I Invited 30 Strangers to Sleepover at My House

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  • čas přidán 17. 07. 2021
  • At Discover Connection we make videos that explore the power of human connection. So today we decided to see if we could invite 20 strangers over for an epic adult sleepover and make some new friends in the process!
    Would you invite 20 strangers to sleep over at YOUR house?
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    Hosts: Brad Lancaster, Matt Mort, Liam MacCosham, Brooke Cord-Udy
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  • @DiscoverConnection
    @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +1797

    Did you guys recognize any familiar faces in this video? 🤔

    • @kiwizx
      @kiwizx Před 2 lety +93

      Mark!

    • @deee6095
      @deee6095 Před 2 lety +314

      My brother lol 😂

    • @kevinkaremera3083
      @kevinkaremera3083 Před 2 lety +89

      yeah the other guy on facetiming people. ......what's the name? ??mark I guess

    • @morisenouga1939
      @morisenouga1939 Před 2 lety +74

      That looks so fun and cool but don’t encourage people to do sleepovers with Total strangers 😹

    • @RickPep1986
      @RickPep1986 Před 2 lety +22

      The guy with the beard!

  • @sharkbate316
    @sharkbate316 Před 2 lety +3351

    Who else was completely shocked that the pool was indoor and not an outdoor?
    Also, this was the best episode yet.

    • @moahmedali1934
      @moahmedali1934 Před rokem +61

      Yess broooo😭😭😭💀 rich ass

    • @harrasika
      @harrasika Před rokem +61

      ​@@moahmedali1934 You say that like an outdoor pool isn't for rich people

    • @frederic6998
      @frederic6998 Před 10 měsíci +22

      it's in Vancouver, what would be the point of having an outdoor pool ?

    • @o.o9709
      @o.o9709 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@@moahmedali1934 an outdoor pool is even more rich since it uses more water

    • @Thepranksterbestfriend
      @Thepranksterbestfriend Před měsícem +1

      @@harrasikaneither is rich you can get both for the same price an indoor pool is more cooler since it’s indoor and you don’t gotta go outside both can come with the house your buying

  • @pdczrwnskz
    @pdczrwnskz Před 2 lety +5621

    The energy in this group is like they’ve know each other for decades.

    • @HittokiriBattousai17
      @HittokiriBattousai17 Před 2 lety +119

      Usually people care a lot in the first encounters, you know, the first impression thing.

    • @SmossyYT
      @SmossyYT Před rokem +68

      Literally what I was thinking. Whats crazy is you could probably make so many groups like this if people would just say yes "myself included" Im a hermit these days.

    • @goobdoy949
      @goobdoy949 Před rokem +11

      That's why they all said yes right?

    • @maxwellhunterr
      @maxwellhunterr Před rokem +14

      This reminds me of being on birth right in Israel. Meeting 20-30 people at an airport and then spending two weeks with them in a new country. Everyone's so ready to just hang out and have fun- this video really brought me back to that experience.

    • @cloudmabasa3299
      @cloudmabasa3299 Před rokem +8

      Strangers always have good conversations foreal

  • @kennethlove2884
    @kennethlove2884 Před 5 měsíci +407

    Imagine saying no, then watching everyone else having fun and making memories.

    • @thisguy7201
      @thisguy7201 Před měsícem +1

      Sucks to suck haha😂😂 I was just thinking the same thing

    • @milchael
      @milchael Před 24 dny +5

      Imagine saying no, then watching the news of a mass murder... s

    • @rafatoms5258
      @rafatoms5258 Před 24 dny +9

      @@milchael imagine say no and you got murdere wherever u are at night, and if u said yes you would be in this guys house and not get murdered :)

    • @thenewmdzak
      @thenewmdzak Před 19 dny

      @@rafatoms5258 Nice comeback dude

    • @jonasrendemannnelholt6076
      @jonasrendemannnelholt6076 Před 13 dny

      @@rafatoms5258 best comenack ever!

  • @Cannabails
    @Cannabails Před 7 měsíci +727

    as someone with terrible anxiety these videos are so inspirational and make me want to break out of my normal comfort zone

    • @darronmarcel3261
      @darronmarcel3261 Před 7 měsíci +17

      Samee but i always fail😭

    • @Cannabails
      @Cannabails Před 7 měsíci +26

      @@darronmarcel3261 the feeling usually last until I click off the video, so you're not alone

    • @darronmarcel3261
      @darronmarcel3261 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@Cannabails lol you're absolutely right yeah

    • @anabelramos7798
      @anabelramos7798 Před 7 měsíci +8

      you really will find connections in places you don’t expect, you just have to try and sustain those connections. i hope you and anyone else who’s looking for that finds it. i found my best friend in the world on an app where we were looking for roommates our freshman year of college, we both were perfect strangers who just had no one else to live with and in many ways we are nothing alike but it’s been 5 or 6 years and we’re still living together, never have found a closer bond with anyone. i have a horrible time connecting with people but you never know, the right people will find you and the other way around.

    • @KazukiFuse99
      @KazukiFuse99 Před 6 měsíci

      How??@@anabelramos7798I'm basically a hermit and can't open up to anybody. I always think people are judging me, laughing at me or trying to take advantage of me. I think it has to do with alot of previous experiences.

  • @kjy6130
    @kjy6130 Před 2 lety +3781

    Seeing all these adults with their bags and pillows is so wholesome lol I miss sleepovers

  • @ericludwig5854
    @ericludwig5854 Před 2 lety +5476

    THIS WAS THE BEST THING I'VE SEEN IN A LONG TIME.

  • @InspiredonYT
    @InspiredonYT Před rokem +104

    As an introvert, I can't decide if this is paradise or hell.

