How To Make Friends In High School

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  • čas přidán 25. 08. 2024

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  • @noelhill7766
    @noelhill7766 Před 6 lety +5808

    lol, the fact that we looked this up.

  • @nicolemosburg9018
    @nicolemosburg9018 Před 6 lety +3321

    it’s hard to compliment someone on their outfit at my school when everyone wears a uniform

    • @summerhollinger7067
      @summerhollinger7067 Před 6 lety +146

      Nicole M yeah I know!!! Compliment their School bag 😂?

    • @nirukalim9070
      @nirukalim9070 Před 5 lety +8

      Ikr

    • @macarenapereira8326
      @macarenapereira8326 Před 5 lety +13

      I was looking 4 this comment

    • @rico1053
      @rico1053 Před 5 lety +33

      Same but compliment their hair

    • @avastinson3250
      @avastinson3250 Před 5 lety +51

      Me: I love ur outfit today Susie!
      Susie: oh..it’s just the regular uniform...idk why you would-
      Me:shhh...I luv it
      Susie: I gotta get to class...*runs* MRS....MRS HELP
      Me: whelp I tried

  • @josilync.2526
    @josilync.2526 Před 5 lety +560

    My mom just heard the video say “this is how you make friends in high school” and she gave me an awkward hug.
    Oh gosh

    • @xenaer4135
      @xenaer4135 Před 4 lety +51

      Josilyn C. If my dad heard this he would make fun of me tbh

    • @Ana-mf1cz
      @Ana-mf1cz Před 4 lety +33

      I can watch this video peacefully because my parents don't speak English 😌

    • @theambitiousduck
      @theambitiousduck Před 4 lety +9

      *patpat*

    • @mkkpop8170
      @mkkpop8170 Před 3 lety +8

      @@xenaer4135 I walked in the other day and my dad was making fun of me for having no friends.😭

  • @jaylaahs.mp3456
    @jaylaahs.mp3456 Před 6 lety +932

    Ima just scrolling down the comment section because I want to see all the people that actually relate to me 😫😥

    • @kornstar___0639
      @kornstar___0639 Před 5 lety +7

      Boi that's me I just feel like I don't have real real friends hbu

    • @13i76
      @13i76 Před 4 lety +3

      I found one

    • @justingalvin5605
      @justingalvin5605 Před 4 lety +2

      Ur so me, and been doin it since the video started lol

    • @atinyxo4508
      @atinyxo4508 Před 4 lety +1

      You're srsly not alone I'm probably going to a girls school and I'm so nervous if I'm not the only one who's new there

    • @atinyxo4508
      @atinyxo4508 Před 4 lety

      @@kornstar___0639 same

  • @erinsmeraldo9008
    @erinsmeraldo9008 Před 6 lety +1488

    i hate being an introvert especially since i have no friends in my clasees

    • @chloejoy135
      @chloejoy135 Před 6 lety +45

      I can relate

    • @alexav12
      @alexav12 Před 6 lety +106

      Erin Smeraldo bro I started today and i literally walk these halls alone 😭

    • @dayibdjk1378
      @dayibdjk1378 Před 6 lety +20

      i feel yall dont worry were in the same gruop

    • @joanna271
      @joanna271 Před 6 lety +50

      Erin Smeraldo saaammmmmeee it’s already been a week and I haven’t made a single friend

    • @Ivan_1791
      @Ivan_1791 Před 6 lety +14

      I will start tomorrow with school, wish me luck. :D
      By the way, where are you from?

  • @meganmoss4575
    @meganmoss4575 Před 6 lety +1928

    I like don’t know how to make a conversation I’m j so boring you know

    • @meganmoss4575
      @meganmoss4575 Před 6 lety +171

      Achol Ayii ughh it’s honestly so awkward, and sometimes I say stuff so quietly or I mumble and they. Can’t hear obvi & it’s just embarrassing lol

    • @meganmoss4575
      @meganmoss4575 Před 6 lety +31

      Achol Ayii ahhhh this is so accurate

    • @meganmoss4575
      @meganmoss4575 Před 6 lety +23

      Achol Ayii yes!

    • @chloebolduc8011
      @chloebolduc8011 Před 6 lety +9

      Megan M I have the same problem 😂

    • @chloejoy135
      @chloejoy135 Před 6 lety +6

      I can definitely relate

  • @julies3002
    @julies3002 Před 6 lety +1910

    does anybody relate when people call shy people stuck up?

    • @josephdesaulniers9167
      @josephdesaulniers9167 Před 6 lety +20

      Yep...

