THIS IS WHY YOUR 4C HAIR ISN'T CURLING AND HOW TO FIX IT!

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  • čas přidán 6. 07. 2024
  • Hey my loves! Hope you're doing well? In this video, join me as I define my natural 4c hair as well as give you the 4 reasons why your 4c hair is not curling and how to fix it ASAP so you can enjoy your curls more often! Also I'll be showing you guys THE BEST curl definer gelee that I have tried thus far! Lastly I will be showing you guys how to make your 4c curls last all week long.I hope you enjoy the video!
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  • @RalOnyes
    @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +210

    Hey babes! For everyone that requested a Makeup Tutorial on the look from this video, your wish is my command so here it is! I hope you enjoy it ! xo
    czcams.com/video/O-fHqhmV_ZE/video.html
    PS: How I maintain the hair throughout the week is also coming right up next weekend so watch this space!

  • @_roqui_
    @_roqui_ Před 5 lety +1267

    I'm I the only one getting dark chocolate Eva Marcelle? The voice, that beat face but that extra dose of melanin! Stunning woman, great video ❤

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +35

      Roquell Millington omg you’re sweet !! She’s gorgeous !! So I’ll take it haha! xx Thanks so much !!

    • @tirisbarney171
      @tirisbarney171 Před 5 lety +19

      @roquellmillington I was looking at her thinking the exact same thing, she resembles and sounds like Eva Marcelle wrapped in BEAUTIFUL chocolate! I ABSOLUTELY love and appreciate this tutorial! TFS! @loveglam Can you do a makeup tutorial, yours is Flawless! ❤

    • @DeiHarper9361
      @DeiHarper9361 Před 5 lety +13

      I couldn't remember who she reminded me of until seeing your comment..

    • @jennibell9103
      @jennibell9103 Před 5 lety +14

      I went back and yes she is the really brown version of Eva. Beautiful she is.

    • @Kimarry223
      @Kimarry223 Před 5 lety +5

      I totally agree.

  • @omoshalewababy
    @omoshalewababy Před 3 lety +72

    Everyone’s complaining about the time it took. Y’all sit for 3-5 hours for your lashes lol , this is beautiful ! Go gehl !!!

    • @msjrene35
      @msjrene35 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes!!!!!!!

    • @KushhRoll
      @KushhRoll Před 2 lety +1

      LMFAOOOO, the girls are silent 😂

    • @cillapemberton5306
      @cillapemberton5306 Před rokem

      😳😳😳 people do that?

    • @emmat3531
      @emmat3531 Před měsícem

      It's not long if you play a video, podcast, audiobook, etc. Most people spend more time than that doom scrolling.

  • @katbrax8622
    @katbrax8622 Před 4 lety +125

    I love it when we sisters come together and give each other props.

  • @josephinegondwe8590
    @josephinegondwe8590 Před 4 lety +153

    yasss I love the " we cannot just do the wash and go as 4C girls" that is so true! patience is key!! thanks for this tutorial

  • @ThePamelaJordan
    @ThePamelaJordan Před 5 lety +251

    So... your curls are popping...BUT!!! Honey... your makeup is the Hollywood 🌟 of this video!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +4

      You're sooo sweet! You inspired the title of the makeup look btw! I just uploaded a tutorial now on the look. Check it out czcams.com/video/O-fHqhmV_ZE/video.html

  • @bobleft-foot
    @bobleft-foot Před 5 lety +2076

    My hair is not this curly... actually wondering if I’m 5c

    • @Tish-99
      @Tish-99 Před 5 lety +85

      Tonee Shelton moisture moisture moisture I do LCO method I wash it while its cornrowed style 1 braid at a time or just leave it alone and spray it like a chia pet when I wear my wig

    • @nicoburton9226
      @nicoburton9226 Před 5 lety +266

      She finger coiled her hair thats not curls. Her hair seems to be straight no curl. Just a different texture. What I have learnt if you do not have naturally curly hair is not easy getting curls by using products. what the products do is to define the curls - meaning when you wash your hair it has a certain curly pattern when you apply the curling products it helps to keep those natural curls in tact and not have them getting loose and frizzy. I think by now people would have an understanding that the products do not make non curly hair into curly hair...

    • @mianaomipost9885
      @mianaomipost9885 Před 5 lety +41

      Keep moisturizing maybe get a steamer

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +46

      Nico Burton I’m sure people are gaining an understanding of that now 😊 All great points though !!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +37

      dandilyonz cassandra very true ! All good points !! This is my second big chop so defs have a 4C texture when it’s grown out 😊

  • @kw0304
    @kw0304 Před 5 lety +110

    Hair is cute Sis..... Finally a for real 4c. A lot of these Sistas are 3b,4b claiming their hair is 4c and the products they use don't work in 4c

    • @winniewalker4402
      @winniewalker4402 Před 3 lety +1

      I think I might be 4c but how do you know, my hair looks a lot like yours and ive done this style less the part.

    • @manniem2488
      @manniem2488 Před 3 lety +3

      @@winniewalker4402 dry hair gets confused for 4C all the time. When your hair is wet with water, that’s your natural pattern. When my hair is wet it has zero definition, I have 4C hair.

