How I Knew My Husband Was The One "Godly Dating"(personal journey)

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
  • Hello! Thank you for stopping by. I hope you stay to grow and desire God more.
    This is a glimpse of my personal journey of how I knew my husband was the one. There is so much more to this story and I wish I could share more. I do however want to advise you all to seek God and read his word!! Imitate God in all that you do. Human beings have short comings of course. So always go back to the word for yourself.
    Welp I love you guys and hope to hear from you all in the comments below!
    I would also like to know if there is any side of the story you guys specifically wanted to hear from my husband! Let me know
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Komentáře • 135

  • @janetics.
    @janetics. Před 4 lety +105

    “Seek first the kingdom and everything else will be added”
    THATS IT, THATS all it is
    God knows you and what you need but you’ve truly gotta lean on him to tap into all that he has for you.

    • @blaakcoffee
      @blaakcoffee Před 3 lety +2

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @uriahblanks343
      @uriahblanks343 Před 2 lety

      Amen☝🙌😊

  • @yvonne3970
    @yvonne3970 Před 4 lety +22

    YESSSS, I just started the video. I live in Belgium, I have an Angolan background. But grew up with the Congolese culture as well. SO I understand and speak french and lingala :)

  • @adriannehayes63
    @adriannehayes63 Před 4 lety +32

    I’m from Baton Rouge, La. and I found you on Instagram. The day i found you I was on empty and needed a little pour and encouragement and you did that. You affirmed some things for me and I have been following you every since..☺️

  • @bodybylinda7151
    @bodybylinda7151 Před 4 lety +17

    Omg this made me cry 😭 His love is soo sacrificial and very gentle

  • @Edizzy
    @Edizzy Před 4 lety +22

    I absolutely loved hearing your story because you were honest about the fact that you knowing if your husband was the one was a process. I also loved how you admitted to the fact that you didn’t know in the beginning and God had to lead you and show you that he was your husband. Thank you for your transparency and also sharing your thoughts ! I truly enjoyed watching this 😊

  • @lagloria1644
    @lagloria1644 Před 4 lety +12

    I love this. This is what A LOT of singles need to hear! We have too many people going by looks and 'what's in it for me?" I totally understand your apprehension! I am there now. I will be doing the same thing.

  • @greenbenjimin337
    @greenbenjimin337 Před 4 lety +18

    I agree with what you said about putting the Kingdom of God first! I believe that is you are seeing or dating someone as a christian you should see God in their life. Christians shouldn't date people who God's presence can't be sensed or traced. We should hear, feel and seeing God written on that person's life, only then after prayer and fasting would it be safe to proceed further to a relationship and marriage. No one can manifest what God has not ordained! Your words are enlightening stay bless my sister in Christ and continue the good work!

  • @nikeyawashington6521
    @nikeyawashington6521 Před 3 lety +4

    I am a minute into your video and I’m shocked at how much I can relate to your story. When I first met my fiancé I didn’t think he was my husband either. I was a few months out of a relationship where I had got dumped and I literally remember telling God that I didn’t want to give him a chance because I didn’t want to get my heart broken again. 😭❤️❤️ crazy how similar our stories are.

  • @yemee
    @yemee Před 4 lety +12

    I just watched this and it really gave me more understanding about God and Relationships.
    I live in UK but I have a Nigerian background. I knew that it was the leading of the Holy Spirit to follow you and your husband on IG after I saw your wedding video on one of the wedding pages I follow...
    This is a very beautiful story and I really want to commit myself to God to get Good results in every area of my life. Thank You so much Steph❤️❤️❤️

  • @karabomalefane
    @karabomalefane Před 4 lety +14

    From South Africa, saw you on Nia-Cerise Conteh’s insta story when she had posted you on your wedding day, then started following you on IG and yeaaah pretty much saw your channel from there ! ❤️ .. You are great by the way 😁♥️ and your hunger to know God more is absolutely incredible 😭😁 May the Lord continue stirring your spirit ! ♥️♥️♥️♥️✨✨

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +4

      Nice to meet you girl! That is awesome. Ive been to South Africa once. But Im so glad you found this channel. & yes I receive that! Let the Lord stir us all up!!!

