It is a twisted mentality that these people have-they hate you, but won’t leave you alone! It goes against logic. If I don’t like someone, I stay away from them. Goes to show how twisted and devious their minds are, and reason enough to stay away from them. They are obsessed trying to destroy others, because they wish they could be them. Great one, Tyler!
I always wondered why some people who hate me want to talk me or make it be know they wanna talk especially after I told them kindly to not talk to me, even in a group settings. I read more books on how to dodge this and if you have any suggestions let me know.
@@ericwilder9483 well you have to understand once you are off the premises from the job location. Its on .you not gonna be reaching to record once they knock you out. Or they masked up one should think before they speak or revaling some ones bussiness. Or doing fuck shit to kiss ass to the so call boss to get them fired. who has no problem replaceing your ass as well.your just human resource. and a number. those are the consequences reality. For being a tatelle teller work snitch. There are people crazy enough to fuck you up not give a fuck about that job or you. What if they have a good layer you aint even know. For what to get some money cause you got your ass woop. then you lose. Be a man. Stop talkin like a stink hoe .You dont know if that person is struggling or whatever.and you fucking with there pay cause you feel some kind of way.or hater thretend your job gonna be taken. I had a situation long story short i called this punk bitch out to fight me out side didnt want to. And i my self made a scean. Did i lose my job yes. Even my boss was shakeing. Did i get a better job hell yeah.moral of the story stand up for your self cause no one will. not gonna herb bully me.
Well, I have to disagree with this on, because my hater's and powerless, miserable people had the power to fire me for being to nice to the customers!!!
You know you're right.. I realized that people really hate when you have your own indipendant oppinions that's different from the "norm" or think differently from the rest, they get mad lol.. People are funny and strange
I lost many friends when I became successful. Most friends disappeared overnight. They don't even respond anymore. They don't invite me to parties etc. But they are still living miserable lives, drinking alcohol and talking negatively about others. I guess it's easier to hate than to actually do the work. But, I have some new friends who are great!
My first taste of small success my friends started moving different towards and I had to cut them off it’s so strange what happens when you try to improve yourself
When I become successful I feel like am going too lost many friends but idc tbh because success requires change and becoming a better person and a better version of yourself to
You are so right. I have met so many fakers in my life. I am currently going through a situation that suddenly came up at the job with a person I thought was cool with me. I love being by myself. I trust NO ONE on this planet. My experience with humans has not been positive.
It's sad when it's your own family. My relatives would rather diss me then support me. Like who does that? I stop talking to them. I got tired of trying to beg them to support me.
lady rootz those are the worst and when you feed their own shit back to them they start crying and playing the victim. yeah they give those back handed compliments . when they pretend to be nice by pretending to say something bad disguised as nice.
Bullies bully others because they have lowself esteem , insecure , wanna be like you , jalous , Envious and just toxic that's why !!!! I know for sure billions are going through This right now they are suffering in silence the vast majority of them are comiting suicide due to the abuse they have encountered and endure during their childhood and schooling years when I was younger I didn't know better as I got older I educated myself and become highly educated , intelligent, smart and healthy individual ...know I know my worth and value I know what I bring to the table !!!! Period I wish I could educate every living souls to know their Worth and value!!!!! Because I know for sure narcissists have ruined billions lives in this universe !!!!!!!!!! I love people though I have learn to love them from a distance because I don't know what they're doing behind close doors or the scene !!!!!
This not only applies to immediate family members but also at your workplace. I feel the hatred and jealousy from my boss and all of my coworkers, while they all congregate with one another i stay to myself most of the time and only speak to them if it’s work related.
Same here. Always trying to engage in a conversation. Knowing they don’t like me. Thinking I’m crazy because I believe in God and I’m empathetic. I really don’t care for them.
There is a God who sees all that humans do. It makes me feel sick the attitude of these beast. They will reap what they have sown.Going around hurting innocent people for no reason. God will not allow his children to be abused.
Spacey Man. I know all I can say is sure would not want to be in their shoes when God steps to them.people have to stay prayed up! It is mandatory when you have demonic humans doing wickedness to you. Seek out help also with prayer warriors. God bless you Space Man.
What about the other people who soak up the negative words said about another person. and then spread the gossip around and act to sabotage that person They are just as bad.
I use to dwell and let shit get to me. Now I just remind myself that 99% of it doesn't even matter and focus on something else. It doesn't matter what u do. If your trying to better yourself, even something like learning how to cook chicken nuggets at mc donalds, you are going to have to deal with bs and haters. Most people don't realize that they started from the same place. They are standing on a imaginary throne. and your a threat to their imaginary kingdom. Reality is that all you can do is give your best at work, your relationships, and so on. and that is it. So I recommend stop giving a f*ck. Save your f*cks for the shit that really matters. I feel sorry for people who are absorbed in just absolute nonsense and care about piety shit. Meditation is a god send for this type of stuff. At last I'm a free from all the f*cks given. I just give it my best, constantly better myself in all aspects of life, listen and learn, and accept things for what they are. The rest goes in one ear and right out the other. and if you hate me and wanna cut me down, you can go pound salt and stay the f*ck away from me while your at it.
Girl (or boy), this is a late comment, but this video and your comment really moved me. I'm going through it right now at my first job. I'm sitting here wondering what I'm doing wrong and how do I charm these people only to learn that it doesn't matter what I do. Thank you.