    • @guillietarlish577
      @guillietarlish577 Před 22 dny +7

      I’d probably climb out the bathroom window after a good 30 minutes

  • @itsdeionh
    @itsdeionh Před rokem +662

    man this really just goes to show that life really isn't that serious. like we're all just grown kids who enjoy hanging out, meeting new people, and just having a good time. This is so awesome and I wish I could partake in something like this

    • @Turnpost2552
      @Turnpost2552 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Winners can afford to win when they share the resources. This is nice but love untested makes nothing.

    • @horse7379
      @horse7379 Před 9 měsíci +1

      What is your definition of “serious”

    • @jayuk83
      @jayuk83 Před 4 měsíci +5

      I get you but this is also how people end up murdered. It’s cool that people like this exist, but you also have to be careful

    • @Blueice294
      @Blueice294 Před 4 měsíci

      @@jayuk83fr like that girl that was stuck in a basement under a man’s house in Ohio for 10 years taping her constantly she wrote it on a paper everytime he would untill one day he forgot to lock the door and the black guy next door sitting on the yard was like wtf is that sound 😭

    • @xGatorchomp28x
      @xGatorchomp28x Před dnem

      Badass comment

  • @ANDREWLEVITT
    @ANDREWLEVITT Před 2 lety +1479

    This is too wholesome

  • @devonharry4230
    @devonharry4230 Před 2 lety +830

    The guys who said alcohol are probably raging rn seeing this video especially since there friends went and had a fun time when they could've had one too. So satisfying

    • @jankolec7053
      @jankolec7053 Před 2 lety

      f them honestly

    • @thescout4313
      @thescout4313 Před rokem +37

      Those are the "cool" guys who end up with a sht job and have nothing to show for it

    • @jakobdieckmann
      @jakobdieckmann Před rokem +11

      With guys like that… different party…

  • @Aethelvlad
    @Aethelvlad Před 9 měsíci +464

    you guys somehow assembled the perfect friend group. this played out like a college movie where everyone has been friends since daycare.

  • @gercey3314
    @gercey3314 Před 11 měsíci +92

    growing up extremely sheltered, socially anxious, and depressed makes these kinds of things very difficult, if not impossible. Makes me feel even more alone than normal. These videos bring me joy and hope that one day I can get over my ingrained fears.

    • @danas5846
      @danas5846 Před 8 měsíci +8

      im in the same exact boat, it's super mentally draining. sorry to hear youve had the same experience :(

    • @Mihir_hun_vaii
      @Mihir_hun_vaii Před 6 měsíci +1

      same man

    • @haileykk1035
      @haileykk1035 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Same. Although I am surrounded by nice people, my social anxiety prevents ne from developing connection with them. I feel bad about this

    • @tjalling1489
      @tjalling1489 Před 3 měsíci

      You will. It's not imagined, it's very much chemical in a lot of cases. I never knew this, but now i do. Try something like Citalopram. It changed my life in ways i thought would never be possible.

    • @xGatorchomp28x
      @xGatorchomp28x Před dnem +1

      Let's do it!!! "Depressed Strangers from CZcams commment section meet up for sleepover party!!" 😄😄😁🥰

  • @kitsune747
    @kitsune747 Před 2 lety +319

    3:58 "I got Asian parents though" i feel him 😂

    • @Hshdjdjdhd
      @Hshdjdjdhd Před 2 lety +2

      yea....but...whats provided????

    • @rachelruthching8761
      @rachelruthching8761 Před 2 lety

      legit, This is me.. hahaha!! 😂😂 that’s why I had all my classmates sleepover in our house instead

  • @foxman482
    @foxman482 Před 2 lety +2408

    I like how you can tell people were drinking a little, but this wasn’t that type of party and they still had a really good time. You don’t need alcohol to have fun and this really proves it. Love the vids and the whole concept, keep it up

    • @andrewrudygalindo2646
      @andrewrudygalindo2646 Před 2 lety +10

      💯 absolutely!!!

    • @itstayayg193
      @itstayayg193 Před 2 lety +145

      So important.. sad alcohol is a necessity for adult gatherings nowadays

    • @F32Aidan
      @F32Aidan Před 2 lety +23

      @@itstayayg193 i’d say teen/young adult more than anything

    • @alexking2476
      @alexking2476 Před 2 lety +8

      I need it to have fun.

    • @adameves5970
      @adameves5970 Před 2 lety +103

      You contradicted yourself in your own comment.
      The alcohol is literally why everyone was able to have a good time. It allowed them to let their guard down and open up.
      You even said you could tell people were drinking, then you said this proves you don't need alcohol to have a good time. How do those two sentences line up? They don't. A party WITH alcohol in NO WAY can "prove" anything about a party without alcohol. You're missing half of the data that you are trying to compare.
      Quit being such a stooge and have a drink. Have some fun.

  • @allqueers
    @allqueers Před rokem +335

    What a great idea. I’m too introverted and stuck in my awkward ways to ever actually have the guts to do or join something like this ..
    but I love the idea! Great video.

    • @AML147
      @AML147 Před rokem +25

      Be brave. Gotta do it through the fear, trust me. I used to be more like that and would even cancel dates last minute because of my fears. I still have fears, but it's definitely easier to do the things anyway now :)

    • @josefarias111
      @josefarias111 Před rokem +7

      see now the catch is going out enough to be able to have these encounters too. If you're in your house all the time you can't really meet people in this way. I've been pushing myself out to bars/clubs as of late and have been making sure I at least talk to 2 people everytime i go out. I've gotten to meet some cool people and made some friendships thanks to it. You can always start by going out alone and meet people and grow a circle of friends that way. I try to think of it all in a game theory sense. If i don't go out and don't meet anyone I'll never meet anyone, but if i go out, there's a non-zero chance of meeting someone vs the zero % chance of meeting no one. Aka, even a 0.0001% chance is still greater than non-zero

    • @JoshGoblin
      @JoshGoblin Před 10 měsíci +2

      You can do it! Baby steps! As a fellow introvert I’ve painfully realized that no matter how much I tried to lie to myself that I don’t need to socialize, humans are social animals and it doesn’t need to be agonizing

    • @0000i1
      @0000i1 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Used to be a hermit, but then I met some real understanding lovely souls who boosted my confidence and helped me get better at the whole people thing. It's all about taking a leap of faith, and sure, it's gonna involve some trial and error 'cause the good ones aren't always easy to find. But, don't let a few rotten apples get you down. Look for local groups or clubs that align with your interests! The internet generally sucks, but it's great for finding things like this. It might feel tough at first, but once you get the hang of being social, you feel so much more alive and engaged with the world and the folks who share it with you. Godspeed!

