Ben Affleck Opens Up About Getting Sober

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  • Ben Affleck reflects on being an alcoholic and tells Howard Stern the one “cure” he’s found for addiction.
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  • @howardstern
    @howardstern  Před 4 měsíci +5

    Stream the FULL interview now on SiriusXM: sxm.app.link/HSBenAffleck

    • @user-uv9yu6pf8s
      @user-uv9yu6pf8s Před 2 měsíci

      I now you not sober ewryday thaths not too beeing sober!!😅

  • @to819
    @to819 Před 2 lety +2543

    You almost never see a celebrity being this genuine.

    • @trhoades2063
      @trhoades2063 Před 2 lety +27

      Absolutely it's nice to see

    • @Bevzthejcs
      @Bevzthejcs Před 2 lety +12

      I was just thinking the same thing. Quite surprising but very cool to see.

    • @MrWOLF-bb3kt
      @MrWOLF-bb3kt Před 2 lety +53

      Its called acting

    • @imthegrk
      @imthegrk Před 2 lety +8

      @@MrWOLF-bb3kt exactly.

    • @christianb8228
      @christianb8228 Před 2 lety +5

      They are many, but the puppet masters try their hardest to not let them be seen or heard

  • @jdmadonna206
    @jdmadonna206 Před 2 lety +1823

    Never knew Ben was an alcoholic! I’m 2 weeks clean from heroin today! I think he’s right, I don’t wanna use again cause I’m tired of suffering!

    • @gordonagress4112
      @gordonagress4112 Před 2 lety +53

      Good on you. You hang in there, boss.

    • @jdmadonna206
      @jdmadonna206 Před 2 lety +31

      @@gordonagress4112 yes doing well! Thanks

    • @goosepelican2512
      @goosepelican2512 Před 2 lety +24

      Hope you're 2 weeks 4 days clean now. Congrats!🤜🤛

    • @DR-om9ce
      @DR-om9ce Před 2 lety +7

      Congratulations on your clean time

    • @lvrm6
      @lvrm6 Před 2 lety +4

      Congrats! Hope you are still doing well!

  • @priapushk996
    @priapushk996 Před 2 lety +358

    1:54 "The cure for addiction is suffering" Bang, nailed it. You don't know til you know.

  • @emmanuelwolf6568
    @emmanuelwolf6568 Před 2 lety +314

    Finally,a celebrity being genuine and honest.

    • @raulcitraro
      @raulcitraro Před 2 lety +11

      We all got to stop looking for heroes in celebrities. People develop ethics from suffering & self-discipline, not getting their asses kissed 24/7.

    • @MatteoGiuseppeFedericoSigma
      @MatteoGiuseppeFedericoSigma Před 2 lety +1

      Not the first one

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Před rokem +1

      Finally?

    • @johnhoneck2973
      @johnhoneck2973 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Remember, he is a professional ACTOR.

  • @rockd7684
    @rockd7684 Před 2 lety +317

    I’m a year sober ! Peace and love ✌🏼

  • @brettsutter5254
    @brettsutter5254 Před 2 lety +368

    I completely agree! You nailed it Ben. Remembering the suffering keeps me sober.13 years +

  • @jordanweller7485
    @jordanweller7485 Před 2 lety +370

    Almost 9 years sober myself. I hope he finds peace. Would love to see him write and direct a movie about this.

    • @Rtboh
      @Rtboh Před 2 lety +39

      He did, it’s called The Way Back

    • @laemert09
      @laemert09 Před 2 lety +11

      You should see the way back absolutely loved it

    • @nostalgiaman6816
      @nostalgiaman6816 Před 2 lety +2

      9 years on Xanax 😞

    • @Big_Wee_Bey_Gaming
      @Big_Wee_Bey_Gaming Před rokem +8

      I got 136 days sober after battling alcoholism for 9 years

    • @adods9824
      @adods9824 Před 7 měsíci +2

      4 years sober now. After 31 drinking. It can be done!

  • @_garebear
    @_garebear Před 9 měsíci +61

    Watching this interview got me sober. I was done suffering.

    • @adods9824
      @adods9824 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Sweet! It's ALL worth it, trust me! 4 years sober just now, Nov 23.

  • @joshkolchins7753
    @joshkolchins7753 Před 2 lety +304

    This is precisely how I got sober. I’m 2 years and one month into my sobriety and I can absolutely relate to what brought Ben to his decision. Happy for him.

  • @donniep90
    @donniep90 Před 2 lety +291

    I respect him for being so honest without worry of judgement.

