Cole from Love Is Blind tells us EVERYTHING that went wrong with him and Zanab | M.O.M | Episode 4
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- Marriage or Mirage - Episode 4: Another exciting episode on Marriage or Mirage because we have Netflix: Love Is Blind Season 3 star Cole Barnett, and he spoke about EVERYTHING. If you are a Love Is Blind fan, this episode is jampacked, explaining play-by-play regarding Cole and Zanab's relationship. Cole got a chance to talk about life before Love Is Blind, the pods, after the pods, the reunion, AND life after the reunion. We didn't leave any questions unasked, so get ready to hear every critical detail of this social experiment and how Cole felt throughout the significant moments on the show!
The more Cole goes on these shows and talks, the better he looks. Love the depth of this interview. Don't give the producers too much credit though, they didn't feel bad - they aired the cuties scene because it was great tv.
They aired it because Zenab implicated them in her claims. It would have looked really bad on them if they had not aired something that would have proved that Cole was an abuser.
I agree and he keeps getting more comfortable in interviews as well! The first one I saw he was still holding back a bit and seemed afraid to say the wrong thing, but now he’s just keeping it real and is showing himself to be more mature than we thought on the show
@@susannahammond2033 are you saying that the cuties scene confirmed Zanab's allegations?
@@by_ednafelicitathink she’s saying the opposite. Zanab kept saying the producers gave Cole a good edit as if they kept abusive behavior out the show on purpose. So they aired it to let the audience decide and they also had to know the clip was not as bad as Zanab claimed it was.
@@susannahammond2033 She’s the type of girl that would claim assault.
If they thought the cutie incident was him body shaming her.
She spoke more about Colleen looks more than cole, she asked cole who’s his type.
I love how she painted him so immature and he’s so dang mature and just likes to have fun. More mature then most of the people on show.
Agree!!
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Lol he’s not that mature. I don’t hate him, but he made numerous comments in the show that don’t exactly paint him as a mature individual. The remarks he made about not dating nurses, a bad butt being a deal breaker and Zanab’s breasts being something he announced right away. From episode one I caught a weird vibe. With that being said Zanab has some major issues. Both of them are fucked tbh.
@@maddyharvey7414 you also have to consider there was someone asking him a series of questions and then they cut and air certain parts of his answers where ever they want to… so of coarse he said it.. but imagine being asked what’s the best physical attraction to Z? And then he says the boob answer in fun.. and then they just air that part wherever… it tv y’all!!! Most of the solo interview parts are answering questions the producers ask..
@@maddyharvey7414 when did the butt and boob comments happen? I don't remember that and the butt thing sounds like something he would have half heartedly said.
*His absolute best Interview, the Lord is gonna bless this guy so much u can literally hear how pure of a soul this guy is*
Cole deserves all the good things, and he seems to have a bright future ahead of him. I'm rooting from him.
Agree!!
he is so incredibly insightful and intentional in what he says. he didn’t bash her, he said what happened and flipped it to what he could learn from it. not why people should hate her or pick his side. i love him !!!
Yea he surprised us!!
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totally the opposite of what she does when she goes on interviews. She's messy
Shame that Coles “flaw” is that he is so open and vulnerable. Basically people have been asking him to not be honest or be himself, which kills most relationships anyways
Yes! I hate that ppl keep saying he should have lied about finding others attractive when feeling the need to lie about small insignificant things is actually really bad. Besides Cole is authentically an honest and open person. I can't see how going against his own nature would be better when there isn't anything wrong to begin with and would only hurt him long term.
Cole needs a free-spirited girl who is fun but also religious. His problem is that type of girl may be hard to find as a lot free-spirited people are more hippie like and not very religious at all, as he was mentioning in the beginning. I noticed that was a core problem in their relationship he was very fun and playful and Zanab was not at all. He needs someone that can be fun and playful but also share his deep love for God. Just my opinion in observing the few clips we saw of them.
I'm 36, I have a baby, I am mature when it comes to serious things but I'm still like a child when I'm having fun 😁 There's nothing wrong with being childlike sometimes 😊
I am 39 with 2 kids, and agree with you with everything else! Life is too short to be boring and serious all the time.
💯!!! Godo for you keep being you! ❤️
Laughing and having fun is good for your health…and face. Zanab is angry at the world and she’ll age horribly with her permanent scowl. I thought she was pretty until episode 3, when the scowl appeared. Bleh.
