My Daughter’s Tragic Story
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As sad as this is, we don’t know the other side of the story. Social media is not the best place
Exactly why did he get a court order
@@sundeepkaur4269 why did he get a court order? Because they're divorced and the court order states he has a RIGHT to see his children.
Muslim Father should never get a court order from non Muslim court, for seeing his children. Apparent Fault from here is at least on mothers side.
@@harunyahyadotorgWe should follow the law of the land whether we like it or not.
@@harunyahyadotorg It's literally a law in Islam to follow the law of the land 🤣 If you want Sharia Law , go to countries that use Sharia Law.
To be just, both sides must be heard. We have never heard his spouse's side of the story.
The fact that she ran to him indicates that her mother didn't denigrate him to her.
Word!!!
Exactly that says a lot.
He's not criticising her apart from she didn't allow her see his children for a long time.
@@LayCritic you haven't seen the rest of his videos then
No matter what he's done to the mother, a mother has no right to keep his kids from him. Unless he was abusing them. Considering they were happy to see him that doesn't seem like the case.
The way you're talking about your wife right now tells a lot about you yourself
So when someone gets into a dispute with another adult, that means they abuse their children? Y'all so full of shit. Just say you are okay with alienating children from their father for revenge or control.
Simp
Ex
He didn't talk bad about her. He is highlighting an issue for many men
EXACTLY
Parents should keep this private, and not say bad things about each other, online or not. Respect your kids and do not say bad about their mommy. May Allah guide us all
Love how he took no responsibility for his failed marriages.
You don't know the whole story so like why r u judging?????
His a monster
Indeed😂
@@WaleedMohamed-go9od like ur mom ?
He is only trying to say that... After tha failed marriage, it's not a women suffers but also men. And in case of the childrens most of the courts does the injustice to the men as they are not allowed to meet their own children because of the mother's wish. I have seen many father who are longing for their children and going into dispression also😭
I mean to say that the divorce is happened between husband and wife and not to the parents and children so they are allowed to meet their parents and not suffers the hatred of their parents
It's also not fair to the father😢....
Its not always revenge most times it's the mother protecting her children from narcissistic fathers.
Exactly
Are you calling him narcissistic?
@@JohnWick-hc8xl yes brother. I watched whole podcasts of him wanted my time only to realize 😭 I'm watching the wrong guy. Tbh I started watching and realized that I shouldn't watch men like him who didn't even bother to take his wife to hospital when she was in labor. Yes she said to him not to come. But you tell me . Your wife is having such imp operation and he said I was sleeping. She said that for a reason. I have never in my heard a women telling her husband to stay at home when they were having first baby. The excitement usually kills the father. So she was all alone .
@@kwangsooisnotafool7362 idk hey for me his not alpha male but that's my opinion. He says a lot of things I don't agree with and was never a fan. I asked because everyone just throws the term around and don't understand it.
Right. It's because you don't want your daughter to end up with somebody like her dad.
Sometimes it's best to keep toxic parents away from their kids. Until the kids are old enough to fend for themselves.
In that case why she the mother keep that kids. It’s seems to me the mother is very toxic for keeping her kids away from her father.
@@danie6045 they end u growing hate for that keeping good parents away when they get older and understand
Exactly. He's publicly gaslighting the world against his wife...who knows and doesn't know her...and kids don't understand gaslighting...
@O Don't bet. It's haram. You might lose badly based on your premises.
@O Mi Mi was speaking in general and you got triggered so heavily that you felt the need to become demeaning? Why are you like this?
I saw you once on a podcast where a lady said that you need to provide your wife a maid to help her in the home chores, and you replied with that yes I'll do that and also marry the maid!
Dear brother for a marriage to survive you need to be considerate for your partner, she's in your nikah, you haven't bought her off a slave market.
Are you sure you got the right person? If I remember correctly It was someone else.
@@osagieagho7375 because of the absurdity of this man's answer in the podcast, his image got etched in my mind, and I kept on thinking, who could actually be living a happily married life with this gentleman!
@@MariamJawad-br5uw if the wife cannot do house work,then whats hers purpose?
@@MariamJawad-br5uw does he really give a fuck about your opinion? And yes what a woman will bring to the table of marriage ????? Absolutely nothing , he was so polite to say he will marry the maid , I would say I ll shag the maid
@@eessaumer3225 yeah wives purpose isnt taking care of children and bringing them to life, men can do it all themselves. we are just cleaners and cookers, u right. any wife will want to clean and cook for the right man. if he “is” a man of course, just nowdays in some countries where wives are oppressed by government to damn work, and then we got to work and also clean and cook like bruhxd no
I’m very sure this man is the problem, because I’ve watched many of his videos and I was very stunned by what he said “ her wife was in labour and he called the ambulance and went to bed “ how can a man treat his wife that way? He was even laughing about it
A trash man
Men like these think women are baby making machines
his own wife told him not to be there when she is in labour, because things get ugly and she doesn't want him to see her like that. Stop taking things out of context.