I hear that too , that's the definition of a hypocrite , but what upsets me and get on my nerves sometimes is i don't do the same to anyone and of course underestimating my intelligence thinking that i don't get what they're doing or being unaware of their mentality and their characters
Jealousy, envy, wannb me...but can't...not that I have ppl who hate me from the topic I can say...foe the few I did encounter. I can pick out a phony person and prefer to not deal with phony ppl can get you in deep disappointment if they hate you.
Ayn Los Angeles it is sad, maybe fear of you not needing him, or fear that you will do better than him, i get it i have a parent that holds me back wherever they can
ayn sometimes when parents see their children do well, specially if the child does better than them they get jealous. also when they get older they lose control of their health and life of their own and yours.
Holy SSSSSHHHHIIIIIUUUUUUT man i live I a highly communal living situation. I Have recently got sober. From the first day i bought my chef coats. Went out and job. Talk about crabs in a barrel syndrome. I said to myself this is why these Ninjas have nothing. In order for one to receive blessings from the universe must be glad and wish others well in there endeavors. It's out right decusting the shit go through as I progress in this shelter situation. I'm starting to agree with uncle ruckus. Your expoundment on the situation/senerio was excellent. St. George
Haters hate ,that's just what they do,You don't have to do nothing to them they are just toxic ,ugly and have nothing going on Be your wonderful beautiful self...
Dria Smoot Me too. Its an instant relief. I locked my family off and went to work that night feeling annoyed but all my colleagues instantly said Megan you look happy, what you so happy about. I was thinking...what the.... lol and I realised these poisonous people really do have this negative energy around you even when not in your presence. Sometimes you just have to walk away because they will just hate you for walking away and not take any blame in your decision & instead of feeling confused and asking you what is wrong like normal loving people they will be bitter. Hope you have been doing well.
@@megan1445 tell me about it, I could also feel the negative energy escalating like I knew they were negatively thinking about me or ready to try and come around, I would rebuke that energy and pray whatever harm they hope for me return back to them double. It's been awhile since this happened and I haven't went back, and would you believe, not one of them have asked me why I don't come around or call anymore? I thought that was really strange. They will call from time to time, but I don't answer. When they leave text, it's always, I love you, or I miss you. "If they love me so much" why no one's asked the million dollar question? Why don't you call or come around anymore? That is what let me know that they know they were wrong. By the way Megan, I know it's been awhile since we talked, but I'm just fine without them around me, I don't even feel that negative energy anymore. I still feel just as relieved as I did the day I let it go. I feel much better, all that weight is off my shoulders now, I hope you're good.
Thats the truth, sir. People smile in your face, but you know instantly, they are not a friend, you have enough discernment to know the real from the false. You know a true friend, is the opposite of a self righteous liar and gossiper.
That happens alot..good video. Some people are so fake....I'm in a new apartment....I'm being low key..but I find females sitting in their car looking and talking..People staring at me....good video..
Be careful what you reveal to people and the non verbal messages you send off to people let there not be very many misunderstandings and it's okay to put a person in their place in a nice respective manner
We wrestle not against flesh and blood, these individuals are broken and have become open and willing vessels that demons have taken up residence in to do their bidding. Stay clear far away from such individuals...I have encountered many people like this, and they were people I knew for many years pretended to be my sisters, some were men...I saw right through it all.
Tyler i have a hating neighbor that constantly texts me, she's trying to be a friend, but just to keep the peace i will chat & play dumb ,i see through her hate, and our visits are brief, i like to focus on my life and my gaols, but what can you do?? The chats are outside and brief, having said that this women is an alcoholic and pot smoker, i really rather not mingle (people talk) but i also hope my happy vibe rubs off on her & helps her because truthfully she is very miserable, and last of all we are meant to love our neighbor.
Man I'm winning at life I'm turning 40 and getting a skilled trade in AC/ people have a look of throwing up they so pissed off so yeah go work have a business try exercising doin the right thing and u can get that same energy but there's resistance and sometimes u just have to be quiet have forgiveness
We have to be carefull cus people will just hurt you n try to break you down.....cus these kind of people really affects the mental stability of some people...
I am absolutely hooked on your videos my friend. Finally, someone making encouraging videos and unlike most videos, regardless of them being encouraging or not. You have people all through the comments talking shit or trying to say something completely off topic to just be dickheads. You're an amazing person, keep these videos coming, 5 hours have went by and I'm still watching only your videos my dude
Sending you lots of peace and blessings my good friend I love listening to your good words you give me so much insight into people in my life family in-laws
Tyler, can you do a video on what to do during holiday dinners with family members who are toxic? I cannot avoid this function because I usually dont go and just send my kids with my parents... But this year I am going... And I get highly anxious in social scenes never mind around ppl who have slandered me... Gossiped about me and are just plain evil... (A few cousins of mine) So maybe you have some tips on how not to freak out or how not to let my guard down when they are being fake..
loving myself. I don't want to go and to be honest I probably wouldn't go if it weren't for my father and step mom plus my three kids going... Every year my dad n step mum show up with my kids but U don't go which continues to fuel the rumors and gossip... Once and for all I am going to go and I will somehow manage to keep myself busu long enough until it is time to leave... But if one of them confronts me I will answer respectfully but completely honestly
Ignore them,you ARE the bigger person,dont go down to their level.their obviously hurting on the inside,”let them burn in their own fire”.i hope this helped.👍🏼
loving myself I might actually stay home after all... I am stressing myself out too much about the situation and it hasn't even happened yet... Plus I have nothing formal to wear.. And these ppl are quite judgmental when it comes to attire and materialism...amd thats just not me... I would rather be rich on the inside and poor on the outside than rich on the outside and empty on the inside... Either way I have until 11am tomorrow to decide!!