    • @dukenukem7043
      @dukenukem7043 Před 9 měsíci +1

      u gotta stop taking yourself so seriously that’s the biggest thing to help loosen up around people

  • @MartiMcfly-mf9pq
    @MartiMcfly-mf9pq Před rokem +144

    I couldn’t help but laugh along with all of you and feel a sense of connection just by watching. When that one guy said “we should do this every weekend” it made me laugh but also feel as if this one night coulda been this night that brought them out again ❤️

    • @willvr4
      @willvr4 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I'd be genuinely curious to know if any of them actually kept in touch after this. Or if any of them would have even shown up if it wasn't being filmed for CZcams.

  • @AdamJBell
    @AdamJBell Před 2 lety +742

    "What's Provided?" bruh a great time will be provided 😅

    • @adrianpatricio5369
      @adrianpatricio5369 Před 2 lety +147

      Those guys were just golddigging i dont like that kind of ppl who went to parties and cant even pay for they drinks and expect the host to pay gor everything bro we are not kids anymore we can bring a 6pack/bottle and/ or 1 pack of cigarettes for your own consumption or to share

    • @somainswakadoad5684
      @somainswakadoad5684 Před 2 lety +125

      yeah im glad that guy didnt come he woulda started a fight or something because its all about him.

    • @NightOwlDev
      @NightOwlDev Před 2 lety +1

      @@adrianpatricio5369 well if you were asked to a sleepover by a random stranger wouldn’t you wanna know what would be there?

    • @adrianpatricio5369
      @adrianpatricio5369 Před 2 lety +74

      @@NightOwlDev that's not the way to ask for that information

    • @SaraiPrayer
      @SaraiPrayer Před 2 lety +45

      @@somainswakadoad5684 exactly he was only worried about what he could get out of it

  • @timothymallon
    @timothymallon Před 2 lety +1956

    And THAT'S how you make new friends! Damn...we did stuff like this in the late 80s and 90s when we were all aging out of highschool! So glad you guys can do this. I have been beginning to think that real connections like this were gone forever. So glad to see it's still alive! Keep it up

    • @DiscoverConnection
      @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +147

      I long for a time like that, that's the type of environment I am trying to bring back through this channel!
      Thank you Timothy 🙏🏼

    • @ArrowMaster_
      @ArrowMaster_ Před rokem +4

      @@DiscoverConnection wow you are so cool

    • @SmellMyOSINT
      @SmellMyOSINT Před rokem +20

      I’m 43 and i talk about the 80’s & 90’s like this all the time with my teens. Nowadays if you’re not online you no longer exist and can’t make new friendships without people judging you based on your photographs and a few sentences behind a keyboard. ❤

    • @linal3489
      @linal3489 Před rokem +10

      I wish there were social groups like this where strangers can gather together and meet each other for the first time. It's so hard to make new friends where I live.... :/

    • @gercey3314
      @gercey3314 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@linal3489 saaaaaame

  • @RotmgCRTY
    @RotmgCRTY Před rokem +136

    This is honestly one of the most wholesome things I've seen in ages, fair play to you fellas for organising all of this!

  • @marquesmorgan7297
    @marquesmorgan7297 Před rokem +16

    @2:09 the guy is wearing a Where The Party At shirt, but they literally told him where the party is at and he declined.

    • @zonda1065
      @zonda1065 Před 23 dny

      this comment is so underrated 😂

  • @commander20
    @commander20 Před 2 lety +892

    Why am I so happy right now?
    I legit want to be asked a question like that but just watching it made me cry (tears of happiness of course)

    • @DiscoverConnection
      @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +91

      I wish more people in the world started interacting like this! Imagine there were more opportunities that happened like this 🙆🏼‍♂️

    • @commander20
      @commander20 Před 2 lety +18

      @@DiscoverConnection yeah it would be amazing I mean, a sleepover with strangers sounds like the best day of my life, next time do a bbq party or just celebrate your birthday with strangers (or maybe their birthday) maybe saying yes to everything for 24 hours, I'm sorry I'm just trying to come up with some ideas I know it's hard

    • @tlotlosenai7304
      @tlotlosenai7304 Před 2 lety +2

      I love your channel name 😊

    • @commander20
      @commander20 Před 2 lety +2

      @@tlotlosenai7304 thanks I love yours

    • @kitentrent521
      @kitentrent521 Před 2 lety +1

      Feeling the same way ❤️

  • @thedarknightme
    @thedarknightme Před 2 lety +2256

    I am currently at the lowest point of my life. This video made me feel a little bit better. Please don’t stop doing things like this.

    • @Glim246
      @Glim246 Před 2 lety +77

      Please find someone to talk to, you don't have to suffer alone. If you don't feel comfortable talking to people IRL find support online. You deserve to find some peace in your life.