    • @hakishyamallory5034
      @hakishyamallory5034 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m learning this as i take the natural journey you have to get products that’s for your hair texture

    • @joycedabiel5174
      @joycedabiel5174 Před 3 lety +1

      Or maybe they relaxed it little bit

  • @rokeishiarodgers7205
    @rokeishiarodgers7205 Před 4 lety +95

    Random comment and not sure if you will see this, but I just cut my hair today (4/23/2020) - Yes I cut it during Quarentine- and I was excited and I still am! I have a short TWA like you do in this video. And I kept looking at myself in the mirror like "Do I look ugly" but I came across this video because I want to grow my natural hair out and looking at your face structure, it's kinda similar to mines haha and you look absolutely beautiful! And I promise I just got a boost of confidence just seeing how you rocking this style and your makeup! And I was like..okay yes I can make this work! lol Hope my hair grows better this time!

    • @SagittariusChic888
      @SagittariusChic888 Před 4 lety +7

      Lady, I just cut mine too!! This coronavirus gonna having everyone coming out with a different hair style🤣🤣

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 4 lety +1

      Babygirl I sure saw this comment and it warmed my heart! You are beautiful and I can't wait to see how you're rocking your beautiful new cut! DM me a pic on IG!! ❤️

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 4 lety +1

      @@SagittariusChic888 Facts lol!

    • @michellecbonner7134
      @michellecbonner7134 Před 4 lety +3

      I feel you! I did a big chop and went natural just before COVID-19. I felt ugly for so long and I still sometimes struggle with finding beauty in the mirror. However, I know I am still the same person and you are too. Hang in there girl! Give your brain time to catch up with your new look and you will see the beauty again!

    • @ListensInMich
      @ListensInMich Před 3 lety

      Ma'am!!! I cut my hair about a month ago, because of quarantine and the "why the hell not"... And I'm struggling with the "am I cute?" This video help me so much. I will be cutting up some t-shirts and over wetting my hair when I style. I love the tips! I cannot wait to get up in the morning and utilize these suggestions.

  • @deborahsakyi-djan4197
    @deborahsakyi-djan4197 Před 4 lety +451

    Is high time we blacks start slaying our Afro . We’re fearfully and wonderfully made

    • @mabella4679
      @mabella4679 Před 4 lety +21

      I rock mine and lovin it!

    • @cxdubose5
      @cxdubose5 Před 4 lety +11

      I've been watching lots of videos and I regret not going natural the last time I had my hair cut SUPER SHORT but I'm about to cut it hunny!! My daughter been natural for 2 years and when I say her hair is long and LIFE!!

    • @majesticallymade6177
      @majesticallymade6177 Před 4 lety +4

      Amen!!!!

    • @LGnLA
      @LGnLA Před 4 lety +4

      🗣🗣🗣🗣💯 I was rocking mine, but it got too long (well big lol)... so back to Locs I went!

    • @LGnLA
      @LGnLA Před 4 lety +3

      @Bubble Buster "some"

  • @staceyannsolomon2551
    @staceyannsolomon2551 Před 5 lety +33

    Finally someone who shows the reality in getting your curls. Thanks for making mention that it takes a little time🥰

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +2

      It's my pleasure love! I feel you and made sure to show it because a lot of ppl don't! xo!

  • @honibear6478
    @honibear6478 Před 5 lety +125

    I’m guilty of the “hands on” addiction. I’ve played in my hair for as long as I can remember (66 yrs now). And I didn’t know that natural hair would take so much time/work. I should have known since our hair IS special and delicate.

    • @TheCostah1997
      @TheCostah1997 Před 4 lety +4

      Wow for me it's different. I used to lose a lot of time on my relaxed hair and now I only style my hair twice a week, I feel blessed hahah

    • @maureengannaway8635
      @maureengannaway8635 Před 4 lety +12

      Its 2020 and I went natural finally in 2016. It's so so so much work. I get my hair in a protective style and leave it for months until it Matt's up washing , twisting, buying products omg! I feel like I'm taking care of a baby or a pet.

    • @Q.T-T
      @Q.T-T Před 3 lety +5

      I love fidgeting with and playing in my hair. Straight haired people really are missing out..

  • @KylieJenner2
    @KylieJenner2 Před 5 lety +12

    This is the first time I've ever felt genuinely excited to try a new product and technique because nothing really works for me and now I see a reason why❤❤❤

  • @charlineking519
    @charlineking519 Před 3 lety +23

    I loved this video! The emphasis on patience and time is so brilliant and exactly what we 4c naturals have to understand. It takes patience and more patience. Thanks so much for this. Enjoyed it so much!

  • @MsStacyYvonne
    @MsStacyYvonne Před 5 lety +102

    I'm sloooowwwlly accepting the fact that I'm going to have to take the time and patience to do this if I want my FRIZZY high porosity hair to be defined like this. I used to take the time when I had a twa but then my hair got long and I got lazy smh.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +8

      MsStacyYvonne girlllll I know the feeling !! That was me too when my hair got longer ! Hence the second chop lol ! But this time around I’m promising myself to have the patience to do this ! You can too! You got this!!

