definitley been a lifesaver for many of us, maybe not here but alan watts has dug me and many others out of despair. truly a gift from God. i remember the low part of my life without a dollar to my name and listening to alan watts words as i stared at the ceiling made me laugh and keep living.
it might be true of simply existing . but for synchronicity to happen with goals its not the case. to make a goal you need some vision of what it is what the end is
I let my entire life slip into a bottomless hole and then I tried to put it back together by force. I ended up even more depressed and anxious. Couldn't take the pressure of having to try three times as hard to make it up for all the time I had wasted to be where I thought I was ''supposed'' to be in life at that time and eventually burned out. Remember this... No matter how hard it is for you right now things will get better. I used to think that you have to just keep moving but now I've learned that all you have to be is yourself. Let go, allow yourself to go wherever you need. And only when I stopped I saw things for what they really were. It's simply not true that those who don't work hard don't 'make it'. You will make it either way. Hard work should only and only come if it's a natural part of being in a state of Dao. All you have to be is simply yourself and you will make it.
@Bored Af Fate and Free Will, do not necessarily exclude one another, they could work together, just Fate knows what your choice will be, it is simple notion, yes?
I’ve always tried forcing friendships with people that I can’t relate to...now I’ve fully accepted and am patient when it comes to finding real tangible relationships. Love this principle, have to stay true to ones self! 🙏
Wherever we are at in our lives can only attract to us the people we need to grow so being a good place see you in end up with someone has to teach you a lesson but better yet someone that Flo's with you and your life by having a flowing life
Same here. I've tried to force old friendships when I'm a completely different person and no longer relate to them. I've had to allow myself to let them go so that people I do relate to can show up. Patience.
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 yeh i can relate to that Im alone. But I understand Alan.Its destiny for Alan destiny for me, but things are always changing, are we big enough to watch the changes and not argue about them?
It is a good explanation after only watching this video. May you also think about Wu Wei as a way to present your life with calm wisdom and knowledge of various logic. In another word, a human with ultimate wisdom and behave with no influence from outside. People may see you as doing nothing, but you have done much by doing less.
@@venusbonjour9303oh what is the natural processes of a baby coming out? I thought giving birth would naturally demand a great amount of work considering the size and pain of the child coming out. Dont hospitals ask the woman to keep calm and slow her down?
This is why so many relationships either fail or are broken. Far too many people think they have to rush to get married or start a family when they’re still very young. We compare ourselves to others which is dangerous. Next thing you know you have two people basically forcing a relationship that turns ugly in the long run. People have affairs, get divorced, or check out mentally from the relationship altogether. True love doesn’t work that way. True love hits you naturally when you least expect it
Well, if they have a shared life goal, e.g. a religious goal and incentive to have children etc, it may still work out, and the love may come after the marriage
But what is "true love" and who defines it? Being mentally checked out could be part of it. And if it "fails" there are still things you learn about yourself from the other. Was it a failure?
I have “let go” and been enjoying my days with my wife during COVID-19 shut down. “Not forcing” or “working hard”, gave me more joy and restful than following the old method taught to us - work really hard to get what you want. Don’t force the nature to do its duties. Nature/God/Universe knows what to do for us better than we know ourselves..
A quote that really put this all into perspective for me when I was younger that I read in some book on Buddhism goes something to the effect of "The tree that learns to sway in the storm survives; while the stern tree that resists the winds breaks over and dies."
As Alan says the children are inquisitive, my 5 year old asked me "daddy where does the dark go when you switch on the lights" and he also asked if a person is born blind and deaf what language do they think in,
@@peglegnoid6139 she actually wasn’t born blind or deaf... she got sick when she was a baby and her memory of the word water was what helped her learn to make connections to language.
I've been trying to improve myself, working on myself. But in the end, I was the same person but more mentally tired. So I stopped. I awaited for the right timing. Nothing happened, not a thin ray of improvement I saw. Then I let go, and then everything I wanted started happening, out of nowhere. Little did I know that it had been with me the whole time. I was already the best version of myself. The self-help, improvement is the greatest lie. Do not compare yourself to others.
It's interesting, because by not trying to improve yourself, you still end up doing things that 'improve' you as a person. But you do them because it makes sense to do them, not out of some dogmatic idea about you must always be improving yourself otherwise you're wasting your life or whatever. And this way you also end up being more of an individual rather than another clone of those intolerable and uptight self- improvement obsessed types lol.
If anyone is searching for the orignal, full lecture, as I was, you will find it by searching "Alan Watts ~ Close Your Eyes". That lecture is the last of a four part series you can access all of from the description of the video I just titled. Cheers!
Words yes, they can truly obscure things even when they intend to say them. However, there's something about words spoken.. such as in this A. Watts lecture, that communicate something else beyond "words". He helps make this clear, when at the end, he suggests to let go and listen. Must've been a mesmerist too 😏
Never forced a thing in my life, since I was ostracized from my family , who tried to entice me back with money. After meeting a sidhu/ holy man in India , he touched me as I gave him a few rupees, he touched my arm and said , ‘let it go, it will all be ok’. Looking back 25 years since then , it’s all been good, I met my ‘Swan’ , married her and have had a child . All this after drifting and just not forcing anything, what will be , will be. Look at it this way, in a 100 years no one will even remember you. Your just passing through, enjoy every moment.
"Try not. Do." - Yoda. In all seriousness, this is the truth, no matter who said it. A co-worker tries SO HARD to be "the funny guy", but he's just so annoying.
the Source manifests itself through this man in such a unique way.... it is a true gift to be able to listen to his thought processes... I Am truly Grateful...
"The way, cannot be forced." I remind myself of this often. I try to implement this philosophy into my every day life. Nothing good comes from anything that is forced. There is only one way. One true way. There is only 'The' way. Everything in life should be allowed to happen at it's own pace, and at the right moment, naturally, and without force. This is something which governments and politicians will never, ever truly understand.