I feel so bad for Cole. He really seems like a sweet person that just couldn't see that person in front of him was the wrong person and tried to make it right. And got hurt. Like a lot of us. I could definitely empathize.
Yea! He seems like he’s on the right path to healing!
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Feminism is not about tearing men down. That’s what Zanab did. It was calculated, nothing to do with feminism, just Zanabism.
Every movement has its rotten apples.
Cole seems to have a pure heart. I never understood what he saw in Zenab- she was bitter, insecure, cynical, and constantly annoyed by him during the lead up to the wedding and ultimately, delusional, cruel, and vindictive after. To this day she is doubling and tripling down, she hasn’t stopped coming for him, to the point it’s getting weirdly harass-ey. Her seeking out the ex wife just to stir up trouble - this girl is TOXIC. Run!🏃💨
Whaat she seeked out his ex wife ? Didn’t know that. Wow
She wasn’t like that in the pods, she waited until she had him reeled
Hopefully the exwife is more level headed than zenab
In my opinion, Zanab was trying to have a "Deepti" moment with saying no at the wedding. I remember when I watched Deepti and Shake's wedding I cried and clapped for her standing up for herself! The problem is that Zanab is not anywhere as likable as Deepti and Cole was not even remotely close to how awful Shake was!
You guys have asked him the BEST questions!! THIS is actually the best Cole interview I’ve seen this far 👏🏼
I definitely relate to Cole and a lot of what he said at the end hit deep because I feel like people have said that I’m “too much” and I’ve been treated like a burden. It really does make you question whether it’s truly worth being yourself & it makes you want to dim the light that you are, but at the end of the day… being yourself always wins. It’s hard being yourself in this world, but it’s truly worth it
Yes queen! Continue to be you! If you're too bright for them, you need to find some new friends and sometimes family haha! much love please subscribe if you haven't already!
This guy is a keeper. Cole was one of the most natural ' relatable man on the show. He was my favorite. One day he will find the right women who matches his fun character.
if she just would have met him half way i think he would have had the chance to shine so much more as a partner- she would not allow it
The irony of all this, is that Cole and Colleen would have made a great match. They are both playful and lighthearted. Instead, both chose partners who sucked the life out of them! Colleen is with a husband who is toxic for her. It's really too bad that Cole and Colleen didn't choose each other in the end.
This episode was extremely refreshing. You guys were such good hosts, asking the right questions that we viewers want to ask but delivered it tastefully. Really loved the entire dynamic between host and guest here. Thank you for giving Cole a safe platform to be himself.
Cole is so evolved. He's a beautiful spirit.
Big hug to you Cole! You are so loved by everybody. I was so disgusted by Zeynab's abuse of you, when you were just a young uncomplicated guy, who actually had a very strong discernment when it came to her irrational behavior. She really triggered my Mama Bear, believe me. I wish the cast had been more supportive and less mentally lazy. 😊 God bless you honey!
They probably have very little knowledge of toxic abuse.
Cole don't worry, we all saw how zanab treated you, you put up with a lot..hope you find a nice normal girl❤
I love this interview. Cole seems soooo down to earth & genuine. I pray he finds the woman he's looking for & that relationship provides them both with the authentucity, transparency, strength, endurance, peace, love & understanding it takes to go the distance. It's challenging dating in general, but dating with purpose is even more challenging. I'm really rooting for him. Team Cole over here 🙌🏽
I just watched the season because I went back to Netflix. I was very confused why he stayed with her. He seemed like he was really trying and I felt so bad for him. Listening to him talk about it now is a pretty accurate description of what I thought about him when I watched the show.
This was awesome! Thanks for asking the good questions and making it comfortable for Cole to be open and candid. He's going to be a wonderful husband someday.
Let me tell you Cole won! Even though Zenab did him dirty, (yow i was so mad i wanted to fight her for how vile she was to him!) I am glad her nasty behavior showed him exactly what he needed to see. Going and dating her in private would have also been a disaster. So he won! Good luck on your growth journey Cole!!!!
He seemed to be the most genuine on the show. Zanab is a liar and did a whole theatrical performance up to the wedding and all her attendees was on code..
Thank you for having Cole on. It's awful how the crew treated him, except for a couple of the guys trying to chime in. I'm glad he is getting a lot is support from fans too
There’s a difference between immature and fun loving. 💘much love cole
Y’all be on it with the content that the people want to see. I’m here for it ❤
thanks girl!!!