  • @johnmanor5236
    @johnmanor5236 Před 2 lety +1470

    Dude is intense. I can only imagine living with him would be the absolute best and the absolute worst... no in between.

  • @thecrystalshipful
    @thecrystalshipful Před 2 lety +70

    14 years, 5 months sober. Good fortunes, happiness and health to everyone as they end their suffering. You can do it!!

    • @girl123interrupted
      @girl123interrupted Před 2 lety +1

      Do you ever think about or crave it anymore

    • @rgb2284
      @rgb2284 Před 2 lety

      sober of cheetos?

    • @adods9824
      @adods9824 Před 7 měsíci

      Coming up 4 years. Life is good / better !!

  • @cmgordon12345
    @cmgordon12345 Před 2 lety +134

    He's always rubbed me the wrong way and this is incredible. Principals over personality.. and great to hear someone with success in AA give a nod to the greater recovery community as a whole. We all have different paths

  • @AdamDylanFoley
    @AdamDylanFoley Před 2 lety +63

    FACTS, I know the struggle, anyone out there struggling, don't give up, took me 25 years to surrender but its the best thing I ever did, throw in the towel, hangs up the gloves, by accepting defeat the irony is that you win, you win by surrendering, let the illness win, that's fine, swallow your pride, stop fighting it, surrender, ACCEPT the fight is over and the reward is that you can break the shackles, your no longer a prisoner to the bottle... walk the earth a free man, it's not about money, big houses, etc.. just be happy to be living sober....

    • @louiedangelo3843
      @louiedangelo3843 Před 2 lety

      Stay blessed adam good to hear.

    • @jordanhal2814
      @jordanhal2814 Před 2 lety +1

      Amen. Very well-said. Coming up on 7 years myself.

    • @midsummersnight3848
      @midsummersnight3848 Před 2 lety +1

      This is so inspiring and beautiful.
      I'm trying.

    • @joebill663
      @joebill663 Před 2 lety

      Ya I surrendered too 5 years ago. Takes what it takes. Addicts have a lot of fight so it's a 12 rounder for sure.

    • @gitbusylivin
      @gitbusylivin Před 6 měsíci +1

      Wow. Very well put.

  • @Razzles819
    @Razzles819 Před 2 lety +169

    Very important and insightful advice. It has to come from within. Your brain and heart need to be onboard in order to truly break the viscious cycle. It's very very difficult. Thanks, Ben! Also, Howard is becoming one of my favorite interviewers in the past few years. He goes in deep and gets people to open up.

  • @Jenny-Secondlife
    @Jenny-Secondlife Před 2 lety +135

    Love how he opens up and is honest. Life is full of shadows, it's nice to shine a light on them to let everyone know we all have problems.

  • @jamesrichardson469
    @jamesrichardson469 Před 2 lety +52

    5 years sober this month!

    • @jordanhal2814
      @jordanhal2814 Před 2 lety +1

      Congratulations! Keep the faith.

    • @jackrigueiro6943
      @jackrigueiro6943 Před 2 lety

      Congratulations! That’s amazing!

    • @condohatesme
      @condohatesme Před 2 lety

      Nice! I hope you are proud of yourself.👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @codybarrier6295
      @codybarrier6295 Před 2 lety

      Congratulations!

    • @MarCapa-ed5uv
      @MarCapa-ed5uv Před 23 dny

      Good for you James, and I really mean that.
      Sobriety is the best you can do for yourself.

  • @hbk42581
    @hbk42581 Před 2 lety +25

    His honesty is so refreshing. I'll always be a Ben fan.

  • @jameshurd4815
    @jameshurd4815 Před 2 lety +31

    After 35 years of sobriety I totally agree 👍 thx for being so honest Ben.

  • @rhcpfan1981
    @rhcpfan1981 Před 2 lety +31

    How he went off on the old-timers reminds me of his character in Dazed and Confused LOL!

  • @anthonyarcanumsanctumregnu9551

    I love How honest he is.

  • @MultiKalmer
    @MultiKalmer Před 2 lety +51

    Selfreflection is one of the most underrated skills. This is the result how Ben is staying with his opinions after doing some research about himself while getting sober.

  • @exzisd
    @exzisd Před 2 lety +339

    Never knew he had a problem but this randomly popped on my recommendations and I'm glad to hear it. Keep fighting the good fight Ben.

    • @VictorLopez-ql2bk
      @VictorLopez-ql2bk Před 2 lety +27

      Where have you been the past 20 years?