@@KatyVLOGS12 literally EVERYTHING good in this world came from something forced. People struglling against the 'impossible'. This is just someone trying to find a niche for thier bs.
Ali once said that he hated every moment of training in his life. But that training and suffering is what made him a world champ. Most of the worlds best athletes say similar things... Taoism has nice perspectives on some stuff in life, but people just take it too literally. You don't have to agree with something 100%, you can still argue against some of the outdated stuff while accepting what inspires you in it
It’s really as if we know everything - everything we need to know- the moment we are born, and then the “teachings” of the material world blind us, because they mean nothing
Rather than meaning nothing, they really are just distraction from the truth, and then we think we know more and more, when we are really going farther and farther from the truth
Yes. "not forcing" is the best translation for wu wei 无为. "Not forcing" requires a great deal of discernment, judgment, and action-taking. It is not for the lazy and unthinking. You still must make the effort while not forcing your way.
thanks James, what do you mean action taking... as in trying to be a passive observer, continuing your activities without thinking? Placing no opposition?
@@julieferrone1311 I could be wrong but let me give an example. Do you think a great wood carver or sculptist forces as he makes his cuts? Maybe he applies more or less force at times, but most certainly many or most of his movements will be very very refined, skilled, careful, discerned. You can't un-carve a piece of wood. So you don't force, but you go with the flow, the grain of the wood as you carve. You don't carve passively, or lazily. That's how you end up with a total mess and a horrible work. You can apply effort without forcing. Maybe you should look into a martial art like jiu jitsu or judo, sometimes applying something physically can help you understand the philosophical elements behind it.
This is a concept that I've felt my entire life and have struggled but failed to put into words that others could understand. It feels nice to discover that there are others on the same page.
This is AMAZING ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I find this very helpful, for as a once celebrated visual artist , now a senior citizen who moved from LA to a small farm town in the Midwest to an inherited home. EARTHQUAKE I am in the “not doing “ stage. I force and fail. I’ve always said “ I live my life like a leaf on the wind”. It’s always worked before, but it’s in the damned waiting that anxiety hits and our brains are off and going, and depression can set in. I say now to my situation “This too, shall pass” Namaste
"Life is the result of the struggle between dynamic opposites. Form and chaos, light and dark, substance and oblivion, and all the infinite variations of Yin and Yang. When the pendulum swings in favor of one, eventually it will swing back in favor of its opposite - and thus the balance of the Universe is maintained."
We are so bombarded with concepts, the five principles of this or that, the idea of being empty, the many 'good books', that we end up totally confused. Living today as curious childlike beings, yes. 🤗
Anyone notice his space? It's funny, he speaks so much about the many concepts surrounding wu-wei and of wu-wei itself, but all the while he is demonstrating it. Every word is thought not too hard but not too light, all natural, but with as much space as is needed or is not needed. Without knowing the language he is speaking, you could get a takeaway message. I love that.
Brian Randall I just complained about those gaps lol I get he’s thinking because he’s a prophet and can’t say something wrong but come on man spit it out like twista and nos lol!
"there is a tide in the affairs of men which taken at its flood leads on to fortune" - Yup. Learning to feel those tides on all its levels of frequency comes with great duty and responsibility.
what arises in me as I watch this video is just how much pain I'm in... suicidal grief and homicidal rage. nothing to live for. it all seems devastatingly hopeless. the past rapes and haunts me... the future paralyzes me with fear. and I only feel overwhelming shame in the present.
I feel you. The only solution i know is to live (or go) in a place that is surrounded by nature or is in nature. Your surroundings form you. Learn survival or become selfsufficient. This is the only way out of this sick society and can be a goal in live as there are probably really bad times ahead of us (if we are not already in them), you'll learn beautifull things and become aware of many things as nature is the basis of everything. Wild animals and flora can teach more things than humans ever will...
At least you can write pretty good poetry about it haha. I don't buy the 'nothing to live for' bit though. You're telling me that there is nothing in life at all that you enjoy even just a little bit? Music? TV shows? Video games? Sex? Good food? The sound of the birds? You're telling me that there isn't any skill that you like to learn? Martial arts? Guitar? Drums? You might not realise it, but being in a suicidal state (assuming you actually are) can be super liberating. Because now you are free to live the life you want, without giving a F what anyone else thinks. Just try not to be too much of a dick to those other people.
Taking cold showers has helped me understand this practice. To have your nerves be overwhelmed with stimulation and then just letting go. It is one of the hardest things to do in the morning. But each time i do it, i become one with the river, and i become wider and deeper each time. I can now relax by remembering the cold shock and letting go, only with more practice will i make this an involutary habit. But i let go of any goal associated. I let go of any "reward". Becausr its all here. The reward is all here in the moment. That elusive omnipotent silent creature that overlays my experience is always present. It takes only practicing nothing to reveal its raw wiggle. It is constant, and to be with it always you must constantly be aware of that joker. That serious and not serious little game.
Real shit. Cold showers did the same for me as well. The cold is the greatest teacher. Learning to surrender to the cold and the sensations it brings translates to life directly. By not trying to force to breathe a certain way or to fight the cold, you can do what is natural and breathe how we are supposed to and surrender to the cold (life) .