    • @5x7m
      @5x7m Před 5 lety +3

      I have high porosity hair too but for me damp and not dripping wet hair and curl custard with a little gel works well.

    • @mamaedina1
      @mamaedina1 Před 5 lety +2

      If you have that much frizz and high porosity your cuticles need to heal, that ia your hair. Protein oils, coconut, black castor, shea butter and NATURAL henna powder. You can heal the hair.

    • @carfrz
      @carfrz Před 3 lety

      @@mamaedina1 we dddfiofpff

    • @carfrz
      @carfrz Před 3 lety

      @@mamaedina1 44r up c b. Vj n v9

  • @symanthaparker1453
    @symanthaparker1453 Před 4 lety +13

    You are the first person to break this down for me! I will be trying this on my next wash day. Wish me patience 🤞🏾

  • @tiarhanoghenejode
    @tiarhanoghenejode Před 5 lety +25

    You are a lifesaver! I have 4C hair and never really knew what to do with it. It literarilly took me 1h30mins to complete this look and it came out great! Thanks Loveglam

  • @trishb.468
    @trishb.468 Před 5 lety +52

    I came to watch your routine but was captivated by your smile... what a beautiful smile you have!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety

      Trish B. Aww you’re sweet! Thank you love ♥️

  • @marciacole8647
    @marciacole8647 Před 3 lety +9

    I got my big chop 2 days ago and was slowly panicking as to how to define my 4c fine strand high porosity high density hair... This helped me so much!! And your hair is bomb 😍 subscribed! ✅

  • @bridgettolbert2984
    @bridgettolbert2984 Před rokem

    Ok…just finding this video and I can’t tell you how grateful I am! First time being natural since I was 5 yrs old and had no idea of what products to use after the big chop”. Curls are poppin now! Thank you!

  • @may_may675
    @may_may675 Před 4 lety +6

    Very helpful! I haven’t defined my curls yet but totally confident in trying after watching your video! Many thanks xx

  • @elizabethwashington5298
    @elizabethwashington5298 Před 3 lety +20

    Love the before and after hair textures...I like that my hair can be transformed into what I want...curly, puffy, afro, semi-curly, kinky...versatility is a blessing, but patience is the key! Thanks for sharing...your make-up is flawless too!

  • @meganmclean3270
    @meganmclean3270 Před 4 lety +30

    Hello! Thank you for being honest about the REAL process in doing 4C hair. My hair would never turn out the way I wanted it to and I would be so fustrated. But I learned so much about how to care for my hair! I hope to see more hair videos soon! 💋

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 4 lety

      Aww this makes me happy to read! Sooo glad you found it helpful! You got this sis☺️

  • @TommieGirlsWorld
    @TommieGirlsWorld Před 5 lety +13

    Thank you so much for this video. I had been doing everything to get my curls poppin. Finally..... defined curls.. So many compliments as well. You are wonderful.

  • @melissaj6322
    @melissaj6322 Před 3 lety +1

    Natural hair CZcams videos aren't what they use to be. I am so glad you still have this video up. I've been growing out my tapered cut and my go to wash and go routine stop hitting. My curls are popping. Thank you for the tips, I love my hair 😍

  • @tifftreads
    @tifftreads Před 5 lety +99

    You're so pretty. You also look like Ledisi. Love your look and much love to you. 🥰

  • @vandayshataylor777
    @vandayshataylor777 Před 5 lety +16

    I’m literally taking notes in my hair journal for real for real❤️

  • @tebogomononyane8594
    @tebogomononyane8594 Před 4 lety +1

    Oh my gosh! Finally a detailed video on how to define my curls and do finger coils for 4c hair. Thank you sooo much!

  • @bettyannmensah6416
    @bettyannmensah6416 Před 5 lety +1

    LOOOVE IT. I have 4C hair too and I’ve had it 1-3 inches short for about 5 years now but I finally decided to grow it out so I’ve been here looking for cute hairstyles and I’m glad I came across your video. Thank you so much.!!!!!

  • @islandgirl5382
    @islandgirl5382 Před 5 lety +38

    Yes, your Beauty, Honesty, Delivery is perfect!!! Thank You for sharing; Yes do a video on the makeup!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +3

      Island Girl legit the sweetest comment !! Thank you soo soo much hun and it makes me so happy that you received it as that ! And don’t worry makeup tutorial is coming right up ☺️😊

  • @Vferrell83
    @Vferrell83 Před 4 lety +6

    I really do love you talk all of us through this. I'm not a 4c but, I watched this because you're very motivating, and are actually teaching. Keep it up sis!

  • @littrinn9963
    @littrinn9963 Před 3 lety +2

    First time trying a twist out with my natural hair since I did a big chop so I’m really excited to see how it comes out! Thank you for the lovely tips ♥️

  • @nj7068
    @nj7068 Před rokem

    started growing my hair out recently. thank you for actually going into this. it seems simple now that i've watched it, but many other videos weren't as clear as you are. thank you.