I'm 29 I wish I had the emotional maturity that Cole has. I am taking notes from this guy.
Cole needs somebody like Charmine, someone who is confident, take things with a grain of salt, bubbly, and just straight fun…..cause her husband was saying some things during their sidetrack of talking about their relationship that I can guarantee Zanab would flip out about! I hope Cole took notes from this couple to see what a healthy and happy relationship can look like for him if he choose wisely!
I love this couple 😊
cole would never be with a black :D the ex looked white and he still didnt like that she wasnt white enough
@@shristisilwal492 I also got the feeling that he is not physically attracted to black women, but we won’t know for sure until it is said out of his mouth; with that being said, my comment was not referring to race only personality traits!
Cole said that Raven was a 10 when Zaynab asked him to rate the other girls. She just decided to focus on Colleen being a 10 and nothing Cole said after that was right
@@soupeorange oh yes, you are right! I guess that ends the confusion around his attraction to black women. Thanks for the reminder/clarification.
@@shristisilwal492 So? I’ve never dated or been attracted to white men.
He never put her down about her looks or culture or looks because Indian isn’t a race.
We would all react the same way being engaged to someone they would never date on site.
LOVE is not BLIND . Definitely not for me.
Y'all are workinggggg! Getting all the good interviews! Y'all are both so funny and Charmaine is so beautiful! I can't wait to see this podcast go off and blow up
Yessss with the affirmations!!
Narcissists like zanab target agreeable and genuinely happy people. Also Cole has massive Paul Walker vibes and I’m here for it.
thank you guys for being soo consistent, dropping WANTED content. yall ask allllll the right questions. the perfect balance. Char keeps it playful and energetic & Neek knows exactly how to keep the convo on track, after a funny distraction. 😜💗 I love yall.
& because of this interview, I actually love Cole. this shows an interesting perspective, on His story, as well as the entire show & cast.
PS. Please reach out to Ashley & Bar, Teen Mom (they're in Vegas).. and Cheyenne & Zach, Teen Mom (they actually live in LA 💙). They could give great perspective on marriage. They're young, fun, parents and BOTH couples have been together since they were kids. 💗💗 please interview them.
I loved the interview. 🤸🏾♀️🥂
Thank you OMG!
I’m going to look into them!!!! Thanks!
I've seen different interviews of both Zanab and Cole, and God bless both of them, but honestly Cole just comes across as more likeable. I'm not trying to hate on anyone. It's just like a gut feeling.
Cole is so gracious. If I was 20 years younger-
Brilliant interview, thank you Bey’s for doing this. So so good. Cole so glad you cleared everything with such clarity. You’re a good man dude. That said, Netflix are horrendous, rubbish. The producers/owners of the show should be thrown in prison for manipulating and destroying people like this. They lie in their editing. But this is what Netflix is about most of the time. I do hope they either grow a moral compass or are shut down. Only slight redemption in the fact they played the cutie scene to bring some truth.
His personality is dope!
Agree!
Loved this interview. it was so relaxed and you can tell Cole felt very comfortable talking to you guys. I hardly ever watch these things in full and I watched this whole thing!
That’s so amazing to hear! Thank you so much! Please subscribe if you haven’t! Much appreciated !!
One is clear, that he identifies what he wants and needs in his life , and he pretty much very early realized he needed zanab in his life but he was too fast and that is why he got broken so badly , because just no matter how mature you get , you never know what the other person feels about all this. The prize is if the other person appreciates all that maturity of his, and that diets happen so that’s why it just landed so badly.
This experience literally changed him. I still feel of what kind of hell has been through. He's eye's d don't spark as before. We can observed how that was very painful, this girl killed the his soul. All the best for you Cole.
My fav Cole interview so far. Y’all crushed it! New sub!
I love how y’all blend with the couch.
I never saw the actual show but I did see the cuties scene . Cole seems like a great guy & he will def find someone better suited for him .
I love his energy even though Zay painted him a bad guy, immured . Zay, she was very insecurity for her look n he blamed him out of no where . Col he is actually good at articulating his thoughts, a good communicator, n he care about others people’s feelings so much. He doesn’t deserve all this drama
This was a great interview… I personally think things like him saying where his mom works or personal places locations etc.. should be blur out,
BEST 👏🏼COLE 👏🏼INTERVIEW👏🏼
My favorite by far
thank you for this . i was always waiting to hear from him to see how he was doing .