I like cold showers in the summer but during the winter man idk if that’s even healthy. Definitely warm showers in the winter are great for your body. Cold showers in the winter make me so tense and tight. It does calm inflammation for sure always good to finish a shower with cold water
conner Nolan I agree but I work outside in the cold so I don’t know. I go home and take a really hot shower on my body and warm and cold water on my face and hair. The hot seriously helps my muscles from cramping from the cold but it really dries out my skin. Also hot water absorbs better and there’s a bunch of chemicals in tap water
Not to force, Bruce lee would say “I do not hit, it hits all by itself” *looks down at his clenched fist* He says this because he has gone through disciplined technique & training, just as the archer goes through learning to draw and fire a bow, only to get to a point where he no longer needs to think about doing the action, when you transcend beyond your technique, you open yourself to action without action, wu wei, not forcing, I LOVE this life principle
This is exactly what I’ve had an enlightenment on when trying to understand the true meaning of life and true nature of reality. The powerful energy of love that every living thing on earth puts out has been mankind’s key to evolution since the beginning. The compassion in connection with all things through love and understanding that one is no different from 2, giving a specific meaning to every thing, meaning I am just as equal, just as priceless as any tree or plant in the jungle. In true reality, seeing past the vanity seeming superior, when the only difference between them and us, is choice and ignorance. That is not superior. That is a confused state of things, leaving most wandering off their true path early early on, making it very difficult to find later on when trying to fulfill your meaning in life. The perceived state of reality in which most have, I hope will change soon. Give thought to the true meaning of life, with no aspects of religion, government, or knowledge given. Listen to knowledge experienced and try to find the lesson and true meaning in the action. In doing so, you find an almost perfect reaction to what you have done. Finding true meaning to actions and sounds around you can you then start to perceive, I believe the true nature in reality, with every piece of enlightenment gained changing the whole meaning of the knowledge your trying to understand, seeming like a never ending puzzle of equations. Still, the more you think, the less you judge, the more you think outside the box, the faster and faster the puzzle pieces come together.
Since Covid lockdown in the UK two years ago, my wife and I have stayed in our village, St. Keverne in Cornwall, and feel we have discovered true contentment.
People forget one thing in their pursuit of wealth and achievements - the more you want, the more people you have to deal with - and the more people you deal with, the greater the risk of engaging with individuals who can make your life an absolute misery, which can in turn leave you with less than you originally had !
Go with the flow as I was told recently , make it happen and stand out of the way and let it happen, Alan was so perfect 👌 at explaining these amazing concepts if you are ready to receive the meaning
After learning from Lao Zi when he said “practice doing nothing and everything will fall into place “ “with a mind that is still the universe will surrender” I did nothing and effortlessly, i was calm and my wife returned home after she left me and my daughter alone 🧘🏿♂️
Go with the flow, take advantage of the flow, maintain balance and tranquility. One of the very few chinese cultural teachings i still keep with myself.
Alan you make me challenge my mind and question my inner soul. Since my first listen to right now, I felt your words and wisdom move my mind into a more pleasurable place...
You are amazing and you have helped me get threw not losing my heart,my love of life,my love for ppl.your a blessing I'm glad you have to know you.god blesd
Me too, I'm not blowing my own horn but everything Alan says makes complete sense to me. It's how I've thought and been since I had a near death experience as a child. Alan is far better at putting it into words but I'm proud to say I have a lot in common with this man
what comes before the fall ? PRIDE, noun 1. Inordinate self-esteem; an unreasonable conceit of one's own superiority in talents, beauty, wealth, accomplishments, rank or elevation in office, which manifests itself in lofty airs, distance, reserve, and often in contempt of others. webstersdictionary1828.com/Dictionary/pride#
@@servantprince can't say I agree with that explanation of what pride means. If I'm proud of myself for reacting a certain way to a situation I am really just happy with myself, there is no superiority or contempt of others at all... maybe some use the word a little differently to the dictionary definition. I'm proud of my daughter being brave during her treatments in hospital but that doesn't fit the dictionary at all
Human male #3985696311 vanity, all is vanity. look how many times you use the word 'i' and 'my-self', it's all about you. galatians6:3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.
It’s great to hear this because all I do is force. Even when I’m not consciously forcing, I know I’m forcing something. Forcing is fear. You’re afraid of what’s going to happen if you don’t take action. Meanwhile all you do is row, when you could be sailing. It’s also like treading water when you could be surfing. You’re fighting against the current.
Perfectly said "Forcing is fear". I love it. I've definitely fallen into this trap: "You’re afraid of what’s going to happen if you don’t take action."
Dear Watts... these past few years have been so strange. Many experiences have unfolded in my life, and with them came waves of nostalgic warmth.. And I now understand that the greatest blessings are experiences... which feel so dream like sometimes, that one may confuse them with an actual dream.
@W711 I agree with you -- it happened to me. And your insights reinforced the process as I lived it. I am still learning to remember that "nothing is lost, and nothing is needed." ......things do get better, and no matter how long it takes, be like water and know your own state of being.
Spiritual is space and Material is matter. ☯️ The Tao is the path and you are the Tao. Be the path and you will find your compass just as the river stream flows from the mountain peak. By doing nothing, we can be like the glacier that with time even seeps into the desert. We are like the endless beginning watching the play of the end of each day with wonder and wishing for what tomorrow may bring. Even though I speak this magically melody into existence, it has lost its purpose because that is wu wei of the Tao.
You do not need to leave your room. Remain sitting at your table and listen. Do not even listen, simply wait, be quiet, still and solitary. The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked, it has no choice, it will roll in ecstasy at your feet. Franz Kafka
Kafka was very unhappy person all his Life. He desired to live a Life in a country and he never moved a finger to Do It, he Just stayed sitting on his chair in the office of an insurance Company which he hated. It's a nice frase anyway, ironicly he was stucked in an unhappy existence, being blocked by his fears.
Somehow I knew that all the time, but I was thinking that was because of my passive nature. And then I tried to compensate by forcing things. I just felt guilty for not being proactive. But whenever I tried to force things, they never yielded satisfying results and they always turned into something no one really wanted. Then I realized I was trying to live someone else's life and to compare myself by someone else's standards. And today, I met Taoism and Wu Wei.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my CZcams channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 301 subs and almost > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
This is something that is easier said than done for most, but this is the ultimate test of our human self. Can we allow and not force? Can we just be instead of control? Always channeling and connecting to the frequency of Alan Watts
End was really great Mr. Alan says just close your eyes and listen, it's like classical music and the funny part is I kept listening without realising video has ended 😇
This is such a insightful video, Thanks for sharing, Taoism, art of doing nothing, and focused action. How to connect with the Universe,so simple... think like a child brings so much clarity ,wow
He was called to be the a true teacher to true seekers..reading the comments seeing we all suffer the same identity and purpose crises..and yet we all come here to this wonderful eloquent teacher to calm our mind and find new direction and purpose and inner peace..thank God the internet has connected us with so many good sages and messengers..what you seek you will find here !