    • @charlesberkeley6429
      @charlesberkeley6429 Před 2 lety +26

      Love ya bud

    • @bgestradan88
      @bgestradan88 Před 2 lety +20

      Hope you are doing good today

    • @laughteraddict1003
      @laughteraddict1003 Před 2 lety +7

      Me too

    • @humanbean3
      @humanbean3 Před 2 lety

      just remember. bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks. you'll be ok big fella

  • @sozio1124
    @sozio1124 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Honestly I get the people who said no. It really does sound like a scam

  • @rauldelarosa2768
    @rauldelarosa2768 Před rokem +19

    I'd probably never have the guts to do something like this.. but I commend you for seeking to get people to make connections.. it's such a lonely world out there ...this is inspiring to me.

  • @Tocata
    @Tocata Před 2 lety +661

    Commenting for the algorithm, great video!

  • @dustin600
    @dustin600 Před 2 lety +569

    As someone who suffers from pretty severe social anxiety. I've always said that I hate people, but I love watching these types of videos. Which makes me want feel some type of human connection. Which makes me realize I don't hate people. I'm just terrified of meeting people and even getting to know people I know. This feeling really suck.

    • @JOVANI7919
      @JOVANI7919 Před 2 lety +29

      Probably won’t see this. But take an MBTI test (16 personalities) and learn about the way you are wired and perceive things.
      Im an “INTP” always found it difficult to socialize or fit in… never really understood why I felt that way, but I learned a lot from figuring out my personality type and looking at some videos of how we can overcome that social trauma.

    • @UnityRaids
      @UnityRaids Před 2 lety +6

      @@JOVANI7919 Thank you for the advice.

    • @glitched_bg3344
      @glitched_bg3344 Před 2 lety +2

      @@JOVANI7919 Im also An Intp 😂

    • @JOVANI7919
      @JOVANI7919 Před 2 lety +2

      @@glitched_bg3344 There is a pretty good channel I bumped into awhile back "INTP Survival Guide" he is pretty much spot on of my exact thought process and the issues we face as INTP's when it comes to our inferior social traits. I found his ti-si loop of death video quite interesting

    • @debburollish6387
      @debburollish6387 Před 2 lety +4

      I also have anxiety because I have no motivation to talk to strangers and barely my family and friends. I've recently done market research where I was forced to ask strangers about my product and it felt different, and leagues easier to walk up to people because I had a motivation/starting thought already in my mind on WHY I needed to talk to people. With relationships it is a bit more difficult I will agree, because the WHY is very personal in that you want a connection with someone.

  • @crimeworld6214
    @crimeworld6214 Před rokem +8

    This put a smile on my face man It’s nice to see people actually coming together and having fun nowadays people are always on there phone no one really goes out there way to meet new people

  • @GhostFaceisHigh
    @GhostFaceisHigh Před rokem +2

    thank you for doing this. i havent really connected with anyone for 15 years... i have severe social anxiety and with my dad passing during covid crisis(not from covid but cancer) it shut me down even more . i dont hardly leave my house . but great to see someone else spreading this around! its deffinintly needed ! wish one day i could be part of such an event lol

  • @Rygoat
    @Rygoat Před 2 lety +1011

    As someone who isolated themselves for years and has ended up with no circle of friends I'm envious of this experience/event you guys did. Everyone was on equal footing not knowing other people, so there isnt that feeling of automatically being a third wheel to pre-established friendships

    • @krzysztofmedyna3661
      @krzysztofmedyna3661 Před 2 lety +43

      As someone who was previously a complete extrovert and as I aged noticed a strong growth in being more introverted (social time drains me more than it used to, no matter the company) I had some thoughts and feelings to share with you.
      First off, this is all from the personal experience of my anecdotal armchair, but I'm sharing it in case you may find something helpful that applies to you.
      Secondly: Your comment suggests a pretty extreme level of isolation for you to lose any existing relationships (Please correct me if I'm wrong). I obviously don't know if that's the degree you meant, but if it is, it usually is attached to other variations of heavy shit. I've had my share of what I'd consider "dark" but over the years I've managed to keep the people around me in the dark on many levels (casual, professional etc).
      Generally speaking: If I didn't start getting help to sort out that part of my emotions and behavior, I'd be a VERY different person today. Assess your personal realm, and I mean that by your own "safe space comfort + habits" and choices and how damaging they end up for what you intrinsically want. Reading this may feel counterintuitive but you may not realize what you've done to keep people away for the sake of them noticing how you are treating yourself and living your own life.
      I'm not privy with youtube chats and shit, but if there's a way to directly msg me, please feel free. I'd be happy to chat further. Wishing you well.

    • @freezedeve3119
      @freezedeve3119 Před rokem +11

      @@krzysztofmedyna3661 i have been isolating almost 3 years and only people i meet are delivery drivers who bring my groceries, i am not really missing people, somehow i ended up with people who were not so positive so better to be without them.

    • @jesusisking3814
      @jesusisking3814 Před rokem +4

      We all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ to pay the penalty for us, so that we may have everlasting life. Now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and you will you be saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read Bible, pray for Jesus to reveal Himself to you and change you, seek to do what is right according to the Bible. Much love and God bless.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed Před 10 měsíci +6

      @Rygoat & @@freezedeve3119 If either of you are a dude who lives in the US (or a few other places in the world) I hope you'll look into an organization called F3 and see if they have any chapters in your area. It's an early morning men's workout group. No cost and no commitment. You just show up. Early morning might sound rough but if you don't have quality male friends, the kind who wake up early to work out with other men are the kind worth having.

