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  • @trishhannah2701
    @trishhannah2701 Před 5 lety +162

    Bob, I haven’t commented before, I’m kind of a lurker, but I wanted to tell you that I think this is your most valuable video to date.

    • @gregordonnach7970
      @gregordonnach7970 Před 3 lety +9

      Ditto on the lurking. Ditto on the value and appropriateness of this particular message. I've been doing this for the past three years. Two in Hawaii, one in the Sonoran and Mohave. Listen to this video newbies.😄

    • @elizabethclark4722
      @elizabethclark4722 Před rokem +3

      Dedicated lurker here…love this guys heart, mind and spirit!

    • @pringles8462
      @pringles8462 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Totally agree

    • @user-eb6cb9xs9c
      @user-eb6cb9xs9c Před 2 měsíci

      Bob tells things as they are .
      No secrets .
      I really appreciate his videos , I had things pretty well thought out , but Bob sure taught me some things !!
      😃👍😃👍
      Thank's again to Bob .

  • @jacij742
    @jacij742 Před 5 lety +73

    " I'm just a guy that lives in a Van and poops in a bucket"! 🤣 Love your down to earth thinking even though I believe your a Van Life Guru! Keep it coming. ✌️

  • @Captain-Max
    @Captain-Max Před 5 lety +71

    Well said Bob. I aim for 60/40. 40% Goes in the bank and stays there. Every time I reach for my wallet I ask myself is this a need or a want. And If it is a need, I ask myself do I need it now. Last week $1000 worth of new tires on my Van became a need About 4 months earlier than I expected. Expensive problems will come up, that is Guaranteed.

  • @lifeafterstrokewithtom4804
    @lifeafterstrokewithtom4804 Před 4 lety +13

    The universe is friendly. This is good Bob.

  • @sanautin
    @sanautin Před 5 lety +46

    Fantastic video, and a much needed wake up call. I'm a single woman who's traveled to 14 countries alone, lived in 3 countries other than the US, lived out of a back pack for 10 years, and then a couple of years ago bought some land and built a tiny house (with the help of friends!) where I now live. While I'm totally fearless in most circumstances, I have a terrifying fear of traveling alone in my own country. Yet, that is exactly what I want to do when I retire in 7 years. How will I do this? Planning, saving, learning, facing the fears by going out on excursions alone in my car for now...AND by watching Bob videos!

    • @robertstanley3253
      @robertstanley3253 Před 3 lety +1

      best of luck to you

    • @sassysarina9718
      @sassysarina9718 Před 3 lety +6

      That's what I'm doing every weekend in my van. Short trips. I need to know what I don't need or know. It helps.

    • @melodyjennings7782
      @melodyjennings7782 Před 12 dny +1

      My mom was a can do gal who lived by the motto, "Can't be that hard!" You sound like a can do gal too! Your intuition will keep you safe if you pay attention!

  • @metalbootlegslivearchives
    @metalbootlegslivearchives Před 5 lety +83

    Exactly why we went with a van instead of an RV. We both are on disability and we make a little less than $1700 a month. We felt that an RV of any size would be too costly in repairs, maintenance and god forbid if anything went wrong. On some rigs a new set of tires can be over a thousand dollars! We choose an extended van to be able to live comfortably on what we make and not have to take on any other ways of making income if we did not want to. Thanks Bob for the vid!

    • @catherinemcmartin8275
      @catherinemcmartin8275 Před 5 lety +6

      smart! Blessings to you!

    • @dianeibsen5994
      @dianeibsen5994 Před 3 lety +3

      How are you doing and your extended van Len. Stolmy exploratory phase of Van life single woman I applied for disability and waiting to see where that goes. Did you mean you make 1700 combined? you didn't specify. Thank you, Diane Seattle Wa.

    • @metalbootlegslivearchives
      @metalbootlegslivearchives Před 3 lety +5

      @@dianeibsen5994 Yes my sister & I make around that together. I make $818 a month. Which living by yourself in an apartment is not just gonna happen on that amount of money. It takes a while to get disability usually around 3-5 years. For my sister luckily it only took her about a year in a half. She had two strokes in one day at 37. But for me I had to hire a lawyer and it took 3 and a half years to get it. Just so you know they ALWAYS deny you at first, you HAVE to appeal in order to actually get it. As for the van we still have it, but sadly we are not living in it yet. We had some mechanical problems out of the starting gate. So we will probably move into it at the beginning of winter when its cooler.

  • @troys286
    @troys286 Před 5 lety +7

    Excellent video sir. I've lived on the road as a trucker for 23yrs. My retirement plan is to transition to nomadic living. Seeing how I'm use to the life I can't wait to start living and stop slaving. You are spot on, it's all about expectations and a change in mindset. I spend the majority of my time living and working in about 50 sq ft. It's plenty of room and makes your life very simple. Living small requires smart thinking and it really gives you piece of mind. No rent or house payment, no utilities, no property tax among other things. I do own a house that when I retire I won't be able to afford to stay in. In the truck I have all the essentials. fridge, toaster oven, coffee maker, electric cooking devices and so on. There's many ways to see to your needs on the road. As a trucker I've been everywhere, but I never have the time to enjoy places I like. The upside is I know where to go when and where not to. I've got a huge list of destinations and we have and like motorcycles so I'm very excited to go nomad permanently. Take care Bob.

  • @HectorPlasmic
    @HectorPlasmic Před 5 lety +17

    The older I get, the more I realize the old cliche' is the truest thing there is: Attitude is the key to happiness.

  • @2busysecretary
    @2busysecretary Před 4 lety +15

    I'm not a nomad because I have two disabled grandsons that live with me and I must have a house for them... However I am fascinated by the subject and people who do live the nomad life. You have just shared amazing insight for anyone no matter where they are, and where they plan to go -- always live below your means, always have faith, and always be open to change.

  • @travelamma2779
    @travelamma2779 Před 3 lety +13

    Still Relevant! Timeless advice. Thanks, Bob. I'm about 4 weeks out from "going live in a van." While I have considered all the things you mentioned, I hadn't organized them in my brain cohesively to address them all. I believe you just saved me some emotional pain and probably one panic attack! (ha ha)

  • @goneretired7030
    @goneretired7030 Před 5 lety +149

    Thanks for pointing out the reality of life. This would be an excellent topic for the RTR - "The realities of the nomadic life". You can't run away from your life.