    • @SwitchetBladeX3
      @SwitchetBladeX3 Před 6 lety +127

      I'm just feared because my face screams I want to kill someone by default

    • @daniella.adetoye
      @daniella.adetoye Před 6 lety +14

      Yassss that is my life

    • @dotchai
      @dotchai Před 6 lety +23

      i can relate so much, somebody compliments me and i just say thanks and then they roll their eyes cause i didn’t compliment back

    • @lactoseintoleranticecreamfan
      @lactoseintoleranticecreamfan Před 5 lety +39

      I have like social anxiety and a resting bitch face, horrible combo, and one of the friends I some how managed to make told me I looked mad all the time when she saw me around🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @JennsCrazyLife
    @JennsCrazyLife Před 6 lety +1075

    Well, I’m already failing at the first step. 😂

    • @btsswag1943
      @btsswag1943 Před 6 lety +3

      Jenn'sCrazyLife same here 😂

    • @eman5578
      @eman5578 Před 6 lety +2

      you are everwhere

    • @mivana9097
      @mivana9097 Před 6 lety

      Jenn'sCrazyLife same

    • @Darthtibu66
      @Darthtibu66 Před 6 lety +5

      Jenn'sCrazyLife but you have friends I have non so don’t say you don’t have.

    • @Destiny-yc8ou
      @Destiny-yc8ou Před 6 lety +1

      Same

  • @blogpopdeglamour
    @blogpopdeglamour Před 6 lety +627

    Another way to make friends on the first day: offer food

  • @victoriaxxx9254
    @victoriaxxx9254 Před 5 lety +510

    Who else is too awkward to speak or give compliments 😔 i like to socialize but i just dont know how to approach

    • @hoseokssprite7705
      @hoseokssprite7705 Před 5 lety +8

      Sameee

    • @user-oq9pl6op7r
      @user-oq9pl6op7r Před 5 lety +5

      victoria xxx same lol

    • @coconutoes
      @coconutoes Před 5 lety +41

      i used to be like this when i was younger, but now i can talk to anyone as long as i have a topic. here's advice. trust me, it will be hard at first, but step out of ur comfort zone and start talking to randome people. the more u do this, the more easier it will be. that's what i had to do. make sure to always think of something before u talk and always have a back up question in case it gets quiet. hope this helped!! :D

    • @victoriaxxx9254
      @victoriaxxx9254 Před 4 lety +5

      maddiesings Thank you ill try ❤️ ive been feeling kinda lonley and ive been needing some advice ❤️

    • @xenaer4135
      @xenaer4135 Před 4 lety +14

      Lets just all be friends I always get awkward at school like I want to talk to them but I just can’t idk why and then I regret it straight after

  • @myfriendshopblog5902
    @myfriendshopblog5902 Před 5 lety +366

    You may be asking yourself questions like, "What if they don't like me?" or "What if they make fun of me?" The truth is, we are all afraid of rejection. You are not alone in this. I remember transferring to a new school and not knowing where to begin. I had the same self-doubt. Then, one day, I pulled myself up and brushed all those doubts aside.

    • @fannilouu4405
      @fannilouu4405 Před 5 lety +29

      Yeah but what if you are not new and you dont have that ability of a fresh start? I have been with these people for 90% of my life and if i suddenly change they will dought me you know

    • @user-od8vx2ei9g
      @user-od8vx2ei9g Před 4 lety +14

      fannilou u EXACTLY MAN i wanna make the change to a much brighter person but i’m stuck with the same ppl who will notice and judge sudden change

    • @AMoon-sw2jh
      @AMoon-sw2jh Před 4 lety +5

      @@fannilouu4405 I relate

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      @alandenver51 Před 2 lety +1

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    • @sarcev_janja
      @sarcev_janja Před 2 lety

      Psychologist in my school said that to me, we are all new in that school we are all afraid

  • @filipmac5577
    @filipmac5577 Před 4 lety +102

    It is difficult to find new friends when everybody already had their own friend group.

    • @romina2217
      @romina2217 Před 2 lety +11

      Girl same, I want to switch out of my friend group because it’s toxic but I can’t because everyone has their own friend group so it’s kinda hard 😭 also I’m in 8th grade

  • @SluggishVee
    @SluggishVee Před 5 lety +297

    guys it's ok to search this stuff, a lot of people struggle making friends 💙

    • @mooncatz6206
      @mooncatz6206 Před 5 lety +17

      :(((

    • @Hi-ue2jf
      @Hi-ue2jf Před 4 lety +5

      Literally my friend’s just ignore me I searched this up to show them who’s boss

    • @ruthabera1159
      @ruthabera1159 Před 4 lety +6

      I needed to see this comment ' thank you so much❤❤❤

    • @ana.11256
      @ana.11256 Před 3 lety +4

      Yea, especially if you have anxiety or you’re really shy, that’s nothing to be ashamed about, people struggle with different things☺️❤️

    • @dcd05
      @dcd05 Před 3 lety +2

      I’ve never had a friend my whole life... I’m in 10th grade 😔 not even going to school this year cause of covid and by next year my high school will already be almost done 😭