    • @nellywillis
      @nellywillis Před 4 lety +2

      Me too

  • @francismashingaidze5065
    @francismashingaidze5065 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you so much for sharing such an inspiring story am really touched and convicted.. A Godly relationship is one l desire to have and l thank GOD for using you to share such a profound teaching God bless you

  • @francineminka3897
    @francineminka3897 Před 4 lety +5

    I'm from Cameroon and I come through your weeding video and after that I saw your video on the importance of having Godly friendship. I've been blessed so I've decided to follow you.

  • @freedtoservewithjanette2458

    Am from Kampala, Uganda the Lord led me to your channel yesterday. This just made me cry because I want someone I can read and share with when it comes to the word..because I love love the word because am a teacher of a word and so passionate for it and a worshipper. I pray I can meet someone I can really connect with on a spiritual level pray and read the word with.

    • @musawopatu7641
      @musawopatu7641 Před 3 lety

      Your father in Heaven will bring him. Just trust him.

  • @AshleyBoatemaa
    @AshleyBoatemaa Před 4 lety +5

    First off, I LOVEEEE YOUR EARINGS!! I love your story. I pray that God prepares me for my husband

  • @LivingBoldlyWithUyi
    @LivingBoldlyWithUyi Před 4 lety +5

    From Cleveland, Ohio, but currently living in Houston, TX and you popped up in my CZcams subscription feed.

  • @mavis613
    @mavis613 Před 4 lety +6

    Saw your status on instagram, I’m from Ghana 🇬🇭, your hubby’s country☺️, based in USA 🇺🇸, I love your spirit.. continue to be on fire for Christ!❤️🔥🙏🏽, great video by the way!

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +2

      Great to meet you Mavis & yassss Ghana 🇬🇭! Thank you Mavis be blessed !!

    • @mavis613
      @mavis613 Před 4 lety

      Amen😌

  • @MaiyshaJ
    @MaiyshaJ Před 2 lety +1

    I am from Maryland. I was searching "praying for a Godly husband" and I came across your channel. Thankful that I did.

  • @OfficialEsseGrace
    @OfficialEsseGrace Před 4 lety +2

    I’m from Benin, and I found your Chanel through a discussion with friends some months back. Always blessed to be here.

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 Před 2 lety +1

    Where we lack he covers it. Yes he does. 😃

  • @bonmugz6101
    @bonmugz6101 Před 4 lety +3

    Hey Hun. I am Zimbabwean-born, based in the UK.
    I first came across you a couple of months ago when Nia-Cerise posted something about you on her Instagram stories (before the wedding).
    From that point, I kept seeing you in my recommendations and have since subscribed to your CZcams channel as I have been blessed by your content.

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      Hey love its so great to meet you! Thank you for supporting this channel! Praying that God would continue to bless you and give you spiritual insight, guidance and understanding !

  • @chi-beze
    @chi-beze Před 2 lety

    My name is Chi. I found you just scrolling down on CZcams. I’m so relieved to see the this Godly marriage. And I’m so GLAD FOR YOU AND Micheal. Many blessings.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @victoriana.k
    @victoriana.k Před 3 lety +1

    I’m from Congo 🇨🇩, based in America my friend recommended me to your channel, she was like this girl literally reminds me of you. You should follow her. Her videos are great and here I am. I am in love, I’m here for it sis. 😩. I usually don’t even comment on videos but I’m so thankful my friend recommended me to your channel, I have watched couples of your videos and they are honesty helping me so much with my walk with God. ❤️

  • @jasminewoods9801
    @jasminewoods9801 Před 4 lety +4

    Hey, I’m from Louisiana ❤️. You guys video pop up on my recommend. Congratulations 🍾🎉🎊

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      Hi Jasmine! Its great to meet you, I'm glad you ran into this channel i hope you love it & thank you! ❤️

    • @jasminewoods9801
      @jasminewoods9801 Před 4 lety

      Stephanie Hammond nice to meet you as well! Yes. I love it!

  • @latonyadampier9449
    @latonyadampier9449 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing your Beautiful Testimony 😊 GOD Bless you and your Generations 🙏🏽🌈

  • @buggedout1
    @buggedout1 Před 3 lety +1

    You’re a very wise woman. And you serve THE ONE TRUE GOD- YAH!!

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 3 lety +1

      Glory to God 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thanks for tuning in!