    • @nefariox
      @nefariox Před 10 měsíci

      You alright mate? 😅

  • @chathuryachandralal3074
    @chathuryachandralal3074 Před 2 lety +284

    I love seeing things I wanna do but too afraid to do it

    • @DiscoverConnection
      @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +45

      That's how I felt until I started to do them more often! It gets easier over time 😄

    • @highvibefreqzshow5967
      @highvibefreqzshow5967 Před 2 lety +4

      What I do is simply acknowledge that as the thought and subsequent feeling that it is and nothing more. They are valid and worthy of their momentary very brief existence which is why I acknowledge them, and BE with them when they do arise. Then I do whatever it is that triggered the thought to begin with ignoring the thoughts and feelings if they just so happen to stick around as I've already acknowledged them and sat with them for a moment, however long that may be you'll just know. Let them get the best of you the opportunity to take action will be missed. Funny thing is, they never seem to stick around throughout the act. In fact, they dissolve rather quickly usually the first few seconds within taking action, but they are welcome to stick around throughout the entirety of the act if they ever were to do so. At the point of taking action it really no longer matters if they stay or go.
      Forgive the mind and body, take the position of being their guide and witness, don't take them personally nor seriously, just take them sincerely. Be a loving guide for them proving to them that you are a trustworthy loving guide after all and eventually those type of thoughts and feelings will fade entirely as it all becomes more and more a familiar type of act for you. Everything when unfamiliar or uncertain seems to call us forth from us to be cautious (attentive to what seems unknown) and therefore, fully present. Taking action doesn't require thought so no need to over think things. In my direct experience over thinking leads to missed opportunities.
      This works for me, and I only share that it may be helpful for you, but if it doesn't work for you know that is perfectly okay too. Seek the source of your deepest longing, your (spiritual) heart already knows.
      May the peace that cannot be understood, unconditional love, and endless bliss be yours...as it already is, but may you remember that it is your true nature!

    • @davidpinontoan3429
      @davidpinontoan3429 Před 2 lety +2

      You heard of the leap of faith

  • @homeslice1958
    @homeslice1958 Před rokem +7

    Gotta love people like this that pursue Connection in the face of fear and control.
    It looks like they had an awesome time, and everyone made some new friends!

  • @johnnytheyoungmaestro
    @johnnytheyoungmaestro Před 11 měsíci +9

    This was such a wonderful video to watch. You have a fantastic philosophy that everyone needs to come together now more than ever, because we have made it through one of the most difficult times we have ever seen. I'm happy to see that you guys had a great time, and I hope you kept a connection with some, if not all of the people you invited. Fantastic video! :)

  • @Ivansworld247
    @Ivansworld247 Před 2 lety +164

    Everybody who said no is now regretting that they said no 😂

  • @Dankster8814
    @Dankster8814 Před 2 lety +794

    This is the first video that I see from you.. Wish I had discovered you soner and I hope that you ll make a video with Yes Theory someday

    • @DeibertLandon
      @DeibertLandon Před 2 lety +39

      He used to work for Yes Theory! Edited their videos for 5 months

    • @fojemo1661
      @fojemo1661 Před 2 lety +34

      You can immediately see that Yes Theory connection, since he worked for them before.

    • @ezralu2911
      @ezralu2911 Před 2 lety

      Yo no wonder this videos are kinda similar vibes with Yestheory XD

  • @MBergyman
    @MBergyman Před 11 měsíci +8

    Such good vibes in this video - I appreciate the effort and mental strength it takes to be outgoing and persuasive like this.

  • @sahrafongkee
    @sahrafongkee Před rokem +1

    This is exactly what I needed to see today 🖤 thank you for what you do, we truly need that human connection 🙏💕

  • @rukichimoshini
    @rukichimoshini Před 2 lety +1384

    The guy who said "covid" is literally hanging out with other people on a beach.. I mean.. what the fuck?

    • @14kolbster
      @14kolbster Před 2 lety +123

      He’s Chad

    • @thedarkerman3406
      @thedarkerman3406 Před 2 lety +70

      That's completely different bro. They're not in as much of an enclosed placed such as his house

    • @rukichimoshini
      @rukichimoshini Před 2 lety +69

      @@thedarkerman3406 the point is that the fact that he said "covid" and he's outside with other people, completely nullify his argument. I mean, he's on the beach having fun... He's not working, studying or something like that.. the amount of people doesn't matter for this issue.

    • @thedarkerman3406
      @thedarkerman3406 Před 2 lety +62

      @@rukichimoshini It does lmao, he's with a group of people he KNOWS. He can trust they're safe plus they were isolated no one was near them

    • @rukichimoshini
      @rukichimoshini Před 2 lety +15

      @@thedarkerman3406 oh, and they're without a mask xD

  • @techorigin9624
    @techorigin9624 Před 2 lety +690

    I can't even make one friend and this dude literally manages to have 20 strangers over for a sleepover

  • @javiergutierrez8031
    @javiergutierrez8031 Před rokem +5

    Every single video i have watched so far has had me grinning from ear to ear. Don't stop connecting... You guys are amazing people and the world does need more of this. I hope I get to travel and do as much as you guys one day. Stay safe guys ! (:

  • @jameslawson2663
    @jameslawson2663 Před rokem +3

    I love this. This brought tears to my eyes seeing people acting like people again.much love

  • @Todes21
    @Todes21 Před 2 lety +356

    In like 2-3 years hes gonna have half his countrys phone numbers

    • @DiscoverConnection
      @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +32

      That would be wild 😅

    • @solacegone
      @solacegone Před 2 lety +8

      He’s literally going to be friends with everyone

    • @GuardianTiger
      @GuardianTiger Před 2 lety +1

      @@DiscoverConnection The maybe the world! Too much? Yeah.. haha! Love your videos! I hope your safe and well!

  • @mark.manalo23
    @mark.manalo23 Před 2 lety +351

    “I have Asian parents though”
    God I can relate so much to that 😅 but this video was super wholesome! Love to see this type of positive energy and connection in a world filled with negativity.