Celeste Brusciano be yourself everythings gonna be fine,we all have those type of people around us,for me my sister in law.yeah i know shes an idiot and materialistic and ignorant but,i still have to talk to her Lol.maybe a Glass of wine to ease the nerves..again its the holidays ☃️🎁🎄kudos
I have one man who hates me so much, he would like to see me destroyed. This man talks to me all the time, mirroring my ways and faking a smile. I desire never to see this man again, but he keeps talking. Thanks so much. Kelly P. P.
tyler is so right i know a chick a who does this to me over and over i have to deal with her on a daily basis and the only time this person want's to talk to me is pump me for information , or tries to humiliate me every chance they get and they purposely leaves me out of certain activities and smirks at to make sure i get the message. now that i see her i barely make eye contact or try to have conversation she tries to suck the life out of me with her evil energy. oh and they try to catch you alone and do this stuff behind peoples back so when you don't want to interact with them they try to make you look crazy as if your the one out to get them.
Good morning everybody hey Tyler thanks for the page I've been viewing your videos about 2 weeks now and your on point most people they try to transfer their insecurities over to another person to lower their self-esteem to make themselves feel better about themselves yeah Elaine your on point thanks for the words also
Tyler JTI Just forget about the HATERS in life because that's their problem and NOT yours and besides the best way to deal with them is to simply just leave them because they made their beds so let them lay in them but other than that though I'm done and keep doing what you do because you're an INSPIRATION to the good Peoples lives and that's what TRULY matters and counts and I salute you to what you do ✌.
Living it. I know that one person, who often sounds like my biggest cheerleader? Yep, they hate me. How do I know? Because I work for them and they feel I’m better than them. They have low confidence in themselves. So, just like how my mother betrayed me, I’m prepping for the day they betray me also.
And don't you just love how they give negative scenarios vs positive ones in order spew spells and curses? It's just as easy for them to use a poistive example just as it is for them to use a negative one, but who God blesses no man can curse. Gotta have haters in order for God to prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies.
The mental torture they put you through your whole life is beyond. Then you go crazy growing up in your mind thinking your weird, your strange, your the negative one and you have issues. But they dont realise their treatment towards us helps us to be deeper thinkers. Being deeper thinkers we can be more open minded so we can learn to change our mind set. But when we find the strength to realise it is not us but them and walk away they turn that against us. They will not let you grow. The sad part is alot of these using, evil narcassistic people dont even see what they have done and genuinely think they have given you the world lol
This video did bring up in my mind a question that I have been kicking around in my head for a long time, even though it is completely unrelated to what you discussed here, and the question is: Do we as a society have a to casual view of sex? Hear me out! Before I start though, I want you to please note that I refer to FWB situations as arrangements, NOT relationships, because if you're just hooking up with someone, you're NOT in a relationship with them, and I feel to use that word to describe an FWB situation paints an INACCURATE picture of what is going on, as well as lead to UNREALISTIC expectations. So here's my question, as well as thoughts on the subject: In today's world, people hook up with each other left and right, and people have a very cavalier attitude about it. Many enter into FWB ARRANGEMENTS. But while sex is very enjoyable, it isn't a game, as can lead to very serious consequences, like unwanted pregnancies, or STI/STD transmission. And even if contraceptives are used, like condoms for example, they're still not a 100% full proof. In the case of the former, all too often the child in question either grows up without a father, or is aborted; even though it did nothing to deserve that, because the child in question certainly could not help that it was conceived, nor the circumstances surrounding its conception, nor the fact it's parents either didn't want it or that might have been an inconvenient time for the parent. And in the case of the latter, there are social diseases out there for which there is no cure for, like HIV/AIDS, HEPATITIS, HERPES, and HPV for example. And even with treatment, any one of those diseases still alters that person's life forever. Not to mention, but sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another person. And when people enter to an FWB ARRANGEMENT, nearly every single time, if not EVERY SINGLE TIME, and seen this in both my own life, as well as from observing others in such a situation, is that one person develops feelings for the other, feelings that are often not reciprocated, which leads to heartbreak. Now some may argue that an FWB ARRANGEMENT can benefit both people involved. But if/when one person developes feelings for the other and those feelings are not reciprocated, and normally what ends up happening us that the party who did not develop feelings for the other leaves the one who did essentially hanging out to dry, whether they intentionality did that or not, in such a case you could also argue - who did the arrangement really benefit? In such a case, the FWB ARRANGEMENT clearly did not benefit both parties, because one of them is being left with the short end of the stick. And when you really stop and think about it, about the foundation that FWB ARRANGEMENTS are based on, it's really one of complete selfishness, because it is essentially says: "I want what I want, when I want it. In the end its all about me, and if you can't handle that that's your problem, not mine." So with everything being said, it just really makes me wonder, do we as a society have a way too casual view of sex - which is my MAIN question here? And on a sidenote can FWB ARRANGEMENTS actually, work without anyone's feelings getting hurt/involved? And if so, what can you do, in order to keep yourself from catching feelings for the other person in such an arrangement?
Thank you so much for your honesty and your clearness. I love that you keep it 100 and that you cut no corners. You have helped me a lot with saying what you mean and meaning what you say I love it and that's why I subscribed. Happy holidays and most of all happy New Year.
Thank.you , thank you thank,you!!! Tylor. And some of these insane sick individuals will go to the extreme to stop us. Thank you for this video.Tylor please pray for me and others who may be living in danger around these sick and damaged souls.