    • @buggedout1
      @buggedout1 Před 3 lety

      @@StephaniesHammond AMEN. Was watching the video of how your husband knew and he called God YAH. 😂I wanted to say that in my initial comment but was like🥴 what if they don’t call Him that but I feel perfect peace watching your channel. Blessings ❤️
      Love from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @lovewins699
    @lovewins699 Před 3 lety +1

    What a blessing to have! I won't settle until I get what God has for me. I want a man with Godly qualities.

  • @jemimahbondo567
    @jemimahbondo567 Před 4 lety +2

    I’m watching you all in way in South Africa 🇿🇦!I found your channel by watching Trinity Sierra’s instagram story about your wedding,clicked on your instagram and saw you had a CZcams channel and I subscribed 😊only to find out you’re Congolese like me😁🇨🇩

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety

      That is amazing!!! So great to meet you and to know you're Congolese as well. God bless you!

  • @Blessingnyinaku
    @Blessingnyinaku Před 4 lety +3

    Sierra Leone born In Guinea 🇬🇳. Gurl I’ve been following you since the Old Testament days lol. Through Abeku.

    • @Blessingnyinaku
      @Blessingnyinaku Před 4 lety

      @2:19
      That’s right sistah.

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      Since the Old Testament days LOL. that cracked me up!! Thats so cool that you were born in Guinea, I haven't met many people from there! But thank you for your continual support on my channel sis! Love ya.!

  • @lovelife8968
    @lovelife8968 Před 3 lety +1

    Ohio here! Random viewing testimonies and stopped by your channel

  • @jairusbryant3229
    @jairusbryant3229 Před 3 lety +1

    Love y’all! Bishop and First Lady Hammond!

  • @SuperBervely
    @SuperBervely Před 3 lety

    Wow this testimony is so great I got emotional 😭 😭. Thank you for sharing.

  • @biancachastanet2711
    @biancachastanet2711 Před 4 lety +2

    I'm from St. Lucia, found you here on CZcams and I love you♡♡

  • @ShantaRambert
    @ShantaRambert Před 4 lety +1

    Hi I’m from South Carolina and I found your page on IG! Your channel has blessed me so, keep doing what you are doing😘

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      South Carolina! Wow that's cool. Im so glad you were blessed, God is amazing!!

  • @GloryGlazedCollective
    @GloryGlazedCollective Před 4 lety +1

    Heyyyy, I’m Ciara Ray. I’m from Chicago. I found your channel when you Godly Friends video was recommended to me through CZcams. Days ago, I’ve near watched every video. The worship is amazing even in the short clips. Your walk with the Lord is so inspiring & convicts me to want to go deep in him. I Love the vibes. Thanks so much for this. Ps. Love your earrings. 😍 Where can I find them?

  • @xaviersheppard7438
    @xaviersheppard7438 Před 2 lety

    From ft worth tx I just was looking up article in your name popped up and I subscribe to you

  • @mabelayivi9584
    @mabelayivi9584 Před 4 lety

    Nice video. Am also from Ghana and I love the fact that your lives are centered around God. Have been very encouraged by your story. God bless you

  • @christelasaf3354
    @christelasaf3354 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing with us. It was a blessing my sister❤

  • @SarBelleXO
    @SarBelleXO Před 4 lety +2

    I’m in Martinique 🇲🇶, born in the UK 🇬🇧 but from Uganda 🇺🇬

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety

      Oh wow you are international ! God bless you and nice to meet you!

    • @SarBelleXO
      @SarBelleXO Před 4 lety

      By the grace of God Im a missionary with my husband spreading the love of Christ here! Thanks you too love. Please follow me back on Instagram @sarah.norah 🥰🥰🥰

  • @BrandyMas
    @BrandyMas Před 4 lety

    I’m Congolese aswell, but I live in Amsterdam, Holland. I found you on instagram😬 and I so so love your posts and videos! Makes me wanna do more for Jesus🔥 Keep it up sis🙌🏽

  • @pamelakilgore7836
    @pamelakilgore7836 Před 2 lety

    Good teaching and word. God bless you and your husband and children if any Pamela in Detroit

  • @louisamakgopela539
    @louisamakgopela539 Před 3 lety

    Thank you from South african for this testimony it really has helped me...I am going through what you went going especially of communication of effortless and mostly about God

  • @Instantbeauty900
    @Instantbeauty900 Před 2 lety

    From Honduras. Thank you for the video!!