    • @vasttravels8840
      @vasttravels8840 Před 5 lety +11

      It is a good discussion for people from "all walks" of life. Peoples living in sticks & bricks, those struggling with many aspects of their lives. Live within your means, be grateful for what you have & be responsible for your decisions. Life can throw us curves, but no one is responsible for fixing it but you. We are so very blessed to have so many choices, opportunities & sometimes others willing to help us. Thank you for all u share & do Bob & ur group. 🤗

    • @yoso585
      @yoso585 Před 5 lety +10

      Gone Retired
      I think Bob’s trying to keep the hopeless from showing up to begin with. It’s a good thing.

    • @mosheedy9862
      @mosheedy9862 Před 5 lety +5

      This advice is good for nomadic it nonnomadic.

    • @SindyJ37
      @SindyJ37 Před 4 lety +4

      @@yoso585 good point. these hopeless types want to find anyone possible to transfer their problems and blame to

    • @richardbonfiglio1765
      @richardbonfiglio1765 Před 3 lety +2

      @@yoso585 You go for it Bob!
      Keep the Devils Spawn at bay.

  • @brettmackenzie4576
    @brettmackenzie4576 Před 4 lety +12

    Thank you Bob, I feel like I am a part of a large community that loves & respects you very much . Your attitude & life experiences that you selflessly share with us is a reflection of the kind soul you are .
    I want you to know that you have & continue to help & guide me in a positive direction.
    Again, thank you Bob , I hope to meet you one day my friend 🙂

  • @haroldfitz5146
    @haroldfitz5146 Před 5 lety +80

    Mr Bob, this was your most important video ever. Some people are not cut out for this lifestyle and they need help to realize that. An emergency fund of at least 3 months expenses is essential, as is a special fund of 2-3 grand to handle an engine or transmission overhaul. If one is underfunded, life on the road can be more stressful than staying put in a sticks and bricks. Good video!

    • @jaimhaas5170
      @jaimhaas5170 Před 5 lety +25

      Harold I also think this info could help about 90% of our country. They need to stop living a materialistic existence. Most of the WWII generation knew this.

    • @haroldfitz5146
      @haroldfitz5146 Před 5 lety +6

      jaim haas - I agree with you 100%

    • @occipitalneuralgia2339
      @occipitalneuralgia2339 Před 5 lety +3

      Harold Fitz Bob said that amount is NOT ENOUGH. He said having around $10 grand was a good emergency expense fund. I agree.

    • @patriciaalexander9751
      @patriciaalexander9751 Před 5 lety +5

      If your on ss. Why would you need 3 mo. Living expenses saved up? I do have a maintence fund of 7k. This is not what he was preaching a year ago

    • @occipitalneuralgia2339
      @occipitalneuralgia2339 Před 5 lety +4

      patricia alexander wow, how fortunate YOU are! Many of us are not.

  • @maryolson3677
    @maryolson3677 Před 4 lety +13

    It's so helpful to rewatch your videos. I started out thinking I had to have a van, since then I've decided to start with my reliable car while I save for a van.

  • @lisachafin4101
    @lisachafin4101 Před 5 lety +5

    💗I love you Bob!💗 ... and I mean that in a respectful, friendly way.
    I've been watching you videos for weeks now, doing my homework, making notes, accessing my "needs" and coming to some wonderful, exciting conclusions ... all with your help. Truly amazing.
    THIS was a much needed video! And just a I mentally prepared myself for pure hell in USMC bootcamp (which I graduated with honors & series high shooter) ... I thrived in the environment!
    Now I'm preparing for life on the road as a nomadic disabled vet. I know that my medical & financial "needs" will be met. The beauty of the VA is you can be seen at any VA medical facility in the country with just a phone call!
    Ok ... I won't go on & on about everything. I was just so happy to know I'm doing the right things in order to not "crash & burn".
    Thank you so much for all you do ... for others 💗

  • @takwaakiwa
    @takwaakiwa Před 5 lety +10

    Treat the Earth and all that dwell thereon with respect.
    Remain close to the Great Spirit.
    Show great respect for your fellow beings.
    Work together for the benefit of all Mankind.
    Give assistance and kindness wherever needed.
    Do what you know to be right.
    Look after the well being of mind and body.
    Dedicate a share of your efforts to the greater good.
    Be truthful and honest at all times.
    Take full responsibility for your actions.

  • @Peakview2
    @Peakview2 Před 5 lety +35

    Hey I grew up on a farm and we didn't even have indoor plumbing until I was in high school, so a bucket isn't bad. You're right, attitude can make a huge difference.

    • @bobham919
      @bobham919 Před 3 lety

      we had a outside toilet till i was about 6. but we was high class we had the well on the back porch and you could draw water even in the rain and snow.

  • @coolcatcarolena4951
    @coolcatcarolena4951 Před 5 lety +83

    This is such a hugely important video. Most people don't realize that our problems don't go away when move into our vehicles and hit the road. Yes, some do go away, but they're replaced by others. That's just life. The most important thing you said was that we must shift our internal message to ourselves. And I would ad that it is once we take personal responsibility for our lives that we truly become free and happy. Thank you Bob!

    • @marknathanks7592
      @marknathanks7592 Před 5 lety +7

      Carolena, well said: accepting personal responsibility.

    • @IraQNid
      @IraQNid Před 5 lety +4

      Holding yourself accountable applies equally as well to any lifestyle. Be it on the road, on or under the water, in the sky, on or under the land.

  • @Mexicobeanpole
    @Mexicobeanpole Před 3 lety +3

    Bobs just reminding us of life lessons we were always told but we sometimes forget
    1) don’t try to keep up with the Jones’s
    And live below your means
    2) save for a rainy day
    3)attitude is everything
    4)be grateful for what you do have
    5)a Boy Scout or Girl Scout is always prepared

  • @AdventureNomadforNature
    @AdventureNomadforNature Před 5 lety +1

    Excellent Video Bob - My mum used to love saying this "All you really need, is food in your stomach, clothes on your back and a roof over your head." I spent my life being frugal (my family was frugal, but they did it with style and class) and I've been happy living out of a vehicle now for over 13-years, and since I got my van it has been a whole lot more comfortable (even bordering on too comfortable at times, LOL). People often point out RV's to me, but I personally feel that just the expense of a small vehicle is enough for me at this point in my life, and far easier to park and explore narrow, dirt, back roads. I did ad solar, but I keep it minimal. The less we own the less problems (to a point of course) and the less expense and worry. Living simply and minimalistic is (in my opinion) is the way to go to experience freedom and fewer worries. Money in the bank is far preferable to owning a lot of stuff, living below your means is excellent advice, and it's not nearly as hard as one might think. Lowering ones expectations doesn't have to mean lowering ones standard of living, a person can still have a great life on $500 a month and be clean and presentable and even stylish. My budget is $500 a month, and I travel for six or seven months all over the country and see a lot of places on it, then work for five or six months (no, I'm not retired). How? I just do without a lot of things that aren't necessary, and I stay away from cities and towns as much as possible, they tend to have a way of draining the bank account. Thanks for this Bob, I will send people to this one in particular.