We All have haters👌. It's human nature. Most if my haters needed something from me and I have. They needed me when they were down, out, sick, and I took care of them until death. Believe me, they died a horrible and painful death. I even gave them something to talk about to make them more miserable, which gave me pleasure😊. At the end of their journey, I was still a BAD BITCH POPPING HER COLLAR 😊😊😊.
Great Content , Honestly. I was a subscriber. Your video popped up on my screen and I noticed I wasn’t following you anymore. I clicked subscribed to you and it said “Error” The solution to this is memory. We focus so much on subscribers , but if we memorize names and practice words we can find progression in “error” Seriously it’s tactics to this shit . I advise to educate and repeat teachings on memory .
My goal is to move out of London, my mum and step dad recently moved out of London last year. I'm hoping to do the same. I've decided on my career path, to become a youth worker. Looking for a fresh but of scenery,they still live in the south of England, plus we got family who moved out of London to the "country " and haven't looked back, so I'd like to take that next step myself. Just need to focus on my job hunting
Tyler JTI It's an interesting video but the thing is though if that were me well then I wouldn't want to have anything to do with them type of people what's so ever.
Tyler JTI Your welcome because I'm only HAPPY to help and that's why I'm here but anyway have a great one and I wish you all the success to your future videos plus live long and PROSPER and by the way happy 2018 and beyond not to mention peace out ✌.
So happy I found you .. always makes sense alot of views you discuss are me and it's hard to understand I kind my own business love others ...🆘🦋💰☮️👽🌎✌️👌💎ℹ️🗣️🗣️🤷❣️
So basically it like narcissistic people. Most narcissisti people do this tyler bro . Narcissistic people are stuck in a bad cycle and they want you to be in the bad cycle.
Yeah don't tell people your business especially if you're going through a hard time. Some of them get pleasure from your pain.
This is true.There are so many sadistic,narcissistic,sociopathic and psychotic people out here.Be safe.
This 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yep. I learned my lesson.
It makes them feel better
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It is a twisted mentality that these people have-they hate you, but won’t leave you alone! It goes against logic. If I don’t like someone, I stay away from them. Goes to show how twisted and devious their minds are, and reason enough to stay away from them. They are obsessed trying to destroy others, because they wish they could be them. Great one, Tyler!
I always wondered why some people who hate me want to talk me or make it be know they wanna talk especially after I told them kindly to not talk to me, even in a group settings. I read more books on how to dodge this and if you have any suggestions let me know.
So true!
This is a fact! Especially when you ignore them and they are still obsessed with you!!
@Marty Yo facts
It's spiritual read the Bible it's there
People will always hate you for being a good person. They hated Jesus
Ikr. It's crazy. Kind of warped thinking, really.
They didn’t just hate him they killed him for telling the truth
You better preach! That comment resonates
Haters are plain and simple JEALOUS 😎😎😎😎😎😎If someone doesn't like you for no reason they are JEALOUS of YOU 😎
Amen, Preach
Haters are powerless, miserable, people.
raiden mcmahon Please explain, they gang up on you.
@@ericwilder9483 and thats they only power they aint shit catch them out side out side away from were you work see how tuff they are.
@@ericwilder9483 well you have to understand once you are off the premises from the job location. Its on .you not gonna be reaching to record once they knock you out. Or they masked up one should think before they speak or revaling some ones bussiness. Or doing fuck shit to kiss ass to the so call boss to get them fired. who has no problem replaceing your ass as well.your just human resource. and a number. those are the consequences reality. For being a tatelle teller work snitch. There are people crazy enough to fuck you up not give a fuck about that job or you. What if they have a good layer you aint even know. For what to get some money cause you got your ass woop. then you lose. Be a man. Stop talkin like a stink hoe .You dont know if that person is struggling or whatever.and you fucking with there pay cause you feel some kind of way.or hater thretend your job gonna be taken. I had a situation long story short i called this punk bitch out to fight me out side didnt want to. And i my self made a scean. Did i lose my job yes. Even my boss was shakeing. Did i get a better job hell yeah.moral of the story stand up for your self cause no one will. not gonna herb bully me.
Well, I have to disagree with this on, because my hater's and powerless, miserable people had the power to fire me for being to nice to the customers!!!
True spoken man 💪🏿💯💯
You know you're right.. I realized that people really hate when you have your own indipendant oppinions that's different from the "norm" or think differently from the rest, they get mad lol.. People are funny and strange
Keshia K Right , having your own mind scares people
This is so factual.
They don't like it when you see things from a different point of view.
Exactly thats what i seemed to noticed...
It’s demons
@@EmauniSimone Onpoint!!!!
I lost many friends when I became successful. Most friends disappeared overnight. They don't even respond anymore. They don't invite me to parties etc. But they are still living miserable lives, drinking alcohol and talking negatively about others. I guess it's easier to hate than to actually do the work. But, I have some new friends who are great!
They chose to be miserable but you didn't.
My first taste of small success my friends started moving different towards and I had to cut them off it’s so strange what happens when you try to improve yourself
Good. You don't need those losers, anyway. Let them sink with their ship. They deserve it.
When I become successful I feel like am going too lost many friends but idc tbh because success requires change and becoming a better person and a better version of yourself to
A lot people who are haters tend to mostly be are some of your so called friends, family and co workers. Be care full what you reveal to people.
lgrant411 I know a loyal friend person when I see one its rare nowadays to find one but i can tell somehow
4ciredor70. EXACTLY.