I cannot wait 🙌🏾
its a great interview!!
Did y’all ask about the bachelor night rumor? I wanted to hear more from Cole about it :)
Awesome interview ! So real !
Wow what an amazing interview. Well done guys! Seeing y’all for the first time in this video and I’m loving it! And we definitely love Cole!
This was a really good interview , thank you for the take aways! Wisdom ❤
I just watched Season 3 of Love Is Blind & happened to run across this interview with Cole. This was such a great interview. Definitely a new subscriber.
Great interview! iyanna’s interview introduced me to you and this cole interview got me to suscribe!
Awesome! Thank you!
This was an excellent interview and your questions were so awesome! Great job guys! I'm about to explore more of your videos. I really enjoyed what I just watched :)
FREE COLE
He’s free! 😅
@@TheBeysTV from the haters, lol!
Y’all executed this interview so well! Also love the balance w each of you asking questions!❤ big thumbs up!!❤
Y'all did this!
awesome ...just saw this now . we love you Cole !
This is so fun. Thank you for being brilliantly funny and kept it upbeat and fun.
I love this interview!!!
Ty!!!
Seems like Coles has reflected and learned a lot from this experience. His main fault is that he needs to filter what he says more when he is on tv and when he talks to people that he doesn't know too well. When he finds a girl and both are of the same fun goofy say whatever comes in their head without taking it seriously vibe , i believe it will be ideal for him .
I thought that was you girl ❤️🔥 I love this interview 👏🏾 gained a lot of clarification on Cole 🙌🏾
49:00 just please, don't call what Zanab did a "feminism" thing. Feminism is not about putting man down, it's about equality and lifting us up. Just because Zanab is a woman (and maybe she even defines herself as a feminist, i dont know) but doesn't mean, that everything she does is about feminism or comes from it.
Im a feminist and I would never act the way she did at the altar amd i dont agree with what she did. It wasn't empowering, it was horrible and hurtful.
exactly
THIS👆
Omg you are so refreshing. I nearly gave up feminism because of the support for Zay. But it's nice to see an honest feminist that can be objective to her behavior. Not saying Cole is completely innocent but its disgusting that people just saw him as this villain instead of Zay's vile behavior I continue to still see
@@bobococo89 thank you :)
it wasn't very nice to realize that not everything I do is "feminitsic" but it is true. It would be impossible, since we don't live in a bubble and a lot of our choices are defined by our environment, upbringing or culture. So yeah, feminists do a lot of stuff that have nothing to do with feminism, but its ok. Thats life.
Its sad that some women would take being supportive too far and just support an action without thinking, just because it was done by a woman.
Right but to her it was empowering. It may be feminism to her. Doesn’t mean it represents all feminists
What an amazing interview!!! Great job hosts !! You guys are amazing! 💚🧡💛
man this made me love Cole even more. I pray he does heal and that he sees God has a good women for him. He just need to be patience. God takes his time to give you the right person because he is looking at all things of the person. So it’s worth waiting for. Be patience Cole !!! Your proverbs 31 is in the making. Trust God.
Thank you! And amazing advice!!
That was a great interview. I love Cole, and I love yal ❤
🥰🥰🥰🥰
I knew there was something not right with Zaneb...the fakeness. The Delilah of it all.
This is a great interview. Nicely done
Ty!!!!
Great interview. Dope
This was the realest interview loveee it
In the pods Zay claimed to be a "carefree adventurous traveler". So I knew she was FOS when she didn't even want to get in a pool. 🤣
Plus what "adventure seeker" looks that out of sorts being outside during the game segment as well? She had high maintenance diva written all over her.
Nothing about Zay was go with the flow or carefree whatsoever because of how uptight and insecurity ridden she was. I can't imagine what being married to a woman like that would be like. She's literally afraid of her own shadow. 🙈
Great solid interview.
this episode was so great i couldn't stop laughing & smiling yasss we want more 🤣👏🏾
Ya, you guys did a really good interview here, and did ask really good questions. Well done! .....From Canada 🇨🇦 🍁 🇨🇦
Cole is such a great guy and this interview was so insightful. Zanab is honestly a bad person for what she did to Cole. He deserves an amazing woman who can appreciate him!