I think he does seem sort of toxic in an attempt to be alpha
@@hamammsoleman9099Why do you think the wife says that? She doesn't trust him. With what he said on the internet about women, I'm not shocked that was what his ex wanted. I can't imagine what his ex had experienced while being married to him. This man is disgusting, I tell you.
Something tells me she has a VERY good reason as to why she kept you from seeing them.
After seeing him on Ali Dawah’s podcast….I would not blame the mother at all 👀
Doesnt matter, islamically he has a right to see his kids
@@schowdhury8243 Doesn’t matter if they didn’t get along. They are his kids as well. Regardless it’s their father and he has a right to see his kids. She didn’t just conceive the kids by herself you numpty.
@@schowdhury8243 and a court order to allow her husband to see them
@@schowdhury8243 follow the law of the land as long as it doesn't go against the islamic law. So your saying if the country you reside in makes a law forbidding people to have a quran and from doing the 5 daily prayers will you listen to this law? Of course not, because islam goes first. So islamically he got a right to see his kids and the mother is taking away from his rights therefor sinfull
As someone with an abusive and narcissit dad, my mom always made sure not to backbite him and allow me to see him growing up. BIG MISTAKE! i actually wished she protected me more but i understand her. She didnt want to be the reason i dnt know my father but ppl like that are toxic to everyone unfortunately .
Still is your dad no matter the relationship of your parents are and you still dishonored him in your comment.
My father was also not a very good person. But at the very least you found out and don’t have regrets of “what if I saw my father.” It’s a pain you will grow up with, but at least it is a small part that makes you who you are
@@hamzawiblue3157 People and religions who always put the right of men above womens and childrens right is EVIL AND SATANIC! I am a man myself and no i do not hate myself.
i think u r the bad child
not him the bad farther
The mere fact that you followed your joy of seeing your kids with a diss to the ex says alot.
This has been going on for years, and the courts don't do anything about it? Why shouldn't he call out his ex for once again not allowing him to see his kids for months (something she according to Mahdi has done time and time again)?
That she was hurting the children and alienating them from their father over a dispute between adults says way more. That also goes for all the women defending that shit.
I can see exactly why the mother of his children left him and didn’t want her daughter around him.
Yeah because He is Muslim isn't?.
@@TheWaqarulislam no .stop lieng
why what did he do wrong he is a muslim he can have more than 1 wife please stop with your feminism crap and please please go away from this comment section
@@TheWaqarulislam he's a toxic mfer and a disgrace to Islam. If you're with him, you're a part of the problem.
@@TheWaqarulislam it's because he married to 2 women at the same time
Something across the line something went wrong, despite the monologue of our friend here… there is still a other side to the story, and most of the time actions speak volumes and facts. I don’t feel sympathy with the brother that using his kids and his personal life for cloud and says he is a victim, he is not a victim if he expresses itself as alpha male.
He used to abuse them. He made a TikTok video admitting
@@Effy9275how did he use to abuse them. Can u explain in short
@@blackpink5937 czcams.com/users/shortsH3yfJ1018lE?feature=share
Then that is the reason the mum wants the kids no where near him ( and do the right thing trying to make up for the bad he done he decided to just make a video and play the victim shame on him
“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain the bonds of kinship” (Bukhari)
A YOUNG man went to attend the weekly Hadith lecture of Sayyidna Abu Huraira but stopped when he heard him saying “If anyone sitting here has severed any ties of kinship (qata-ur-rahim), he should leave.”
He recalled that he had not been on speaking terms with his aunt living in the same town. The young man quietly left the gathering and went straight to his aunt’s house and asked for forgiveness for his past behavior and sought rapprochement. When the aunt inquired about the reason for this change of heart, he narrated the incident. She accepted the apology but asked him to inquire from Abu Huraira the reason for this unusual statement. Why did Abu Huraira leave all the other major sins and focus only on this? What was so special about ties of kinship? Sayyidna Abu Huraira replied that he had heard from the Prophet (peace be upon him) that our deeds were presented to Allah every Thursday night and anyone who has severed family ties has all his good deeds rejected. He did not want any such person sitting in his gathering, which was held on the same night, for fear that it could deprive the entire gathering of blessings. Another Hadith explains further the reason for this fear: “Allah’s mercy will not descend on people among whom there is one who severs ties of kinship.” (Baihaqi, Shuab Al-Iman)
Maintaining the bonds of kinship (silatur-rahim) indeed enjoys extraordinary importance in Islam. Conversely, severing the ties (qata-ur-rahim) is very high on the list of enormities. On two occasions, Allah cursed the one severing family ties: “And those who break the covenant of Allah, after its ratification, and sever that which Allah has commanded to be joined (i.e. they sever the bond of kinship and are not good to their relatives) and work mischief in the land, on them is the curse, and for them is the unhappy home (i.e. Hell)” (Qur’an, 13:25)
Allah also says: “So would you perhaps, if you turned away, cause corruption on earth and sever your [ties of] relationship? Would ye then, if ye were given the command, work corruption in the land and sever your ties of kinship? (Qur’an, 47:22-23)
A cursed person is one who is deprived of the mercy of Allah. It is an indication of this deprivation that this sin is punished in this world as well as in the Hereafter. “There is no sin more deserving of having punishment meted out by Allah to its perpetrator in advance in this world along with what He stores up for him in the next world than oppression and severing ties of family.” (Tirmidhi)
Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported: “Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, “The bond of relationship is suspending from the Throne, and says: ‘He who keeps good relations with me, Allah will keep connection with him, but whosoever severs relations with me, Allah will sever connection with him’.”