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Exactly
This is the reason why Iam extremely private about my life.
You are so right. I have met so many fakers in my life. I am currently going through a situation that suddenly came up at the job with a person I thought was cool with me. I love being by myself. I trust NO ONE on this planet. My experience with humans has not been positive.
Same.
Same !!
Exactly. People suck. Humans 🤮
A double minded person is unstable in all their ways.... thank you for this video. God bless
It's sad when it's your own family. My relatives would rather diss me then support me. Like who does that? I stop talking to them. I got tired of trying to beg them to support me.
Author Janae Marie I’ve been there before I had to stop 🛑 going around my family to obtain a peace of mind...It hurts but you’ll get over it...
@@superstarnokids I see. Friends too. Thank you
And you got further ahead I bet
@@deetrout7623 yesssssss
They hate ME cause I'm😊 beautiful and they ain't ME OR WITH ME!
Very true often people with bad intentions can resist revealing what their intentions are by leaking it into the conversation with you.
What about those who disguise their bullying and wickedness and insecurities by saying they are "keeping it real"...
lady rootz those are the worst and when you feed their own shit back to them they start crying and playing the victim. yeah they give those back handed compliments . when they pretend to be nice by pretending to say something bad disguised as nice.
Bullies bully others because they have lowself esteem , insecure , wanna be like you , jalous , Envious and just toxic that's why !!!! I know for sure billions are going through This right now they are suffering in silence the vast majority of them are comiting suicide due to the abuse they have encountered and endure during their childhood and schooling years when I was younger I didn't know better as I got older I educated myself and become highly educated , intelligent, smart and healthy individual ...know I know my worth and value I know what I bring to the table !!!! Period I wish I could educate every living souls to know their Worth and value!!!!! Because I know for sure narcissists have ruined billions lives in this universe !!!!!!!!!! I love people though I have learn to love them from a distance because I don't know what they're doing behind close doors or the scene !!!!!
This not only applies to immediate family members but also at your workplace. I feel the hatred and jealousy from my boss and all of my coworkers, while they all congregate with one another i stay to myself most of the time and only speak to them if it’s work related.
Same here. Always trying to engage in a conversation. Knowing they don’t like me. Thinking I’m crazy because I believe in God and I’m empathetic. I really don’t care for them.
Ditto.
There is a God who sees all that humans do. It makes me feel sick the attitude of these beast. They will reap what they have sown.Going around hurting innocent people for no reason. God will not allow his children to be abused.
Terri Ali I hope your right bro because there are some people who want to hurt innocent people for NO REASON at all.
Spacey Man. I know all I can say is sure would not want to be in their shoes when God steps to them.people have to stay prayed up! It is mandatory when you have demonic humans doing wickedness to you. Seek out help also with prayer warriors. God bless you Space Man.
Oh sorry not a bro I'm a lady. Spacely. Hv a great day!!!
Terri Ali Thank you so much for the feedback and god bless you too mam.
Many of these people are avid Christians. Humans are so funny in their sickening arrogance.
You have a brilliant state of mind brother 💯
What about the other people who soak up the negative words said about another person. and then spread the gossip around and act to sabotage that person They are just as bad.
I use to dwell and let shit get to me. Now I just remind myself that 99% of it doesn't even matter and focus on something else. It doesn't matter what u do. If your trying to better yourself, even something like learning how to cook chicken nuggets at mc donalds, you are going to have to deal with bs and haters. Most people don't realize that they started from the same place. They are standing on a imaginary throne. and your a threat to their imaginary kingdom. Reality is that all you can do is give your best at work, your relationships, and so on. and that is it. So I recommend stop giving a f*ck. Save your f*cks for the shit that really matters. I feel sorry for people who are absorbed in just absolute nonsense and care about piety shit. Meditation is a god send for this type of stuff. At last I'm a free from all the f*cks given. I just give it my best, constantly better myself in all aspects of life, listen and learn, and accept things for what they are. The rest goes in one ear and right out the other. and if you hate me and wanna cut me down, you can go pound salt and stay the f*ck away from me while your at it.
Joey G Right! People think they are champagne in a tall glass when really in truly are lukewarm piss in a plastic cup!🤔🧐😒👌🏼🍷💅🏼
Girl (or boy), this is a late comment, but this video and your comment really moved me. I'm going through it right now at my first job. I'm sitting here wondering what I'm doing wrong and how do I charm these people only to learn that it doesn't matter what I do. Thank you.
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Exactly say it
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I hear that too , that's the definition of a hypocrite , but what upsets me and get on my nerves sometimes is i don't do the same to anyone and of course underestimating my intelligence thinking that i don't get what they're doing or being unaware of their mentality and their characters
Jealousy, envy, wannb me...but can't...not that I have ppl who hate me from the topic I can say...foe the few I did encounter. I can pick out a phony person and prefer to not deal with phony ppl can get you in deep disappointment if they hate you.
My dad does this to me I just can't understand why a dad wouldn't wish his daughter well & success.
Ayn Los Angeles it is sad, maybe fear of you not needing him, or fear that you will do better than him, i get it i have a parent that holds me back wherever they can
i sometimes ask myself the same thing about parents.. u would think they would be rooting for their child but instead they plot against, envy, etc
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ayn sometimes when parents see their children do well, specially if the child does better than them they get jealous. also when they get older they lose control of their health and life of their own and yours.