    • @leopera1015
      @leopera1015 Před 2 lety +10

      @Vi5oC4n3 I’m guessing it’s because Asian kids don’t typically have sleepovers and many even have curfews well into early years of adulthood (imagine you need to be back at home by 11pm on a New Year’s Eve party)

    • @lordgallo4213
      @lordgallo4213 Před 2 lety +3

      @@leopera1015 return home by 11pm on a new years eve !! Woah you are lucky. For me, return home by 8pm and I am a male. If its female, return home before dark. And no drinking. Big no no. 😁😁😁

    • @memewithinameme35
      @memewithinameme35 Před 2 lety +2

      @@lordgallo4213 as an adult??? either you want to keep family harmony, listen to your parents/family unconditionally, or are underage lol.

    • @iZkingzz
      @iZkingzz Před 2 lety

      Im asian and i go home whenever and i can do sleepovers also. My parents werent born in the states too. Im lucky lol.

    • @usagiprincess4387
      @usagiprincess4387 Před 2 lety +5

      @@memewithinameme35 It’s kind of like if you live with them, you have to abide by their rules even if you’re over 18. And in some cultures you’re expected to live with your parents til you get married, or if you’re a married man, you’re expected to live with your parents and take care of them. A lot of us don’t mind though, maybe it’s how we were raised but we don’t mind the rules or living with/taking care of our parents.

  • @normishabrewer2069
    @normishabrewer2069 Před rokem +11

    This legit reminded me I have no friends and I need to diversify😒 I've been tossing up moving somewhere new where I know absolutely no one for years and this is highly encouraging. I swear the older you get the more you realize societies job is to break you into conforming. People like you guys actually exist and I'm not alone. Never really thought about Canada for relocating but it's definitely in the toss up list for me at this point🥰🤗 God bless and sending prayers of love, compassion, longevity, understanding and prosperity your guys way. I've been raising my nephew since he was 3 months and he's now 6. One thing I preach constantly to him is don't allow this world to dim your light and you guys are proof of why no matter all the hate that is infecting this world he should still strive to put his best foot forward and do what he can. Thank you guys so much for the encouragement 🖤 I seriously feel like I've know everyone of you and everyone you come in contact with my whole life. Safe travels and I love you all 😚🤗🥰

    • @Tryzesdent
      @Tryzesdent Před rokem

      What you said really reminds me of myself, I too have no friends because I move so much. I was from originally Canada and then I moved to USA Maryland to Oklahoma to Iowa to Ohio lol. I grew up in a Christian home and I'm a pastors kid, well adult now. But ya I kinda just gave up finding people because I move so much. anyways hope you're doing well now, many love

  • @DinaMadi23
    @DinaMadi23 Před 4 měsíci +2

    You guys are so inspiring! Kudos for constantly getting out of your comfort zone to pursue CONNECTION and create so much fun and joy ❤

  • @jhonravengacutina5481
    @jhonravengacutina5481 Před 2 lety +477

    This channel needs to post more often, its so hard to wait on this kind of kind of content the beauty & the wholesomeness is 100%, its hard but its worth it.

    • @dawergames
      @dawergames Před 2 lety +28

      You dont have to wait, make your on party with strangers. 😛🤣

    • @nbacourtside6161
      @nbacourtside6161 Před 2 lety +1

      Distance Makes the heart grow fonder

    • @DiscoverConnection
      @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +27

      @@dawergames Yesss more parties with strangers 🙌🏼

    • @DiscoverConnection
      @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +38

      Thank you for being patient with us ❤️ We're working on getting content out more often!

    • @robertochill9629
      @robertochill9629 Před 2 lety +2

      This kind of contents are hard to come by.

  • @chaosthedark
    @chaosthedark Před 2 lety +651

    Thats cool, I really liked how innocent it all was.
    Initially I would also think sex party or like a cult trying to murder people. But you pulled it off and it genuinely looked like a great time.

    • @whoshotya117
      @whoshotya117 Před 2 lety +88

      Having the woman with him also helped make it less threatening. If it was just him I dont think he'd have the success rate he did.

    • @thelegalmexican9860
      @thelegalmexican9860 Před rokem +12

      @@whoshotya117 imagine what would happen if it was 2 guys or even 3

    • @ChrisM-qo1jc
      @ChrisM-qo1jc Před rokem +31

      yeah no it's very strange. if someone comes up to you, even after watching this you should still say no. It's not about being rude, it's about being safe. They can get you drunk and harvest your organs or do whatever to you while you sleep. There are lots of steps in making friends before a random sleepover

    • @DLister321
      @DLister321 Před rokem +14

      Yeah you could see the reactions were very different when they stopped saying adult sleepover lol

    • @destroyermaker
      @destroyermaker Před rokem +6

      Maybe it became a sex party and they turned the cameras off for that part

  • @testuser8386
    @testuser8386 Před rokem +9

    This is really heartwarming to see man. Covid detached me from my social environment pretty hard, especially since I moved to a new city right before it all started.
    Were you having alcohol during the party?
    I can't drink due to a medical condition and often feel like missing out on the spontaneity it brings about in people. I live in a country where people are relatively introverted and where alcohol use is a focal point during parties. When I join friends during late nights out I feel like I am weirding others out being sober amidst everyone else being tipsy (or drunk).

  • @boazon2049
    @boazon2049 Před 21 dnem +2

    Being a serious introvert, the world really never changed during Covid for me. I’m happy being in my house with my family. That’s all I need.

  • @RemnantAmen
    @RemnantAmen Před 2 lety +86

    Something like this where nobody knows anyone creates a environment where everyone can just be themselves and enjoy the moments. I'm glad I came across this

    • @IL_Bgentyl
      @IL_Bgentyl Před 2 lety +7

      Until you get that person who has an abrasive personality.

    • @RemnantAmen
      @RemnantAmen Před 2 lety +3

      @@IL_Bgentyl yeah there's always the one 😆

  • @thatboywags
    @thatboywags Před 2 lety +60

    I absolutely love the fact that you keep bringing past people from older videos into the new ones. Just shows that the connections you make really do last

  • @emevillasenor
    @emevillasenor Před rokem +3

    There is a big difference between smiling and laughing... this video made me smile, it made me happy, what a good experience that was.