  • @unrealgalaxy9669
    @unrealgalaxy9669 Před 5 lety +137

    Problem with me is i'm boring, i cant get to say stuff which is in my head. I'm great at making the class laugh, but i am not great at making conversations with people, which i why i have absolutely no friends, and everyone just ignores me. Back in my old school when i had a lot of besties, we always made jokes and made each other laugh. Now i just don't know what happened to me, It hurts so much, you know:(

    • @lxsha7254
      @lxsha7254 Před 5 lety +2

      Same here

    • @nobodae3296
      @nobodae3296 Před 5 lety +18

      This is exactly my situation everybody at my old school loved me and now I’m just antisocial and lonely but today was only my first day of my new school so hopefully I make friends

    • @lxsha7254
      @lxsha7254 Před 5 lety

      @@nobodae3296 how did it go

    • @nobodae3296
      @nobodae3296 Před 5 lety +7

      LosHa TM today was Friday so the last day of the first week of school and throughout the 5 days I haven’t made one friend 💀 in fact nobody even talked to me

    • @lxsha7254
      @lxsha7254 Před 5 lety +2

      @@nobodae3296 Aw sorry to hear if I was there I would be your friend

  • @s14ak59
    @s14ak59 Před 4 lety +165

    The most things I say to communicate with people are:
    1) "Hi"
    2) "Bye"
    3) "Where are you going after this lesson?"
    4) "Did you do the homework we got?"

  • @ashleyramroop6546
    @ashleyramroop6546 Před 6 lety +348

    I started school a week ago and it's really hard to make friends everyone have friends while I'm lonely

  • @cherrybomb.7645
    @cherrybomb.7645 Před 6 lety +272

    Been in school for four weeks and this video really made me look at myself. Im shy but i love talking to ppl it actually makes me happy. This video helped im gonna start smiling and looking more approachable. Im really just looking for a extrovert to "adopt" into there group

    • @indirakar5597
      @indirakar5597 Před 5 lety +5

      It's been a while, did you make any friends?

    • @medjiefr274
      @medjiefr274 Před 5 lety +5

      how is it going for you now ?

    • @maariyahshamsi7061
      @maariyahshamsi7061 Před 4 lety +6

      SAMEEE. Because being friends with other introverts gets you nowhere

    • @xenaer4135
      @xenaer4135 Před 4 lety +4

      We are concerned of you please reply

    • @user-nq9wf4hi6d
      @user-nq9wf4hi6d Před 4 lety +6

      omg I wanna know how it went 😔

  • @chrissyblack1451
    @chrissyblack1451 Před 6 lety +459

    1:35 when she said she went home and cried I was like boiiiiiiiiii that was me 3 mins ago😂😂😂

  • @orangecat1832
    @orangecat1832 Před 6 lety +394

    Sleep? Never heard of her.

  • @hadeeelj5960
    @hadeeelj5960 Před 6 lety +412

    im a shy person and today was my first of school is the new school and it was horibble i in the break time i had nobody to sit with i keep walking in circles ill see this vid i really to make a friend😭 and i came home soo sad and i wanted to go to my old school bc i miss my bff

    • @FlarityBelle
      @FlarityBelle Před 6 lety +30

      OMG SAME i have no idea what to do

    • @hadeeelj5960
      @hadeeelj5960 Před 6 lety +7

      Itsbrookemsp oh that's i good idea i could do it thanks bc i still dont have friend

    • @mariamattaway7459
      @mariamattaway7459 Před 6 lety +12

      That was me too for a few weeks but you will make friends naturally, sometimes it takes longer, like for me

    • @amysteriousdisease7168
      @amysteriousdisease7168 Před 6 lety +10

      How did you make friends Mia? I'm new at school that I've been going to for like only three days and I still haven't made any friends even though I just started I'm still kinda bummed and sorry if this is weird haha

    • @UnKnown-fr3vh
      @UnKnown-fr3vh Před 6 lety +4

      Omg same my best friend is leaving my secondary and she is the only friend i had 😭😭😭😭😭😩

  • @melanieguerrero4926
    @melanieguerrero4926 Před 6 lety +169

    Also a good tip is just to jump in on their convo. I am a freshmen i started school on the 13th of August and i had classes with none of my friends and litteraly thats what i did. They were talking about this show and the others girl had not watched it so the girl was explaining and i jumped in saying yeah its soo good and bam i made 3 friends that day. Then in class i would literally ask the person sitting nect to me if i could look at their scheduoe and bam convo. Then this sophmore girl that went to my old scholl was in my lunch she saw me we talked She introduced me2 her other Friends and there you go I sat with a group of sophmores at lunch and they were all very nice. But then i met some freshmen and sat with them cause the girl said i could sit with them so i did.

