!!

  • @musicalconnie6216
    @musicalconnie6216 Před 6 lety +9

    This gives me faith that relationships can work 😊

  • @akelia_mb
    @akelia_mb Před 6 lety +2

    This is just wonderful, I could not stop smiling while watching this! You two seem like the best couple ever and I just want to be best friends with both of you!

  • @LindaBarsiWrites
    @LindaBarsiWrites Před 6 lety +1

    OMG I LOVE this! And I love what you said at the end Leena! "It's not just that we're in love. It's that this relationship really suits us." So beautiful!!! You two are so fun to watch together! I loved viewing this so much!!!!!

  • @kai-rhone
    @kai-rhone Před 3 lety

    Just found your channel I'm just binge watching all your content! I love your videos so much. This one in particular reminds me very much of myself and my partner. He also keeps me on the ground a bit and tells me to take some time to relax instead of constantly running towards the next thing to do. You both are such a healthy happy model of a relationship

  • @n1amh0
    @n1amh0 Před 6 lety

    Grinning ear to ear, loved this so much!!

  • @annakathvd2203
    @annakathvd2203 Před 6 lety

    The editing is amazing 😍

  • @georgiebarreett7298
    @georgiebarreett7298 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank u for being so raw and vulnerable

  • @deanamatni6703
    @deanamatni6703 Před 6 lety +6

    so so sweet ugh ~ much love to you both

  • @AcadiaB
    @AcadiaB Před 6 lety +15

    this is so lovely
    my single heart is singing

  • @vickitr7186
    @vickitr7186 Před 6 lety +4

    you are two of my fav youtubers and this video made me so happy

  • @morganbillingswrites6330

    Oh my god this was so amazing, you guys are so good together

  • @clairepetersen7831
    @clairepetersen7831 Před 6 lety

    I'm pretty sure I found Craig's channel when you shouted him out that time!! Lovely video, you two are adorable :)

  • @poppy-iz8mc
    @poppy-iz8mc Před 6 lety +4

    I love the skin deep and this was amazing!! 💜💜

  • @LaurenAndTheBooks
    @LaurenAndTheBooks Před 6 lety +51

    Oh this is adorable and I’m not even at the end yet but IS CRAIG WEARING DUNGAREES?! 🤩🤩🤩

    • @leenanorms
      @leenanorms  Před 6 lety +19

      CAN CONFIRM. LUCY & YAK ones :)

    • @theotherbrief
      @theotherbrief Před 6 lety +1

      And your DUNGAREES and your lace up boots and your keeyssss (Fun Home Musical Reference, couldn't help it)

    • @kate.cousteils
      @kate.cousteils Před 2 lety

      "I bought my boyfriend dungarees because Leena's boyfriend wore dungarees."

  • @Applepopess
    @Applepopess Před 6 lety +35

    oh my GOD, he's cute!!

  • @identityunderconstruction3327

    D'awww, you really are great together :) this gives me hope that eventually letting go of the 'single identity' won't be as difficult as i expected :)

  • @laurajs
    @laurajs Před 6 lety +5

    "Oh these things are deep rooted and can't be fixed with love...weird!" I LOVE that :)

    • @CraigSimmonds
      @CraigSimmonds Před 6 lety +3

      I watched Leena edit so I am taking half credit

  • @BilingualBookworm
    @BilingualBookworm Před 6 lety +5

    100000% wholesome content!!!

  • @littledevonnook
    @littledevonnook Před 6 lety +1

    Your answer to what you admire the most about Craig is the exact answer I’d give if I were to answer about my own boyfriend, it’s only now that I’ve heard you putting it into words that I’ve realised how much I love that my boyfriend doesn’t behave with his gender in the forefront of his mind. It’s a relatively new relationship and so completely different to all others I’ve been in, I’ve now realised I was pretty darn miserable in my previous relationships, sacrificing a lot things and trying to change myself. It’s nice to just be yourself with someone! This video made me very happy, big love to you both ❤️ p.s. I can’t wait for my boyfriend to get home from work so I can show him this & then we can have fun answering all the questions too 😊

  • @alwayssmiling32
    @alwayssmiling32 Před 6 lety +1

    this felt like finally meeting a good friend's boyfriend and discovering how great he is and how great the two of them are together and it was just REALLY NICE.

  • @zoeaffleck2372
    @zoeaffleck2372 Před 4 lety

    ok.. love this video, also LOVE craig's Oh Wonder t-shirt!

  • @mia.jade.
    @mia.jade. Před 6 lety +1

    Okay so this thing about 'positive' life decisions being more validated by others than 'negative' ones is 100% a thing; thank you for articulating it. Also, I remember that 10 small youtubers vid! Madness.

  • @fearghadecleirnichiannaigh3345

    THIS IS SUCH A GORGEOUS LOVELY VIDEO

  • @tiinamaijaart
    @tiinamaijaart Před 6 lety +3

    AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING! You both seem like such wonderful people. :)

  • @pureheartbadass
    @pureheartbadass Před 6 lety

    This is so raw and beautiful and it makes the world better

  • @thecourrrr
    @thecourrrr Před 6 lety +2

    1. Nice shirt Craig. Such a lovely duo. 2. You two together seem awesome and have an incredibly real relationship that is influenced by your own two pace. Hope to find my other adventurous partner like you two do.

  • @irreleavant
    @irreleavant Před 6 lety

    You too have a similar way of speaking, not sure if you've adopted that being in a relationship or because you're just perfect for each other ;)
    Loved this.

  • @lauren6037
    @lauren6037 Před 6 lety +1

    This was intense and uncomfortable but also comforting and lovely at the same time.

  • @sparklesandmagic
    @sparklesandmagic Před 5 lety

    This video gave me faith 💕 you guys are lovely together

  • @rileighdewing7056
    @rileighdewing7056 Před rokem +1

    Please do this video again. I would love to see if/how your answers have changed over the years :)

  • @Katyob7
    @Katyob7 Před 2 měsíci

    I love thisss - I think you should do an updated version ❤ (if you were both comfortable in doing so) x

  • @wietskejanse5951
    @wietskejanse5951 Před 6 lety +2

    This was so lovely that it has restored my faith in relationships ^^

  • @Elliecharlie
    @Elliecharlie Před 3 lety +1

    Fuck me... My ex did almost nothing and I remember saying thank you to him whenever he did the smallest thing.. Yet I did soo fucking much and I never got a thank you. Hearing Craig and you chat is so beautiful and eye opening, so many things I didn't even realise were wrong or kinda fucked up in my relationships are being veiled to me through this. Much love to you both xx

  • @bettyreads222
    @bettyreads222 Před 6 lety

    This was so great to get to know you both a bit more!

  • @themripley
    @themripley Před 6 lety +32

    This makes me stupidly happy.

    • @themripley
      @themripley Před 6 lety

      P.S Andrew and Keisha from The And have officially ruined all other couples for me.