  • @DevOne420
    @DevOne420 Před rokem +12

    Such a beautiful thing you all are doing. These videos bring so much hope and joy into many of our lives. Keep up the amazing work and hope to see some of this energy emulated around the world =-)

  • @vaishakhkv8253
    @vaishakhkv8253 Před 2 lety +41

    2:47 she's definitely a subscriber of Yes theory. Lol that yes was so quick

  • @FallenSide
    @FallenSide Před 2 lety +125

    You guys are reminding what is life with a different way...and i haven't seen yet anyone doing stuff like that... huge respect for all of this..we wanted this!❤️

  • @audreylenardo7077
    @audreylenardo7077 Před rokem +47

    I think it's awesome that you guys were able to do this! I'd really want to be able to reach out more to strangers and connect with people like this, but its really challenging to do it by yourself. Especially being a female, I find it really intimidating to go up to strangers and try to connect with them. I was curious to know how you guys came together to create this channel and any advice you'd give for those that are trying to connect with people in this way.

    • @-_James_-
      @-_James_- Před rokem +4

      I think most guys would be more open to being approached than most women.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@-_James_- While this is undoubtedly true it is largely for physical safety reasons and those reason apply as the approachee as well, though perhaps a bit reduced. From a physically intimidating and safety perspective being a female would make this much harder if she doesn't have safe guy friends to do it with.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed Před 10 měsíci +4

      That being said if you were a guy without a gal friend trying to do this it would just fail every time. You would maybe get one or two guys who really like board games, but no gal would ever say "yes" and far fewer men would.

    • @loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397
      @loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397 Před 9 měsíci

      If you're a woman and want to approach people, especially men, get a knife or gun, you will feel much safer approaching them.

    • @mythmaker6968
      @mythmaker6968 Před 5 měsíci

      For sure, if you want a mixed crowd you need a mixed team doing the invites@@ZIbroweed

  • @DoodleBricks
    @DoodleBricks Před rokem +1

    That was so lovely to watch! I adore stuff like this. As an extrovert who thrives off of being around good company and meeting new people, this looks like heaven to me! Love that there are people in the world doing fantastic stuff like this ❤

  • @LittleBlueAngelDuck
    @LittleBlueAngelDuck Před 2 lety +47

    "Either we meet new friends or we gonna get robbed." Well, I guess either way someone's gonna be happy... Don't rob people, folks!
    I'd say, honestly I wouldn't do this because I don't know if I would just trust some stranger who invited me into their house. I Know, not everyone has bad intentions and being open can really lead to wonderful surprises (found my college friends that way). So, even if I'm a little bit cautious about this, there are people who are perfectly fine with a situation like this and this is ok too. Everyone is different.

  • @Kyroke048
    @Kyroke048 Před 2 lety +51

    Seeing this kind of videos make me feel weirdly happy...
    I love it!

  • @spencertanh8702
    @spencertanh8702 Před rokem

    Man that was too awesome. Hella good vibes with everyone meeting each other for the first time. As the night continued, looks like they been friends for a long time. Real good video

  • @gamegeekx
    @gamegeekx Před 8 měsíci +2

    6:04 If you ever need to cry. I was in little tears hearing all this. As a complete loner with very few friends, hearing this cheered me up. Hoping, I could do better like what you guys do in your videos.

  • @MichelleKMann
    @MichelleKMann Před 2 lety +69

    Honestly the vibration is so high and everyone seems to be smiling and getting along. This is freaking awesome.

  • @Lea-gx1hz
    @Lea-gx1hz Před 2 lety +39

    I can’t help crying in front of your videos. You truly make the world a better place everytime you post!

  • @TheArtist441
    @TheArtist441 Před rokem +3

    Awesome video guys!! This makes me think of my own behaviour after the pandemic. I used to be much more social before, but I'm a lot less now. I get out a loss less than before. It certainly changed my social life for the worst, and I'm sure many others too

  • @maybesketh
    @maybesketh Před rokem

    Wow, it's amazing what you do. Just from a glance at the comments I can tell this helped lots of people. Now that Covid's starting to die down people can make more connections.

  • @DalshyTech
    @DalshyTech Před 2 lety +131

    I'm not a super social person but this was warming and looked really awesome and fun :)

  • @bomb_eyesss
    @bomb_eyesss Před 2 lety +33

    Man I had tears in my eyes. What an incredible experience I would love to be a part of something like this! People truly forget what it’s like to have fun without drinking and doing drugs so well done guys 😊

  • @Jesusisthewaythetruthandlife33

    This is so bold and beautiful, thanks for your courage to seek the connection it was so fun to watch

  • @jonengler2056
    @jonengler2056 Před rokem

    I love how you're trying to make the world a more beautiful place, because we need more raw connections in our daily lives ❤️😝 one love brotha

  • @cyntee6343
    @cyntee6343 Před 2 lety +114

    As a person with almost no friends I love watching you videos and am glad to see you get the chance to put out another one lol really made me smile on a day when I was feeling down haha thanks man! good videos and look forward to more

  • @jaimecapell23
    @jaimecapell23 Před 2 lety +43

    I had been waiting for new content, Brad. Not many channels can say that.

  • @Psicodelico84-se7rj
    @Psicodelico84-se7rj Před 6 měsíci

    Years ago I wanted this but didnt have the confidence. Now im older with a family. I congratulate you for having this outlook on life. Also, its great that you inspire people to come out of their shell, and provide friendship to the friendless.