Alan watts has actually saved me from suicide
A year later seeing your comment. Hope you’re doing great still😊
I hope life has become better for you. Don't despair, don't withdraw, open yourself up. I'm glad you listen to Alan Watts.
definitley been a lifesaver for many of us, maybe not here but alan watts has dug me and many others out of despair. truly a gift from God.
i remember the low part of my life without a dollar to my name and listening to alan watts words as i stared at the ceiling made me laugh and keep living.
“No need to force when the force is with you...” - Yoda Watts
This gave me an unexpected chuckle while reading these comments. Hats off to you.
Zarathustra Says thats the problem man. Its never with me. NEVER
No matter how many time I FUCK myself and dream of a girl
No matter how many times I tune all my chi to the third eye
No matter if I used every ritual on the planet to do exchange chi for a wish
Thank god a Allan watts video with no background music. Thank you
True!
The longer lectures on YT have no music. His audio books also don’t. Good luck and enjoy your journey.
But aren't you 'forcing' this feeling! Shouldn't you just go with the music :) Hehe
@@AshleyCowanMusic maybe they're just too entranced by the music they can't focus on the concepts ;P
I know, music always ruins it for me!
Words my martial arts master told me I will always live by: When you’re feeling you cannot force, when you’re forcing you cannot feel.”
Mahalo.
That is some deep shit and that hits close to home
Makes a lot of sense!
Abe yede
Honestly i dnt get it... someone explain?
thank you so much for not adding background music. it seems people cant stand silence anymore
Without any expectations of finding anthing, synchronicity just happens.
@Jair Shantianatta Spiritual Awakening I'm unsure what your reply post is as its not in english
This is the truth.
it might be true of simply existing . but for synchronicity to happen with goals its not the case. to make a goal you need some vision of what it is what the end is
Until it doesn't
I let my entire life slip into a bottomless hole and then I tried to put it back together by force. I ended up even more depressed and anxious. Couldn't take the pressure of having to try three times as hard to make it up for all the time I had wasted to be where I thought I was ''supposed'' to be in life at that time and eventually burned out. Remember this... No matter how hard it is for you right now things will get better. I used to think that you have to just keep moving but now I've learned that all you have to be is yourself. Let go, allow yourself to go wherever you need. And only when I stopped I saw things for what they really were. It's simply not true that those who don't work hard don't 'make it'. You will make it either way. Hard work should only and only come if it's a natural part of being in a state of Dao. All you have to be is simply yourself and you will make it.
W711 Thank You for this comment I needed to see this
W711 sounded like I was reading my life bio...got the chills
Interesting, thank you for sharing. Myself in the beginning of something similar.
@@metadata5638 @Camila Vanilla You are really welcome! :) I'm glad it helped anyone in any way.
Thanks for Sharing
“Wu Wei is the art of sailing rather than the art of rowing.”
I found canoeing easier then sailing
Those both require effort. More like an inner tube in a stream...
How about this. Fate whispers to the warrior. You cannot withstand the storm and the warrior whispers back I am the storm!
@Bored Af don't study me you won't graduate
@Bored Af Fate and Free Will, do not necessarily exclude one another, they could work together, just Fate knows what your choice will be, it is simple notion, yes?
Always unlearn something everyday
Best comment iv seen in along time
This deserves more likes
Is that why my grandpa has alzheimers?
Ukulele Villain the real prophet
@@UkuleleVillain No.
I’ve always tried forcing friendships with people that I can’t relate to...now I’ve fully accepted and am patient when it comes to finding real tangible relationships. Love this principle, have to stay true to ones self! 🙏
Wherever we are at in our lives can only attract to us the people we need to grow so being a good place see you in end up with someone has to teach you a lesson but better yet someone that Flo's with you and your life by having a flowing life
Same here. I've tried to force old friendships when I'm a completely different person and no longer relate to them. I've had to allow myself to let them go so that people I do relate to can show up. Patience.
I don't even have friendship with someone that I can relate to, or anyone for that matter.
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 yeh i can relate to that Im alone. But I understand Alan.Its destiny for Alan destiny for me, but things are always changing, are we big enough to watch the changes and not argue about them?
Fuck yeah pickles let’s go 🤌🏻
I’d like to think this is how wild animals experience life. No titles, no names, just this sensual outreach.
It is a good explanation after only watching this video. May you also think about Wu Wei as a way to present your life with calm wisdom and knowledge of various logic. In another word, a human with ultimate wisdom and behave with no influence from outside. People may see you as doing nothing, but you have done much by doing less.
and survival of the fittest.
Pure instinct
@@venusbonjour9303oh what is the natural processes of a baby coming out? I thought giving birth would naturally demand a great amount of work considering the size and pain of the child coming out. Dont hospitals ask the woman to keep calm and slow her down?
@@jessechen2013 Meditate. Do less to do more
This is why so many relationships either fail or are broken. Far too many people think they have to rush to get married or start a family when they’re still very young. We compare ourselves to others which is dangerous. Next thing you know you have two people basically forcing a relationship that turns ugly in the long run. People have affairs, get divorced, or check out mentally from the relationship altogether. True love doesn’t work that way. True love hits you naturally when you least expect it
Exactly 🙏
Beautifully Said♥️
Wow 🤌🏻
Well, if they have a shared life goal, e.g. a religious goal and incentive to have children etc, it may still work out, and the love may come after the marriage
But what is "true love" and who defines it? Being mentally checked out could be part of it. And if it "fails" there are still things you learn about yourself from the other. Was it a failure?