  • @marshallbaldwin851
    @marshallbaldwin851 Před 5 lety +15

    Yes Bob is back to being real again.
    That's the dialogue that got us all watching in the beginning !

  • @nancylanderson8012
    @nancylanderson8012 Před 5 lety +86

    This was excellent advice whether you are a nomad or not. You are a good mentor with a no nonsense approach. I'm a camper but not a nomad and learn from you every time I listen to a video.
    Thank you Bob.

  • @DebbieGring
    @DebbieGring Před 5 lety +22

    Bob, Great video! I can add a case in point. I have an older motor home. Less then 20K miles on it. Traveled west. Both roof top AC units died. 1 tire went flat. Needed Oil Change and got the dashboard AC fixed. Fortunately I had the means to do the repairs However, it was tight going home! I have been camping for over 60 years. I've camped in tents. pop ups, motor homes and trailers. RV's will not nickel and dime you. It's 100 here 500 there, or worse 1k here, 2k there....Do what you can with what you have!

    • @rebeccatreeseed410
      @rebeccatreeseed410 Před 5 lety +3

      I initially thought a Class C would be a luxe home... but as I watched videos, they started looking like a money pit. I think I would go with a van, but they are pricey. My Tacoma would be hard, a little camper top would make it enough to sleep in.

  • @Wanna.Wander
    @Wanna.Wander Před 5 lety +6

    We are preparing eighth now, yes. Can’t wait to get back on the road! T was a change for the better! I’ve become a true minimalist and continue trying to become even more so. But it’s freeing and humbling💜

  • @callencantrell5663
    @callencantrell5663 Před 3 lety +7

    This is one of Bob's best.

  • @Frugal_fitchic
    @Frugal_fitchic Před 4 lety +7

    I needed to hear every minute of this!

  • @hpshifter7783
    @hpshifter7783 Před 5 lety +19

    Good luck to anybody leaving town in a $3,000 RV that wants to travel full time. As my Grandmother once said, " Common sense isn't so common." I agree with Bob. If you have a solid car, roll in that car and live out of that. It can be done, and is being done right now.

    • @craigmurdock1944
      @craigmurdock1944 Před 2 lety +1

      Damn thing will blow up first trip! BOOM! $5500. rebuild needed! Leave the bomb on the side of the road and take a bus home...lol..

  • @bathens4971
    @bathens4971 Před 5 lety +51

    I appreciate your ability to recognize people who've made an endless string of bad decisions and now come begging for a handout. I hope your new organization is able to vet your recipients properly. Your heart is in the right place

    • @jaimhaas5170
      @jaimhaas5170 Před 5 lety +5

      Great point B....socialism is good.....to a degree.

    • @Fmblogger04
      @Fmblogger04 Před 5 lety +3

      The TRUTH!

    • @gd613
      @gd613 Před 5 lety +6

      'Taint socialism if aid is freely given, not stolen and given to others.

    • @bathens4971
      @bathens4971 Před 5 lety +6

      @@gd613 thank you! I help out my family, friends, neighbors when they need it, and I believe that's more the definition of charity rather than socialism. Since we lived in caves, humans have helped each other, for food, shelter, protection, for the good of the family, the community, the species. Long before we had anything called socialism, we've been helping each other out. It's who we are.

    • @dona62851
      @dona62851 Před 5 lety +4

      B Athens
      Exactly! If we can't look to eachother for help, support, companionship then what is the point of the caravans? Why the focus on tribes? Thi video has done nothing but confuse and discourage me in my preparations for a Nomadi life. Poverty makes me feel unwelcome in conventional society. Will it be the same as a nomad? I can only do my best and hope I don't "crash and burn". But I point to all the people working in the upcoming van build. 40+ people volunteering to help others. THOSE are the people I hope to find on the road.

  • @tierneycreates
    @tierneycreates Před 5 lety +2

    Bob that was some awesome truth! "Wherever you go, there you are"! I admit I originally got hooked on watching your videos as I thought van life would be the fantasy escape to what was going on in my life, it is not. Now that I worked stuff out in my life, truthfully I am no longer interested in van living, but I still enjoy watching your videos as they have great tidbits for living the best life as well as fun RV and van tours!

  • @caroldodson8258
    @caroldodson8258 Před 5 lety +76

    This was a great video Bob! Stressing on how important a good vehicle is needs to be a whole video! We fixed up our vintage travel trailer and headed to the RTR this past January and got as far as Tucumcari New Mexico before realizing we weren't going to make it because our Jeep was no match for those steep hills and mountains! I cried all the way home. We kinda lost our direction for a while but we are now refocused and saving for a really good truck. We have decided on a two year plan to get us off the sidewalks. So if you are thinking about this kind of lifestyle you really need to be prepared and don't jump the gun especially if you aren't prepared.

    • @caroldodson8258
      @caroldodson8258 Před 5 lety +15

      @@mandosandradios Well we didn't want to burn our transmission up so heading back to Arkansas was the best decision. I wasn't about to be stuck without a vehicle. Lesson learned! Be prepared.

    • @johnnyk7304
      @johnnyk7304 Před 5 lety +10

      Good call Carol we can be our own worst enemy at times. You chose to delay your dream to help in making it feasible. You"ll make it! Good luck and be strong!

    • @lizzy2shoes557
      @lizzy2shoes557 Před 5 lety +12

      I did the same thing...Took off for Washington state last spring, But the Colorado Rockies proved too much for my old truck(& vintage camper).. Limped home forlorn, but having LEARNED a vital lesson..Started saving for a newer truck also...Good luck🍀👍

    • @caroldodson8258
      @caroldodson8258 Před 5 lety +7

      @@lizzy2shoes557 Good luck to you also! The timing just wasn't right even though I wanted it to be. Just keep your dream in mind and don't give up! Maybe we'll see each other down the road some day! Just keep your eye out for a vintage orange and white Shasta trailer!

    • @Randylj1
      @Randylj1 Před 5 lety +1

      Excellent example and reminder. I've had to rethink my older Jeep as to towing a small teardrop trailer!