    • @jasinta5390
      @jasinta5390 Před 6 lety +31

      I wish I had that much luck lol.
      Happy for u tho😘

    • @priawoulmun6919
      @priawoulmun6919 Před 6 lety +3

      Melanie Guerrero Good Job that’s great :D

    • @aurorareyes6652
      @aurorareyes6652 Před 4 lety

      This year I have non of my friends in any of my classes as well and I haven’t been able to make new friends since

    • @ywos7979
      @ywos7979 Před 4 lety +1

      damn thats lucky

    • @romina2217
      @romina2217 Před 2 lety

      Ugh I wish I had that luck except im in middle school

  • @stanredvelvet7497
    @stanredvelvet7497 Před 5 lety +46

    What I hate the most on the 1st week of school is when you have to do your first P.E session. Nobody picks you like literally.

  • @meaad9456
    @meaad9456 Před 6 lety +98

    i'm not a social person at all , but college taught me to be social lol i always try to start small conversation the person next to me what's your major , classes and that stuff and in the end of the semester we became friends!

    • @aWERFRGT6545BGFG
      @aWERFRGT6545BGFG Před 5 lety +1

      I start a convo with someone, its starts off normal..than as I'm befriending them despite being shy af, I come out of nowhere and tell them I have social anxiety, and I reveal my life and random psychology facts and I treat them like Ive known them for decades
      then they get creeped out and then they start hating me...

  • @jaleigh3335
    @jaleigh3335 Před 5 lety +79

    Step 1: look friendly..?
    Meanwhile im sitting here with my arms crossed and a rbf

  • @OliviaLouise
    @OliviaLouise Před 5 lety +72

    You know your first day of school was bad when your googling how to make friends

  • @Draquelina
    @Draquelina Před 3 lety +9

    the thing is it’s only the first week of school and i feel everybody has their own friend groups already so i’m a bit scared to walk up and approach them 💀

    • @ang930
      @ang930 Před 2 lety +1

      @kazutoras lawyer! omg im not alone😭 It's honestly so depressing and embarrassing:(

    • @icedtokey5511
      @icedtokey5511 Před 2 lety

      @kazutoras lawyer! same bro, same

    • @esra3esra
      @esra3esra Před rokem

      Me too

  • @Nana-hb4os
    @Nana-hb4os Před 5 lety +154

    The fact that I research this and that I am actually failing every step😂😭💀

  • @Josh-sg4me
    @Josh-sg4me Před 6 lety +173

    I’m a loner 😢

  • @Lolly2601
    @Lolly2601 Před 4 lety +32

    Okay let’s be real.. we all want more Friends.

  • @morganhemby7510
    @morganhemby7510 Před 6 lety +53

    I’m so happy you’ve made this video because I wanted to make new friends and meet new people this school year but I always feel awkward about starting the initial conversation but this helped a lot.

  • @lexi-hp5or
    @lexi-hp5or Před 4 lety +13

    who's here because your friends have been verbally abusing you for years and you didn't even realize it until you found yourself with low self esteem so now you're trying to start over with new friends?

  • @anyak3329
    @anyak3329 Před 5 lety +169

    You forgot the part about looking good, wearing a thrasher hoodie and oh yeah, vaping now 😐

    • @mopexists
      @mopexists Před 5 lety +45

      Ikr, no one cares about looking friendly in my class, you can TELL that the people who aren't trendy are more lonely but then the trendy unfriendly bitches hang out in big ass groups in the hall

    • @hibye7721
      @hibye7721 Před 5 lety +2

      Etunimi Sukunimi so so true

    • @allisona941
      @allisona941 Před 5 lety +2

      Nah not really

    • @normalpeople012
      @normalpeople012 Před 4 lety +4

      ew vaping

    • @jiashanuhai3222
      @jiashanuhai3222 Před 4 lety +2

      A kid at my school got caught vaping at school I watched it before I got introuble so I ran to class fast

  • @Eva-wn7mb
    @Eva-wn7mb Před 4 lety +26

    I never thought I would ever search up for something like this, because I've been friends with these girls for about 3 years. Turned out they were so toxic and now I don't remember how it's like finding new people to be friends with:/

  • @simpleascanbe6790
    @simpleascanbe6790 Před 6 lety +229

    Thanks for this video I’m a freshman and just started school on Monday! #Classof2022 where you at?!? 🎓🎉✨

    • @fionawrobel2511
      @fionawrobel2511 Před 6 lety +7

      SimpleAsCanBe class of 2021,started last Wednesday,unfortunately ugh I wish it was still summer

    • @simpleascanbe6790
      @simpleascanbe6790 Před 6 lety +1

      Fiona Wrobel haha! I know! It’s hard to get in the rhythm of things when you just start school

    • @elliskelly1413
      @elliskelly1413 Před 6 lety +5

      ayyeee Class of 2022 right here!