Please could you provide your evidence for where Allah and his Messenger SAW made it permissible to cut the ties of kinship, especially a child from its parent..?
And that's why it's best to have one wife as the mother of all your children. For the kids!
My granddaughter is not allowed to see her dad. The court made a wise decision.
It is not always the fault of a woman. Men should also realise that it may just be their own actions that has created a family to segregate.
I agree with you
Exacly have you heard how he speaks of women. Just plain nasty verbal abuse and who knows what he does inside his house
Here we go again with the its not always.... cant criticize a woman even if she commits genocide nowadays.... yall cant possibly deny that there are a boatload of revengeful women out there
@@russianbabydoll8829 be quiet
@@goodebening6564 thats their nature to avoid all accountability
This is so mind boggling.. a literal convicted domestic abuser is making himself look like the victim. Literally flabbergasted
Right
What was he convicted of exactly?
EXACTLY
Why are you accusing him of domestic abuse?
Where did u get this from?
Some mothers don’t seek revenge depending on what the fathers were like!
It doesn't matter this feeds their ego
This is what u say in front of others but secretly women manipulate childrens minds to hate the other half
Sometimes it isn’t about revenge but safety. It depends on who you are as a person before a father, if you’re violent for instance, she wants safety despite you being a father. There are a lot of fathers out there that are willing to hurt their own kids just to get through the mother!
And if you aren’t like that, you should make your kids first priority before anything in your life, even if you choose to break their home and be with someone else. Always seek for your children.
So court is mad to give him that right?
There are men who regard their wives as subordinates, treat them like crap and still think they can be the leader of the relationship. As a result the whole family is led into a desaster...that's really a sad story, especially for the children...😢
Exactly!!! This man abused his wives and kids and now paints her as bad. His decisions lead him here
What has this got to do with the right of children to have a relationship with their father? Why do women take the law into their hands and decide whether a child should or should not see their father after their marital relationship breaks down? So your logic is that children who have a father who was not the best husband should be condemned to a life of misery and pay the price forever by not seeing their dad? Is that even love? Parental alienation is child abuse. Full stop.
Doesn’t matter you don’t have the right to not give kids the right to see their father
@@K4L88 You said that, not me. Of course what the woman did is not good and personally I would never do that.
But who caused it in the first place? This woman must really be hurt to make such a decision... I don't even want to know what happened in this marriage behind closed doors.
There are decisions and consequences. When you decide to treat your wife poorly, there are chances that you have to face the consequences, because you hurt her feelings and you probably didn't even care.
On this channel I hear a lot about leadership of men, but in the videos and in the comment section I don't see the most important characteristic of a good leader, which is humility...
@kerstinpieper3490 I can't really believe you just tried to justify or rationalise parental alienation. Would you say the same if she went on to commit a crime? What crime could be worse than to snatch away a child from a parent or a parent from a child. You are right about one thing, there is definitely going to be serious consequences for the decision she made to stop her children seeing their father even though a court has given him contact and deemed him to be a fit and capable parent in order to grant him contact.
This is your own doing. Don’t sit there pretending like you’re innocent and your ex is a villain for keeping you from your kids. Seeing your content and your thoughts on women, it’s probably a good thing your daughter stays away from you.
Exactly!
Wow u guys are evil
She was protecting her kids
@@coffe2270 u r evil. This man abused his ex wife and kids and yall want us to smile at that ? Find both sides of the story
@@Effy9275 when
Children do not belong only to the woman, the father also has full right on those children.
God bless that lady for doing the right thing, the kids will thank her once they grow up
Kids will spite on her face, and they will be right 😔 that's sad
Why??
So brother was it worth it?! You said before that your first wife was very good to you until you mentioned that you want to get a second wife?! Was it worth everything you’ve been through so u can sleep with another women when ur wife was already good to you?! I call this selfishness , what do u call it?!
Yes why did he have to get a new wive if he already had a stable relationship with his previous wife
@@zanxrilla apparently it's a halal thing as long as he treat his wives equally in Islam. I heard that men don't need his first wife's consent to do that. But considering how society is nowadays. That's a one way ticket to get a divorce.
