How To Forgive Yourself - How To Stop Feeling Guilty | Mel Robbins

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Komentáře • 47

  • @Homelessbillionaire
    @Homelessbillionaire Před 2 lety +7

    Every Accomplishment Starts With The Decision To Try.

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 Před 2 lety +1

    Hello Mel Robbins 🌎 Thanks. Greetings from Colombia. The Venezuelan Immigrant writer 🇻🇪

  • @suzannebeveridge8818
    @suzannebeveridge8818 Před 2 lety +2

    This isnt referencing this vid, but in general, i feel like theres sooo many people around everyone that are SO NEGATIVE.. and most people barely notice what bullsh*T that is, or identify it. Im from g.r. mi. West Michigan!!!! Also 💗💗💗💗......LOVE U!!!!!

    • @dwainclooney7740
      @dwainclooney7740 Před 2 lety

      Hello good morning.... greetings from San Diego

    • @pollacksharman0147
      @pollacksharman0147 Před 2 lety

      Hello👋 Suzanne how are you doing today? I hope you're doing great and safe over there?

    • @pollacksharman0147
      @pollacksharman0147 Před 2 lety

      I'm Pollack Sharman by name from Santa Barbara, California🇺🇸 .I feel we should get to know more about ourselves hope you don't mind. You must understand that I don't mean to be rude neither am I here to embarrass you any way I just want you to be sure that I know what am saying that I want us to know more about ourselves. If you don't mind can we start now..?

  • @boykajohn
    @boykajohn Před 2 lety +1

    Mel you have opened my eyes to so many issues my family has had. My youngest daughter has pushed away her mother because she is apparently Toxic 6 years ago. up until my daughter was 16 you could not get the two of them apart. They did everything together Mel. My daughter turned 16 left home and never came back. Well this caused her mother to slowly die inside. Mel I want my old daughter to come back, want my family back together as much as possible(we divorced 7 years ago). This daughter has now labeled me as being Toxic as well and I haven't been able to see my grandchildren for over 2 years now. Mel I don't have any idea what do anymore who to talk too, it has torn my whole family apart and I can't stop crying inside. I cherish the earth my children and grandchildren walk on. So as you can see I'm a basket case now .Hopefully you able to make sense of this. Found your CZcams channel when I googled "Why am I so Angry" 😢

  • @Oddishhly
    @Oddishhly Před 2 lety +1

    I love hearing the perspective from an adoptee! I had a lot of healing to do and I've found a lot of peace working through the ways it was hard on me. Everything you said about guilt/shame was amazing too.

  • @simplement_it
    @simplement_it Před 2 lety +1

    Mel, about newsletters... they usually look spammy to the viewer, no matter whom it comes from. People who like you and follow you don't necessarily want a group email from you every morning. Emails are personal (person-to-person), so I would recommend sending them only if there's a relevant announcement of some sort. As I go through my emails every morning, I prioritize personal messages. I either do not read newsletters or move them to trash/spam.

  • @victoriajohnson3034
    @victoriajohnson3034 Před 2 lety +1

    We feel the most guilt because we are caring for end of life parents, children we have raised to be entitled, our own lives that have gone by the way side, and we rarely have support in all this!

  • @mariannedeering5954
    @mariannedeering5954 Před 2 lety

    Holy SHEEET. I'm 63 and the guilt is overwhelming!!! And I can see where you act worse. UGH. SHAME. This is so eye opening. Thank you. Now, hopefully I will remember this!

  • @victoriajohnson3034
    @victoriajohnson3034 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for this! I'm 4th generation guilter! I sent this to my grown child just now with an explanation of how i want him to not carry this burden! Call me out!

    • @dwainclooney7740
      @dwainclooney7740 Před 2 lety

      🤓🤓👍👍👍🇺🇲🇺🇲 ... thanks for sharing with us from San Diego

  • @KristiesLexicon
    @KristiesLexicon Před 2 lety

    I think the cohesive vision is that you give details along with all the nooks and crannies to self-love, which is going to make or break our future. You are brilliant!

    • @dwainclooney7740
      @dwainclooney7740 Před 2 lety

      Thanks for sharing with us ..... good morning from San Diego

  • @Homelessbillionaire
    @Homelessbillionaire Před 2 lety +1

    Life Is Change. Growth Is Optional. Choose Wisely.

  • @simplement_it
    @simplement_it Před 2 lety

    Talking is the best, but not always easy. Yes. guilt is about the person who feels it, and we often forget other people have issues, too.