  • @rlavery3607
    @rlavery3607 Před 5 lety +11

    It’s simple. LESS IS MORE!!!!

  • @next20yrs
    @next20yrs Před 5 lety +23

    This is very good advice for those who are financially limited and see living on wheels as a viable alternative when they have limited funds. This lifestyle is far more expensive than people think, especially in the beginning before you learn the ropes and double especially if you can't do your own repairs. I am fortunate to have no financial worries, but I will say it still hurts to constantly put $$'s into my older Class B. I am now 2.5 weeks into living in my van by choice, and your second category of crashers and burners would apply to my situation. I have been close to crashing and burning since I set out. I thought I'd be fine in such a small space and without modern facilities; well, thinking (imagining) and doing are two different beasts. It has been quite hard for me to adjust to such a small living space (tripping over my dog and cat constantly, having to pull out five things to get one, etc) plus my comfort level is greatly compromised and that too is hard for me. My inner need and motivation for trying this lifestyle was the freedom and the hope that I would find camaraderie among like-minded nomads. Only 2 1/2 weeks in, I have found neither but I keep pushing on. The one piece of advice I would offer anyone who is about to start living in a vehicle is keep the possessions to a bare minimum. I took way too much and there's gonna be a large pile of my stuff on the RTR give-away tarp. : )

    • @timhardman4764
      @timhardman4764 Před 5 lety +7

      Hang in there. You are going through the uncomfortable initial transition and learning that "less is more". The camaraderie and meeting like minded nomads will happen but give it time...at least 6 - 12 months before coming to any conclusions about that part of nomad life.

    • @angelaonthego
      @angelaonthego Před rokem

      The first weeks/months are the hardest. It’s a big adjustment, you havent figured out how to be comfortable yet, what you need/don’t need…it gets better

  • @dalekundtz4603
    @dalekundtz4603 Před 4 lety +13

    Thank you Bob for telling it like it is. Your advice about how to not crash and burn is just an honest assessment of real life. Most of us in sticks and bricks have never lived within our means. Most of us have lived with luxuries until we are forced to live without. We have to be honest with ourselves and make realistic decisions to make things work. Keep making the great videos!

  • @BobtheTraveler-WD8NVN
    @BobtheTraveler-WD8NVN Před 5 lety +11

    Spot on !! Without money you are stuck no matter what......

  • @lillypatience
    @lillypatience Před 5 lety +12

    I always learn something from you Bob. Even though I have no desire to go to the RTR or be part of a tribe, I always learn something applicable to my life from your videos and from the people you interview. For that reason only, you will be the first and only tuber I will donate to.

  • @gilbertarzner8830
    @gilbertarzner8830 Před 5 lety +48

    I wonder how many people are saying "Now you tell me".

    • @lonelyprepperhomestead911
      @lonelyprepperhomestead911 Před 5 lety +3

      Too bad we can’t vote on which comment to pin at the top. 👍

    • @Milesco
      @Milesco Před 5 lety +9

      @@robinlillian9471 : Well, I think the problem is that in many videos Bob talks about people living happily on $800 a month, $600 a month, etc. *_Now_* he's saying that you need $1,500 to $2,000 a month.

    • @serena15221
      @serena15221 Před 5 lety +5

      if you want an RV, he's saying.

    • @marieb8502
      @marieb8502 Před 5 lety +2

      He always told us with the videos. All we had to do was watch and listen to the reasons why a person was living in their car with only $800 a month. One doesn't just do that because we see someone else doing it. I would always ask myself if I could do that--well yes if I had to do it, and happily because I would have no other choice. My choice would be a class c with all creature comforts and no issues, lol.

    • @davidlane1248
      @davidlane1248 Před 3 lety +4

      @Kamper Ken I've never been under the impression that those videos were an indicator that it was a good idea to shoot that low with finances... Only that it could be done and is being done by some people
      No video like that is a substitute for independent thinking or realistic expectations. I just fail to see how those videos imply that Bob is encouraging people to think unrealistically

  • @DavidJames-uv7yc
    @DavidJames-uv7yc Před 5 lety +22

    Yo Bob, good solid advice. I do, however, recall watching many, many videos the last few years where you glorified this life style and people living on 6-hundred to a 1000 dollars per month. although you have always pointed out to live within your means. I'm not being critical only pointing out what I have heard on your many video. You do a great job. Please keep those vids coming.

    • @cynthiatx
      @cynthiatx Před 5 lety +2

      David James He has changed for some reason.

    • @lonelyprepperhomestead911
      @lonelyprepperhomestead911 Před 5 lety +5

      David ... You’re spot on buddy. I’ve watched his videos for a long time and observed the ‘dream’ promoted more than the ‘reality’. There’s been a shift in the wind with more channels pointing to the realities of RV/Van life. Perhaps this is a bit of damage control.
      Having more years under my belt as a nomad than Bob, it’s been very frustrating at times watching the videos. I don’t full time any longer but starting to get itchy feet again. :)

    • @ragbrairider5120
      @ragbrairider5120 Před 5 lety +2

      Well, I have always thought the pioneers in Van dwelling tended to be capable in mechnical skills. Seems lately there are more rving folks that do not have self-help skills. Remember, 60 per cent of the homesteaders heading west in US, in the 1800s, failed!

    • @jwillyb870
      @jwillyb870 Před 5 lety +1

      @@lonelyprepperhomestead911 well that's because of the wrath and the toll that it takes on people and the backlash and sympathy seekers he receives probably on a daily basis. People putting him up on a pedestal and expecting him to be a prophet or Messiah. He's only human, after all. ;)
      It's just like he said in the video, "I don't have all the answers, I'm simply just a guy living in a van that poops in a bucket."

    • @jwillyb870
      @jwillyb870 Před 5 lety +1

      @@lonelyprepperhomestead911 well it's also the fact that people are really over glorifying the whole #vanlife thing. He's just keeping it real and giving some truth and guidance and advice, is that a crime!? Man, people are strange.

  • @bustershaw9230
    @bustershaw9230 Před 4 lety +1

    Howdy Bob
    This is the second time I watched this video.
    It's a great reminder to help a person get ready for the nomad life.
    A good reality check.

  • @danielgrosscup5663
    @danielgrosscup5663 Před 5 lety +9

    Hello Bob. Well done. People who think this life is all fun and games need to watch this before they venture outside their safe bubble. This is my second time out on full-time RVing. The first was in the mid 90s to early 2000. My expectations are about the same. I know I'll need to have extra money for breakdowns. Luckily I have the skills to do my own repairs. I'm currently rebuilding a 31 year old Class A with all new parts and updating it to 2018 standards and equipment.. I wish everybody who ventures outside all the luck they can handle. Be safe in your journeys and bye for now.