Narcissistic
if you got haters means you doing something right and something that they are jealous of you
Holy SSSSSHHHHIIIIIUUUUUUT man i live I a highly communal living situation. I Have recently got sober. From the first day i bought my chef coats. Went out and job. Talk about crabs in a barrel syndrome. I said to myself this is why these Ninjas have nothing. In order for one to receive blessings from the universe must be glad and wish others well in there endeavors. It's out right decusting the shit go through as I progress in this shelter situation. I'm starting to agree with uncle ruckus.
Your expoundment on the situation/senerio was excellent.
St. George
Haters hate ,that's just what they do,You don't have to do nothing to them they are just toxic ,ugly and have nothing going on Be your wonderful beautiful self...
Thanks, I've notice every word came out your mouth about them. Once I got away I actually felt a immediate relief.
Dria Smoot. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Dria Smoot Me too. Its an instant relief. I locked my family off and went to work that night feeling annoyed but all my colleagues instantly said Megan you look happy, what you so happy about. I was thinking...what the.... lol and I realised these poisonous people really do have this negative energy around you even when not in your presence. Sometimes you just have to walk away because they will just hate you for walking away and not take any blame in your decision & instead of feeling confused and asking you what is wrong like normal loving people they will be bitter. Hope you have been doing well.
@@megan1445 tell me about it, I could also feel the negative energy escalating like I knew they were negatively thinking about me or ready to try and come around, I would rebuke that energy and pray whatever harm they hope for me return back to them double. It's been awhile since this happened and I haven't went back, and would you believe, not one of them have asked me why I don't come around or call anymore? I thought that was really strange. They will call from time to time, but I don't answer. When they leave text, it's always, I love you, or I miss you. "If they love me so much" why no one's asked the million dollar question? Why don't you call or come around anymore? That is what let me know that they know they were wrong. By the way Megan, I know it's been awhile since we talked, but I'm just fine without them around me, I don't even feel that negative energy anymore. I still feel just as relieved as I did the day I let it go. I feel much better, all that weight is off my shoulders now, I hope you're good.
Thats the truth, sir. People smile in your face, but you know instantly, they are not a friend, you have enough discernment to know the real from the false. You know a true friend, is the opposite of a self righteous liar and gossiper.
That happens alot..good video. Some people are so fake....I'm in a new apartment....I'm being low key..but I find females sitting in their car looking and talking..People staring at me....good video..
Inspirational word people can be evil sometime. Especially,nowdays.
Same
You're blessed.
@C RD
Absolutely absurd
That’s the downside to being gorgeous 😩
Be careful what you reveal to people and the non verbal messages you send off to people let there not be very many misunderstandings and it's okay to put a person in their place in a nice respective manner
Because every leech needs a host....
We wrestle not against flesh and blood, these individuals are broken and have become open and willing vessels that demons have taken up residence in to do their bidding. Stay clear far away from such individuals...I have encountered many people like this, and they were people I knew for many years pretended to be my sisters, some were men...I saw right through it all.
They talk to you because they need your attention and want to get information from you
Not all people.. people have different situation
Camille CE What do you mean?
True,but truth be told,game recognize game.Silence is the best wepon.😊😊😊😊
God Bless you Tyler. You have been a Big Help in my Life
Ronny Romano I appreciate it peace and blessings to you.
Tyler i have a hating neighbor that constantly texts me, she's trying to be a friend, but just to keep the peace i will chat & play dumb ,i see through her hate, and our visits are brief, i like to focus on my life and my gaols, but what can you do?? The chats are outside and brief, having said that this women is an alcoholic and pot smoker, i really rather not mingle (people talk) but i also hope my happy vibe rubs off on her & helps her because truthfully she is very miserable, and last of all we are meant to love our neighbor.
Man I'm winning at life I'm turning 40 and getting a skilled trade in AC/ people have a look of throwing up they so pissed off so yeah go work have a business try exercising doin the right thing and u can get that same energy but there's resistance and sometimes u just have to be quiet have forgiveness
Good for you man do it. Bless you
Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
We have to be carefull cus people will just hurt you n try to break you down.....cus these kind of people really affects the mental stability of some people...
God willing, they can never make us shallow like them!! Thanks for such a helpful video!!👍👌👏
Tyler I'm working on myself and i will slay anything that gets in my way.I'm not playing games with NO ONE!👑💪❤👑💪❤
so true been through that is why i don't say anything thing of what i do in my life or what i do with my husband and that goes family members too
In spite of what folks do or say, I REFUSE to let them to infect and affect me again! No weapon formed against me with NOT prosper 💯!
I am absolutely hooked on your videos my friend. Finally, someone making encouraging videos and unlike most videos, regardless of them being encouraging or not. You have people all through the comments talking shit or trying to say something completely off topic to just be dickheads. You're an amazing person, keep these videos coming, 5 hours have went by and I'm still watching only your videos my dude
I hear and agree to this all too well! You always speak the 100% Truth. Much blessings Tyler!
Sending you lots of peace and blessings my good friend I love listening to your good words you give me so much insight into people in my life family in-laws
I'm living my best life I anit going back and forth with you ninjas!!!!!!!!!
