Legal Strategies To Deny Maintenance To Wife
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- čas přidán 4. 09. 2020
- I talk about the two main strategies which can be used by husbands to deny paying maintenance to their wives.
I also talk about some common misconceptions about maintenance law in India.
I am a Delhi based lawyer.
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Husband is responsible to maintain wife
Hmmm
So feminists don't think this is sexist and patriarch?
feminists just love to pick and choose the best combo of privilege
feminism is sexism because feminism in the name is favor to females si yes feminism is sexism
Only A wife who can't maintain herself because she worked at home for husband
And maintenance applies to men also.. if wife is earning and not him..
@@SiSi-ju1xk actually you are wrong. Even if the wife is working and earn less than husband husband is still bound to pay alimony.
@@tisko7188 in recent Mumbai case, the guy was broke and the woman had to pay alimony to the guy
After hearing all this my wish of marrying someone died..I thank god for keeping me single..Thanks to Amish for enlightening us.. Laws are so much against men..
Yeah marital laws really screw us up big time. Really dread marrying an Indian now who's gonna know all these biased laws by heart.
@@satyammalik6770 it's because you all support radical left who backs up radical feminism you people don't even raise the question
@@phoneicad1887 I never support the left. I'm hardcore right. Be wise to not make assumptions about strangers online.
@@satyammalik6770 dude I m frustrated that many dumb youngsters support radical left men too not realising these radical left backs up radical feminism and destroying our society culture everything.
@pepe According to Common laws followed in a vast number of countries, Couple living together for a long period of time are treated as married. What the definition of long is depends on country to country. Moreover, it isn't exactly normal to find a girl and live with her 30-40 years without marrying her. 2 years into living in, and everyone is gonna pressure you to pop the question
Only advocate in youtube who is aware about men ❤️
not aware actually CONCERNED for Men's rights which is rare in current biased judicial setup
all are aware its just that majority of the advocates earn by filing false cases and earn using the settlement money they get from cases like rape , 498a , divorce etc.
@@krishna_o15 rape is non compoundable so settlement is very difficult 498a due to new judgements is possible
@@shivajimaharaj5153 why not settle with money and then go for quashing under CrPC 482
@@krishna_o15 look quashing is not possible on the basis of settlement u need medical evidences such as medical report, presence of sperms etc so if the medical report and all that is by your side you can easily quash the fir under 482 crpc then u don't have to give money to the woman. What happens in 99% cases is men and woman have sex after that woman files a complaint so it is taken as rape otherwise without sex filing a rape case would not be of much importance it can be easily quashed
Not one women in the comments section commenting for men's rights ...but look at feminist videos... You will see thousands of male supporters...
Those are eventually the present day simps and are the future alimony payers 😂😂
chhakke hote hai aise mard
@@adityaprakash3555 truu, not smart man in this day and age would even think of getting into this
Women - we are equal and need equal pay.
Also woman
We need maintenance.
Not all women, my aunt left her husband's house and never demanded anything. On the other hand, one of my maternal uncle's ex wife left in 2005 and he is paying her maintenance since then. Even when he did nothing wrong, she filed false cases against him. So the thing is it's not about women but about humans their morals. If I ever have to leave my husbands house I won't file any false case against him just like my aunt. But the matrimonial laws are absolutely biased against men. That I agree. And it's sooo sad that because of these false cases people don't believe the stories of women who actually suffered domestic violence. I hope the laws change for betterment of both men and women.
So it's best to kill the ex wife
@@potatochips7023where are girls like u😭😭😭 so envy to ur future husband😭😭
Not all women. There are women who have self respect and would not like to take unjust money from another person. As a women I really feel bad for men who go through cases like this. So for me, I have decided to work and earn my money. Incase things to don't go well in my marriage, I can move out and earn my bread and take of my child.
@@potatochips7023 there must be 1 in 1000 womens, who are not exploiting this biased low.. and you are projecting that 1 (in 1000 ) case
Rules are biased in India . Where a man is guilty untill proven inncocent and vice versa for a women . Sad state of affairs
Sorry state of affairs ... 😜😜
@Rahul it's over chaplusee of feminism innocent men are suffering.
There are 56 laws for supporting , protecting women but not a single for the men ... this is the mockery of the justice system of India.
There is no guilty until proven innocent for men in India. Due to feminism, a man is Guilty!
And the main problem is that even the wife is proven guilty there is no punishment in these type of cases, all the judges are spineless and they all sucks
This is 100 % responsibility with zero % authority for husbands. Authority over his life. welcome to indian gynocentric social order.
