I do think this was a bit extreme and probably traumatic for the kids, but generally speaking if we shield kids from every potentially hurtful or slightly uncomfortable situation, we’re doing them a huge disservice by not preparing them for life. We live in a cold, harsh world and you need a lot of resilience to get by. unfortunately that’s just the way it is.
Wow I can't believe they put the kids in this situation. I can't imagine how traumatic this must have been for them. Did the producers think this was really worth it for the ratings?
My father-in-law was a Vietnam Vet. He was injured in a way that he could never have biological children. He came into my husband's life when my husband was 12. The last time we spoke before he passed away, he told me how proud he was of his son. ❤ He said, he didn't create my husband's biology, he created his spirit, which is far more important.
Why is anybody including Sally Bringing kids on stage for them to get into adult issues and for these men to sit there and deny these children to their faces ? That's dramatic that's hurting the children. It is the fathers Responsibility to help take care of his child but the mother has to do it too, Part of being a good parent is not dragging your children into adult issues that little boy should not know how much the child Support check was ever !!Absolutely breaks my heart to see these kids hurt so much ! DNA test doesn't lie she honestly owes that man an apology for the way she treated him when he wasn't the father to begin with. Talking about he made her look like a hoe no he didn't make her look like anything. The little girl is right it's not fair but the ones that come back is not being the father the mother is just as much to blame as the dad for not knowing who she slept with and then convincing their children that this other person is the bad one and doesn't care about them ! You need to know for sure before you start putting the stuff in your kid's head the mothers are hurting the children too. Grown up are supposed to protect children not give them The Choice to stay on stage and deal with adult things I don't care if they want to be on stage today are children they do not know what is best for them at this point. They're gonna have so many unresolved emotional mental issues it's not even funny and all these grown UPS contributed to it. Steven is a great man !! He would make a great dad if hes not already one !!
These kids were already thrown into this reality by their parents before the show. This gave the kids a safe space to speak with witnesses to the madness they deal with. I understand and appreciate your concern, but trust me, these kids have probably seen a lot behind closed doors. Kids deserve to have a voice, too.
Watching that little boy listen to these grown adults bicker and deny him drives me crazy! Now Steven that man is a Saint for what he did. God bless him✝️
Trevors mom IS TOTALLY at fault for her sons heartache. She doesn't even know who his father is and was mad at the wrong guy.. she shld be ashamed for putting that sweet boy thru that...
You can tell as Brittany was telling him her feelings, mark was just looking around at the audience purposely not looking at her ....he didn't give two flying birds about her .....that is so sad
"The dad giving a kidney to his sister" was the wackiest excuse I've ever heard. Sally's response was "I've heard men going out for cigarettes" Christopher's story was touching, his dad eventually stepped up and acknowledged his son.
This wouldn’t be allowed today, having little kids on stage is emotionally abusive! If it’s a much older teen, 16 and up perhaps, and they want to be there, then it’s okay.
These parents shld be ashamed. Just seeing a glimpse of the behaviors on stage,,i can only imagine whats said to them in private when theres not a huge audience
Isn't it crazy how much smarter children were back in the day and what they are now all they know now is how to turn on a TV game system or tablet anything else they don't know how to do it
@@baronvonboomboom4349 Thats still not an excuse to let the child be raised by bad habits. Either dedicate more time or get trustworthy people to babysit. Getting money for the child is only a fraction of taking care of it, you need to also make sure it's safe. You especially cant be surprised if the child is harmed or does something harmful if you don't take the time to guard them.
@Queen Strong if it's only a fraction take that fraction of money away you would get for those hours and see if you have enough to cover the bills..money is very important requires a lot of time and that's part of it even when you develop a profitable skill it still takes plenty of time and it's set up that way so parents can't influence their kids and the government wants school and tv and media to indoctrinate the kids into their way of thinking with the gay agenda etc etc
The 1st mother was so selfish for lying to her son, and no apology to the man she pinned her child on. Just "sign over your rights" which he has none. What about the money he wasted on her baby?
BOTH ARGUING infront of the child WTF!!!!!!!!!!! the man is denying his child infront of the child please the fuck tell me how that’s ok but arguing is not
These children should NOT have been put on national television to talk about these things… it’s going to traumatise them further
Kids are absolutely resilient, they wanted to be there, so quit acting like kids are so fragile, they bounce back easier than adults honestly.