100 percent agree!
@@skii_aini671Yh he didn’t need her permission, but out of courtesy it’s always good to discuss with the wife especially prior to marriage to know whether she’s the type to accept polygamy. If she doesn’t want polygamy then marry a different sister. She doesn’t have to agree and people can part ways peacefully. Some sisters add this on their marriage contract, however, some brothers deceive sisters into believing they are the one and only, then later change their minds. Which is fine, but they should know what sisters are ok with polygamy and not expect those who don’t want it to change their minds or treat them as if they are sinning cos they are not.
Yeah he should have just cheated on her…
My step dad hasn't gotten to see his 3 year old son in 6 weeks, it truly messes with him, he cries most nights
It's breaking my heart to read such thing 😢
😢🙏🏼
The adult cries every night ? But he can’t work things out ? What did he do to be prohibited from seeing the kid ?
There is ALWAYS two sides.
@@juliamoon6562 the mom has stopped everyone from seeing him, however he suffers the most from it. We don't know her side but no one should be taken away from their dad
@@gemmabittle8951 it’s just hard to judge not knowing what he did or how he acts. Some people need to be kept away until they can mature enough to be parents or role models.
I see both sides.
Take responsibility, mate. This guy is not the kind of Muslim man that I would want around me or any of the women in my family.
The disrespectful way he talks about women and his wives just goes to show you the kind of person he is.
If the father is good they never stop him from seeing his kids
This dude is always the victim,never does anything wrong😂. I honestly wouldn't want a man like that raising my kids
Good comment
This guy is a domestic abuser which is why his wife divorced him. That is why there is a court order in place so he can't see his kids frequently. It's his own fault why the court is milking money from him. He deserves that.
Hope you also get same.
I don’t know the backstory of him and his wife but if it is true he is a domestic abuser how tf they allowed him to see his kids? Court seems fked up there
He’s a narcissist for sure
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
What that got to do with his daughter.
...parents should respect each...and mothers must be respected greatly.
What you want? Current wife, previous children, current children and ex-wife's sympathy.👏👏👏
Is it even allowed to expose kids online and shaming their mother publicly?
Edited:
Thank you for all responses. I've read each comment to find an answer myself. I'm not asking to blame anyone. So, I appreciate those positive comments and manner from you guys. I am a strong believer that children deserve to be loved by both parents whatever happened with them. I wish mom and dad always see the benefits for the kids and separate their ego in this situation ❤️
Yeah it's Forbidden in Islam
"Shaming"? HAHAHAHHA🤣
is it even allowed for the mother to prevent the father from seeing his kids after divorce?! - No
as allowed as not letting ur baby daddy see his kids for 9 months
Ouuu...is it allowed to never give a chance to a loving father?
Is every man evil?
Is every man has toxic masculinity?
Is your father evil? Coz seems to me you see all men are evil, even good men like this guy 😊
Someday the kids will grow and know what happened between you and their mother. How many wives you have and how many other families you have.
They’ll realise how you replaced their mother. And how they aren’t the only family. They might still love you but a lot of things are gonna change .
I could never bear the thought of my father loving another woman and having kids with the new wife . And then him CHOOSING to love and spending time with them while he leaves me with my mother alone. For weeks until he shows up again. And spends few days and leaves again leave my mother in tears.
Allah will not hold you accountable but we are just normal humans with emotions. We lost definitely will. A child was suppose to be irreplaceable in a fathers life that you replaced so easily for another woman . I feel like daggers piercing my heart just by typing this
You chose this . Your kids are gonna grow up and know what you did
You are inventing a sentimental and ridiculous story to justify a very bad act
Your words will not change that polygamy is HALAL, and that preventing children from seeing their father for any reason is HARAM and a very, very, very big sin, and that the children not going to visit their father and taking care of him is a very big sin (if it is of their own free will).
We cannot judge the mothers, there must be a deep pain they have been through
You created the child with the mother u have a right to provide so she's not milking you!! Some times its best to keep toxic parents away from children. They don't deserve to be brain washed or further confused. I am sure they have a loving mother .
Typical Asian thinking .
PERFECTLY SAID👍🏻
Just shut up
Lmao you women play right into the governments plan. You deserve everything you get if you believe the state is a better parent to your child than the father would be
Most women will go to hell because of this very reason. It's sahih hadith. Women are too entitled and uptight these days and they are subservient to the government and corporations instead of being subservient to God and God's laws
Mother has every right to keep her child away from a toxic man/father
How do u know he is a toxic man
@@user-bc9br6yy8o watch any of his videos/shorts …. Very disturbing when you have a man be absolutely vile towards women but has daughters himself. Whatever one of his wives is protecting her children from him is the bravest is a very smart women.