  • @ihekaji
    @ihekaji Před 4 lety

    Watching from London😁and I saw your wedding on Instagram and was instantly moved by it

  • @godsgrace8307
    @godsgrace8307 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful ❤️ To God be the Glory ‼️

  • @heavenlyblessings656
    @heavenlyblessings656 Před 2 lety

    God Bless you sister! Thank you‼️

  • @amandaaloveess
    @amandaaloveess Před 3 lety

    Amen. I loved this video😌. God bless you🙏🏾.

  • @mariav0722
    @mariav0722 Před 3 lety

    This channel just popped up in my feed ❤️

  • @mangidenga9250
    @mangidenga9250 Před 3 lety

    i'm from South Africa. Your video just popped up in the suggestions.

  • @thevoiceofinfluence888

    Sending Love, from Ghana 🇬🇭 ❤️. Someone recommended your channel on her ig story.

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety

      Great to meet you! Sending my love right back to you. My husband is also Ghanian ❤️❤️

  • @emilyn7572
    @emilyn7572 Před rokem

    Noone ever mentions how the enemy tries to block your union. it would be very helpful to see a video on that.

  • @jmsm4691
    @jmsm4691 Před 4 lety

    1st comment !!!! I’m excited ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @estherduah1983
    @estherduah1983 Před 2 lety +1

    God is actually the ONLY one who can truly screen someone for you. No human can unless that someone is also using God's Spirit in them to do the screening.

  • @TEWMUCH
    @TEWMUCH Před 6 měsíci

    Ur so pretty, and nice story. ❤

  • @georgiafoskey8827
    @georgiafoskey8827 Před 3 lety

    Good Morning beautiful
    I am from Florida m
    I do not have no one to talk to but God
    Only God has my back my children hates me for past mistakes i had made
    I have been seeking Gods help in choosing my husband for 34 years nothing is happening for me
    Thank you for the talk beautiful

  • @jadajohnson7957
    @jadajohnson7957 Před 3 lety

    God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted I trust God and believe in him.

  • @DRAphane
    @DRAphane Před 3 lety

    All the way from South Africa!!!

  • @TheMisswhitneyrose
    @TheMisswhitneyrose Před 4 lety

    I live in the UK and I'm from Ghana .. found you from instagram xx

  • @bunnyexotic9007
    @bunnyexotic9007 Před 4 lety

    From Venezuela 📍
    Saw you on Instagram, was looking through #biblejournaling and found one of your post ❤ Started following you since and I'm here 😊

  • @juliannedavenport
    @juliannedavenport Před měsícem

    1:15 I kid you not, I just wrote down in my journal to God, who is this man, Lord? Yep, I know I’m on the right video.

  • @godsgrace8307
    @godsgrace8307 Před 3 lety

    And I love your earrings ‼️❤️‼️

  • @mirandataylor6385
    @mirandataylor6385 Před 3 lety

    I don't really believe in "the one" but I'm glad some people out there can find that.

  • @nellywillis
    @nellywillis Před 4 lety +2

    I looove your earings

  • @user-eu8jm4rg9p
    @user-eu8jm4rg9p Před 2 měsíci

    Please pray for me Katarina, thanks, God bless you ...who is my kingdom husband ?

  • @TallCurlyChick
    @TallCurlyChick Před 2 lety

    From NC found your video from scrolling

  • @ChiomaTheTraveller
    @ChiomaTheTraveller Před 3 lety +1

    I love your earrings 🙂

  • @merlangejoseph4813
    @merlangejoseph4813 Před 4 lety

    Love you guys You are a beautiful couple God bless your

  • @jmsm4691
    @jmsm4691 Před 4 lety

    From RDC 🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩 currently living in Atlanta ,Ga! I found you in IG

  • @godaughter4044
    @godaughter4044 Před rokem

    Im from nyc . I just had the weirdest conversation with a man online. I dont know how i feel. Like did i just sin? WEIRD.