Happens in foreign too
@@pervert_kun But they have PRENUP there.
Happens all over the world...
Need to be stopped
Women are educated and let them go job
Women need to go fuk themself. But hey you pay maintenance to the wife as long as shes alive right? Okay got it. Its better to spend money and end the problem rather than pay money to keep a problem.
i am not gonna marry. never ever. Thank you so much man for explaining things to us in so easy way.
Moral of the story: Consult Amish before Marriage
Right
😂 True.
Majority of women leave their jobs after marriage for this very reason. They are already insured by marriage - one-third of your monthly income for life and half your assets, without any liablilites + child custody + child support will be granted to her any day. It's a sovereign guarantee - if this isn't the best financial scheme in the world, i don't know what else is.
All the above can be availed, with just one day of "marriage" - and they still keep whining that women are oppressed, my foot.
Men commission need to be formed and stop alimony to women
@@somu87i Most probably that will never happen in a democratic setup. When a freebie becomes a law in a democracy , over time the benefactors begin to treat it as their right and not a gift.
No woman would be willing to let go of such benefits even at the cost of their self-respect. There are 4 billion women and all treat alimony as their right.
Except for an autocracy or dictatorship, there's no way it might get revoked.
@@aravindbachu5502 alimony should get stopped and let them go job in this educated world
@@aravindbachu5502 we should at last get a dictatorship... Or change our religion... Maybe this was as last hindus were to be lived on this planet... We are punished to be a hindu men... God please help us... We need help
Married men who are victims should spread awareness about this legal terrorism and extortion.if the future generation is not getting married and population is declining,then the govt will learn their lesson
Hence in the developed nations, if you ask a guy "When are you getting married?" The married guy replies, "Are you nuts? Do you know what is the cost of divorce?"
Laws favour women everywhere, unfortunately.
Marriage is grand, but divorce is 100grand. Be careful
No in foreign countries anyone can get money
@@oraclehub9600not really it's usually the wife.
I don't even have a girlfriend, yet this video appeared in my recommendations. 😂
Bad news coming your way brother😂😂... Ladki ka chakkar bahut kharab hota hai babu bhaiya 😂😂
Same but mere toh recommendation me bhi nahi aaya tha😂
Better be safe than sorry.
😂you are lucky😂😂you know it before hand😂😂
We need a lot of reforms in the Indian laws which are so heavily designed against men. Relationship, flings, affairs, marriage are some of the biggest risk a man can take in India.
In a nutshell, do not marry.
Amen
I don't think I am gonna marry, after watching this, Nowdays already girl's are taking advantage of other guys, can't let this happen, better to be single and enjoy life and have a good time while roaming the world, Alone or with Some Friends. 🙏❤️
Same brother.. i believe all of us men should just befriend each other and celebrate life yar.. why to make it too complicated with all this.. srsly yar
Yeah I heard foreign girls are better ( not from west)
Sir.i am senior citizen w/o any income have no pŕoperties no bank balance i want to get seperated fron wife to live happy life she is denying divorce pl. Advise me
My wife eloped with her paramour and not living matrimonial
Admitted earning Rs 12000
Left behind her kids.
Hope no maintainence will be awarded to her
Good luck
Just pray
@@bettercallamish how can I contact with u
@@rahulpasricha5492 link mai WhatsApp no. Hai..
wil court grant maintenance to you as you are taking care of child. Nope. Never
So, if the woman is committing adultery then what to do?
Secondly, there is a trend where the girl marries but then wants divorce after 2-3 months of marriage(honeymoon effect wears off), they threaten or go away while making demands.Even after asking for many days, if she wants to marry or not during the courting period , because nobody wants to go out there, suffer in courts just because someones else did not tell them that they did not want to.
Don't marry in the first place
moral of the lesson.... always pick a wife who earns more than you..... so you can claim the maintenance.... 😂
Mens don't get maintenance even if you become house husband
But the problem is that woman will not marry me. Se will marry someone who is earning way more than her. :(
The lazy man has arrived 😅
people like you are the problem @@Dee14444 if a man picks a wife earning more than him, you call him lazy but wouldn't do the same for the woman
What if husband has evidence of leaving wife by her own wish, of course she will give reason by putting false allegation, so judge will wait for allegation to be proved or blindly allow maintenance?
Interim maintenance will be awarded and the suit will go on. The only way to deny maintenance to wife is that she has deserted the husband or has been in an adulterous relationship outside the marriage. These are good reasons to prevent her from claiming maintenance under S125 CrPC. However, maintenance and alimony may still be claimed by the wife under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1956 or under HAMA or under the DV Act.The desertion has to be proved by the husband and it should be i think for a minimum period of 2 years immediately preceding the presentation of petition/ application by the wife.