    • @mollykatz8293
      @mollykatz8293 Před 6 lety +5

      Class of 2020 right here !! 😅

    • @diaviantucker7955
      @diaviantucker7955 Před 6 lety +1

      SimpleAsCanBe ayyy #classof2022

  • @StarjeIly.
    @StarjeIly. Před 3 lety +6

    I’m starting school next week I’m literally so scared I’m super shy too it’s not easy for me to start conversations also the fact that I had to search this up LMAOOO

    • @teffi6401
      @teffi6401 Před 3 lety +3

      NO BC SAME LMFAO HOW AM I GOING TO SURVIVE

    • @rabiremo6538
      @rabiremo6538 Před 2 lety

      1 year later any tips update on anything

    • @StarjeIly.
      @StarjeIly. Před 2 lety

      ​@@rabiremo6538 i had my friend from middle school and she made other friends so i was introduced to them. I also got along with a few people but they had their own friends. I tried to make the conversations longer which was a big step for me because i always keep it short. Also if anybody was stuck on something i just blurted it out and they would talk to me once in a while during class :)

    • @esra3esra
      @esra3esra Před rokem

      I was so scared in 7th grade

  • @miamoreno6491
    @miamoreno6491 Před 4 lety +14

    When I was little I just went up to some kid and went “Hi wanna be best friends” then they will be like “Sure!” And that would sometimes last. But my closest best friend I met her by just saying “Friends?” I was 7.

  • @allierackow2878
    @allierackow2878 Před 5 lety +23

    Small talk at school: omg i just want to go home! Litterly everyone would relate

  • @sarahfaustin8238
    @sarahfaustin8238 Před 6 lety +39

    It's literally 3 in the morning and I'm watching this

  • @claudiafc4335
    @claudiafc4335 Před 6 lety +49

    I'm starting my freshman year of high school tomorrow and I'm so nervous but I'll be fine! 😂♥️ I loved the video!

    • @BeastBrookGod30
      @BeastBrookGod30 Před 6 lety

      I only have 250 people at my high school...the smaller the better...well doesnt work for sex xD

    • @claudiafc4335
      @claudiafc4335 Před 6 lety

      @@BeastBrookGod30 My school has around 2,000 students lmaoo xD

    • @chloejoy135
      @chloejoy135 Před 6 lety +1

      It's not as scary as it seems :)

    • @cameronward3777
      @cameronward3777 Před 5 lety

      Christopher Emmons that’s like half of our freshman class lmao

    • @Skiet777
      @Skiet777 Před 4 lety

      Claudia F So did you make friends?

  • @chanelvanderberg9867
    @chanelvanderberg9867 Před 3 lety +4

    When you and your best friend goes to separate schools and you end up here I'm gonna miss her so much🥲

  • @oskar00800
    @oskar00800 Před 5 lety +24

    Is anyone worried about the first day of highschool coz they dont know anyone

    • @huyu9242
      @huyu9242 Před 5 lety

      AcE_ Lazerex some going to junior high for the first time and I’m more worried of how I’ll dress than friends because I can always join a club with common interests

  • @fran4872
    @fran4872 Před 4 lety +3

    I know you probably won't see this but, I'm 13 and in a year I'll be going to highschool. I looked this up because here in my primary school, every girl in my class always gave me bad impressions whenever I tried to interact with them. I never had any chances with them. It's not just the girls, it's most of my classmates. They always think I'm cringe and don't really wanna talk to me, but I'm just trying to be myself and do what I like (gaming). So I'm super nervous because I don't want the same thing to happen in highschool. Thank you for the advice

  • @adrianaperez6552
    @adrianaperez6552 Před 5 lety +15

    class of 2023 and i’m actually scared to say “and i- oop” to someone i say it to much currently

    • @tiana1736
      @tiana1736 Před 5 lety +2

      Lmaoo don't say it everybody hates us already they think we all vsco girls

  • @oliviatchangou1561
    @oliviatchangou1561 Před 6 lety +11

    This makes me so happy because you are giving us realistic advice for school! Thanks Keegan 💛

  • @hannahpfingsten3280
    @hannahpfingsten3280 Před 5 lety +20

    I have friends but I’m really just trying to get the toxic ones OUT of my life. 😶 Sticking with them has caused me to be comfortable and not branch out cause I THOUGHT my group was solid, but we crumbled fast...I need upgrades.

    • @metalyuncle3106
      @metalyuncle3106 Před 4 lety +2

      Sammmeeee

    • @sophieryl144
      @sophieryl144 Před 4 lety +3

      This is literally my situation howd u do

    • @jessicaelizabeth1254
      @jessicaelizabeth1254 Před 4 lety +2

      this is literally me right now, did you manage to make new friends if so how??💕

    • @hannahpfingsten3280
      @hannahpfingsten3280 Před 4 lety +1

      Jessica Mullin I totally forgot about this....crazy what can happen in 10 months. I went back to my old group of friends that I didn’t hang with because of the old friends and I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months :) It does get better!! I promise. I am so incredibly happy with who I hangout with now. Im graduated now, and I truly would have never expected this to be my friend group, but I wouldn’t change it. My advice to you would be to only have a small group. Its the BEST. My group is only my close friends. Don’t put up with anybody’s bullshit, its not worth it. There are so many other fantastic people out there. Don’t settle! Find people that you can be 100% you around. Never change just to be someone’s friend. It’s exhausting. Looking back at my comment is crazy. I was so lost but now Im so content.