  • @monnaprovost7294
    @monnaprovost7294 Před 5 lety +17

    I’m glad u put this out there bc I was worrying about the longevity of ur nonprofit if ppl think they can just come out there with no resources to fall back on if their vehicle breaks down and they don’t have emergency funds but they think the nonprofit will bail them out.

    • @Fmblogger04
      @Fmblogger04 Před 5 lety +2

      Yes, that has always been my issue with freely helping people is weeding out the willfully helpless.

  • @diannerodriguez1387
    @diannerodriguez1387 Před 5 lety +6

    What amazing advice! I know I will have to dip my toe in to the NOMAD life before jumping off the deep end. Doing test runs have always sounded like a good idea. Don’t give everything you have away before you know if you can do the life. My travel trailer has always been my plan B. My kids aren’t crazy about the idea of me traveling out there alone but I feel like any fear I may have are valid fears and not the sky is falling type of fears. I have never needed or wanted a lot of stuff. I look around my home and think these things have brought me joy but my life won’t be any less without them. I look forward to the time I can take the plunge. And I hope I get to see you on the road sometime.

  • @lyraann2502
    @lyraann2502 Před 5 lety +1

    I can’t imagine the kind of emails you get Bob. Your video sounds like what everyone around me thought when I wanted to live in my van. The mistakes I was making then were listening to all those who said I couldn’t. I am a nomad and nature lover at heart and always have been. I told folks over and over again that my struggles were going to be the same but I would be happy and I was right !!! Like I said, I can’t imagine the emails you receive and I am sure there are folks who needed to hear this. At the same time, folks who don’t have can just as easily crash and burn in sticks n bricks.
    My first day on the road I had a tire blow out. A new tire on a vehicle that was checked before I left. So it proves, you never know what will happen but I made it just fine. Stayed centered and grounded and did what was needed just as if I was a stick n bricker. So stay cool folks when stuff does happen, you get through it just the same when you are a nomad.
    Great advice on living by below ones wants. I don’t have the things even Bob says a nomad should before hitting the road and I am still not running out to buy them. If I end up so cold at some time, chances are real high, I can find a Walmart then and get a buddy but right now, money goes towards savings.
    One thing many think they need is good cell plan. I want to add to Bobs tips here that that is hogwash. I have the smallest Verizon plan and guess what, I am fine. I can even watch crvl, lol. Sure my data runs out in a day but it just bumps me down to 2G. 😲 The need for fast isn’t real and if you need to save, trust me, you will likely survive slow internet. I have visited some friends who can’t stand waiting for my phone to load a webpage but I have had zero issues. Still works. No need for an expensive plan and I save quite a bit each month this way.

  • @jimbear8888
    @jimbear8888 Před 3 lety +2

    Expect the best and prepare for the worst..
    Wise, wise words Bob. Thanks again for your honesty and for caring 🏜️ enough to put this out there.

  • @TRS80is1337
    @TRS80is1337 Před 5 lety +2

    This is why I watch your channel. You ask the tough questions in your interviews and you show the reality of RV life, not the sugar coated hollywood version other youtube channels like to portray. You also get to cold hard numbers of how much this stuff costs. Again, something other channels fail to do. If anyone gets the impression from this channel that this life is easy or anyone can do it and be happy, they never paid attention. That said, you give equal representation to the joys and freedom RV life can provide. Very well done!

  • @clarklindquist8137
    @clarklindquist8137 Před 5 lety +24

    This video is amazing. It brings forth many key things in life. Thank you so very much. We've just started our journey. We are learning every day what's really important. It really is a day by day learning process.
    I think fear is our worst enemy. And the perception some have of us. But when we explain everything, step by step, they come round. One cool benefit has been not having to write that rent or electric bill check. How cool is that.....

  • @gladystoukie
    @gladystoukie Před 5 lety +11

    Good thoughts Bob!!! My dad used to say that, live below your means and I have!! That said, rv life not for me!!! I like amenities like a daily shower and a toilet💕👍

  • @johnm1585
    @johnm1585 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes this is an important video essay on Van life. It needs to be linked in every Van Life channel I think. Always liked that old saying, wherever you go, there you are.

  • @charlesparker2700
    @charlesparker2700 Před 3 lety +2

    On time and true to " life". Thanks Bob.

  • @cynforrest
    @cynforrest Před 5 lety +10

    Wise words and so true. Daily I remind myself: “The only thing I have control of is my Attitude! A reasonable attitude results in better life decisions”.
    Thanks for all your helpful videos. Hope to see you at RTR 2019.

    • @dianacryder7523
      @dianacryder7523 Před 5 lety +1

      Do you really believe you control your attitude? How sure are you? Does the evidence support that idea? Have you questioned that thought diligently? The more we want to believe something, the more skeptical we should be about it.
      I've go news for you. You don't even have control of that much. Control is an illusion, a trick our minds play on us. The only thing we control is the information we absorb, if that. The better our information, the better decisions we'll make. But even that is mostly an illusion. The first 5 years are what formulate us and none of that was in our control. We need to stop judging and help each other better.

    • @cynforrest
      @cynforrest Před 5 lety +2

      Diana Cryder Wow! Some direct and harsh words. You’re certainly entitled to your own opinions - for that is what your statement is - an opinion. And that’s fine, but it’s not fact.
      Meanwhile I’ll enjoy my day, appreciate what I have, and be glad and grateful to be alive. I’ll do the best I can with what I have; I’ll work diligently to maintain a positive attitude.

    • @dianacryder7523
      @dianacryder7523 Před 5 lety +1

      @@cynforrest I am direct and I only share *informed* opinions. But you'll learn from the school of hard knocks if knowledge offends you.

  • @roadhog4948
    @roadhog4948 Před 5 lety +2

    Bob, I believe this is your best video yet. Somebody had to say it. Thank you for your honesty.

  • @PatriseHenkel
    @PatriseHenkel Před 5 lety +2

    Tell it, Bob! I loved what you said about hope vrs fear. I’ve lived my life determined to stay out of fear-based thinking. I saw how it doomed loved ones early in life. I believe that I’ve almost never been a target for crime. I feel bad for people who fear that bad people are ‘out there.’ I’ve been rewarded with a peaceful life.