Thanks sir. Im fighting a maintenance case right now. This really helps. I was under lot of mental stress and went into depression. Some how managed to get out of it. For all men reading this please please sign a prenup before getting married. No matter how much you are in love.🙏
Does the prenup hold any value in court?
@@SD-ef4qp I am now divorced and thankfully everything went smooth, but I was curious about the current status on prenups.
@@main_stream_media_is_a_joke - Good that everything went smoothly. 👍
Prenups don't hold in Indian court but we can always sign on the dowry, Jewelry, List of items given to wife etc. This will help in case wife files false allegations during disputes. Going through the pain now myself. In case you are thinking of getting married again please do this. Amish sir has uploaded another video on this. check it out
@@SD-ef4qp One marriage was enough to convince me that it's not for me.
Too many compromises and walking on eggshells ALL THE TIME......no sir.
The red pill videos knocked a lot of sense into me after my divorce and I see marriage for what it is now.
Hope your pain is short lived and you get to the other side fast.
@@main_stream_media_is_a_joke - Thanks sir.
All the best for your future. Stay safe 👍
I just love the way you think and present your point... such clarity and absence of bias. You have my utmost respect and appreciation. We need more people like you in the society.
This is the reason why many men choose sharia law
He is absolutely right. I found my wife having illict conversations with someone, had a stroke becise of the trauma, went for intense medical tratement. Yet had to do an out of court settelment by paying 30L. She had ahigher net worth than mine. All lawyers told me that thr courts just dont listen to a man's argument and woudnt have cared much had i lost my life becuse of the stroke. The women should be taken care of no matter what she was upto.
Main shaadi karu ya nahi ... sabse bada sawaal... ek hi option akela rehta hun sanyasi ban jaunga last mein
Brother, this is one side of marriage, not everyone goes through such ordeal. There is a good side to marriage also, companionship, someone to share your feeling etc. There is nothing like a perfect marriage and it will require a significant investment from your side. Enter into a relationship only if you are sure, don't just jump into it.
hey man, feel for you really. indian law is so fucked up.
A woman become the world richest woman.
How? By hardworking?
nah Divorce
I paid 0 maintenance, got her arrested...all of this after she filed dowry, maintenance and other criminal cases on me & my family members.
Divorce complete, maintenance case withdrawn, dowry case over 2 days ago 😊 and yes i also got visitation rights without any maintenance burden for my child too.
Please provide your lawyer's contact🙏🙏
I engaged different lawyers at different times.
Please guide how you got her arrested for false cases 😢
I filed criminal cases on her. She got arrested because she tried to avoid summons and then court warrants. I used RTi and other tools to help the police to not engage in unethical practices / casual approach.
A wife can file cases without the need of evidence. We need to convince the court by showing some evidence. We are at disadvantage but still we should try.
alimony is like reverse dowry
I have proof that my wife left of her own accord in the form of messages from her and her family members etc. She is Medical doctor and voluntarily quit her job to claim maintenance. The case in court and I'm paying interim maitainence even though I lost my job in Covid.
Bro I hope you got justice
Finally!! Someone addressed how shady the GB Nagar Court Complex is. :P
I am a married guy.. watching this video after being threatened by wife.. i wish i could hv seen this before
Pehle toh education policy ma piche the ab pta chala law ma bhi bht piche h . I never knew there is such huge number of cases of false accusations and fake dowries. All this 😂 just makes me think is like keep generating evidence who knows what might help in future
... only thing that'll help you in the future is 'not getting married, at all.
Sir what will happen if the wife was doing job before the problem started, but as soon as the case starts the wife deliberately leaves her job and plays victim card just to claim maintenance. What to do in that case?
You can submit same before the court and show her malafide intentions
If anyone having such s wife then she will be definitely going to torture husband throughout the life, so rather than facing harassment kill the wife and go to jail .. at least your mental health will not get affected; some time later you might get out of jail on bail or due to reduced imprisonment on good behaviour.
@@kavishwarmokal124 this is the perfect example why education is necessary
@@kavishwarmokal124 Who hurt you bro?
@@kavishwarmokal124 are you nuts.
I have personally heard of so many cases where wife asked for lakhs of rupees in the lieu of not filing a criminal case u/s 498a ipc even though there was no matrimonial cruelty
You are really a charismatic speaker exprssing your views very clearly entering into our heart's by your way of expressing your thoughts which you have made having put a lot of work while appearing many courts till the highest court of our land. Again thankful for guiding us by creating such useful vedio on maintenance matter. I am Mahesh Chourasia From Jabalpur Madhya Pradesh.