@@filizjohnson2059 nope i don't see a problem
@@filizjohnson2059 typical johnson mindset
The man has every right to tell her to f off when she asks for money then. You take away the right of the father, then he doesn't need to provide.
A good lesson to learn from this brother is not to be abusive physically, emotionally or mentally. Since you have a history of physical abuse to both wife and child (stated by yourself), you can understand why children might be withheld from you.
There is always a reason for what a woman does
That's what you think
@@bleachisbetterthannarutoan1555 well no shit
He already has another wife and children with her too and older than her. Just listen to this story he is telling that
@@radhajha6668 bitch I know you act like I am not aware of the things this man has done and said. Once he even said he would rather go to bed then go to the hospital if his wife was giving birth. That is not really a man but a bo my when that came out of his mouth I lost all the respect I gave to him
Yeah money or revenge.
Love how he skipped by how abusive he was and is. Its his fault.
To the children? Or does a dispute between two adults now make you a child abuser? Or are you just okay with parental alienation out of revenge as long as it also hurts the father?
So because he is a man you automatically assume he is abusive? You're sexism is showing
@@UnlistedAccount These sick feminists will hurt Thier kids just to try to get at the ex husband.... Not knowing they hurt themselves and Thier kids more than they could ever hurt the father.
Thank you everyone here feeling sorry for his sob story when he is a monster 🤮
@@nin1269he even admit to his Video that he abused his child and his wife thus they had to be taken from him
Is the mother entirely to blame? You speak about multiple women in your life and your very causal about relationships. Will you be a man and take some responsibility?
He is a pig. He speaks against women all the time and how he doesn’t give a shit. Disgusting.
My daughter has been taking away from me for 3 years. And i have granted or by court order from Cambodia, somehow the dad still manages to take her out of the country to Australia.
Mans went to sleep with white noise on, when his wife said that she was in labor with one of these children. He said so himself on a podcast very proudly too.
Only Heavens know what else he'd done.
Everyone is a victim in their story?! Don’t they?!! Aren’t you convicted of Domestic Violence case?
Western cases mean nothing ! That mf prostitute must have apostated !
…When the fuck did that happen?
I am a mom, and i always pray for a solid relation between husbands and wives, children and parents, among siblings and among the ummah.
Even husband and wife not good with each other they should behave like parents to their kids
Women pray but they don't respect the rights men have been given as per Islam. Praying alone with no act on the behalf of the individual doesn't work. That's called tawaakul. Tawaakul is very bad and very disrespectful towards Allah. Many husbands' rights aren't being fulfilled. Islam never said "since women are women then they don't have to respect the right of husband"
This man is the funniest person on the internet
He's really turning this into a cause for activism like we dunno the actual back story.
Poor abusive and misogynist man😢.He needs to be banned on all social medias.
Fathers who bully and abuse the mothers of children are no better .... And please don't tell me she just wanted to milk you for every penny you had...plain crap
no she initiated divorce bcoz he married a 2nd halal wife
@@coolerthetyrant7923 my foot
Exactly! You think if you’re abusing me that I’m the mother of your children I’ll trust my children to you ? By the way the baby sister couldn’t recognize her because she was a baby the last time they were together.
Court orders not easy to get so he must have done something
@@teofilanguema1645 lots of projecting, and emotional blabber.
Well their is always 2 sides to a story…we cannot judge her without knowing her side of the story…
She's obviously got more decency than him not to put her kids online and blast him the way he repeatedly blasts her. His actions here prove how disgusting he is. Playing a victim!
Agree, humans lie. I feel like defending him or arguing with his ex at first. But then I remember humans are imperfect and also.. WHY IS HE SHARING SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE PRIVATE ONLINE?!?!?!
@Long _one so let me get this straight you're comparing him post pictures of his child on social media is worse than a mother keeping the kids away from their father and other siblings. Smh a lot of yall women have a messed up thought process. Will justify any other woman actions against a man not matter what. What's wrong with yall smh
In this instance, only one side, because there was a court order.
Court hardly ever put court order on father if there was signs, or reports of safety issues with children, or mother.
@@long_one5491 HE IS THE VICTIM
Sometimes its unfair, sometimes its protection from abuse. Always specific to circumstances and always about the children first.
I can confirm wholesomely mothers do not stop their children seeing their fathers... the father tends not to make enough effort to see their children 👌🏽
I agree that children should not be used as pawns. The children are ALWAYS hurt by divorce.
Not necessarily, When my mother divorced my abusive father. All of us kids celebrated. We were young as well.
agreed, not many understands that!
So many stupid bitter women use Thier kids as weapons not realising they are damaging Thier children beyond repair. The damage will be lifelong, this practice must stop!
Lets hear from HER before we jump into a conclusion
@@fzz-xq7sb Long live Sharia law .
I’m truly happy for you. I went through the same thing. I didn’t see my daughter for 3 months, I know 3 months is nothing to 9 months but heart was hurting and I’m sure yours was as well. I felt so happy seeing this video. God is good! Kids need their father too.