  • @dawna4185
    @dawna4185 Před 5 lety +2

    great words of wisdom for EVERYBODY, house dwellers and otherwise!!! thanks, Bob! it's really all about an attitude shift! xo

  • @monicawolf1592
    @monicawolf1592 Před 5 lety +2

    I'm just a man that lives in a van and poops in a bucket. The brutal honesty from a man who sounds like he wants the best for people without dissolution.

  • @wandacraig8286
    @wandacraig8286 Před 3 lety +2

    Exactly what my nephew told me when I was thinking about going on the road! He watches your videos too, but not sure if he has seen this one. I'll ask though, because everything you covered here, he said to me. So I've decided to start small, as I have a mini van and can go camping on BLM land with friends here locally. This was priceless Bob. Thank you!

  • @sallind1
    @sallind1 Před 5 lety +2

    Wonderful video, Bob! Going nomad within a fantasy is bound to fail! Thanks so much for all of your hard work and very necessary videos that you always post.

  • @PG-lm6go
    @PG-lm6go Před 5 lety +23

    Very good video Bob. I'm making plans to get out there soon. I'm reading some of these comments and wondering why some people are blaming you for their choices. I watch several RVer channels. I consider their opinions and experiences but in the end I'm a grown adult. I should be able to weigh the cost of my decisions and based on everything I've learned I know if this is a lifestyle I want, do I have sustainable funds, do I have emergency funds, do I want to poop in a bucket or in a toilet on an RV. It's no one's fault but your own if you can't think and weigh things out. Not Bob's fault, not anybody's. So, with that said, Bob you do a great job giving us info from what you've experienced and now it's up to me to do what I want with my life. Thank you so much and safe travels.

    • @wynnepettaway8428
      @wynnepettaway8428 Před 5 lety +1

      PREACH! 🙌 Nicely and correctly said! Loved every word!!

    • @brucehalleran1149
      @brucehalleran1149 Před 2 lety

      I bet you generally vote Republican, too. Some people will never accept that they alone are responsible for their choices, their direction or lack of one. Rush: "If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice." And nobody else made you do it. Bob may have made this video in self defense but it is a most important bit of wisdom in a career of sharing experiences.

  • @jodipuentes6306
    @jodipuentes6306 Před 5 lety +1

    No matter where you live THIS IS EXCELLENT WISE ADVICE!!! Regarding both finances and attitude!! The Universe always wants you to succeed!!

  • @ArtsyLadyCrafter
    @ArtsyLadyCrafter Před 5 lety +2

    Though I've only followed you a short time, you've always been a good teacher. Great info for anyone wanting to seriously make a big, lasting life change.💛🌻💛

  • @pete614
    @pete614 Před 4 lety +6

    I would rent an RV and try out the lifestyle and then make the jump. If one doesn't like it, just stay in a house and rent an RV sometimes :)

  • @joncraun7966
    @joncraun7966 Před 5 lety +10

    Thanks for the reality check! That was great advice whether you live in a mansion or a Prius! And to the haters - shut up!

  • @wytchwoodhomesteadandkenne5036

    People don't always have any choice whatsoever. None. But a lot of us with no choices, are survivors and that's what matters. I live in a partially converted Skoolie (2000 International) on $791 a month with 4 kitties, my service dog and a rescue Chihuahua. By the time I pay obligations like phone, insurance, storage, etc, I have about $300. Before diesel, before gas, before pet needs. My needs don't matter. Do I have an emergency fund? Nope. I buy what I can, as I can and do it myself. I poop in a bucket, go without showers, fill the bus with fuel once a month and that means I can go roughly 400 miles a month. I drive 150 miles or so, spend 2 weeks in a national park, drive another 150 miles, rinse repeat. When my tires were rags, I stopped at small town school districts (bus barns) and asked if they had ANY used tires they'd sell me cheap. Wonderful Muleshoe Texas GAVE me two tires free. Amazing people. I have two steer tires on the back of my bus and no spare but I am filthy rich compared to where I was when I pulled in, steel belts showing. There are miracles everywhere you look; you just have to look and don't expect everything to be given to you. I have faith that no matter what happens, someone or something will happen that will allow me to work through it. I've been sitting in Albuquerque for two weeks now, trying to sell a few things to head on towards Winslow and can't, thanks to Facebook, but I'm not whining. I'm sitting in a truckstop, reading my Kindle and waiting patiently. I don't need much food after my surgery so there's a blessing. Would I much prefer to have a nice big fancy rig, travel every day, shower every day, put my rig in the shop for regular maintenance, have solar? Absolutely. But I don't and I have nothing in this world but my pets, my bus, me and what I was able to shove in it. So no matter how stupid you may think me for not using my head and not being realistic, I am surviving, I WILL survive and I had no choice but to survive or give up and I don't give up. I had major abdominal surgery in February and 3 days later I was taking care of myself and my pets. I have no running water; I use jugs. I've no solar; I use a generator and pray like hell it holds together. I learned to take care of it. I budget for gas and diesel and pet needs and do without the rest. Now tell me; what other choice do I have? At least I'm out here, living my life.

  • @Radnally
    @Radnally Před 5 lety +13

    The vehicle is your home that has to mobile at all times. Very different for most people. Make sure its rock solid.

  • @AvionAwesome
    @AvionAwesome Před 5 lety +13

    Most people are terrible financially. They live in and thrive on a mountain of debt. No amount of charity will change that mentality.
    When you live on wheels because you are forced to, you'll be just as bad, if not worse, with money.
    Choose your life, don't let circumstances choose it for you!

    • @davidlane1248
      @davidlane1248 Před 3 lety +1

      The funny thing is that Bob got into this lifestyle out of forced circumstance... Not saying that invalidates your point, just that it really reenforces Bob's idea of attitude.

  • @louisemissouri4410
    @louisemissouri4410 Před 5 lety +27

    I've practiced in my driveway. I've always been one of those researching people so I looked up videos that told the negative side of vandwelling as well as how good it can be.
    Just waiting to fix my 4 runner and then find a job as a campground host to get enough to make up the difference I need for emergencies.
    I think it really depends on you... If you do your research and do test runs in places around you on the weekends and keep a journal of what happens and then make sure you are truthful to yourself about the experience you will grow into it with open eyes.