  • @lorrainejohnson3595
    @lorrainejohnson3595 Před 5 lety +15

    This is absolutely gorgeous! I am truly blessed that I found your video. I am 60 yrs old and had shoulder length relaxed 4c hair. Did the big chop in April 2018 then again a couple of months later. I said omg what have I done! It has been a struggle because I've been relaxing since I was 16 but young lady you have saved me! I love your hair which is just like mine. Now I can try this and I know it will turn out beautiful. Thank you again queen!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +2

      This makes me really really happy!! Bless your heart my love!! I hope you tried it and your curls came out ON AND POPPING!! :) xxo

    • @arnerysgonzaescalzadilla1312
      @arnerysgonzaescalzadilla1312 Před 4 měsíci

      Hola. Tengo 53 años y apenas inicio mi transicion. Con la duda a esta edad aun crece??? Saludos

  • @j.m-a4211
    @j.m-a4211 Před 2 lety

    This video is dope! I love the sidebar concept! I have 4C, low porosity, low density, thin width hair so this video is like the blue print. I've had some form of loc'd hair all my life and I did another big chop recently, but I'm not planning to regrow locs again. I am literally starting from scratch. I starting doing my hair in the shower, and sitting under a dryer everyday; and it's tedious but my hair has never looked so healthy. I had no idea how beautiful my 4C COILS are before now. I love them!

  • @happysmileylips
    @happysmileylips Před 2 lety

    You make me excited to wear my natural hair! I needed this video to gain the courage. Love your hair beautiful woman!

  • @Lowkeyy222
    @Lowkeyy222 Před 5 lety +6

    I just cut my hair ! And I’m glad I found your channel, my cut is almost exactly like yours

  • @donna-mariegyles9771
    @donna-mariegyles9771 Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you so much, girl! I am by far not hair savvy. I have 4C hair and I am just growing my hair out of a really low big chop. I had no idea what to do with it. Today, I am rocking my curls that you taught me to do from this video. My next challenge for myself is to braid my hair, which I will use your tutorial to help me do. I feel so excited to see that I am actually capable of doing my own hair! Thank you again. Your video was like a 4C video for dummies. God bless you.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 4 lety +2

      Aww this comment just warmed my heart !! So glad I was able to help my love ! You got this! Enjoy your curls and then your braids when you do end up doing them! xo

  • @lynettej777
    @lynettej777 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank You, Thank You, Thank You!!! I'm a newbie for styling my natural hair, ~1.5 years. I'm was one of those people who use to pay for someone to style my hair. GOODNESS, who knew it would take SO LONG to do my hair? After watching your videos and taking your advice, I'm now more accepting and patient for the time it takes to perform, what I originally THOUGHT to be difficult. I've learned that the quantity (time to style) yields a much better quality (longer lasting style). I've gone from my style lasting 2-3 days to lasting 6-7 days! Thanks again. 😆

  • @simmywilliams6892
    @simmywilliams6892 Před 4 lety

    Trust me ..u r the only person I have seen so far representing us natural hair gurl... thst dont mix ...some ppl b like I wake up n wash n rub some cteam.it curl n them.gone..nothing nuh guh suh...thank u lovelyglam

  • @33ladyRAM
    @33ladyRAM Před 5 lety +40

    I'm starting my transition and I think all you ladies are beautiful and wonderful for sharing your experiences and helping many of us learn how to have healthier hair :). Great video love

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +5

      This means soo much! Thank you soo much love and I am soo glad to be able to help :) Happy transitioning babes! xo

  • @deloisballard9014
    @deloisballard9014 Před 5 lety +50

    This is the first time I have seen a 4c hair blogger define the curls like this. When I first went natural, I needed this information. It took me 8 months to figure out how define my 4c hair. When started using Kinky Kurly Curling Custard my curls were defined and moisturized. I totally agree with your tips because I do the same thing but with different products.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +2

      Delois Ballard girl you’re I love kinky murky too !! I used to use it here and there! I’m glad we have similar tips ☺️

  • @TheJamaicanQueenie
    @TheJamaicanQueenie Před 5 lety +1

    OMG! It's like I found my hair twin. This tutorial resonated with me so much. Thank you so much for your content.

  • @Yogawithadorah
    @Yogawithadorah Před 4 lety +1

    Girlllllllllll girl girl girl never have I everrrrrrr had this type of definition I almost passed out I could hug you. I’ve gotta do a video for this. I can’t believe I’ve overlooked aunt Jackie’s. I literally was afraid a gel but now it’s on and poppin 💜.

  • @MsDavis-qp7cc
    @MsDavis-qp7cc Před 5 lety +388

    Girl do tutorial on that make up

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +11

      blaccat mom coming right up ☺️😊💕 Watch the space !!

    • @JonNeice1
      @JonNeice1 Před 5 lety

      Yes!!

    • @sharonsewell3380
      @sharonsewell3380 Před 5 lety +4

      Please do a video on the makeup!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +6

      You asked for it and you got it babes ! Here's the Tutorial on the makeup, hope you enjoy it xo :
      czcams.com/video/O-fHqhmV_ZE/video.html

    • @samuelettahumphrey396
      @samuelettahumphrey396 Před 5 lety +1

      Totally! Her makeup is everything!