    • @dorothygamble9144
      @dorothygamble9144 Před 2 lety +2

      @@VictorLopez-ql2bk I was thinking the same thing.

    • @mantis10_surf85
      @mantis10_surf85 Před 2 lety

      What fight? He’s worth over 100 million buckeroos.

    • @VictorLopez-ql2bk
      @VictorLopez-ql2bk Před 2 lety +4

      @@mantis10_surf85 money isn’t everything. Actually, money is worthless.

    • @mantis10_surf85
      @mantis10_surf85 Před 2 lety +4

      @@VictorLopez-ql2bk, Money isn’t everything. It’s the only thing!!!

  • @luvbearbut
    @luvbearbut Před 2 lety +24

    I love Ben..I've always been a fan..he's real and honest and is helping a lot of people thru his own struggles.. More then he knows.

  • @jamescotner2459
    @jamescotner2459 Před 2 lety +26

    I'm right there with you Ben. The loss or near loss of someone you need in your life. Also no chaos is the key.

  • @Sebs209
    @Sebs209 Před 2 lety +53

    Great interview and insight from Ben. He really can help folks with this interview.

  • @dronegolf
    @dronegolf Před 2 lety +75

    Big props for his honesty

  • @joestaples8834
    @joestaples8834 Před 2 lety +14

    Wow, he really opened up. Huge respect for being so honest 👏

  • @maribelnieves6530
    @maribelnieves6530 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Sobriety is my BIGGEST accomplishment of my life going on 17 years of Sobriety this year. By God's good grace 🙏🙂

  • @KainedbutAble123
    @KainedbutAble123 Před 2 lety +59

    Wow a very raw interview. Wasn’t expecting this depth.

  • @sharonbarton5464
    @sharonbarton5464 Před 2 lety +114

    Great interview! Love Ben's honesty about his journey!

  • @rainbow5190
    @rainbow5190 Před 2 lety +29

    I obviously don't personally know Ben but I really want him to know how proud I am of him. My uncle would be the same age as Ben today, unfortunately he passed away 3 years ago due to alcoholism. Although they're two complete strangers from different parts of the world, I feel so happy seeing Ben achieve what my uncle failed to.

  • @kenlo6688
    @kenlo6688 Před 2 lety +49

    Ben gets a lot of unnecessary hate and idk why, this guy has gone through so much and he literally gets dragged bc he spoke his truth. Like damn, y’all really hate that guy

  • @brendapokorny326
    @brendapokorny326 Před 2 lety +9

    Good on him. I’m grateful he spoke his truth. I think it will help people.

  • @HireMichaelEverson
    @HireMichaelEverson Před 2 lety +61

    He nailed it. You have to learn to suffer. It hurts as long as it has to.

  • @orbansz1
    @orbansz1 Před 2 lety +165

    I just love this guy and hope he knows there are a ton of people out there, who respect him as a human being and value his work.
    He is real, honest, raw, genuine, courageous, intelligent, funny, sensitive and talented, a rarity, really. With flaws? Yeah, like EVERYONE else. A really good soul. And, despite of what Twitter thinks, he is f-ing strong, actually.

  • @eleanorhernandez4144
    @eleanorhernandez4144 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Ben, God bless you. Can't imagine your pain/suffering. I applaud your drive and most of all your honesty. I wish you the very BEST! Thank you for your candor!

  • @jujubees711
    @jujubees711 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow, love his honesty. This is the kind of honesty that helps other people overcome their addictions. To know they are not alone and that others have made it, maybe they can make it too. That's why AA or a support system is so hugely important. So happy for him.

  • @Danjoker.
    @Danjoker. Před 2 lety +43

    This interview is on another level

  • @actionjacksondan
    @actionjacksondan Před 2 lety +4

    He looks so much better, awesome job Ben, thank you for the courage to share your story.

  • @briansullivan1621
    @briansullivan1621 Před rokem +2

    I relate
    AA. 7/23/94
    You sharing this interview helps me & will help countless others

  • @mikeprem4152
    @mikeprem4152 Před 2 lety +27

    Great actor and always keeps it real on interviews

  • @Vikinguy
    @Vikinguy Před 2 lety +7

    Kudos to him for speaking from the heart. I have a REAL hard time believing he's never wanted a drink since. REAL hard. But hey. I wish him well.