I don't speak to nobody, just hi is enough on workplace
Tell it like it is
Tyler, can you do a video on what to do during holiday dinners with family members who are toxic? I cannot avoid this function because I usually dont go and just send my kids with my parents... But this year I am going... And I get highly anxious in social scenes never mind around ppl who have slandered me... Gossiped about me and are just plain evil... (A few cousins of mine) So maybe you have some tips on how not to freak out or how not to let my guard down when they are being fake..
why go and do it to yourself , wont help u .they don't care , I know from my own experience . I learned hard way
loving myself. I don't want to go and to be honest I probably wouldn't go if it weren't for my father and step mom plus my three kids going... Every year my dad n step mum show up with my kids but U don't go which continues to fuel the rumors and gossip... Once and for all I am going to go and I will somehow manage to keep myself busu long enough until it is time to leave... But if one of them confronts me I will answer respectfully but completely honestly
Ignore them,you ARE the bigger person,dont go down to their level.their obviously hurting on the inside,”let them burn in their own fire”.i hope this helped.👍🏼
loving myself I might actually stay home after all... I am stressing myself out too much about the situation and it hasn't even happened yet... Plus I have nothing formal to wear..
And these ppl are quite judgmental when it comes to attire and materialism...amd thats just not me... I would rather be rich on the inside and poor on the outside than rich on the outside and empty on the inside... Either way I have until 11am tomorrow to decide!!
Celeste Brusciano be yourself everythings gonna be fine,we all have those type of people around us,for me my sister in law.yeah i know shes an idiot and materialistic and ignorant but,i still have to talk to her Lol.maybe a Glass of wine to ease the nerves..again its the holidays ☃️🎁🎄kudos
Tyler your getting straight to the point in these videos i get it vacation is over lets continue getting to it much love and many blessings too you.
If they talk about others they will talk about YOU
You also notice it through their energy. Even when they be smiling in your face, you can sense the fakeness...
It's sad when the haters come from your family. Keep doing good work brother
I have one man who hates me so much, he would like to see me destroyed. This man talks to me all the time, mirroring my ways and faking a smile. I desire never to see this man again, but he keeps talking. Thanks so much. Kelly P. P.
tyler is so right i know a chick a who does this to me over and over i have to deal with her on a daily basis and the only time this person want's to talk to me is pump me for information , or tries to humiliate me every chance they get and they purposely leaves me out of certain activities and smirks at to make sure i get the message. now that i see her i barely make eye contact or try to have conversation she tries to suck the life out of me with her evil energy. oh and they try to catch you alone and do this stuff behind peoples back so when you don't want to interact with them they try to make you look crazy as if your the one out to get them.
I needed to be reminded.
TRUTH.
People will hate your mentality but will still want to benefit from the results of your mentality.
I wish I had seen this years ago. It would have saved me a lot of pain. I trust to freely…
.. And you have so much knowledge, love your channel!
practical advice kind of obvious but we all ignore it at time some want to see the good in everyone your family know you well and can do this too....
Good morning everybody hey Tyler thanks for the page I've been viewing your videos about 2 weeks now and your on point most people they try to transfer their insecurities over to another person to lower their self-esteem to make themselves feel better about themselves yeah Elaine your on point thanks for the words also
Haters are gonna hate.
Wayne Barton. so true. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI Just forget about the HATERS in life because that's their problem and NOT yours and besides the best way to deal with them is to simply just leave them because they made their beds so let them lay in them but other than that though I'm done and keep doing what you do because you're an INSPIRATION to the good Peoples lives and that's what TRULY matters and counts and I salute you to what you do ✌.
Living it. I know that one person, who often sounds like my biggest cheerleader? Yep, they hate me. How do I know? Because I work for them and they feel I’m better than them. They have low confidence in themselves. So, just like how my mother betrayed me, I’m prepping for the day they betray me also.
Thanks. I have found your videos very helpful.God bless and continue to enlighten.
Araceli Iniquez. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Thank you Tyler.
I appreciate this message sooo much....going through it, but I will still rise. #😊#stayingpositive#avesseloflight
May the most high bless your soul.
I wanna say thank you for helping me in life
And don't you just love how they give negative scenarios vs positive ones in order spew spells and curses? It's just as easy for them to use a poistive example just as it is for them to use a negative one, but who God blesses no man can curse. Gotta have haters in order for God to prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies.
I think you are a sweetheart! ❤️
Thank you man i never thought about but this topic
Alexandre Monterio.thank you so much. peace and blessings to you.
Disgusting! These people deserve a fate worse than death!!!
Mr. Man. you are so right. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Blessings to you too. I appreciate your service brotha!!
The mental torture they put you through your whole life is beyond. Then you go crazy growing up in your mind thinking your weird, your strange, your the negative one and you have issues. But they dont realise their treatment towards us helps us to be deeper thinkers. Being deeper thinkers we can be more open minded so we can learn to change our mind set. But when we find the strength to realise it is not us but them and walk away they turn that against us. They will not let you grow. The sad part is alot of these using, evil narcassistic people dont even see what they have done and genuinely think they have given you the world lol
Don't wish that on them.
You're better than that.
Mr Man my god first am hearing talks like that forgive thoes that hate you.
Great topic!
Exactly I’m learning more and more all the time!! 👍 that people like that aren’t worth my time anymore.
This video did bring up in my mind a question that I have been kicking around in my head for a long time, even though it is completely unrelated to what you discussed here, and the question is:
Do we as a society have a to casual view of sex? Hear me out!
Before I start though, I want you to please note that I refer to FWB situations as arrangements, NOT relationships, because if you're just hooking up with someone, you're NOT in a relationship with them, and I feel to use that word to describe an FWB situation paints an INACCURATE picture of what is going on, as well as lead to UNREALISTIC expectations.
So here's my question, as well as thoughts on the subject:
In today's world, people hook up with each other left and right, and people have a very cavalier attitude about it. Many enter into FWB ARRANGEMENTS.