  • @melissakkeys4953
    @melissakkeys4953 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for the tips

  • @Chanjae
    @Chanjae Před 2 lety

    So encouraging

  • @majormediaproductions
    @majormediaproductions Před 3 lety

    I have no spiritual covering. I have no parents. And I am a believer in Jesus Christ. I think about who will vet my husband and hold him accountable when he comes. What do you suggest I do? WS your husband a Christian before you met him? Or did he eventually become one? Who's idea was it to be friends at first?
    Sorry for many questions 😁lol I'm just trying to get a gage on how God deals with people without any "covering" whatsoever. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️🤗❤️

  • @Natasha_dimpho
    @Natasha_dimpho Před 4 lety +1

    Hey, my name is Dimpho Natasha Rangata from South Africa, I found your channel on your Instagram bio since I am a follower on Instagram 😂

  • @ashleAcMorrie261
    @ashleAcMorrie261 Před 5 měsíci

    I LIKE YOUR EARRINGS GHORL

  • @merveillekabamba3529
    @merveillekabamba3529 Před 4 lety +1

    Hey big sis! Eh! Muana Congo! How did he know that you was his wife. What and why made him buy the ring years before he proposed. How did he know it was the time.

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      Hey hey ❤️ Thanks for the questions! We will definitely cover that!

  • @deborahadewole7535
    @deborahadewole7535 Před 3 lety

    Houston Texas.
    Just found you by searching about Christian long distance dating relationships.

  • @jadajohnson7957
    @jadajohnson7957 Před 3 lety

    God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted and strength n arms I trust God and believe in him. I need to lead God for me pick him out to be my new future man

  • @denise7565
    @denise7565 Před 6 měsíci

    Nice!

  • @spreadgodswordnow9322
    @spreadgodswordnow9322 Před 3 lety

    Praise God.

  • @glodiehamisi
    @glodiehamisi Před 4 lety +1

    🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩 all the way

  • @utoudoh
    @utoudoh Před 3 lety

    God bless you.

  • @Ktrim93
    @Ktrim93 Před 2 lety

    New Subbie ✨

  • @propheticministry55555

    You are so beautiful and continue being beautiful I love to see you. However, the man I am going to marry...we are enemies...he has daughters...its not my time yet but I am preparing..hard....

  • @maameowusu-ansah2900
    @maameowusu-ansah2900 Před 4 lety

    please where'd you get that journal from ?

  • @RachelleJones246
    @RachelleJones246 Před 4 lety

    Hey i also have another question for another video..Do you have a full time job or are you a full time youtuber

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      I wish I could be a full time CZcams! lol hopefully God will allow it but he knows what's best for me.

  • @pinkyfish6850
    @pinkyfish6850 Před 8 měsíci

    Amen🌈🌈🌈

  • @RachelleJones246
    @RachelleJones246 Před 4 lety

    Heya..For the next video with you and your husband i would like to know if you and someone are both christians and love each other and you've known each other for 4 months..what do you do and where do you go from there..and these people have are building a friendship

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      Sure thing will definitely cover that! He is so much better at these things then I am,! Thanks so much for tuning in.

    • @RachelleJones246
      @RachelleJones246 Před 4 lety

      @@StephaniesHammond 😁😌.thanks..i love your channel btw

  • @shanyamobutu4603
    @shanyamobutu4603 Před 4 lety

    From Belgium. ❤️

  • @kjmiix
    @kjmiix Před 4 lety

    From Canada🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦 I love your channel I found you on IG
    On your next video( with your husband) I want you guys to talk about sex before marriage, how did you guys deal with it.
    PS: if you don’t wanna about it, it’s OKAY
    I Love your videos and your relationship
    You guys are #GOALS

    • @StephaniesHammond
      @StephaniesHammond  Před 4 lety +1

      LOL you are so sweet! Thank you. I think this is a great topic, we will definitely hit it! Great to meet you by the way ❤️

  • @loiserare3912
    @loiserare3912 Před 4 lety +1

    From Germany found on Ig

  • @destinixshakur
    @destinixshakur Před 4 lety +5

    I feel like this is what happened with me but now he's running . He told me I was his wife I didn't take him serious and now that I'm trying he's running away . Hes changed my entire life . My relationship with TMH has become so much closer . Idk what to do anymore but to let this go

    • @michdesmich3036
      @michdesmich3036 Před 2 lety

      Just bring it to the Lord. He is the God of second chances. But stay grounded in the Holy Spirit because may be he is not your husband and the Lord is just watching over you. Be blessed

    • @destinixshakur
      @destinixshakur Před 2 lety

      @@michdesmich3036 I would never want that man ever again . GOD would have to come to me physically to make me change my mind . I have felt violated at how desperate I was to him . I don’t know what I am . I don’t believe I am
      Meant to love or be loved

  • @ckirabo
    @ckirabo Před 4 lety +5

    I’m from Boston, MA but 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 currently in school in D.C. I heard about your channel through Moe Digga!