  • @realmofcamping
    @realmofcamping Před 7 měsíci +3

    Love conquers all ❤ his love for his kids easily helped him crush his drinking . Mad respects

  • @Look4TheGood9
    @Look4TheGood9 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This is the most helpful thing I've seen. It could save the world if he stars in a movie and says these very words. His honesty is stunning and beautiful. 🙏🥰💕💪🙏 grateful for his courage, hardwork, and powerful, genius storytelling. ❤

  • @davemis40
    @davemis40 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow .. pure unadulterated honesty .. refreshing

  • @BigfootBrass
    @BigfootBrass Před 2 lety +19

    I'm at 95 days today. It's finally "easy" to not drink...…but it wasn't always easy. At first, it was the hardest thing I've ever done.

    • @musique1o1
      @musique1o1 Před 2 lety

      Congratulations! Keep up the fight, you're doing great!

  • @19Jetta
    @19Jetta Před 2 lety +6

    Really appreciate him being willing to show his anger. This felt very real

  • @zlinky1113
    @zlinky1113 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Very Wise words Ben. You are 100% correct. Big love from the U.K. ❤😊

  • @neil12011
    @neil12011 Před 2 lety +11

    This is accurate. Best of luck and much love to those battling their demons. 💪❤️

  • @karlwiebe7191
    @karlwiebe7191 Před rokem +3

    When the suffering of continuing doing what you allways done is larger than the pain of changing - you change, you surrender. Then you keep the spiritual awekening alive. Keep on keepin on🙏

  • @gerryfromthevoid8986
    @gerryfromthevoid8986 Před 2 lety +92

    He's completely right about the suffering. Whether it's to do with kids, or whether you've just hallucinated too many times and seen too dark of a world, it tends to be a lot easier when you have a lot of painful memories to go along with your vice of choice

  • @jeremyclark74
    @jeremyclark74 Před 6 měsíci +1

    great interview. I needed to hear this.

  • @LushiTV
    @LushiTV Před 9 měsíci +1

    It really is the easiest thing ever how he explains it I had a wake up call the exact same way. You put it out of your mind completely.

  • @staciaseven
    @staciaseven Před 2 lety +3

    ♥️ Thank you Ben for sharing your honesty and truth

  • @FallenSun210
    @FallenSun210 Před 2 lety +33

    Great honesty and grit here Ben. Keep up the good fight! Pain vs Pleasure - Anthony Robbins talked about this many years ago in his book - Awaken the Giant Within. “if we link massive pain to any behavior or emotional pattern, we will avoid indulging in it at all costs. We can use this understanding to harness the force of pain and pleasure to change virtually anything in our lives.”

  • @expeditedclaimsolutions2579

    God Bless Ben, he is helping others see the light.

  • @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_

    Congrats on your sobriety Ben! ♥️
    I can’t believe I’m still a fan after 19 years!!
    I am 31 now been loving him since I was 12 lol!

  • @David_10157
    @David_10157 Před 2 lety +3

    Recently saw him in “The Tender Bar”. Outstanding performance.

  • @ShogunateDaimyo
    @ShogunateDaimyo Před 9 měsíci +4

    The Gift of Desperation and the Willingness to do something different. Nothing changes if nothing changes.

  • @benderoverify
    @benderoverify Před 10 měsíci

    I had his exact experience. I saw how it affected the people I loved, I owned it, made amends the best I could, and haven’t wanted to since. AA is a great organization too

  • @toya1108
    @toya1108 Před 2 lety +54

    Wow...I'm damn near in tears. Bravo Sir👏

  • @lc2296
    @lc2296 Před 2 lety +20

    Good interview..... ...love the authenticity

  • @merakki
    @merakki Před 2 lety +50

    Watching this and him makes you realize how fake they are on t.v. shows and what not...26 months sober for me shit sucks and he's right rock bottom of suffering makes you change if you got the grit.

  • @jasmineshae9334
    @jasmineshae9334 Před 8 měsíci +1

    That by far is the Greatest Emotional Truth of Sobriety.. and its Cure I have ever heard !! Xo Ben

  • @ronankelly1854
    @ronankelly1854 Před 11 měsíci +1

    As someone said in a meeting “I was given the gift of desperation”. So true

  • @ashish_sunny
    @ashish_sunny Před 2 lety +5

    Affleck is a legend. In person and profession!

  • @paudsmcmack3117
    @paudsmcmack3117 Před 2 lety +24

    Fairplay to him. Loads of cash, loads of time, an uncertain career future and a life around the trappings. I hope he keeps its up!

    • @sidda7085
      @sidda7085 Před 2 lety +2

      He’s not sober in this 🤣 or in any of his recent interviews for that matter. I don’t know how anyone could think he is

    • @malumello17
      @malumello17 Před 2 lety +3

      @@sidda7085 maybe some medicine against anxious or whatever.