There are reasons why a lot of women don’t allow it. It’s called keeping their children safe! Most women are all for dads being part of the kids lives and would absolutely love the break! Don’t get it twisted!!
Okay please stop with the sob story. Blaming the women for everything. You married more than once. I don’t know with or without the permission of your other wives. You yourself stated that when your wife went into labor you called the ambulance and went to bed so she could go to the hospital and deliver ALONE. You did not treat them right only marrying them for your desires. You have stated a million times that if concubines were allowed you would not marry and just have concubines. You promote no strings attached nikah. Then cry wolf. How dare you?
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What did he do to that woman to make her not allow him to see them is the real question
The real question? If a husband beats his wife, will the first thing you ask is "What did she do to deserve that" ?
@@woopazipper yes that's a question too. 2 sides to every story but you only ever hear his one.
@@woopazipper I'm a Muslim guy but the only "beat" a wife deserve from a husband is a light tap 3 times to warn divorce and then acc receive a divorce.
The man is the protector and maintainer of women - so how can beating be anything but the opposite of protecting. If she was tryna harm him and it was self defence then fair enough. But Allah knows best - Allahu A'laam
@@woopazipper the real question is why did the wife provoke the husband with disrespect and dare him to do something for her disrespect and badmouth that force him to discipline har in the first place
@@Abdullah_muslim1 so if your wife is going to be disobedient rebellious and provocative and dare u to do something about disrespect and badmouth you wouldn't discipline har
My father has dimentia. His new wife forbids him from seeing me and my children. Whomever reminds, advice, tells her what she is doing is wrong will also be cut off. Allahu Musta’an.
My son gets to see his dad every week. This helps him grows up better
That ain’t enough, a son needs to see his father almost daily. Either you need to change it or the father needs a kick up the ass to be more present for his son.
Thank you. It's good for children to see their fathers growing up.
Not all kids are longing for their father's protection/love because in some instances they are the one breaking their childs heart. Some fathers are monster.
The majority are not and I'm sure he's reffing to the fathers who are good enough to be in their kids life. Just saying 🤷🏽♀️
Single mom detected
@@hennanoman386 how can you affirm that? Lol
“Majority are not”
Most men are selfish , only care about themselves, their needs.
Thank you for saying what needed to be said.
That’s in your community in Philippine which having kids out of the circle of marriage is something normal most of them they don’t even know who’s their fathers that’s why you have a bad example of fatherhood and his role in your community. I’ve seen many mothers who have several kids from a several men!!!
Aw what crocodile tears. Are these the same children who you couldn't be bothered be around when your wives were giving birth. That story you shared about your wife's labour told us all we need to know what you must be as a husband and dad. Work on being a good man and good partner, and you will automatically be a good father.
his own WIFE requested for him not to be there when she is in labour, because she didn't want him to see her in that horrific sight. People taking things out of context these days, may Allah guide the ignorant
So true, let's stop being selfish. The children have the right to see all family and their siblings ❤
As long as your daughter still happy with your presence her mother is a good women, i would like to hear the other side of the story.
“Dad: a son’s first hero, a daughter’s first love”.
Huh
No lol
Mom’s other child.
SJWs will hate on this but it’s true. A daughter with a good father will have a good role model for a man to look to when she grows up and wants to eventually get married to some man out there. She can rest assured her good father is an example of what sort of man she wants her future husband to be like.
@@orkunayteker9180daddy issues screw off
Congrats to you. Enjoy being a dad, you seem like a good one.
It all depends on the situation. I understand your situation but it is not always the same. Mothers get protective and take steps for the well being of her children.
Your first wife divorced you because you wanted more wives. You could have made the choice to let her be enough. So she did this. YOU had a choice too! Not all Muslim men take multiple wives, but YOU choose to. These are called consequences.
Islamically she didn't have a right to divorce him of doing something that's halal e.g. having multiple wives. It's his islamic right to have multiple wives. What she did is a very big sin and i hope Allah punishes her for it.
@@SonGoku-zr9nc she does have the right to divorce as him having a second wife adds a further harder trial for her. Divorce is halal second marriage is halal, if you cannot cope with a trial and fear it may lead you to hell ( as women will backbite hate husband when he goes to sleep with his other wife) if she fears this will lead her to hell she can divorce but patience is better but it is HER choice too. Allah swt knows best
@@Abz637 No that's not true don't spread misinformations about islam. She can't divorce him she can only ask him for divorce or she can go to islamic court and ask for divorce and the court will only give her the right when before marriage it was written in the nikah contract that he won't have multiple wives but if it wasn't stipulated in the contract then she doesn't have the right at all and the court also won't give her.