  • @mianaomipost9885
    @mianaomipost9885 Před 5 lety +364

    These are finger coils. That's a different technique than natural curl defining. Your hair is really pretty though. Moisture is the key to any curly hair.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +18

      MiaNaomi Post I agree ! Moisture is the key 🙌🏾 Glad you enjoyed the video love !! xx

    • @Ask14922
      @Ask14922 Před 5 lety +16

      Glad I scrolled through comments. This are fingercoils I thought maybe they would be natural curl forming. Wanted to know for my DD. Great video though.

    • @MissLolaElle
      @MissLolaElle Před 4 lety +14

      Well, thats what a lot of “wash and go’s” are, except they call it “shingling” which is pretty much the same as finger curling. So basically the STYLE/LOOK is a wash and go but it’s achieved by a shingling/finger coil technique for most 4b and 4c hair....and even some 4a types do it too!

    • @brwnsugarish
      @brwnsugarish Před 4 lety +7

      @@RalOnyes yes also deep conditioning once per week will moisturize and cause better absorption of products

    • @gailmullins434
      @gailmullins434 Před 3 lety +1

      @@brwnsugarish and this is the part that I think many of us skip or half do, with the conditioners, I am seeing young girls with damaged broken hair but more than likely they aren't conditioning first, just like all foundations to grow, it must be nourished...

  • @nunyadamnbizness9600
    @nunyadamnbizness9600 Před 3 lety +2

    YES! This is everything I needed to hear having 4C hair myself. Thanks!

  • @andrealopez1977
    @andrealopez1977 Před 2 lety +1

    You are an inspiration of confidence, patience, and curl love!! Thank you for your video!

  • @wellbodymindllc-lydiaa.7189

    I have to say I've watched many videos on how to really define my curls, with my 4C hair and your video is the only one that made it simple and clear and easy to understand what to do. I tried it last night and today my curls were WELL DEFINED and poppin!! And, they lasted all day. Finally no frizz!! Thank you thank you!! You are amazing and your tutorial saved me! Cause I was slowly giving up. 😁😁

  • @veronicamays5687
    @veronicamays5687 Před 4 lety +10

    Your hair is beautiful. I just did my fifth big chop (it's been about four years since the last one.) This time I was getting rid of red dye because my grays kept insisting on reappearing. I needed this reminder of what to do with my short hair while it grows! Thank you.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 4 lety +1

      You are so welcome love ! Welcome to the short hair club! 😊

  • @ChillAndOutTheWay
    @ChillAndOutTheWay Před 5 lety

    This was full of good tips and I love love how well spoken she is! Great job!

  • @J.S.S.curliergirlie
    @J.S.S.curliergirlie Před 11 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much for making this video! I've been freaking out trying to get my hair together and now I know exactly what I was doing wrong thank you so much ❤

  • @christinejones7226
    @christinejones7226 Před 5 lety +16

    Thanks for the t shirt advice for drying my hair instead of a towel. I will discontinue using the towel and love your video. One more question how can you tell what's the texture of your hair

  • @Cmisah
    @Cmisah Před 4 lety +103

    Finding the right products to work in your hair is a task. Eco styling gel is cute, but my hair laughs at it in my face 🤣. I'm going to try the Aunt Jackie's gelee. Thanks for this video

    • @laurenr.9409
      @laurenr.9409 Před 4 lety +2

      Cmisah right. Real cute and real glittery like dang...

    • @elainelaws3698
      @elainelaws3698 Před 4 lety

      Try Miss Jessie's hair products

    • @iateyursandwiches
      @iateyursandwiches Před 4 lety +4

      Have you tried layering products that work together?
      Curling cream/butter and eco styler/wetline?

    • @Cmisah
      @Cmisah Před 4 lety

      @@iateyursandwiches I started doing that and got better results. But some products work better than others for me

    • @KushhRoll
      @KushhRoll Před 2 lety +1

      IT QUACKS 😂😂😂😂 laughing is cute

  • @keionab
    @keionab Před 5 lety +2

    Yesssss Girl! Thank you! Finally a video that HELPS! I wish I could show you my before and after 😍

  • @dawnbowman4612
    @dawnbowman4612 Před 6 měsíci

    THANK YOU!!! I have 4a-4b hair. I can always see my curls when I wash it but its a little straighter in the front. It's fine, thin, soft, and I don't have an abundance of strands on my head. Not a great combination. I'm 61 and Babeee when I say my curls are popping now because of you it's an understatement. 4a, b, c, d, whatever you want to call it this teaching works. I also got compliments. They thought I used rods. I did what you said, but I used what I had in my house available to me at the time instead (kinky curlly curling custard). I did use the cantu also. The struggle is so real for some of us. I'm so so happy 😊 and love ❤ my hair now. Looking for the next video on how to maintain it. This video may have been 5 or 6 years ago, but it is still so relevant for us women today. 🙏🏾 for you.