I usually end up ending my day listening to one of his lectures. It comforts me and helps me balance out conflicts I had through the day
That's a great technique
Samee
It's good stuff.
Beautifully observed
I do this, too... nice to see this comment.
Be still like a mountain and flow like a great river. - Lao Tzu
That sounds like a waterfall.
@@shumeister1059 sounds more like lava
Nice words but doesn’t mean anything
Thats why its not forced?
@@theodoreroosevelt7471 lol 😂
I have “let go” and been enjoying my days with my wife during COVID-19 shut down. “Not forcing” or “working hard”, gave me more joy and restful than following the old method taught to us - work really hard to get what you want. Don’t force the nature to do its duties. Nature/God/Universe knows what to do for us better than we know ourselves..
Good for you. Thankyou for sharing. It was a beautiful time in its own way.
A quote that really put this all into perspective for me when I was younger that I read in some book on Buddhism goes something to the effect of "The tree that learns to sway in the storm survives; while the stern tree that resists the winds breaks over and dies."
Try telling that to the “climate change” people!
@@robertcristando8007 sad that all the "climate change" is FAKE, and all the REAL DESTRUCTION on the earth is IGNORED.
@@rupowell2821Not really not at all
As Alan says the children are inquisitive, my 5 year old asked me "daddy where does the dark go when you switch on the lights" and he also asked if a person is born blind and deaf what language do they think in,
Helen Keller would be a good example of a person born blind and deaf making great accomplishments communicating language .
Lovely❤❤❤
Wowwwwwwwwwwwwww
@@peglegnoid6139 she actually wasn’t born blind or deaf... she got sick when she was a baby and her memory of the word water was what helped her learn to make connections to language.
sounds like me after a joint or a tab. lol
I've been trying to improve myself, working on myself. But in the end, I was the same person but more mentally tired. So I stopped. I awaited for the right timing. Nothing happened, not a thin ray of improvement I saw. Then I let go, and then everything I wanted started happening, out of nowhere. Little did I know that it had been with me the whole time. I was already the best version of myself.
The self-help, improvement is the greatest lie. Do not compare yourself to others.
The most wildest things you find happening to you, you want the world to see, THEY WONT
It's interesting, because by not trying to improve yourself, you still end up doing things that 'improve' you as a person. But you do them because it makes sense to do them, not out of some dogmatic idea about you must always be improving yourself otherwise you're wasting your life or whatever. And this way you also end up being more of an individual rather than another clone of those intolerable and uptight self- improvement obsessed types lol.
@@stephenhughes5156 couldn’t have said it better
This is one of the most beautiful comments I've ever seen on here.
can we just get a shout out for the quality of this audio version? its wierdly high quality
👏🏼✨
plus without annoying music
can we just stop doing "can we", speak for yourself
Good quality and -music like was mentioned is a HUGE plus
It made me uncomfortable at first, like whoa he's a little too close to real
If anyone is searching for the orignal, full lecture, as I was, you will find it by searching "Alan Watts ~ Close Your Eyes". That lecture is the last of a four part series you can access all of from the description of the video I just titled. Cheers!
Thank you
Thank you
Thanks a milli 💛
Thanks🥰
Thank you so much. This clip ended so abruptly had to come down here to find ouy more 🙏🏾
11:09 “View what is as if you didn’t even know how to talk.”
That is beautifully said about how words get in the way.
Language is powerful like that.
Words yes, they can truly obscure things even when they intend to say them. However, there's something about words spoken.. such as in this A. Watts lecture, that communicate something else beyond "words". He helps make this clear, when at the end, he suggests to let go and listen. Must've been a mesmerist too 😏
Read "Good Old Neon" by David Foster Wallace...one of the themes deals with language and its limitations
That's why facebook is awful....it was forced and unnatural to reconnect with people I flowed away from quite naturally before!
YA ITS LIKE A BAD CARACATURE. SOMEONE NEEDS TO DO A MOVIE CALLED FACEBOOK PEOPLE AND SKEW IT PROPERLY.
So true. And there's this "web manners guide" sort of, which doesn't let you unfriend them on time or fast enough at least.
I agree. I’ve stopped posting on FB and rarely look. It was boring.
Ya just my feeling. It's childish silly
These are no mere words.
I love how he laughs at his own statements , I wish I could’ve met him
Somebody liked this at the exact same time as me , who are you ?
Me too
You just did, it's you!
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@@emiliohernandez187 aha what do you mean ?
Beautiful time to be alive and have these words available within a few clicks!
Never forced a thing in my life, since I was ostracized from my family , who tried to entice me back with money. After meeting a sidhu/ holy man in India , he touched me as I gave him a few rupees, he touched my arm and said , ‘let it go, it will all be ok’. Looking back 25 years since then , it’s all been good, I met my ‘Swan’ , married her and have had a child . All this after drifting and just not forcing anything, what will be , will be. Look at it this way, in a 100 years no one will even remember you. Your just passing through, enjoy every moment.
Supercar Qatar thank you for this sharing of you...
You gave me the chills 🙏
Many blessings to you and your family. Thank you for sharing.
"The art of sailing rather than rowing"
I needed to hear this. Its a wonderful phrase... thank you!
Great saying
After seven months, I'm back to hear it again because I still need it 🖤
“Don’t try” - Bukowski
"Try not. Do." - Yoda. In all seriousness, this is the truth, no matter who said it. A co-worker tries SO HARD to be "the funny guy", but he's just so annoying.
Great words from a great author
Listen as if you don’t know how to talk is some of the beat damn advice I’ve ever heard
if its not necessary to say, its necessary not to say it. sales mantra. "speech is silver, silence is golden, sanity is silent"
Cole Edwards Very powerful thought!!!!
the Source manifests itself through this man in such a unique way.... it is a true gift to be able to listen to his thought processes... I Am truly Grateful...
Great man.