@@SonGoku-zr9nc u are correct in defining the divorce she can’t give divorce but she can seek divorce and apply for a kula yes, i didn’t realise I had to be so specific as divorce if kula or direct from man is the same but process is different. No it does not need to be in contract divorce can be done if someone does not want to continue the marriage for any reason but it has to be a good reason and second wife is a good reason Allah swt is not a oppressor please do not oppress women by saying a women can not seek divorce if a trial is thrown on her and a man can just what he wants. If we can practice islam as free will then surly Allah swt will allow us a choice from free will too. Other women is a trial for a man, temptation is a trial for a man should he be patient ? Why expect women to be patient if a man chooses to bring a second person into family to dilute his time and money? So when he is with other wife who picks up extra chores ? Who has to manage kids alone for days ? I understand in poor countries where women would die if a man was not looking after them but in west it’s purely sexual
@@SonGoku-zr9nci guess you need to study more about islam kid you seem to know nothing about it
It is true that children should see their fathers, but a real father does everything possible to not leave his wife and children.
Victim card even when the transgression comes from women's side? 70% of initiated divorces are by women in the west, are all men terrible?
Facts
Wife to
Well another woman was more important than hus family
To have multiple wives is the right of the man. If the first wife wants to leave it's on her not on the man. He's not doing anything wrong by marrying another woman.
This is bringing me to tears. I also cannot see my children. Mothers pettiness. All I can do is give them my income but they need their father. Life is unfair but I have faith. And one day they will see me and we will cry with joy. One day!
Bro that was Islamic centre when the children were running in a mosque, I recognise it so well
His guy is a control freak! There's a reason why mom doesn't want the kids to see him
thank you, finally someone that understands.
A mother protecting her children from a narcissist
you defame without proof or arguments, it not her right to do that in a state of law
@@abdelkader6565 It is her right to protect her child from such an abusive person who beats his own child & wife.
If he were a good father he would have spent more time with his children instead of his second wife
@@m.b.33 he his muslim he has right to have a second one, the first one cannot blame him for that. Muslims believes in large families having several wifes doesn't harm the children. You have irrational arguments used in a manipulatory way
@@zhaliaaziz in a state of law, it's the court to exclude the father from the children, not the irrational jealous based decision of the wife
Is this the same guy who bragged about sending his wife to the hospital while in labor and stayed home to take a nap?
Before taking his side, learn his history. His wife had good reason.
One of the few things you've said that I can genuinely relate to. I hope you get to spend as much time with your kids as possible.
I know exactly what you have been through. I am a Grandmother who has not seen her two beautiful Grandchildren for a year . Same story as yours. The courts just don’t seem to care about the Fathers rights. So wrong and unfair!!
I’m happy you finally got to see and hug your children. A fathers influence is crucial to a childs happiness and development. I wish you all good luck and togetherness for the future. Bless you.
@@Effy9275
The problem is between adults and the children should not be used as a weapon and she will be judged in front of Allah for doing that
@@Effy9275 This guy went to prison for abuse , some women have to do no contact with the father for the children's safety. He forgot to tell you the real reason why he has not seen the kids, maybe he needs to learn to have respect for women instead of treating them like shit
Why can't women like u speak up about the unjust laws in the west. U know these laws favour women over men. I don't see any women speaking up about this issue
@@KD400_
It's the men who made these laws and only men can change them, I hate it when some men complain to women about them.
@@Ya39oub_G notice I said speak up. I already know that men can only change it. At least if every western woman spoke up then we could have some support because remember women are basically a helpmate for men. Their support is needed.
This is extremely sad. May Allah unite you guys in this world and in the hereafter, ameen.
Same relationship with my step sisters and brother.. My stepmother hates my mother and she tries her best to avoid me and my biological sister come and visit 😔 When I went to visit for the first time in 1 year My stepbaby sister loves me so much I saw she got hurt when she fell down the stairs.. as soon as she saw me she hugged me.. and she sat in my lap she completely forgot about her slightly bleeding bruise 🥺 she looked in my eyes so lovingly I just know she missed me so much… but I barely see her sadly 😞
I can't believe an abuser would honestly try to victimise himself while funnily enough EXPLOITING his children's identity online 😅
Stop. Take some accountability man. Stop playing the victim all the time. Yes it’s is WRONG for your ex wife to keep the kids from you. No one is denying that. But you created the situation you’re in. You said it yourself. You were with her since you were 16. She gave you kids. And after she sacrificed her body and youth and everything for u, u broke her heart. WALLAH I am not against polygamy. But some women cannot handle it, especially those who are so emotionally invested in the man. That woman obviously hasn’t moved on, and because she’s an older woman, divorced with kids, you know that it will be very difficult for her to find someone else. So since she’s suffering, she wants to make sure u suffer too. It’s not right, but this is the reality. You should have put her and ur kids first instead of only thinking about your desires for other women. Unfortunately no one wins in this situation, but only one person is responsible for setting this sh*t storm in motion…
she's dumb for divorcing him, she deserves the suffering
This is very sad to see . But man should not hurt their wives that bad that they can't forget and overcome the pain caused by him. The day man will have same love and tone in their voice for their daughter , they have for their wives no home will ever break.