  • @BookNerdFree
    @BookNerdFree Před 4 lety +4

    This is a great video for 4c girls! I big chopped a week ago and to say I’m struggling is and understatement. I definitely have to develop the patience to do a wash n go! Which other youtubers make it seem so easy.... thank you for your honesty!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 3 lety +1

      This means a lot to me! Thanks so much for receiving the honesty! It’s the reality of things but the end product makes it all worth it 😍😍

  • @noirnrougenuit9743
    @noirnrougenuit9743 Před 5 lety +4

    I want the curls but I don't care enough to go through another hour of separating and spraying. The 45 mins. in the shower, washing myself and my hair is enough time used. Good bless you women who put in the time to separate 1/2 inch sections and spray with water, etc. I now accept for me that a low afro is the way to go. I finally figured this out. Wow.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +1

      Haha! That works too girl !! Rock your Afro ! I do that sometimes too!! 😊

  • @jovanrund
    @jovanrund Před 4 lety

    I'm 42 years old and this video literally turned on a light bulb for me about my own hair. Thank you!

  • @marywindham4402
    @marywindham4402 Před 3 lety

    I have been trying so many products on my hair and this method is the best thing I have done for my hair omg. Thank you

  • @busyrand
    @busyrand Před 4 lety +6

    Outstanding video! I appreciate how frank you where about investing the hour it takes to complete this look. I've had close female friends across the rainbow of race/ethnicities as a photographer who deals with models. All of them spend at least 1-3hrs a week on their hair routine. It's just part of their feminine lifestyle. If you can't/don't then you have to question whether you are serious about wanting nice hair. If you don't think you're worth 1-3hrs a week, then you need to examine things. The time passes regardless.

    • @yoursisesthermeya
      @yoursisesthermeya Před 2 lety +3

      I have depression and sometimes struggle to even get out of bed but trying to look after my hair more x

  • @princexl2783
    @princexl2783 Před 5 lety +548

    Interesting. It's literally IMPOSSIBLE for 4C hair not to curl. If anything, it curls too damn much lol

    • @redcardinal4
      @redcardinal4 Před 5 lety +119

      It curls but after it dries it loses the curl, that's where water and product come in to hold the pattern.

    • @jacquelinelowery5589
      @jacquelinelowery5589 Před 5 lety +4

      Thank you!

    • @princexl2783
      @princexl2783 Před 5 lety +74

      @@redcardinal4 if 4C hair ever lost its curl after it dried, it could never be 4C. Our hair is never NOT curly lol.

    • @jacquelinelowery5589
      @jacquelinelowery5589 Před 5 lety +106

      @@redcardinal4 it loses the definition, not the curl; the curl will always be there unless you relax it or straighten it.

    • @iona5439
      @iona5439 Před 4 lety +54

      Prince XL I have 4c when it goes dry it looks more frizzy than curly.

  • @khrys-annjosephs9700
    @khrys-annjosephs9700 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing your method in such great detail this is super helpful. I love how you explained your process of getting such defined curls on 4C hair while doing your hair.❤️🙌🏽

  • @crystalreese3217
    @crystalreese3217 Před 5 lety

    This video was spot on for 4C hair. I tried the wash go and it was a hot mess. I see now I need to put the effort into my hair to define the curl. Thanks sooooo much.!!!!!

  • @Nzingathegem
    @Nzingathegem Před 5 lety +163

    My hair is 4c. I do not dry my hair at all after rinsing out the conditioner. Also, I rake my curling product through my hair and my curls pop.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +30

      Nzinga that’s awesome babe 🙌🏾! It’s called the shingling method. Glad it works for you. I do that as well when my hair is longer. But finger coiling I find works best for my hair whilst short.

    • @missionrestopia
      @missionrestopia Před 5 lety +3

      Nzinga what curling products do you use please?

    • @jladylove1
      @jladylove1 Před 5 lety +3

      @@RalOnyes What's the shingling method. My hair is long soft and not curls.

    • @te2186
      @te2186 Před 5 lety

      Loveglam what product do you use when you do the shingling method?

    • @amandas3715
      @amandas3715 Před 5 lety

      Same

  • @seab634
    @seab634 Před 5 lety +8

    I stated using that chebe butter on my hair last week, and its growing already

  • @tiredofidiotz775
    @tiredofidiotz775 Před 3 lety

    I had no idea how much work went into this, but it's beautiful and you're makeup is gorgeous!

  • @tinabillingsley1016
    @tinabillingsley1016 Před 5 lety +1

    You are BEAUTIFUL 😍 and I LOVE your hair! I bi chopped my hair a little over a year ago and the learning process has been SO fun!

  • @odettelawrence6473
    @odettelawrence6473 Před 5 lety +19

    Precise, to the point, all questions answered, looks fabulous, follow. Thank you love, new fan and follower.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety

      Aww thank you so much love 💕

  • @bylyn9846
    @bylyn9846 Před 5 lety +17

    Long aid gel is moisture mix with eco for hold. Moistening gels mix with a little hold gel. Shingle it dripping wet bomb dot comb wash and gp.

  • @nicolerichardson1080
    @nicolerichardson1080 Před 4 lety

    I'll be honest...I have NEVER seen a video basically explain how 4c gets curls...I have done texturizers, perms (aaaand then wash it that day lol), blowout, twist out (which doesn't look like these long haired ladies), aaaand nothing looked like your curls. It NEVER crossed my mind to even try actually curling it with my fingers! I was gonna try a texlax like today until this video so I may try this for a few weeks... thank you soooo much for your video! It means the WORLD to me!!