  • @sandidandy72
    @sandidandy72 Před 7 měsíci

    Through connection, worldview, mutuality, and moving toward together…. There is absolutely nothing we can’t achieve in our human experience. So thrilled to have encountered your channel. Let’s connect! 🎉❤😊

  • @Vaecord91
    @Vaecord91 Před 2 lety +57

    I'm sure it's all been said in the comments but, this kind of thing is really important. I wish I had a house with a pool so I could get my coworkers together to do this

  • @KVrma26
    @KVrma26 Před 2 lety +3

    A massive thank you to all the people working behind the scenes on camera, editting and everything in between. I wish I could hug the people when they were searching for people and being turned down.

  • @teresakatrinak8158
    @teresakatrinak8158 Před rokem +1

    I loved this!!! What a wonderful memory for each of them. 😊

  • @flowwithbo1441
    @flowwithbo1441 Před 2 lety +6

    Watching these makes me feel full and warm , can definitely feel the love energy being pushed out thru these videos and get togethers, it’s amazing ! Keep doing what u do brother & sister ! We are one , let’s rise in love all of humanity !

  • @dineomaupa4365
    @dineomaupa4365 Před 2 lety +12

    The world needs more people like you guys, stay blessed🥰

  • @30Star1
    @30Star1 Před rokem

    Hello dear friend, I am an Iranian. I really love your video from the bottom of my heart and maybe I can say that it is the first video in my life that made me feel so good, even though it was a foreign culture for me, but the most beautiful thing about our communication is being together and being close. Thank you very much for this good feeling

  • @ash.mystic
    @ash.mystic Před 11 měsíci

    What a fun project and party! I’m very into Authentic Relating Games so it is so wonderful to see this wholesome goodness on CZcams. It’s a breath of fresh air. Wonderful and inspiring work!

  • @gamingspartan9302
    @gamingspartan9302 Před 2 lety +68

    I know for a fact this will be on a daily dose of internet

  • @chriismurphy
    @chriismurphy Před 2 lety +9

    this deserves to blow up, wow. I've watched Yes Theory a while and loved the seek discomfort ideology, and you have also totally embraced it in your own unique way. Cheers, you've earned a dedicated new sub :)

  • @Groove328
    @Groove328 Před rokem

    This video brought me so much joy! Well done on teeing something this random up and making it all about human connection 👏

  • @holdthemicrophone
    @holdthemicrophone Před rokem

    Subscribed. This is one of the gnarliest things I've seen in a while. Wish Ida been there!

  • @ashuwab8489
    @ashuwab8489 Před 2 lety +4

    I absolutely love this channel! It genuinely makes me so happy and I almost tear up! It's just a channel filled with sweet people and amazing vibes! Thank you so much for these videos! I and so many others absolutely love it!
    As someone who's more on the socially anxious and inept side, it almost just makes me wanna just get out there and experience some new stuff!

  • @bryanmartin_
    @bryanmartin_ Před 2 lety +5

    Probably the best thing CZcams algorithm bring to me for this day. This seems like the best thing I've seen for the long time. The happiness and vibes everybody have on this video is awesome! Great video. You always come up with something so spectacular, that's awesome!

  • @Yorhosashi
    @Yorhosashi Před rokem

    this was such wholesome video to watch!
    thanks for making this, i can really use this good and positive energy
    and it means a lot for me today.🙏

  • @josemhenriquezm
    @josemhenriquezm Před 4 měsíci

    This is the second video of yours I watched and I feel the connection man. You guys are nice people.

  • @orlyagawin2786
    @orlyagawin2786 Před 2 lety +15

    It’s nice to see you pushing through with new projects after the pandemic.I just realized how much I missed your videos in your continuing passion for human connections.Keep on keeping on team.Stay safe healthy, And connecting

    • @DiscoverConnection
      @DiscoverConnection  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for the support ❤️ We're going to be working on getting more stories out soon !

  • @alexanderesteves6457
    @alexanderesteves6457 Před 2 lety +8

    This is so INSPIRING! Love the energy and overall vibe. This has me motivated even further to find creative ways to build on the human connection any and everywhere. Thank You so much for this!

  • @Rahul_Rao_001
    @Rahul_Rao_001 Před rokem

    This is the best video I've seen this year.
    So, Thankyou .

  • @heidip5042
    @heidip5042 Před 2 měsíci

    LOVED THIS!!! Convid was so horrible and scary and I cant believe so many people showed up. Thats crazy but also amazing that people showed up and it turned out to be an amazing night it seems like it

  • @JosefaTejeda
    @JosefaTejeda Před 2 lety +39

    i discovered your channel today and i'm really sad to see you haven't posted in a long time, love your videos i've been binge watching all afternoon

  • @aimhigh2341
    @aimhigh2341 Před 2 lety +5

    It was so awesome! Especially I'm so shy of talking with strangers but deep inside of me I love to have a lot of friends and have such an amazing experience like that. Can't help, tears of joy while watching your video guys.

  • @blazedmoose1432
    @blazedmoose1432 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Man this is one of the best videos I swear. Something about everyone’s kid like happiness just warms my soul

  • @msinaanc
    @msinaanc Před 9 měsíci +1

    What a hearth worming video. Felt the love through the screen. Yey go humanity!!

  • @lemonbreezy1
    @lemonbreezy1 Před 2 lety +3

    Very underrated channel, it just brings me so much warmth watching these guys show that you can literally connect with anyone, its just so amazing, keep this up its awesome 😄

  • @austinsargent3980
    @austinsargent3980 Před 2 lety +7

    Wish this would happen more often in different cities. People definitely need to learn to connect with each other again.

  • @ganprottas6259
    @ganprottas6259 Před měsícem

    That looked like so much fun, Brad! Connections are what make the world go around! You never know what gesture can change someone's life forever!

  • @christianfuenteshenriquez8431

    Duuuuude... this is so awesome, i think this is what people needs to be less stress and to feel more comfortable you guys are admirable.