That's true
You dont get court order for nothing. As a men you should know your actions dont affect only you, but your grandparents, parents and children. And thats just your family
my x did that to our kids all their childhoods. And tried to make them hate me. It worked on one out of four. Allah guide her to the truth ameen
All I think about is how he backbiting the mother of his children on the internet not showing he's any better than her 🤦♀️
Wow ... how much hate and evil u must have in your heart ! Dirty thug !
Kids need both of their parents. Father plays a very important role in making their children discipline
But not Ice junki, narcissist, gaslighting, domestic violent ones who pretend to be the victim and who use scare tactics
When father left their mother for another woman that's not an ideal 😂😂😂 father to have as role model
I agree. But no child deserves an abuse parent.
MashAllah so happy for you... May Allah (swt) guide us all....
Recently, l was reunited with my children for the first time in a decade....alhamdulilah.
Congratulations to you brother!!
This is so disgraceful of a woman to use children as a pawn and weapon. It’s moral defeat for her. Why depriving children of their god given rights just to feed off your ego and vengeance?
He is using them for a video too. All his morals seem to be a show. Showing his kids knowing how it can damage them and the girl even without hijab! No shame at all
The answer is: because she’s a woman, and that’s just what they do. It’s instinctual for them.
@@sc-iu1tq you seem to be one of those “who are you to judge others” type of people, who is so quick to judge others when it’s in your interest.
@@nonsensicalwebby1663 well sexual desire is also instinctual, does that make rape acceptable?
@@nonsensicalwebby1663 that’s why Islam allows men the primary custody and it says ti never give women power for they will most certainly abuse it
Subhanallah
May Almighty Allah grant strength to children that grow up in broken homes😢😢😢😢
Awe mashallah I’m happy you got to see her, no matter the situation he’s trying to be a good father to his children, can’t hate but respect this man
❤ thats it. Male or female. Do not use your children as weapons because of your unstable emotions ❤
What did you do to your ex wife that she had to resort to no contact. Don't play victim. Your actions had consequences.
Im happy that you got to see your daughter. May Allah bless your entire family.
I just got my children’s back to me after 11 years i was asking Allah in every prayer to bring them back to me and alhamdulelah I still have time to race them in good ways
Well if it took 11 years of praying obviously your prayers weren’t working. Hate how religious people claim prayer cures all. No, only YOU can make a difference, not your magical sky god.
Alhamdullilah, glad to see you guys together ❤ Really astaghfirullah for people who do that to their partner and children! May allah guide them. I wish you many more years with hem ❤❤❤
My biological mother was the same she knew how happy we were with our father and she tried and tried and tried to tear us apart. She knew how to manipulate people around her too so others only saw what she wanted them to see. But trust me when I say that kids pick up on a lot and we knew what was going on. My father was always honest and only ever cared about wanting us to thrive and that’s who I’ll always remember. ❤
NO ONE LOVES THIER CHILDREN MORE THAN A MOTHER .. remember that , dads leaves .. run from their responsibility but mothers die for their children
Don't even compare
So forbid them from seeing their father?
@@mohbro1 ignore this bitter chick. She has daddy issues because her mother chose to open up to a deadbeat to make her.
@@mohbro1
If he is toxic and/or abusive, that would be a mama bear protecting her cubs. Doesn’t matter if he is the father. If she fears for her cubs in some way, physical and/or emotionally, she will protect her kids by keeping them away from him. Maternal instinct. If a mother lacks that, there is something seriously wrong
What a load of crap. Mothers can be just as bad. Mothers commit twice as much infantice. Mothers can leave. Dad's die for their kids.
Are you going to say anything about the women deliberately drinking alcohol in some African villages to claim insurance? Are you going to say anything about America mothers selling their babies for drugs? Course not. Cos you're ignorant.
what misandrist thing to say, stfu
My daughters name is Juwairiyah and is the same age as your daughter. Walahi i couldn't imagine not seeing her for 9 months. May Allah make it easy for you and your children.
Asalamalaikum please pray for me and my family and my daughters 🤲💯
Wow, what a painful story!!
I’m going through this too, I only recently became Muslim and I’ve been listening to your videos.
May Allah swt bless your journey
Welcome brother
Pull away, don’t give women your power, once you pull away she’ll want you to come take care of them!.
If possible, leave the country and never give them child support, never become a wallet for vicious women
He abused them
@@Effy9275
And she abused him back and abused her children using kuf. r laws
As advice for convert please follow the prophet pbuh as your Muslim man inspiration/guidance. Not fake social media "Muslim" men causing drama here to make money and have bad agendas. Real Muslim men dont have social media. Mufti Menk is only Muslim man on social media to follow for inspiration and guidance.