But while sex is very enjoyable, it isn't a game, as can lead to very serious consequences, like unwanted pregnancies, or STI/STD transmission. And even if contraceptives are used, like condoms for example, they're still not a 100% full proof.
In the case of the former, all too often the child in question either grows up without a father, or is aborted; even though it did nothing to deserve that, because the child in question certainly could not help that it was conceived, nor the circumstances surrounding its conception, nor the fact it's parents either didn't want it or that might have been an inconvenient time for the parent.
And in the case of the latter, there are social diseases out there for which there is no cure for, like HIV/AIDS, HEPATITIS, HERPES, and HPV for example. And even with treatment, any one of those diseases still alters that person's life forever.
Not to mention, but sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another person. And when people enter to an FWB ARRANGEMENT, nearly every single time, if not EVERY SINGLE TIME, and seen this in both my own life, as well as from observing others in such a situation, is that one person develops feelings for the other, feelings that are often not reciprocated, which leads to heartbreak.
Now some may argue that an FWB ARRANGEMENT can benefit both people involved. But if/when one person developes feelings for the other and those feelings are not reciprocated, and normally what ends up happening us that the party who did not develop feelings for the other leaves the one who did essentially hanging out to dry, whether they intentionality did that or not, in such a case you could also argue - who did the arrangement really benefit?
In such a case, the FWB ARRANGEMENT clearly did not benefit both parties, because one of them is being left with the short end of the stick.
And when you really stop and think about it, about the foundation that FWB ARRANGEMENTS are based on, it's really one of complete selfishness, because it is essentially says:
"I want what I want, when I want it. In the end its all about me, and if you can't handle that that's your problem, not mine."
So with everything being said, it just really makes me wonder, do we as a society have a way too casual view of sex - which is my MAIN question here?
And on a sidenote can FWB ARRANGEMENTS actually, work without anyone's feelings getting hurt/involved? And if so, what can you do, in order to keep yourself from catching feelings for the other person in such an arrangement?
Thank you so much for your honesty and your clearness. I love that you keep it 100 and that you cut no corners. You have helped me a lot with saying what you mean and meaning what you say I love it and that's why I subscribed. Happy holidays and most of all happy New Year.
gholerk Kay. I appreciate it thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Thank.you , thank you thank,you!!! Tylor. And some of these insane sick individuals will go to the extreme to stop us. Thank you for this video.Tylor please pray for me and others who may be living in danger around these sick and damaged souls.
Terri Ali. yes, it is. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
We All have haters👌. It's human nature. Most if my haters needed something from me and I have. They needed me when they were down, out, sick, and I took care of them until death. Believe me, they died a horrible and painful death. I even gave them something to talk about to make them more miserable, which gave me pleasure😊. At the end of their journey, I was still a BAD BITCH POPPING HER COLLAR 😊😊😊.
Great Content , Honestly. I was a subscriber. Your video popped up on my screen and I noticed I wasn’t following you anymore.
I clicked subscribed to you and it said “Error”
The solution to this is memory.
We focus so much on subscribers , but if we memorize names and practice words we can find progression in “error”
Seriously it’s tactics to this shit . I advise to educate and repeat teachings on memory .
SPEAK!!!!!!!!!! STRAIGHT TO THE POINT & FULL!! THANK YOU
Thank you Tyler for this can u tell how to recognize the haters bcoz sometimes i get confused who is haters and who is not by thier action.
Muhammad Riyaz.thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
My goal is to move out of London, my mum and step dad recently moved out of London last year. I'm hoping to do the same. I've decided on my career path, to become a youth worker. Looking for a fresh but of scenery,they still live in the south of England, plus we got family who moved out of London to the "country " and haven't looked back, so I'd like to take that next step myself. Just need to focus on my job hunting
I love you channel Tyler thank you so much for your knowledge its clear precise and contains no bs
If you know you don't FW me, what you spoke to me for?
Yup. I cut them off because I got tired of hearing from them.
This is so true only just found this a year late and also still resonates 🙏 💕
Tyler, great job breaking this down for us. Your appreciated!
Raquel Alavazo. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI It's an interesting video but the thing is though if that were me well then I wouldn't want to have anything to do with them type of people what's so ever.
Wayne Barton. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI Your welcome because I'm only HAPPY to help and that's why I'm here but anyway have a great one and I wish you all the success to your future videos plus live long and PROSPER and by the way happy 2018 and beyond not to mention peace out ✌.
I needed a daily dose of Tyler!
I love your advice and videos thank u so much 😊😊 we need people like you ..
So happy I found you .. always makes sense alot of views you discuss are me and it's hard to understand I kind my own business love others ...🆘🦋💰☮️👽🌎✌️👌💎ℹ️🗣️🗣️🤷❣️
I give you a thousand times up, your so right bro
Do you know how right you are? I love the focus and passion you put in your videos also!
Facts
VictoriasClosetXOXO. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Good channel, you give good advice in a strong direct manor...thanks
So basically it like narcissistic people. Most narcissisti people do this tyler bro . Narcissistic people are stuck in a bad cycle and they want you to be in the bad cycle.
Damn I'm fighting tooth and nail to keep drama out of my life!
Need this! It is starting again.
Good word 100% favor looks good on us . Thanks brother.
I'm happy to see them going then coming. don't care about they comment
Tyler, thanks for the video. You are right on the money.
HAY TYLER, BUT I LOVE YOU!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!
Tyler jtii can u do a video on social anxiety and mental health.
They try to steal your energy & joy !
Absolutely right
Shalaya McCullum. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI you welcome