  • @hunniechild3500
    @hunniechild3500 Před 4 lety +1

    I have watched a few videos on 4c hair and by far i enjoyed yours the most . My hair is a 4c whew chile type situation i have been keeping it wrapped up and im ready to get my curls poppin like yours ! So thanks for taking the time to educate us 4cers.

  • @datchick365
    @datchick365 Před 5 lety +15

    The coconut may be too heavy for your hair. Normally if a product just sits it’s not penetrating, I had to move to a lighter oil Argan and almond work best for me also not styling on soaking wet hair, I am low porosity 4c. The struggle is real. Yours looks great.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +5

      Veronica Smith yeah coconut tends to be too heavy for low porosity but this one works for me compared to others ! I also use lighter oils too here and there. And girl I feel you on the struggle 😩

  • @allnyte1010
    @allnyte1010 Před 5 lety +11

    I’m a 4C low porosity girl. Try the Rhassoul clay to define and soften your curls. For really dry hair I used an avocado, one egg yolk, mayo and honey. I was quite impressed with the moisture and curls. Let me know if you try either one.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +2

      I definitely will be trying this out ! Cuz the middle of my hair tends to get really dry !! Thank you !😊

    • @florapoole6437
      @florapoole6437 Před rokem +1

      I'm new at this I just did the big chop after being loc for 25yrs,and I found out I have 4c hair I was so glad to find you thru my stroll for help I found a true friend that seems to understand my hair thank you 💕💕

  • @bernfran1313
    @bernfran1313 Před 5 lety

    It's amazing what make-up can do to transform/define our natural features. Looks great!

  • @VernellAnthony
    @VernellAnthony Před 5 lety

    Don’t know much about hair types or any of that but somehow I’m here and your accent has me mesmerized.

  • @Vargas73B
    @Vargas73B Před 5 lety +51

    Your so beautiful you remind me A bit of Angie Stone💕

  • @sh.27960
    @sh.27960 Před 5 lety +14

    It took you 50 mins? I have 4B hair it takes me about 3.. 4 hours give or take 😭.. yea patience is key ! I only finger coil my hair once a month and I ensure it lasts awhile that’s the best thing about defining my curls !

  • @tammi67able
    @tammi67able Před 3 lety

    It’s because of beautiful natural wearing hair wearing women like you that make me now love my 4c hair, I actually know what to do with it now! Thank you!!!

  • @originalmisstee
    @originalmisstee Před 3 lety

    I don’t know how I found this video but the fact I was wondering what style I should do in my hair today (my length is similar to yours, did a chop a few months ago). Let me get up and mimic this style. Love it!! Just gorgeous all around.
    Just a tip for anyone, if your 4c hair isn’t curling with water or conditioner, use the pearly braid out from mane choice. It’s my go to if I want extra defining without any frizz. I don’t always like gel so I only use it sometimes.

  • @sassybrown12868
    @sassybrown12868 Před 5 lety +26

    Loved this video. Especially because I just cut my locs..
    Btw, your make up is gorgeous!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety

      Maryam Hakam omg locs?!! That must have been hard to let go!! How long did you have your locks for ? And welcome to the club Sis !! Also thank you and glad you enjoyed the video 💕

    • @sassybrown12868
      @sassybrown12868 Před 5 lety +2

      @@RalOnyes Ooh girl i had locs for almost 18yrs...I turned 50yrs old and decided it was time for a new beginning. New energy and new hair. Lol.
      Thanks for responding back😊😊

    • @gktdasme
      @gktdasme Před 5 lety +1

      @@sassybrown12868 15 years for me . Cut them last year. Have a shirt Doo. Slow growing.. So I'm here to get tips and ideas, and now to find out the color of that 💄. I think the pulling off the loccs damaged some areas of my hair/scalp. But I'm so glad I cut them.

    • @gktdasme
      @gktdasme Před 5 lety

      Short*

    • @donna-mariegyles9771
      @donna-mariegyles9771 Před 4 lety

      Man. I had locs for 7 years, cut it for a new look when I turned 30 last year and then started growing it back on the anniversary of my cut.

  • @12sisters1bride7
    @12sisters1bride7 Před 5 lety +10

    LOL!patience.if you straighten,especially at the salon,that's patience.so i figuare if you can take the time to straighten in any way or spend hours at the salon it's a trade off.we are so busy looking at the wrong curls wanting anything than what we have,like black vs white hair.brain washed out of true beauty.great demo 4C!curls poppin!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +3

      12Sisters 1bride well said Sis ! Well said !! Glad you enjoyed the video 😊

  • @jacquelinemays1453
    @jacquelinemays1453 Před 4 lety +2

    Hey Lady! I truly loved your video and everything you explained is on point so I will definitely give this a try normally I just watch videos and keep it pushing but you pulled this 4C-DEFG girl in thank you Merry Christmas and God bless you and your family.

  • @lillianwhitehead7521
    @lillianwhitehead7521 Před 5 lety +1

    This was the truth!! Very helpful hon and BTW, your makeup is popping!!

  • @lashondaharris
    @lashondaharris Před 4 lety +5

    U r so rite I don’t have the patience. Lol But yo hair is beautiful!