I do think this was a bit extreme and probably traumatic for the kids, but generally speaking if we shield kids from every potentially hurtful or slightly uncomfortable situation, we’re doing them a huge disservice by not preparing them for life. We live in a cold, harsh world and you need a lot of resilience to get by. unfortunately that’s just the way it is.
Then 30 some years later they might come across it again here on CZcams.
Wow I can't believe they put the kids in this situation. I can't imagine how traumatic this must have been for them. Did the producers think this was really worth it for the ratings?
Children are permanently scarred by things like this
My father-in-law was a Vietnam Vet. He was injured in a way that he could never have biological children. He came into my husband's life when my husband was 12.
The last time we spoke before he passed away, he told me how proud he was of his son. ❤ He said, he didn't create my husband's biology, he created his spirit, which is far more important.
Why is anybody including Sally Bringing kids on stage for them to get into adult issues and for these men to sit there and deny these children to their faces ? That's dramatic that's hurting the children. It is the fathers Responsibility to help take care of his child but the mother has to do it too, Part of being a good parent is not dragging your children into adult issues that little boy should not know how much the child Support check was ever !!Absolutely breaks my heart to see these kids hurt so much ! DNA test doesn't lie she honestly owes that man an apology for the way she treated him when he wasn't the father to begin with. Talking about he made her look like a hoe no he didn't make her look like anything. The little girl is right it's not fair but the ones that come back is not being the father the mother is just as much to blame as the dad for not knowing who she slept with and then convincing their children that this other person is the bad one and doesn't care about them ! You need to know for sure before you start putting the stuff in your kid's head the mothers are hurting the children too. Grown up are supposed to protect children not give them The Choice to stay on stage and deal with adult things I don't care if they want to be on stage today are children they do not know what is best for them at this point. They're gonna have so many unresolved emotional mental issues it's not even funny and all these grown UPS contributed to it. Steven is a great man !! He would make a great dad if hes not already one !!
You are right about bringing kids on stage
These kids were already thrown into this reality by their parents before the show. This gave the kids a safe space to speak with witnesses to the madness they deal with. I understand and appreciate your concern, but trust me, these kids have probably seen a lot behind closed doors. Kids deserve to have a voice, too.
Agreed. So sad to see that poor boy being brought into adult situations.
@@madisonharkes226 that's true.
I agree
Watching that little boy listen to these grown adults bicker and deny him drives me crazy! Now Steven that man is a Saint for what he did. God bless him✝️
Those kids should never have been allowed on that stage.that’s too traumatic for a child to hear.
They had the kids on the stage?!? Jesus thats some trauma
Right? Absolutely terrible decision. Dr. Phil would have a stroke...
dr phil ain’t it
That’s how it was back in the 90’s…unfortunately 🙁 wrong on so many levels
Now the kid's are being raised on youtube & earning the family income, which is no better & actually a lot worse.
@@fredzzkidDr. Phil would have a stroke but not in the medical sense, know'msayin ✊🍆
Steven Was So Nice And Kind To Brittany!
OMG that doctor is a clone of Abraham Lincoln.
Why do they have these kids in the middle of this mess??
Lmfao! Maybe "I got drunk don't remember what happened"..... damn the days b4 maury.
Happy Leroy Wasn’t Trever’s Father!
I think Trever was also happy. He was smiling as soon as he heard the good news. Good for him and his real Dad! 👏
Too bad his mother was a liar wasting everyone's time.......
I hope these kids are all okay now.
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This is so traumatizing😩
Oh my god…. This poor child. This poor poor child.
I always knew these shows were trashy but this is the lowest of the low. Making young children go through this 😞😟
Why do they let these disputes go on. Paternity test
Wow the trauma. How was this Normal
That woman didn’t know lol
This is disgusting, how could they bring a child on to listen to this. Not watching this again it's horrible.
That guy who claims to be 27 years old, already looks like a 45 year old truck driving father of 4.
That first mom needs to shush let kid talk
I really thought the little girl Tara looked like that man!
Trevors mom IS TOTALLY at fault for her sons heartache. She doesn't even know who his father is and was mad at the wrong guy.. she shld be ashamed for putting that sweet boy thru that...
You can tell as Brittany was telling him her feelings, mark was just looking around at the audience purposely not looking at her ....he didn't give two flying birds about her .....that is so sad
Idk how I ended up on this video, but damn, child abuse for ratings!?!?
Turned my stomach.
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The show shouldn't have kids on stage with this type of issue it's emotionally abusive to t children
Shame on the fathers. Kids are traumatized, and wounded for life
If Mark was my son I would disown him.