    • @mariodroguett6329
      @mariodroguett6329 Před 5 lety +1

      Louise Florida /Missouri ro

    • @louisemissouri4410
      @louisemissouri4410 Před 5 lety +7

      @@paulallison6689 I lived in the wilderness of the Evverglades for over 50 years, believe me its more dangerous in my driveway here in Missouri. I've dealt with snakes and rats and it wasn't the wilderness that scared me it was living in a tight space but I've camped in the back of a pick up in the NC mountains and it was hot. Now if I can handle the cold with reflective mats and wool and polyester clothes I can handle the cooking and such. I'm pretty confident now with the survival skills I have and its just a matter of getting the vehicle road ready and comfortable, then the emergency fund. I have no problem solving problems, I don't get angry, I get creative. Thanks for your concern. I am journaling thru every scenario.

    • @louisemissouri4410
      @louisemissouri4410 Před 5 lety +1

      @@paulallison6689 LOL Yeah I guess I should have. I could be happy anywhere there aren't hurricanes and tornados. I raised a daughter without help on 8 to 10 dollars an hour. I'm a pretty resourceful woman. I just have had my share of people lying, cheating and stealing. It doesn't seem to happen in the tribe. I'm hungry to see the scenes I've watched on videos. Hoping my wanderlust won't push me to spend more money on gas than food. :)

    • @louisemissouri4410
      @louisemissouri4410 Před 5 lety

      @@SuperDeut4 Thanks, hope to meet you too one day. Take care

    • @louisemissouri4410
      @louisemissouri4410 Před 5 lety +1

      @@shamrockgirl6595 I don't believe in going blind into anything so serious. I've never been called stupid and don't want to start now. Thank you for your comment. Louise

  • @kw2756
    @kw2756 Před 5 lety +7

    You’ve got such a great heart matched by a grand attitude. Thx for being you.

  • @pillarhomecaremalaysia4616

    Bob is one amazing guy.

  • @SindyJ37
    @SindyJ37 Před 3 lety +4

    These are straight up words of wisdom

  • @bobhale8325
    @bobhale8325 Před 5 měsíci

    5 years later and watching this again. What a great message.

  • @Torin_by_the_Ocean
    @Torin_by_the_Ocean Před 5 lety +6

    Excellent advice. I try to live a compassionate life but I also very much believe in self reliance.

  • @Beast9894
    @Beast9894 Před 4 lety +1

    What an honest way of putting things. You probably saved many people from ruining themselves and their lives (for a while)

  • @mindylinsdau6072
    @mindylinsdau6072 Před 5 lety +3

    Excellent advice!! I was really happy to hear that so far we have made all the right decisions according to your advice. We have pretty much everything in place and our first journey is coming up in January. We’re planning to join the 2019 rally in Quartzite and stay for the tent show and then who knows where. Hope to see you there!!

  • @FollowingtheYellowBrickRoad

    I’m taking off the end of this month in my teardrop. I’ve taken many camping trips in it. I have been planning and prepping for going out full time. Your videos have been very informative and useful. I thank you and maybe we will see each other out there someday

  • @susanm9078
    @susanm9078 Před 3 lety +1

    You say it so clearly Bob. I am in the process of learning to live with less, and looking at my life and what I want and how to change. I love the idea of living small, but need to get it to be my reality instead of an idea. Love listening to you and love the van/rv tours. Thanks for all you do for us all. Maybe some day I will be a nomad, or at least living a much smaller lifestyle.

  • @rainmaker1346
    @rainmaker1346 Před 5 lety +2

    I bought a real nice 2000 low miles rv. First year every thing broke. Fridge, heater, hot water heater, tires, door luck, and many others. Spent over 6000 bucks first year. It is a nice RV now, ha ha ha...….I have every survival tool in the world but the most important one is ,MONEY, when you are on the road and every thing you own is in your rig.

  • @paulericson6871
    @paulericson6871 Před 2 lety +1

    this is wonderful. could not be said better. no fear, live below your means, everywhere u go there u are..and just be a good person.. Learn as u go to and give yourself room to fail. Learn and go on... have no fixed preconceptions and one can learn to find happiness as u go

  • @jillom6648
    @jillom6648 Před 5 lety +4

    Expectations are planned resentments.
    You take you with you wherever you go.
    Einstein-you cannot change things with the same level of consciousness that created them.
    Blessings🧚🏻‍♀️

  • @bobhale8325
    @bobhale8325 Před 9 měsíci

    4 years later and this is still a powerful message with a lot of meaning for me and I am not currently thinking of becoming a nomad.

  • @naknaksdadn572
    @naknaksdadn572 Před 5 lety +3

    "Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed"

  • @melodyjennings7782
    @melodyjennings7782 Před 12 dny

    Love it that you reference the shared wisdom of the 12 Steps! Thank you and God bless and Mary keep you dear soul!❤

  • @havenonwheels5158
    @havenonwheels5158 Před 5 lety +11

    I feel like watching and learning from you and the rest of the tribe have given us the tools to make a go of it! Thank you for all you share and the encouragement you give!

    • @cjdcjd4165
      @cjdcjd4165 Před 3 lety +1

      For those who've been there a video Whole Earth Catalog. Keep on trucken

  • @vanessaboman8143
    @vanessaboman8143 Před 4 lety +1

    Inside change is key to living a good life where ever you are... Keeping the soul in check..guarding your heart and mind from fears... Keeping hope alive... Defeating Internal negative self talk... Looking inside yourself for strength instead of relying on others mostly is key to living up not down.. The way we think effects the way we react to life.. Love this video Bob... You are much no set with words than me lol!

  • @michaeltellurian825
    @michaeltellurian825 Před 5 lety +7

    Nice reply to your critic(s)! One of your best videos ever, imo.

  • @antoniovillanueva308
    @antoniovillanueva308 Před 5 lety +28

    Unlimited 4G is a great source of amusement OTR! A 6x12 utility trailer is great for a single. Chevrolet Suburban is a great town vehicle. Cheap to repair and they are available in good shape under $5k. I have severe allergies and I love cold and wet, pick your climate according to your likes! In Idaho at the moment headed to Oregon. Most fun I have ever had. I am a natural loner and I always have been.

    • @antoniovillanueva308
      @antoniovillanueva308 Před 5 lety +9

      Also stay perfectly legal, obey all laws including traffic laws. Drive easy. No booze and no drugs while you're on the road. I think that guns are more of a liability than they are help. Be nice!

    • @colleenkaralee2280
      @colleenkaralee2280 Před 5 lety +2

      The cargo space of an extended high top Ford Transit is 6x12.