  • @sparetimetheater
    @sparetimetheater Před rokem +2

    Always one of my favorite actors..

  • @ThommyKane
    @ThommyKane Před 2 lety +1

    one of the best interviews Howard ever did.

  • @renegadeoffunk32
    @renegadeoffunk32 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow. That was some of the realest shit I've heard in a long time. Kudos Ben Affleck. You gotta go there to come back. 💯

  • @therichmiester
    @therichmiester Před 2 lety +7

    He’s my hero, so happy for him

  • @cynthiasmith4130
    @cynthiasmith4130 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You did a great lovely jesture, for your family!!!! Thank You!!! ❤️❤️❤️...

  • @rileyrollins3027
    @rileyrollins3027 Před 2 lety

    Amen 💯
    3yrs/ 2months and gratefully Counting…

  • @hdmartyh
    @hdmartyh Před 2 lety +8

    So wild seeing someone of his statue talk like this. I wish more celebs were this open about their struggles.

    • @riadlo1
      @riadlo1 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Bravo! It does not get any more real or honest than this…

  • @tenthirtythreeco
    @tenthirtythreeco Před 2 lety +11

    Respect to Ben for being real and congrats on his sobriety ❤️‍🩹

  • @TheUnDisputedDoc.G
    @TheUnDisputedDoc.G Před 2 lety +3

    Ben you just saved my life for real

  • @EvilEAD
    @EvilEAD Před 2 lety +1

    As soon as I really couldn’t be there for my daughter ! 6 years no slips thank god 👏✌️♥️

  • @againstallodds1776
    @againstallodds1776 Před 2 lety +2

    I wish I could say the same it comes and goes I've surpassed my year already but it varies especially lossing loved ones 😔 everyday is a new battle where I must fight the urge

  • @roberthall573
    @roberthall573 Před rokem +6

    "Win a thousand times, you only have to give in once"...
    Thank you Ben Affleck

  • @parisryan5684
    @parisryan5684 Před 2 lety +53

    An incredibly hard and honourable thing to do.

  • @michaeldonovan3959
    @michaeldonovan3959 Před 10 měsíci

    Howard is an amazing interviewer and host. He gets people to open up.

  • @jonathantopp1918
    @jonathantopp1918 Před 10 měsíci +1

    So down to earth and honest.

  • @user-oc6kh6ts8s
    @user-oc6kh6ts8s Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you, Ben! Thank you, Howard!

  • @johnmontag
    @johnmontag Před 2 lety +4

    I love how real he is here

  • @rtothec1234
    @rtothec1234 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Ben is looking good here. I wish him success. I really liked him as Batman.
    I’m an overeater. It is hard.

  • @nctrnlmjsty8719
    @nctrnlmjsty8719 Před 2 lety +2

    Seems like a cool dude to chat with. Down to earth.

  • @oliverthegreat201
    @oliverthegreat201 Před 7 měsíci +5

    15 years sober today

  • @easternsunguitarist5791
    @easternsunguitarist5791 Před 2 lety +3

    Really insightful. Thankyou Ben Afleck

  • @Smitty8008
    @Smitty8008 Před 9 měsíci

    Wow he said exactly what you need to change so true. Suffering when you cant do it anymore you make the change.

  • @paulapurser
    @paulapurser Před 2 lety +2

    He found his 'WHY?' love his honesty and authenticity

  • @clebo99
    @clebo99 Před 2 lety +17

    Wow. I need to watch this entire interview.

  • @briangrosso14
    @briangrosso14 Před 2 lety +5

    Always hope when somebody justifies their pain can come to terms with their problems.... fixes

  • @whodatcanuck3519
    @whodatcanuck3519 Před 2 lety +2

    100% True. Experienced it myself. Now sobriety is simple. But a lot of suffering ensued to get here.

  • @joeblow1186
    @joeblow1186 Před 2 lety +2

    Thumbs up bro, honesty wins always

  • @46foryounger
    @46foryounger Před 2 lety +89

    He paid the price for being so honest and outspoken but it will be worth it if sharing his truth helps someone. I hope it does.

  • @PeterZeeke
    @PeterZeeke Před 2 lety +81

    Been way too invested in this interview. Can’t believe ppl are hating on the guy putting it out there

  • @ActionFigureGrader
    @ActionFigureGrader Před 2 měsíci +1

    Dealing with life on life's terms and trudging that road. Good stuff. The GIFT of desperation.

  • @seanedmonds6534
    @seanedmonds6534 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Ben! That has given me courage.