It's one of the greatest service that you are doing with this platform and your knowledge. Thank you
I'm just 18 year old, still the fear was enough to click on the video
You are doing a great service to men Amish, thanks a lot.
Women get cash and prizes for ending the marriage rather than maintaining it and we wonder about the upsurge of divorces
make him the president of 'पीड़ित पुरुष समाज एवम न्याय विभाग '
So
1.Wife is entitled to her rich fathers property and money and also husbands property, but no liabilities.
2.Even if man is a pauper still should sell his kidney and other organs to maintain wife
3. Even if she falsely accuses husband of cruelty with no proof, then the aggrieved husband needs to fight all his life just to prove his innocence and be held at ran some by wife /inlaws and lawyers
Wow hail our Judicial system.,,😁
No husband income is taken into consideration wifes assets are also taken into consideration
After hearing such facts in multiple videos of Amish sir & other respected lawyers, the marriage for a man who is Indian citizen, feels like signing your own possible death warrant along with monthly amount of maintenance which ultimately is just another form of extortion but in a legal way.
Sir,
You are making us aware of the things which are very crucial even in day to day life. I have often heard my grandparents say that "Even the enemy should not have to face Hospital or Court".
These two areas are where people are most vulnerable and they either don't get what they seek or get looted.
Kudos to your efforts and thanks for sparing and investing your important time to make us aware of legal issues. 🙏
Sir the point you mentioned “wife can get maintenance if she is not able to maintain herself” what if she is well educated and able to maintain herself however not doing the job intentionally or left the job intentionally to get the maintenance. Does courts look into these scenarios and denied maintenance to wife.
Yes. But if there are young children then court often opines that she cannot earn right now since she has to also take care of the children
Horrible laws that are meant to harass men to death
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 yes , absolutely!
I get shock while thinking who the hell stupid drafted the laws which have descreminatory nature against the one (male) spacies, giving undue favour to the other (female) spacies of the nature.
@@bettercallamish sir my wife divirce me and i am not earning will she offer me maintenance if she is rich or has any job.
Please answer sir
@@nupursharma6869 bhai teri aur ni le legi wohi badi baat h, i dont think any woman in Indian history has paid maintenance
Yet another brilliant video by sir.👌👌
Sir you give a genuine information and in very simple way, it is very useful, law students like me, it will be definitely helpful in our career, your honest way of delivering knowledge will help many law practitioners, students, thank you
😁 Starting of the video is very true and I feel the same every day as I m practicing in the same court..✌
That's why MGTOW.
One who understands men ❤️
Always god bless you sir your hard working for better future, our advocate community , heart fully thanking you sir
The bad state of India laws for males. Thank you for your suggestions.
i don't think any woman would marry a lawyer now...
It's your misconception, even lawyers, doctors, top level law enforcement officers (police dept.) are been dragged to their feet by these women fraternity by using these baised laws which favouring women.
@@kavishwarmokal124 yes but matrimonial laws are worst in other cases u don't have to pay maintenance in matrimonial disputes u have to pay maintenance
Your videos are a real blessing for all of us
Brave of u to say this. Considering the possible backlash of women u know personally
Thank you thank you so much knowledge
Mens life is easy saying girls 😄
You are delivering justice better than (puppet) judges.
Amish out here saving lives ❤❤
This man is doing a great job❤
Thank you so much sir
The fact that upon marriage, The care taking of a lady is transferred from Father to Husband is in itself horrendously stupid. A Women is not a Financial Asset that is to be placed upon A Man and he is not a Bank that looks after said asset for certain interest. What kind of a fucking relationship does this country have, I don't know.
It's not just India but any western country too.
@Rahul
🤦 I never said anyone calls her a financial asset. I was clearly making a analogy of how the culture treats women (and men). I don't know why that was difficult for you to understand. If you had taken the time to actually study the horrendous effects of such practices than you wouldn't be worried about what names are being used, but rather the very actions of it, and the fact that you think this is a matter mere choice shows that you're ignorant and also that you're part of the problem.
Men are treated like an ATM by women, lol.
@Rahul well women are not obligate by the law to fulfill her gender role of taking care but men are forced to do so
@@adityaprakash3555 no both are important if wife denies to take care of the house husband can file cruepty
gentlemen, he is the savior !