    • @rvingkeepitrolling8797
      @rvingkeepitrolling8797 Před 5 lety +4

      LoL i have a surburban it's getting another motor in it I've rebuilt this truck I'm not using to stay in but i can fall back on it

    • @colleenkaralee2280
      @colleenkaralee2280 Před 5 lety +5

      Good point - you can throw a mattress and cookstove in the back if it comes down to that.

    • @Fmblogger04
      @Fmblogger04 Před 5 lety +2

      I was thinking about a Suburban but the MPG's are like 10-12! Decided on an mini-van getting 16-19MPG. Do you know of a full size SUV with MPG above 16? I would consider that.

  • @donnahanfordnichols6573
    @donnahanfordnichols6573 Před 4 lety +3

    You have amazing insight. Thank you 🙂💜

  • @jaimhaas5170
    @jaimhaas5170 Před 5 lety

    One of the most valuable lessons to teach kids at the formative years : "Wants" vs "Needs". My experiences tell me many people have never even thought about this.

  • @jimh.5286
    @jimh.5286 Před 5 lety +2

    Very wise words, for everyone, not just for nomads.

  • @000MACK000
    @000MACK000 Před 5 lety +35

    Well like I said a million times I've been doing this off and on for 10 years solo but really I've been doing it my whole life since I've been on my own I live like a homeless person but I like to think of myself as a high-class homeless person because I do have a roof over my head and I have more than most homeless people have like you said live within your means.

  • @keithconway4567
    @keithconway4567 Před 5 lety +11

    Great Video! This is good life advice no matter what one is trying to do or how one is living.. Unexamined assumptions are the root of many problems. We all inherited a flawed belief system often from well meaning people.

    • @cjdcjd4165
      @cjdcjd4165 Před 3 lety

      No we didn't all a flawed belief system. They just won't listen.

  • @darylphipps8663
    @darylphipps8663 Před 5 lety +1

    This vlog spoke right to me (as im sure it did 2 many). Thank you Bob! Was great!!

  • @ontheheap
    @ontheheap Před 2 lety +1

    This is absolutely supberb. Truly a lifetimes worth of wisdom and truth in this video. Thank you for making this.

  • @kuraqueen6593
    @kuraqueen6593 Před 5 lety +4

    Excellent video, Bob. I have come across quite a number of people who lived beyond their means in houses, then brought that mindset to van life, and consequently, remained in financial trouble.

  • @michaeltichonuk2176
    @michaeltichonuk2176 Před 3 lety +1

    Didn't see this posted before..I must have been without signal...
    I enjoyed this one. It made me fully aware that I do what I do before its all gone. (Nature, National Parks, ..in fact I missed RMNP because it began burning when I arrived in CO. ..Gone)
    And addressing materialism...my weakness which I'm slowly bringing into reality...
    Thank you!

  • @RogerinKC
    @RogerinKC Před 5 lety +5

    This was nothing less than a great sermon!

  • @infamousgerald
    @infamousgerald Před 5 lety +6

    You have good advice there bob. Four instance I get people who have various engine problems in the vehicle most of those engine problems come from not changing the fluid people dont have that kind of experience and mindset to take care of their vehicle. So please take care of your car

    • @infamousgerald
      @infamousgerald Před 5 lety +1

      Grambo check transmission, steering fluids and brake fluids regularly in addition to your engine oil. Check with your vehicles owner’s manual

  • @charlesreyna1788
    @charlesreyna1788 Před 3 lety

    Every person new to this life must see this. It's an invaluable resource of the most direct and honest information.

  • @denisehosner3405
    @denisehosner3405 Před 5 lety +1

    This was so good to hear, thank you, Bob.

  • @Ron4885
    @Ron4885 Před 5 lety +58

    Very good information to have 'before' people take the jump. And there will always be a percentage that aren't going to like it. It's just not for them and that's fine too. Thank you for this Bob.

    • @Jean-qn4fy
      @Jean-qn4fy Před 5 lety +6

      Aaron B yeah. It is a shame that he has not been telling people this for the last few years instead of encouraging them to just rebel against evil capitalism and come on out.

    • @Jean-qn4fy
      @Jean-qn4fy Před 5 lety +5

      Robin Lillian He used to be able to make pie-in-the-sky statements about how evil having a job was and how great being "free" was and then walk away from the devastation it caused when people believed him. Now with that crackpot charity, he has hundreds of those people pleading for his help. Yes, a van is better than homeless - as long as you can get the money to keep it running. But the minute the money runs out, you are homeless, again. The real solution for most people is a job. That can mean training or it can mean moving to where work is or it can mean buying and selling online or working at a job you hate until you can get one you like. But it is not being a bum in a run down van and (e)begging.

    • @BettyHaney101
      @BettyHaney101 Před 5 lety +2

      @@Jean-qn4fy you make some valid points

    • @Jean-qn4fy
      @Jean-qn4fy Před 5 lety +3

      Robin Lillian Do you really understand what you are saying? I don't think so. Where do you think this broken down van will be tolerated? It won't be allowed to stay on the streets. That means it is going to be outside of town, maybe hidden on some derelict side road or on BLM land. No way to shower or stay clean. Very little way to get to a job or go to classes or anywhere else. It is not shelter. It is a trap. In today's economy, just about anyone who is willing to work can get a job. That is what people should be encouraged to do.
      Yes, some people do work and live in a van successfully. JustinCredible does a good job of presenting that life. But that is not what Bob began his campaign calling for and that is not being a homeless bum in a broken down van. You are blathering out of both sides of your mouth, which would allow you to move the goal posts around like they were on wheels if I were dumb enough to fall for that. But I am not.
      BTW, a few people on the street are there because of health reasons or really bad luck. But those people work hard to get off the streets and usually do. We did when it happened to us. But the majority of down and out people on the streets got there and stay there because they drink or do drugs. My sympathy for them is non-existent. Stupid choices get stupid results. No one can help them until they decide to make different choices. So take your holier-than-thou attitude and stuff it.

  • @alexa_explores
    @alexa_explores Před 3 lety +1

    Excellent words. I’m a therapist and couldn’t have said it better myself.

  • @daveevans8256
    @daveevans8256 Před 4 lety +3

    Great advice Bob thanks for sharing your thoughts with us all.👍🇬🇧

  • @diannedonato1584
    @diannedonato1584 Před 5 lety +4

    A really great video bob. To the point. We always lived Our Lives Mind Over Matter I don't mind and it don't matter. You can be happy wherever you go and it's all about your attitude towards it. I for one don't have any problems with hitting things head on make the best out of what you have and the best out of life and you'll have a pretty good life. Negativity breeds negativity happiness breeds happiness