How wonderful we can use this technology to hear all his speeches at will!
We are all reincarnated beings continually helping eachother in our journey of peace
ofcos he had the sauce😉
You're gonna have.to answer.for.this nate.
Who are all feeling that comments are very intellectual and worth reading
So true omg
Yes!
damn right
I love coming to the comments to see the beauty and wonderous thinking of other people's mind it's turely connecting for sure
yea same
"The way, cannot be forced."
I remind myself of this often. I try to implement this philosophy into my every day life. Nothing good comes from anything that is forced. There is only one way. One true way. There is only 'The' way. Everything in life should be allowed to happen at it's own pace, and at the right moment, naturally, and without force. This is something which governments and politicians will never, ever truly understand.
Why is it that “nothing good comes from anything that is forced”?
@@KatyVLOGS12 because you don’t know what you want, neither what’s good for you, because you don’t even know your self
@@KatyVLOGS12 literally EVERYTHING good in this world came from something forced. People struglling against the 'impossible'. This is just someone trying to find a niche for thier bs.
Ali once said that he hated every moment of training in his life. But that training and suffering is what made him a world champ. Most of the worlds best athletes say similar things...
Taoism has nice perspectives on some stuff in life, but people just take it too literally. You don't have to agree with something 100%, you can still argue against some of the outdated stuff while accepting what inspires you in it
love the silence behind this - makes Alan's message louder. Thankyou
It’s really as if we know everything - everything we need to know- the moment we are born, and then the “teachings” of the material world blind us, because they mean nothing
Rather than meaning nothing, they really are just distraction from the truth, and then we think we know more and more, when we are really going farther and farther from the truth
Yes and then we need to spend part of our lives unlearning and trying to get back to our original childlike selves.
@@bobmarleyownz yooo b smith
Yes. "not forcing" is the best translation for wu wei 无为. "Not forcing" requires a great deal of discernment, judgment, and action-taking. It is not for the lazy and unthinking. You still must make the effort while not forcing your way.
thanks James, what do you mean action taking... as in trying to be a passive observer, continuing your activities without thinking? Placing no opposition?
@@julieferrone1311 I could be wrong but let me give an example. Do you think a great wood carver or sculptist forces as he makes his cuts? Maybe he applies more or less force at times, but most certainly many or most of his movements will be very very refined, skilled, careful, discerned. You can't un-carve a piece of wood. So you don't force, but you go with the flow, the grain of the wood as you carve. You don't carve passively, or lazily. That's how you end up with a total mess and a horrible work. You can apply effort without forcing. Maybe you should look into a martial art like jiu jitsu or judo, sometimes applying something physically can help you understand the philosophical elements behind it.
the title is relevant to the video and no background music. 10/10
This is a concept that I've felt my entire life and have struggled but failed to put into words that others could understand. It feels nice to discover that there are others on the same page.
This is AMAZING
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I find this very
helpful, for as a once celebrated visual artist , now a senior citizen who moved from LA to a small farm town in the Midwest to an inherited home.
EARTHQUAKE
I am in the “not doing “ stage. I force and fail. I’ve always said “ I live my life like a leaf on the wind”.
It’s always worked before, but it’s in the damned waiting that anxiety hits and our brains are off and going, and depression can set in. I say now to my situation “This too, shall pass”
Namaste
one of our most brilliant philosophers, thank you Alan. sail with the wind, to sail into the wind, tack. he knew how to tell us what we need to hear.
"Life is the result of the struggle between dynamic opposites. Form and chaos, light and dark, substance and oblivion, and all the infinite variations of Yin and Yang.
When the pendulum swings in favor of one, eventually it will swing back in favor of its opposite - and thus the balance of the Universe is maintained."
When one push wall, wall pushes back.
Well, make the pendulum in meddle, one can see the both side..
A bunch of knowledge well orchestrated is a genius, A bunch of knowledge all jumbled is a crazy person?
We are so bombarded with concepts, the five principles of this or that, the idea of being empty, the many 'good books', that we end up totally confused. Living today as curious childlike beings, yes. 🤗
Anyone notice his space? It's funny, he speaks so much about the many concepts surrounding wu-wei and of wu-wei itself, but all the while he is demonstrating it. Every word is thought not too hard but not too light, all natural, but with as much space as is needed or is not needed. Without knowing the language he is speaking, you could get a takeaway message. I love that.
Brian Randall I just complained about those gaps lol I get he’s thinking because he’s a prophet and can’t say something wrong but come on man spit it out like twista and nos lol!
Lost And found you’re right, he is thinking, and being careful with his words. Be patient, my friend.
Lost And found the gaps weren’t intentional but they were actually kinda the point to what he was saying lol
at that He took his computer and started writing upon it as if it were a notebook
@@lostandfound2329 you are obviously so woke you really don't need to listen to these recordings.
"there is a tide in the affairs of men which taken at its flood leads on to fortune" - Yup. Learning to feel those tides on all its levels of frequency comes with great duty and responsibility.
9:46 was very deep and really spoke to me.
Cha4k lmao
what arises in me as I watch this video
is just how much pain I'm in...
suicidal grief
and homicidal rage.
nothing to live for.
it all seems devastatingly
hopeless.
the past rapes
and haunts me...
the future paralyzes me
with fear.
and I only feel overwhelming shame
in the present.
I feel you. The only solution i know is to live (or go) in a place that is surrounded by nature or is in nature. Your surroundings form you. Learn survival or become selfsufficient. This is the only way out of this sick society and can be a goal in live as there are probably really bad times ahead of us (if we are not already in them), you'll learn beautifull things and become aware of many things as nature is the basis of everything. Wild animals and flora can teach more things than humans ever will...
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At least you can write pretty good poetry about it haha.
I don't buy the 'nothing to live for' bit though. You're telling me that there is nothing in life at all that you enjoy even just a little bit? Music? TV shows? Video games? Sex? Good food? The sound of the birds? You're telling me that there isn't any skill that you like to learn? Martial arts? Guitar? Drums?