These kids should NEVER had gone on stage. Shame on the Mothers and Sally.
Wait, that man is low key creepy to be bringing her cards lol
RIGHT
And then Sally gave him the girls address!😮 so he could mail her cards every year.
So their going to give that stRnge man their address to write out more cards !!???? Oh my that’s a big mistake
I feel so bad for Brittany. Poor baby 😢
I'm surprised that Mark didn't want to be in his daughter's life because his parents seem so sweet....
Never let a boyfriend talk you into getting pregnant
At least he had a father figure who wants to adopt him.
Poor kids
"The dad giving a kidney to his sister" was the wackiest excuse I've ever heard. Sally's response was "I've heard men going out for cigarettes"
Christopher's story was touching, his dad eventually stepped up and acknowledged his son.
This wouldn’t be allowed today, having little kids on stage is emotionally abusive! If it’s a much older teen, 16 and up perhaps, and they want to be there, then it’s okay.
These people are so much older now, I wonder where they are now? Britney would be about 32 now. Close to what her dad was on the show 27 years ago.
Aww kid hug
Today's Episode, "Paternity Tests 2".
Bringing children on the stage is a very bad decision. Very bad .
Why are the kids on stage for this 😢
If these women actually knew who the father is to thier kids....you wouldn't have to worry about the kids being in this bs
These parents shld be ashamed. Just seeing a glimpse of the behaviors on stage,,i can only imagine whats said to them in private when theres not a huge audience
What kind of father does that to a child
Today's Episode, "Paternity Updates 2".
What is the update on these kids......
The little girl looks like him
Me and my son are on here
My daughter got spare change from her daddy to like that and I think that's crappy
Dumb though tara gets cuddled like that.
Poor Tara she looks sad not taken care of
I thought that too until I saw the Mom. The Mom looks like that too. Either they are both malnourished or it's genetics. 🤷♀️
Isn't it crazy how much smarter children were back in the day and what they are now all they know now is how to turn on a TV game system or tablet anything else they don't know how to do it
What does it say then when it's these kids who raised the kids now?
Parents are getting lazier and letting the internet do the babysitting
@@KingStr0ng parents are also having to work harder nowadays and can't dedicate enough time to their kids or else they can't make ends meet.
@@baronvonboomboom4349 Thats still not an excuse to let the child be raised by bad habits. Either dedicate more time or get trustworthy people to babysit. Getting money for the child is only a fraction of taking care of it, you need to also make sure it's safe. You especially cant be surprised if the child is harmed or does something harmful if you don't take the time to guard them.
@Queen Strong if it's only a fraction take that fraction of money away you would get for those hours and see if you have enough to cover the bills..money is very important requires a lot of time and that's part of it even when you develop a profitable skill it still takes plenty of time and it's set up that way so parents can't influence their kids and the government wants school and tv and media to indoctrinate the kids into their way of thinking with the gay agenda etc etc
This show should not have put these kids in the in the middle of fairy adult video
That guy named Blowj*b feeling real cool, huh?
This power point presentation is on fleek brings backs memories of power point
My mom kept my father out of my life from the time I was 3 years old and I seen him for the first time was when I was 20 years old.
I wish I knew about my natural father
Anything for ratings!
That black couple look like sister and brother😅
Wow I thought I was the only one who saw that. The Girlfriend La'ron looks so similar to the Mother I thought she was her daughter.
They really do!
the first case : she really needs baby's daddy to pay the bills ....
Poor kid's face dropped
It's beyond pitiful and turns my stomach that these men are denying these beautiful gifts from God
The 1st mother was so selfish for lying to her son, and no apology to the man she pinned her child on. Just "sign over your rights" which he has none. What about the money he wasted on her baby?
Those 2 should have waited til marriage dena and bj
😭
Next: Brittany wanted a father.
Jeremy's dad is so cruel
Little girl is lucky not to have such a father in her life
Shame on those moms kids not married
I really don't like this! Why would they put the poor kids on the show to see them cry?! THEY ARE CHILDREN FFS!
BOTH ARGUING infront of the child WTF!!!!!!!!!!! the man is denying his child infront of the child please the fuck tell me how that’s ok but arguing is not
Sally was so wrong in having these poor little children on these shows. This s/have only been handled by the moms
Sally should be ashamed of herself for these shows. Disgusting
I'm so glad the grandparents stepped up
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