  • @franjohnston9492
    @franjohnston9492 Před 2 lety +1

    I had never thought about this topic thanks❤

  • @khasesstudio8137
    @khasesstudio8137 Před 2 lety

    Ok it's scary
    How this is uploaded right when I need it

  • @victoriajohnson3034
    @victoriajohnson3034 Před 2 lety

    5 minute go get it videos are amazing!

  • @doricetimko332
    @doricetimko332 Před 2 lety

    Thank you, Mel.

  • @hereiam3658
    @hereiam3658 Před 2 lety

    Now this makes sense to me.....I have a horrible time about my business because, I just want to give my gifts away instead of charging for it..because I know I am taken care of....I have the guilt to make money.

    • @pollacksharman0147
      @pollacksharman0147 Před 2 lety

      Hello👋 gorgeous how are you doing today? I'm Pollack Sharman by name from Santa Barbara, California 🇺🇸 . if I may ask where are you from?

  • @SuperCoach73
    @SuperCoach73 Před 2 lety

    you have beautiful voice

  • @galactecfire
    @galactecfire Před 2 lety

    From over here I know that people dont "make " people feel anything. This is a type of perspective control managed with ideas. Addressing your feelings in this manner takes your power away and gives it to others. As if you are just thrown about by others actions etc. However, the other persons actions etc, may have stirred our emotions. Some would call this being triggered. Ultimately It is our own perspective that is responsible for our emotional response. There are levels of this as with everything else. Also...some folks ya just cant reach.

  • @LessonsInLife
    @LessonsInLife Před 2 lety

    Thanks for your share 😍

  • @ThePeachyCat
    @ThePeachyCat Před 2 lety

    When I adress issues to my mum she doesn't take me serious. Sometimes I feel like I am not heared. When I tell her this she acts like I am weird and my feelings are overreactive. Sometimes she ignores me or is pissed when I tell her something like this.

  • @EMuro-wu7uy
    @EMuro-wu7uy Před 2 lety

    How do you stop feeling guilty when you’re a caregiver to spouse and they die on your watch? I lost my husband, I did all I could and I’m alone again.

  • @danagodfrey2979
    @danagodfrey2979 Před 2 lety

    The high 5 habbit how can u change that mind by looking into the mirror and ur heart connection hoping u can help cheers

  • @gazza2933
    @gazza2933 Před 2 lety

    I no longer have parents at my age.
    However, my friends do this.
    "Why didn't you meet us for a drink last night?" etc,etc

  • @jeffreyskinner7167
    @jeffreyskinner7167 Před 2 lety

    I need this help ,however I strongly disapprove of cursing .

  • @deboraholiver3716
    @deboraholiver3716 Před 2 lety

    My kid says.... what do you mean? I see you. No need to even let it matter. I can't expect anything. It's not right

  • @0tolerance583
    @0tolerance583 Před 2 lety

    I'm high five triggered also! I'm really trying to overcome my antisocial comfort zone. But then again people are so disappointing...

    • @dwainclooney7740
      @dwainclooney7740 Před 2 lety

      Hello tolerance how are you doing good morning..... greetings from San Diego

  • @Yessie4u2
    @Yessie4u2 Před 2 lety

    60 angel blessings I'm about to be 40 May 31st. I'm a disabled mom on a feeding tube with 3 kids and I may need to claim bankruptcy next Tuesday and I feel lik a failure 😭😭😭😭🙏🏼😇🥰

    • @dwainclooney7740
      @dwainclooney7740 Před 2 lety

      Never think that okay ... greetings from San Diego

    • @doricetimko332
      @doricetimko332 Před 2 lety

      I pray that your burdens are replaced with blessings. I just had my tube removed and empathize with its challenges. ✌️❤️🙏🏼❤️✌️

    • @believer7280
      @believer7280 Před 2 lety

      The battlefield is the mind. Instead of focusing on the negative things in life and the things we don't have, we need to focus on the positive and things we do have. And be thankful to God for those things. This is not easy. It's a daily struggle for me too.

  • @simplement_it
    @simplement_it Před 2 lety

    Share your experiences with parents. Talk to parents about what you're going through, write a book. It will certainly help a lot of families - re: parents willing children to always agree with them.

    • @dwainclooney7740
      @dwainclooney7740 Před 2 lety

      Yes you get the point .... greetings from San Diego good morning 🌅

  • @yalayala6195
    @yalayala6195 Před 2 lety

    🤣🤣🤣 LOVE #schizophrenicnewsletter ❤️

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 Před 2 lety

    How to channel guilt in a positive way?...🌎

  • @dianne3406
    @dianne3406 Před 2 lety

    😘😘😘😘❤️

  • @shuckyducky3508
    @shuckyducky3508 Před 2 lety

    is this more white guilt propaganda? please.