    • @hannahpfingsten3280
      @hannahpfingsten3280 Před 4 lety

      Sophie ryl ^^^^^^^^

  • @elianesophie5648
    @elianesophie5648 Před 6 lety +186

    Do you know Emily Skinner? You kinda look like her 😄

  • @postmalonestan6326
    @postmalonestan6326 Před 6 lety +55

    Omg story time
    I had no friends in my class and so I walked up to these random girls and asked if I could be in their group for a project because I had no friends I still hate them to this day👍👍👍
    I "love" people at my school as you can "clearly" see
    I love you vid Keegan ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @alessandratardibuono5129
    @alessandratardibuono5129 Před 5 lety +8

    i have social anxiety even though i am a very friendly person but when it comes to asking people to hang out i get so scared and can't do it. it's gotten to the point where i have gone all summer without hanging out with anyone and now my parents poke fun at me saying "alessandra (that's me) doesn't have friends"

  • @NS-hm3op
    @NS-hm3op Před 6 lety +13

    I was frustrated rn about not meeting new people and I found this. Tysm!!!

  • @kromahsisters5423
    @kromahsisters5423 Před 6 lety +102

    I love that top. It's so cute ❤

    • @xeriffe8708
      @xeriffe8708 Před 6 lety +1

      Our World Of Fun ikr i kept staring at it lmao

  • @ItsEndyy
    @ItsEndyy Před 5 lety +17

    I always think that I'm out of place in a group setting :

  • @barneybeckd9126
    @barneybeckd9126 Před 4 lety +2

    It was easy how I got a friend in primary school because when you are little you don’t care you just want a friend then you grow up together but when you hit high school it’s hard

  • @coldtaurus
    @coldtaurus Před 4 lety +5

    im so lonely that im looking up how to get friends...
    please save me

    • @kan._el
      @kan._el Před 4 lety

      ‘ Zysbk i can be your friend if you want 😌🖤

    • @kan._el
      @kan._el Před 4 lety

      ‘ Zysbk yessss

    • @kan._el
      @kan._el Před 4 lety

      ‘ Zysbk yt keeps deleting my comments

  • @audreykohnen8673
    @audreykohnen8673 Před 5 lety +9

    i can’t believe i searched this up but, i got 7 friends bc of mutual friends. i literally always have my arms crossed and with earbuds in, if i didn’t meet them i would be alone . I also have a rbf FML

  • @kenjibenji3
    @kenjibenji3 Před 6 lety +22

    Omg do you know that person when you say to them Like "omg your shirt is nice" and then they be like yea i know and then they smile lmao that is so anoyng😂

  • @tzffany6576
    @tzffany6576 Před 5 lety +8

    It’s hard to look happy when your depressed everyday

  • @shreyasarkar1432
    @shreyasarkar1432 Před 3 lety +3

    For readers another thing I did in school is when I’ve seen people with a book I like I’d start a conversation about it or if it’s a book I haven’t read I’d say “oh I’ve wanted to read that book for a while, is it good?”

  • @natalieschannel8733
    @natalieschannel8733 Před 6 lety +57

    I did not have friends in high school :(

    • @Darthtibu66
      @Darthtibu66 Před 6 lety +1

      Natalie's channel with that pretty face I don’t think so.

    • @Darthtibu66
      @Darthtibu66 Před 6 lety +1

      Natalie's channel you don’t know how it feels

    • @juliebethea9084
      @juliebethea9084 Před 4 lety

      I don't have any friends in high school

    • @alyl.9430
      @alyl.9430 Před 4 lety +1

      I would've been your friend❤️

    • @allan9422
      @allan9422 Před 4 lety +1

      Oh that sucks😔

  • @stephanychoi3080
    @stephanychoi3080 Před 5 lety +7

    Okay so I’m going into high school and at first I wasn’t nervous but I found out I don’t have classes with my friends and now I’m nervous

  • @nhcmys
    @nhcmys Před 6 lety +32

    Hey to the person that read This ...
    Im going to my 2 year of middel school. My only bestfriend i have in the same school as me told me 2 days ago that she is going to change from school. So that means i dont have friends in my 2 year ... bcuz In my year their are a lot of “popular” girls and boys and a lot of people that know Each other from other classes ( i call it the groups) , so i dont belong there ... In primary school i got bullied a lot ... 2,5 years long. So thats why im always a little bit scared and shy on the first day of school (actually im always a little but shy ) ... Uuhm ... Thanks for Reading This hope you understand it a little bit ( i live in Belgium and This year i Will learn English so thats why my English is not so good) ... i just wanted to tell This ... thank you x
    EDIT : Thank you Keegan for the heart ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jasinta5390
      @jasinta5390 Před 6 lety +3

      Hey. Same. It's my 4th day of school and everyone knows eachother. My best friend is doing and exchange year... it sucks...
      Well I'm really trying to be social but I'm just not. Help😣
      I wish you luck❤ It'd be cool if we were in the same class... oh well

    • @nhcmys
      @nhcmys Před 6 lety +1

      Jasinta Oh thanks wish you also very much luck ♥️♥️

    • @jasinta5390
      @jasinta5390 Před 6 lety +1

      @@nhcmys thank you💕😙

    • @priawoulmun6919
      @priawoulmun6919 Před 6 lety

      Hey Hey hope it gets better, relatable but I was never bullied I just came off as annoying to people so they might still see me as that person lol!