You might not realise it, but being in a suicidal state (assuming you actually are) can be super liberating. Because now you are free to live the life you want, without giving a F what anyone else thinks. Just try not to be too much of a dick to those other people.
Taking cold showers has helped me understand this practice. To have your nerves be overwhelmed with stimulation and then just letting go. It is one of the hardest things to do in the morning. But each time i do it, i become one with the river, and i become wider and deeper each time. I can now relax by remembering the cold shock and letting go, only with more practice will i make this an involutary habit. But i let go of any goal associated. I let go of any "reward". Becausr its all here. The reward is all here in the moment. That elusive omnipotent silent creature that overlays my experience is always present. It takes only practicing nothing to reveal its raw wiggle. It is constant, and to be with it always you must constantly be aware of that joker. That serious and not serious little game.
Real shit. Cold showers did the same for me as well. The cold is the greatest teacher. Learning to surrender to the cold and the sensations it brings translates to life directly. By not trying to force to breathe a certain way or to fight the cold, you can do what is natural and breathe how we are supposed to and surrender to the cold (life) .
I like cold showers in the summer but during the winter man idk if that’s even healthy. Definitely warm showers in the winter are great for your body. Cold showers in the winter make me so tense and tight. It does calm inflammation for sure always good to finish a shower with cold water
Welhy Nole try alternating warm and cold. Start of warm to wash and cold to finish the last 2-3 mins. Better for your hair skin and immune system
conner Nolan I agree but I work outside in the cold so I don’t know. I go home and take a really hot shower on my body and warm and cold water on my face and hair. The hot seriously helps my muscles from cramping from the cold but it really dries out my skin. Also hot water absorbs better and there’s a bunch of chemicals in tap water
@@welhynole4082 depending on how much your water bill is, taking a hot bath and a cold shower to rinse is a good option too lol
"You never use muscle at the wrong moment."
Not to force, Bruce lee would say “I do not hit, it hits all by itself” *looks down at his clenched fist*
He says this because he has gone through disciplined technique & training, just as the archer goes through learning to draw and fire a bow, only to get to a point where he no longer needs to think about doing the action, when you transcend beyond your technique, you open yourself to action without action, wu wei, not forcing, I LOVE this life principle
This is exactly what I’ve had an enlightenment on when trying to understand the true meaning of life and true nature of reality. The powerful energy of love that every living thing on earth puts out has been mankind’s key to evolution since the beginning. The compassion in connection with all things through love and understanding that one is no different from 2, giving a specific meaning to every thing, meaning I am just as equal, just as priceless as any tree or plant in the jungle. In true reality, seeing past the vanity seeming superior, when the only difference between them and us, is choice and ignorance. That is not superior. That is a confused state of things, leaving most wandering off their true path early early on, making it very difficult to find later on when trying to fulfill your meaning in life. The perceived state of reality in which most have, I hope will change soon. Give thought to the true meaning of life, with no aspects of religion, government, or knowledge given. Listen to knowledge experienced and try to find the lesson and true meaning in the action. In doing so, you find an almost perfect reaction to what you have done. Finding true meaning to actions and sounds around you can you then start to perceive, I believe the true nature in reality, with every piece of enlightenment gained changing the whole meaning of the knowledge your trying to understand, seeming like a never ending puzzle of equations. Still, the more you think, the less you judge, the more you think outside the box, the faster and faster the puzzle pieces come together.
Real talk
Since Covid lockdown in the UK two years ago, my wife and I have stayed in our village, St. Keverne in Cornwall, and feel we have discovered true contentment.
how are you doing now in Cornwall? It looks like a beautiful village
I just remind myself there is no more I need to be doing, unless I am inspired to do so. Otherwise I just be 💕
being is the hardest action- no judgment, no criticism just the moment
@@julieferrone1311 ain’t that the truth
One of the best short Alan Watts video segments I've ever heard on CZcams! Thank you so much for uploading this
Felt the same way after listening
Just fabulous do see the meaning of life by Gabriel Ng for an amazing Alan watts video
Had my eyes closed for a good five minutes before I realized that the video was over 🤷♂️
People forget one thing in their pursuit of wealth and achievements - the more you want, the more people you have to deal with - and the more people you deal with, the greater the risk of engaging with individuals who can make your life an absolute misery, which can in turn leave you with less than you originally had !
This is pure gem...made me feel light hearted after going through a challenging time...🙏
Go with the flow as I was told recently , make it happen and stand out of the way and let it happen, Alan was so perfect 👌 at explaining these amazing concepts if you are ready to receive the meaning
After learning from Lao Zi when he said “practice doing nothing and everything will fall into place “ “with a mind that is still the universe will surrender” I did nothing and effortlessly, i was calm and my wife returned home after she left me and my daughter alone 🧘🏿♂️
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I’m happy for you, I hope everything works out ✌🏻🙂✌🏻🌹🏴🇬🇧
horrrible mindset practicing nothing is acheiving nothing
Elated Edd You clearly didn’t get the point of this lecture.
amazing
Go with the flow, take advantage of the flow, maintain balance and tranquility.
One of the very few chinese cultural teachings i still keep with myself.
Alan you make me challenge my mind and question my inner soul. Since my first listen to right now, I felt your words and wisdom move my mind into a more pleasurable place...
Not resisting reality brings inner peace, and inner peace transforms reality.
This is so important. So good. Allan was a visionary and a poet.
Not forcing is wise
You are amazing and you have helped me get threw not losing my heart,my love of life,my love for ppl.your a blessing I'm glad you have to know you.god blesd
His laughter is very sincere
OMG! This is amazing! I am so happy I found it. I could listen a million times and it would be different every time.