😂 definitely subscribing! 1 hour 45 min never went by so fast. Got so sad when I saw I was almost at the end of the video! I need moreeeee😂😂😂😂
I just found your channel and love it and having some drinks and cuddled up with my blanket lol!!! Love Cole 🥰🥰🥰
First time viewer here. CZcams watcher from London England. I enjoyed this meandering, relaxed and revealing conversation because I was intrigued by the relationship between Zanab and Cole. Well done guys. I didn't watch Ink Black but if you were in reality TV for 7 years, you have a lot of knowledge and insights into how things work behind the scenes. Editing, frankenbites etc...
Cole seems like a nice, down to earth guy. He's articulate and introspective. I like his optimistic outlook. I also think Zanab has many positive traits, can't think of many at the moment... unfortunately they were an ATROCIOUS match for each other once the physical attraction wore off and they were living together as an engaged couple. They didn't bring out the best in each other. #Very classy of Cole to just narrate his experience on Love Is Blind and AVOID trashing Zanab. For balance, interview Zanab too. Please and thanks!
Zanab was delusional, a liar, very pessimistic… I’m so glad he didn’t end up with her… that would have been the biggest mistake of his life! He is soooo awesome! Team Cole!
Just a handsome boy who wants to get married, and demand is just a girl who loves and respects him. ❤️❤️
I still don't understand why people are smashing Cole (on social media) instead of Bartise! He was the worse in the Season in my opinion.
What a great interview!! New subscriber 🎉
One of the worst mistake zanab made was being passive aggressive when something bothers her. If you need reassurance, why not straight up ask for it. If you felt like he was controlling your eating habit, why not just address it? Like everything she complained about could have been resolved.
People can’t read your mind 🙄.I think Cole can do so much better because he’s willing to adjust.
Another thing I think people should look into is the 16 personality type. There are some people you’ll never be compatible with nobody how much you fight.
I was just listening to Taylor's Swift song Tolerate it and it really seems to fit Cole and Zainab's relationship from his point of view to a T . The lyrics " I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head, tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated
But you tolerate it I greet you with a battle hero's welcome take your indiscretions all in good fun You're so much older and wiser. " pretty much say it all.
I mean yes that song is very much so for an unhealthy relationship that's very unequally balanced where the person makes you out to be the bad guy and you're constantly walking on egg shells.
He gives me Bradley Cooper vibes (maybe is his voice) but I really like his energy. Zanab really lost out but Cole dodged a major bullet. I’m sure he’s going to find the right girl. I loved all the questions you asked especially the dating service questions at the end because I’m sure all the ladies want to know 😄
He's great!
Come to Belton Cole! You'll love it here! It's not far from FW we have a cute creek and a decent Lake. Good luck to you!
Maybe one day!😊
hi, new subscriber here that would like to put her application in for Cole. Born in the midwest, went to college in SC and now living in GA! 😅He's very attractive, intelligent, has a sense of humor and knows what he wants or at least has an idea. He won't have any problem finding the lady of his dreams, I sense he's a great guy. Love you all's channel!
I love Cole! Yes he made mistakes but as humans we make mistakes and learn from it. And he is. Wish i was i could connect with him. Cole is a good guy. Much love Cole.
Cole, you want mountains and an outdoorsy vibe? Move up here to the northwest. The best corner of the country.
So happy he stood up for himself. He was entangled with a gross individual. He seems to be doing a lot better now.
Cole is the best ❤💗🌸♥️
Amazing interview
I doubted , if so it’s that “trauma bond “
I would absolutely marry Cole 😊i love his Spirit
#TeamCole ❤
Just found this channel. You guys are so funny. New subscriber here !!!
Awesome!!!! Ty!!
I love you 2 podcast, you 2 work great together 💪💯 such a beautiful husband & wife inside & out 💯
zenab and cole's trainwreck of a relationship aside, he's actually super likeable and good at articulating his thoughts. a good communicator definitely.
Cole I pray for your faith in love to be restored🤍
Team COLE all the way!!!, F... Zanah
Whew!!!!
Seeeester!
"I know what I'm supposed to do but then I start falling in love" lol same, I swore I wouldn't move in with my ex until 5 years, I made it about 1 🤣
There is nothing immature about Cole reminiscing about his relationships! In fact I think it's really healthy that he recognizes the good that he went through during the show! He's so damn charming and sweet 🥰🥰🥰