  • @morgan52204
    @morgan52204 Před 5 lety +13

    You are very pretty! I have 4c hair and I am newly natural!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety

      Renee Wade aww thank you love ♥️ And welcome to the club Sis, you got this !! I’m here if you have any questions (easily reached via Snapchat) 😊

    • @dejahxcurls
      @dejahxcurls Před 5 lety

      Hey! I’m a new youtuber, would you be willing to support me?

  • @d.c.104
    @d.c.104 Před 3 lety

    Thank you!!! The best tutorial I’ve watched. I learned a lot. I just did the big chop for the 3rd time and am loving my length but didn’t know exactly how to achieve this look. BTW, you are striking 😊

  • @sherrimorgan1116
    @sherrimorgan1116 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks girl that jelli worked wonders on my hair it did last all week and I got alot of compliments on my hair😍

  • @FITH5795
    @FITH5795 Před 5 lety +419

    Lord knows this is a GREAT IDEA but Ain't nobody got time for that ! 😂😂🤣😂🤣😃

    • @ericka-denise
      @ericka-denise Před 5 lety +10

      Tonija D : Exactly!!

    • @aynatnsitanla07
      @aynatnsitanla07 Před 5 lety +30

      Girl I said the same thing. Goodness.....There should be product that will define your curls.

    • @mswtaz94
      @mswtaz94 Před 5 lety +36

      Way too much. It’s not curls it’s coils. If you have curls you don’t have to do that much manipulation, it curls up on its own.

    • @mswtaz94
      @mswtaz94 Před 5 lety +2

      Tanya Walker There are if you have curls. If not, you get texture and shape or can style it.

    • @ladyjay5157
      @ladyjay5157 Před 5 lety +1

      Tonija D 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @X-X-X-X69
    @X-X-X-X69 Před 5 lety +5

    Beautiful woman! great video~ Thank you! :)

  • @lexdavis030
    @lexdavis030 Před 4 lety +1

    Coming from a 4C male I appreciate this because this is my 4C I see a lot of people say they have 4C but their hair isn’t nearly this level of kinky. Far be it from me to tell them that they aren’t 4C but either way this is what I deal with so it’s nice to see a real video from someone with 4C hair like mine

  • @whatsthe4unouno
    @whatsthe4unouno Před 5 měsíci

    Your finger coils are gorge! 😍 This video is very helpful as I'm trying to navigate this big chop/4c hair journey. Thanks for the tips!

  • @toni5810
    @toni5810 Před 5 lety +8

    Nice style, beautiful make up and informative video. Thank you!

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety

      Toni thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏾 I’m so glad you enjoyed the video !!

  • @mcormick41
    @mcormick41 Před 5 lety +104

    What color and brand lip stick are you wearing? Because you are wearing it!!😀

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +25

      Julie b haha! Thanks girl !! It’s Kat Von D - Damned 😊

    • @RealGRRRLz69
      @RealGRRRLz69 Před 5 lety +8

      @Loveglam Your lips gave me a flashback. There was a shade that looked like that Back in the Day by Ultra Sheen Cosmetics called Basin Street Brown. That is what I saw when I saw your lips! LOL!!

  • @statuesque27
    @statuesque27 Před 4 lety +2

    This was so helpful! Thank you so much for the advice and your honesty about having patience because that is key with our hair.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 4 lety +2

      Exactly! We definitely need patience and lots of it!! I'm glad you found it helpful love!

  • @PaycationLetsGetTraveling

    I just twisted my hair following your instructions and I love it! Thanks so much!

  • @NataBme
    @NataBme Před 5 lety +17

    I will sit my tail down to achieve this definition. This is a great video. My only queston is, how do you maintain this for a week?

    • @delorasledge2492
      @delorasledge2492 Před 5 lety +1

      My hair is shoulder length and I've had mine in for 2 weeks. I put then up in loose balls at night, let them lose b4 I shower so they absorb steam, I oil, fluff and they're gorgeous. My son's hair is the length of hers, he does the same thing. ..minus the ponytails and they're just as nice, I retwist his monthly. He washes them weekly.

    • @LGnLA
      @LGnLA Před 4 lety

      Bonnet hair... and then let the shower steam (not full water wet, unless you're washing it) your hair, fluff & pat w/oil and go!!

  • @TTSBaby-xs1hq
    @TTSBaby-xs1hq Před 5 lety +27

    So helpful. I have "Hands in Hair Syndrome" bad! Thank you for the awareness.

    • @RalOnyes
      @RalOnyes  Před 5 lety +4

      Tia McWilliams thank you love !♥️ And girl trust me I have it badddd too! I legit have to talk myself out of it sometimes. And I’m glad you now know so we can fight it together haha😩♥️

    • @adjbey
      @adjbey Před 4 lety

      Same

  • @ladonyawells5207
    @ladonyawells5207 Před 4 lety

    Ohhhhhh my goodness I LOVE to hear you and watch you teach. Your FABULOUS,we’re CZcams friends forever💋

  • @fayedolloway377
    @fayedolloway377 Před rokem

    So glad I found you! My hair is longer and will probably take 2 hours but like you said patience is the key!