Mr. Watts is part of that which we are and inspire. Knowing we are that, which is without having to achieve anything. We are already there. ✅💜
I'm so proud of myself because I understand exactly what he is saying and I am blessed to have already know this. It's deep inside me. Lady Judith
Me too, I'm not blowing my own horn but everything Alan says makes complete sense to me. It's how I've thought and been since I had a near death experience as a child. Alan is far better at putting it into words but I'm proud to say I have a lot in common with this man
you're one of those try-hards, aren't you?
what comes before the fall ? PRIDE, noun 1. Inordinate self-esteem; an unreasonable conceit of one's own superiority in talents, beauty, wealth, accomplishments, rank or elevation in office, which manifests itself in lofty airs, distance, reserve, and
often in contempt of others. webstersdictionary1828.com/Dictionary/pride#
@@servantprince can't say I agree with that explanation of what pride means.
If I'm proud of myself for reacting a certain way to a situation I am really just happy with myself, there is no superiority or contempt of others at all... maybe some use the word a little differently to the dictionary definition. I'm proud of my daughter being brave during her treatments in hospital but that doesn't fit the dictionary at all
Human male #3985696311 vanity, all is vanity. look how many times you use the word 'i' and 'my-self', it's all about you. galatians6:3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.
Some birds fly high up in the sky ! Some Birds never leave the ground ! Nature is perfect !
I literally hit the like button in the beginning during the long pause because I already knew it was gonna be good.
This is beautiful. So grateful to Alan Watts for his gift of relaying this wisdom to us so clearly
I let go of all the titles I had and I started learning about WU WEI & Tao and am finding real happiness and success.
Amazing information. I have never heard of this aspect, but it makes so much sense. Thank you!
I love this man's teachings
His laugh is what makes me feel the most comforted sometimes
It’s great to hear this because all I do is force. Even when I’m not consciously forcing, I know I’m forcing something. Forcing is fear. You’re afraid of what’s going to happen if you don’t take action. Meanwhile all you do is row, when you could be sailing. It’s also like treading water when you could be surfing. You’re fighting against the current.
Perfectly said "Forcing is fear". I love it. I've definitely fallen into this trap: "You’re afraid of what’s going to happen if you don’t take action."
@@fury_uri thanks. My only problem is I can’t seem to turn it off. I hope we figure it out someday 👍
Monkey Carbon units, teaching an ape to be conscious, nice try Alan. 😅😂
Dear Watts... these past few years have been so strange. Many experiences have unfolded in my life, and with them came waves of nostalgic warmth.. And I now understand that the greatest blessings are experiences... which feel so dream like sometimes, that one may confuse them with an actual dream.
I felt this on another level ..
It brought tears to my eyes
Ace; a refreshing talk much needed in these over saturated times!
I wish all the other AW CZcams entries had the phenomenal audio quality that this one does.
Do what really love to do, so there is a natural rhythm in the whole process right from the beginning to end , the true Wu Wei !
@W711 I agree with you -- it happened to me. And your insights reinforced the process as I lived it. I am still learning to remember that "nothing is lost, and nothing is needed." ......things do get better, and no matter how long it takes, be like water and know your own state of being.
Spiritual is space and Material is matter. ☯️ The Tao is the path and you are the Tao. Be the path and you will find your compass just as the river stream flows from the mountain peak. By doing nothing, we can be like the glacier that with time even seeps into the desert. We are like the endless beginning watching the play of the end of each day with wonder and wishing for what tomorrow may bring. Even though I speak this magically melody into existence, it has lost its purpose because that is wu wei of the Tao.
You do not need to leave your room.
Remain sitting at your table and listen.
Do not even listen, simply wait, be quiet, still and solitary.
The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked,
it has no choice, it will roll in ecstasy at your feet.
Franz Kafka
Wow, where did you find this?
Kafka was very unhappy person all his Life. He desired to live a Life in a country and he never moved a finger to Do It, he Just stayed sitting on his chair in the office of an insurance Company which he hated. It's a nice frase anyway, ironicly he was stucked in an unhappy existence, being blocked by his fears.
@@davidjonathan6713 Kafka
Somehow I knew that all the time, but I was thinking that was because of my passive nature. And then I tried to compensate by forcing things. I just felt guilty for not being proactive. But whenever I tried to force things, they never yielded satisfying results and they always turned into something no one really wanted. Then I realized I was trying to live someone else's life and to compare myself by someone else's standards. And today, I met Taoism and Wu Wei.
damyr..... You are telling my Beautiful story, thank you for sharing..
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my CZcams channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 301 subs and almost > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
from the OITNB theme song: "taking steps is easy; standing still is hard"
This is something that is easier said than done for most, but this is the ultimate test of our human self. Can we allow and not force? Can we just be instead of control? Always channeling and connecting to the frequency of Alan Watts
That ending couldn't have gone in any better way I feel
Amazing energy to you and to flow, thank you for helping me
Love this Guy 💜 Peace and Love Allen 🥳
End was really great Mr. Alan says just close your eyes and listen, it's like classical music and the funny part is I kept listening without realising video has ended 😇
I don’t get that part
when you don't force it, that's the time when you have all the power got back to you.
This is the best interpretation of Wuwei that I ever come across
Powerful method of changing yourself, Just learned a similar lesson, "Do less accomplish more."
We all need room to grow, therefore all the space.
Great talk. His voice reminds me of Ronald Colman.
This is such a insightful video, Thanks for sharing, Taoism, art of doing nothing, and focused action. How to connect with the Universe,so simple... think like a child brings so much clarity ,wow
He was called to be the a true teacher to true seekers..reading the comments seeing we all suffer the same identity and purpose crises..and yet we all come here to this wonderful eloquent teacher to calm our mind and find new direction and purpose and inner peace..thank God the internet has connected us with so many good sages and messengers..what you seek you will find here !
Great philosopher with a beautiful clean English accent, very enlightening to hear 😊👍
Thank you so much for posting this in its original format.
This is just the juice! Holy Shivers.
Cleanest Alan Watts audio my ears have been blessed with. 😂 💯