It seems, the courts are now not sticking to such marraige burden, especially for a failed marriage, to be borne by husband only for ever.. Courts are giving direction for maintenance for certain period of time , say one year, and asking the women to get into the earning sectors as per own capability , qualification...
Very redpill channel. Amazing
So few people in India know about redpill
@@manzarimam2615 Not true bro, a lot of people have seen matrix.
@@sagar_m yes, but we don't have Indians posting on r/asktrp
@@sagar_m r/trp has been put down
@@sagar_m haha
Dowry is illegal but Alimony is illegal.
Being born as a man in this age & day is nothing short of curse
Moral of the story before marriage or adultery first go to the good lawyer to make strategy ,how to tackle future situation
I request you to post a video to avoid interim maintenance. Thanks for your help.
Thank u sir..
It’s a curse taking birth as a male in this country
wtf is wrong with our justice system??
Andha kannon ... nothing else.
Feel secure with i see u.Thanx
ऐसी जानकारी देते रहिएगा 🙏
Bhai sachi kisi ne toh km se km ladko ki bat krna chalu kiya... Ye fake feminism ne band baja rakhi h.. Truly praiseworthy. 🙏🙏
Simple think don’t be a Yudhisthira and play a game that is already rigged
I found you as the first talented Advocate . Greetings from the University of Bristol UK.
Whether it is husband's fault or wife's fault, in both cases the husband always screwed up
Wife leaving husband’s house. Husband wants her to come back. Wife does not want to come back but still husband has to pay someone money who totally disrespects him and his family. Strange laws.
Respect Amish.
💅 beauty of indian women westerners are unaware about
Brother you deserve to get a like share and subscribe the moment you uploded this by every breathing man
How good is our legal system: The responsibility of the father is finished once the daughter is married but when getting a divorce even after the divorce its the husband's responsibility for her maintenance.. my indian law... someone should make all these laws video and play in our assembly...
Entire strategy have to be planned before marraige, that is all...treat marraige is contract....consult good lawyer...plan and retain proofs ( strategies) all cannot discussed here....just ask 1 question before marraige, how do I save myself in case wifes labels allegations of cruelty against me? Dont be carried away by lovey dovey...its all part of the game called Your Life
now who disagree with this statement
' law on Marital rape will destabilise the institution of marriage
note marital rape is a valid concern
but the architecture of the Indian law-making process is sick
Liable for misuse. May be couples, should have a legal paper signed before every time they indulge in sex ? Impractical
@@jeyaramg2142 the direction where world is going.
Yes:(
Hi Do u advise on Wrongful dismissal for Managers
If the wife is a highly qualified professional and was working prior to marriage and now wants to sit at home. Can this be used as well to reduce/deny maintenance.
- martyr of marriage
Then they say give equal rights to women.
If you are legally making wife dependent on husband and breaking all the ties with her father, then how equal children concept can be applied to girl and boy child?
And if you are making gird dependent on husband then he has rights to take her life's decisions as well. You are taking her freedom by law.
Always think like a criminal to deal with criminals. I would set up such a situation where I would prove that she has committed adultery before should could even step on to the court. Always have a good lawyer friend and your yourself must be knowledgeable about the legalities to deal with bitches .
Priceless advice to husbands
but wife can hear it too and work out the strategy against it. Bottom line benefit for both husbands & wives😊
I heard one case where wife taken break from her well paid job to get maintenance.
Please make a video on Shareholder rights on company , I request you please
The algorithm brought many from the Depp trial.
What about if she holds a B.TECH/MBA/MBBS degree and doesn't want to work and husband is working.
My wife telling she was in depression she was depression for few days n after treatement she was ok and now can fight but now saying cannot do job forever and not able to remarry n asking huge money 15lacs
Sir recently I read a judgement that occasional adultery is not a ground to deny maintenance. Any comment?
One of guys i know after divorce he was not on Job for several years while his wife was earning. Court rejected her case and allowed the ex husband for no allumni at all as he was barely able to afford his monthly bedspace rent and his own expenses
No power can stop interim maintenance , because wife with kid has immunity from supreme court boss.
The simplest solution to the problem is to avoid the contract...
So if a cunning woman wants to ruin her husband, all she has to do is not have extramarital affair and prove herself incapable of earning.
Sir the way you speak, I mean your speaking skill you explaning skill is just greate, Can you teach us on a video about speaking skill and also is it necessary to be a good speaker for being a good lawyer?
Sir pls is topic pe ek video bana do plss sir🙏🙏🙏
How these laws made so biased against men?
Sir... just tell me..... maintenance how long...to be paid...