    • @allanathornton8463
      @allanathornton8463 Před 5 lety

      Girl my only best friend just left school to but I'm switching schools but not to the same school she's going to

  • @Erika-pl1pr
    @Erika-pl1pr Před 3 lety +4

    Im afraid of eye contact because of social anxiety, also i hate small talk... Also i hate people
    I jk I love people i just wish i could feel more welcomed by people, but in this day and age everyone in highschool talks to who they know...:(

    • @StarjeIly.
      @StarjeIly. Před 3 lety +1

      I’m also afraid of eye contact 😓

  • @floppywater1219
    @floppywater1219 Před 5 lety +5

    I just had an emotional break down because im lonely so now im here LMAO

  • @AshleyVerna
    @AshleyVerna Před 6 lety +3

    LOL wish I had this video when I was in high school 10 years ago. But you know what, it’s also good general life advice. Thanks Keegan. ❤️

  • @karolinelnne2337
    @karolinelnne2337 Před 5 lety +8

    I watched this on 0.25 speed so i could actually get what she was saying😂

  • @janacoppola7648
    @janacoppola7648 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you for this! I had freshman​ orientation today and I start high school tomorrow!

  • @chhenghornglim7040
    @chhenghornglim7040 Před 6 lety +4

    Love you Kegan! Great advices as always! Thanks for this video.

  • @sydneywyatt7556
    @sydneywyatt7556 Před 3 lety +2

    all my “friends” are going to different schools so i have nobody to sit with at lunch this yr or walk around with help me please 😭

  • @sidney4068
    @sidney4068 Před 4 lety +3

    What’s a good conversation point? Like I just don’t know how to get the ball rolling

    • @__-xm5zb
      @__-xm5zb Před 4 lety +1

      This is a little specific to certain classes but I find if you talk about how much you don’t like the class (ex. talk about in PE, math, any class you don’t like and think others won’t like, or school in general) you can start a good conversation. Then you can diverge into things you do like whether that be other classes, sports, or other interests outside of school.

    • @sidney4068
      @sidney4068 Před 4 lety +2

      Alyssa Phillips thank you so much!! I have absolutely no social skills and I hate it 😭

  • @analisemckenna8824
    @analisemckenna8824 Před 3 lety +4

    Remember that everyone is nervous, it isn’t just you.

  • @rainyangie
    @rainyangie Před 6 lety +11

    I'm watching this when I'm in 6th grade lol but love this ♡

  • @TJL004
    @TJL004 Před 4 lety +3

    I am going to high school with no friends... making friends is hard for me because for whatever reason, I am not good enough for people 😂 thanks for this helpful video

  • @miraculousladybugtextingst4339

    This video was so helpful💖 I love you and your channel so much! Keep up the wonderful work!💕. *Edit: Thanks for the ❤ Keegan💖*

  • @adriannabrugler
    @adriannabrugler Před 6 lety +27

    Once again a great video! Love you Keegan! 😁💜 I started high school on Monday & I’m a freshman. #ClassOf2022

  • @gghfdgfjh7739
    @gghfdgfjh7739 Před 4 lety +6

    Her: telling me to smile so im more approachable
    Me: realizing that i have to wear a mask to school anyway bc of corona
    Who can relate lol or am I the only one who has like no friends

  • @syb_764
    @syb_764 Před 3 lety

    I felt the part so much when u said when you’re invested in a convo u can keep talking but small talk when you don’t know someone is so awkward

  • @Robloxgod758
    @Robloxgod758 Před 3 lety +2

    Step one: smile
    Me: I DONT KNOW HOW TO SMILE!!!

  • @koyunanejota9980
    @koyunanejota9980 Před 4 lety +6

    I have friends but I’m watching this because in my school there’s a certain year that we go into and the classes are split so new people in the class and I dont want to be the only one I know in the class especially when we do group projects. I’m scared just incase I get in class because none of my friends chose cookery but I have to! ): and I need to make other Friends ASAP! but I’m so anti social so I really struggle ):

  • @Alana-jz3dz
    @Alana-jz3dz Před 4 lety +3

    ive come to a sad time in my life to have to look this up lmfao

  • @sophiewordsworth8188
    @sophiewordsworth8188 Před 6 lety +2

    Haven’t watched your videos in ages so binge watching them. I love your new hair x

  • @keonalv
    @keonalv Před 5 lety +2

    I don’t mind not knowing anyone in my classes , I just feel lonely at lunch and don’t have anyone to go to any activities with

  • @justkat9148
    @justkat9148 Před 5 lety +3

    On my first day of middle school, in the 6th grade last year, I was sitting at a table at lunch and I said “hi” to this girl. She heard me and looked at me. She just ignored me.😤

  • @mariamattaway7459
    @mariamattaway7459 Před 6 lety +3

    Literally the best video you helped me so much and I feel so much better! (I’m new to my school) thank you!!!!

  • @Heskenclark
    @Heskenclark Před 4 lety +3

    I’m really good at deep convo but like small talk is so 🥱

  • @notanexploreranimations1218

    I have reached a new level of low for looking this up 😀

  • @lactoseintoleranticecreamfan

    I'll update yall if I make friends lol

    • @haipeepss9775
      @haipeepss9775 Před 5 lety +9

      Alekha soo it has been 7 months?

    • @windex3811
      @windex3811 Před 4 lety +7

      it's been a year r u ok?

    • @solin3180
      @solin3180 Před 4 lety +1

      @@windex3811 LMAOOOO

    • @AB-kc3ks
      @AB-kc3ks Před 4 lety +2

      bruh but same💀💀

    • @zero-qu6bs
      @zero-qu6bs Před 4 lety

      guys she hasn't made friends in a year don't rush herrr

  • @irmmz1776
    @irmmz1776 Před 2 lety +3

    The fact I had to look this up 😭

  • @watermelonsugar1136
    @watermelonsugar1136 Před 3 lety +2

    I am moving to a new state in 6 months before I start highschool... I love meeting new people and I'm really excited about it. But what if they don't like me 😶

  • @raina5729
    @raina5729 Před 5 lety +1

    so I searched up how to make friends and this was one of the top videos. I just want to say thanks this is really helpful and I am probably gonna make like at least 3 friends tomorrow or more :))

  • @aliza6900
    @aliza6900 Před 4 lety +3

    I'm introverted i dont know how to social helpppp

  • @maria_xo_8840
    @maria_xo_8840 Před 5 lety +5

    I have friends but they start to ignore me and walk off 😭

  • @keira-maria9979
    @keira-maria9979 Před 5 lety +1

    Going into high school this year I’m not going to the same high school as all my primary friends were fake friends and didn’t let me have any other friends as all I want is a fresh start and a haul of fresh new faces this video has really helped me thanks x 💞

  • @dizzle4256
    @dizzle4256 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m watching this video cause I’ve been homeschooled my entire life and I’m starting public school in August so I’m just really tweakin’

  • @gabriellaperez7165
    @gabriellaperez7165 Před 6 lety +9

    Best youtuber!!

  • @sumayyahadam7975
    @sumayyahadam7975 Před 4 lety +3

    pls admit it but it came to the point that you had to look this up

  • @inkdove759
    @inkdove759 Před 2 lety +1

    Omg thank you so much for this video, I’m such a social butterfly on the internet like the exact opposite in person, I Litterally just started going to a new youth group and I’m so scared because idk how to make friends, I’m gonna try to approach (not creepily) someone while I’m there. I’ll probably stand back and look for someone who looks the nicest, or something. Again thanks!! ❤️

  • @sophie8480
    @sophie8480 Před 3 lety +1

    it’s that time of the year again

  • @maude5389
    @maude5389 Před 5 lety +3

    I start highschool in 2 days and im so scared because i know nobody and i dont want to be reject or the weird kid :')

    • @maude5389
      @maude5389 Před 3 lety +1

      @afia mohammad omg i totally didn’t remember writing this comment! thanks for responding haha but it’s great! you shouldn’t be scared, just don’t be afraid to talk to people, everybody is new,so you’ll make new friends rapidly :)

  • @ney729
    @ney729 Před 5 lety +3

    I am so nervous for freshmen year!

    • @elisfamous9647
      @elisfamous9647 Před 3 lety +1

      how was it?

    • @ney729
      @ney729 Před 3 lety +1

      @@elisfamous9647 hey sorry for the late reply but honestly it’s so memorable! I’m going into junior year and trust me as long as you are yourself the right people will come to you and you’ll love high school !

    • @elisfamous9647
      @elisfamous9647 Před 3 lety

      @@ney729 okayy thank u !!

  • @pinkk.
    @pinkk. Před 3 lety +1

    I made this friend at school and it was a very fun way tbh it’s just being me
    We were in lunch line and I let this girl go in front of me and she said thank you :D
    Then we tend to see eachother a lot in the corridors and then she was like hi nice girl !! And then we started talking!

  • @jacquelinelc3480
    @jacquelinelc3480 Před 3 lety +2

    Man I can’t believe I had to search this... 😭😂